10 pts to whoever likes this video. 100pts to whoever shares it. lol (but honestly thanks just for being here and watching!)
@mandavvv3 жыл бұрын
i liked this comment too😂
@samueljayakumar61323 жыл бұрын
I liked it and shared it ( on discord ) 😂
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
hahah I wonder how many points that should be lol
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
You are always on another level hahah you and saint luke are gifts from God!
@samueljayakumar61323 жыл бұрын
@@ToriAndChad bro ! Imma cry 😭🤣
@mariaangelika54493 жыл бұрын
The one's who get mad with you for having boundaries are the ones that benefited when you had none.
@jessicaborjas49243 жыл бұрын
I just want to say thank you both so much for modeling what it is like to have a healthy relationship with Christ both individually and as a couple. Chad, you have shown so many of us young women what type of godly man we should be waiting for instead of trying to seek a worldly man on our own. Keep fighting for the Kingdom, we love you both!
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for saying that, Jessica! That is super kind of you. We love and appreciate you!
@audrawelsh84673 жыл бұрын
Same with her, she’s such a good role model for what a Christian woman should look like
@juniaestola36843 жыл бұрын
Yes! Please do the “how to date intentionally” video!! Also love you guys and all the wisdom in these series so much! Not in a relationship at all but definitely building my tool belt! Love how you said that we can take advice for other seasons of life and apply it even though we are not there yet!! Totally believe that!
@keziahmukuhi67983 жыл бұрын
Ohh this makes me more ready than afraid of marriage
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
awww that is so powerful!
@logantyndall9893 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome! This is a solid video!
@keziahmukuhi67983 жыл бұрын
@@logantyndall989yes it is
@averynmitchell3 жыл бұрын
Tori and Chelsea externally processing for 5 hours describes me and my bff’s relationship to a tea ❤️ Such meaningful and blessed friendships! 🙏🏼
@allihernandez37883 жыл бұрын
Yes! Please do a video on intentional dating please! I’m a newly wed, college student, and would very much appreciate ideas and y’all’s perspective!
@saraoliveira84533 жыл бұрын
yes yes yes
@mandavvv3 жыл бұрын
yea my family has always struggled with in-law boundaries. my grandparents forced my parents to live right next to them and let me tell you it has led to some very difficult moments. we’re going through a season right now due to it. please pray for my family! love you guys and God bless💗
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Yeah We don't doubt that at all.. we will pray for you all... for healing for restoration and more!
@allihernandez37883 жыл бұрын
❤️ praying for y’all!
@cheyennepressley5963 жыл бұрын
Praying for you 🙏
@NT-bz5nh3 жыл бұрын
I think it’s a great idea to live away from the families your first year. My husband and I didn’t do this and extended family members regularly bombarded us, invaded our privacy, meddled to the point where there’s now broken relationships with in laws. We were so young and didn’t know how to set boundaries or ask for space but we needed space to figure out married life. We started off rocky and after 6 years, we still fight about our extended families. It’s so important to set the tone in your first year. I only wish I could go back on time and move to a different city and express my needs better.
@diyatrivedi44973 жыл бұрын
I wish there was someone here in India to give such a wise advice to us, but thank God for youtube and you guys! I live in a Joint Family, and I have seen my parents more than often sacrifice their needs and personal space because of not having established boundaries with my grandparents, and guess what, I have been asked to do the same so many times! Does not mean I don't enjoy being with them, honestly I cannot imagine my life without them😂
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Exactly... It is tough when family is involved but that doesn't mean that we don't love them and want them around... Every family dynamic is different and it's definitely important to figure out what is healthy for your mental health, romantic relationship as well as your family goals!
@thelivingsacrifice12 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU! I'm not married yet, but this video helped me think about how I'm setting good boundaries for myself and my future family now!
@shwetav3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! Gosh I'm running out of words to say how grateful I feel to see all that you're contributing towards! To resolve these emotional turbulences and live in a state of emotional equnimity is the delight of the spiritual personality in us. You've managed to always keep that candle of spiritual well being well lit. Thank you for just being so human and sharing the wonderment of being so simple and valuable. You two are a treasure.. ❤
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Aww you're too kind as always... I also have no idea what equnimity means hahah!
