I'm 30 and I Have No Friends

[@plls5]

Oh Lex, you have no idea how many people absolutely adore you.

[@VadimkaMr]

that's nothing to do with REAL friends

[@carlossaraiva8213]

​​@@VadimkaMr and what is a real friend? Just one at your zip code? Maybe once upon a time but the world changed, man.

[@Ojoe2010]

@@carlossaraiva8213 The fact that you're asking that... A friend is someone who is there for you IRL, someone who knows you and dares to tell you where it's at (even if you don't like it), someone who will vouge for you, stick up for you even fight for you when needed no matter what. You only get very few in life, and they're usually not the cool dudes you wish to be your real friends. I know I cherish the few I have, I'd give my life for them, their my friends, sisters and brothers.

[@carlossaraiva8213]

@@Ojoe2010 i have such friends. Do you?

[@Ojoe2010]

@@carlossaraiva8213 I think that was already included in my comment...

[@davidferguson3031]

Two of the nicest, most genuine people I've found on KZbin. Anyone lucky enough to call you guys friends should feel truly honoured ❤️

[@Noclaf555]

Truth!

[@seelenwinter6662]

wow, wow, wow... slowly, slowly... or you know everything about a person, because you listen 5 reaction over a few songs from him or her...???

[@Noclaf555]

@@seelenwinter6662 yes, it's all we have to go on

[@MADM0NK]

They are fake trying to reinvent themselves.

[@jamesgonzales5285]

🙏🏻❤🙏🏻

[@joenorris7048]

Trust me, as a older person, if you find one true honest friend in your life, consider yourself lucky!

[@MusicPlayingPeon]

Agreed!

[@carlossaraiva8213]

You speak as an american. Here in Portugal is easy to make a friend for life. It is tour smerican culture that is adverse to friendship. That is not true to other places in the world.

[@gabemcintosh8872]

The cutest reviewer in the biz dont need fake friends!!! keep doing u lex

[@dubbatrubba1759]

I wish I had friends like you guys. You’re both good people.

[@JayART71]

Yes

[@rgerwin.3378]

Agreed.

[@scottgrdina5599]

Social media has hurt peoples ability to meet people and create real meaningful relationships.

[@IndigoLeague2BAmaster]

Yes social media and internet itself has damaged society and people's normal behaviors. And not for the better. I swear the more technology advances the more cold and crazy the world gets..

[@CrowdPleeza]

I think social media can be good for many people socially. Many people may have certain interests and only over the internet can they find others who share their particular interests. So the internet can help some people to expand their social circles if they are limited with having like minded people where they live.

[@d-2793]

Lex is a sweet old soul. This is why your circle is small. We are all your friends ❤

[@philsdon8932]

Not confrontational, not bitter, just gentle truth. Well said, Lex and needed. These are lonely times, but you have a whole lot of people who know exactly what you're saying.

[@andreawalter9212]

I cannot agree more. Lex, you are an old soul with so much wisdom. Lex, Brad and Jack Jack videos make my day.

[@Dieafreak]

You got to be blunt and in your face, tell it as it is-diplomatically though. Brutal, straight to you’re face - but diplomatically. Maybe I am cause I was raised by Midwest/ East coast parents 🤷🏻‍♂️. And Yes you can have wisdom and be like I just said above ^

[@stevekozlowski5963]

The way I see it, you have over 314,000 friends, and we all love you

[@donstand2195]

Yes we do

[@wonderwall135]

This hit guys. I turned 30 a few months ago and i feel the loneliest I have been. Don't really have any friends, nobody reaching out. Lost in touch with my old crew for various reasons. Recently single too. Life is crazy.

[@petel4373]

I feel the same. Feel a sense of abandonment.

[@marioducoudray9695]

My grandmother once told me that we lose friends over the years, make new ones, lose those too over the years not because they weren’t true but because we grow, and change, especially for those of us who want to learn more about the world. She said it’s like shedding skins. You’re developing into someone new who may no longer relate to the past. You may feel nostalgia, you may still feel connected somewhere deep but losing friends is a sign that you’ve moved on. She said there are friends that feel uncomfortable when you grow, those you lose, and friends who cheer you on, those remain friends for life.

[@dreamweaver8913]

Your grandmother was wise and correct about this.

[@BradAndLex]

I like that. It’s a good thing to remember when you’re in a drought season like i am. If i remember this perspective, i probably will feel less lonely.

