Brandi Carlile - The Joke (Official Video)

From the album "By The Way, I Forgive You" available now. elektrar.ec/Bra...
Directed by Danny Clinch
Produced by Lindha Narvaez for MILKT
Choreography by Peter Leung
Ballet sequence filmed by Middle Table Productions
Ballerina is Michaela DePrince
Connect with Brandi:
brandicarlile.com
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/ brandicarlile
Lyrics:
You're feeling nervous, aren't you, boy?
With your quiet voice and impeccable style
Don't ever let them steal your joy
And your gentle ways
To keep 'em from running wild
They can kick dirt in your face
Dress you down, and tell you that your place
Is in the middle, when they hate the way you shine
I see you tugging on your shirt
Trying to hide inside of it
And hide how much it hurts
Let 'em laugh while they can
Let 'em spin, let 'em scatter in the wind
I have been to the movies, I've seen how it ends
And the joke's on them
You get discouraged, don't you, girl?
It's your brother's world for a while longer
We gotta dance with the devil on a river
To beat the stream
Call it living the dream, call it kicking the ladder
They come to kick dirt in your face
To call you weak and then displace you
After carrying your baby on your back across the desert
I saw your eyes behind your hair
And you're looking tired, but you don't look scared
Let 'em laugh while they can
Let 'em spin, let 'em scatter in the wind
I have been to the movies, I've seen how it ends
And the joke's on them
Let 'em laugh while they can
Let 'em spin, let 'em scatter in the wind
I have been to the movies, I've seen how it ends
And the joke's on them
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Joe Bell Trailer song
Joe Bell movie song

[@lanpricolo7151]

Rest in peace, Michaela DePrince ❤❤

[@vh3092]

So young and so many challenges in her 29 yrs. Her dance was beautiful. I came to this song to say we cared ❤

[@Rachbookishlifestuff]

It’s 1:30am in Texas right now. I’m laying on the couch in tears feeling like a failure as mother. My precious son is 9. He’s autistic and he’s perfect in my eyes. He’s curled up at my feet. It’s the closest he’s come near me lately. I see so much beauty in him. I can see the world through his big blue eyes. But I also see his pain. And I see the way the world looks at him. This song. This perfectly written string of words fills my heart with hope. It feels me with power. I sing your music daily and just finished your audio book. When it was over my heart broke a bit. It was if , for awhile I was hearing a friend talk to me about their life. It made me feel less alone. I just want to say thank you for your words. For your voice. For sharing your soul with us.

[@angelloves5637]

Your son is a blessing and sadly others cannot see the gift God has given you" to raise and care for everyday.. He is so blessed to have you as his mother and God will give you strength in those times that it gets hard in your Lives. in the name of Jesus Christ his son .. May the good Lord always watch over you and your son ...

[@Patriotswelcome]

I have a 7 year old with the same diagnosis. He doesn't talk but boy does he love music! Don't ever give up. This life is very hard but also so beautiful!

[@Mary-Love]

This comment inspired tears and chills upon my skin, kind stranger, you are beautiful too, please never stop spreading love in every colorful form

[@MRSANN2010]

I wish i could say it gets easier but it does get more manageable. My son is 25 you surely isn't alone. We are out here fighting this fight of faith with you. You just can't see us individually. God is in control of our lives take it day by day. Start your day with prayer throughout the day give Him thanks and end your day with prayer. God loves you and so do i. ❤🥰❤🤝🏽🤝🏽🤝🏽🙏🏽🙌🏾

[@Milaperadotti]

I just read your story and it touched my heart. I have an 8yr old daughter with autism. I tell her how much I love her she can’t say it back. It used to break my heart until I realized she shows her love in different ways. You are a great mother the fact that you worry that you are not ,just shows that you are a great mother.

[@MrChapisimo]

A few days ago I turned 44 years old and today I listen to this song for the very first time, and I couldn’t stop crying while I was on the train to my house... I’m latino, inmigrant, gay and old... many times I have felt invisible in a city with millions of people around me, but tonight I saw myself in your song. Maybe you never read this but today you made me feel human again for 4:58 minutes... Thank you Brandi... ♥️

[@dameargumentos]

Were do you live?

[@MoonShoes22]

You're not old...

[@puddinpak]

One correction, you are very young yet!

[@MC-ij3lb]

I'm the same age. I'm your sister. So you aren't alone. xoxox

[@jennys2294]

Happy Birth-week, Santiago. I am 43, and recently I have been feeling old too, but I am hoping for a 2nd wind because I am about to move countries and start again from scratch. It is scary, and yes, it is lonely. Life has so many ups and downs. But I am determined to try. I was a strong, energetic and creative person when I was young and lost most of that the past few years, but I want to try and find some of that in me still. I hope you also find the best in you soon too. Warmest wishes.

[@callenwade]

I am a therapist. I can't tell you how many times I have shared this song and video with clients. It is beautiful.

[@geralt6229]

Thank you ❤. You know they are beautiful too.

[@Dani-nl2id]

Do you share it with a certain kind of client? I'm having a hard time understanding the reasoning behind showing it to them. Is it the "the joke's on them" line? Is it about bullying maybe? Or is it "I've seen how it ends". Is it to tell them it will all be okay in the end? Sorry if I come across ignorant, I just want to understand :)

[@AlphaMachina]

If you haven't seen it, you should check out "Hi Ren" by Ren. It's a lifechanging experience.

[@laurenbendik2006]

Im not the therapist but id say its good to share with anyone who feels they are made to feel lesser than or feel beat down by life.

[@MichelBiesot]

Amen Lauren! ❤​@@laurenbendik2006

[@kaelahpoulos]

You will be missed, Michaela Mabinty DePrince. ❤

[@screenattractions6753]

heard this first at AGT 2019.. such a beautiful song.

[@tomward8640]

Benicio Bryant goes to my school

[@tomward8640]

Kool kid

[@danielaguerra4812]

@@tomward8640 cool

[@faimagine9817]

Mee too

[@Ace-dp9wl]

❤️

[@lillianwheeler6118]

This is one of the GREATEST songs ever

[@awesomedeb9922]

Agree!

