Iyanla Vanzant On Leaving 'Fix My Life', Growth With DMX, Healing, Trust + More

[@TonyDeeProductions]

This woman is almost 70 and still looks absolutely gorgeous! Love her energy and her work.

[@blkyogi999]

That’s the anointing.... it keeps you young

[@johnvereen2305]

Beautiful women

[@theyscreaming2285]

Holy I didn’t know but hey black don’t crack, we are some beautiful majestic angels 😌

[@thembimogala9704]

She oozes realness that's manifesting outside her skin, her smile, her energy, her physique. This is what keeps her alive, healthy, and strong.

[@shordy77]

I was shock 👀when she said that . She look like 45 ish

[@whome7119]

"You don't get to tell people how to love you; you get to choose whether or not you want to participate in the way they love"- Iyanla Vanzant

[@maryrice4421]

Exactly!

[@shordy77]

That’s deep ... now I kno y I been leaving lol cuz it’s not the love I want 😂😂

[@lowkeylashae]

💯👌🏽✅

[@lovingmylife9415]

Can't change folks!! 💯

[@ahkeeantahkeeant8096]

thumbs up over and over again....yes love that

[@yetundepink]

Iyanla says she has a national platform, she doesn’t. Her platform is international. Here I am in the UK watching her and all of her shows. Her reach goes far beyond she is even aware of.

[@lastofthe70schildren70]

I know right! Team UK 🇬🇧 here 🙋🏾‍♀️ Been watching Iyanla since the late 90’s early 2000’s since she was introduced on the Oprah show. She’s definitely stood the test of time👌🏾

[@Poeticfloetic]

Say it again Sis-🌟 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Me and mine too. My aunt bout me some of her books when I was a teen. Faith in the Valley and others. Had the audio too. 🖤❤️🖤

[@Viv593]

Germany is here too 🙏🏽i Love her

[@innocentiahmotanyane1837]

And here I am in Africa

[@wairimumukuria959]

100% I am Kenya

[@williams.matthews2711]

Her smile, and teeth, could light up the darkest room. Someone hand this woman her flowers.

[@shordy77]

Lol 😂

[@ahkeeantahkeeant8096]

@@shordy77 that's funny?

[@evandixon5796]

🤔her teeth and smile could light up these nuts✌️💯😆

[@avisrobinson1150]

@ William S. Matthews Amen 🙏🏽 I totally agree!

[@JOSH3183]

@@evandixon5796 Ewww

[@denisehopkins4885]

I like that she is not judgemental...she needs to start a podcast. She is definitely a gem to our community

[@connie_comb2455]

Yaaassssss !! She can do it right in the comfort of her home 🏠

[@zionyouth6370]

And thats the problem , unless u are judge why would u change, specially if u think u dont need to change.

[@acidman5]

It’s okay to judge just bring grace with it. However if a person who is wrong is prideful they go towards destruction. Everyone is judgmental every single day. The issue is whether your judgement is right and do you bring grace and solution with it. We tend to criticize people for telling the truth and we call it judgmental. People are usually seem harsh to people who are prideful and don’t admit their wrong. When people are humble and admit their wrong they are not usually harsh with their judgement but gracious.

[@jadangor1078]

I thought she did had a podcast?

[@sharonlloyd3231]

@Hai Voai q

[@jenniejanine1976]

She said _when I was 20 or 30 I used to fall apart & hold em by the ankles to stay due to insecurities. Now I help em pack._ That was perfect. Then she said the human mind loves comfort & familiarity even if it's toxic because you can control it.🥰 Violations of agreement and broken commitments. Good stuff, as usual.

[@cookinghealthy8049]

We can all learn from this

[@jenniejanine1976]

@@cookinghealthy8049 yes, Ma'am.

[@brookybrooke2056]

So can relate!

[@Alpha8497]

@@cookinghealthy8049 I sure did. That hit me where it should and at the right time in my life.

[@Butiaful]

She is what the black community needed. She drop so many gems but its up to us to do the homework. This show did alot of healing not only for her guest but also for women and men who were watching it.

[@pushin_p5871]

Yes we need both her and Kevin Samuels🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💥

[@jadangor1078]

Well really it's for everyone. She had white people on her show

[@Rieka.Chanel]

Yes!

[@respectlife216]

Brilliant lady but not able to teach women how to be wives.

[@quintonperry6865]

I agree she is so real and on point

[@allthingscrystal3924]

This lady is a natural relaxant. She said so many things that made me say Yessss! Basically let go and let God!

[@ericwilliams6944]

U got it

[@vibequeen88]

Amen

[@DBaileyandAssociatesRealty]

NO, it’s let go so you can be spiritually and emotionally FREE so you can do the work with the talents and gifts God gave you. One is passive..other is proactive and accountable. We don’t need to “let” God do anything. Nothing we do or can’t do will prevent God from HIS will.

[@DBaileyandAssociatesRealty]

Her spirit speaks to me as well.

[@allthingscrystal3924]

@@DBaileyandAssociatesRealty no never heard that one

[@LSERA13]

"He was anointed, but he had never been consecrated." Such a powerful statement.

[@jenniejanine1976]

Indeed, it truly is. One of the most, if not the most powerful statements she made.