[@ariwl1]

I agree with your grandma. They've done studies and found that if you maintain an active social life, if you look at your social circle and all the people you consider friends, over the course of your life you will probably always have about that many friends. The trick is that every seven to ten years or so about half the faces in that group will have been switched with new people. Most of the people I considered good friends in college I don't talk to anymore, and I'm fortunate in that none of them are gone for bad reasons. Life just took us in different directions. While there's always a bit of sadness when you realize someone isn't in your life anymore, I realized I wasn't as sad as I would have predicted because we just didn't have a lot in common anymore. We'd get together and the only thing we'd do was reminsice about earlier times. There's nothing wrong with that by itself, but I was all "Wait...we aren't old. Why do we only reminisce instead of going out and doing new things?" But since we never did I think we all realized those relationships had just run their course.

[@Frank-jf2jm]

Your grandma was a wise lady. 👊

[@edm_doug]

​@BradAndLex in our youth, we have friends but we grow. You are going to meet people as Jack grows. You are going to meet local people as Jack grows. He will be in sports, school and community. That is when you will meet somebody close to your age and being more in step with you. Reality is everybody only has a few close friends and they usually happen in school which may be 2 or so. Mostly it happens as an adult and it is usually through the events that your son will involve you in. There is a lot of time to sit in the bleachers with other moms.

[@REDZ28won]

I have no friends also, That's just the way I want it. All they do is bring drama into your life.

[@41Leandra]

I too am 30 with zero friends. You’re not alone, Lex. It can be a struggle at times, but your videos make for good company. Thank you for sharing your presence and insights. I appreciate the depth in which you think, your words resonate with me. The two of you are beautiful together and you definitely have a friend out here in California ❤

[@BradAndLex]

Be safe out in Cali ❤️😩

[@faby-6662]

❤❤❤❤

[@danboyisdopex9864]

I'm 26 and I have a couple of friends less than like 5 so I can kinda relate but I can be your friend 😊

[@pubuapubua]

Things have gotten weird. Please don't blame yourself.

[@Houston123ABC]

The connectedness of social media had paradoxically made us more distant.

[@Herbicide420]

LOL, welcome to your thirties, we've all been through this. Don't feel bad, this is just a natural part of life. The older you get, the less friends you have.

[@markp2023]

Yes but you would rather have a true friend even if it's just one. That's great! Me too.

[@leonardotayala]

Lex: There's an old saying - "Better to be alone than poorly accompanied" . So many people in the world WISHED they had a loving partner and family or a beautiful baby. Of course we would all love true friends, but for now, continue to be thankful for the wonderful blessings you DO have. Keep your chin up! =)

[@MM-xz5ig]

It’s so funny. Recently I lost my brother who really was my best and only friend. I’ve been leaning on internet people and reactors for company. It never even occurred to me that reactors might be feeling the same way toward their subscribers. Thank you guys for making me feel a little less alone. Really loving these conversations.

[@BradAndLex]

Definitely we can relate

[@RaefonB]

Sorry for the loss of your brother, that sounds heart-wrenching.

[@jeffmorneault3243]

Like Sammy Hagar and the boys in Van Halen once said "Stop looking out...start looking in...be your own best friend... stand up and say hey, This is Mine! Allllll Mine"

[@johnlake4809]

I used to have a TON of friends. Now I'm terminally ill and unable to do the majority of the planning, unable to play sports, unable to ride motorcycles anymore... I began watching reaction channels, and you guys feel more like friends than my personal friends. You guys seem so genuine, I am so amazed about by your faith, your comfort speaking out about your political views, and now being parents... if you guys lived closer I would SO be willing to be an uncle or grandparent figure. I used to mentor young men Brad's age. I include you guys in my prayers, but my heart goes out to Lexie. Lexie,, never let your self feel less than beautiful, all you have to do is look at how Brad looks at you.

[@Tom_McMurtry]

:))

[@colincampbell4261]

Social media can be useful.

[@colincampbell4261]

You guys have lovely accents.

[@w.geoffreyspaulding6588]

I am so terribly sorry for your condition! 😔

[@johnlake4809]

I've had a few years to to get used to the idea. My faith is strong, way stronger than my body. If anyone prays, please just pray that I end this race strong. Brad and Lex have some amazing subs.

[@maureeno9382]

I really feel sorry for younger generations. They have it so much harder than I could have imagined. There is isolation, loneliness. When I was younger, we interfaced in person. Streets are devoid of kids playing outside together. People are in their rooms on their computers and phones. It is so empty and illusory. Deep, true human connection is what matters. I'm glad you discussed this topic. It is better to have few very quality deep relationships than many shallow connections.

[@w.geoffreyspaulding6588]

Exactly. Loneliness is an epidemic now in the West…

[@ralphlubrino1228]

I feel the same way. I grew up in the Bronx . I played in the middle of the streets with all the kids on the block. I would be out all day and at dinner time my Mother would call me from the window.