[@paulchandler9241]

I have to agree.

[@paulchandler9241]

I think it might be the best song this century so far.

[@brooks323]

Sounds Alright. Sounds like a song from the 70’s.

[@fawzulazimrafid1484]

Totally agree and one of the most underrated song ever

[@MarianneMurdock]

Heartbroken... So glad that we have this piece of art. Rest in Power, Peace, and Beauty, Mabinty.

[@vespers2405]

Rest with the angels precious Michaela-your beauty remains with us💔

[@augustasante4420]

Is any body here in 2024...it’s 1:5am here in Ghana and I can’t get over this beautiful Mater piece

[@robynrains7252]

2024 Portland Oregon USA 👋 A beautiful song 💕🩷😎

[@yonggillee-f7n]

here is Korea.

[@nemesis1487]

@@augustasante4420 September the 8th. Greece 🇬🇷

[@RichM0410]

Sept 2024

[@johnpetry5321]

Someone shared this song with me not an hour ago. It had a great impact on me. I'm a 70-mumble-year-old gay man who grew up in a small town. Let's just say that high school was not a fun time. But to those of you out there who might be struggling with how people behave towards you, know that this will pass. The mess they try to pass to you - you can reject that. You are not defined by the foolishness of others. You are not limited by their views of who you are. Reach out for your dreams and enjoy your own life on your terms. That is the greatest revenge you can have - to reach your own goals and leave the haters in the dust.

[@JerryNoel-th7wh]

That was my revenge on being gay in small town, I left all them behind and just lived my life

[@eartha911]

You're not alone, John. I'm 67, and grew up in the deep south. I hid it well until someone caught me with another ball player. It was a crucifixion. I left the country for a while at ages 19 to 21. This was 1976. You can do it people! Leave their petty asses behind.

[@thaddeusk4230]

I"ve seen the movie and I know how it ends. And the jokes on them.. Live your beautiful life.

[@TM-yn4iu]

I'm 68, old white guy...in TX,....this is probably one of the greatest stories of life.....I believe. Survived a bit so much, but so many others as well. I learned a long time ago, it's the day I live in today, without going after those....the jokes on them...wish those who've struggled and are struggling peace...keep moving..forward. .it will come. I cannot imagine the challenges that so many people have overcome, living positive even after.

[@vh3092]

Yes

[@sapiophile545]

😢 that really got me. I'm in Texas too. I wish you every beautiful moment possible. 🦋🥀

[@darreltobey2690]

Just N of ya brother Texan❤. Me too, old goat, 70 yrs. I'm still kicking 😊, loving life" with a little help from my friends". Love Brandi's music.

[@steveh9769]

I came out when I was 16 in 1987 Dallas TX. I went through it and came out on the other side happy and healthy!!! So I know the importance of this song.

[@notsuredc]

This song is more criminally underrated than I thought 😳 thanks Benny and AGT for the introduction wow it’s beautiful 😭

[@mmmk1616]

Yes, me too! I cried, and I'm crying again now!

[@joycebarlow9215]

Chris 8 this singer is just Awesome 😎 what a fantastic voice xx

[@WombExplorer]

This song just has less views but it doesn't change the fact that this song Actually won Grammy award! People are busy into rap/hip hop shit rn:(

[@welcometoreality3450]

please everyone pass this video around!

[@drdonutandthedingus]

I'm a School Counselor and used this video as part of a Social Emotional Lesson for Middle School this morning. Tough crowd. This video is absolutely disarming and powerful. It has a great representation of ages and cultures/skin tones that is inclusive and reaches the empathy even Middle Schoolers can access.

[@micheledegroot2247]

Love that, wish we had counselors like you way back when

[@awakeningphilspost520]

i agree music saved my life once i learnt its power i started karaoke the more i sang the healthier i got....my mind was stuck in the past and worried about the future but singing brought me into the moment away from worry and fear......every child should do karaoke its so much fun and the confidence it has given me will do the same for anyone......singing music to me is the greatest healer.....take care love your work

[@jenniferbradley8470]

I love that she put a veteran in this video. We overlook the people who put their lives on the line for our freedom and so many times they are overlooked, and abandoned.

[@jenniferbradley8470]

These people fought for our country so that we could have freedoms to be whatever we could be, and they should never be forgotten or cast aside.

[@triksy02]

Your freedom...? Sorry didnt know usa has a freedom problems..

[@barnesjohn7657]

Yep..,.. as an old gay geezer no one is given an exception to cruelty

[@veeherreraJanecka]

And she included an immigration story too. Humanity

[@Nakrawedzi12]

No, weterans did a lot of bad, Wietnam was awful,

[@bobhess7434]

An anthem to inclusion and acceptance. A middle finger to bullies and haters. What an amazing, haunting, powerful song and video.

[@Venetiababy1]

It knocks me out! Omg! What a talent!

[@sjcolo78]

Well and truly! I keep falling in love with this song whenever I hear it. It's rare that I get this captivated by a song; its lyrics, music and even her voice is strong yet gentle and angelic. This girl is mighty gifted!

[@Gods_Real]

No it's not. God's a man and he's above. You're all below him the 99.999999999999999999 because you're not the 1.

[@scottwallace1]

Thanks AGT and Benicio for bringing me here. Great song.

[@edgargomez4620]

Me too

[@reginavanzuiden3737]

Me too.

[@adrianapatanduk7786]

Me too

[@yousafkhankhannies948]

Me too as well

[@gdgill5298]

Great song.. thanks to Benicio..

[@michellel5552]

I can't believe I've wasted so much time not hearing her voice. What a gift she is. A storyteller and a musician. I've found my new favorite artist!!

[@elizabethsinding5618]

Totally agree!Where have I been?

[@Bugg7354]

Same! I just discovered her a year or so ago! How have I missed her!!!!

[@cleocatra9324]

I’ve been a fan since I first heard her around 2006. Since then most of the time there’s a new song I really like on the radio there’s a 90% chance it’s Brandi

[@randalynfisher4996]

This song amazes me!I hope someone plays it in remembrance of me!!