[@ronnieshashaw42]

00

[@kayechildress9456]

🙌🏾

[@newjerseylove1373]

Very sad that his PUBLIC consecration did not happen 😢 Different outcome for his life, public validation 🤔...RESPECT REGARDLESS HIS LEGACY IS ONE THAT WILL NEVERRRRRR BE FORGOTTEN! THERE WILL NEVER BE ANOTHER DMX!!! REST IN POWER KING! YOU ARE HOME NOW! WE MISS YOU SO MUCH 😢!

[@stacytoral4051]

I've been saying that and when he passed he had made peace with The Most High 💜

[@marlonb2804]

What i recognized with Iyanla is that she knows how to use her femininity and her spirituality, very powerful and deep!!!

[@classyfeline]

I’ve been reading more Queen Afua and leaning more into femininity and spirituality. It’s a powerful combination.

[@monicabland9545]

@@classyfeline 999

[@BL3SSed-Bliss]

*Divine Femininity.* 🦋♾💎

[@aaroniic]

@@classyfeline Read the Bible. The book of Ruth.

[@dockerzipperpusher30]

All Iyanla would have to do is call me Beloved and I would fall out crying like a new born.

[@vibequeen88]

Lol facts

[@connicia]

😂😂😂

[@tiffany79]

Exactly!!

[@JAdoreQT123456]

Lol facts

[@faves2012]

Lol

[@4thGrMathingwithMrs.W.]

You can always tell when Charlemagne really respects the person he is interviewing ❤❤❤

[@alannamorris2947]

...and when we doesn't #bloop

[@butterbrown100]

He’s toxic I don’t care he’s a toxic individual and he should know better you would think

[@queenratv115]

True

[@Niyasutton]

@@butterbrown100 how is he toxic

[@TheBlaster33]

More than that, he went on a session right there.

[@glecservices3114]

This woman’s Emotional Intelligence is on 1000

[@msc908]

She's a minister and also a lawyer.

[@lastofthe70schildren70]

Absolutely 👌🏾

[@glecservices3114]

@@msc908 I know her background, I’m just in love with her emotional intelligence, her wisdom and the emotional work she does with people. She is needed and relevant for people especially women

[@shanequaaustin8908]

@@msc908 I didn't know she was a lawyer

[@glecservices3114]

@@shanequaaustin8908 that’s her background before she stepped into helping people on their lives

[@Msboochie2]

I love that Angela is so genuinely excited to talk to Iyanla. Yes, Iyanla the bosoms are undefeated!

[@notmebutyou8350]

Can we just take a moment and acknowledge how pretty Ms. Vanzant is looking today?

[@priscillalewis6054]

Beautiful inside and out

[@corazoncubano5372]

Yes she is.

[@heatherguzman5298]

she looks so good!!

[@ronaldrussoe1749]

Thirst Alert! Thirst Alert! 😂

[@dr.b1346]

She's pretty everyday....shes an AKA!!!

[@donnac.3273]

She always give you tools, but you have to do the work.

[@Erikay80]

And this is why she has this disclaimer that she doesn't actually "fix" people.....she provides tools, the people have to actually "do the work"

[@aaas1t]

Well said ...

[@DiamondDave1]

You get the tools in one scripted hour?

[@lindsayblair5181]

Exactly. No quick fix. She helped me see I needed to do work and years later I feel so much peace. I have my moments but those come and go

[@donnac.3273]

@@DiamondDave1 She talks to them when they are not filming.🙄🙄 They are there for a few days.

[@AviMarie21]

She needed more than 36 minutes... I need more Gems... Her show really help to transform my life... I found my voice, had difficult conversation, learned to forgive and move on, and so much more... I just thank God for her gift and allowing her to share it!!!!

[@TheSpiciestGinger]

Love reading this!!! Keep it up!!!! 💖👑💯💪🏿🙌🏼Much love and more power to you Queen

[@p.s.706]

Own Iyanla fix my life has full episodes (U-tube)

[@wholenesslab]

I am so greedy for her wisdom as it rings true for me. Soothes my soul every time. I be praying that it ripples out into the world to also soothe another’s heart.

[@brittanyy890]

@@TheSpiciestGinger eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

[@JudgeSarahHeidelIsARacist]

It is great to hear that because I am very disappointed in her. I have watched her since way back when she did Starting Over. She is a bit aggressive for my liking. Unfortunately, many of my people believe aggression is the answer. She is way to aggressive. When I called her on her shit she responded then blocked me on Twitter.

[@sharoniecannon275]

Iyanla was speaking to Charlemagne in ways he wasn't expecting. His body language speaks volumes

[@albu1168]

He didnt agree with what she said about dmx....

[@sharoniecannon275]

@@albu1168 why do you say that?

[@DaQwnB]

i was just thinking that he was so humbled and in awe .....

[@tiff7905]

Yessss. I was thinking the same

[@sharoniecannon275]

@@DaQwnB if you listen to what he's saying and asking, and watch him, you can see it. There were plenty of.moments where I felt she was speaking to me while watching this. Iyanla is so amazing and a true gem! I love her.

[@Healthyhamms10]

I love her transparency and she commands the room with empathy and compassion and experience. She has no shame in her past which makes her very approachable and why people love her. I will miss her show but I do purchase all of her books.