@shwetav3 жыл бұрын
@@ToriAndChad It means the calmness you dwell in during difficult times. Something like equilibrium/balance that we all wish to stay along! You're too sweet to ask me the meaning. I shall try to keep my words simpler.. am sorry.
@keana._3 жыл бұрын
What an encouraging description!! Live reading the descriptions to your videos always so good.
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
awww I'm just jacked that yall take the time to read them!
@paulasierra89893 жыл бұрын
I am so far from getting getting married anytime soon but these boundary videos are such a joy to watch and help me out so much! 💗
@davidolah47243 жыл бұрын
Just every video sooo precious!! It's a real treasure to find such meaningful videos with quality message! Just some of my fav highlights and comments - Communication of how we are feeling about certain stuff might be awkward in the beginning and does require quite the humility but the fruit of it is PRICELESS!! - I also really appreciated what you said about not everyone liking to figure things out right at the moment but to just let the other talk with patience and let them pour it out to a same gender friend if desired - and just not having a close or best friend if the opposite gender is extremely important and not at all strange but shows real dedication and true contentment in having the attention and heart of one guy/girl and it's totally healthy!! - also "serving with sex" is so succinct but dead on!! - loved the priority aspect too - 1. God the Father, 2. Marriage, 3. Kids, 4. Ministry, 5. School/work, etc... - something that is actually kinda new is to not put pressure on my wife to be to be EVERYTHING to me or to expect me to be everything to her, but that's so eye-opening!! So many other things but we love your advices especially in this vid and please do keep them coming!!
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Aww thanks a lot, David! That means so much!! Love these comments you are awesome! It makes us feel so special to see these amazing notes!
@davidolah47243 жыл бұрын
Sorry for the long one 🙈 but thank you so much for taking time and reaching out to all of us!! ☺️
@ckelseya2 жыл бұрын
Wooooooo!!!!! Freaking looooove this. Boundaries are so important. I believe with all my being NOT having them is the worst idea
@arianambugua053 жыл бұрын
Congrats you guys for hitting 70k!!! I’m not sure if you’ll see this, but I’m so happy for you guys! Love you and God bless 🥰
@iuliaturcas43483 жыл бұрын
Give me all the advice videos from Tori and Chad! 😄😉 I love listening to your Bible based-wisdom and encouragement! 💛 Thank you for being willing to share with us what God is teaching you!
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Awww yay! Thanks for always being with us, Lulia!!! That means a ton to us!!! We love you!
@iuliaturcas43483 жыл бұрын
@@ToriAndChad 🤍🤍🤍
@editacorrales34893 жыл бұрын
Oh my world! This one is incredible!!! Man, God bless you guys and continue to enlarge your ministry.
@SarahLouUK3 жыл бұрын
Single follower over here but still really appreciating all this advice and guidance on relationships/marriage so thank you!x
@kirstygracee3 жыл бұрын
I have loved all videos from your boundaries series, it’s been so helpful in my life 🙏🏻 trying to learn how to communicate my boundaries and needs have been hard work but I know it = good communication ❤️
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
hard work but so so so important! You got this Kirsty! Thanks for always encouraging us so much!
@hopeadamson82173 жыл бұрын
I don’t think I’ve ever seen a KZbin video with literally 0 dislikes.... I know why tho! we love you guys and you guys do such a good job at making your channel so positive! Always enjoy your videos!!!
@jennyswagly3 жыл бұрын
Wisdom is so important 🙇🏽♀️ Give us more wisdom Holy Spirit 🙏🏾
@MoriahRichter3 жыл бұрын
So good!!!! Newlywed over here and I think these boundaries would really benefit us. ❤️❤️❤️ lots of love!
@angelavanoosten13 жыл бұрын
Make that video about date ideas and intentionality !!