[@randalynfisher4996]

Plea

[@deenam5461]

If I had a dollar for every time brandi’s music made me cry on the bus I would be able to afford something other than public transportation

[@YourLoyalDeserter]

Deena M that made me laugh lol

[@josephavendano6902]

You are a sweet soul.

[@josephavendano6902]

Deena M you read like a kind soul Deena👼

[@mikesimonian990]

Deena M get a job

[@pelicanstatepiper2916]

Vehicle ownership is overrated

[@mikegrier2829]

Whoever you are, wherever you are…celebrate yourself. Never give up. Never.

[@andrewhughes4161]

Don't know why but I am a 45 year old man sobbing at this song something spoke to me

[@stevebailey5591]

It must trigger memories from your childhood, or maybe you're a parent yourself.

[@Brend.0]

my childhood here

[@redheadedfreckles2]

Andrew Hughes me too

[@everythingNotHere]

55 and same here.

[@SweetColo]

61, same here. Guess we have all suffered or are suffering. It hits a primal nerve in a beautiful way. Chilling.

[@mary469]

I'm here after watched AGT Brandi carlile is a great singer Love this song ❤️

[@pverel7510]

me too!

[@PrashantPatel0042]

Yes

[@johnchikkatiganis5801]

Likewise Awesome song

[@CodyOsborn1]

Benicio Bryant from America's Got Talent brought me here! What a phenomenal cover of a beautiful song.

[@cjoviac]

Cody Osborn Me too! I just took a single lyric from his performance hoping to find the original song. He really did a wonderful job!! What a song choice for a 14yr old though? Good for him!! I’m rooting for him!👏🙏

[@madysoncausey3217]

AGREED

[@quintaldasrixas]

me 2

[@dishatto]

Me too!!

[@jackkissir9028]

Brandi Carlile! OMG what insight what feeling. This came from the Universe. The tears won't stop flowing and I am 78 years old. Thank you for this song. 🌹🌹

[@strollinwithrollin]

Those are the tears of life, let them flow

[@bobwall9570]

I'm here as Elton John said, of any song he could wish he had written, it was this one.

[@latoyamitchell3430]

Has to be the ultimate compliment of all time for an artist.

[@susandoc1739]

Well it took me a lot longer but he led me to this and I'm so appreciative of the posts about those featured I am learning.

[@pamelaa.mankowski212]

Omg finally I listened to her song a while back called “The Story “ just as good this woman is by far my favorite singer composer .and ty Benicio Bryant for singing The Joke on Agt....🤗😘🤗 my goosebumps are flipping out insanely

[@emmymatt]

Did he really say that? I love this song 😭😭😍😍

[@eme.261]

Considering that the vast majority of Elton John's songs were written by his long time lyricist, the songwriter Bernie Taupin, that's an interesting thing for Elton to have said. Elton composes the music, but it's Bernie who writes the words. The lyrics for almost all of Elton's beloved songs were written by Bernie Taupin, such as "Tiny Dancer," "Candle in the Wind," "Your Song," "Someone Saved My Life Tonight," "I Guess That's Why They Call It the Blues," "Sacrifice," "Daniel," "Goodbye Yellow Brick Road," etc. Bernie's a quintessential Gemini lyricist, as is Brandi Carlile. Gemini are usually phenomenally gifted lyricists, when they're musically inclined. Other famous Gemini singer/songwriters are: -Bob Dylan -Paul McCartney -Tupac Shakur -Prince -Kendrick Lamar -Macklemore -Lauryn Hill -The Notorious B.I.G -Stevie Nicks -Brian Wilson -Danny Elfman -Lionel Richie -Sturgill Simpson -Melissa Etheridge -Noel Gallagher -Alanis Morisette -Pete Wentz And on and on...

[@thelifelivedsmilingbysydne7889]

Benicio Bryan is the reason I know this song Where has this song been hiding wow Such a beautiful message

[@josuamrt4217]

Me too

[@lilRadRidinHood]

Previously I'd gotten strong messages from Pinks' "You are beautiful", & Mary J. Blige (I forgot the song.) We needed a new anti-bullying and self-esteem song in these times for sure, and Benicio brought this one to light for millions.

[@vh3092]

Discovered Michaela dancing and now she is gone 😢

[@nateharris1389]

I love that the people in the video get to smile at the end. It should be that way.

[@TheRogueStatesman]

I'm a 42 year old straight cis white male... and I cannot get through this song without 😭 Brandi Carlile isn't just the voice of our generation... she's the voice of ALL generations!

[@gsoboslay6348]

I'm headed out tomorrow from N-E Ohio to Nashville. All you Whippersnappers ... lighten up and keep planning fun things in your future. I'm going to add B C & Twins to my list. My. Birthday gift to me...a concert to hear the best ... on my 80th birthday 🤩

[@KLM1883]

What is cis white male

[@chels2cool32]

What does you being a cis white male have anything to do with you crying

[@floccinaucinihilipilificat6749]

@@KLM1883 cis means not trans

[@KLM1883]

@@floccinaucinihilipilificat6749 😂🤣😂🤣

[@sandyseward522]

As far as as I'm concerned Brandi is the most talented female singer/song writers of her generation! I'm so glad I found her music! ❤ Oh! And I'm 65!

[@carpenter123154]

I'm 66 and feel the same way... her music is haunting and reaches deep within.

[@katieklein3256]

I’m 15 and I feel this way, I feel that she is one of the most talented and caring singers of my generation as well

[@mwbrada]

I'm just glad I found her. That kid from AGT brought me here. This song...

[@sue17]

Fellow 65 year old! Been fangirling over Brandi since 2005!

[@sandyseward522]

@@sue17 Great, I didn't stumble on her until 2008. She really is an amazing singer songwriter. So few left!

[@chiomaubani4680]

To those who ever took my kindness as my weakness... The joke is on them

[@derpaderp198]

🤗💗💙

[@dishatto]

Such a perfect comment. This comment needs to go viral. You should hash tag it. Can I steal it and put it on my Facebook? It’s exactly what I feel too.

[@lamlalatoyabam9028]

Yes❤❤❤❤

[@dailydedication2663]

EXACTLY, EXACTLY, EXACTLY!!!!!!!

