Brandi Carlile - The Joke (Official Video)

[@Rachbookishlifestuff]

It’s 1:30am in Texas right now. I’m laying on the couch in tears feeling like a failure as mother. My precious son is 9. He’s autistic and he’s perfect in my eyes. He’s curled up at my feet. It’s the closest he’s come near me lately. I see so much beauty in him. I can see the world through his big blue eyes. But I also see his pain. And I see the way the world looks at him. This song. This perfectly written string of words fills my heart with hope. It feels me with power. I sing your music daily and just finished your audio book. When it was over my heart broke a bit. It was if , for awhile I was hearing a friend talk to me about their life. It made me feel less alone. I just want to say thank you for your words. For your voice. For sharing your soul with us.

[@angelloves5637]

Your son is a blessing and sadly others cannot see the gift God has given you" to raise and care for everyday.. He is so blessed to have you as his mother and God will give you strength in those times that it gets hard in your Lives. in the name of Jesus Christ his son .. May the good Lord always watch over you and your son ...

[@Patriotswelcome]

I have a 7 year old with the same diagnosis. He doesn't talk but boy does he love music! Don't ever give up. This life is very hard but also so beautiful!

[@Mary-Love]

This comment inspired tears and chills upon my skin, kind stranger, you are beautiful too, please never stop spreading love in every colorful form

[@MRSANN2010]

I wish i could say it gets easier but it does get more manageable. My son is 25 you surely isn't alone. We are out here fighting this fight of faith with you. You just can't see us individually. God is in control of our lives take it day by day. Start your day with prayer throughout the day give Him thanks and end your day with prayer. God loves you and so do i. ❤🥰❤🤝🏽🤝🏽🤝🏽🙏🏽🙌🏾

[@Milaperadotti]

I just read your story and it touched my heart. I have an 8yr old daughter with autism. I tell her how much I love her she can’t say it back. It used to break my heart until I realized she shows her love in different ways. You are a great mother the fact that you worry that you are not ,just shows that you are a great mother.

[@caitybeans]

Could not have found this song at a better time. It will be my mantra for the next four years. Thank you Brandi Carlile.

[@140neal]

me too

[@veronicaharwick9013]

(((🩵)))

[@shallaloolalawhatwhat9570]

❤​@@140neal

[@Marty22222]

❤

[@leomangine]

It was my mantra from the moment it came out to late Jan 2020. And it worked.

[@michellel5552]

I can't believe I've wasted so much time not hearing her voice. What a gift she is. A storyteller and a musician. I've found my new favorite artist!!

[@elizabethsinding5618]

Totally agree!Where have I been?

[@Bugg7354]

Same! I just discovered her a year or so ago! How have I missed her!!!!

[@cleocatra9324]

I’ve been a fan since I first heard her around 2006. Since then most of the time there’s a new song I really like on the radio there’s a 90% chance it’s Brandi

[@randalynfisher4996]

This song amazes me!I hope someone plays it in remembrance of me!!

[@randalynfisher4996]

Plea

[@drdonutandthedingus]

I'm a School Counselor and used this video as part of a Social Emotional Lesson for Middle School this morning. Tough crowd. This video is absolutely disarming and powerful. It has a great representation of ages and cultures/skin tones that is inclusive and reaches the empathy even Middle Schoolers can access.

[@micheledegroot2247]

Love that, wish we had counselors like you way back when

[@awakeningphilspost520]

i agree music saved my life once i learnt its power i started karaoke the more i sang the healthier i got....my mind was stuck in the past and worried about the future but singing brought me into the moment away from worry and fear......every child should do karaoke its so much fun and the confidence it has given me will do the same for anyone......singing music to me is the greatest healer.....take care love your work

[@JudyWeisbard]

Keep doing this. Kids need this message

[@marhondacampbell4000]

I love that you were able to spread the message. Especially to an age group that oftentimes needs it the most.

[@c-starkd3370]

This is the song my father sings on the gentle breeze. He died last July, too young…. But also far too worn and burned. The brightest of beings. BRANDI, when you created this song you didn’t know that my father found it and then listened to it repeatedly for years, this masterpiece brought my father to tears….. of sweet and utter awe. Thank you for uplifting him with your gift

[@johnpetry5321]

Someone shared this song with me not an hour ago. It had a great impact on me. I'm a 70-mumble-year-old gay man who grew up in a small town. Let's just say that high school was not a fun time. But to those of you out there who might be struggling with how people behave towards you, know that this will pass. The mess they try to pass to you - you can reject that. You are not defined by the foolishness of others. You are not limited by their views of who you are. Reach out for your dreams and enjoy your own life on your terms. That is the greatest revenge you can have - to reach your own goals and leave the haters in the dust.

[@JerryNoel-th7wh]

That was my revenge on being gay in small town, I left all them behind and just lived my life

[@eartha911]

You're not alone, John. I'm 67, and grew up in the deep south. I hid it well until someone caught me with another ball player. It was a crucifixion. I left the country for a while at ages 19 to 21. This was 1976. You can do it people! Leave their petty asses behind.

[@thaddeusk4230]

I"ve seen the movie and I know how it ends. And the jokes on them.. Live your beautiful life.

[@marhondacampbell4000]

ABSOLUTELY!!! Everyone deserves love and to live their lives authentically, without judgment, shame, or fear bc of being “different.” We are all beautiful. ❤

[@robinachaibar8050]

Repent and seek Jesus brother

[@jenniferbradley8470]

I love that she put a veteran in this video. We overlook the people who put their lives on the line for our freedom and so many times they are overlooked, and abandoned.