@beatriceanca3 жыл бұрын
So close to hit 70 k!! I'm so happy this channel is growing! 💛💛💛So excited for the future of this channel! ✨
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot!!! can't believe how close we are! If we continue we may be able to hit 100k this year!
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
But honestly, even at this number we are shocked and thankful and happy!
@beatriceanca3 жыл бұрын
@@ToriAndChad Finger crossed🤞
@shaughnsmit20763 жыл бұрын
Boundaries create freedom. There is freedom in responsibility and responsibility in freedom.
@samueljayakumar61323 жыл бұрын
Need to bring out the notebook for this one ...I know it's going to be a Banger !
@shaughnsmit20763 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@samueljayakumar61323 жыл бұрын
@@shaughnsmit2076 hey Shaughn The Man
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
hahahah let us know what you think!
@jemimaabraham53293 жыл бұрын
So true!
@samueljayakumar61323 жыл бұрын
@@ToriAndChad for sure ! Bro Chad, how active are you on signal ? I need some advice from you. Hopefully you could help out ?
@hariXmizu3 жыл бұрын
The lighting in this video is chefs kiss
@montanabuck3 жыл бұрын
Right on time .... 🙏🏻📖☀️🥳 Thanks for making this video. These boundaries are so important! Jesus will help us to love each other better and establish these boundaries for the health and function of healthy marriage. Love it!
@twishamohin3 жыл бұрын
We need "babezzz" merch hahah ❤️ You both are so close to 70K wuho❤️❤️❤️🎉🎉🎉🎉
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Oh dang! I don't know if you know but we actually did design some for our previous launch but it didn't make the final cut!
@samueljayakumar61323 жыл бұрын
Now that's some advice : " We're friends of the opposite sex " 😯👏🏻
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
hahahahah
@samueljayakumar61323 жыл бұрын
To EVERYONE : Want to be more involved with the Mastersfam ? and you got 5bucks to spare ? Go join the Patreon Partay ! Go Go Go !!! We the best Community ! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🕺💃
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
hahaha you are the best!
@samueljayakumar61323 жыл бұрын
@@ToriAndChad helping out in anyway possible 🙂
@vandaaltje3 жыл бұрын
Yess! Totally worth those 5 bucks!🙌🏼 You're getting so much more back from it🔥
@keana._3 жыл бұрын
worth every penny, great investment into community!! 🙌
@samueljayakumar61323 жыл бұрын
@@vandaaltje y'all found it yayy
@marygaychiong9703 жыл бұрын
Why am I smiling like an idiot? 🤣 Thank you guys. 🥰😇
@veritygrace12573 жыл бұрын
Can already tell how awesome this one is gonna be! Love how honest and open you guys are 🥰 your advice is so encouraging!
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Aww thanks a ton! We hope it encourages you!
@angelavanoosten13 жыл бұрын
Yes!! 🤩
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
We love you Angela!
@angelavanoosten13 жыл бұрын
@@ToriAndChad Aww love you too !! ❤
@Amanda-zt7fu3 жыл бұрын
This is a really great video. My husband also loves his alone time. It hurt me at first, but now I love that tone too!! We both pursue our hobbies during that time. And we learned the in laws boundaries the hard way. Glad it’s all settled now, but it was hard in the moment. Y’all are awesome!!
@AndrewMckieOfficial3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for talking about this guys! I'm VERY single lol. But I've realized that emotional intimacy with friends can be a problem. That being said, we put our identity into our friend groups. Sometimes I feel like we forget to set boundaries in friendships! Thank you for addressing this.
@katiemun11973 жыл бұрын
I would love if you could talk more about accountability partners in marriage!!!
@scottbachmann19623 жыл бұрын
You cannot "keep that spark alive." That "in love" feeling is hormones and chemicals having a party in your brain...and that WILL run out. But when it runs out, hopefully you have a rock-solid commitment that is there to propel you forward. Daily attention to I Corinthians 13 (the love definition) and the instructions to husbands and wives in Ephesians 5 are what is needed. After the spark dies out, love is then a decision, a choice.