[@evabailey3860]

❤❤

[@JimCincinnati]

Most of the time I am unimpressed and depressed with this world because I am different. This magic song makes me want to grab some paper towels and a bottle of windex and shine up my soul until it sparkles like a huge diamond. How restored and soaring you made me feel. With thanks from your newest fan, a 56 year old single red state misfit in Columbus, Ohio who discovered you and this song for the very first time tonight while watching you on the Grammys. My dog Belle moved off the couch and stared at me because she thought something was wrong because it made me cry. Many thanks for making me feel something. Just HAD to attempt to let you know.

[@susiq4857]

James Geo You're alive, your heart beats, your soul sings and you are special.

[@TheGreatConstantini]

You are not alone out there. Perhaps there are a lot of people who in these dark times are more like you than you will ever no. The rest can just spin...

[@lochjess]

This is so beautiful. I so wish she could see this comment! You seem like a beautiful person just from these few words. Shine on!

[@sataniccommunist9045]

well said..

[@aylbdrmadison1051]

Reading these comments has made me feel hopeful and made me smile and tear up at the same time. Love for all of you.

[@MrBojangles788]

I'm pretty sure this is actually the greatest song of all time.

[@louis9945]

👍🏻 agree❤

[@MrFingers008]

AGT brought me here. Never heard this song before but it is amazing

[@iamjen1]

Same here

[@karimtc1227]

Me too

[@dishatto]

I can’t even express how important a song this is. I wish every teen who has felt rejection could hear this song and every person who has felt prejudice due to class, or any type of social difference. I sure needed this in the 1980s.

[@girljocknerd]

💯💙

[@blackjakko]

The way her voice breaks is so thrilling. It pierces through everything through all the bs and trauma and baggage and pokes right into your heart. I wish I heard her more on the radio, theres so much junk getting airtime instead of great artists.

[@onairo2499]

Krater.96

[@spareparts1017]

What’s a “radio”

[@coreybuchanan2169]

My favorite part is her voice breaks.

[@kindredspiritfly]

she is an amazing vocalist!!

[@leaf2180]

When I'm in the car i usually stick to the stations that play music from before the 90s, occasionally listening to 90s if they're playing a good song. Kind of sad that you have to get on the internet and search up gems like this just to listen to it. Been a fan of Brandi since i was a kid. Always hoped and wished she'd blow up like Taylor Swift, can't say I'm disappointed that she didn't. But she does deserve much more recognition.

[@johngilbert4308]

My son was born with Down Syndrome 36 years ago. He was laughed at. He asked me what a spastic was and what was a mongol. I asked him where he had heard these words. He said it was his ‘friends’ at school. Thank you Brandi, I am smiling as I listen to your voice as the tears roll down my cheeks. My Boy shines and he is beautiful and he is My Guardian Angel who gifts me and many, unconditional love ❤️

[@robynrains7252]

Sending you both LOVE and HUGs🩷💕🩷💕

[@johngilbert4308]

@@robynrains7252 Thank you Robyn 🌈🦋🙏🌹🌹🌹🌹 William and John

[@johngilbert4308]

@@robynrains7252 Good evening from Poland Dear Robyn, thank you for your wonderful wishes. Happily William and many will celebrate his 38th birthday tomorrow. Best best wishes from John and William 🌈💜

[@robynrains7252]

@@johngilbert4308 Happy Birthday 🎂🎁🎉🎊🎈 to them both 💕🩷💕🩷🥰

[@johngilbert4308]

@@robynrains7252 Thank you Dear Robyn, love and hugs from Will and John 🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@WorldFamousSongwriter]

At 68, I've heard how many songs? Yours, Brandi, is one of the best.

[@intowngirl102]

61..I feel the say way!

[@JennP.Can6316]

You're feeling nervous, aren't you, boy? With your quiet voice and impeccable style Don't ever let them steal your joy And your gentle ways, to keep 'em from running wild They can kick dirt in your face Dress you down, and tell you that your place Is in the middle, when they hate the way you shine I see you tugging on your shirt Trying to hide inside of it and hide how much it hurts Let 'em laugh while they can Let 'em spin, let 'em scatter in the wind I have been to the movies, I've seen how it ends And the joke's on them You get discouraged, don't you, girl? It's your brother's world for a while longer We gotta dance with the devil on a river To beat the stream Call it living the dream, call it kicking the ladder They come to kick dirt in your face To call you weak and then displace you After carrying your baby on your back across the desert I saw your eyes behind your hair And you're looking tired, but you don't look scared Let 'em laugh while they can Let 'em spin, let 'em scatter in the wind I have been to the movies, I've seen how it ends And the joke's on them Let 'em laugh while they can Let 'em spin, let 'em scatter in the wind I have been to the movies, I've seen how it ends And the joke's on them

[@davidcantwell2489]

Thank you for taking the time to write that down I for one appreciate it.

[@raheelsidddiqui1033]

Jennifer Pardue thanks... peace and love ..

[@JennP.Can6316]

@Raheel Sidddiqui @David Cantwell No problem at all. Honestly, I just copied and pasted from another website. 🤷🏻‍♀️😬 The song is so very inspiring and meaningful, I wish everyone in the would would hear it, and soak up the lyrics in their hearts.

[@emilymaleahtench9409]

so beautiful ♡

[@vlm5723]

@@JennP.Can6316 what is the song about? I am not quite sure. Beautiful and haunting.

[@shaghafawad2763]

This is one of the songs that takes you to another dimension. You can feel it in your skin, your bones and of course, your heart. Love every single word.

[@leafnlore2712]

You, too? Absolutely. Peace to you!

[@sue17]

YES!

[@silviaoliveira6290]

Yes

[@kcfurn]

Perfectly said

[@yvonnewheeler6230]

Absolutely Amen to that ❤

[@lisacarson7630]

TY Brandi for this song.

[@TheBuch4]

This is the America we fight for. This is the America we grieve for. This IS America! What a beautiful gift!

[@biggiepablo]

TheBuch4 Well said! Well said!

