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Former FBI agent and body language expert Joe Navarro sits down with WIRED to talk about the non-verbal language of appearance. The ornate nature of how we attend to our bodies has grand significance throughout humankind. The way we present ourselves, across cultures, continues to be of massive importance. But, just how important is appearance to things like success, money and power?
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@plr2473
@plr2473 Жыл бұрын
As a high school teacher it amazes me how attractive students get treated better. Even the teachers give them more attention. Unfortunately, some of them have terrible attitudes they think they can get away with. Often they do
@meladversity
@meladversity Жыл бұрын
and on the other hand you have teachers who treat you worse for it, because they want to teach you a life lesson or whatever. expericences both as a teen and wish someone would've left their personal insecurities out of my school life (positive or negative)
@eddiebear34
@eddiebear34 Жыл бұрын
@@meladversity so you are calling yourself good looking, is that right? And teachers bullied you for it? Sounds like lies to me tbh
@lucky-mud
@lucky-mud Жыл бұрын
Seems totally plausible to me. I don’t see the need to bring this person down or call them a liar
@SchgurmTewehr
@SchgurmTewehr Жыл бұрын
The Manipulation previously only used by psychopaths and other anti-Social personality types has now become widespread and acceptable behavior, yes.
@juanarocha8629
@juanarocha8629 Жыл бұрын
Halo effect
@puipuipui3304
@puipuipui3304 Жыл бұрын
My new fav quote- “Please stop worrying about what you look like as a result of how you were born. Let’s take what we have, and let’s see what we can do.”
@zackcarl7861
@zackcarl7861 Жыл бұрын
Let's summarise:- 1)look good naturally if not , dress well and do makeup to change what you can leave what you can't (or shadow it) 2) be wired to stand out , be different if you can 3) be consistent build a image around yourself that says he is always powerful
@adedtz8257
@adedtz8257 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this
@kerebaka
@kerebaka Жыл бұрын
and keep vulnerabilities and struggles private.
@dabieyo
@dabieyo Жыл бұрын
When you thought you weren't much to look at because of societal beauty standards but then discovered that even babies could potentially ugly shame you :')
@taehanazono4943
@taehanazono4943 Жыл бұрын
He did explain that how you present yourself changes how people see you, so if there's something you would like to change, try it. Your attractiveness also depends on confidence. People find you more attractive if you are confident.
@sarahsanchez6821
@sarahsanchez6821 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@GMAMEC
@GMAMEC Жыл бұрын
Sometimes it just takes a little more time to get inside, but once you’re in, it’s all about character and how you make people feel.
@jrv_chaos4329
@jrv_chaos4329 Жыл бұрын
@@taehanazono4943 I know several people first hand who stand head and solders above others based on only confidence and there ability to communicate
@JJs_playground
@JJs_playground Жыл бұрын
Lmfao 🤣🤣
@MartyD
@MartyD Жыл бұрын
It helps to be tall and attractive.
@nugboy420
@nugboy420 Жыл бұрын
And not fat
@cg7926
@cg7926 Жыл бұрын
N rich n famous n
@tontolinification
@tontolinification Жыл бұрын
And rich 🤑
@axeavier
@axeavier Жыл бұрын
And white, and fully able, and male
@sandg507
@sandg507 Жыл бұрын
And not crippling anxiety
@corycourtney8923
@corycourtney8923 Жыл бұрын
I will watch every Joe Narvarro video as soon as it hits my radar. Wired needs to give him a full staff role if he's interested. He needs a weekly show packed with tips. The information he provides is priceless.
@stellviahohenheim
@stellviahohenheim Жыл бұрын
He seems to say really obvious stuff though not really mind blowing
@corycourtney8923
@corycourtney8923 Жыл бұрын
​@@stellviahohenheim Maybe true, but I also think it's how it's presented. Sometimes the method is the message. This is packaged to get the attention of people who might not see it as obvious.
@stayquko8948
@stayquko8948 Жыл бұрын
trustttt.. ive enjoyed his episodes sm
@minhphuongnguyen7172
@minhphuongnguyen7172 Жыл бұрын
Yessssssss
@DarkAngelEU
@DarkAngelEU Жыл бұрын
@@stellviahohenheim It's obvious, but his explanation WHY is very fascinating and sounds scientifically accurate.