@maggiebweir3 жыл бұрын
I love the words of encouragement in the description, y’all always brighten my day ☀️ Thank you!
@bananalover333 жыл бұрын
I just want to say thank you for your videos! You guys are such a great example of what pursuing God in marriage looks like. It has been really helpful for me to learn from that & I'm sure for others as well. 😊
@victoriazapata50563 жыл бұрын
I love your advice videos because I'm a really nervous person about the future and I'm working on find peace in God having control of it. But while I work on it I like being prepare on some stuff I like that you are bible-based. Ps. Sorry por my english is not my first lenguage🙈. Love your videos!!
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Your english was incredible! Thanks for the kind word!!!
@bitachocho3 жыл бұрын
I am not even in a relationship lol but I enjoy watching your videos so much!!!!! watching Tori speak is like having a big sister talking!! *videos suggestion* ..I don't know what average age your audience has but I would love if Tori could make more "girl talk" videos especially directed towards your younger audience, and maybe talk about stuff like insecurities, self-image, comparison, beauty standards (especially you being someone that worked with modeling/beauty industry) or just advice in general :) and chad could pitch in too from a guy's perspective :)) hope you take it into account!! much love :)
@mayloniecrifasi3 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking yesterday (as I rewatched the other boundaries videos) that we needed this one!!!! Soooo excited to watch!!!!!!
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Awww you rewatched them?!?! we can't handle how sweet that is
@mayloniecrifasi3 жыл бұрын
@@ToriAndChad Oh yes!! Being in a season of dating I need all the boundaries encouragement. Reminding myself of boundaries has been so important and I have found your videos so helpful! I have also been sharing with friends in different seasons of relationship and we all love y’all!!!
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Aww we love you!
@shaughnsmit20763 жыл бұрын
Awesome message in the description!! Thanks Chad💪🏻 will watch the video when I get home tonight.
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot Shaughn the man! hahah Let us know what you think of the video!
@shaughnsmit20763 жыл бұрын
@@ToriAndChad I really enjoyed this video a lot! Key take away for me, start living like a married man now in singleness. 2ndly the raise your voice part hits hard, that's how i grew up, so really need to be supper attentive to keep my tone down. Tone of voice accounts to 38% of communication! scary thought. Thanks for the video you guys, really appreciate your hard work, it doesnt go unnoticed!
@jaanviveluguleti4673 жыл бұрын
Love you both so much!! Thank you for implanting so much wisdom❤🙏🏻😍🤗💖
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
We love you and thank you!!!
@beatriceanca3 жыл бұрын
Yeeey!! So excited for this topic! 💛
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
We hope it blesses you!
@ainoarobert3 жыл бұрын
Hi ! Could you make a video about sex in marriage and the boundaries there ? Because we often know what we shouldn't do befor marriage, but then in marriage there is nothing that's really said. About like certain positions, sex toys,... what's appropriate and what's not ? And a biblical perspective on that. Love you guys, your videos are amazing!! 💖
@carolwilliamsblog3 жыл бұрын
Another 🔥 video! My main takeaway from this is communicate, communicate, communicate.
@angelavanoosten13 жыл бұрын
THIS WAS GOOOOD!! thank you!
@samueljayakumar61323 жыл бұрын
I'm here ! This is the best time of the day
@keana._3 жыл бұрын
STM in the house!! 🥳
@shaughnsmit20763 жыл бұрын
Yep, 30 mins till work finishes 😂
@samueljayakumar61323 жыл бұрын
@@keana._ ofcourse I'm here 😂 hi keeks
@samueljayakumar61323 жыл бұрын
@@shaughnsmit2076 go home and watch this first !
@shaughnsmit20763 жыл бұрын
@@keana._ in the comments!