[@larrymoore9986]

Amen

[@brighty1122]

UGH, I LOVE HER CONTROLLED VOICE CRACKS, IT JUST MAKES THE SONG SO MUCH BETTER.

[@1974jrod]

Just watched her live on the Grammys. I had chills the entire time. The woman is absolutely incredible, unique, and powerful with her voice.

[@semisophisticate63]

Wasn't it an amazing performance??? I loved all the performances but this one stood out for me.

[@juliecopelandbarrows2971]

Me too. I was mesmerized by Brandi last night.

[@1974jrod]

It was awesome!

[@sazcarr]

I can’t find a video of the performance to watch it 😢

[@emilyh.8704]

I have never watched her perform ..but let me tell y'all..this incredibly amazing talented woman touched the very depth of my soul with her words and chilling yet soothing voice...totally blew me away..I saw her today on Ellen as well and THAT performance was way better than on the Grammys..Ms. Brandi..I wish you nothing but all the success and happiness ..love from all.. you so deserve..you are down to earth and true..peace be with you and your wife always..

[@dakoopst]

I am unashamed to admit this song brings tears to my eyes every time I hear it. So beautifully delivered.

[@cheriroush2509]

❤️

[@caroljohnson2018]

Me too.

[@meriembendarhal11]

Same here . Don't be ashamed of being a beautiful person reacting to beautiful things ❤

[@norashaner3103]

Absolutely and sends chills down my spine!

[@jenniferbradley8470]

I cried so hard today hearing this song!!! Played it 3 times

[@ianoosthuizen1429]

Grammy Nominated!! I am so happy for her, this song deserves Song and Record Of The Year nods

[@Adansonia13]

Deserves the award for each category :')

[@gabrielasilva41]

Shallow is better

[@daddyspecialangel]

Citizen Erazed I wish it got more plays on the radio. I didn’t even know who she was until the Grammy nominations and she deserves to win with this masterpiece

[@ariobimod]

I'm sorry but shallow is that btch. Period!

[@777L777E777]

I had never heard of her and I'm thankful to the Grammys for introducing me to her. Chills all over my body

[@Fallingslowly09]

TheOtherSide she was fairly popular in the mid 2000s. You should listen to her other songs. She’s great!

[@vuez1]

Agreed!! Go back and listen to The Story. I still listen to it, first song on my Mp3.

[@kycone]

She’s even better in person. Go see her if you can!

[@lucretiabagley2494]

Yes this song has been downloaded I felt those same chills

[@lunalovesprocrastination9248]

saaaaame

[@tiffanyfranks5861]

In tears just heard this song today and it’s just what I needed to hear. My parents put me though 33 years of hell. I never lived up to their expectations, it’s been 5 years now that we have spoken. I’m happily married to a wonderful man , three kids , who could ask for more ❤️ Thank you Brandi!

[@libster9631]

I get it. My estranged father and I unexpectedly met. It went poorly and he said, "I hate you" to me

[@kriszti31]

I'm so sorry to hear this had happened to you. I hope you're ok.

[@MrChrissy1r]

I get it too, I could never do right in my parents eyes. Though I married a beautiful girl, and was/am a successful businessman, with a lovely home and a fantastic son, but I never let my parents jaundice, get to me. They are long gone now, and no regrets. Sadly I lost my wife after 49 very very happy years five years ago, (cancer) so, alone now, and only have my memories and the very best thing in my life now is memories , music and song!!

[@yourworshipthegreat7630]

This is the 4th year of no any sort of communication! She massed up my psychic as a child and yet she thinks im the problem! What hurts is that, she doesnt understand the extent of what she did affects me and i didn't confront her about! Other wise she will insinuate of me wanting an apology because yap! parents on this side of the world are not faulty to their own off springs which i understand! I left the country may be after ten yrs i will think of a possible make up that is 6yrs to go!

[@MIB_63]

@@MrChrissy1r I can totally relate to you. All I have left after an accident that left me disabled, losing my wife and losing the love of my son is music. Music is a healer. Stay strong, Chris Bond!

[@PaulCook-un6ou]

I'm a 76 year old dude and this song still brings tears to my eyes.

[@vh3092]

And people are crazy about swift. 67 yrs and this is my theme song

[@ShawnMcClearn-Yinzer-At-Heart]

When I first heard this, I felt like she was singing directly to me, to that part of me that I've forgotten about, to the scared little boy who still wants someone to tell him he's okay just the way his, that it's okay to be sad and scared but that he doesn't have to be any more. Thank you, Brandi Carlile.

[@OutGayMusic]

I so can relate, Shawn. Feel free to subscribe to my channel, please. Many songs in my playlists speak to similar feelings. Many are gems, many are under appreciated, many others range across a wide spectrum.

[@johnmichaelarnaud]

Right there with you, brother.

[@drewroberts948]

I feel the same way everytime i watch this video. She is my new hero!!

[@heathmartin9283]

Exactly

[@CantWaaait]

Shawn McClearn You're still okay just the way you are 🤗

[@moondocb]

Hands down, Brandi Carlile gave THE BEST performance at the 2019 Grammy’s. Should have won more than she did.

[@emersonmarquez4925]

Thanks from Benecio Bryant, performing on AGT. He brought me here

[@tracytowles8292]

Emerson Marquez Bennico is a girl!!!

[@shannon0511]

No he’s a boy

[@viampir]

I’m a transgender youth in the south, texas to be exact. I just turned 18 and i’m so scared to be an adult here, it feels like everyone here hates me and who i am, what i am, every inch of me. but this song gives me hope, makes me feel like maybe, just *maybe* it’s worth it, to keep on trying and maybe get somewhere better. I’m terrified of violence, to use public bathrooms, to speak or for my binder to show. i hope it’s going to be okay, that i’ll live a long happy life where people don’t hate my identity and see me for who i am. Thank you for this song, and thank you for the hope and peace it brings me.❤️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

[@joanramler7831]

I cry reading your post. I hurt for you. I am old and I know that at 18 so many things seem overwhelming. Trust me, it will get better. You will find your place. Not everyone hates. Please, just you be you.

