THIS is How You TAKE BACK CONTROL from Your EX | They WILL CHASE YOU

[@emen6080]

True love is almost impossible to replace

[@djjomoody6974]

This is true. My Ex left 9 months ago. Immediately I went no contact, she greeted on my birthday February 2024, - no response from me. Recently, (2 months ago and counting) she keeps watching my social media stories every single time. There were a couple of comments from the stories like “I’m proud of you of what you’ve become, You are so blessed etc etc.” - a handful of direct/indirect comments but still I remained no contact. Then she said about the possibility of meeting next month which I replied in INDIFFERENCE… NC is so powerful thank u COACH. Imma say this, instead of focusing on what might go wrong today, Focus on EVERYTHING that could possibly go right.

[@djjomoody6974]

Just to add a bit. Coach is right. Your ex’s have some sort of intimacy withdrawal. Can lead them to your social media pages and watch your stories, seeking to fill the gap left by the absence of regular personal interactions. When they watch your stories, it’s a way for them to remain connected to the intricacies of your life. “From the distance.” It’s a good thing they are watching your stories if you want them to get back to you. My break up journey is hard, but yet it made me stronger and becoming high value. Be strong guys! Hi Coachblac. Thank u. I’ve been trying to book a call with you, will find time - Jo

[@daykey1245]

Wow,.... This is so true... Let loose and let go. Do not chase, do not call, just go NO CONTACT! If it's for you to have, you wouldn't have to work too for them. Have self love, value and be yourself. What's for you will surely come your way!

[@EJspeaks2u]

It’s been over a year , It was the worst time in my life, but I’m doing the work and it’s been amazing. However I still get triggers that take me back. I was that person in this video. I did everything I could to prove them my worth . My power was taken away. Thanks for the lesson. I’m still healing.

[@lawandalh2387]

This was me also but I love 💗 me now

[@DeistDeism]

Same here I miss her and would do anything to fix what was broken

[@PeterHealthyLifestyle]

I got dumped by my wife after twelve years of relation and we have two kids. She cheated and moved with the guy. She took the kids and now I am living working and moving on

[@LipbustersWeJustGotDown]

She will try to come back watch! The average man don't take care their OWN KIDS ,they definitely not taking care someone else kids. This isn't 1995 no more. Time has change

[@PeterHealthyLifestyle]

@@LipbustersWeJustGotDown I’ve moved on bro. I miss my kids a lot. We talk sometimes on the phone and I send them gift every now and then

[@blacademic]

Focus on being there for your kids bro. Some things are such a violation of trust it’s beyond just attraction. You need divine intervention to even allow you to open up to them again

[@d1bama90]

Same, I’m going through something similar

[@michaella5799]

My wife left, so i accidentally had a baby with a fling desperate to attatch to me. Had baby, spent years in court, spent 160k in lawyer fees. Lost job cause of the stress. My kid got overdosed on opiods at her moms 6 years old, year of child service more courts. year after that she overdosed and died. Now im left raising my kid without my elite job, bankrupt and emotionally destroyed. Not trying to get sympathy at all, i just want you to know it could be worse, a lot worse. My story would make your ball hairs curl, lol. Stay strong my dudes.

[@charmainekock8779]

I love your teaching Sir, he cheated on me and I walked out I'm on 21days no contact...but I'm planning to go out of town for a week to come back stronger.. He is even staying together with the one he cheated with... and it hurts, but I have to be strong and keep my head up high.. thanx for the encouragement sir..

[@YvesNoLaurent]

I was watching your videos religiously last year,today is the 367th day from the moment me and my ex broke up. I want to express my gratitude for these videos. the break up changed my whole life,in a good way. Im now on one of the best basketball teams in my country and i’ve leveled up in every single way. Spoke to other women and i have moved on quite seamlessly.Truthfully,the moments in which i was distraught were the greatest and most productive of my life. It may seem hard now but guys please maximize your time right now,bc that heartbreak is nothing but a full tank of motivation.

