Black Dating Coach Says Black Love is a SCAM!

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Күн бұрын

Black Dating Coach Says Black Love Is a SCAM!
Dating Coach on Black Love: Is It a Scam? Tips for Black Women on Finding Love
In this video, we delve into the unique perspective of a dating coach who specializes in helping Black women find love and build lasting relationships. He believes that, for some, Black love can be a scam due to the imbalance between the number of available Black men and women, as well as other cultural issues impacting Black relationships.
Key points we'll cover include:
The dating coach's insights on the challenges facing Black love and why he believes it's a scam for some.
The cultural and societal factors contributing to the difficulties in Black relationships.
His perspective on why some Black women might be destined to marry white men.
Practical advice and strategies for Black women interested in pursuing relationships with white men.
Tips on how to navigate interracial dating and build strong, loving partnerships.
Join us as we explore these ideas, providing a balanced view on the complexities of love and relationships within the Black community. Whether you agree or disagree, this conversation is sure to spark meaningful discussions and offer valuable insights for anyone navigating the modern dating landscape.
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@mastershockvalue6499
@mastershockvalue6499 2 ай бұрын
Why doesn’t he tell gay black men who to date? It would make more sense for him to give advice to other gay black men.
@Tre38843
@Tre38843 2 ай бұрын
Consider his audience… ONLY BLACK WOMEN WOULD TAKE ADVICE FROM A CLEARLY HOMOSEXUAL MALE TALKING ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS.
@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@d.7203
@d.7203 2 ай бұрын
LMFAOO
@kidkid985
@kidkid985 2 ай бұрын
But you see this lately, a lot of homosexuals giving blk women dating advice
@jelanitarik8452
@jelanitarik8452 2 ай бұрын
💯💯💯 An agent of chaos.
@macworld.cantero
@macworld.cantero 2 ай бұрын
😅😅😅😅 Sounds bout crazy but 😅😅😅right
@WMB6022
@WMB6022 2 ай бұрын
Any woman actively listening to a male dating coach who’s their *direct* competition deserves the results they receive.
@godzilla6490
@godzilla6490 2 ай бұрын
🤣
@ChrisDavis-wi4yn
@ChrisDavis-wi4yn 2 ай бұрын
Exactly
@williamcaldwell5772
@williamcaldwell5772 2 ай бұрын
Who should they get it from then? Because if that's the case, other Women aren't a good option Because a straight woman might also be in competition with her. A lesbian might try to turn her out. A straight guy might only be interested in smashing, so why would he give her sound advice to talk to other men? Looks like cats and dogs are the only trustworthy counsel that women have 😂
@tyquaun
@tyquaun 2 күн бұрын
🤣
@hermderm6966
@hermderm6966 2 ай бұрын
Love is Not Sex...Sex is Not Love...
@BreadAndWaterSurvivor
@BreadAndWaterSurvivor 2 ай бұрын
You are 1 off 200 million that gained a soul and made it to an egg so you can live. If you dont see that as love then you may never know what it truly is.
@nwalden5744
@nwalden5744 2 ай бұрын
Exactly
@nwalden5744
@nwalden5744 2 ай бұрын
@@BreadAndWaterSurvivorhow is science love
@scootertheuce.mychannel4pe477
@scootertheuce.mychannel4pe477 2 ай бұрын
​@@BreadAndWaterSurvivor that's such a goofy cornball statement and that's trying to put it nicely. If you think just because someone can get a child due to sex and that proves love you're a fool or clearly misunderstand or uneducated. You basically saying all these people who having sex just to get bodies will love someone because they get pregnant even though it was about sex. I don't even though of im Making my point correctly because how you said what you said is so off it's probably irrelevant to respond to your statement.
@RPayneMPS1241
@RPayneMPS1241 2 ай бұрын
What does his zestiness know about black love between men and women.
@Israelite-iq1gd
@Israelite-iq1gd 2 ай бұрын
Ironically, it's a lot of zesty dudes claiming to be dating coaches.
@michaeljohnson-ym8zp
@michaeljohnson-ym8zp 2 ай бұрын
He’s got eyes and ears. Y’all not hiding anything
@switzjon8405
@switzjon8405 Ай бұрын
@@michaeljohnson-ym8zp He also plays for the other team. SO he doesn't count.
