Blown Off by a Friend

The plaintiff says she and the defendant are both social workers and used to be close friends. They had a falling out because she loaned her friend money, but she never repaid the plaintiff, so she’s suing. The defendant says the plaintiff is only suing because the plaintiff wanted a sexual relationship, but she wasn’t interested. She insists she’s being sued for more than she owes.
#JudgeMathis #RealityTV #Court

[@bigbecky1540]

Since you love men so much why won’t they help you financially???

[@lawill3559]

She said she loves men……,she did NOT say men loves her back.😜

[@shelocsher2396]

Okay!!

[@moniqueedwards3904]

That part!!!!

[@wildfiregirl1556]

Lmao.

[@keyarriaamey6142]

That’s what I was thinking

[@standmccray1037]

I never understood how someone can be upset about giving you back your money.

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

Exactly

[@misterbee66]

That is the story of my life.

[@metalface7283]

That's an easy answer. They're broke AF.

[@user-bu9wc8ys2l]

Right

[@Sunshine134chick]

That part when they was sooo humble to get it

[@tamekadavis6641]

The fastest way to ending a friendship is by loaning money 🙄and not getting it back.💯

[@elwin38]

That goes for families too.✌🏾✊🏾

[@aquanaanderson4614]

Exactly

[@maryapatterson]

I refuse to loan people money. I will happily give it to you as a gift but no way will I loan out money unless I can afford to give it away. This thing about chasing people for small amounts of money, I've get better things to do with my life!

[@NellieKAdaba]

Yes

[@Mingo579]

She blew her own defense by admitting: "I asked her for the money coz' I knew she would give it to me coz' she wanted me." 😜

[@heavyizthacrown-5842]

The defendant slipped up and said “I only owe her $438.” She got caught in a lie at the end.

[@Lanie-sl9ne]

She also said I knew you were gone give it to me.

[@KayTheAuthor]

"I love dieting, I'm into dieting. I've been dieting since I could remembe." Me trying to convince myself that I don't need that cookie that look so delicious!

[@KPbouj]

😂😂 right. Like who are you tryna convince sis ?

[@lawill3559]

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@shelocsher2396]

😂😂😂😂

[@jb3702]

😅😅😅

[@ebeleifedigbo506]

😭😭😭😭

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

“I got your attention, $400” 🤣😂😆 She dropped the mic at the end on her 😂

[@OfficialKidK]

“You don’t love me cause you wouldn’t have brought me here” 😂😂😂

[@thedeedee]

The defendant is terrible 😂 girl pay that lady her money

[@kimf442]

Right 😂😂😂

[@cassandrakite4957]

Exactly

[@1stisraelitessweetness17]

for real, it was all good when she wanted money knowing the woman liked her, she used that to her advantage.

[@queenmaxinew2707]

JUST PROOF HOW SOME SOCIAL WORKERS ARE UNETHICAL LIAR'S ❤️💯

[@dominiuqewaston2492]

Lol.. aren’t social workers ppl 😂

[@freereign911]

All Factz

[@nbl5516]

Facts...And professionals think that having a BSW-MSW-DSW is gold. Yet many of the ones I have interacted with professionally are so unethical and don't do their job.

[@dabossbitch]

@@dominiuqewaston2492 yes they are, 😂. Just do your jobs though 😜

[@martha6322]

It just comes down to people period. No titles included

[@WarGrowlmon18]

"I don't believe that I owe her 600 I think I owe her 438." "Uh that's what she's suing you for."

[@1Livinintruth]

Lawdd🤣🤣🤣

[@Katie_Q]

Hey, I hope everyone is having a wonderful day

[@esharenee4186]

Today my birthday 🎂🥳🙂

[@sheilae.9670]

@@esharenee4186 happy birthday! Wishing you long life and good health 🙏🏿 ❤

[@meanlene4823]

​@@esharenee4186 Happy birthday to you!🎵

[@esharenee4186]

@@sheilae.9670 Thank you 💜💜💜

[@esharenee4186]

@@meanlene4823 thaaaaank you 🎶💃🏾😊

[@Sunshine134chick]

She know she used the plaintiff knowing that she liked her smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ Shameful

[@kathleenthomas1971]

the woman was ungrateful after her friend loaned her money, i cant believe how selfish and entitled some people are

[@junenowell1905]

That normal is very ungrateful after the fact

[@urbanchangewithin624]

please believe it!

[@tranquilrabies]

This is how the defendant treats someone who was there for her when she was trying to move and better herself? How the hell does she treat enemies, then? I hope all her little shenanigans were worth it the next time (and there WILL be a next time) she's struggling.

[@Orlandoloc83]

I let it be known before I spend any money I need a freak…. And if asking to be with a freak is wrong then asking to be in a relationship just for some buns is what I would do.