[@christopherbrown8493]

I’ve been following you for almost a year after I was dumped. Tbh my feelings was never Validated using your steps but I definitely use the time to focus on myself & accomplished a lot in a span of time. Pass certifications exam. Move away & traveled. Now beginning a new healthy Relationship

[@di114n2]

I like how all the KZbin relationship gurus dropped a video on the same day

[@Moongoddess2222]

Thank you for the teaching . I am one of those people who never stay in an unhealthy relationship. I go no-contact, and spend all my time on MYSELF. People who don’t appreciate me and don’t want me, simply don’t deserve my time. They ALWAYS come back. But I never got back to them. It’s too late.. I have been alone for 6-7 years now. No sex. I have never felt this good! The bonds I had with men due to sex or emotional support has been transmuted into self care and awareness. Really nice! Never chase! Never give yourself away! You do you ❤

[@gizz_music]

Start a channel on this topic and trust me I’ll subscribe! 😂😂❤️

[@Moongoddess2222]

@@gizz_music To be honest I truly doubt that😅. Most people refuse to withdraw fron sexual encounters. They dont even see the benefits or make it something very weird. Most people think its about inner wounds, or fear or recentment for men. Its not! Its about boundaries and about respect for SELF. My body, my mind, my heart and my soul needs to be nurtured with unconditional love. If a man is invited into my life, he will be able to give me more than I can give myself. Otherwise I just continue my journey. Thanks for the reply. I truly hope you love yourself unconditionaly. 😍

[@amelioe4507]

Thank you, your videos are diamonds and pearls for the soul. Your voice and how you present is healing too. ❤

[@rashidarowe7882]

Great advice coach but in 2024, this new generation does not care. People dump you and monkey branch to the next person, they have the grass is greener on the other side syndrome and they quickly hop on those apps, rebound and keep moving. If they do come back, it's mostly likely after a failed relationship and they will only bread crumb you til someone who they deem is better than you comes along. Save yourselves the heart break of hope, move on, focus on you and in time you will meet someone else. Stay Strong.

[@carolinemaring]

These video's help so much. I find no contact so hard...

[@moomanchu608]

My ex became cold after 6 special years. This was my first serious relationship and it hurts so much to see her be so foreign.

[@carolinemaring]

I appreciate these video's without them daily I would not survive. ty

[@ZaddyGohan]

Fellas she’s not coming back. And if she did, do you really want to be “second choice” when she realizes that grass isn’t greener? Just means she will likely do the same shit again. ESPECIALLY if she is FA. Just stay with the pain and one day you’ll forget about it

[@blacademic]

Broadly speaking i think some people choosing to walk away and never look back is fine. But what I’ll say is this in my experience what I’ve found is breakups tend to happen for a reason…. Even if you are blindsided. And it’s not because she is an FA. One of my biggest issues with attachment theory is that sometimes we misuse it as a way to label or diagnose and then subsequently justify whatever narrative makes us feel better. Of not all the times but I see this way too often. I can’t tell you how many supposed FAs or DAs I have seen come back just by applying attractive behavior plus having a willingness to walk away. Also whether someone is avoidant or not that is not something you can change. It might make you feel good to have a diagnosis but there’s no solution. My point is not that attachment theory is fake but I’ve seen too often people conflate low interest behavior with avoidant attachment style. Always focus on what you can control. How do I become a more attractive person and also how do I demonstrate my attractiveness with my actions. This is the best bet, whether you want your ex back or someone new. But thanks for the comment. I appreciate your thoughts

[@ZaddyGohan]

@@blacademic thank you for your response sir. I’m only speaking from experience there because by definition, FA’s get overwhelmed and have anxiety when they start to get really close with people, which is why they tend to have a lot of short term relationships. My most recent relationship was one with someone I suspect was FA because she ticks lots of the boxes, and she didn’t leave because I was “too invested” she actually went cold after SHE exhibited behaviors that indicated she was more invested. She love bombed me so hard on my birthday buying me tons of presents that all had significant meaning to me, then literally the next day ghosted me for a week, only to reach out again when I didn’t reach out, and then a week later, tell me she “wasn’t ready”

[@Kavilion]

@@blacademicthis is why you’re the best Coach and the person whose advice I’d take over anyone else. Leaning on attachment theory too much is a crutch. Plus, those things are fluid. A person you’d swear is DA can meet a new person and be super anxious.