@jasonBGI
@jasonBGI 2 ай бұрын
He's openly mocking black women and they're EATING it up. Wow.
@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 2 ай бұрын
He’s clearly telling them what they want to hear while pretending to tell them something new. People should go where they are appreciated, male or female.
@IbriyGad
@IbriyGad 2 ай бұрын
WM like seeing BW with natural hair because it shows confidence. And destroying black confidence is a turn on for them.
@proxymoron215
@proxymoron215 2 ай бұрын
I always thought it was like role-play. Why would a wm want a ww knock off. He would want an authentic ethnic look
@IbriyGad
@IbriyGad 2 ай бұрын
@@proxymoron215 The same for black men. Why someone wants another of a different race is their own reasons but nobody takes a fake person serious.
@primeva7579
@primeva7579 2 ай бұрын
But a lot of divesters wear weaves and wigs lol. That's the reality
@BluEx22329
@BluEx22329 2 ай бұрын
​@@proxymoron215they dont get called "self haters"
@prid6427
@prid6427 2 ай бұрын
You're just talking and saying words!! A few years ago, "The 👑 Act" was passed to STOP the discrimination of BW & BM from wearing their hair in its natural state for jobs!! ! (Guess who was the #1 opposing demographic?) BlkMen have seen BlkWmn with their natural hair since the beginning of TIME!! But you're telling me WhiMEN appreciate BlkWmn NATURAL hair more? Even more than their own Whwomen?? ......it's called Fetish for "role play!"
@CorGP
@CorGP 2 ай бұрын
Women taking dating advice from a happy boy is wild.
@PlayaFly2k
@PlayaFly2k 2 ай бұрын
Facts
@speedracer1984
@speedracer1984 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@kevinlkeys
@kevinlkeys 2 ай бұрын
Happy boy 😅
@Stephanpar23
@Stephanpar23 2 ай бұрын
A lot of times, the modern woman has more respect for a gay man than a heterosexual one. Especially if he is black.
@PositiveBrothaHakeem
@PositiveBrothaHakeem 2 ай бұрын
​@@Stephanpar23Facts, bc the ghey man will co-sign Modern Women's litany of bs & act like they walk on water.
@wilsonledet3405
@wilsonledet3405 2 ай бұрын
Most births are not burnt out of black love. It's mostly out of people just having sex, lust.
@The_Chocalate_One
@The_Chocalate_One 5 күн бұрын
Disagree. Because you can have abortions. They aren't illegal. Deciding to keep that baby it out of black love, for the father, if not the baby. Because at least they know that baby will be black.
@Seancarter2010
@Seancarter2010 2 ай бұрын
That dude doesn’t even date women why tf does he get a say? It’s like a white person talking about black issues. Heterosexual relationships is not his lane
@tehutim
@tehutim 2 ай бұрын
he dates whyte men
@jasonBGI
@jasonBGI 2 ай бұрын
So he's giving his "competition" advice? How charitable of him.
@freddywayne
@freddywayne Ай бұрын
🎯💯
@hopelove1595
@hopelove1595 2 ай бұрын
I wouldn't say black love is a "scam." However, for every black woman to think they'll, only, marry a black man is, absolutely, delusional which is why a lot of black women end up sleeping with married men, engaged men and single men, in committed relationships. For their own mental health and well-being, I think 🤔 black women should seek God 👑 first, then seek a husband who is the best man she can get for the job. We ALL know many will NOT qualify for certain types of black men or other men, of the same caliber. Black women need to stay in their lanes, get real with themselves about who they are, who they qualify for, based on who they are, and be the best person they can be with a husband who they can grow old with while sharing many special moments together.
@d.7203
@d.7203 2 ай бұрын
Lol this guy is a hustler. He like many others are tapping into Derrick Jackson's playbook and I'm not mad at it 😂😂 I briefly looked up his profile and his videos are titled 1) pretty women have the hardest time dating, 2) how to stress a man out in dating, 3) doing the opposite in dating, 4) talking shh about dating men, 5) women of color need to live and date with white woman audacity, 6) dating white guys 101 (bw edition). Hahahaha he knows his audience so much. Keep em single and they'll keep coming back to you.