@merveillendayakalala53823 жыл бұрын
This is so good. I learnt a lot from this, I'm gonna keep these for future use
@merveillendayakalala53823 жыл бұрын
Please make the "date ideas" video
@beautifulmariah66773 жыл бұрын
A boundary that I need (not married) is to have personal Jesus time and slow morning time.not saying me and my future husband can’t or shouldn’t study the Bible and pray together just that i need my own personal time with it too✨
@kelalisha3 жыл бұрын
who else not skipping the ad and love their videos so much helpful every video 😊
@kelalisha3 жыл бұрын
im not married nor in a relationship with a person but As a woman looking forward when it come to pass ,i found their opinion helpful .
@ItsEverythingEuodia3 жыл бұрын
Not me doing the intro with you guys 😂😂✌️🏾
@mikkipaine35603 жыл бұрын
thank you for this video!! i got married 8 months ago and really needed to hear this ❤️
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
WOOOO!!! CONGRATS!
@mikkipaine35603 жыл бұрын
@@ToriAndChad thank you!! my husband and I love watching your videos together!
@claudialorna49273 жыл бұрын
Thank you for always posting such helpful and encouraging content guys!
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
We are thankful that we get to do this!!!
@salomisundilla3 жыл бұрын
i am amazed at how this video has SO much wisdom!!! praise God for His wisdom over your lives, wow❤️
@abigailabbott22013 жыл бұрын
I just listened to today's podcast then came here :)) Love you guys!!
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Awww thanks for taking in all the content!
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
We love you!
@TheeNaturalLeah3 жыл бұрын
I was gonna like the video anyway, but when Tori read that text...immediate like! lol Amazingly thoughtful and wise content thanks!
@cheyennepressley5963 жыл бұрын
You both are amazing! Thank you for posting great videos ❤️
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the love and supporting us, Cheyenne!
@cheyennepressley5963 жыл бұрын
@@ToriAndChad always! Blessings!
@natanialouw83133 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love this video!!!!!! So helpful and insightful definitely watching this with my future husband!!!
@ThatGuy65813 жыл бұрын
You mentioned that are are so many resources for couples and relationships, could you guys make a video on your favorite resources or the ones that have been most interesting/beneficial to you? Thanks!
@oliviafalasca17383 жыл бұрын
you guys always put out solid content, but special praise for this one! 👏🏼👏🏼
@soumiliray15223 жыл бұрын
Some of these were hard to hear but I LOVE it that you guys were telling the truth 💛
@clairdelune93412 жыл бұрын
Your guys are wonderful. Just pure love 😍 thanks I actually learned something today.
@poojagurung18683 жыл бұрын
Your videos are always so informative sending you both lots of love 💖💖I respect how both of you are ready to understand eachother's boundaries
@hopewell11993 жыл бұрын
Love your guys pt of view on marriage! Keep these vids coming
@didik77773 жыл бұрын
Loved the video! Thank you very much for the effort you put in this. I thought it was fantastic! Thank you, thank you for constantly sharing your experience and viewpoint. I appreciate it!
@amandafranklin17703 жыл бұрын
What you guys said about close friends of the opposite sex 👏👏👏👏 YES!
@jaydas89763 жыл бұрын
This video was very helpful, thank you guys sm. I love y’all and your channel ❤️
@geovannaoliveira8613 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys for this video! I really need to hear some of that! Sending all love from Brazil! God bless you ❤️🇧🇷
@jennyjohnson96683 жыл бұрын
I am so excited for marriage and to work on it🙌🏻♥️
@angelavanoosten13 жыл бұрын
Can't wait to watch this after dinner :) loveeee the topic!
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Enjoy dinnerrr!
@angelavanoosten13 жыл бұрын
@@ToriAndChad thaank youuu!! It'll be later than expected so I can start now 👀 imma be prepared for if I get married one day hahahaa
@angelavanoosten13 жыл бұрын
Oooh just like you said it's good to learn to practise now hahaa
@angelavanoosten13 жыл бұрын
Love what you're saying Chad 👏🏼 I'm the same in needing alone time and I'll be communicating this right away when I'm dating now hahaha
@shaughnsmit20763 жыл бұрын
@@angelavanoosten1 same for me Angela! such little things to communicate but makes a humongous difference.