[@blacademic]

@@Kavilionspot on! You definitely get it

[@daykey1245]

Wow,.... This is so true... Let loose and let go. Do not chase, do not call, just go NO CONTACT. If it's for you to have, you wouldn't have to work too for them. Have self love, value and be yourself. What's for you will surely come your way!

[@TakamuraAso]

Wish you a happy Summer Time bro. Dont work too much, there so many broken hearts out there. May god protect you

[@Mia1827]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him

[@Mia1827]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?

[@Mia1827]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive

[@carolinemaring]

so sorry

[@yolandamorton2096]

I am so grateful that I’ve found you Coach Blac!!!! You are truly getting me through a difficult time!❤❤❤❤

[@EmilySandersLMT]

It’s been 2 months of NC and he just liked a couple of my IG posts last week - I didn’t respond to that and now he has stopped watching stories and liking posts. Soooooo hard not to give in and text him. I’m so heartbroken 💔. But, I won’t reach out - if I want to, I’ll just listen to your videos again.

[@emey444]

Teach him to respect you sis! If you don't Teach them a lesson they will always be be on bs, they are literally like childs

[@tysonmcvicar3829]

6 months of no contact (no mistakes)and my DA ex finally reached out. I have multiple options at the moment so I'm not in a hurry. Just wanted to give ppl hope

[@annieg3087]

Thanks!

[@JustRogue53]

People treat you exactly how they feel about you. Don’t get it twisted.

[@sarak6083]

Exactly....out of the heart the mouth speaks

[@bipbop7231]

Coach!! You’re missed when you’re away!! Glad to see an upload!! ☺️

[@FezelGreene]

Great, best advisor

[@blacademic]

Thanks for watching 🙏

[@GAPrincess]

4 year relationship 4 mos into NC he came back but breadcrumbed me for a month so I went back into NC.🙄 I’ve met someone and have decided to move on.

[@14shamil_]

I need to hear from you daily

[@RetzyWilliams]

Problem is any guy can go no contact and get the ex back, but in meantime the ex screwed around. It takes resolve to assign an appropriate penalty - ie now she waits while you experiment and experience other women. You can’t just “take her back” because she chases you suddenly. (Caveat - careful, don’t make a baby in a fling…..unless you want 😊)

[@rubymones8933]

I did break no contact and great him a happy birthday and he said thank you. Silly me I asked how are you? And he send me a photo that he was on hospital and because I cared I said if you need help know that I am here and that was it. So you know what I'm not gonna reach out. My friends told me tgat he was okay, he posted on his Facebook. I told my friends i dont want to know anything about him. I deleted all photos, messages. Blocked him on social media and his numbers. Blocked his friends. I don't care anymore atleast only 9 months of life.❤ I went trough of grief and shit, anxiety because of this.

[@SoopahcozyTreRoun]

God bless you my brother

[@noregrets5351]

Thank you Coach Blac!! ❤

[@sergiohenry2715]

Hey coach blac your video are so helpful. These videos allow me look at relationship from a perspective? Thank you so much 🙏🏿

[@blacademic]

Thanks for watching 🤞🏿

[@josealeman1500]

It is happening, she called several times and I only answered the call when I got a text from her saying that it was important, to please answer. She went on to say in a call that she was sorry about the way she treated me and that she was missing my friendship and that she wanted to be my friend. I said to her that I wasn’t friends with my exes, she asked to please reconsider and I told her:you know what, when I go back to Lima I’ll give you a call and let you know I’m there. If you’re single and I’m single and we feel like doing some thing then we will see. But there is no way that I’m gonna be your buddy or be your emotional support. She asked me to do please reach out to her. What do you think of that, coach?