[@jenniferbradley8470]

These people fought for our country so that we could have freedoms to be whatever we could be, and they should never be forgotten or cast aside.

[@triksy02]

Your freedom...? Sorry didnt know usa has a freedom problems..

[@barnesjohn7657]

Yep..,.. as an old gay geezer no one is given an exception to cruelty

[@veeherreraJanecka]

And she included an immigration story too. Humanity

[@Nakrawedzi12]

No, weterans did a lot of bad, Wietnam was awful,

[@jackkissir9028]

Brandi Carlile! OMG what insight what feeling. This came from the Universe. The tears won't stop flowing and I am 78 years old. Thank you for this song. 🌹🌹

[@strollinwithrollin]

Those are the tears of life, let them flow

[@lillianwheeler6118]

This is one of the GREATEST songs ever

[@awesomedeb9922]

Agree!

[@paulchandler9241]

I have to agree.

[@paulchandler9241]

I think it might be the best song this century so far.

[@brooks323]

Sounds Alright. Sounds like a song from the 70’s.

[@fawzulazimrafid1484]

Totally agree and one of the most underrated song ever

[@MrChapisimo]

A few days ago I turned 44 years old and today I listen to this song for the very first time, and I couldn’t stop crying while I was on the train to my house... I’m latino, inmigrant, gay and old... many times I have felt invisible in a city with millions of people around me, but tonight I saw myself in your song. Maybe you never read this but today you made me feel human again for 4:58 minutes... Thank you Brandi... ♥️

[@dameargumentos]

Were do you live?

[@MoonShoes22]

You're not old...

[@puddinpak]

One correction, you are very young yet!

[@MC-ij3lb]

I'm the same age. I'm your sister. So you aren't alone. xoxox

[@jennys2294]

Happy Birth-week, Santiago. I am 43, and recently I have been feeling old too, but I am hoping for a 2nd wind because I am about to move countries and start again from scratch. It is scary, and yes, it is lonely. Life has so many ups and downs. But I am determined to try. I was a strong, energetic and creative person when I was young and lost most of that the past few years, but I want to try and find some of that in me still. I hope you also find the best in you soon too. Warmest wishes.

[@callenwade]

I am a therapist. I can't tell you how many times I have shared this song and video with clients. It is beautiful.

[@geralt6229]

Thank you ❤. You know they are beautiful too.

[@Dani-nl2id]

Do you share it with a certain kind of client? I'm having a hard time understanding the reasoning behind showing it to them. Is it the "the joke's on them" line? Is it about bullying maybe? Or is it "I've seen how it ends". Is it to tell them it will all be okay in the end? Sorry if I come across ignorant, I just want to understand :)

[@AlphaMachina]

If you haven't seen it, you should check out "Hi Ren" by Ren. It's a lifechanging experience.

[@laurenbendik2006]

Im not the therapist but id say its good to share with anyone who feels they are made to feel lesser than or feel beat down by life.

[@MichelBiesot]

Amen Lauren! ❤​@@laurenbendik2006

[@bobhess7434]

An anthem to inclusion and acceptance. A middle finger to bullies and haters. What an amazing, haunting, powerful song and video.

[@Venetiababy1]

It knocks me out! Omg! What a talent!

[@sjcolo78]

Well and truly! I keep falling in love with this song whenever I hear it. It's rare that I get this captivated by a song; its lyrics, music and even her voice is strong yet gentle and angelic. This girl is mighty gifted!

[@Gods_Real]

No it's not. God's a man and he's above. You're all below him the 99.999999999999999999 because you're not the 1.

[@shaghafawad2763]

This is one of the songs that takes you to another dimension. You can feel it in your skin, your bones and of course, your heart. Love every single word.

[@leafnlore2712]

You, too? Absolutely. Peace to you!

[@sue17]

YES!

[@silviaoliveira6290]

Yes

[@kcfurn]

Perfectly said

[@yvonnewheeler6230]

Absolutely Amen to that ❤

[@1974jrod]

Just watched her live on the Grammys. I had chills the entire time. The woman is absolutely incredible, unique, and powerful with her voice.

[@semisophisticate63]

Wasn't it an amazing performance??? I loved all the performances but this one stood out for me.

[@juliecopelandbarrows2971]

Me too. I was mesmerized by Brandi last night.

[@1974jrod]

It was awesome!

[@sazcarr]

I can’t find a video of the performance to watch it 😢

[@emilyh.8704]

I have never watched her perform ..but let me tell y'all..this incredibly amazing talented woman touched the very depth of my soul with her words and chilling yet soothing voice...totally blew me away..I saw her today on Ellen as well and THAT performance was way better than on the Grammys..Ms. Brandi..I wish you nothing but all the success and happiness ..love from all.. you so deserve..you are down to earth and true..peace be with you and your wife always..

[@natvgal]

I never realized how powerful this song is. Whew 😢! For some who have never fit in, thank you for finding our voice. 🙏🏽🥹

[@MarianneMurdock]

Heartbroken... So glad that we have this piece of art. Rest in Power, Peace, and Beauty, Mabinty. (Michaela DePrince) 💔

[@richardfawcett1733]

Well said !

[@dishatto]

I can’t even express how important a song this is. I wish every teen who has felt rejection could hear this song and every person who has felt prejudice due to class, or any type of social difference. I sure needed this in the 1980s.

[@girljocknerd]

💯💙

[@notsuredc]

This song is more criminally underrated than I thought 😳 thanks Benny and AGT for the introduction wow it’s beautiful 😭

[@mmmk1616]

Yes, me too! I cried, and I'm crying again now!