@Israelite-iq1gd
@Israelite-iq1gd 2 ай бұрын
He's neglecting the fact that white males also date outside their race more than white women. As a matter of fact, men generally date outside their race more anyway. That male was correct, those features are almost always seen among blk women who date white men, but the natural hair. Black women wear struggle wigs with Brad and have a valley girl accent. He knows because black women with white men is actually very common, it isn't presented in full context. Black women date white men but rarely marry them either.
@KH-qs1di
@KH-qs1di 2 ай бұрын
There's only a very small percentage of any race, etc., that marries another race.
@tupactargaryen
@tupactargaryen 2 ай бұрын
“BW with wm is actually very common”. 🤦🏾 no it’s not, it’s actually the least common you’ll see . Whyte people date marry/marry out the least of any group, and when wm do date out it’s usually with an Asian women or latina.
@nwalden5744
@nwalden5744 2 ай бұрын
That’s also false there is not a single stat show that black men marry outside of their race more than any race of man. There is proof of this
@korypeoples3497
@korypeoples3497 2 ай бұрын
@@KH-qs1di. I never understood this agrument on either side… black men marry date out at a 27 percent rate and black women at a 12 percent rate those odds are terrible😂. It’s crazy to me either side just says hey I’m dating out… smh may the odds be in your favor.
@FlavoredGenuine
@FlavoredGenuine 2 ай бұрын
Black love is real. If the zesty dude thinks it’s a scam, he’s still confused about money.
@donduchiee6923
@donduchiee6923 2 ай бұрын
It’s funny because even he gave up on BW. Now he’s qualified to tell BW to divest? How does that work
@nwalden5744
@nwalden5744 2 ай бұрын
How so
@nwalden5744
@nwalden5744 2 ай бұрын
@@donduchiee6923divesting doesn’t hurt black women
@donduchiee6923
@donduchiee6923 2 ай бұрын
@@nwalden5744 ummm ok.. who does it hurt? Most divestment cases are fatally sad cases to be completely honest on the matter.
@jasonwolfe3252
@jasonwolfe3252 2 ай бұрын
Before I even watched the video I knew that he was LGBTQ. As crazy as it sounds I really think that they see bw as competition for bm. And how exactly does he believe that he can help advise bw to get white hetero males?
@user-ui2cr2ec2v
@user-ui2cr2ec2v 2 ай бұрын
VERY ZESTY GIRLLLLLLLL! 🌸
@G43X
@G43X 2 ай бұрын
It’s strange. They will always find a way to claim black men don’t live black women. It’s like they don’t want us loving black women.
@factsnotfeelings3247
@factsnotfeelings3247 2 ай бұрын
I always suspected Black women wear septum piercing to specifically signal to whyte men. I wonder if black guys have any signals specifically gear to attracting whyte woman?
@malarki5
@malarki5 2 ай бұрын
Nope...not one!
@MojoeHart
@MojoeHart 2 ай бұрын
Yes it's called masculinity
@kevinlkeys
@kevinlkeys 2 ай бұрын
BBC 😂😂😂😂
@MojoeHart
@MojoeHart 2 ай бұрын
@@kevinlkeys wellll...no. Even though it's reduced to that....they see the difference lonnnng before that
@jasonBGI
@jasonBGI 2 ай бұрын
Suits
@eajomoz
@eajomoz 2 ай бұрын
Love did not create anyone Sex did Sex does not mean love.
@Loveispainj
@Loveispainj 2 ай бұрын
As a black man, I strongly and highly encourage ABW to date yt men. Yt men can deal with yall. And BM can build a new community with women from other ethnic backgrounds. And we can restore the black community!
@jenniferd7563
@jenniferd7563 2 ай бұрын
No. You can build a new mixed race community.
@erickas1347
@erickas1347 2 ай бұрын
Yup that would be only a mixed race community
@Loveispainj
@Loveispainj 2 ай бұрын
@jenniferd7563 Well, so be it black men will be valued and respected to fill the masculine roles as a man and not be socially emasculated and disrespected. My girlfriend is from Kenya and made me realize how disrespectful ABW are to us black men. It showed me how ABW never valued or respected BM to the point I it took some time to get used to the freedom of truly being a man. Abw are terrible to bm from our sisters to our mothers.
@ghostofhallownest5300
@ghostofhallownest5300 2 ай бұрын
I agree my cousins all have black kids basically from marrying East Indian women. And their grown kids are with mixed race men and women and the kids are all identifiably blk. It can be done. Many bw would be single before they date the type of bm that are obsessed with them. This is why I am no longer against it. Bw are culturally separate from us now. My siblings are different from the bw I come in contact with on the daily. I love them with all my heart but they and their friends are extremely rare. It’s best we no longer fight and embrace moving away from bw.