[@vibequeen88]

Yes she has some good books right now I’m reading her Trust book

[@lady4real75]

@Sergio Joshua also Mediabox or TeaTv. As long as your not on the Apple train, you can't download these apps on a Iphone or Ipad

[@anitaknight3915]

@@vibequeen88 I have that trust book too and it's a gem of wisdom🙏

[@jaysays2642]

Which of her books? I have her book of affirmations but I really need more of her

[@Healthyhamms10]

@@jaysays2642 Acts of Faith, In the Meantime, my favorite Peace from Broken Pieces, Get over it, Forgiveness and One Day my Soul just Open Up. She has several of them. Hope this helps.

[@tymbreturner501]

Iyanla is so correct, She is very natural in her community, She does pump her own gas, grocery shop in the local stores, And the community allows her to be herself, which is doing Human everyday NORMAL things!!! I know because she lives and shop in the same stores as I do!!!! A very blessed and kind Women of God.

[@HardBoy1]

That take a lot of guts and inner strength to do normal things like going to Walmart or be seen at Starbucks drinking coffee knowing how crazy this world is and sometimes lose their minds when they see a celebrity

[@childofjesusrose622]

Wow lucky you!

[@tymbreturner501]

@@HardBoy1 So true, She could afford to live up in Potomac, or Georgetown etc, where all the ritzy Blacks live, but she lives among her people, That's why she is so beloved. What you see is what you get, and folks respect her privacy and space.

[@MszIndeya]

@@tymbreturner501 dmv?

[@HardBoy1]

@@tymbreturner501 I assume she still have a level of security around her just in case things get out of hand with a nut case

[@angelaroberts2882]

Iyanla is gorgeous and intelligent!

[@tiffanycunningham3409]

Yes!!!

[@rosebeckford1476]

Angelic

[@kw6724]

Yes, she is ❤️

[@deer8547]

Yeah her going on about her bosoms was disgusting.

[@AmberBrooklyn24]

She is absolutely beautiful 💜

[@VTALKTV3]

Iyanla, is like the mother, auntie, grandmother etc everyone should have in their lives. She has a great understanding, knowledge of a lot life situations and circumstances. As a mental Health professional, and life coach I have gotten a lot gems from her. I love and respect her work. I remember her from first show “Starting Over” Blessings to the Queen

[@kaykayfoster6183]

Guurl - me to!!! I always say I remeber Iyanla from a show called starting over & that’s when I started reading her books - I’ve learned so much about myself & how to heal from a traumatic childhood

[@JudgeSarahHeidelIsARacist]

Yes, I remember starting over too. She wasn't aggressive and consumed with her own ego back then. She does have a great theoretical knowledge. But she is way too aggressive. But watasn't starting over great? One of the very first reality shows.

[@SisterKnight]

I used to skip school to watch starting over 😯 they messed up when she left it wasn't the same.

[@JudgeSarahHeidelIsARacist]

@@SisterKnight That was so long ago! Remember Toward Braxton? Yeah, I have learned things from Iyanla. I don't like the aggression. We as black people are always faced with aggression. In many of the cases she reviews it includes some form of aggression. The DMX thing bothered me the most. She always have to puff up her chest, but encourages others not to. Yeah, she needs to be the change she speaks of. She needs to do the work.

[@FirstLast-oz3vv]

@@JudgeSarahHeidelIsARacist ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@mspayne32]

When she said "I'm not gonna participate in my own suffering...and compassion requires that we recognize someone's suffering and then take action to alleviate it. And sometimes the action to alleviate someone's suffering is to leave them alone so that they don't create no more suffering for you." She was preaching to me honey!!!!! I needed that word today!!!! I love her!!!

[@vibequeen88]

Yassssss 💯

[@mspayne32]

@@vibequeen88 She spoke to my spirit with those words.

[@vibequeen88]

@@mspayne32 I love her I damn near have all her books she’s very powerful

[@1jazztypeguy]

Miss Payne reach out to me. Let’s talk

[@TheSpiciestGinger]

Sending love and prayers

[@trini_islandboi]

"It is hard to heal when you have the energy of the trauma in your body and in your mind. You got to do the healing work to release the trauma so that you can then create balance. As long as the trauma is there, that imprint makes it really hard to do healing work!!!!" - Iyanla Vanzant. I felt this to my core!!!!!!

[@tnt01]

100% true.

[@virtualbabe9171]

She’s need a break. She earned it. God put her here on earth to help people. I love her spirit! I pray to one day speak to her! She’s a great person to learn things from!!!

[@sweetass51]

Exactly

[@valerierhodes8920]

@@sweetass51 real talk i want to meet her too.

[@sweetass51]

@@valerierhodes8920 Val, girlfriend!!! Her words can make you cry and fix our lives at the same time!!! Stay blessed and safe 🙏

[@sheridandunn234]

Iyanla looks beautiful today and she is ready to retire from the tv show but not from her purpose.....love it

[@WhyCee74]

She always looks beautiful.

[@sierraghealthyself2430]

GEM: It's always hard to see your love one hit rock bottom, but don't forget that God made the rock.

[@nanapearlpearl2696]

Powerful statement.

[@Joshua-re3xw]

She spoke a word 🔥🔥🔥🙏

[@vibequeen88]

My god 🎯🙏🏾

[@divaslm1]

Consequences help everyone to choose to get better

[@dillionmcintosh2926]

We need more Elders like her in our community

[@brownin329]

They are there. Seek them out.

[@joycehenderson4143]

They are here!!

[@joycehenderson4143]

@ Brownin329, I reiterate, they are here. Look for them.