[@joycebarlow9215]

Chris 8 this singer is just Awesome 😎 what a fantastic voice xx

[@WombExplorer]

This song just has less views but it doesn't change the fact that this song Actually won Grammy award! People are busy into rap/hip hop shit rn:(

[@welcometoreality3450]

please everyone pass this video around!

[@blackjakko]

The way her voice breaks is so thrilling. It pierces through everything through all the bs and trauma and baggage and pokes right into your heart. I wish I heard her more on the radio, theres so much junk getting airtime instead of great artists.

[@onairo2499]

Krater.96

[@spareparts1017]

What’s a “radio”

[@coreybuchanan2169]

My favorite part is her voice breaks.

[@kindredspiritfly]

she is an amazing vocalist!!

[@leaf2180]

When I'm in the car i usually stick to the stations that play music from before the 90s, occasionally listening to 90s if they're playing a good song. Kind of sad that you have to get on the internet and search up gems like this just to listen to it. Been a fan of Brandi since i was a kid. Always hoped and wished she'd blow up like Taylor Swift, can't say I'm disappointed that she didn't. But she does deserve much more recognition.

[@TM-yn4iu]

I'm 68, old white guy...in TX,....this is probably one of the greatest stories of life.....I believe. Survived a bit so much, but so many others as well. I learned a long time ago, it's the day I live in today, without going after those....the jokes on them...wish those who've struggled and are struggling peace...keep moving..forward. .it will come. I cannot imagine the challenges that so many people have overcome, living positive even after.

[@vh3092]

Yes

[@sapiophile545]

😢 that really got me. I'm in Texas too. I wish you every beautiful moment possible. 🦋🥀

[@darreltobey2690]

Just N of ya brother Texan❤. Me too, old goat, 70 yrs. I'm still kicking 😊, loving life" with a little help from my friends". Love Brandi's music.

[@steveh9769]

I came out when I was 16 in 1987 Dallas TX. I went through it and came out on the other side happy and healthy!!! So I know the importance of this song.

[@dakoopst]

I am unashamed to admit this song brings tears to my eyes every time I hear it. So beautifully delivered.

[@cheriroush2509]

❤️

[@caroljohnson2018]

Me too.

[@meriembendarhal11]

Same here . Don't be ashamed of being a beautiful person reacting to beautiful things ❤

[@norashaner3103]

Absolutely and sends chills down my spine!

[@jenniferbradley8470]

I cried so hard today hearing this song!!! Played it 3 times

[@scottwallace1]

Thanks AGT and Benicio for bringing me here. Great song.

[@edgargomez4620]

Me too

[@reginavanzuiden3737]

Me too.

[@adrianapatanduk7786]

Me too

[@yousafkhankhannies948]

Me too as well

[@gdgill5298]

Great song.. thanks to Benicio..

[@TaraWagner]

Brandi, I've been following you since 2006 at least, maybe earlier. It's about damn time you start getting the recognition you deserve! Your talent is beyond words and you just keep getting better. There aren't many artists as talented as you and the twins, especially the the lyrics you write. Congrats on your well-earned Grammy nominations! (I never watch but I will this time just to cheer you on.)

[@neasaconghaile1791]

Didn't even hear if this before that

[@BrookeKnight561]

AMEN! I've been a fan for over 10 years. She's absolutely fantastic. Total creative genius!

[@JulesRaylin1999]

Tara Wagner Me too, not going to lie, totally cried at The Grammys last night!

[@janetscoggan1154]

She was amazing

[@pamorama]

That's about the year that a friend put her work on a playlist for me. She's so talented--the voice, the lyrical content and melodies. And I would have watched the show if I knew she was going to be on. :-(

[@tamadrumboy81]

Something about this song gets me every time. A masterpiece of Brandi’s unique and amazing voice, beautiful lyrics and powerful music at its finest. If you are reading this right now you are meant to be here. Keep going and never give up.

[@armbags]

I cry every single time I listen to this. I first saw her sing it at the Grammy’s. I saw the emotion in the audience as well. Amazing thoughtful beautiful song sung by an amazing woman.

[@gemazdiclasse7325]

I am 58 years old, and starting to heal old wounds others inflicted during my childhood. I am an oldest of everything (oldest grandchild, daughter, niece, cousin). I was blessed with 5 kids and (for now) 12 grandkids. This song definitely have healing properties. Listen and sometimes sing it every day to help me survive some of my most challenging days. Bless you all 🙏🏼♥️

[@katemcalear8591]

This sounds like me. Hope you are doing well. This song is beautiful x

[@gemazdiclasse7325]

Thank you dear. Doing better. Greetings and Blessings 🙏🏼♥️

[@boserhund13]

I am your age and also carry wounds from my childhood and beyond. I find it incredibly sad that those "closest" to us are totally oblivious to our pain, the scars we carry, and the tears we hold in. I have been in self-preservation mode for so many years now that I don't know any other way. 😢

[@gemazdiclasse7325]

@@boserhund13 Receive a big healing hug, and my prayers for way more good days. 🙏🏼♥️

[@sandyseward522]

As far as as I'm concerned Brandi is the most talented female singer/song writers of her generation! I'm so glad I found her music! ❤ Oh! And I'm 65!

[@carpenter123154]

I'm 66 and feel the same way... her music is haunting and reaches deep within.

[@katieklein3256]

I’m 15 and I feel this way, I feel that she is one of the most talented and caring singers of my generation as well

[@mwbrada]

I'm just glad I found her. That kid from AGT brought me here. This song...

[@sue17]

Fellow 65 year old! Been fangirling over Brandi since 2005!

[@sandyseward522]

@@sue17 Great, I didn't stumble on her until 2008. She really is an amazing singer songwriter. So few left!