@cc6398
@cc6398 2 ай бұрын
How about worry about your own relationship and build your own self up? What black women hurt you bitter man? People should date who they want and who they are compatible with? Everything should not be based on the color of your skin.
@QuiseCortez
@QuiseCortez 2 ай бұрын
I couldnt even make it past the first 90 seconds of this video...😂😂
@lastzulu180
@lastzulu180 2 ай бұрын
i got to 28 sce had to stop
@PlayaFly2k
@PlayaFly2k 2 ай бұрын
I had my phone locked and couldn't see the video and thought it was the usual lol
@nwalden5744
@nwalden5744 2 ай бұрын
I couldn’t cause her black male worship is wrong
@expertguy101
@expertguy101 2 ай бұрын
He’s gonna get some sisters deleted
@okthen5566
@okthen5566 2 ай бұрын
Bm have moved on from bw, tge only reason bm talk about bw is for younger generations of bm....so they know what they're dealing with
@guesswho217
@guesswho217 2 ай бұрын
I'm a black man and I promise you I haven't "moved on" from black women.
@MomoduButler-xo7te
@MomoduButler-xo7te 2 ай бұрын
Agent of Satan
@kidkid985
@kidkid985 2 ай бұрын
Facts
@David-ky2nb
@David-ky2nb 2 ай бұрын
Sounds like a metal band
@stevenroshni1228
@stevenroshni1228 2 ай бұрын
if you wear your socks backwards...White!
@olivesdra
@olivesdra 2 ай бұрын
*The most important thing that everyone should now think about is how to invest in different sources of income that are not dependent on the state. Especially considering the current economic crisis in the world.* ❤
@quantumsolace5864
@quantumsolace5864 2 ай бұрын
Straight facts!😎
@HarryFox-c4z
@HarryFox-c4z 2 ай бұрын
That's an amazing testimony, I've also heard good things about this Caitlin Long, I think she's one of a kind.
@sunartoong168
@sunartoong168 2 ай бұрын
Did someone just mention mrs caitlin!? Damn! You just made my day; what a coincidence.. I've worked with her for over 2years and I can tell how good she is
@danec2572
@danec2572 2 ай бұрын
if u like to eat fish, "WHITE", if u tie ur shoes with ur left hand, "WHITE', if u know the FRIEND'S THEME SONG by heart, WHITEEEEEEEEEE"🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ChezCharde
@ChezCharde 2 ай бұрын
Hahahaha 😂
@danec2572
@danec2572 2 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@esmooth300
@esmooth300 2 ай бұрын
He's right. Let them date out. Black women listen to gay black men, non blacks, and do whatever the establishment tells them. It's time black men encourage black women to just date out.
@divestedconservative26
@divestedconservative26 2 ай бұрын
We don't need blkmale permission to date and marry out. As of 2014, We are already marrying out at over 13%, just imagine what the numbers are NOW, in 2024. We're good I promise ❤👍🏻
@proxymoron215
@proxymoron215 2 ай бұрын
​@divestedconservative26 2014? Lol try 1600s
@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 2 ай бұрын
@@divestedconservative26Troll, he didn’t say anything about “permission.” He said encourage. 😂
@Curtis_George
@Curtis_George 2 ай бұрын
​​@@divestedconservative26you're right and I apologize on behalf of all blk males that encourage BW to date for it looking like permission being given. I hope BW continue to date out and do so exponentially. You guys deserve better, now all you have to do is go get it.
@StefIsCold
@StefIsCold 2 ай бұрын
@@divestedconservative26more of you should date out plenty of white incels are waiting for you
@Zulu-Lemon
@Zulu-Lemon Ай бұрын
Bw been “dating out” since the days of Lena Horne, Mya Angelo, eartha kitt and Dorthy dangridge. I don’t know where the idea that bw don’t date out comes from. So much disinformation about bm It gets tiring.
@freddywayne
@freddywayne Ай бұрын
.... Diahann Carroll, Diana Ross, Tina Turner, Halle Berry, Stacey Dash.... the list goes on & on.