[@radar0412]

I see kids playing soccer, baseball and football at our neighborhood park everyday. So we're not quite there yet.

[@JRcomments]

My parents made sure I would be home before dark, but not before .... times are way different today.

[@SIRRUBADUBDUB]

Very upsetting - Lex really should have some good friends - great spirit and great friendship material 🙏

[@Ginza92]

I'm 31 and at 18 I became a caregiver for my mom so all my time and money goes to her care. It can be lonely, and I feel disconnected with my peer group too. I'm also shy and reserved by nature so it's hard for me to make friends anyway. I also believe social media is responsible because it requires no people skills. So, today's young people have no idea where to meet each other or talk with one another without it feeling weird. Even if you have no friends at lease, you have each other that's a blessing in itself. I wish I had more freedom but taking care of my mom is honorable work and I love her.

[@alexc.c.4025]

Sorry to hear about your mother. All power to you brother for taking care off her and my best wishes to both of you

[@warrenhammonds1093]

My wife of 33 years doesn't care that she has no friends. She has me, our 3 kids, and her family, she says that's all she needs. May God continue to bless you both.

[@michellelynnm1933]

That's exactly how I feel. I have my family, they are enough for me.

[@mommafirst1]

That is exactly how I feel. I’m 52. I have tons of acquaintances but no constant friends. Since I had kids, I’m content being on my own. I didn’t want to go out after I had kids. Now, it is exhausting and too much drama.

[@warrenhammonds1093]

@@michellelynnm1933 You must have a great family. God bless!

[@warrenhammonds1093]

@@mommafirst1 I hope and pray you find someone to spend the rest of your life with. God bless!

[@mommafirst1]

@@warrenhammonds1093 I do have a husband and 5 kids. Just no close friends. I guess with age, I’ve become more introverted.

[@David-cr3pt]

Getting older and growing apart from all your friends from when you were younger, is a part of life.

[@MikeDest]

I recently turned 40 and i realized that friends really start to drop off after about the age of 25. When I take inventory and look back I realize how many people were friends with me only because they needed something or only because we had a mutual friend. Its awkward and feels so forced to try to make friends with people as an adult.

[@Harry-fk5of]

I think people have to do something together and meet up regularly to do it (a project, sport, music) - anything that requires you to meet up at least once every month. I think it takes probably about 10-20 meetings before we start to see each other as friends and make time for each other outside of the activity.

[@MikeDest]

@@Harry-fk5of Thats true, but once you get to a certain age you have all kinds of work, personal, and family responsibilities that limits your time to be able to do stuff like that. Then there is also the financial aspect of having some regular activity on the side.

[@jonnyd6809]

I remember somebody explaining Facebook to me while I sat with a large group of friends in a pub back in 2007. I immediately thought it was a crap idea that was the antithesis of friendship. Unfortunately it caught on along with other social media, so we now live our lives connected yet totally apart.

[@ltmg9832]

I’m in my mid 30’s and if I had learnt anything valuable - it would be that a few loyal friends equal a thousand relatives ✨

[@GaryColemanNC]

I'm 61, and have consistently been enamored with your channel and with your reactions. I feel that the issue is that neither one of you fully realize just how lovely, intuitive, bright, sensitive, evolved, kind, open, funny, emotionally mature you truly are. Tryin' not to "fan-boy" too much, but y'alls reaction channel was (is) my and my partners favorite, by quite a bit. Once again, I'm 61 and never had more that a couple friends at any one time. We love all three of you ❤.

[@Rampart.X]

Watchoo talkin bout Willis?

[@GaryColemanNC]

@@Rampart.X 🤣🤣🤣

[@BradAndLex]

❤️❤️❤️ hopefully some friends will agree with you one day 😅

[@proud2bamerican]

Double that

[@Divataster]

​​@@BradAndLex Brad and Lex , if y'all were my friends ...like deeply connected friends and things between us became complicated by silly unrelated circumstances where other folks were interfering I'd rather loan y'all out than lose y'all

[@donaldwillis2267]

To me, Brad seems to be the best friend you'll ever need.

[@xtiants]

This surprised me because Lex is so delightful and likable. I just assumed she had lots of friends just wanting to be around her all the time.

[@BradAndLex]

People can be so surprising sometimes 😅😣

[@kratoleaf7619]

your sweetness comes thru on screen. Your reactions speak volumes on what type of person you are. Genuine...@@BradAndLex

[@warrenhammonds1093]

@@BradAndLex Something tells me you both are conservatives living in an area where conservatives are not liked thanks to the lies of the mainstream media. I follow y'all on Facebook. Love you guys! God bless!!

[@richardyoung6214]

How could anybody who is lucky enough to know this gorgeous young lady, not fall hopelessly in love with her beautiful old soul.