[@nateharris1389]

I love that the people in the video get to smile at the end. It should be that way.

[@tiffanyfranks5861]

In tears just heard this song today and it’s just what I needed to hear. My parents put me though 33 years of hell. I never lived up to their expectations, it’s been 5 years now that we have spoken. I’m happily married to a wonderful man , three kids , who could ask for more ❤️ Thank you Brandi!

[@libster9631]

I get it. My estranged father and I unexpectedly met. It went poorly and he said, "I hate you" to me

[@kriszti31]

I'm so sorry to hear this had happened to you. I hope you're ok.

[@MrChrissy1r]

I get it too, I could never do right in my parents eyes. Though I married a beautiful girl, and was/am a successful businessman, with a lovely home and a fantastic son, but I never let my parents jaundice, get to me. They are long gone now, and no regrets. Sadly I lost my wife after 49 very very happy years five years ago, (cancer) so, alone now, and only have my memories and the very best thing in my life now is memories , music and song!!

[@yourworshipthegreat7630]

This is the 4th year of no any sort of communication! She massed up my psychic as a child and yet she thinks im the problem! What hurts is that, she doesnt understand the extent of what she did affects me and i didn't confront her about! Other wise she will insinuate of me wanting an apology because yap! parents on this side of the world are not faulty to their own off springs which i understand! I left the country may be after ten yrs i will think of a possible make up that is 6yrs to go!

[@MIB_63]

@@MrChrissy1r I can totally relate to you. All I have left after an accident that left me disabled, losing my wife and losing the love of my son is music. Music is a healer. Stay strong, Chris Bond!

[@dfrederking]

This song soothes the lost and scared 12 year old version of myself that pops back into focus when I'm stressed and depressed . Truly one of the most beautiful songs.

[@ShawnMcClearn-Yinzer-At-Heart]

When I first heard this, I felt like she was singing directly to me, to that part of me that I've forgotten about, to the scared little boy who still wants someone to tell him he's okay just the way his, that it's okay to be sad and scared but that he doesn't have to be any more. Thank you, Brandi Carlile.

[@OutGayMusic]

I so can relate, Shawn. Feel free to subscribe to my channel, please. Many songs in my playlists speak to similar feelings. Many are gems, many are under appreciated, many others range across a wide spectrum.

[@johnmichaelarnaud]

Right there with you, brother.

[@drewroberts948]

I feel the same way everytime i watch this video. She is my new hero!!

[@heathmartin9283]

Exactly

[@CantWaaait]

Shawn McClearn You're still okay just the way you are 🤗

[@user-bj7em4fv1p]

One of the best songs I have ever heard.

[@lindaholt1610]

I can handle almost anything but old, forgotten soldiers. Not sure why. Nobody I know or are related to ever served. There's something about carrying the inhumanity and atrocities of war so deep that you never speak of them. Now you're 80, and it makes you cry. Because you remember.... Thank you, Ms. Carlile, for including the elderly soldier. You get it. ❤

[@sneakyd1680]

Holy crap... this comment hit me really hard. I've thought about this exact thing a lot. The men and women who go through hell in the military which many of us don't realize the toll that it takes.

[@ToddNakamura]

Beautifully stated

[@mikegrier2829]

Whoever you are, wherever you are…celebrate yourself. Never give up. Never.

[@screenattractions6753]

heard this first at AGT 2019.. such a beautiful song.

[@tomward8640]

Benicio Bryant goes to my school

[@tomward8640]

Kool kid

[@danielaguerra4812]

@@tomward8640 cool

[@faimagine9817]

Mee too

[@Ace-dp9wl]

❤️

[@porshiadean9877]

This hit it all. A love letter to everyone. No one left behind and no one unheard and no one unseen. From our precious elderly and veterans to every color of skin and denomination, from any one just trying to find their place in this world. She told it with grace and understanding to everyone. This is why we should not judge. No one is wrong and we are all right. You are Alright

[@ianoosthuizen1429]

Grammy Nominated!! I am so happy for her, this song deserves Song and Record Of The Year nods

[@Adansonia13]

Deserves the award for each category :')

[@gabrielasilva41]

Shallow is better

[@daddyspecialangel]

Citizen Erazed I wish it got more plays on the radio. I didn’t even know who she was until the Grammy nominations and she deserves to win with this masterpiece

[@ariobimod]

I'm sorry but shallow is that btch. Period!

[@Tcat506]

I came straight here , after seeing this INCREDIBLE singer, performing this song live , on the NBC Today Show this morning. I live in Brisbane Australia , and I have never heard of Brandi Carlile - until today . You have a new fan Brandi

[@Ryanzeller-t5t]

Words and music from the heart. Universal language of the heart, the mind, and most importantly the soul.

[@johngilbert4308]

My son was born with Down Syndrome 36 years ago. He was laughed at. He asked me what a spastic was and what was a mongol. I asked him where he had heard these words. He said it was his ‘friends’ at school. Thank you Brandi, I am smiling as I listen to your voice as the tears roll down my cheeks. My Boy shines and he is beautiful and he is My Guardian Angel who gifts me and many, unconditional love ❤️

[@robynrains7252]

Sending you both LOVE and HUGs🩷💕🩷💕

[@johngilbert4308]

@@robynrains7252 Thank you Robyn 🌈🦋🙏🌹🌹🌹🌹 William and John

[@johngilbert4308]

@@robynrains7252 Good evening from Poland Dear Robyn, thank you for your wonderful wishes. Happily William and many will celebrate his 38th birthday tomorrow. Best best wishes from John and William 🌈💜

[@robynrains7252]

@@johngilbert4308 Happy Birthday 🎂🎁🎉🎊🎈 to them both 💕🩷💕🩷🥰

[@johngilbert4308]

@@robynrains7252 Thank you Dear Robyn, love and hugs from Will and John 🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@JimCincinnati]

Most of the time I am unimpressed and depressed with this world because I am different. This magic song makes me want to grab some paper towels and a bottle of windex and shine up my soul until it sparkles like a huge diamond. How restored and soaring you made me feel. With thanks from your newest fan, a 56 year old single red state misfit in Columbus, Ohio who discovered you and this song for the very first time tonight while watching you on the Grammys. My dog Belle moved off the couch and stared at me because she thought something was wrong because it made me cry. Many thanks for making me feel something. Just HAD to attempt to let you know.