@houseofvoid2153
@houseofvoid2153 2 ай бұрын
Chez, I personally feel as if these new alpha male and feminist podcasts aren't doing our people any favors either. I keep seeing us being divided over the most mundane and meaningless disagreements, and disrespecting one another publicly as a way to embarass the other to the other races; not realizing we're really embarrassing our entire group.
@musingsofawokehebrew3356
@musingsofawokehebrew3356 2 ай бұрын
The confused leading the confused
@SerenityVoiceXL
@SerenityVoiceXL 2 ай бұрын
SCAM? Geezus that's harsh AF everyone has their own preference and desires and that's the bottom line
@expertguy101
@expertguy101 2 ай бұрын
We need to cancel him
@jasonBGI
@jasonBGI 2 ай бұрын
who is "we?"
@blacksun6245
@blacksun6245 2 ай бұрын
If black women are taking advice from gay dudes on dating , they're already lost Cause
@thetruthisoutthere4370
@thetruthisoutthere4370 2 ай бұрын
Black men don’t necessarily prefer black women… they just end up being around them more which leads to them dating and marrying them more. Same with any ethnicity. You tend to marry who you are around more. It’s not a bad idea for black women to date out. Limiting your dating pool to one race is dumb for anyone. I wouldn’t say they should necessarily only go for white men but the concept of opening themselves up to more than just black men is smart. The dating market is competitive and good, providing, monogamous men are hard to come by so whenever you find one, race shouldn’t be a disqualifying factor.
@robertcortez3526
@robertcortez3526 Ай бұрын
BW have been dating out for centuries. You never limited yourself to BM.
@nwalden5744
@nwalden5744 2 ай бұрын
Black love didn’t create me and it doesn’t mean it created him. Countless black people have children without love simply cause they slept with someone. Nothing he said was a lie. Black women stay obsessing over black love when they should be opening their options.
@robertcortez3526
@robertcortez3526 Ай бұрын
You've been dating out for centuries. Be real with yourself
@twindem1976
@twindem1976 2 ай бұрын
How could a gay dude tell a woman who to date, he's confused about his gender so how can he tell a woman anything 🤔
@eleazaryasharahla7792
@eleazaryasharahla7792 Ай бұрын
I came from black love, so did my wife and child. He's a gay man giving straight people relationship advice, that's sounds more like a scam if I ever heard of one.
@Dr.SoulBrother
@Dr.SoulBrother 2 ай бұрын
This Is Madness!! We will always participate in Anti Blackness. This is tragic!!
@thomasdaaton415
@thomasdaaton415 2 ай бұрын
He also said SMILE, but specifically for white men.....
@felix4321ful
@felix4321ful 2 ай бұрын
It's also the ninjas with sugar in their system and alot of pride talking trash about Black relationships
@HipHopBeatSource
@HipHopBeatSource 2 ай бұрын
Of course! Go listen to someone who can't start a family or procreate for advice on relationships... I was just thinking what would a smart educated black woman do LOL
@The_Chocalate_One
@The_Chocalate_One 5 күн бұрын
Wow, I love that side Afro/ponytail.
@rodellwilliams871
@rodellwilliams871 2 ай бұрын
🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️ is he for real lol you telling black women to approach white men but when come to black men they should have the name looking face and black men should be the one to approach
@ChezCharde
@ChezCharde 2 ай бұрын
😅 that advice was interesting
@Beast-fq7rp
@Beast-fq7rp 2 ай бұрын
That’s what they do on dating apps anyways. Since white guys don’t approach often anyways
@The_Chocalate_One
@The_Chocalate_One 5 күн бұрын
The fact that he is pushing date a white man, instead of date any man who loves you whether it be Asian, Indonesian, Arabic, Indian, etc. Shows me he's an agent.
@technofilejr3401
@technofilejr3401 2 ай бұрын
Zesty Magee here is trying to get more men for himself.
@MrDMC11889
@MrDMC11889 2 ай бұрын
If you have certain interests listen to certain genres of music find yourself part of certain subcultures dress a certain way and/or grew up in the suburbs black people will clown you. That being said, this man is oversimplifying.
@commonsensetv4020
@commonsensetv4020 2 ай бұрын
At this point ABM need to push ABW to date out or other women (we recognize all sexual orientations).