[@fantasyhustlerz3861]

He’ll naw give her the ✌🏽

[@john_v4939]

How did it go? And how long during no contact?

[@HeatherJones-gj1qm]

My 20yr relationship has recently ended. In hindsight it was over within 1st 2yrs, but i refused to let go, even when it became extremely toxic. There has been no sexual contact or intimacy of any sort for the last 18 of those 20yrs, but it wasn't an issue for either of us. We're goin through the no contact atm, although tbh iv not adhered to it, mainly bcoz iv had OCD from age of 4 that's 53yrs. So if a thought comes to mind to do something i have to act. As much as i try to resist acting on the thought i know im goin to have to act at sum point, bcoz the alternative is far, far worse. So it's lesser of 2 evils. So might as well do wotever sooner rather than later. Defying really isn't an option x x.

[@13sprintuser]

If she left, MOVE ON. Why would you want her back and be her 2nd choice after she realizes she couldn’t find better?

[@polives]

Better question - what are YOU doing on these videos then? They're all about getting an ex back, so if you don't believe in that, why watch them?

[@13sprintuser]

@@polives I found Coach after my breakup and I still find a lot of value in his videos. Just because I don’t want my ex back doesn’t mean I can’t watch or comment

[@johnnycalderon9951]

Bro why ru here ? Lol better yet what kind of 🤡 watches a 21min video just to leave a neg comment lol this coach is about getting your ex bck I don't see no use another than that so stop the 🧢

[@KhrystynaBraverman]

Thank you Coach!

[@hushpuppies872]

What's the point? You need to endure so much pain and you are confused about whether they may return or ever wanted you ? Or are you crazy? Did you blow it? In the quest of finding an answer you play them on repeat in your mind to a point where you almost throw up. By the time they return, your don't feel the same intensity again. Because your innocent love is gone. Even if you accept, it won't feel the same. Either way its ruined.

[@ClaudeBeasleyJr.]

Question Coach Blac, should the dumpee never be the one to reach out first to the dumper after a few weeks of no contact?

[@Mari-y9o5b]

Coach Black , I m grateful to come across your page today. my intention is to grow as I closely evaluated myself throughout a 4!mo. Term with someone and see some areas that need attention . Thank You I ve got my Notebook

[@marquesstofford988]

Hard to go NC when you have a child together

[@richibabie.]

Coach me in this girl was with each other for 4 years good times in bad times she left but wanted to build the trust back up she wanted to get a therapist cause she admitted to sleeping with someone else during the beak up claims she still love me we was gone meet on the 27 to work out things but I found she lied again said she was in the hospital but it was fake then she told me she’s talking to a new dude she just don’t wanna date no one I just gotta let her go at this point coach shit ain’t worth it

[@shannadaniel6329]

My ex moved back with his ex on an assumption that I was talking to another man when he broke up and moved out the first time. The second time he lives with his ex I’m hurt and mad. I did not contact he left and came back I argued and he left again now I’m in No contact for good

[@basicinfo2022]

1 year situationship. Whats annoying is that he is the one who didnt want commitment and pushed me away by blocking me but then when i went no contact and blocked him back, he came back weeks later trying to see me and acting interested again. Now again, he pulls away and pushes me away after i reacted angrily to his manipulative behaviour... i finally give up again today trying to bypass the block because hes being so mean and blocked him back but im worried hes going to try to come back again months later. This cycle of blocking and going no contact is countless now. How do I know this situationship is over or stop this toxic on-off cycle? I've tried everything! Somehow we are still soul tied and reconnecting a year later.

[@monieketate9673]

Thank you so much 💓

[@blacademic]

Thank you! 🤞

[@jeaneengant6771]

It’s been over a year and I’m in a better head space.. however I have my triggers at time knowing he still deal with the chick he cheated on me with.. I’m not the type of women that’s ok for him to be with other women..