[@susiq4857]

James Geo You're alive, your heart beats, your soul sings and you are special.

[@TheGreatConstantini]

You are not alone out there. Perhaps there are a lot of people who in these dark times are more like you than you will ever no. The rest can just spin...

[@lochjess]

This is so beautiful. I so wish she could see this comment! You seem like a beautiful person just from these few words. Shine on!

[@sataniccommunist9045]

well said..

[@aylbdrmadison1051]

Reading these comments has made me feel hopeful and made me smile and tear up at the same time. Love for all of you.

[@ScreamingMeadows]

This is one of the best written and performed songs I have ever heard. I tremble in emotion and tears pour down my face every time I hear it. Truely magic.

[@caioclymaco3179]

This video deserves 100 millions views!!! Brandi is such a talented who makes us understand how charts doesn’t matter comparing with talent!!!! ❤️

[@InesHerrmann]

Hi there, if you like her voice - you might like mine too! kzbin.info/www/bejne/gYvSZnyvnNZ8Y7c

[@nightowl4206]

How did I miss this song?? It's so beautiful and so powerful, I'm just speechless.. The video is awesome too!

[@angelalopez2003]

The song ended, but I'm still crying; my God! What a powerfully moving peice of beautiful art this is.

[@toytrelldean]

Angela Lopez yes it is 💞 we need more music like this.

[@mllink]

I agree! I have been a fan of hers for years and I was so happy to hear she got a Grammy nomination for this song. She is a singular talent with a stunning voice.

[@AsktheHarry]

always when i hear this

[@Hitmaker64]

At 68, I've heard how many songs? Yours, Brandi, is one of the best.

[@intowngirl102]

61..I feel the say way!

[@andrewhughes4161]

Don't know why but I am a 45 year old man sobbing at this song something spoke to me

[@stevebailey5591]

It must trigger memories from your childhood, or maybe you're a parent yourself.

[@Brend.0]

my childhood here

[@redheadedfreckles2]

Andrew Hughes me too

[@everythingNotHere]

55 and same here.

[@SweetColo]

61, same here. Guess we have all suffered or are suffering. It hits a primal nerve in a beautiful way. Chilling.

[@markarmati5129]

Everything about this song I love (the word is not too strong) - the lyrics, the singing, the music, the video, the cast, and the indomitable spirit of the song. I have listened to it two dozen times or so during this past week, and I have cried in grateful response to its deeply human message every single time that I have listened to it. The music begins with a sorrowful, almost mournful tone, but as the song progresses, the music becomes first more hopeful, and then by the four minute mark, it becomes a song of victory over loss and despair, while the performances of the diverse cast are exceptional for their emotional power. It is one of the most perfect songs I have ever heard and I have decided to make it the “official song” of the website on which I am working because of the subject that it expresses with such profound sensitivity, artistry, and grace. This is the song that I would want played when the sacred day comes that we know at last that we are making our way to the far, far better world that has been the hope of everyone who has ever lived.

[@jamesdurchenwald]

This is just beautiful. You speak to the souls of many of us. I thank my husband every day for introducing your music to me over a decade ago. Not a day goes by that I don't listen to at least one of your songs now. Keep making music until the sun burns out.

[@patriciamoore6492]

I bawled my eyes out. What a beautiful tribute to anyone who has had it rough or been bullied or ignored. Loved it.

[@roseannabragg8671]

HOW DID I JUST TONIGHT, DISCOVER THIS MASTERPIECE??!!!!! Wow. Life is amazing. Just when you thought you heard everything….your heart is swept up and forever changed.

[@christinet100]

you're a year ahead of me! I have it on autorepeat - need to make up for lost time 💕

[@fran7759]

Very few artists have the ability to deliver a song that makes you feel like your heart and mind shake - Ms Carlile, never fails to make me quiver. Masterpiece.

[@Paulsmuse]

For all of us who have been misfits, bullied or have had our self esteem blown to bits because we are different for any reason, thank you for being our voice. . This song makes me feel equally empowered and equally moves me to tears. Dayum girl. You go! So well deserved and then some. Thank you for singing the words that have stirred in my soul.

[@wyrdwyldwytch]

Blown away by the grounded, compassionate wisdom of these lyrics. And your voice so full of depth and strength. My teenage self would have found solace in this song; I hope the people that need it find it 🙏💙

[@nycklyneprice9341]

I have been listening to her since 2007. The Story caught my attention and I never looked back. She does not get the recognition or attention she deserves. Her voice is phenomenal. The radio doesn't give her the playtime that she deserves. It's so sad really. One of the best artists of our time

[@michaellyons949]

Why would the story be of importance?

[@nycklyneprice9341]

@@michaellyons949 Her song The Story caught my attention. That is the importance. That's the first song I ever heard from her. Get it?

[@michaellyons949]

Do you really want to know where the story came from ? The eye , there is more to the story and what the songs mean .... Fire watchers daughter , turpentine, But who cares ?