@kaylenvee8150
@kaylenvee8150 Жыл бұрын
It's kind of fascinating that even across all these cultures, all these different types of people in the past that haven't met or interacted with anyone outside their group, somehow all deviated to the same, super specific aspect, like having something big and tall on your head as a symbol of power. It's pretty amazing if you think about it.
@olohialli9289
@olohialli9289 Жыл бұрын
Yes; and for me though, it just goes to prove one thing. At our very core, we are all the same
@Yt-qi9ot
@Yt-qi9ot Жыл бұрын
If we all looked at each other's butts when we talked, we might adorn our asses with crowns instead 😂
@someonejustsomeone1469
@someonejustsomeone1469 Жыл бұрын
Likely based on mimicking animals. Lions with big manes, peacocks with large feathers, etc. have always stood out as powerful. Humans simply copied that.
@Fujtajblus
@Fujtajblus 7 ай бұрын
Human nature
@Arcessitor
@Arcessitor 5 ай бұрын
That's because our similarities and differences are biological, not 'cultural.' Culture is just an expression of genes.
@GMAMEC
@GMAMEC Жыл бұрын
I have noticed people behave differently when they are dressed professionally. If you’re in a position to observe several meetings, observe people dressed casually (usually a Casual Friday) vs. a regular business day. The same individuals usually behave differently.
@lynnebattaglia-triggs1042
@lynnebattaglia-triggs1042 Жыл бұрын
Nothing new. This is why private schools have always demanded that students dress up.
@blackpilledchad1927
@blackpilledchad1927 Жыл бұрын
LOL. You discovered fire, my friend 🤣🤣🤣
@Yt-qi9ot
@Yt-qi9ot Жыл бұрын
Casual Friday, the OG morale booster
@wanyekest6969
@wanyekest6969 Жыл бұрын
Dingus
@portsac
@portsac Жыл бұрын
I noticed that too I wonder y they change I noticed it alot in my pass relationship my ex would dress up and changed 🤔
@sheltongolden4394
@sheltongolden4394 Жыл бұрын
I'd like to see a video on how extraversion/introversion affects success.
@AnaBotticelli
@AnaBotticelli Жыл бұрын
Yes, please
@DreamCatcher-wg1bk
@DreamCatcher-wg1bk Жыл бұрын
Bill Gates & Elon Musk are both example of successful introverts.
@samc5794
@samc5794 Жыл бұрын
@@DreamCatcher-wg1bk but also only two individuals and freakish ones at that.
@piriyaj1347
@piriyaj1347 Жыл бұрын
I don’t think introverts overall like to be in the spotlight anyway 😂 so even if there were a lot of money to be made, it would not be considered ’success’ for them by any means
@ziplock8316
@ziplock8316 Жыл бұрын
@@DreamCatcher-wg1bk Marrying some hobo singer and giving the child the most fuckall name imaginable is not introvertion. It shows mental imbalance.
@costaches
@costaches Жыл бұрын
I adore Joe's videos! He explains modestly, with proof, and logical explanations, if something doesn't know or is not sure about - he admits it. A great expert!
@eterterashvili4134
@eterterashvili4134 Жыл бұрын
I love this man. Can @WIRED post more videos of him? They are really educating. Joe Navarro could be an amazing lecturer.
@danceswithdirt7197
@danceswithdirt7197 Жыл бұрын
They only seem to post videos starring him when he is promoting a book so maybe that's the only time he agrees to do videos. I wonder if Wired pays him.
@younesmohssen8158
@younesmohssen8158 Жыл бұрын
He has a book that goes deep into non verbals. He’s ex CIA I think
@oxide9679
@oxide9679 Жыл бұрын
@@younesmohssen8158 Retired FBI
@oxide9679
@oxide9679 Жыл бұрын
@@danceswithdirt7197 He tours and lectures live on Non-Verbal Communication and has given at least one TEDx talk that can be found on KZbin
@danceswithdirt7197
@danceswithdirt7197 Жыл бұрын
@@oxide9679 I think that's what he does now since he's not FBI. It seems a lot of WIRED guests use videos like this as publicity. It's interesting how this sort of thing (videos on KZbin) used to be this sort of niche and now it's more part of the mainstream press campaign for their products.
@MT.2012
@MT.2012 Жыл бұрын
One more thing that was overlooked is the way a person speaks. The tone and speed of your speech will greatly affect how people perceive you.
