Chris Voss Former FBI Hostage Negotiator Interviews Jefferson Fisher Trial Lawyer!

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@dameanvil 3 ай бұрын

- 00:04 🎯 Arguments are essential but should lead to positive outcomes, avoiding negativity that can lead to a communication "death spiral." - 00:57 🌀 The concept of a "death spiral" is likened to a situation where communication breaks down to the point of no return, which is particularly serious in negotiation scenarios. - 02:02 🐊 Speaker compares the normalcy of seeing dangerous creatures like alligators in the South to the desensitization New Yorkers have towards pigeons. - 02:44 👨‍⚖️ Growing up in a family of attorneys provided early exposure to effective communication and the art of persuasion, especially in legal contexts. - 04:16 🧠 Speaker learned the importance of listening and asking questions to guide others to their own conclusions, a skill honed by observing their father's communication style. - 06:03 💡 Speaker became fascinated early on with how the phrasing of words can significantly impact communication, turning it into a sort of "game." - 07:27 ⏳ The importance of the "every six seconds" rule in communication, which indicates how quickly attention can shift during conversations or storytelling. - 09:28 🧩 Non-verbal cues and reactions during a trial are crucial, as they can heavily influence how jurors perceive the arguments and facts presented. - 11:24 🎭 The courtroom is described as a kind of theater where human perception and instincts play a critical role, especially for jurors and court reporters. - 12:42 📚 Speaker is working on a new book titled "The Next Conversation," which is set to be released in March 2025 by the same team behind "Atomic Habits."

@Justdefy66 4 сағат бұрын

The art of effective arguing is not to get upset. Because depending on the he point of contention the only way to keep the interaction moving to an understanding you have to remember its not about being right it's about being capable of communicating a position that doesn't invalidate the other side but bring an agreement to the acknowledgement that there are valid reasons for the conflict and still allow the defusing of allowing it to escalate beyond the willingness to understand what the true source of the conflict. People dance around the problem and most conflicts are directed to a different direction because it's a place p

@CrustyWhiteBread 3 ай бұрын

No BS. I am a veteran who had a mental health crisis last week Thursday. The VA prevention hotline man failed me. As a result I ended up 3 blocks away at my local FD, with the terrible prevention rep still on the phone, seeking help from my community's finest. They turned their back on me. I went to the curb outside the firehouse, sat down and cried. I was now totally lost. Then the police response... All I can say if it was not for the training I had previously thru my employer in Chris Voss negotiation and de-escalation...I might not be here right now. The VA is now taking proper care of me. I was saved by my Lord in Heaven, however Mr. Voss was right there with me as well. Thank you. Christopher

@susancham6025 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for your service❤

@Broken_Cracka 2 ай бұрын

I’m glad you’re still here with us and that the BA is taking care of you. ❤

@7oclockmiracles88 Ай бұрын

God bless you. I keep trying to learn better communication bc our world feels so out of control and people need even more help than ever when we hadn’t even taken care of our seniors or vets well enough yet.

@donnakawana Ай бұрын

I hope you Kno your amazing. Thank you for being a selfless person and protecting me an mine. To you own detriment. My favorite Uncle came home from Nam halfed. He decided his out say himself. I often as an adult with PTSD an other stuff finally understood why! I am gonna say this to you Chris, Your a true Earth Angel, even angels need God's assistance. I'm grateful for you an even more today I choose one one more day. You inspired me to not give up... 🫵🏽🪨💗🫵🏽🫡💪🏼🤙🏼

@bridgetmcbride6634 2 ай бұрын

What???!!! Together??!!! My two favorite people to learn from on these topics!!!

@anthonycanzoneri985 Ай бұрын

I'm a follower of both these gentlemen. Excellent interview and I'm pleasantly surprised to see them together. I look forward to reading Jefferson's book.

@7oclockmiracles88 Ай бұрын

ROFL when he asks if you’re by DC (the swamp)😂😂😂 loved it from the word Go!

@tommiheikkila4819 3 ай бұрын

Nice Chris that you are coming to Finland for NBF in September 🎉🎉

@jan-jo-stew 2 ай бұрын

I feel I need some coaching on this topic about communicating in a way that's not negative but getting the point across and defusing situations.

@wasode20 3 ай бұрын

Fascinating interview 👏

@JesseClaus 2 ай бұрын

Chris Voss has some Al Pacino in his sound:)

@semolinasemolina8327 2 ай бұрын

Yes, more please, thank you so much x

@darrelldawson4041 Ай бұрын

Life lesson @ 6:25 "It's often not about what you say, it's how you say it." You gotta learn how to read/know your audience. Reception is crucial when information is being exchanged. Teachers have it rough tbh.

@ChristineMBond 2 ай бұрын

Wow! I Love Jefferson’s advice!

@flochfitness 3 ай бұрын

The “what are you passionate about” exercise demonstrated by Mr. Voss

@mattmccusker7639 Ай бұрын

Maybe we can get him to Negotiate a stand down order on the FBI's political interference! A little compassion for what American citizens have been put through.

@m.hadisoussi732 3 ай бұрын

Both of you guys are excellent.

@brittanyandam9883 2 ай бұрын

Where is the rest of this interview? I clicked on the link in the description, but it brought me to a different video.

@alistairmills7608 2 ай бұрын

Fabulous interview

@richermorin 3 ай бұрын

how do you deal with your frustration when you cant tollerate bullshit from people and use your technics at the same time, i have so much difficulty with that, i cant tollerate people bullshit it just makes me angry like crazy

@kallivera 2 ай бұрын

Where can I watch the full interview?

@user-bi9rp2nt1r 3 ай бұрын

My two favourites together! ❤

@ChristianDunkleberger85 3 ай бұрын

You know Jefferson?

@Nobodyie Ай бұрын

The amount of techniques developed in the communication that they are constructing is bizarre

@donnakawana Ай бұрын

Not an argument. An impassioned discussion where both people get to be heard and a solution is jointly come to

@XPRClips 2 ай бұрын

What podcast is this?

@jewelsbarbie 2 ай бұрын

It is called ‘The Chris Voss Show Podcast’

@johnhungerford3814 2 ай бұрын

Dialectic

@alexandrathompson5635 2 ай бұрын

Why does this conversation make me uncomfortable? I know it’s an interview and the interviewer needs to ask questions. The interviewed seemed to be trying to control the narrative rather than accepting it

@7oclockmiracles88 Ай бұрын

He is an expert negotiator. It’s okay to relax. We just aren’t used to this level of expertise or dominance but it’s not in a bad way. It’s super helpful. We just aren’t used to authority on this level. Such a good person to learn from. All on the same team at various levels.