[@nycklyneprice9341]

@@michaellyons949 Wow...okay you have totally lost me...but like you say ....whatever.....I was talking about a song. I have no idea what you are talking about, dude. Have a good life. Maybe you should clue me into what you are actually talking about because I guess I am dense.

[@ryanlasenbby3974]

​@@michaellyons949 im curious so you should politely explain

[@khoslanaggea4003]

Everyone no matter what deserve to live freely and joyfully in this world. I love this song...❤❤❤❤❤ simply inspiring ❤

[@TheBuch4]

This is the America we fight for. This is the America we grieve for. This IS America! What a beautiful gift!

[@biggiepablo]

TheBuch4 Well said! Well said!

[@larrymoore9986]

Amen

[@mauoricio]

This is definitely winning Song of the year, no other nominee is close to this excellence! Wow

[@grandcoasters]

Shallow kinda great too

[@LibertyOrBust]

Sha lah lah lah lah low is dumb. lmao

[@grandcoasters]

@@LibertyOrBust why is it dumb?

[@mauoricio]

Arnaz Mursid Gaga is a good songwriter, Brandi is brilliant! And this song has a much deeper message than Shallow! It’ll hardly get Song of the Year since they award popularity, but I still bet all my coins on her for ROTY 🖤

[@grandcoasters]

@@mauoricio Agree with you!

[@deshadawn789]

My God Brandi is underrated! Brandi has a beautiful, unique sound when she sings. It speaks to my soul. Thank you for sharing your gift Brandi!! Let em live while they can!!

[@kmorrison4994]

Found this song at a perfect time. A close friend, who I've known 16 years, walked out of my life and said I never mattered. This song is a self-love power ballad. ❤️

[@ximenatorres3966]

Her performance at the Grammys yesterday made me tear up. I've felt so empty my whole life, alone in a world made for other people but in some point I found where I belonged. However, music is so important and what this song brings up to me is that we all deserve a space where we feel free to be ourselves, not just what we were meant to be but our true and imperfect selves.

[@amandsgour]

cannot agree more.

[@billkonigsberg190]

Beautifully said. Thank you. You are not alone!

[@Dafawama]

Mrs Brightside you are wonderful

[@doubledutch13]

The first song I ever heard on a talent show where I truly preferred the original, thank you to Benicio for introducing me to the wonderful music of Brandi Carlile ❤️

[@ochajennifer1067]

Same here AGT

[@norycomia1577]

one of my favorite

[@kiranNiks]

So true

[@aaliyahcoleman2173]

THISSS

[@alyurpaly406]

Me 2!! Thank you Benicio, I never woulda heard this before. Oh man, OH I WISH I WOULDVE WROTE IT!!!! BEAUTIFUL!!! 💜💗💙

[@brighty1122]

UGH, I LOVE HER CONTROLLED VOICE CRACKS, IT JUST MAKES THE SONG SO MUCH BETTER.

[@AuDHD99]

I listen to this song regularly on my commute to work, and while I do housework it comes on my automatic playlists. I can’t count how many times I’ve heard it. I cry every time she gets to the part where she says “they displace you after carrying your baby on your back across the desert”. I’ll never come close to feeling what that must be like. I was born in America. My parents were not fleeing from anything. The rest of the song resonates with me as a disabled person, as a queer person, and as a woman. And that part always makes me just feel so much like I want to send kisses and hugs and good fortune to anybody in that situation- and so sorry that I cannot help. I hope anybody who is trying to win a better life for their children is met with victory. I’m not a religious person, but that line in this song really does make me pray to the universe that anybody who has carried their child on their back across the desert enjoys every good thing life has to offer after they end up where they want to be.

[@bigfan7330]

That is also one of my favorite lines in this miraculous song!

[@markjuguan5996]

I love how she sings with emotion that can uplift people who were isolated by society.

[@deenam5461]

If I had a dollar for every time brandi’s music made me cry on the bus I would be able to afford something other than public transportation

[@YourLoyalDeserter]

Deena M that made me laugh lol

[@josephavendano6902]

You are a sweet soul.

[@josephavendano6902]

Deena M you read like a kind soul Deena👼

[@mikesimonian990]

Deena M get a job

[@pelicanstatepiper2916]

Vehicle ownership is overrated

[@thelifelivedsmilingbysydne7889]

Benicio Bryan is the reason I know this song Where has this song been hiding wow Such a beautiful message

[@josuamrt4217]

Me too

[@lilRadRidinHood]

Previously I'd gotten strong messages from Pinks' "You are beautiful", & Mary J. Blige (I forgot the song.) We needed a new anti-bullying and self-esteem song in these times for sure, and Benicio brought this one to light for millions.

[@vh3092]

Discovered Michaela dancing and now she is gone 😢

[@tinap4800]

This song, with its pure honesty struck a chord in every single one of us that was ever treated or seen as less. Brings me to tears. Thank you for touching my heart and soul with this beautiful masterpiece.

[@mikeyirish1967]

One of the great artists of our time. How fortunate are we to have Brandi Carlile?

[@oblivion29031990]

This song is so universally applicable. Everyone knows how it is being beaten down, put in your place and not being able to shine when following your true passions. I adore this song, I just keep crying, eventhough I know the song inside and out. Her crackling voice at some parts... Man, this is good. Amazing melodies. I am in awe.

[@naturalandvalid8576]

I'm very happy for Brandi Carlile for FINALLY getting the recognition that she deserves...has deserved for over a decade literally. I've been a huge fan since....2000 and...10? I've enjoyed each and every album she's out out. Every song. I've learned how to sing by singing her songs. My favorite of hers is I Will, from Give Up The Ghost. And I Belong To You from The Firewatcher's Daughter. And many others. Shes just amazing. But we also have to recognize the Hanseroth twins who play guitar and sing backup and help with song writing!