@DarkAngelEU
@DarkAngelEU Жыл бұрын
Don't forget accents. In any culture, accents have significance and will add to the perception of the speaker.
@annalvarez3247
@annalvarez3247 Жыл бұрын
I always look forward to Mr.Navarros videos 👍 I hope to see him more often in wired
@ATGG
@ATGG Жыл бұрын
Yay!!! Joe Navarro!! Thank you, again, for this video!
@JoDo777
@JoDo777 Жыл бұрын
Don't forget many, MANY narcissists/sociopaths are dressed beautifully/handsomely. Never judge a book by it's cover. Judge by character!
@onkelpappkov2666
@onkelpappkov2666 Жыл бұрын
Unless you can't read that character because they're a psychopath, in which case judge by their actions! But if the actions are based on a mental health issue...
@mqk_
@mqk_ Жыл бұрын
Well said
@045632
@045632 Жыл бұрын
because we know the game
@blackpilledchad1927
@blackpilledchad1927 Жыл бұрын
You mean they are BEAUTIFUL or HANDSOME lol
@markmessi9020
@markmessi9020 Жыл бұрын
@@onkelpappkov2666 Unless then don't do. Don't do anything don't do it!!! No there's consequences to doing anything!!!
@MoMo2E
@MoMo2E Жыл бұрын
Very informative Thanks a lot for sharing
@AnKore1984
@AnKore1984 Жыл бұрын
What an interesting informative video! Thank you, Mr. Navarro for all the informatotion you provide!
@manillascissor
@manillascissor Жыл бұрын
Love Joe Navarro so much. Probably cause he's wearing a suit
@INDIANXxhgpp9907
@INDIANXxhgpp9907 Жыл бұрын
2:12 5:50malcom gladwell 7:00 4. Perception manage 8:44 trust is our ability to relax
@TikiOperator
@TikiOperator Жыл бұрын
"If the women don't find you handsome, they should at least find you handy!" A more perfect combination of words cannot be spoken, hail
@gus473
@gus473 Жыл бұрын
♥️💚👍🏼😎🇨🇦
@jamesstephenpeyton3305
@jamesstephenpeyton3305 Жыл бұрын
Credit goes to Red Green
@farhanaditya2647
@farhanaditya2647 Жыл бұрын
But what exactly is "handy"?
@MobileComputing
@MobileComputing Жыл бұрын
but a handsome person can also be handy...
@edmyeg
@edmyeg Жыл бұрын
@@MobileComputing yes but a ugly person can't be handsome so they gotta be handy
@katyinvierte
@katyinvierte Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing such interesting topics, I really admire this man. 👏
@staycutene8085
@staycutene8085 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I will consider your suggesting into my life.
@ladariussanders4278
@ladariussanders4278 Жыл бұрын
It helps to be attractive in general but being tall and attractive makes it even better but being attractive is enough to get you where you wanna go
@mariarosariaascione3898
@mariarosariaascione3898 Жыл бұрын
i love this guy, his videos are the best of the channel
@HumayunKabir_1971
@HumayunKabir_1971 Жыл бұрын
" Please stop worrying about what you look like as a result of how you were born. Let's take what we have and let's see what we can do with it."
@Henry_The_Second
@Henry_The_Second 3 ай бұрын
🙏 This comment has my respect
@gorzkawodka
@gorzkawodka Жыл бұрын
In real life it's just like he said, when you dress up, people treat you better, and I don't mean expensive designer clothes, but just looking neat and put together. Anyway it's surprising that in USA majority of ppl don't think much about their appearance and wear just whatever while in Europe ppl put a lot of effort to look good.
@laliday
@laliday Жыл бұрын
I just spent a month in your father's country, and I can't say that people were dressed better there. People are just as sloppy as in the US if not more. The fabrics they wore were thin and cheap, the fake eyelashes made them look immature, the neck tattoos made them look unprofessional, lots of moms wore really short shorts, men wore sloppy and thin tshirts or pants that were too tight. I don't care about it that much, but feelings of superiority are just that, they are feelings not facts.
@gorzkawodka
@gorzkawodka Жыл бұрын
@@laliday I wonder which country you visited, cause your description hardly matches my father's country, where only about 1% of society has any tattoo and where fake lashes are worn by hookers and teenage girls experimenting with fashion trends.
@grovert4life
@grovert4life 2 ай бұрын
In which country were you though?