[@miconis123]

@@warrenhammonds1093That's interesting cause I get the impression they're far more center of the road. The best people aren't on the extremes

[@lulu-qw8xy]

Lex, you are a gem! I am a lot older than you but want you to know that you are definitely quality friend material. You are loved and appreciated by many of us out here! Thank you for all your sweet self ❤

[@hankearl9784]

As sweet as the two of you are, their are millions of people that would want to be your friends. I wish the best to both of you.

[@joeblow5037]

You have plenty of friends here, Lex 😉

[@qhl5579]

We are all your good friends, for both of you.

[@halfsourlizard9319]

I used to have a YT channel ... and I met quite a number of subscribers in person at events, had drinks + dinners sometimes, talked with people individually over text or email ... but it's not precisely the same as friends, even with the people whose real names and addresses and families and lives I knew about ... parasocial interactions are always asymmetric and something different.

[@dream_in_digital]

Lex, this breaks my heart because you are such a lovely person. If it's any comfort to you or others, it's a natural part of getting older. Growing up, school is a social environment where we go through hallmark life changes with the same people every day for decades. Once we're out of school and start working, being close friends with co-workers is difficult and inappropriate. We move from place to place, have responsibilities of living on our own, have romantic relationships and for some, start families. All of that puts us in isolated bubbles. There's less time and opportunity for real bonding with people. Unless someone is really social and goes out of their way to belong to social groups with like-minded people on a regular basis, it's difficult to develop and keep strong bonds. The change is hard to deal with and we tend to internalize it sometimes but I assure you, it's a part of life and not a reflection of you as a person. I hope the love and support from this community helps remind you that there are people who care and value you for the sweet and kind person you are. ❤️❤️❤️

[@Markrealguy51]

Very nice,true

[@larryzigler6812]

So so sweet and funny too

[@kennethgoin628]

Well written, and truthful!

[@ladykaycey]

Im 55 and have no friends either. Ive also been drawn to older people for friendship/company but there's no-one now. I have aspergers like your brother. I didn't find that out until I was 38. I think so many people are missing out on having you for a friend. You're a wonderful sensitive, intelligent woman.

[@todd9373]

I feel bad. You seem like a fun person. But I feel you. I’ve been in Oregon for like 12 years and really have no friends

[@tommykinson1993]

We will be your friends ❤

[@Christopher-Baltimore]

I love these two 💙&🩷

[@erinna_the_white_rose]

Agreed

[@ferilimp1]

It's ok Lex, im 35 and have 0 friends, no gf/wife, and no kids. Plus I don't speak to my family. It gets lonely but you're going to be good. You've got Brad and a loving baby to keep you occupied. You guys are great, and will be great.

[@byrnejr]

Your both great people ! I’d be honored to be friends with you both. Much love from Massachusetts

[@renechanse]

You are always so wonderful to listen to. It surprises me that you don’t have friends.

[@StephenCramer-tw2lb]

It’s odd that the older you get, the fewer friends you have. Part of this is the realization that what you once considered friends are just associations, not really friends. Then your best friend is your dog. Man’s best friend!

[@mikeblankenship1198]

I love that you are reinventing your channel. There's thousands of reactors out there. It was you two that we were returning to see. Thank you. We know it's a busy time with Jack Jack and all.

[@GaryColemanNC]

TRUTH ❗

[@saintsataniko2116]

Man. it just gets worse as you get older. You get progressively more isolated. I was in a blissfully happy relationship for over ten years but my gf was my best and only friend,. When that ended I was at zero and that number has never changed. I've lived in the same city my entire life and I know absolutely no one. Meanwhile my dad somehow still had friends he had known since high school right up until he passed away.

[@Decay19XX]

Yeah im exactly the same, I don't have a single personal relationship anymore and spend 99.9% of my time completely alone. Haven't had a real romantic relationship since I was 16 and I just turned 29 the other day. I need help, but I just can't seem to do it. At this point I don't even know what my purpose is.

[@trentriver]

I am heading for 70 ... I have 3-4 people who I would call friends - these are people that would help out at a moments notice and be there when you are in a pickle. There is an old saying - "a true friend is the one walking in the door when all the others are walking out". Your point re social media is likely a big part of it. People do not seem to know these days how to interrelate on a personal, one-on-one level - there was always some social awkwardness, but it seems to be much more an issue today. Anyway - time to put the phones down and actually look at people and speak face to face.

[@karowak1]

I'll be 68 Friday. I quit drinking when I was 29. That pretty much did me in. They all left me sitting

[@Rampart.X]

Correct. Real friends are moral allies. They'll cut off their hand to save your arm. So few people will come through when the mud hits the fan.