[@revolutionarythinker6943]

I help people fix their lives...

[@daniyonceknows]

We have her wisdom in many ppl we encounter, believe it or not. A lot of times ppl don’t recognize it because they are judging the package (person/messenger). Sometimes it’s not an elder with a beautiful smile. Sometimes it’s a young person, coworker, past lover, or person we’d rather dislike. When one recognizes that everyone is a mirror, we can get what god is sending our way. 🙏🏽💛

[@veronicataal87]

She said she’s 70!!!! This lady looks amazing and she doesn’t look like she’s had crazy work done on her face

[@zuzanna1456]

Good work isn’t obvious

[@Daizy10231023]

She doesn't need it. It's the grace of the Ancestors and the earth keeping them cheeks and lips full 😆❤

[@tymbreturner501]

@@zuzanna1456 Eating Healthy. Drinking lots of Water, Bathing & Moisturizing your face Daily does the same, That's Good Work Too..

[@JanetJenkins]

@@tymbreturner501 Exactly!!

[@calicea4651]

She takes care of herself. I don't think she's had work done.

[@MomTheEbayer101]

Did you guys pick up on “care-fronted” vs. confronted @15:02. I love that because clear is kind and unclear is unkind!

[@starlightstarbright26]

I believe she got that phrase from a book she really loved! Look up her favorite books here on youtube where she mentions it!

[@kaykayfoster6183]

Come on!!!

[@radiantsmiler3689]

@Mom The Ebayer- Great point!!! Didn't realize that initially.

[@mikawallace9509]

Yes! I heard that and thought, how did they not stop her right there? That was powerful.

[@moneeauntie]

Yes beloved. Love the conversation 💎 gem. Queen mother Iya. Love her

[@KevinJohnson-sd3vv]

As a black man I learned and applied SOOOOOOO. MUCH from here.

[@mystictone4099]

💜

[@michaelwoods9381]

Man I love her

[@TheMwendaa]

That's amazing Boo

[@megosmagick8849]

love to hear it

[@goddessfireunleashed4011]

Thats beautiful

[@danielodia7027]

Protect Iyanla at all cost.💯💪🏾

[@sexyscorpio8087]

THANK U FOR YOUR SHOW. HELPED ME A LOT. GOD BLESS❤

[@photogenic305]

FACTS!!!

[@comedianpottymouth]

National Treasure!!

[@akasiarmah602]

at all cost!! Facts

[@michelleloudres7753]

Continue to pray a God covering over her anointed life🎁🌹💝🎊

[@majesticlove8898]

*Iyanla is gold will miss her show*

[@eddiechea3603]

How can one human being be so wise and always have the right answers to every questions. This woman is so wise I can listen to her talk all day. Definitely going to miss her show.

[@fortruth7681]

God & purpose

[@RodNubianKing]

Her gift from the Most High God. She actually discovered hers in this life time.

[@felishasweet7579]

Judge Lynn Toler of Divorce Court is the same way. So wise and seem to have all the answers. Truth gifts of God who allowed him to use them as his instrument.

[@eddiechea3603]

@@felishasweet7579 facts

[@krystala17]

Wisdom, and experience I believe also.

[@Mr-mf6me]

It's hard to watch somebody hit rock bottom but God made the rock. That was deep.

[@ambergatorgirl3287]

Yes yes yes!!! 👏

[@BluEx22329]

She's got bars

[@puresoulg]

WHAT!!!! Deep and Powerful!

[@millionairemillennial86]

Frfrfr

[@deborahtabb6387]

That's profound.

[@Retired_Ndebele]

"MERCY is when you get what you DON'T deserve. GRACE is when you don't get what you DO deserve" Powerful!

[@trafficcontrol2420]

Ty. Was looking for this quote!

[@sharkkeeper01]

She has it backwards actually. Mercy pushes back what we deserve and grace brings to us what we don't deserve. The Bible tells us that is because of the Lord's Mercies that we are not consumed and that His mercies are new every morning.

[@nini86508]

I have never felt such a connection to someone I didn't meet. I love you Iyanla, and thank you for healing our people.

[@finishingtouches2417]

Amen!! Same here 🤗😊🙏

[@jimmysimon4400]

I love Iyanla's perspective on life. She is a jewel to our society.

[@slbutler01]

Yes! I love her and want to meet her.

[@maryrice4421]

Yes but I did NOT like how she did DMX that was some snake shit.. she was not 100 with h about what she was going to do with him on her show that's why he snapped like that!!

[@burnie9053]

This show ask dumn fucking Question

[@Nosey855]

I love Ms. Iyanla's energy. Her vibe is very inviting but no nonsense at the same time.

[@angeleyes9315]

I've gotten soooo much free therapy from this woman.

[@kenyattahallman-scott6000]

Soo have I I’m really going to miss her show

[@sexyscorpio8087]

ABSOLUTELY. ME TOO❤

[@parahmilan28]

Literally healed my whole childhood traumas because of her !

[@aaomer14]

You and I both❤❤

[@MyLifeDIVAA]

Guuurrl!

[@LyndaStarr]

This convo should've been at LEAST an hour!! So many remarkable gems Iyanla shared I just had to take notes!!

[@tiff7905]

She was ministering to Charlamagne. He was so engaged.I pray he gets the healing he needs.