@astaono2778
@astaono2778 2 ай бұрын
Not a scam, just isn't always realistic. The reason the outside rate is 3% is because a lot of black wm don't do the nerd thing. Ol boy full of crap. Lots of black ppl are into alternative stuff, we just need a way to connect. Maybe a black alternative dating site❤
@danec2572
@danec2572 2 ай бұрын
CHEZ, more videos on this weirdo, pls🙏📿. great content
@Wanderer25
@Wanderer25 Ай бұрын
I see even the flameboys are getting in on the dating coach scam too. Selling lies to black women is always a great business strategy.
@hitmanxx17
@hitmanxx17 2 ай бұрын
Black women should date who is best for that woman. Doesnt matter the race
@MrZBlackneffect
@MrZBlackneffect 2 ай бұрын
Race definitely matters and it has for centuries. What are you talking about?
@hitmanxx17
@hitmanxx17 2 ай бұрын
@MrZBlackneffect my point is. If your dating and happen to come across a Latina woman who matches your vaules and whatever you deem is important better than anyone of your other relationships, but decide to choose differently because she's not white or black or Asian. Means your literally not picking the best person for you. Date who is the best person for you.
@MrZBlackneffect
@MrZBlackneffect 2 ай бұрын
@@hitmanxx17 First, Latino/Latina is not a race (look it up). Second, the majority of people marry within their race period. Third, when people marry out they tend to marry white people. Forth, white men are the men responded to the most by women (including women of color/different races) on dating sites because of what white skin, white masculinity, and white status means in America and largely on planet earth. This is not about love. Women file for 70%+ of divorces, the number one reason being "irreconcilable differences" digging through the numbers you'll find its primarily because of financial issues... translation, the man isn't making the money she thinks he should make. Once again this is not about love,... unfortunately. Its not even about values outside of many women seeing dating and marrige as a vehicle for/of upward mobility. According to American Enterprise Institute 26% of poor, 39% of working class, and 56% of middle and about Americans are married. Say it with me now 🗣Its not about love or values. Its about money and status‼️
@Alvan81
@Alvan81 2 ай бұрын
​@MrZBlackneffect Race is veey significant, but the point is should you use it to exclude partners? Not unless it's some special circumstances.
@prid6427
@prid6427 2 ай бұрын
​@hitmanxx17 The best person for anyone is "usally" someone with the same "ethinc background" as you!! Race does matter!!
@ChrisDavis-wi4yn
@ChrisDavis-wi4yn 2 ай бұрын
Question, why does it appear that black homosexual males seem to talk bad about black men and try to push black women away from black men? Black women rarely ask these dudes what is their agenda is they just go along with it.
@blacksun6245
@blacksun6245 2 ай бұрын
They want more gay black dudes.That's why without a strong male Figure in the household means more gay dudes for them to increase their numbers
@donhud3868
@donhud3868 Ай бұрын
I think it's a way for them to bond and rally with BW.
@ChrisDavis-wi4yn
@ChrisDavis-wi4yn Ай бұрын
@@donhud3868 true
@raymoncarter9544
@raymoncarter9544 2 ай бұрын
He’s not FBA, fix your home country
@Rhinosaurus1000
@Rhinosaurus1000 2 ай бұрын
We are truly divided and conquered when such talking points (from such speakers) impact us. This is another example of why we are in such confusion concerning who has our best interest at heart. He is unfortunately not ashamed to need his oppressors acceptance and bow to them openly. Buck broken. 🤦🏽‍♂️ One benefit to him denying himself/his sin is it contributes to fixing the very problem he’s addressing and claims to be concerned about. The irony. Just a walking contradiction. Hypocrite. This is why Jesus said love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you because we are our own worst enemies just like the multitude of one scattered nation Jesus was addressing.
@mateaukalua4426
@mateaukalua4426 2 ай бұрын
They consider mixed black people as black 😂. Anyways Idgaf at 30/31 if someone is for me then they're for me.
@melloscott1732
@melloscott1732 2 ай бұрын
😂🤣. I'm not surprised he sounds the way he sounds and talking the way he talking!😂
@TyrillCelestine
@TyrillCelestine Ай бұрын
Yoo this was actually pretty funny
@britneyt9253
@britneyt9253 2 ай бұрын
To your first point about black love creating him, just because 2 black people got together and had sex and created a baby, doesn’t mean that relationship was a good relationship. Or was “love”. Just wanted to point that out. Black people in the US are having uncommitted sex everyday and creating single mother households unfortunately. BW shouldn’t LIMIT themselves to BM. Date whoever you WANT and the right person no matter the race.