[@Markrealguy51]

I’m 72. I have such strong feelings towards you two. I’ve wondered the same Lex.. It has something to do with the internet age. Texts and emails have replaced face to face and the phone. My own children and I don’t relate now and it’s all just strange. I have a wonderful girlfriend and her grandkids and am grateful and waiting to see where life goes from here. I wish you all the best Lex. There aren’t too many people in the world nearly as sweet as you

[@yarsivad000.5]

That is why she is so cool. Not getting bad advice an not being influenced by jerks.

[@shawnafisher4547]

I love this conversation, you have no idea how relatable it is

[@ernie7733]

Lex, I believe it's the day and age and and the garbage that's been happening. I feel the same. I have lost friends from distance, drifting away, just so many things. Don't take it that it's you or your different. . It's the new way and it's so sad.

[@liamoconnor9487]

Just think how happy you made Miss Sweets by going over and spending time with her.

[@mtaffer]

Honestly I think that Jack will be your gateway to a bunch of new friends due to parents having kids your age. I’m 52 and single and never had kids. One thing I have noticed is that this fact blocks me from a lot of conversations, especially at work. I don’t have anything in common, but having kids brings people together. So Lex, I feel like it may not be right now, but as Jack gets older, it will open you to new opportunities for new friends. 😊

[@brucefollett8117]

Take heart; within a few short years you will be in a whole new realm of relating. Conversation becomes less about children and more about the aches and pains of aging. It's not worse, just different and if you use it as a stepping stone to genuine connection that's progress.

[@debrabeck9630]

Your child will give you so many opportunities to make new friends. Truly. Some will be casual, some will be lifelong. I’ve attended their kids’ weddings, they’ve attended mine, and our kids still maintain their friendships. You two are good people, so don’t be afraid. You’ll find friends who value you.

[@pubuapubua]

That's an excellent point.

[@jameskennedy721]

Aww . I feel like I know you guys from watching you react to things . I will be your friend !

[@Prone2Thrill]

I'm 56 and continue to shrink my circle by choice = people change, grow apart, get occupied. You guys are awesome! #friends

[@stangss1]

Wow, amazing conversation. Your honesty is really refreshing.

[@chrino21]

One of the tough things about aging (right from the start) is less and less friends. But as kids, the bar for friendship is low. As we grow older, our values solidify and that’s a good thing. The friendship bar raises, and a bitter lesson that I’ve learned is that lowering that bar can lead to some horrific damage and emotional trauma. So stay beautiful, even when no one around you is. Keep your boundaries strong, and leave room for only goodness and beauty. There will be lean, quiet times, but remember that’s a good thing!

[@candaceewell9582]

Same... perfectly said!

[@bonkousmcnaughty4604]

Absolutely spot on. As you get older you become less tolerant of idiots and fools so therefore don’t class them as friends. And boy, there are a lot of them about!

[@bpwn3r]

I hear this a lot from people 30 and up. I have no local friends, but I call my friends nearly daily from out of town/state (I don't have social media). My side of my wedding was so sparse from my small family who didn't want to come and friends who couldn't come to where I was offering plane tickets to anyone that could make it work. You're not alone. Stay in touch with who you have. Connections are important.

[@johnszczerba9979]

Most people don't call out of state friends that much...so you drift apart a little or entirely

[@howjow]

Sorry to keep yapping but I feel the exact same way. I feel like all my friends moved on with life, or literally moved. I never see them. But my best advice would be really get to know people at your grocery store. Your neighbors. Your bank teller. The baristas at your coffee shop. The bartenders (if you drink) The people you see everyday but don't normally interact with. Start up conversations. You'll be surprised how many friends you actually do have. You just are one conversation away from who knows, could be your best friend. (ps I'm not making this shit up I felt the same way, but therapy helped a lot) Now my therapist and his wife are two of our best friends. Again this just sorta hit a nerve with me because i felt the same way. You'll be fine. Just make it awkward and talk to people. I truly think it will surprise you. Plus you two are charismatic as hell!!! You'll be fine.

[@BradAndLex]

🙈🙈 ok maybe but omggg that just sounds awkward lol

[@bespokeregent48]

Man I totally get this. I'm 31 and can count maybe 3-4 people as close friends. Only 1 of those I could call and go for a coffee with. The others live abroad. I see old school 'friends' who I haven't spoken to in 10 years on social media and they are all still in their same group of friends they had in school. I was a groomsman at my cousin's wedding recently and all of the other groomsmen were childhood friends of his. Literally since they were 8 years old. It really hit me hard and sometimes it gets to me that I don't have that.