@osmondnoakes6675
@osmondnoakes6675 Жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree it promotes one in a more positive light but maybe not when its gets too warm in these warmer temperatures !!
@susantownsend8397
@susantownsend8397 11 ай бұрын
When I taught 7th and 8th grade we sometimes had dress up days. It was amazing how much overall behavior improved on those days.
@shaatiusmani6211
@shaatiusmani6211 Жыл бұрын
Woahhh how come i didnt know that your video came out. Please upload more videos of Joe Navarro
@DPiii127
@DPiii127 Жыл бұрын
When I joined the Marine Corps infantry, I weighed 112 lbs at 5’11”. I got picked on and beat up a lot my first year. I jumped on the juice train & blew up to 190 lbs with 4.5% body fat in less than 8 months. The way I was treated was night and day. I didn’t change anything other than my physical appearance.
@blaiseronstadt6306
@blaiseronstadt6306 Жыл бұрын
Good Morning 🌄 Mr. Navarro, , you have Reafirmed, and Honed, Many of my communication, and Interaction skills. Thank You, It's Basically what my Mother has been Telling me 50 plus Years
@perfectpitch2506
@perfectpitch2506 Жыл бұрын
Joe Navarro is back!!
@LucasTOrz
@LucasTOrz Жыл бұрын
I like his speech calm soothing yet informative. Thanks mr fbi.
@WhatTheHe11isTHAT
@WhatTheHe11isTHAT Жыл бұрын
I’m 6’4” and fairly good looking and people bully me because of it. I’ve actually been walked over most of my life. Trying to learn how to get stronger.
@jeremye1448
@jeremye1448 Жыл бұрын
Learn mma
@Daniel-fj8eu
@Daniel-fj8eu Жыл бұрын
Because you are "competition". People try to bring down the competition. Be strong but warm.
@potofgreeed
@potofgreeed 6 ай бұрын
You are probably a "gentle giant." A lot of people don't know how to handle those types. Wishing you luck!
@lmperfection
@lmperfection 7 ай бұрын
Please do another video about what our grooming/clothing/makeup communicates to other people!
@smacky1966
@smacky1966 Жыл бұрын
Three points-I am 5' 11" tall. 1. Many years ago a new IMax Movie Theater Opened in my hometown and my boss gave me her VIP Tickets for the Grand Opening Party. All of the city's business and community leaders were invited. I noticed right away that the vast majority of the men were taller than me and I'd say the average height of the men was 6'1"-6'2". 2. I can off the top of my head think of four college buddies who are 6'4" or taller. They were average students and all four of them are very successful. 3. The income inequality between very attractive people and average looking people is higher than the income inequality between whites and minority groups.
@cadeevans4623
@cadeevans4623 Жыл бұрын
Very informative interesting thanks for sharing this
@suechapel1443
@suechapel1443 Жыл бұрын
Fascinating info. As an older woman, though, comfort is more important than beauty! lol
@lanaj1107
@lanaj1107 Жыл бұрын
You can do both!
@gordatados
@gordatados Жыл бұрын
As a younger person, I agree comfort is better. 😄
@natalyaakselaleksander4502
@natalyaakselaleksander4502 Жыл бұрын
The two are not necessarily mutually exclusive…
@jessiecoastaliving
@jessiecoastaliving Жыл бұрын
@@lanaj1107 yea that’s called natural beauty. Nothing more needed
@daquieshakeaundra2854
@daquieshakeaundra2854 Жыл бұрын
Ofc now comfort matter more to you since you can t use beauty anymore ain t no one like wrinkles,dry 🍑.
@101jir
@101jir 6 ай бұрын
In highschool I didn't have the best hygiene, even relative to most of my peers. I was always pretty nerdy, but I would always try to stand up for myself when picked on (not always effectively). I always tried to give every new kid the best chance, and tried to be respectful (though my understanding of what that meant was not always accurate). I wasn't shy about my enjoyment of most academics, and I was good at some I didn't enjoy (such as math) and enjoyed some that I wasn't good at (art, woodshop). Despite my poor presentation, my senior yearbook I was one of three students my peers considered "most likely to be president." Fast forward in life, most people wouldn't consider me very successful. Academic skills that seemed nice on the surface I was not able to capitalize on due to a lack of other skills. Life is odd that way.
@Mrs.TJTaylor
@Mrs.TJTaylor 2 ай бұрын
What an interesting comment! Hope your hygiene has improved.