[@LetsTalkDEI]

Good stuff

[@KimberlieByrd]

What if the relationship fails because of a crisis? Can you touch on that?

[@3ritr3anCuti3]

My ex used to weaponize no contact against me as a punishment because of channels like these. Sorry for him because I was always the one with the secure attachment even if I have trauma issues. If someone treats me bad, whether it’s ignoring me or intentionally trying to get a reaction out of me, I will be as stoic as a statue and LEAVE. Both of my parents were child soldiers who suffer from NPD comorbid with other traits, nothing can break me bro 😎 I was born and lived thru hell, anything after that just feels mid and irritant like a mosquito bite. I hope Millenials, Gen Z, etc can come to a place where we just be authentic in a relationships from a place of function and not just aesthetics.

[@producerx1015]

Read the words "stoic and bro" 2 masculine terms. I wish women embraced their femininity more instead of trying to become negative carbon copies of men practicing all our bad traits. It's ok to be vulnerable and clingy. It's ok to cry and be emotional. Maybe this is why he ghost

[@3ritr3anCuti3]

@@producerx1015 I have no problem being vulnerable and clingy BRO, but I know when a man has cultivated that environment and when he hasn’t. If you need artificial stimuli to “prove” or validate how much I am attached to you, then it is you who needs to evaluate the your trauma response to these attachments. No one wants to be a carbon copy of man over here, trust that 😂🫶🏽 the man ghosted because he is a Narcissist, pretty simple as he stalks my social media currently 😉 Healthy people whether man or women do not require the employment of games and manipulations to have people truly value them. If you have healthy esteem for yourself you know the value you have to offer to people without the need for artificial/manipulated validation.

[@ajydnbsuabsos]

followed all your advice and my ex just reached out after 2 months of no contact. I was blocked everywhere and she texted me on my two numbers asking how I was doing saying she was thinking about me and unblocked me on ig. I was polite but indifferent and used the opportunity to suggest we meet up. Later that same day she reached out to schedule something. Date went amazing, we rekindled the spark but it’s been 2 weeks and she hasn’t reached out!! What do I do coach?? I know I should stay in no contact but I thought she would have texted me by now! for reference she’s an avoidant with a bunch of abandonment issues. Could you please do a video on specifically on no contact after the first date. thank you for everything, still staying the course

[@johncatalano7101]

You have to reach out bro you’re the guy

[@pamkindt6645]

Coach, was married 27 years. I chased him for a year trying to mend the relationship. He was in another relationship when he left. He now lives with them. He says they are not marriage material and will never remarry. I went no contact just recently. Will it still apply now?

[@moomanchu608]

I wish i couldve heard this 2 months ago

[@S3rpetv]

Hi coach, I've been in no contact for about 1 and a half months and she still didn't react or text a message. Am I cooked?

[@earlburke825]

I was in a relationship with my girlfriend, but I was a simp to her so she left me. I was in no contact for 6months & she came me one day & she said that she wanna talk now, but at that moment I told her that I'm busy, can we talk another day but we both live in the same neighborhood. She was so desperate to talk but I was really busy & because I couldn't see her at that moment she started to date my friend to make me jealous. Now I'm moving on with my life & I sometimes think of her after two years must I go back to her

[@Zombie101]

She sounds like a nightmare. Move on and date higher value women

[@hiphop1029]

She called 3days ago I didn’t pick up now she text me I have mail at her house but it’s junk mail I believe she knows that I’m fighting the temptation to respond. What would I say I’ll meet you to get my mail but then I have to see her and that will hurt me again to see her walk out my life twice in one week.