[@Kari_B61ex]

Lex, you have the only friend you need sat right next to you. I'm 62 and only have two friends, I only see them once or twice a year. I have my mother, sister, and daughters who I rely on. Lex you have 314K friends on YT - we may not be with you daily in person, but we love you... even though I'm in the UK.

[@1teamski]

My wife always felt the same through the years. When she does get a friend, they end up being needy and with drama. I never had a need for friends, but they end up getting them, whether I like it or not. My wife doesn't understand that, but I came from a big family and treasure my privacy and personal time. I ask nothing from others and expect the same. My wife is my only real friend and after 34 years of marriage, I am very happy with that!

[@danielabatabogdanov8586]

Just a advice.. try to voluntary work or something. In my case im part of a church which gave me a lot of friends. Usually helping other people together with others for a cause will give you a lot of friends.

[@55itsme]

I believe true friendship is built upon shared experiences. My best friends are people I used to work with or I went to concerts with or I was in a band with or on a sports team with. When my wife asked me for a divorce, 3 of my friends offered me a place to live if I needed it. I would have done the same for them. Friends are the people you are willing to help when they're in serious trouble. They would call you for bail money (and you would call them, if needed). Internet friends are great, but in my opinion they cannot replace real friends. Just my two cents worth.

[@Courier_Seven]

Im 26 with a wife and three beautiful babies and i have been dealing with the "no friends" thing for the last few years and my wife has started feeling the same way recently. I think the entire concept of friendship shifts and changes when you have a family to consider.

[@chuckwhite3176]

Entirely true that the social dynamics change once your friends starting having families of their own. But yeah, the adjustment is rough.

[@laupstad]

Sadly it is common to loose touch with friends when starting a family. I haven't started my own family but many of my old friends have and I lost all of them as soon as they had an ultrasound. It's understandable, but if there are diapers to change and babies to feed there isn't much time left or energy left over to nurture friendships. It only takes a couple of years of not talking or hanging out to grow apart. I'm sure you could call any one of your old friends right now and you could talk for hours. But it wont be the same as it was. It's shame really for both sides.

[@GeekyKOOLcom]

What an honest whole hearted conversation. I think a lot of people are going through this. If you two lived near me, I would be your friend. You are both awesome.

[@user-ne1tb2cm4d]

I feel the same way. 28 yrs old. Have a few ppl I call close friends. But they never reach out. It’s always me hitting them up. It’s tough. I feel you. You two are beautiful ppl with a beautiful family. And you have lots of friends here.

[@TheShadow_Reaper]

Same here

[@DeNigro52]

First off I Love you both and watch your videos faithfully. I’m much older and I can attest to this. The older you get the smaller your circle becomes. I lost a friend who I considered my brother from another mother and lost him to cancer. Now I have ONE friend left that I consider a TRUE friend. Tons of friends but they’re not the same. God bless you both.🙏

[@loriwendel]

I can’t thank you enough for this video. I’m 35 and feel like my only friend is my husband. And our cats. Which honestly, I’m ok with most of the time. But there are times where I wish I had friends like I did when I was younger. Don’t get me wrong, I have my family pretty close by, but we don’t talk daily. My best girl friend lives in a different state and we only talk a few times a year. And if I needed anything, I could call anyone of those people. But who do I do life with? My husband and our cats. I miss having those people who walk in your house without knocking and make themselves at home. I miss having other people to talk things through with or to talk to you while you’re cleaning. Knowing that I’m not alone in this honestly takes a weight off my shoulders. Thank you for being open, honest, and transparent with your life. I started watching your videos because I felt a connection with y’all. Both of you are someone I would be lucky to call a friend.

[@paulyoung6040]

Friends and family all have different seasons in their lives,so it's special when you all can get together,and seasons always change,it's built into the universe

[@kellyhouse4263]

Thanks for this conversation. There are so many that are experiencing the very same issues, and feel the exact same way! Much Love🤟❤️

[@JPjaybird]

You seem like an amazing person. Both of you do. Once the kiddo gets into school and activities you’ll have lots friends.

[@patrickhughes4914]

You might not have a lot of close personal friends, but you have many, many fans. I guarantee that if you had a problem and posted a video saying you needed help, you would get thousands of responses. You have a giant online family. People love you. Keep doing what you're doing

[@llanitedave]

Your situation is amazingly common. It IS a generational thing, and social media has a LOT to do with it. One thing I have learned, though. Even the gregarious people who are surrounded by others, who go to all the parties, in the final analysis, they have a lot of acquaintances, not a lot of friends. You might be surprised how rare true friends really are.

[@christopherten-eyck4473]

I'm 62 and never expected to live this long. Alot of my friends are dead from growing up, and one's I had in high school. I am thankful that I have made it this far. I agree with you about people being involved in the platforms of the world 🗺 wide web. I guess we should be thankful for each other and your making a family 👪. Thanks again for the update. Hello from Pa USA 🇺🇸.