[@mrshappilymarried1]

It's disgusting...I cannot stand ingrates.

[@MrLenroc82]

Social workers......why is it most of them lack morals but are able to direct how one's life is run.........amazing

[@queshebalittle6023]

Facts

[@Spirit-Survival365]

please don't stereotype the profession of social workers, the same as all black men should not be stereotyped as thugs

[@dominiuqewaston2492]

@@Spirit-Survival365 lol I am a social worker. I definitely don’t lol

[@mrshappilymarried1]

Well we could say the same thing about Bankers, Teachers, Pastors, Government Officials, everyone employed by the IRS, etc etc😂🤣😅😅But I get your point.😆😁😄

[@metalface7283]

It's hypocritical but It actually does make sense. Just think of a current drug addict. They do sometimes give insight to other people, as to what their experience will be if they choose to abuse drugs also.

[@Amy-ej2px]

Doyle w the calculator. 🤣I'm glad that JM wasn't trying to let her use the Plaintiff's alleged crush on her as a defense, especially when she was so quick to use the same crush to get money from the Plaintiff.

[@cfreemful]

Even IF, she wanted you... Best believe, she wanted HER MONEY more!

[@MSALL-co8bf]

A darn shame

[@gwendolynjones5627]

She got her money! Lol

[@Alesana907]

I cant stand when the defense is they're suing me because "they're bitter, jealous and wants me"....how about they're suing u because u didnt pay up

[@charlessantee8329]

The defendant knows good and well that she owes her for that loan some people doesn't like paying their debt.

[@francinewilliams1703]

Girl STOP give the lady her money

[@Lovely_1One]

The defendant reminding me of James brown needs to hush and pay that woman her money! People are so negative and horrible to those who loaned THEM money! It’s the audacity for me! SMDH

[@vanillamocha34]

Not James Brown!😂🤣

[@asiaanderson5556]

James!😭😭😭😭😭

[@moniqueedwards3904]

Don't do James like that 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@PHILDR85]

Lmao, My first thought!!🤣🤣...I'm over here 😭😭😭😂😂😂😂

[@deshonebonyrowland-ward4552]

The defendant could possibly be bisexual and if so that's fine just live your truth... Because she probably flirted with the plaintiff if not more to get that money... 😕

[@PHILDR85]

Doyle being messy right there with JM he whipped that calculator so fast... 🤣

[@karenk3458]

The defendant is a piece of work prime example,of a bitter person who takes money and doesn’t expect to pay it back.

[@Spirit-Survival365]

The devil makes you think he is your friend until pay back time. The devil would rather be exposed as a user and liar than "do right." The defendant was never a real friend so its very easy for "it" to walk away.

[@allymaree8812]

Not they came to tv court admitting to sexual harassment in the work place lol hope the job didn't see this 😅

[@queenyahshiriyah9745]

Same thing I was thinking!!

[@Amy-ej2px]

The Defendant taking advantage of her coworker made me question her ethics. Hope it didn't carry over into her work.

[@queenyahshiriyah9745]

But ummmm…did the defendant not say on national tv that she owed $438 instead of $400? I’m glad the plaintiff won her case and got $38 extra!!

[@worldhealthrn]

Me?! Lil ol me? YESSSSS NUMBER ONE!!!!!!

[@Proverbspsalms]

🥇 🏆 🎈

[@katjohnson9549]

For u... 🍪 🥠 🍪 Jkjk I do the same when I'm first! Lol

[@Proverbspsalms]

@@katjohnson9549 🤣🤣🤣

[@liberiarose6565]

Congratulations 🎊

[@pocahontaspoca3145]

Lol 😂

[@donnabethea8164]

The defendant looks like a clown up there

[@yokimawhittaker5193]

It's interesting how she tried to use the excuse of her friend hitting on her as an excuse not to pay her. Whether she's gay or not give that woman her money 🤷

[@RacieRain]

Defendent is still trying to finesse the plaintiff.

[@mrshappilymarried1]

You liked her enough to borrow money from her mam. You like men but none of them could loan you any money...Pay that lady what you owe!

[@brionem88]

Right! Who she trying to convince though? She kept saying it like they didn't comprehend. We get it ma'am. She need to pay that woman her money.

[@tesstickles1280]

A few years back there was a woman on the show who did pay what she owed with her taxes. Mathis was shocked and said you the first one ever! She eneded up owing some money later on for something else and got sued.

[@romelcarter9886]

Yeah I remember that show true but these shows are years behind how do you know if that was after this show or not cause most Judge Mathis shows or from 2012-13-14-15 so I can't tell if that was before or after cause these shows old and we watching 2013 shows now in 2022 even shows that I never seen before like if these were hidden tapes

[@musiclover6842]

Didn't see that episode but 9/10 no one gets paid back with the tax money I laughed so much

[@2BOLD4U]

I remember that one. He gave her a standing ovation.