[@marylynnebiener4205]

I’m a 51 year old mom in Toronto. My daughter is a year younger than you. She’s queer and most of her friends are queer and trans. Most of my friends are as well. It enrages, terrifies, and deeply saddens me what all trans and nonbinary people are being faced with, this endless barrage of ignorance and hatred and literal violence. It’s time that the assholes perpetrating this rottenness are accountable. It needs to stop yesterday. I just want to send you some love and support, and I got a big old internet mom hug if you need one. And I’m a good listener if you ever need a friend. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. I’m glad this song gives you some comfort. It does me, too. And I literally just sent it to my kid.

[@adamlorber]

❤

[@BrianCowley-y5i]

Be happy with who you are ❤

[@getgaymin]

As a young queer in 2007, when Brandi's first album came out, I felt the same way.... I am so proud of her for continuing to inspire, and you for continuing to persist & persevere. Know that you are loved & that you will find your tribe soon and they will wrap you up in a big blanket of love

[@broncodeviltexas]

Grammy worthy vocal.

[@guschmidt2425]

Turns out you were right lol

[@oNegLeEk]

bronco devil you were right!

[@gsogso3444]

I just heard this song today....at the Grammy ...wow...she is incredible 👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@laurahacker4462]

She should have won just for her performance tonight She had me choked up big time and I'm still in awe of that performance. Stellar.

[@peggyrobinson7482]

me too! LOVE

[@ewelinaszaroleta]

I fell in love with her music... Thanks Grammy. Now I know that we have such a beautiful woman with incredible voice.

[@yjkesus1]

Me too! she is incredible lol

[@shellieneff9715]

Crushed it!!!🔥🔥🔥Goosies tears & hooked!!!!! Lovvvve❤💙💜

[@gulfbaby230]

To the young people watching this video and listening to this song, REMEMBER THIS. The bullies are ALWAYS more miserable than you. They are broken, sad, lonely and empty, and the only thing that makes them feel better is to try to make YOU as miserable as THEM with their ugly words and actions. Keep fighting through the tears and you will come out on the other side more strong and confident and beautiful than you could ever imagine. You are worth the fight ❤❤❤❤

[@fry5544]

🧡 Thank you so much. 🧡 Infinite love to you. 🧡

[@fry5544]

Been bullied all my life from everyone, by my family/parents, sister, partners, friends, school, university, work, teenagers, adults, white people, coloured people, neighbours, neighbourhood. It feels like the whole world is bullying me. Thank you for your kindness & respect.

[@fry5544]

Been bullied all my life from everyone, by my family/parents, sister, partners, friends, school, university, work, teenagers, adults, white people, coloured people, neighbours, neighbourhood. It feels like the whole world is bullying me. Thank you for your kindness & respect.

[@ozbizbozzle]

I don't think the bullies even know what they do for they carry so much trauma that they believe that's who they are.

[@Gods_Real]

False be christ and 1 person blamed for all your fu** ups and not sticking up for yourself or dying for yourself. You're a loser expecting or designating someone else to do it. The person that doesn't die inherits thebearth and you all follow. Play this game. Bet right or wrong. It's a 50 50

[@kmorrison4994]

Found this song at a perfect time. A close friend, who I've known 16 years, walked out of my life and said I never mattered. This song is a self-love power ballad. ❤️

[@alanathomas961]

Her stellar Grammy performance brought me here. What a gift you are. Wow.

[@nohemiejoanis1926]

Me too

[@farzananazim7214]

Never heard this song.Came from Grammy nominations Very beautiful song

[@bernardofelsenfeld9142]

Me too

[@thiagoferreira9213]

Me too - two

[@PatrickSamlal]

Same

[@speedyposty14]

Yup. What a performance

[@seattleclock]

Ditto

[@binayavaidya3915]

Anyone here after watching Benicio Bryant on AGT?? He really pulled off this song with such beauty. Great song 😊.

[@prada7775]

Me, i like Benicio's better!

[@sussetdcorleone2705]

Muy cierto la canta muchísimo mejor BENICIO BRYANT

[@kennywalker4091]

It's precisely why I'm here. I've never seen this video, have never heard of her before. But now I'm a fan and this is one of my all time favorite videos.

[@manupeni]

Yes

[@fabainadinaana8270]

Yea how did u know ahaaa

[@mb5612]

I can’t explain exactly why, but this song completely dissolved me into tears. Maybe the why doesn’t really matter.

[@angelalopez2003]

The song ended, but I'm still crying; my God! What a powerfully moving peice of beautiful art this is.

[@toytrelldean]

Angela Lopez yes it is 💞 we need more music like this.

[@mllink]

I agree! I have been a fan of hers for years and I was so happy to hear she got a Grammy nomination for this song. She is a singular talent with a stunning voice.

[@AsktheHarry]

always when i hear this

[@PuddlesPityParty]

Oh, my heart. 💔

[@caroljones7041]

Thank you American Express for introducing me to this magical song Just a few bars of the violin solo and the tears were cascading down my face. I feel so overcome by this song. Thank you Brandi Carlisle.

[@sunspotdawn1261]

Sh

[@idoialarrarte7077]

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[@mfalcotore2815]

Hope your ok puddles... love you 💜💙 you keep on. Your amazing live that light... keep shining,

[@jennybouffard5971]

❤️ It's so beautiful and real.

[@caioclymaco3179]

This video deserves 100 millions views!!! Brandi is such a talented who makes us understand how charts doesn’t matter comparing with talent!!!! ❤️

[@InesHerrmann]

Hi there, if you like her voice - you might like mine too! kzbin.info/www/bejne/gYvSZnyvnNZ8Y7c

[@roseannabragg8671]

HOW DID I JUST TONIGHT, DISCOVER THIS MASTERPIECE??!!!!! Wow. Life is amazing. Just when you thought you heard everything….your heart is swept up and forever changed.

[@christinet100]

you're a year ahead of me! I have it on autorepeat - need to make up for lost time 💕

[@sweetfourglambert6129]

Why do we hear the same music over and over on the radio when we have this!! She is amazing 😊

[@jenniferhollowell9198]

Try different radio! Search for local, community radio (if available in your area) or search out ones on the web. WMNF.org in Tampa.