[@dishatto]

Imagine, I JUST discovered her today because of a person who sang this song on AGT. What have I been missing out on?

[@jedswenson5667]

@@dishatto Me too

[@marhondacampbell4000]

One of my favorite songs of all time and DEFINITELY my song for all three of my kids!! Brandi is one of my most major crushes bc she is such an absolutely beautiful human!! ❤❤

[@moondocb]

Hands down, Brandi Carlile gave THE BEST performance at the 2019 Grammy’s. Should have won more than she did.

[@CodyOsborn1]

Benicio Bryant from America's Got Talent brought me here! What a phenomenal cover of a beautiful song.

[@cjoviac]

Cody Osborn Me too! I just took a single lyric from his performance hoping to find the original song. He really did a wonderful job!! What a song choice for a 14yr old though? Good for him!! I’m rooting for him!👏🙏

[@madysoncausey3217]

AGREED

[@quintaldasrixas]

me 2

[@dishatto]

Me too!!

[@lisawhite9502]

I could listen to this song a thousand times and have the same reaction as if it was the first... ♥️ The song literally touches my soul.

[@dishatto]

That’s because it hits the very heart of justice. Everyone should live with the compassion this song conveys.

[@craigjones1939]

I cry …every…single…time…I listen to this song!!!!! And the brave, beautiful souls in this video are so so so amazing!!! …each and every one of them!!! I’ve always felt so isolated, and I believe we would make a wonderful tribe, a band of beautiful brothers and sisters, if we all knew one another. Thank you, Brandi, for this masterpiece!

[@trinendughosh2939]

This song needs to win the grammy. Its one of the best songs of this year.

[@JennP.Can6316]

You're feeling nervous, aren't you, boy? With your quiet voice and impeccable style Don't ever let them steal your joy And your gentle ways, to keep 'em from running wild They can kick dirt in your face Dress you down, and tell you that your place Is in the middle, when they hate the way you shine I see you tugging on your shirt Trying to hide inside of it and hide how much it hurts Let 'em laugh while they can Let 'em spin, let 'em scatter in the wind I have been to the movies, I've seen how it ends And the joke's on them You get discouraged, don't you, girl? It's your brother's world for a while longer We gotta dance with the devil on a river To beat the stream Call it living the dream, call it kicking the ladder They come to kick dirt in your face To call you weak and then displace you After carrying your baby on your back across the desert I saw your eyes behind your hair And you're looking tired, but you don't look scared Let 'em laugh while they can Let 'em spin, let 'em scatter in the wind I have been to the movies, I've seen how it ends And the joke's on them Let 'em laugh while they can Let 'em spin, let 'em scatter in the wind I have been to the movies, I've seen how it ends And the joke's on them

[@davidcantwell2489]

Thank you for taking the time to write that down I for one appreciate it.

[@raheelsidddiqui1033]

Jennifer Pardue thanks... peace and love ..

[@JennP.Can6316]

@Raheel Sidddiqui @David Cantwell No problem at all. Honestly, I just copied and pasted from another website. 🤷🏻‍♀️😬 The song is so very inspiring and meaningful, I wish everyone in the would would hear it, and soak up the lyrics in their hearts.

[@emilymaleahtench9409]

so beautiful ♡

[@vlm5723]

@@JennP.Can6316 what is the song about? I am not quite sure. Beautiful and haunting.

[@danastill2796]

My god. A song with meaningful lyrics, sung to a well constructed melody by a songwriter of open heart and mind. In 2019. I can face another day.

[@Heatherdodi74]

And here we go again. I love you guys. We don't know where to go from here. And we are tired. And we told them so- now we let them burn.

[@joann3644]

We'll just see how it turns out for them.😔

[@RichTake]

Came here after Grammy nominations. I had no idea she had new music out. She has one of the most heart-wrenching voices in the music industry. All of her songs give me tear inducing goosebumps.

[@audity06]

You should check out the whole album. It's a masterpiece!

[@RichTake]

@@audity06 I most definitely will

[@Spamlet1]

@@RichTake And especially this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pWnTgn-qfbmDl6s

[@burnscheadle]

This powerful anthem has moved me in ways few other songs have over the past 60 years. Maybe, just maybe, one day I will make it through without getting a lump in my throat...but I hope not. Thank you Brandi for allowing us into your heart.

[@elcasiquegrande]

My God....this song, her voice brings tears to my eyes every time. THIS IS MUSIC ....WIELDED......in the hands of a master. A human. A beating heart. Bravo.

[@johnthorne4093]

Beautiful comment. Thank you. God bless you.

[@johnvanwagoner9727]

This song is amazing. I’ve been struggling within lately feeling useless and tired of the chaos. Thank you.

[@jaiwhi]

I’m looking through the comments as it plays and it’s amazing all the stories and trauma experiences people getting through it , losing it, making it, seeing through it, denying it, holding it, rolling w it, hating it, living it, indifferent. And all of it is just ok and I’m just a ball of tears right now.

[@MichaelGrimaldi]

Upon learning today of the passing of Rita Houston, the program director at WFUV-FM in New York, and reading that Rita was included in this video, I immediately needed to find it and watch. And, of course, watch it and listen to it again. And again. It was a delight to read Brandi's kind remarks about Rita today (wfuv.org/content/rita-houston-apostle-artistry), including the mention that Rita was the first person to play Brandi's music on the radio. That speaks volumes to Rita's insight, talent, spirit and grace . . . that she so quickly recognized, embraced and supported outstanding musical artists like Brandi Carlile.