@andybp872
@andybp872 Жыл бұрын
Please stop worrying about what you look like as a result of how you were born. Lets take what we have and lets see what we can do with it.. Golden quote IMO.
@planu9031
@planu9031 Жыл бұрын
But its just to show how hard you be if you are unattractive and disabled the journey is so much harder
@macaroni586
@macaroni586 Жыл бұрын
@@planu9031 it also tells you that you could improve on it to. I mean why do you think girls where heels
@1HeatWalk
@1HeatWalk Жыл бұрын
Scientifically, shorter people live longer than their taller/bigger counter parts. Big bodies put more stress on the heart like dogs.
@Iam_mahesh
@Iam_mahesh Жыл бұрын
interesting, thanks for the info
@alexc8512
@alexc8512 Жыл бұрын
Well social media algorithms is a testament to how much beauty and attractiveness matters to humans.
@3432stars
@3432stars Жыл бұрын
Keep bringing Joe back!!!
@shoubiaokuang747
@shoubiaokuang747 Жыл бұрын
Superb analysis
@orestessantander1275
@orestessantander1275 Жыл бұрын
Very interesting ,also a antropholigical vision of "cultural codes" on each contexts. Congrats , good job.
@avayu2289
@avayu2289 Жыл бұрын
Interesting. As a life long fitness enthusiast, my conclusion is that health is beauty and vice versa….
@margo3367
@margo3367 10 ай бұрын
Confidence and a positive attitude can be very attractive too. A beautiful smile can light up even the face of a “plain” person.
@brittanyhinch512
@brittanyhinch512 5 ай бұрын
Thanks Joe!
@HereIAm247
@HereIAm247 Жыл бұрын
Regarding the clothes, I think it is not just about being 'well dressed', but about being appropriately dressed for the occasion. :) Grooming is definitely important always. But if you wore full black tie on a regular workday, people would probably give you strange looks. What a suit does for men, and a Galla dress for women, is it enhance their masculine or feminine physique. But it also create an appearance of good posture, even if you don't have it in reality. Good posture also signals self worth and confidence, and projecting 'I am a person of high value' to other people. This is actually the main reason why people find suits attractive; it is not just that it shows money/power/success (someone with great skills/mental energy, who have a lot to contribute with, and would be a good connection to have). It is that it enhances all the biologically most attractive things about men. (and the dress does the same for women). When you notice, being 'well dressed' today means to have selected garments of good quality, a look that is aesthetically pleasing and enhances your best features, as well as being well groomed and display good posture/confidence. Good grooming is what makes or breaks the look - not the clothing alone. Additionally, while past societies had a lot of focus on money and power, modern society place more and more value on character instead. Therefore, it becomes a form of power statement to wear baggy clothes and 'not caring' about appearance. The key here is to be well groomed and have good posture, even if you are very casually dressed. People who wear 'power clothes' are more often well groomed and displays confidence, than people who don't. But the 'power' of the suit is more how it makes the man feel about himself, not so much how formal it is. :)
@adolfhitler2155
@adolfhitler2155 11 ай бұрын
You're really smart
@bekbek8848
@bekbek8848 Жыл бұрын
Clicked immediately, Joe Navarro
@atomwaffen7943
@atomwaffen7943 Жыл бұрын
Being short as a man is playing life in hard mode.
@KeepingOnTheWatch
@KeepingOnTheWatch Жыл бұрын
Agreed! Also, being short AND unattractive is playing life in ‘exasperating’ mode.
@romanaguilar7277
@romanaguilar7277 Жыл бұрын
@@KeepingOnTheWatch in what way
@Kozli1985
@Kozli1985 Жыл бұрын
Tell that to Putin, Stalin, Hitler, Toto Rina, Napoleon or Mike Tyson.
@prestigebro4390
@prestigebro4390 Жыл бұрын
And the short guys that make it are as tough as men can get
@herohonda4183
@herohonda4183 Жыл бұрын
@@Kozli1985 Mike Tyson is 5’ 10” he is not short at all. The napoleon one is a big myth and it has been debunked already. While the hitler and Stalin are valid examples, they weren’t super short for their their time. All studies show that a person’s height has a very positive correlation between their income
@kemalistdevrimturkaydnlanm168
@kemalistdevrimturkaydnlanm168 24 күн бұрын
Depends on the person who is interview you, her/ his mood at the time, physical needs at the moment, perception also plays a huge role. If a person is hungry will be negative, if had a lunch will be more positive. If the interviewer has biases will also make a difference.