[@christophershibles383]

I've heard this song play once at work. I'd heard Hold Out Your Hand many times before the Grammys but shortly after, I did hear this song play. It was a nice change. I do like it when Hold Out Your Hand plays. Most of the music is not very good and when something I enjoy plays, it's such a nice few minutes!

[@dhomaracosta3573]

I'm here bcoz of AGT. This is beautiful song.

[@ncolgan5038]

Philip Phines same

[@sitinurfarhankamarjehan8905]

Same..

[@aleaabdullah4800]

same😊

[@doubledutch13]

The first song I ever heard on a talent show where I truly preferred the original, thank you to Benicio for introducing me to the wonderful music of Brandi Carlile ❤️

[@ochajennifer1067]

Same here AGT

[@norycomia1577]

one of my favorite

[@kiranNiks]

So true

[@aaliyahcoleman2173]

THISSS

[@alyurpaly406]

Me 2!! Thank you Benicio, I never woulda heard this before. Oh man, OH I WISH I WOULDVE WROTE IT!!!! BEAUTIFUL!!! 💜💗💙

[@gemazdiclasse7325]

I am 58 years old, and starting to heal old wounds others inflicted during my childhood. I am an oldest of everything (oldest grandchild, daughter, niece, cousin). I was blessed with 5 kids and (for now) 12 grandkids. This song definitely have healing properties. Listen and sometimes sing it every day to help me survive some of my most challenging days. Bless you all 🙏🏼♥️

[@katemcalear8591]

This sounds like me. Hope you are doing well. This song is beautiful x

[@gemazdiclasse7325]

Thank you dear. Doing better. Greetings and Blessings 🙏🏼♥️

[@boserhund13]

I am your age and also carry wounds from my childhood and beyond. I find it incredibly sad that those "closest" to us are totally oblivious to our pain, the scars we carry, and the tears we hold in. I have been in self-preservation mode for so many years now that I don't know any other way. 😢

[@gemazdiclasse7325]

@@boserhund13 Receive a big healing hug, and my prayers for way more good days. 🙏🏼♥️

[@trinendughosh2939]

This song needs to win the grammy. Its one of the best songs of this year.

[@unlikelysquid]

Everyone who is here because of her Grammy nominations should explore the rest of her catalog. I’ve been a fan of hers for years and this recognition is well deserved.

[@sunroller1215]

yaaasssssssssss

[@YuTu13e]

Exactly what I’m doing. Thanks for not being one of those assholes that criticizes people for “just finally finding out about her because of the Grammys”. Should definitely win record of the year imo.

[@unlikelysquid]

YuTu13e Everyone discovers music in different ways and at different times! Some people act like they were the first to discover every artist they listen to lol. I’ve been “late to the party” on many bands and artists who are now some of my favorites. Gatekeeping annoys me, and I’m just glad more people are discovering how amazing Brandi is!

[@YuTu13e]

Ashley Marlow same, I’ve been on both ends.

[@lynnfa1758]

Benecio thank you for getting me here. Your version so smooth

[@markjuguan5996]

I love how she sings with emotion that can uplift people who were isolated by society.

[@LaaLaa901]

I'm predicting it now. Grammy for Record of the Year, and Vocal Performance. Perfect song.

[@Bogeyman19Was4BraindeadPeople]

Lisa Angell so. Who cares. I like shit whether it gets a Grammy or any dreamt up award. That’s superficial BS.

[@LaaLaa901]

Have a Snickers Jan. I didn't say I loved it because it is Grammy worthy. It was just a prediction. That's all.

[@hafiznazri7320]

U r right sis. But this song sounds like beautiful by christina aguilera. Still great though.

[@navigator387]

Well you predicted right, she won the Grammy !!

[@sage7296]

Lisa Angell damn ,you were right

[@michaelougarezos8963]

i listen to this song every day . i am so in love with it and takes the deep hurt that i have after losing my darling wife in 2016. 45 beautiful years together

[@lilyanm-g3386]

michael ougarezos sorry for your loss sir. Pray you meet her again in heaven.

[@flutter115]

🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 for your loss. I can’t imagine your pain I have been with my spouse for 41 years.

[@Tobilerone1612]

May you guys reunite again in heaven ❤🙏🏿

[@mwbrada]

Michael we all pray your wonderful wife sings this looking down on you as you sing it up to her.

[@geelove2024]

I’m sorry for your loss, sir. 💔

[@Blueapples514]

It is worth a grammy nomination

[@dragonwithagirltattoo598]

I was bullied in jr. high by 2 girls that made it hell for me. I wish I’d had this song then. Their bullying really scarred me and caused much grief for me even now. Totally changed my sweet and naive nature to one of mistrust and fear of other people. This is a great song.

[@stevenholst]

Sorry you went through that. Hope you've been feeling better.🙂

[@bobhess7434]

I am so very sorry about this. You deserved so much better than what you were given.

[@coolhand62]

I cannot understand how anyone who owns a beating heart could give a thumb's down to this most beautiful song.

[@firstnamelastname6016]

Their tears made them slip up and hit the wrong button because they were just so moved by the song.

[@yvonnesteinert1922]

Because human kind is stupid and mostly heartless today

[@aylbdrmadison1051]

@Yvonne Steinert _"Because some of human kind is stupid and mostly heartless"._ Fixed. ^-^

[@yvonnesteinert1922]

@@aylbdrmadison1051 yes...my bad 😁

[@kathyw.854]

Not everyone has the same tastes. If this is a song that everyone _has_ to love, then what is the point???

[@Seamoorif]

At the end of the day, we all just want to be loved and accepted. Be kind.

[@timothyfloogle]

#beExcellentToEachother

[@natvgal]

I never realized how powerful this song is. Whew 😢! For some who have never fit in, thank you for finding our voice. 🙏🏽🥹

[@jessicapalacio6541]

I’m a female, Latina, gay, and seeing the worst was fool of fog, I’ve been invisible for many years, but this song made me feel like I can kick high and keep my head up high, thank you for this..