@vivo207203 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing with us this video ❤️ it’s so helpful :)
@lvas19293 жыл бұрын
"It was money 💰it was fire" these edits are killing me 🤣
@modikayadav3 жыл бұрын
I'm here, I'm back in y'alls comment section 😍🤍 love you guys
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
I RECOGNIZE THAT NAME!!!!! WOOOOO!
@modikayadav3 жыл бұрын
@@ToriAndChad YAYYY!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Woooooo! So happy!
@modikayadav3 жыл бұрын
@@ToriAndChad so grateful for you both 💛💛
@laurenhoak38023 жыл бұрын
I have been in a long term serious relationship for almost 8 years. We actively have had friends of the opposite sex throughout our whole relationship. I think proposing the idea that women and men can't be friends once they are committed to someone romantically is a really unhealthy expectation to set. If you love the person you are with, being friends with someone of the opposite sex will not "tempt" you. I've always found that is a very strange idea that Christians propose as a relationship norm. It enforces the idea that women and men don't have value to one another outside romantic/sexual relationships, that attraction can exist only between men and women, and that we have nothing to learn from those of the opposite sex in our lives besides those in our immediate family. Just seems like a very limiting and small-minded approach to me. My friends of the opposite sex enrich my life without causing any insecurity or questions in my relationship and vice versa.
@tocamy82243 жыл бұрын
I think there is a difference between friends and best friends. My husband is my best friend, but I have some guy friends that I hand out within our friends group. But i would never share something to a guy friend that i would not share with my husband. Hope it makes sense
@jaydas89763 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!
@arlettezempoalteca70403 жыл бұрын
Please do a video about ideas for date night. Thank you so much for this video. I am learning so much especially because many of these things aren't talked about around christian circles. God bless you guys.
@sarafehr72173 жыл бұрын
You guys are so sweet I feel like I have a lot of work to do❤️🤍🖤
@moniqueblanco21593 жыл бұрын
Date Nights!!
@shekinah46512 жыл бұрын
i love this but i wish i had good friends like you guys have mentioned :(
@kamilaariasss3 жыл бұрын
Love this vid and love you guys! So much wisdom !!! Ahhhhh
@jillthompson36153 жыл бұрын
Hey Chad and Tori! I know you guys take questions for your Q and A’s over Insta, but since I don’t have an account, I’d just like to send you a question to save answering until your next Q and A. If it is the Lord’s will to bless you with kids, what kinds of boundaries will you be setting up around your kids and your social media accounts? How much will you share about their lives and what they are doing? Also, how do you feel about people who post their kid’s lives on social media? Thanks a ton for being such a light to young adults and teenagers as well and for bringing such wisdom.
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
These are amazing questions! Would be fun to include them soon (as soon as we sort out how we feel about them haha) Thanks for messaging us, Jill!
@Sariita5193 жыл бұрын
Yayyyy!!! Hi, hi from Discord!!
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Hi there! Thanks for your sweet message on discord!
@jam13693 жыл бұрын
This was great. It sounds like a lot of work.
@savanac41463 жыл бұрын
Yesss, another great video!!!!
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
woooo! Hope it blesses you!!!
@wilnacordier37213 жыл бұрын
Me 13 while whatching this.... Lol love you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@tldawns5 ай бұрын
Thank You LORD for this youtube channel, it has been so many ways to remind & encourage & support my relationship with God & now feels like a counseling app that i can go to the series tab when i need to rewatch things on this new stage of season in Life. Like Truly Holy so Grateful for this in Jesus name. Father is Purifying & Restoring my Heart & Soul from Witnessing you as a Godly Couple. O Ps have you read the book Boundaries!???? Holy Jesus just had me realize this, its a Christian book by two men who have Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr John Townsend, on Bibllical Sripture Way to have boundaries too. My friend got it & read it said it was Good & then i got it but only looked at few points. God Bless Luv & Amen🤍✝🌊
@katherinejoy90483 жыл бұрын
Brilliant brilliant video! Yes please do date ideas ☺👍
@annlavine35763 жыл бұрын
i had a problem not too long ago where my friends husband read a text I sent her and answered in a negative way. She was upset and so was I. I will never trust him again
@lukeroberts37843 жыл бұрын
Congratulations 🎈🍾🎉🎊 on hitting 69.6k subscribers.