[@nitin6096]

my ex left me when i confronted her why was she ignoring me and she kept saying career but she was slowly changing her attention towards me and removing my things from her life and when i asked she wants a breakup she said yes because I can't tolerate your toxicity so i wrote a mean text after breakup and she blocked me everywhere and now after 6/8 times of trying to reach out she replied move on to one of my mails which asked should i try something else or move on ,now I'm crying

[@beverlygarcia6475]

You are great were have you been

[@ajydnbsuabsos]

coach how long is normal for them to break no contact again after our first date? it went amazing btw (followed your advice and she was all over me by the end)? it’s been 2 weeks and I’m getting worried now since it doesnt look like we entered the “dating stage”! she’s an avoidant and is now in between apartments since right after the date if that matters anything! still doing no contact on my end, thank you coach 🙏

[@Ericgodisgood]

I was with my ex for seven months I begged yell at her kids being in her house we had an ok relationship in the beginning coach but I would harass beg cry in send her voicals keep calling then I finally stop begging in she unblocked in February in but didn’t reach out but when I broke no contact in October she told me she moved on in should to in she had an guy text me from her phone to never contact her again I said ok then she heart ing my pictures but I haven’t said anything or added her on Facebook I think she moved on but should I block her

[@slowmo7219]

Will you be going live again soon?

[@gew977]

Coach what if they re in another continent and that was the reason of the bu?

[@levelup7god210]

Hey coach Blac !how long do you recommend staying in NC?

[@blacademic]

Forever… if necessary. Basically until they contact you first. There are small exceptions depending on the situation. But in general if they left you, allow them to come to you first

[@Kavilion]

I’m so glad you said forever. If you have a set number of days in mind, it’s not real no contact. You’re waiting on a countdown and not pulling energy back and they can feel that. For real no contact you have to do everything you can to detach or it’s pointless.

[@Ericgodisgood]

@@blacademiccan u block if they unblocked you because I think she will never reached out I want to just be done

[@mariamlissaoui9748]

I was for no contact for 1 month I didn’t answer his call and message during that time but when i answered his call after few weeks we broke up again for the same issue. ( lack of interest / cold relationship….)What should i do now😢 he broke my heart again ? Should i block him.

[@shellyshellz581]

EXAMPLE ??? Once your ex contacts you give an example of “asking for the world.”

[@Zxhnn]

set terms and clear boundaries if they want u to be open to ever take them seriously again

[@emanuelandvictoriasasmr7038]

I like you coach.

[@ms-cp6qk]

Coach Blac, i owe my ex 500$, how should i return it? just sent it or contact and notice them that i give it back to them? we broke up like 3 month ago

[@camryreed664]

But what if they went back to an ex ? 😩

[@TheOnlyChamploo]

This happens to me, everyone tells me to jsut move on it’s best for you it hurts like heck tho but I promise there’s more and better out there for both of us. 💪🏽

[@lisondralouisdesigns6674]

Coach we will be working together again next week. I made the chase mistake but have since gone no contact what can I do moving forward in working together. She is a runner and a DA? Any advice?

[@baconburger9156]

Hey Coach! What should we do if the EX doesn’t reach out but…. They have their friend reach out and try to kinda get a status report by asking “hey how are you doing?” I’m staying NC just to cover my bases (kinda feels insulting for her/them to do this) Thank you in advance💪

[@Nizzle5150]

What if you work with them and can’t avoid them? How do you enforce no contact?

[@SavannahSpry]

Can you please Incorporate the version when there is a young child Involved. How do I apply your adv8ce with a small child in the dynamic?

[@GohardOrgohome-i8l]

We've been texting back and forth for over 6 months now, can NC still work out?. Tried communicating to her on why we should get back together nothing worked and she's in her second relationship after our breakup. I need advice please 🤧😔😔

[@Zombie101]

Why do u want her back after she's played with 2 more joysticks?

[@RR-vr8dl]

I had breakup because he is not good cheated but he still mg me...i stopped replying but sometimes im doing ..i never mg from my side but he is doing im ignoring sometimes i do reply ..im confused wt di i do should i block is it good to do

[@swarnendubanerjee8089]

Hi, My ex is needy and after 10 days of my strict no-contact, she is texting me quite often and no contact is working for sure, I replied two times politely and very short way. I need some space too. Should I block her on WhatsApp? Will it be a good message for her?