[@shannanberry]

This is my new anthem...

[@johnschubert6699]

The first time I heard this song I was overwhelmed almost to tears. And each time I hear this song by one of my favorite singers of all time I feel the same way. Brandi Carlile is a treasure.

[@kimmoraes]

I am reading her book, Broken Horses. Mere words cannot describe all the emotions I feel as I read it. This beautiful song, The Joke, is probably now my favorite of hers.

[@sweetfourglambert6129]

Why do we hear the same music over and over on the radio when we have this!! She is amazing 😊

[@jenniferhollowell9198]

Try different radio! Search for local, community radio (if available in your area) or search out ones on the web. WMNF.org in Tampa.

[@christophershibles383]

I've heard this song play once at work. I'd heard Hold Out Your Hand many times before the Grammys but shortly after, I did hear this song play. It was a nice change. I do like it when Hold Out Your Hand plays. Most of the music is not very good and when something I enjoy plays, it's such a nice few minutes!

[@cherianelizabeth]

*The Voice 2024 brought me here*. Beautiful song. Amazing lyrics.

[@thabanimahlaba9769]

Ever so often the universe creates beautiful songs like these that move you to your core, and give you hope. No matter what you’re going through it validates your existence and that you MATTER... I can’t believe that I’m only discovering this song now but I’m grateful that I did because this song is amazing. Thank you for this gem 💎 of a song WOW blown away!!!

[@johnthorne4093]

When Brandi sings this, God is speaking.

[@juice8292]

And the universe created a beautiful soul ❤️. Brandi is so underrated...this song saved me thru a dark time.... blessings to you from across the pond in Maine USA ♥️

[@KellyStevensFGG]

Thank you for the video: Directed by Danny Clinch

[@jcapril1]

Always takes my breath away, her singing on this song. Always makes me weep. Always helps me connect to courage, to patience, to defiance. Thank you, Brandi Carlile. You're a champion of our humanity.

[@777L777E777]

I had never heard of her and I'm thankful to the Grammys for introducing me to her. Chills all over my body

[@Fallingslowly09]

TheOtherSide she was fairly popular in the mid 2000s. You should listen to her other songs. She’s great!

[@vuez1]

Agreed!! Go back and listen to The Story. I still listen to it, first song on my Mp3.

[@kycone]

She’s even better in person. Go see her if you can!

[@lucretiabagley2494]

Yes this song has been downloaded I felt those same chills

[@lunalovesprocrastination9248]

saaaaame

[@coolhand62]

I cannot understand how anyone who owns a beating heart could give a thumb's down to this most beautiful song.

[@firstnamelastname6016]

Their tears made them slip up and hit the wrong button because they were just so moved by the song.

[@yvonnesteinert1922]

Because human kind is stupid and mostly heartless today

[@aylbdrmadison1051]

@Yvonne Steinert _"Because some of human kind is stupid and mostly heartless"._ Fixed. ^-^

[@yvonnesteinert1922]

@@aylbdrmadison1051 yes...my bad 😁

[@kathyw.854]

Not everyone has the same tastes. If this is a song that everyone _has_ to love, then what is the point???

[@jessicavenegas2247]

This song hits right in my heart I cry every time I listen to it. Even more now, we lost our beautiful niece July 2023. My sisters daughter. Let's be kind and teach kindness to our kids.

[@dragonwithagirltattoo598]

I was bullied in jr. high by 2 girls that made it hell for me. I wish I’d had this song then. Their bullying really scarred me and caused much grief for me even now. Totally changed my sweet and naive nature to one of mistrust and fear of other people. This is a great song.

[@stevenholst]

Sorry you went through that. Hope you've been feeling better.🙂

[@bobhess7434]

I am so very sorry about this. You deserved so much better than what you were given.

[@noortaha3566]

chills every time, this is a piece of art. Have a great day everyone

[@theresamagill6678]

So fitting for this moment in time! 💔💙

[@susanheinz5804]

Last year I saw her on PBS singing “The Story” and was blown away. Then I had to see if she was related to Go Gos singer Brenda Carlisle. But their names are spelled differently. Then I saw her on SNL giving another flawless performance. I’m sure she gained many more fans after that. And now this masterpiece - OMG, it gives me chills!! It’s a rare song that can do that! Every time I’ve seen her sing it she gives it 110% regardless of crowd size, venue, etc. I ❤ this video, seeing the marginalized feel empowered and heard. She cannot be boxed into just the country genre. I had to look up the story behind this song. It was done when she had seen tRump ridicule and mock the disabled. She was incensed as much as many of us by his cruelty and lack of any empathy. It explains the line telling the young girl that it’s her brother‘s world a little while longer because yes, Hillary would’ve been president if we didn’t have the electoral college! I love the line about the mother, carrying her child on her back through the desert, which is so timely. And heartbreaking.💔 Especially now hearing how Trump wants to destroy them! Now I’m gonna have to get her book “Broken Horses.” I like seeing her sandwiched in between “the twins” who she’s been with since she was 17. And now they all live on the same property. So when she says they’re family, she means it! And one of the twins legally is since he married her younger sister. I was surprised to see Scooter Jennings playing the piano on several occasions. She said her one regret was calling the band the Brandi Carlisle Band, but she can rectify that - just let them all decide what they want to be called. I also like how she has her own cellist! I’m glad D. Cobb challenged her to write a song as big as The Story and Elvis’ Trilogy. I had to look that up, too. This far surpasses Elvis!’ Trilogy. This song is EPIC!