@LZE-123 жыл бұрын
Love you guys!! 😍😍😍
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
We love you!!
@_xBrokenxDreamsx_9 ай бұрын
i have very strict boundaries.. no relationship, no marriage. if you want to vomit your emotions onto somebody pay a therapist because i'm not putting up with that bs. ps i'm single by choice (everyone else's choice).
@jlv615603 жыл бұрын
Definitely talk about date night and dating intentionally.
@jezdelion77293 жыл бұрын
4 day boundary!!! You better be out if my house The. Same. Day! If you can even come at all! 🤣
@Llrxxnn3 жыл бұрын
Could you elaborate on your perspective on financial boundaries in marriage. So far I have heard two perspectives with the similarity of still having a joint account. The only difference between the two perspectives is: one only has a joint account & the other is a joint account but each individual still an account of their own to spend on what they please.
@captainskywalker91633 жыл бұрын
I'm wondering how can a relationship works if one of the partners isn't confortable with his/ her beloved love-langage... Physical touch for exemple, if it's the most important thing for my partner to feel loved, but I'm inconfortable with it, what way could I find to make him/her feels really loved?
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
Well i mean people feel loved in 5 different ways, touch, quality time, acts of service, gifts and words of affirmation. So your partner will likely desire a little of all of them! But if you are not comfortable with touching your partner, I think that is something that a professional counselor would be better suited to help out with! I mean of course i think it is important for you both to come to the middle, where they understand that maybe you are not the most comfortable with physical touch and you also go to the middle and do your best to show them love with physical touch (as much as you are comfortable with) but also I think it would be important to unpack with a mentor or counselor why you feel uncomfortable with it... (I know that wast just an example! I was just replying specifically to it!)
@destinee73263 жыл бұрын
I would highly recommended reading the 5 love languages book for couples! He specifically talks about these type of problems in marriage! One example that he gave in the book that hit home for me was “when your partner expresses your love language, how does it make you feel?” (And obviously it makes us feel super loved) and then he goes on to say,” think about that when you choose to express your partners love language, they feel loved the way that you feel when they express your love language”. It’s not easy, but it’s worth putting in the effort to love your spouse. That’s what love is, it’s choosing to not always do what you want to do, but choosing to love them despite what you’re comfortable with.
@captainskywalker91633 жыл бұрын
@@ToriAndChad Thank you so much for taking the time to reply! I agree with the "meeting at the middle", but do you think the relationship/ marriage could last with that? With one of the two missing some amount of physical touch he would like to receive and the other one forcing him/herself a little? P.S: I discovered your channel a few weeks ago and I feel blessed I did, you two are really inspiring
@ToriAndChad3 жыл бұрын
It really is about what they are willing to "put up with" (for lack of better phrases)... everyone has different "non-negotiables" and for them that could be one of them... But if not then it may not be a worry at all! We just always say to not just focus on what keeps someone connected at 25-30 but build what will keep someone feeling connected at 55-60!
@captainskywalker91633 жыл бұрын
@@ToriAndChad I'll keep it in mind, thank you very much! Being in my early 20's right now, that could totally be what I will experiment ;) That example was obviously not that theorical ^^
@gracespencer33073 жыл бұрын
Much love to you! 💜 I know it is random but where did Chad get his “more Grace” shirt that was in the “Struggling with Jealousy” video : )
@katiemun11973 жыл бұрын
I would love if y’all could talk about sex within marriage and gender differences around sex! Also any tips about intimacy during long distance in marriage! I’m getting married in a year (we are waiting till marriage to have sex) and am really struggling to be excited for sex when I see how much it is constantly misused around me. We r also gonna have a military marriage in the first 4 years so I’m nervous about the devil using our time apart to bring temptation into our marriage.