This video was refreshing considering Tigrrbelly fans tend to one-sidedly shit on Khalyla for some reason. I suspected that Bobby was primarily at fault, because I have also seen other videos of them after the break-up and it's apparent that she didn't break things off and is still in love. When I initially watched the Cut video I was moreso confused since I'm a little more aware of their break-up situation and their relationship since I follow their podcasts. In the Cut video, Bobby mentioned wanting to be able to have relationships with other women, but I know that Khalyla and him have opened up the relationship to have a more polyamorous one at one point, and Bobby didn't like that and decided to close the relationship back up as a result. To be fair, it's one thing to want to have multiple partners and another thing to be ok with your partner having multiple partners (which is hypocritical if that's the case), but the thing he claims was the reason for their break-up was a scenario that Khalyla once allowed him to have. In fact, Khalyla was in a polyamorous relationship before her relationship with Bobby, so it's clear that he could have options if he really wanted to and still have Khalyla as well. Because of that I kind of disregarded what Bobby was saying because of this, and assumed he was giving some bullshit, cliche line of the spark was just lost, but Anthony you make a great point. Maybe they both struggle with being intimate and emotionally vulnerable with one another which makes sense for two individuals who have experienced childhood trauma including sexual trauma. Also, I think it's harder for Bobby as a comedian/entertainer because his whole job description is dressing up serious matters with bullshit and jokes. He makes a living off of deflecting with humor which unfortunately is the anti-thesis to emotional intimacy. Plus, I would bet that since he attributes so much of his charm to his humor it would be harder for him to drop the facade, because not only does he believe that he'll be vulnerable, but he'll no longer be attractive to women because that's the only skill he believes he has or will ever have. It doesn't help that he's a recovering addict when addiction really is just chronic avoidance, which is also not conducive to intimacy. Yeah, you have revealed and helped me think about a lot of things once again Anthony lol.
@bigcityman72639 ай бұрын
Jeeze, very good comment hope tha creator sees this! Great analysis and thoughts!
@user-20deal10 ай бұрын
"even your partner is branding for you" 10:22 wow i have never heard anyone put it like that. that is truly how so many people treat potential partners and dates. thank u for your wisdom
@AnthonyRecenello10 ай бұрын
Luv u
@charyse136110 ай бұрын
I love how you explained attraction and how it’s a pull toward and not away. Thanks Anthony, great vid as always
@AnthonyRecenello10 ай бұрын
im so glad that resonated w u char
@user-20deal10 ай бұрын
13:57 THE WAY HE STARTED DYING AT THE BOOGER STORY HAHAHHA
@AR-ws1co10 ай бұрын
Loved how you broke down the performative nature of sex and where people default. Feel like you nailed it on the head as far as lack of vulnerability. Big Tiger Belly fan so was great hearing an outside perspective.
@AnthonyRecenello10 ай бұрын
Thanks so much yes ive done alot of performative stuff in my life and things didnt get better until i stopped performing and started engaging
@kitokuari10 ай бұрын
I wish they see this video, not to get back together but so they realize stuff.
@AnthonyRecenello10 ай бұрын
I’m just glad you saw this video 🙏🏻
@anadventure12986 ай бұрын
The podcast episode of them announcing their breakup would be a better interaction to view. It was emotional and very telling.
@GannaLavrova10 ай бұрын
Love your videos Anthony! Glad you started posting more 😊
@AnthonyRecenello10 ай бұрын
It’s gonna be at least two a week for now on. Hope to see you u more
@diary_in_motion5 ай бұрын
THE GAGGING LMAO
@boyntonpaek874310 ай бұрын
Hey Anthony, can't believe you did them! So glad you did! That relationship was sooooo messy. It was polyamorous, but only on Khalyla's side. They stopped being intimate so they agreed on those terms (with one man of her choice), but it ended up just hurting both of them. I think they're much better as just friends.
@AnthonyRecenello10 ай бұрын
interesting! thanks so much bud
@gergoliath232810 ай бұрын
Hi Anthony I got the same problem with how I view sex as artificial performance and I wanted to ask you if you got any book recommendation on this topic or everybody else guys.