@sayuri3917
@sayuri3917 3 ай бұрын
"Let's take whats we have and let's see qe can do with it". If we all have this mindset, in any aspect, our lives will be better. No doubt.
@ernestofurchtgott5421
@ernestofurchtgott5421 Жыл бұрын
It’s a great lesson on branding
@ronnieadrian9843
@ronnieadrian9843 Жыл бұрын
Excellent 😊👍
@yournonfavoriteperson9964
@yournonfavoriteperson9964 Жыл бұрын
Richard Feynman's dad to his son: "Now, look at those humans. Here’s one human standing here, and all these others are bowing in front of him. Now, what’s the difference? This one is the pope. This difference is the hat he’s wearing.
@irwinshung809
@irwinshung809 Жыл бұрын
I was just thinking about that. I believe Feynman's point was that he considered status signals as nonsense. I wish more people saw things this way, to be honest!
@imicca
@imicca Жыл бұрын
Amazing guy
@wh0tube
@wh0tube Жыл бұрын
I’d like to see a video on how money affects wealth! 😁
@xRooze
@xRooze Жыл бұрын
This guy is more of a history teacher than anything
@ratherb_skating7145
@ratherb_skating7145 Жыл бұрын
Seriously, all hr did was give example after example after example of people who dressed a certain way rather than actually getting to the point
@xRooze
@xRooze Жыл бұрын
@@ratherb_skating7145 He also didnt talk about body language like posture, eye contact etc.
@boomernality1904
@boomernality1904 Жыл бұрын
People here forgetting. It's not that you won't or can't be successful if you're short and or not good looking. It's just that it's a disadvantage to be that, which we all know is true. Stop looking for the exception to the rule.
@cinthyasalas2360
@cinthyasalas2360 Жыл бұрын
We can all agree that Joe is the “Man”
@michaelohair3715
@michaelohair3715 Жыл бұрын
Nobody on the internet has anything better to say than this man does. He's as good as you will see here.
@SniperNator305
@SniperNator305 Жыл бұрын
Wrong (I'm wearing a suit)
@kingcarlos4348
@kingcarlos4348 Жыл бұрын
Is he really saying anything new? Pretty basic observations
@dlo556
@dlo556 Жыл бұрын
Incredibly debatable
@defaultworkouts
@defaultworkouts Жыл бұрын
mia khalifa is pretty good...
@tofuguru941
@tofuguru941 Жыл бұрын
As a species, we have a long way to go. Giving value in something so ridiculous speaks volumes about what else we like to hide behind makeup and facades.
@sfrealestatedealmaker6001
@sfrealestatedealmaker6001 Жыл бұрын
It’s hard wired in our subconscious. Can’t change it.
@maryrichardson6029
@maryrichardson6029 Жыл бұрын
Interesting. Thank you. Peace 💕🇺🇲
@judyl.7811
@judyl.7811 Жыл бұрын
顏值決定一切? 0:55 we prefer people that are well-groomed and well-dressed. 1:05 very padded shoulders 墊肩 3:53 beauty dividend 美貌紅利 5:49 height dividend 身高紅利 6:05 攝影機跟被照的人 6:21 presidential election is 9 feet apart. 7:37 the hair is straight down is perceived strength. 9:37 they're eligible for courtship 求愛 10:49 they're in essence saying 基本上是說
@lexilamonica7
@lexilamonica7 Жыл бұрын
Really good!
@derisory
@derisory Жыл бұрын
You could do a whole episode on Zelensky, Putin, Sergiy Kyslytsya, and Lavrov. Frankly I think Sergiy is incredibly underappreciated for how well he has maintained an image that allows him to bluntly cut through bs and rally support.
@onetonsoupp
@onetonsoupp Жыл бұрын
Putin and lavrov are not humans.
@Aftershock416
@Aftershock416 Жыл бұрын
Don't really think we need to give war criminals more publicity.
@yungjoemighty879
@yungjoemighty879 Жыл бұрын
So you love fascists
@bekbek8848
@bekbek8848 Жыл бұрын
Westernized brainwashed people don't like them
@-AxisA-
@-AxisA- Жыл бұрын
So more drip is always good!