@Coast2CoastTuber
@Coast2CoastTuber 2 ай бұрын
That sounds like the equivalent of astrology to me.
@jayburns94
@jayburns94 2 ай бұрын
Ya'll want heterosexual advise from a homosexual?!?!? Make it make sense!!!! Miss me with dat shiiiid!!!
@switzjon8405
@switzjon8405 Ай бұрын
7:38 If a heterosexual bro was all these things he still say stay away.
@switzjon8405
@switzjon8405 Ай бұрын
Why is it always these kinds of men talking down to BM?
@starchildthesupertrucker3.242
@starchildthesupertrucker3.242 3 күн бұрын
Keep in mind the Black LGBT Skittles community hate Headasexul straight black men Just as much as feminist black women. But the thing is Black women use them lol 😆 😂
@nwalden5744
@nwalden5744 2 ай бұрын
He’s not wrong
@Achilles645
@Achilles645 Ай бұрын
He is 100% wrong, he's trying to make black women want to date out more. He is just another gay man that hates black Men and is trying to paint them out in the worst way.
@bradleycampbell245
@bradleycampbell245 2 ай бұрын
He sounds……never mind lol 😂
@casmak141
@casmak141 Ай бұрын
The only one i agreed with os the seotum piercing. 🙂
@hirkowen8820
@hirkowen8820 Ай бұрын
YOU NEED TO CORRECT HIS TITLE; HE IS NOT A BLACK LOVE COACH! HE'S NOT EVEN A HETEROSEXUAL!
@expertguy101
@expertguy101 2 ай бұрын
This person needs to be cancelled
@moreforme74
@moreforme74 2 ай бұрын
Why do alphabet mafia people insert themselves into heterosexual conversations?
@jayjay7978
@jayjay7978 2 ай бұрын
This sassy, sounding guy sounds like he's part of the rainbow 🌈 community anyway. And he definitely is pandering
@mastershockvalue6499
@mastershockvalue6499 2 ай бұрын
Obviously
@Zulu-Lemon
@Zulu-Lemon Ай бұрын
This how you end up chopped up spread around Milwaukee
@terriehiggins9489
@terriehiggins9489 2 ай бұрын
He acts as if he is a black woman giving other black women advice as to how to divest. Why is he in women's space.. Weird!
@t.p.m.414
@t.p.m.414 2 ай бұрын
Its a scam because it's based on colorism...
@robertcortez3526
@robertcortez3526 Ай бұрын
There's colorism in every community. Is their love a scam?
@paulwilson4747
@paulwilson4747 3 күн бұрын
Does this "guy" actually get paid for his "advice"? If so, WHY?
@starchildthesupertrucker3.242
@starchildthesupertrucker3.242 3 күн бұрын
He'll I was thinking the same thing lol 😂😂
@georgethompson5595
@georgethompson5595 2 ай бұрын
Why take advice from DL man
@eujinlee9936
@eujinlee9936 2 ай бұрын
I'm a black man raised in the suburbs and I love heavy metal. So.......???
@ChezCharde
@ChezCharde 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@cpthetrucker9067
@cpthetrucker9067 3 күн бұрын
Try being Black and being a Rush and Yes fan. 😂😂😂😂
@eujinlee9936
@eujinlee9936 3 күн бұрын
@@cpthetrucker9067 I don't know who that is lol 🤣
@cpthetrucker9067
@cpthetrucker9067 3 күн бұрын
@@eujinlee9936 check them out. Neither band exists anymore. They're old like I am. 😂😂😂😂
@Creolekuntry
@Creolekuntry 2 ай бұрын
Mr zesty knows all the talking points. Go figure
@georgegolden5041
@georgegolden5041 2 ай бұрын
So full of zest he could do a soap commercial
@neon_one_neo3317
@neon_one_neo3317 2 ай бұрын
Wonder if he'll tell bm to date ww🥴
@Hadda23
@Hadda23 2 ай бұрын
Why should he tell them when they already do ?