[@romelcarter9886]

@@2BOLD4U Yeah I think she was wearing black and white

[@ebeleifedigbo506]

😂😂😂

[@briteinwilson8148]

Not one soul ever winked at you..please believe that

[@intensepassion3382]

JM didn't want this saying she loved Men, but if she was saying I love Women, he would have entertained all of it.

[@theoverwatch242]

That is correct see how he shut her down cause she likes men

[@katriesehall]

the reason he cut her off was because he asked her a question and she kept talking about how much she loved men..

[@mymotherwasright3079]

Judge Mathis knows what time it is! You CAN'T pull the wool over his eyes.🐑

[@arteagacolvard4517]

She sure enough kept her around for the money, don't try to lowball or expose a person after they have helped you n been there for you!

[@bigbecky1540]

So glad she won!!!

[@undertakerfanz628]

I bet the defendant gets around

[@heavyizthacrown-5842]

They got a “friends with benefits” relationship. The defendant *likes the attention* she’s getting from the plaintiff. They need to continue to be friends and stop trippin.

[@nellyking5005]

Just pay the lady her money

[@bigbecky1540]

She probably stole her wallet at work!!!

[@shanzi9009]

The way he said "extremely close friends" I knew something was up

[@mariag5756]

A woman using another woman, it can’t get any worse than this🤦‍♀️

[@frankbrown5279]

Judge Mathis always telling somebody a loan won't get paid if they say it's they'll pay it from their income tax..🤣🤣🤣

[@KAWTELENUH]

I'm pretty sure I've seen a few cases where the person paid from their income tax. Not many but a few.

[@LeshaFBaby]

Now wanna bring up her loving your mama and kids ...pay the lady her money just ungrateful

[@lillianwilliams5510]

Why did the defendant keep going out. with the plaintiff

[@misterbee66]

How dare you gaslight this woman who assisted you.

[@youmakemelaugh1797]

Dammmmmmn who sounded like an old car🛻📯 horn at 10:09😱😱😱😱

[@urluvizmyluv1999]

JM is extra sensitive about same sex relationships due to his son and that's not right.

[@winniewera2510]

True…

[@DjMzunderstood]

and his brother don't forget him

[@andrewhinds6302]

Plus 1 of his sons are gay

[@lotusgsxr750]

Not true judge, there was 1!!!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris]

I'm only 2:49 into the case and see the Defendant is full of herself. If the Plaintiff pushed up on her the first time at the bar, why would she go yet again to the bar with the Plaintiff screaming I DON'T GO THAT WAY...I LIKE MEN!! Seriously, is this her defense? 😒

[@shugabear35]

All I know is the plaintiff never denied wanting to be in a sexual relationship with the defendant.

[@brownskynbeauty4]

1:48 the plaintiff said not true, but even if she didn’t dispute it, so what. 🤔 Has nothing to do with the defendant having to pay back what she owed the plaintiff.

[@kimberlynvelasco5265]

When she said “winking her eye”, I instantly thought of the plaintiffs eyes🤦🏽‍♀️

[@ephraimwolobah9152]

The defendant is someone who can not be helped. EVER

[@55thst_rojos]

Andrea is my good friend and she would give you the shirt off her back. I remember when she was going through it with the defendant.

[@ericastout4552]

I seen a few shows that the people did pay out of income tax check

[@nicab5819]

Defendant 🗣What you want my attention? Plaintiff yep! I got it $400 🥴💀💀😂😂

[@melissakitchens1122]

Lady just pay the lady damn lol

[@TootieTootie]

Judge said, “MEN, MEN, MEN!!” 😩😂🤣 The defendant know she need to quit, lyin tail self.🙄

[@ebeleifedigbo506]

😂😂

[@brownskynbeauty4]

The fact that they’re social workers and speak like this😩🤦🏾‍♀️

[@highlander666]

they had a "what" agreement?! the plaintiff is just over making up words failing at her attempt to sound intelligent😆

[@ebeleifedigbo506]

Lmao I just heard that and was like WUT 😅😅 a WUT agreement?! 🧐

[@carolynyvettewright5360]

The defendant could never be my social worker! If she treats her fellow worker & friend like that.... Be careful people

[@KB-cl6fo]

The defendant must be Andrew Caldwell's sister!😜 " I've been delivert!" I like men; men, men, men!

[@janetyarborough5792]

Don't want to pay that money

[@jazminrodriguez9026]

She knew she liked her thsts why she took her money 💰

[@QS0924]

defendant is a whole clown.

[@jacquelynthompson3283]

Why did it seem like judge Mathis tried to shut that lady down for bragging about loving men ijs

[@djdufhf6503]

Because she kept going on and on. We got it the first time,get to the damn point.