[@Doni4684]

Yes, you can!! ❤️=❤️

[@angielopj5275]

Me gusta tu nombre Jessica Palacio

[@daniello9155]

Jessica, just be a good person and be true to yourself, thats all that matters.

[@ochristine2535]

I can't wait to play this alone in my car on a rainy night and cry.

[@AlwaysaGemini]

Lol you just reminded me of The show "Everybody Loves Raymond" in the episode that Debra is listening to a song and crying, and Raymond comes in he house asking why she was upset.. Debra goes, " just because, you should try it .. Raymond goes, "I'm sorry I don't schedule a time to cry" lol your comment reminded of that (looking forward and scheduling to cry) it's a very beautiful song, made me cry too

[@MichaelGrimaldi]

Upon learning today of the passing of Rita Houston, the program director at WFUV-FM in New York, and reading that Rita was included in this video, I immediately needed to find it and watch. And, of course, watch it and listen to it again. And again. It was a delight to read Brandi's kind remarks about Rita today (wfuv.org/content/rita-houston-apostle-artistry), including the mention that Rita was the first person to play Brandi's music on the radio. That speaks volumes to Rita's insight, talent, spirit and grace . . . that she so quickly recognized, embraced and supported outstanding musical artists like Brandi Carlile.

[@shannanberry]

This is my new anthem...

[@TaraWagner]

Brandi, I've been following you since 2006 at least, maybe earlier. It's about damn time you start getting the recognition you deserve! Your talent is beyond words and you just keep getting better. There aren't many artists as talented as you and the twins, especially the the lyrics you write. Congrats on your well-earned Grammy nominations! (I never watch but I will this time just to cheer you on.)

[@neasaconghaile1791]

Didn't even hear if this before that

[@BrookeKnight561]

AMEN! I've been a fan for over 10 years. She's absolutely fantastic. Total creative genius!

[@JulesRaylin1999]

Tara Wagner Me too, not going to lie, totally cried at The Grammys last night!

[@janetscoggan1154]

She was amazing

[@pamorama]

That's about the year that a friend put her work on a playlist for me. She's so talented--the voice, the lyrical content and melodies. And I would have watched the show if I knew she was going to be on. :-(

[@Ryanzeller-t5t]

Words and music from the heart. Universal language of the heart, the mind, and most importantly the soul.

[@lisawhite9502]

I could listen to this song a thousand times and have the same reaction as if it was the first... ♥️ The song literally touches my soul.

[@dishatto]

That’s because it hits the very heart of justice. Everyone should live with the compassion this song conveys.

[@ERIgou]

This is one for the ages. Great song!

[@RomaSidebank]

Love her voice, nice song, come here after watched Benico on AGT 2019.

[@rvdaniels]

I love her lady. Please keep sharing your light. The world needs it.

[@MAWGranter]

This song just broke my heart and gave me life, simultaneously.

[@mikeyirish1967]

One of the great artists of our time. How fortunate are we to have Brandi Carlile?

[@mauoricio]

This is definitely winning Song of the year, no other nominee is close to this excellence! Wow

[@grandcoasters]

Shallow kinda great too

[@LibertyOrBust]

Sha lah lah lah lah low is dumb. lmao

[@grandcoasters]

@@LibertyOrBust why is it dumb?

[@mauoricio]

Arnaz Mursid Gaga is a good songwriter, Brandi is brilliant! And this song has a much deeper message than Shallow! It’ll hardly get Song of the Year since they award popularity, but I still bet all my coins on her for ROTY 🖤

[@grandcoasters]

@@mauoricio Agree with you!

[@o.a.4092]

One of the best song in last 5 years

[@armbags]

I cry every single time I listen to this. I first saw her sing it at the Grammy’s. I saw the emotion in the audience as well. Amazing thoughtful beautiful song sung by an amazing woman.

[@blakebalathunis1995]

She better win at least 1 grammy! Amazing voice!

[@reanaa]

She's too good to win a grammy.

[@blakebalathunis1995]

@@reanaa ........ okay lol

[@pbn3344]

Blake Balathunis well 3 right now! as we speak!!!!

[@SuperSarahs123]

How have I never heard this anthem? In 64 years ffs. What else am I missing?

[@ambermoon719]

Super Sarah ♥️ She’s freakin awesome, huh? I’m 52 and this brings the tears rolling.

[@jessesmotherman8211]

This is the most Grammy worthy on the list

[@oliviabehindthecrime4958]

Sorry shallow is millon times better

[@jenniebee3737]

@@oliviabehindthecrime4958 - you realize that Brandi Carlile was in A Star is Born? Bradley Cooper asked her to be in the movie. She is on stage singing "Pretty Woman" with Marlon Williams during the Roy Orbison tribute scene.

[@mariosantana7070]

@@oliviabehindthecrime4958 "...millon times better" ?, do you know the meaning of the word 'exaggeration' ?

[@carolynt.4455]

Olivia Nirvana I guarantee Gaga LOVES this song. Prob kills it, too.

[@Barkymark]

@@oliviabehindthecrime4958 LOL Wait. I meant HAHAHAHAHA! And that's coming from someone who likes Shallow, but seriously now. Come on.

[@franknitti9288]

RIP Joe bell😔... this song gives me goosebumps freakin love it.... means I have a heart..

[@amritashome8760]

Thank you Ben Platt for introducing me to this beautiful song 💞

[@lindaholt1610]

I can handle almost anything but old, forgotten soldiers. Not sure why. Nobody I know or are related to ever served. There's something about carrying the inhumanity and atrocities of war so deep that you never speak of them. Now you're 80, and it makes you cry. Because you remember.... Thank you, Ms. Carlile, for including the elderly soldier. You get it. ❤

[@kolakehinde7328]

I hope she knows what she has done for some people all over the world, this is from Nigeria 🇳🇬

[@bonecholampworks]

And lets hope it continues! Love from Canada!

[@Huntercooks]

So ur Canadian too! Nice

[@leafnlore2712]

I hope that peace and love are yours, from the USA (where we just got rid of Donald Trump!!)

[@kolakehinde7328]

@@leafnlore2712 lol 😂

[@chukwukelumarvelous9616]

From Nigeria too.