@neon_one_neo3317
@neon_one_neo3317 2 ай бұрын
@@Hadda23 missed the point
@Hadda23
@Hadda23 Ай бұрын
@@neon_one_neo3317your point is mute
@darksidehavok
@darksidehavok 2 ай бұрын
Ya’ll gonna learn to stop taking advice from men who don’t even like 🐈
@TunaNoKetchup
@TunaNoKetchup 2 ай бұрын
Why is a fruit commenting on straight relationships?
@jasonBGI
@jasonBGI 2 ай бұрын
$$$$$$$$
@TunaNoKetchup
@TunaNoKetchup 2 ай бұрын
@@jasonBGI I get that...I guess the proper question is why are they even allowed to have a say? They have no dog in this fight
@jonesmarcquis
@jonesmarcquis 2 ай бұрын
I bet he gotta white boyfriend lol. He probably right about the emo girls 😆
@gregorythomas4470
@gregorythomas4470 Ай бұрын
It’s a scam to HIM because y’all taking all the men he was hoping to get. So yeah, he’s getting scammed.
@georgebolton9465
@georgebolton9465 2 ай бұрын
THIS IS BS!
@DerekDynasty
@DerekDynasty 2 ай бұрын
It’s satire
@ChezCharde
@ChezCharde 2 ай бұрын
It’s actually not. He has an entire dating channel
@Gashshiningstar
@Gashshiningstar 2 ай бұрын
He's off the boat. Look at that hairline.
@ChezCharde
@ChezCharde 2 ай бұрын
He is fully American last I checked. but then again I haven’t researched. Can’t American men have a receding hairline too? I don’t quite understand
@blacksun6245
@blacksun6245 2 ай бұрын
😂 What does a hair line have to do with anything
@mikewillis3016
@mikewillis3016 2 ай бұрын
Than love period is a scam
@eritreayamini6801
@eritreayamini6801 Ай бұрын
Don’t take advice from him.
@cw5971
@cw5971 2 ай бұрын
I think he has an agenda lol
@StefIsCold
@StefIsCold 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@erzulieism
@erzulieism 2 ай бұрын
it wasn't funny at all!
@BluEx22329
@BluEx22329 2 ай бұрын
The women who agree with him talked about Kas bein gey as an insult
@divestedconservative26
@divestedconservative26 2 ай бұрын
Gawd sis..I wonder how many whte guys you've completely ignored, who were totally into you and was literally FLIRTING with you all because you are so engulfed in the idea of BlkLurve. Thank goodness more and more BW are abandoning ship❤🙏🏾
@sunsoza8320
@sunsoza8320 2 ай бұрын
Does it matter since she already found n have her husband? Aint it disrespectful towards her husband n her marriage to try n take her away n tempt her from her husband. Aint you tryna be a homewrecker
@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 2 ай бұрын
lol Brad worshippers. Chez loves herself, she doesn’t need Brad.
@Curtis_George
@Curtis_George 2 ай бұрын
I'm giving your post a thumbs up and a comment in hopes it gets seen more and influences BW that are on the fence about dating out.
@daltonhill3628
@daltonhill3628 2 ай бұрын
So ur mad cause she wants to only date black men. Girl why is u here if u like white dudes she likes black men get over it goofy
@prid6427
@prid6427 2 ай бұрын
You're ALWAYS here in Che's videos!
@BluEx22329
@BluEx22329 2 ай бұрын
😂
@scootertheuce.mychannel4pe477
@scootertheuce.mychannel4pe477 2 ай бұрын
More and more when i see people online talking ignorant foolishness like him. it proves to me how social media and platforms like youtube expose how idiotic or attention seeking or narcissistic people really are. I just cant believe that people would in person publicly really talk like this in front of others. 😂
@money2mind267
@money2mind267 2 ай бұрын
I'll never take any advice from a walking dead guy.
@hirkowen8820
@hirkowen8820 Ай бұрын
AS FOR DATING WHITE GUYS, HE WOULD KNOW!
@racescott6636
@racescott6636 2 ай бұрын
Hope they ain't listening to him but I know they are
@Prophet-Cleff144
@Prophet-Cleff144 2 ай бұрын
I don’t rock with that feminine cat but a lot of us born was no love involved just some drinks the 🛏️
@nwalden5744
@nwalden5744 2 ай бұрын
Black love didn’t create me and it doesn’t mean it created him. Countless black people have children without love simply cause they slept with someone. Nothing he said was a lie. Black women stay obsessing over black love when they should be opening their options.
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