@AnthonyRecenello10 ай бұрын
No need for books. Just focus 100% on the vulnerable connection between u and the other person. And take ur time to super duper enjoy the experience. Don’t hide or hold anything back. Be as passionate as possible 👌🏻
@Chrisopsful10 ай бұрын
@anthonyrecenello Could make a video about being more intimate and emotionalley vulnerable? I still struggle with showing my weaknesses to women.
@teresatennis10 ай бұрын
This viedo was heartbreaking. This sweet girl needs to MOVE on. I don't even know who the guy is, but I hate him for wasting her time. I hope she didn't give up wanting to have kids for this clown. He doesn't deserve her at ALL. Thanks as always for your insights Anthony, you're the best and what the dating coach this world needs.
@AnthonyRecenello10 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Just_City10 ай бұрын
Can you do a vid on Rio from “good girls” and explain why woman love him? Thanks
@siaahale1310 ай бұрын
craaaazy request😭
@Just_City10 ай бұрын
@@siaahale13ik, but I’ve seen so many white and black woman get/look for this Hispanic/Latino archetype and I don’t get it 😅
@AnthonyRecenello10 ай бұрын
plz DM me with vids and details. as i know nothing about this.
@Just_City10 ай бұрын
@@AnthonyRecenelloon instagram?
@siaahale1310 ай бұрын
@@Just_City it’s simply bc he’s attractive and has a way with words. that’ll attract anybody. nothing more to it lmao
@shircas0110 ай бұрын
Need you to analyze Rylee Arnold and Harry Jowsey!!! Please!
@AnthonyRecenello10 ай бұрын
can u plz DM me vids of them you want me to react to? that's the best way.
@shircas0110 ай бұрын
@@AnthonyRecenello I can’t DM you on insta, is there a way to DM on KZbin??
@AnthonyRecenello10 ай бұрын
recenello@gmail.com
@angeliquebotha12310 ай бұрын
Just a side note, his parent’s relationship was really fucked, dad was abusive to the whole family. He has a lot of trauma
@twilit6 ай бұрын
he said he’s been killing it you underestimate money game humor and his nonthreatening stature. but yes he has serious commitment issues
@PPG61st10 ай бұрын
Lmfao this whole video is so bad knowing what people actually know about them 🤣🤣 anyone can play a nice girl on Camera , behind the scenes is completely different
@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed10 ай бұрын
I fkin love bobby omg😂❤
@AnthonyRecenello10 ай бұрын
yeah hes great did u see him in and just like that
@KhalylaKuhnt10 ай бұрын
Anthony, you are so ignorant to their whole deal and its not your fault. Ill give you some insight of one of the reasons they broke up. KK was getting her gutz decimated by Big D Hawaiian while bobby was in rehab,she has also tried to cucckk him multiple times and it took bobbys addiction coming back for her to be able to go to hawaii and get her back blown out. Also she left him at rehab even when the conditions were not the best. She a master manipulator and you fell for her fake persona so easily, she is not no vulnerable person she is someone that would write some cringey poems and took advantage of bobby.
@AnthonyRecenello10 ай бұрын
Thank you! So you’re saying she cheated on Bobby?
@miminaomi-jg8ey7 ай бұрын
They had an open relationship because Bobby is a porn addict and didn't have sex with her anymore. The way you're writing about her is disgusting and very telling on how you view women in general. Not to mention your username. You're genuinely such a weirdo.
@BiniBandito10 ай бұрын
its all bobbys fault then simp take
@AnthonyRecenello10 ай бұрын
Joel ur prob used to seeing people on the internet drop buzzwords without explanation and I see you doing it too. On this part of the internet we have discussions. You can explain more than this, I’ll listen to you.
@jonathanjames718110 ай бұрын
I wonder why they don't just try an open relationship...
@savage_optimist10 ай бұрын
They did
@swankocean9410 ай бұрын
They were in an open relationship , theres alot of background info not in the video that happened that ruined the relationship