@v1nnnny
@v1nnnny Жыл бұрын
King is back
@puppy1981
@puppy1981 Жыл бұрын
My last girlfriend told me our relationship would have been x10 better if I’d have had another 4 inches… My height was not a problem though.
@prakharranjan6388
@prakharranjan6388 Жыл бұрын
Underrated comment!
@cedriceric9730
@cedriceric9730 Жыл бұрын
4 inches where? there ! oh ok
@SuperCaptain4
@SuperCaptain4 Жыл бұрын
@@cedriceric9730 she had a toe fetish I've heard
@sikes346
@sikes346 Жыл бұрын
pretty sure she wasnt talking about your height
@puppy1981
@puppy1981 Жыл бұрын
@@sikes346 well duhhhh
@LittleMissRaeRae69
@LittleMissRaeRae69 Жыл бұрын
I still wonder to this day, why did everyone in high school like me although I dressed really strange? I wore way too much makeup, really big hair, neon colored non matching clothes and plastic beaded bracelets up to my elbows. I was really confident and popular, but other people who dressed like me were bullied (until I told everyone I thought they were cool, then everyone stopped picking on them)
@morganmuldoon
@morganmuldoon Жыл бұрын
@MaryRae I can't give you a direct answer, but I had a similar high school experience and I went to 3 high schools and acted differently at all of them. At one, I would act like you did and mind my own business. I was weird, I would paint my nails crazy, wear too much make up, dress gothic one day and 80s neon the next. I was also nice to everyone and everyone wanted me to sit with them at lunch and I basically ran that school for no reason. At the 2nd school I tried to fit in, dressed casual and preppy and tried to make friends. I had way less attention that way and most "cliques" didn't care for me. At the 3rd school I made a conscious effort to dress casual AND keep to myself. Everyone AGAIN wanted to be my friend, know my story, and figure me out. It seemed like it was more a personality thing for me than what I wore so maybe it was actually the same for you! And then there is the variable that is other people. Highschoolers aren't very predictable 😆
@faithtvonline
@faithtvonline Жыл бұрын
I think you used the key word: confidence. They wore the same things but were not confident.
@sandroribeiro7644
@sandroribeiro7644 Жыл бұрын
You answered your own question when you said you were confident.
@okhera1
@okhera1 Жыл бұрын
Very Nice Bro! Get Good People!
@davidr4523
@davidr4523 Жыл бұрын
As someone who is a little over 6'6'' yes I have seen taller people do well in sports, with women and have been offered more leadership roles. However I have seen shorter men try harder and have more grit in not giving up. But as the Stoics of Stoicism say, you should only think about what is in your control. So for the many times I wished I was shorter when I banged my head in doorway, was on an uncomfortable plane flight, could not find clothes that fit me or have people not want to speak with me because of the large height differential, I refused to even think a thought I had no control over.
@shakey3306
@shakey3306 Жыл бұрын
There’s limb lengthening surgery as well as shortening surgery, i’m gonna be 6’3” and still wear 3” shoes to be 6’6”, but it’s true you should focus on what you can change
@Chereese0808
@Chereese0808 Жыл бұрын
Very rare to see suits here in Hawaii. Years ago 30ish, men had to wear ties to enter most nightclubs. Now barefoot and bikinis seem OK. No matter what, people will flaunt their looks.
@martinlopez4719
@martinlopez4719 Жыл бұрын
I love this
@esteban1487
@esteban1487 Жыл бұрын
Of COURSE it does.
@pwdf58789
@pwdf58789 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@26maria_ray
@26maria_ray Жыл бұрын
True
@86nanaki
@86nanaki Жыл бұрын
Richard Feynman's dad to his son: "Now, look at those humans. Here’s one human standing here, and all these others are bowing in front of him. Now, what’s the difference? This one is the pope. This difference is the hat he’s wearing.”
@rajavarma1015
@rajavarma1015 5 ай бұрын
“ Let’s take what we have and let’s see what we can do with it “
@rachelcrawley1188
@rachelcrawley1188 Жыл бұрын
Such an interesting point about quinceaneras and debutante balls! It seems like prom, homecoming dance, etc. fill that purpose in the US
@soogood1339
@soogood1339 Жыл бұрын
Помним этого эксперта))
@Ai-yq8rb
@Ai-yq8rb Жыл бұрын
В смысле?