[@DroppinJewelzz]

Absolutely. You can clearly tell he wants healing. And because he wants it he already has it. He just has to walk in it.😁

[@butterbrown100]

He won’t because he’s toxic

[@ronaldrussoe1749]

Really How condescending of you, STFU

[@coachrobinson6074]

She got the whole breakfast club thinking deeply. She has a gift! Awesome work!

[@JRenee-Sings]

It's a shame this gem wasn't valued & appreciated by some people. This Woman is a gift to humanity. I wish there was one Iyanla for every person. THANK YOU CHARLEMAGNE FOR ADDRESSING HER FOR WHAT SHE IS:QUEEN👑

[@MiaLovedByChrist]

That’s their loss and their shame. I’m snatchin up all my healing, later for who don’t want it lol

[@priscillalewis6054]

Right

[@RoaringMind]

*Bring Iyanla back!* This was such a powerful interview. And I appreciate that all three hosts are getting more air time now. This was a better-balanced show than many I’ve seen in the past.

[@dominiquewilkes2616]

Iyanla is a very powerful woman. You can see she has done extensive personal work. 🙇‍♀️💯

[@beatzbytay4925]

Yes she is so wise. Love her💗💗

[@ithacabaines7871]

The music industry producers will never say dont come to work intoxicated or drugged up or unstimulated on substances Because an artist has to have some type of drugs or stimulants in his/her system to continue to function in a 30 to 60 day tour across country performance The human body has to stimulated to stand the type of work hustle for the money to be made Look at whitney houston & micheal jackson Those poor souls had to stay fired up and on something very powerful drugs No shade & all due respeto the woriwide music industry They have made so many artist mega wealthy

[@crowdfundyourdream]

She is a powerful conjure woman. It takes several lifetimes for many souls to get there. What a blessing to experience her.

[@dominiquewilkes2616]

@@crowdfundyourdream Agreed 💯

[@innocentiahmotanyane1837]

Very extensive personal work.

[@solokizzy737]

Did anybody else catch Envy looking like he was about to cry? & CTG was asking so many questions. I pray for growth and healing for black men across the world. Seems like They don’t get enough tools to help them.

[@annmariebrown6530]

I gree , healing for both black men and black woman. Hurt people hurt people sometimes hurt is all we know to express. Instead of what were truly feeling God's love.

[@MomTheEbayer101]

I agree!! They were soaking up her words of wisdom like a sponge.

[@dineomokgosi411]

You are so right... Please highlight the time regarding Envy.

[@natashaweale]

Envy is not so talkative , I was impressed that she knew his story...

[@1drfulfree471]

OMG!! Yes, if you are paying attention, most things are geared to uplift Girls and it seems as though Boys are being ignored. Thank you for recognizing.

[@OrotiFitness]

Her book "One day my soul just opened up" really helped me become aware of myself. A powerful healing book and tool IF you are willing to do the WORK! Thank you, Iyanla!💕

[@MyNameIsCorey]

Iyanla is a national treasure

[@JeReL19]

So is Kevin Samuels

[@TheSpiciestGinger]

Global! She pulled me through London life and since being bk in Scotland she's brought me healing. She's phenomenal, I adore her

[@tumininu9572]

@@TheSpiciestGinger Amen,I’m in Essex the UK and her work crosses boarders.

[@NaturallyKyrah]

The fact that she’s my Auntie in my head and she doesn’t even know I exist....

[@Erikay80]

🤣 Same here!!!

[@Natjoy24]

Mine too, and she's my spiritual advisor in my head.

[@omarrsullivan4516]

She all our Auntie

[@Boobye23]

THAT PART!!!

[@BigBBQJones]

Mine too

[@BeatsBangcomtv]

Her energy is sooo dope. Truly a Queen.

[@romegrey2600]

Iyanla leaving was absolutely smart because that show is draining as hell especially when the people don't want help and you have to give it your all just to try to help somebody who doesn't respect you

[@shall7277]

Preach... protecting your own peace is the priority 💯

[@brigittemed9372]

💯☝🏾

[@TF-gf3fs]

But these people CHOSE to go on the show only to not want help.😒

[@G11713]

If they did not want help they would not have reached out to the show. I suppose the idea of the journey can become scary, though, and courage becomes surprisingly necessary.

[@AB-qv9ku]

@@G11713 great point. People usually want the easy way out. In every way. Once people know REAL work is required....sheesh.

[@NatalieDaSilva1]

I feel like charlagmane needs a session with Iyanla, looks like he still got a lot of questions and i'm sure Iyanla would understand him better than is actual therapist !

[@pharoah1200]

I said the same thing 😎

[@divedeepwdominik]

Beautiful observation sis. He is always more in tune with the guest, like genuinely interested in them & asking great questions.

[@jacquelinefransaw6911]

charlagmane ask questions that people want answered also its not just him

[@divedeepwdominik]

Like I said he asks great questions! Idc if he pulled them out his ass or the comment section they are still good questions.

[@LOREOFTHETHINGS]

His sexuality for starters

[@futureDrNLB]

This Queen always helps eliminate my understanding, increase my vocabulary & self awareness, and points me right back to the Creator. We are definitely blessed to have this Diamond named Iyanla🙏🏿

[@dr.b1346]

Eliminate your understanding....im confused....elevate your understanding???