[@jimwallace2036]

The fact that you don't have friends is not on you. Over the years watching you and Brad I have to say that you have the most loveable personality. You have always put a smile on my face. And Brad seems to like you a little ;)

[@sticks64]

It's really hard for me to believe. You BOTH seem to be really good, down to earth people. If we knew each other in person, I'm sure we'd be friends. Just continue being who you are. You'll be fine. Meanwhile, I know you have a bunch of people here who enjoy watching you!

[@BradAndLex]

Lol i hand painted a glass caricature of one of the girls that couldn’t make it to my wedding as a gift for being in it (which she was not) 🙃 it is true in fact 😅 so embarrassing

[@sticks64]

@@BradAndLex That's hilarious! We all have our less-than-stellar moments. Just learn from them and move on. And just don't paint a caricature of me. 🤣

[@aks4204]

Sometimes it’s better to be alone, than to be in bad company .

[@aks4204]

@@BradAndLex Anyone who doesn’t want to be friends with you, I say screw them, their loss! You don’t need people like that in your life. You have your husband, & now that you have Jack, once he goes to school you will meet so many new people. I met so many new people. Don’t worry about that honey. You’re a good person & don’t need phony friends. It’s just not worth it.

[@joenylv]

I'm 62. Not married. Have 5 siblings and 12 nieces and nephews who are growing fast. I have 5 friends who I can call anytime for anything, and vice versa.I have noticed that those who are from only child families struggle to have friends, If you DO NOT get along and love your family, that is not a good sign, As I have had relationships, the first thing I want to find out is if you get along with your family (mom, dad, brothers, sisters), IF you can't or do not have friends now, as you get older, gets very hard to make NEW friends. And i feel bad for those growing up now. Internet friends are not real friends.,

[@chirovandenbos2339]

My life change radical and i choose to live my life alone and have more strength, peace, power, happyness and time..... The more people, the more expectations, talk about others, lying, frustrations, negativity, jealousy, double standards, hate, opinions, sneakyness etc.... People these days only busy with them selves and own benefits..... No, i am not feeling better then others but more be carefully and awake.... I am 43 now and its ok. My happyness not start with extern factors like status, money, material things or people.... If your happyness starts with extern factors you never will be because extern factors are endless. I dont have tv, social media etc so more living in the moment. Blessed to you and stay safe.

[@Obbybobb]

The phone works both ways. Building friendships and relationships takes alot more effort than you think.

[@leonardshevlin7260]

All relationships require some effort. With college friends, I made all the effort. With family, I made no effort. Now I have lost everyone.

[@ChrisLight1]

I would love to be friends with both of you. This was heartbreaking and heartwarming all in one.

[@bernardaleman1455]

I'm not any kind of therapist, but you learn a thing or two after 30 years as a social worker... what, and more importantly, how y'all share your feelings with one one another is a model for how EVERYONE should communicate with the people they're closest to... honest, sincere, compassionate, deliberate speak is what y'all personify... y'all are beautiful and please know your friendship with each other IS real... y'all are helping more people than you know... I really dig y'all's new format.

[@dreadassembly4087]

The fact that you have a channel with so many people watching, they get to know you and feel like a pen pal.

[@Highlander-s5p]

You're a GEM and girls may feel threatenned by the joy and love that you exude , I can tell you that if I met you and Brad we would become instant friends , joined together by our simple love of music . I do miss seeing you in the more recent videos, and You guys will rebound , I promise , Just believe in each other ,

[@chrisbush5965]

Same with me an my wife we been married 10 years now we don't have friends like how we once did and now it just me and my wife.❤

[@97lynds21]

When I happened upon your channel a ways back for a music reaction, the first thing I noticed was how Lex looked at Brad. Love, admiration, respect. I am an old dude now - and can tell you that is rare thing in life. You have each other and family. You are very blessed.

[@kelseyc8114]

Omg. I’ve always watched you guys and thought I’d love to sit and just chat and hang out with you. This makes me sad! People that are near you are missing out!!!

[@lLushKitty]

No worries Lex. I'll be your BFF 4EVA!!!! Lex and Brad are my kind of vibe tribe. **ETA: I would rather have 4 quarters than 100 pennies. Meaning quality over quantity. Choose your friends wisely as they are a reflection of who you truly are.

[@alexnehrenberg3430]

I really like you guys. We could hang for sure. Lex, friends is a little over-rated. It's good to have a few, but it's good to live your life. I had plenty of friends in my 20s now it doesn't matter as much. Brad you're right, friends come and go. You two stay right and ya'll will be fine.