@NobertDeNiro
@NobertDeNiro Жыл бұрын
This is buzzfeed tier insight
@xerx_is_bored
@xerx_is_bored Жыл бұрын
Is that sarcasm😭
@MrSneaksful
@MrSneaksful 2 ай бұрын
It also helps to be born into one of the most wealthiest families in South Africa. That helps.
@dawodtaha1652
@dawodtaha1652 Жыл бұрын
Can you do a Rubik’s cube video about how to solve 3x3 speed cubing method
@hawho6870
@hawho6870 Жыл бұрын
trust is our ability to relax, because we know they will ot let us down.
@annib1362
@annib1362 Жыл бұрын
Most times, outer beauty means confidence or a sense of false bravado. But when someone is not attractive to society's standards, but has an overload of self-confidence in themselves irrespective of others opinion, they will stand out of the crowd enough to make an attractive person with a false confidence loose that "confidence".
@UNITEDstatesNEWS-
@UNITEDstatesNEWS- Жыл бұрын
Nice video 📹
@priyalgupta3588
@priyalgupta3588 Жыл бұрын
How and where to learn it?
@viditpant7641
@viditpant7641 Жыл бұрын
Basically what we have in hand is to learn how to be properly dressed and how to carry ourselves publicly.
@atisjojo1
@atisjojo1 Жыл бұрын
I am short and thus unattractive. But i am happy and thats what matters most.
@julesverneinoz
@julesverneinoz Жыл бұрын
This is interesting but unfortunately really only covers a certain type of 'success'. Certain type of appearances (which fits within someone's stereotype of 'that type of person' should look) is the 'easier' and fastest method to gain trust and favourability. So, actually, this is an essay on how appearance affects trust and favorability than it is about success as 'success' is subjective.
@asokt4931
@asokt4931 Жыл бұрын
I do not know about the height dividend because that can partially be answered by parent income and thus diet. But, I mean - overall, we can also say the way one dress is also linked to one socio-economic class and we also have pretty good understand of upward mobility in different countries. In fact, the way you dress is a indeed a class mechanics that gives message to others who is in and who is not in a group. That being said, I do think that better looking folks, and those with above average height probably do better than those who are not...
@khusseinkhomeini
@khusseinkhomeini Жыл бұрын
True that. Better access to nutrition and recreation leads to children growing taller and being more fit. Financial stability can allow for nicer clothes and the purchase of other status symbols. But in the end, it is your character, your beliefs, values, intelligence, and charisma which will help you excel in life.
@ryanortiz2648
@ryanortiz2648 Жыл бұрын
Tall people hater
@bluekeahi3240
@bluekeahi3240 Жыл бұрын
Japan and Korea is an example how better nutrition improve height. Compare their pre world war height and the current modern height.
@E.S.Aneesh.N.I.S
@E.S.Aneesh.N.I.S Жыл бұрын
" A successful man is of ordinary height with laser like focus " - Bruce Lee🔥
@JuanMPalacio
@JuanMPalacio Жыл бұрын
I don’t think he actually said that.
@darnitthelma4247
@darnitthelma4247 Жыл бұрын
Bruce was short 😂
@TheoTattaglia
@TheoTattaglia Жыл бұрын
@@darnitthelma4247 and still he'll be remembered far longer than anyone pictured in this video even if in slightly changed quotes
@immortalxd6190
@immortalxd6190 Жыл бұрын
@@TheoTattaglia exactly
@immortalxd6190
@immortalxd6190 Жыл бұрын
@@darnitthelma4247 yet the world knows him, celebrates him and not average, ordinary individuals like u or me or pretty much anyone in the video here
@justanotherguygeorge3430
@justanotherguygeorge3430 3 ай бұрын
There is something called mindset and strategy they are above any beauty and appearance. (Im 1,95cm )
@CreechJones-fj5ij
@CreechJones-fj5ij 7 ай бұрын
It does help to be tall and attractively dressed, male or female.
@jagejg7239
@jagejg7239 Жыл бұрын
If I always show up late does that contribute towards trust?
@cleigh113
@cleigh113 Жыл бұрын
the short answer to that question is YES it does
@jozsefbiro1849
@jozsefbiro1849 Жыл бұрын
Does as long as height affects personality how you approach people and treat
@soccerparadise374
@soccerparadise374 Жыл бұрын
One should be positive and hold finger for which needs microscop to see and act ahead
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