[@jacquelynthompson3283]

@@djdufhf6503 I'm saying this if you've noticed homosexuals are not rushed like that they are giving time to express themselves sometimes Mathis even asks them questions ijs seemed different that's all

[@brionem88]

@@djdufhf6503 Exactly!!

[@brionem88]

@@jacquelynthompson3283 Yeah he does but I think he does it to better understand the lingo that us used in the LGBTQ+ community bc it can be confusing to some. And the defendant kept using that as an excuse and tried to make the plaintiff look like some love struck obsessed woman. She made herself look stupid.

[@adrianprince7266]

Mathis is lying. There have been a few instances during his tenure on this show where a person has recieved their money from another's income tax disbursement.

[@susiesolangesimpson2828]

You know this is an old episode right? Since then I think two people have paid from their taxes.

[@jaredlhulum]

@@susiesolangesimpson2828 you know Adrian Prince has a love and hate relationship with JM

[@Mr.Boring_Man]

You're literally saying the FEW exceptions supercede the RULE. A few people out of thousands of shows have gotten their money from a income tax return. It's safe to say on his show it's almost certainly a lie that repayment will come from an income tax return. Smh

[@youinmybusiness1388]

These women so sneaky I had a friend like this!

[@ayefo7800]

The defendant is a 🤡

[@rodneywilliams9670]

If this was a normal relationship if he's called sexual harassment

[@youmakemelaugh1797]

where we going at???🥴

[@lynnlynn9693]

Hi Judge Mathis I loan my niece 600 hundred dollars she told me when she got her income tax she would pay me back and she did love your show been looking at your show since it’s been on T V also judge Mathis family matters I love your wife and family keep up the good work God got you 🌺🙌🏼🙏🏾❤️

[@darkmagic9590]

The taxes.

[@wildfiregirl1556]

Lmao.

[@treymcgee2611]

His math is wrong.

[@jillcabler2186]

Uon Know, Never Lend A Friend money 💰💲 period under no circumstances! Sho can go left REAL quick, Just don't do it!!!

[@djdufhf6503]

Not for everybody. I've two best friends I've known over 11 years. We've borrowed hundreds back and forth from each other. Never an issue 🤷‍♀️ We're all around 22,23 years old too. Gotta have real ones

[@thomashilson4158]

The defendant is a fool.

[@rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324]

Anyone come on here and show straight pride....they get shut down...smdh

[@djdufhf6503]

Straight pride isn't a thing 🤣

[@martha6322]

Why didn't the lady go to the men she love so much?😳🙄🤔😏

[@Kolistwaky9161]

Not true. One of them did pay with their taxes as promised. The judge forgot that case.

[@CWYounger10]

Why did she keep going to the bar with her if she basically kept sexually harassing you? Then why would you borrow money from her? Sounds like a bad idea to me or you are a liar. 😂😂

[@user-tx8jk4xi7z]

Taxes lol they clearly dont watch judge Mathis show

[@prettyperfectpagne6226]

You want my attention yea I got it 400 that was gold right there 😂

[@musiclover6842]

Haven't had such a laugh in a while watching JM

[@debrahill2272]

I can't comprehend how you keep loaning / giving a person money when they owe from previous unpaid loans / gifts..🤑🤑🤔 You become a human ATM at this point..

[@kekejefferson9219]

Something seems lesbians about this.

[@latinabonitaj1418]

I agree, especially towards the end of the verdict. The comment the defendant was saying.

[@ebeleifedigbo506]

Lmao I felt gay vibes soon as they both walked in. SUMTHIN was going on between them. The defendant was at least semi curious to be going back to that bar all the time 😂😂😂🤷🏿‍♂️

[@reneeowens3826]

WHY CANT SHE GIVE PRAISE TO MEN . IT WAS KIND OF HER . ALSO HER SELECTION.💯

[@brionem88]

True but she just kept on with it like they didnt comprehend. We get it ma'am. She used that woman and need to pay her back. It's that simple.

[@snaked.i.522]

The defendant is rare. It's hard to find straight women!

[@martientegelaers6522]

actually not so social workers

[@augarethomas4605]

Hey, Judge Mathis Family!!❤❤

[@BigBecky25]

Stop loaning money people!!!

[@Jazzykayyyy]

Money is truly the root of all evil.

[@sabriyahsmith346]

The defendant should have paid her and called it a day!!!

[@aeonflex4261]

Isn’t this called gay for pay 🤔

[@ebeleifedigbo506]

😂😂😂😂😂 good point

[@LuiCambio]

@9:39 because those people never needed to come to court since they paid once their income taxes came in, lol.

[@AT-jm4dl]

Does the defendant like men or women sexually? She was very vague about her sexuality.

[@ebeleifedigbo506]

The world may never know 😂😂😂

[@evelynjackson2762]

Like that THEME MUSIC