[@MartelCristler]

What if you have kids with a woman..? I never had you speak on that

[@sarak6083]

I was chased but didnt chase back...and now he sends people to find out what im doing and who i am seeing....

[@blacademic]

Do you not want to fix things?

[@sarak6083]

@@blacademic yes

[@Sllihulkgaming]

Wish this happens to me. Want her realize everything

[@robertgogou6060]

I am in no contact period but I owed some amount of money to my ex. Is it the right time to repay back during no contact or wait for sometime? Please advise.

[@gvaud73]

4 Months of No Contact and still nothing... Time to send her the divorce papers.

[@-taylor-9980]

If she dumped you let her do the divorce papers perhaps she don't really want it.

[@sarak6083]

No...what you do is divorce this isn't a marriage...all you are doing is showing you are waiting for her to return..kick her to the curb and be with someone that can't live without you

[@demetriocelocia5545]

Hello coach black please if you see this please get back to me. My story is my ex dump me and now she seeing our boss?

[@christopher7763]

Find a new job…

[@queenj1203]

What if he tries to talk to me once a month ? How do I make him try to talk to me more than that ? I don’t understand how he can go through life without me .. 5 years is not nothing … it’s almost going to be 5 months we’re not together :’( I’m dying without him but I went a month no contact he messaged me on day 28 … I answered and he was super invested and then went silent :’(

[@christopher7763]

Hate to say it but he sounds like he doesn’t care and only uses you as attention or fulfillment when he’s feeling bored since he seems to know he can get a reply from you whenever he wants

[@Diya6857]

I feel u...same things happening with me.. 48 days no contact ...3 times he broke the NC and in last conversation said sorry for talking rudely ....but no text since then it's been 23 days since last msg ...I would really suggest u to keep going with ur life if he contacts reply but not so enthusiastically and leave the conversation first dont try to carry on with the conversation

[@KB-rp7nr]

He has no respect for your feelings. Respect yourself enough and walk away. Walking away is Power and that’s the only way you will be respected. He knows he can come and go as he please. Someone who truly values and love you would never treat you in such a way. He will come back when he’s bored. Don’t allow yourself to be an option…Stay Strong!! I promise you the time is coming where you will have no desire or interest in him at all.

[@MrZoD77]

Who should reach out in this situation? I was dumped and became her friend, I then ended communication by saying I dont want to be friends and walked away. Therefore am I the one who has to reach out or her?

[@blacademic]

No she dumped you bro. Leave her alone

[@MrZoD77]

@@blacademic Thank you :). Its tricky because the break up wasn't because of lack of feeling. However, i feel if she thought I was worth it she wouldnt have let go. I will continue to leave her alone!

[@Hanane_Avril]

❤

[@i_am_sunny_05]

She blocked me from everywhere after 1.5 month of break up

[@Rambo4President]

because she was thinking of you after 1,5 months und couldn’t bear the thought of you reaching out or her seeing you being happy without her. just hang in there. blocking doesn’t mean forgetting!

[@sarak6083]

Watch her unblock in few months...you'd be stupid to go back to her though...dont...w Once the trash is out you don't bring trash back in ...

[@timothymaimone8611]

Sorry Coach Blac… I’m in no contact and it is difficult to watch this video after three minutes as it seems irrelevant to my situation.

[@blacademic]

If you are still in no contact, it probably applies. Watch all the way through and leave a comment afterwards. If not that’s still fine, maybe the next one will resonate more for you

[@goldengodyse1685]

This a lie I brought more to the table mentally,physically,and emotionally. I dumped him.He wasn't worthy .I rather give my best to a better man that loves me the way I luv him.

[@anonenormous2376]

Bruh. You so roght about all this shit

[@LipbustersWeJustGotDown]

YALL DON'T listen to someone saying. Get a Spiritual Counselor. ITS A SCAM!!!!!

[@Nizzle5150]

What if you work with them and can’t avoid them? How do you enforce no contact?

[@tsdy8680]

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[@blacademic]

Thanks for watching 🙏