[@IAMWATER7]

She was the only person who shifted through black women trauma ON TELEVISION(before then I’ve never seen it done). Holding everyone ACCOUNTABLE and didn’t let them blame everyone. What will we do without her???

[@MiamiPush2theLimit]

What will we do without her? Get actual therapy.

[@miranda120202]

Impact greater than Oprah in my view.

[@viddrone]

DAMN! That's the same point I was thinking.

[@BluEx22329]

Did most of those black women listen to her?

[@viddrone]

@@BluEx22329 What's it to you if they listened or not? The point was Iyanla was providing help and insight to black people suffering.

[@TourandExplore24]

“We can barely save ourselves from a bag of lays potato chips!” 😂😂😂

[@Sugakane22]

I hollered whn she said it cuz i was eatin a bag of Flammin Hots!😂🤣😆😆

[@niabrionne]

A truer word was never spoken LOL

[@tw6361]

She speaking facts Sis!!! 😂😂😂

[@ThisIzKena]

FAAACTS!! Dem Hickory BBQs neva make it home from the grocery store..🥺😂😂😔

[@gc6358]

Don’t talk to me like that 😳

[@jessicacee4596]

Ok, this woman literally just fixed my life by simply listening to this. God put this video in my queue so I can watch it. She is truly amazing. Thank you, Iyanla! God bless you.

[@livingreal6390]

Same here

[@debervin9121]

Me too!

[@kwakudanso2803]

Iyanla Vanzant is speaking facts; we've lost too many legends to addiction: Ray Charles, Whitney Houston, Michael Jackson, DMX and so many more. This is unacceptable for the Black African community. I hope the Good Lord has mercy upon all of our Souls. RIP to all our fallen Legends. Peace and Safety from Africa to the World.

[@kamrynherring1048]

The Black Community needs healing. The constant Drug-usage, Black on Black crime, broken family systems, etc... We need healing. Black Women, Men, and our Children.

[@mbarry7404]

Let’s tackle gun and gang violence first tbh. Or in tandem. Because I can make 50 rappers in North America alone who died in the past 20 years to gang and gun violence. And there are likely 3-4x more. Those are just the ones I know.

[@curlyvirgo58]

When she quoted Eminem I was done. She is so on point.

[@samapples6722]

13:35...

[@bridgettesweeney9809]

Okayyyyy.....me too!

[@lifestraight]

10:48 "The human mind loves comfort and familiarity....even if stinks and its toxic". FACTS.

[@chillycity8885]

“Sometime the lesson is at rock bottom” that hit home. God really knows what I needed. I’m currently reading her book about black men and she ended up on the breakfast club wow.

[@chillycity8885]

@Eimpress Mie thank you

[@rickihosein]

Did she hold you guys accountable?

[@debracox3020]

❤️🙏🏽🙌🏾

[@MySouthernCharm88]

Iyanla is a blessing to our community ❤️

[@realtalk675]

To the world. Im from holland and she helped me allot

[@MySouthernCharm88]

@@realtalk675 I’m sure. However, this post specifically addressed one specific “community” of ppl....

[@nicolareid6362]

I don’t know about anyone else, but I’m rewatching this with a pen and paper in hand. Soooooo much gems 💎 💎 💎; I can’t just watch , I got to record this by hand ✍️

[@rnorth9286]

Iyanla is the mother, sister, auntie, friend, teacher, doctor, nurse and mentor I wish I had for healing and growth work. I can't get enough of her. 💖

[@ChichiMarie]

I ❤️ this woman. Responsible for so much healing in my life, one episode at a time. Grand rising everyone 🧘🏽‍♀️

[@5x7m]

She's done sooooo much for the culture to get our emotional and mental health together.

[@shestudios]

That is the most balanced feedback on DMX I’ve heard thus far.

[@sexyndacityable]

I’m sad she is leaving because she has healed a lot of people in our community.

[@madant22]

Catch her on KZbin. She’s healing over there.

[@greenegreene6042]

She’s teaching I’m going to try and get a friend to sign up for her upcoming workshop with me. You should too, each one teach one ❤️😌

[@yudahel8521]

Lol

[@jeandavis4949]

Are you serious this must be a joke huh

[@realtalk675]

I think it really drained her energy. I hope she will do something next

[@lavern1402]

There’s NEVER one time that I’ve watched Iyanla “Fix my life” and didn’t get something from it... if it’s even just one sentence! 🙏🏽❤️

[@ndvhealingsupportinc.teach7880]

Truth !

[@shamarianharris5885]

15:02 I like how she used the word CAREfronted in the story about her student, it takes on a caring approach. I love this woman.

[@50Deuce502]

She should be the most popular black woman in America. The most revered and the most sought after perspective in Black Culture. Her value can’t be quantified and she is one of the few legitimate precious jewels we have! Black women listening to her would change the world. Also I’m jealous of her dog names. Absolute best names ever...let me get a dog

[@samanthatynisa]

Yes, I plan to get a small dog like hers when I get older.

[@HRHisokthx]

OPRAH SAID NO

[@sanjuan651]

Most powerful comment on here. Why is she not more popular in the Black community than she is? With so much wisdom and knowledge that she brings that could change the world, let alone the Black community, why is Beyoncé more popular than she is when all Bee has to offer is a booty shaking and a lot high notes? And we wonder why we haven’t made much progress?

[@markwilliams8326]

I like how charlamagne refers to Iyanla as "Queen" the entire interview.