[@budoshi-f2l]

im 42 and have 1 true friend, the more i get old the less people i like.

[@risksrewardsrelics51]

I’m about 10 years older than you guys. However, out of all the KZbinrs I watch, Jamel (aka Jamal) and the two of you are the only ones I always felt I’d be good friends with. I know exactly what Lex is talking about when it comes to blunt honesty. If you guys were in my area, I’d definitely hang with you!

[@genxcyclist3734]

You’re an old soul, Lex . And that’s not a bad thing ! God bless both of you and the little one . 🙏🏼

[@jimmbear3998]

I thought the same thing about Lex being an Old Soul. That is actually a really good thing it means you are a deep person not shallow. I just over 50 but my best friends are between 65 and 75. I have always preferred older people.

[@jesrush]

I’m a loner too. My best friends are my kids. 21 and 28. I do have a couple that drags me out to be social and I love them for that. But I’m happy being at home. ✌️😊🦋

[@josephleyva8090]

You don’t know me but since I’ve been watching your reactions I have become your friend!!!🤔🤔🤔😳😳😳😳😘😘😘😘👍👍👍👍👍🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@hitmixhyepock9405]

Thats how it is sometimes. I have friends, but i dont hangout with them much if at all. Some of us moved to other cities, and the travel time between them. I just hangout woth my wife now, or my dad and stepmom at the retirement home. It was even weird at xmas with my relatives now.....we all used to be cool cousins, smoked together, got drunk for the firs ttime teen stuff. But our Gramdma died and now we see each other all together maybe every other year. Its sad that all of our young family started having kids and they only got to celebrate xmas at Grandmas house for a few years they will remember. But i guess thats how it goes for everyone, my parents probably had the same thing happen to them.

[@proud2bamerican]

I used to live a couple of blocks from you guys Now I live over a thousand miles away, But I am still your friend. As we become adults we become absorbed with family and work. You are not alone Mrs. Lex You have the most outstanding Best Friend sitting next to you.

[@dirtyroo5562]

I hope you both realize a majority of us here call you Friend. You’ve gotten so many of us through difficult situations just by being you and your content. And we will be here to support you both when you need it. When I need a pick me up I always turn on Brad and Lex reactions to Slipknot. Brad scared/confused and Lex jamming out always brings me up.

[@terencecampbell4770]

I was adopted at 10-Ive never fit in-you and Brad are doing something that puts you in a public eye and many people get competitive-many are jealous-you are obviously smart, pretty, good relationship, and courage on display-you are REAL and it intimidates many people-if too many people start to liking me I know I must be doing something wrong🙂

[@donaldshulenburg1553]

succinct and profound

[@ManOfAllAges]

Lex can make friends anywhere. She’s so nice.

[@AngieThinks]

I totally relate, I had reconnected with my old best friend and others a couple years ago after a 15 year "breakup", I tried but all they want to do is go to the bar, drink, gossip, gamble, and never left the 90210 stage of life, I literally stepped back into the same environment I left, they still live there. A lot of narcists in the group, I couldn't believe it, I definitely didn't relate, I guess I'd rather have one good friend then a lot of bad friends. I seek the friend that can talk about real life and connect on a deeper level, not always about what next luxury purse they want to buy. Love you guys!

[@rebelleparrish4937]

I'm 40 and I don't have any friends either. It's incredibly lonely and I just tend to keep to myself and be with my dogs

[@njg247]

I hear you.

[@Vip-np8op]

There are so many people out there who need to hear her words. Her willingness to be honest with herself and then be open with us is truly awesome. Maybe we can like and share to get this way up on KZbins suggestion list. You two are really are special, keep up the great work. 😊

[@LukeIsbrecht-k7g]

I think socialization occurs more in our younger years as a survival mechanism, but as we mature we become more self-sufficient, causing us to drift away from other people, thus inducing our own isolation via our independence. Also Lex, being intelligent means that you WILL be alone in life. It's all right. God and Brad and folks out here admire you girl, so you do you. Life is complex and never an easy thing for us to navigate.

[@noelleone1305]

Scripture reads; If a person dies with one close friend they are blessed." Don't fret over those who you "thought" were friends when they were merely acquaintances. God brings people into our lives and then removes them for His own purpose as to help you grow, just as you are brought into others lives and then removed for the reason. Your generation is hung up on "friending" and thusly seek friendship where none is in reality. You are both lovely people and I have prayed the Father for you and the little one.

[@thomasshelton3889]

You two are beautiful wonderful people and anybody would be lucky to have you as a friend. Thank you for being you!

[@hughfuller8416]

I’m 40 and I feel the same way Lex. I love this format.