[@domodondoom]

That is interesting as I hate when women call themselves queens. It usually means they are not married in my experience

[@karismith5196]

@@domodondoom huh

[@kw6724]

@@domodondoom 😂😂😂😂😂 I’m straight hollering lmao

[@nomdeguerre247]

@@domodondoom wtf.

[@ana_boogie7168]

@@domodondoom Sir...

[@stmarquies4377]

When she talks I never want her to stop.

[@MsChantae]

same 💕

[@Howtonaturally]

I cannot put into words what this lady means to both men and women especially in the black community. She has helped so many people assess and deal with their mental, emotional, spiritual bondage and trauma for so many years. The work she has done and the contribution she made to black people is amazing and immeasurable. There aren't enough flowers or thank yous you can give.

[@sadiej3836]

"Don't let me die. Don't let me die." Oh Iyanla, you do more than fix lives; you heal souls.

[@unclericky5850]

When Iyanla Vanzant was talking to Neffe, Keyshia Cole sister, she called her a “nasty, vile, gutter snipe...right up out the hood!” Lol! I’ll never forget that!

[@yellagirl419]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Msboochie2]

I mean it was accurate, sorry Neffe. My father always called people guttersnipes. I had never heard anyone else use that except my dad. If people thought it sounded harsh when Iyanla said it, who chile, with his thick Jamaican accent and his deep strong voice. He took his time with it extra enunciation.

[@FashionablyTall]

Neffe is still hurt by that! 😭😂

[@JourneyToJustice-withT]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nini86508]

She wasn't talking to Neffe....she was calling out that spirit!

[@jahaanibradley6623]

Can Iyanla have a whole University & teach us all her knowledge 💕

[@jessicaanderson6447]

She actually does have a school called Inner Visions Institute for Spiritual Development 🙏🏼

[@melanieedwards8252]

I bet there's a waiting list years long.

[@Diamonsandpearls]

Man! I'm registering📚

[@sharondramarks2998]

That Gracy and Mercy Breakdown was phenomenal. Been in church all my little life and I have never had someone to teach it like that.

[@sharkkeeper01]

interesting...because that's one of the basic things my church has always taught...Mercy pushes back what we deserve and Grace brings us what we do not deserve.

[@soniablount2135]

She is a great example of what is means to evolve and give back as an elder. So much wisdom. We need more of her elevated and promoted in the mainstream

[@Natesogreat08]

Listen to when Charlagmane asked "What if you call them out and they still don't want to get help?" He was holding back tears in that moment because he has dealt with a lot of loss this past year. And just loss in general. I felt his soul cry out when he asked that question.

[@yaggayaggaya9918]

What loss 😦 what's happened?

[@Natesogreat08]

@@yaggayaggaya9918 a close friend of his committed suicide during the pandemic.

[@yaggayaggaya9918]

@@Natesogreat08 Damn :/

[@beautifulsurprise9424]

@@Natesogreat08 Are you talking about Jas Waters? If so, her death really shocked me. She was blowing up and starting to write for more shows. I was definitely shocked but you never know what’s happening in someone’s life, especially someone you don’t know personally. Everything can look great being on the outside looking in.

[@Natesogreat08]

@@beautifulsurprise9424 yes. I was talking about Jas. And you are right. You never know what is going on in somebody’s life. That’s why we need to start having more authentic conversations and less surface level ones. I think we all struggle with trials and wish a friend could recognize it, but our smile can truly be deceiving.

[@confettiRedPill]

I love hearing strong powerful motherly women like this.

[@trillythagr8259]

Who else click fast asf when they saw Iyanla's name??🤚🏽

[@tiffanycole2476]

Yup

[@LashusJourney]

Yes 🙌

[@masodadominique4346]

Almost dropped my phone

[@msarmstrong410]

Def did, I love this woman. She is truly inspiring.

[@my2boysr2blessed]

We all need therapy... Especially now. It's just up to the individual to acknowledge it and get it.

[@bossladykey2]

Mercy - get what you don't deserve. Grace - you don't get what you do deserve. That was powerful.

[@MsMadAboutMusic]

Yes it was! Iyanla always breaking it down for us!

[@BudandBloomWithBlossom]

Key Actually Iyanla got grace and mercy reversed. Mercy is not receiving the punishment you deserve, like when someone asks formercy from a judge in court. they are asking for the judge to overlook their crime and to be lenient. Grace is receiving good things when you don't deserve it. But she explained them beautifully. 🥀🥀🥀 This is an excellent interview.

[@bossladykey2]

@@BudandBloomWithBlossom oooh ok, thank you

[@crystalmarcia2614]

Yes it was!

[@angeleyes3386]

@@BudandBloomWithBlossom Yes she did reverse it. I was looking for this comment before reiterating it.

[@deirdremarshall-greene1181]

Iyanla "Hit Rock Bottom, thats the moment God steps in" "God is the Rock"

[@joannelindsay4977]

AMEN!

[@Omoloya1]

Aché.

[@rooseveltdarbey9493]

She is 1000% right about DMX, he was extremely talented but also a cautionary tale when you don't make good decisions.

[@Simplegirl5251]

He didn't have any genuine people around him to hold him accountable for his actions. They didn't care about him as long DMX produce number one hits and made them millions. They didn't care if he came to work high or naked. Sad... Be Careful Who You Call Friend.

[@rooseveltdarbey9493]

@@Simplegirl5251 exactly

[@Shefightsproductionz]

'Difficult to make good decisions' when birthed into & subjected to a foundation of physical, emotional (poss sexual) abuse, abandonment, treachery & a lack of being loved on & protected.

[@rooseveltdarbey9493]

@@Shefightsproductionz stop with the excuses, there are people who went through the same things and made better decisions.

[@Shefightsproductionz]

@@rooseveltdarbey9493 Folk kill me w/'Stop w/the excuses' re this issue. Sounds like the GOP saying that everyone can 'pull themselves up by their bootstraps'. Everyone Is Different. However that apparently escapes you & makes you feel better.

[@Erika-yr8vk]

The fact that Dj Envy and Charlemagne were on pins and needles when she was talking about integrity of violation of agreement of a commitment!😃 she was teaching and preaching 👏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@frazier2420able]

Take accountability sister for your behavior

[@reneehicks4629]

She was on point about DMX. He definitely had a spiritual calling on his life. I wish he could’ve completely walked into it before he passed but even in his state X ministered to millions.

[@bsp5689]

He definitely helped a lot of ppl thru tough times...millions that he never even meet across the globe... unfortunately no one could save him from himself...RIP DARK MAN X

[@lottietucker3082]

She's leaving at a time that she is so much needed. I just pray that another Iyanla was born today. Literally and Spiritually.

[@sistamaryclarence]

Visit her KZbin channel she’s been doing these live messages throughout the pandemic I think we’re on 94 , they’re Sat @ 10 am and extremely helpful 🙏🏾💫

[@blkyogi999]

God always provide.... my self and an entire team of Black women are standing in the gap providing mental health awareness and care daily. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@lottietucker3082]

@@blkyogi999 The black community needs you guys. Mental Health issues in the black community have been ignored and swept under the rug for too long. Keep up the great work sisters, but just remember not to sacrifice your sanity for someone else's. Pour into the one's who want it. The one's who don't, give it over to God.

[@anotherpointofview222]

I pray that you and all who need to are born again of the Spirit today, to be all you can be for you, and to help others along their way. No need to wait on somebody else, or somebody else savior to come. What if they don't show?

[@jbadams56]

Her company is called Inner Visions I think.

[@ambergatorgirl3287]

“All alone with nobody” when she said What IF that’s ur/ their lesson?? I felt that.. 4 months sober & recently buried my mother from a massive stroke! Yep! Gods testing my faith.. daily! (Much love from FL)

[@TheYamayah]

Praying for Amber.

[@alfordromney8784]

May the healing begin

[@Vision-nr8zy]

Congrats on your sobriety stay strong

[@rhondabrown7455]

Sending heartfelt condolences 🙏🏽💜🙏🏻Im motherless and fatherless but God will comfort you💕💞💕💞💕💞💕

[@finishingtouches2417]

Congrats on your New Journey and Sobriety!! My condolences to your family, No more pain! Now it's time for you to pay it forward! Help others and share your testimony 🙏 Your testimony makes you relatable AND it will help you to stay encouraged by encouraging Others 🤗 Much Love from Cali 😘

[@ntombikayisetertia7098]

"The number 1 human fear is a lost of love"

[@DaQwnB]

yes ! loved it ...

[@dr.b1346]

Loss of love.

[@OneGlamMama]

I feel this!!!

[@8t2life]

She so pure , real and honest very refreshing to hear her speak

[@GodCreatedBlack]

Iyanla Vanzant has a BEAUTIFUL smile...shows her spirit.

[@TheSpiciestGinger]

And that laugh 💖

[@LortsJailsus]

“What was the agreement? What was the commitment?” EXACTLY!!!!

[@LadyK007]

‼️‼️‼️

[@shayy4280]

I really love this woman with all heart. She taught me willingness, the meaning of forgiveness, grace for myself, boundaries for others and myself, courage to do my work, and so many more spiritual teachings.

[@chanellnicole4679]

A lot of times we don't give the grace because we don't have the forgiveness. A whole word!!!

[@sharondavis3535]

She is so vulnerable but no nonsense at the same time. I want to be close to where she is

[@papalegbasson2447]

Iyanla Vanzant is the truth. The real deal! It would have been something powerful to see if DMX was able to complete his consecration. I'm sure I would be crying!

[@urbanchangewithin624]

This is why I am not clear on why ppl are calling DMX a prophet. You must activate what is in you of you and submit to allow. With liv for Earl our ppl champion struggle with voices. No excuses standing on solid ground of ethereal spirit. Let’s rize!

[@chardiepooh1]

Yeees, I would have loved to see it.

[@catherineherman7574]

He was able to use his anointing to a certain capacity even if he was not consecrated. He had a gift from God, but he also had to deal with the flesh. Non of the prophets we read about were not without flaws. DMX's flaw was addiction. He required a Spiritual cleaning.

[@natashax7157]

I could listen to lyanla ALL DAY - enjoying this free seminar.

[@yldabale]

Iyanla (grand mother) is the only Black woman in U.S mainstream media that I listen to and agree with 99% of the time. She is rooted! Pan-African love ma.

[@dr.b1346]

I agree 100% of the time.

[@Dennis_K09]

Even at the very last moment, she was given out gems complimenting Envy and Charlemagne for opening up. She was saying some men can't hear her message but with them, she's glad men can hear their message.