Brian: this is what equality is. Trust the process, you two will be stronger in the end.
@denisecostanzo95967 ай бұрын
You are a living example of marriage …and standing by each other and lifting each other up when you’re down. A beautiful example of sacrificial LOVE ♥️
@FawnhillFarmhouse7 ай бұрын
Sending prayers! My husband just had kidney cancer. They removed a portion of his right kidney and he needed only six month. Follow up appointments… No chemo. he is doing fabulous a year out. Sending prayers to Brian and thinking of you all.
@bflogal188 ай бұрын
Brian, I get it. I’m the caretaker in my marriage. It was difficult to accept help when I had a surgery and was down for a few weeks. But ultimately, that’s what marriage is about. We care for each other. It’s your turn, so sit back, follow your doctor’s recommendations and accept the fact that you are loved.
@MarthaGarrett8 ай бұрын
I couldn’t find a place comment. But I wanted to thank you for keeping us in the loop. We’ve fallen in love with you and are praying for you and these updates are so so appreciated.
@eleanoraquitaine29668 ай бұрын
Elsie is gorgeous! Happy Mother's Day and prayers for the best news all around.
@beekind19408 ай бұрын
Prayers for you both. And wishing Jessica the best Mother's Day ever!
@michhart42378 ай бұрын
After my own massive struggles watching you two beautiful people has seriously made me question the universe. How can this happen to mum and dad when you've just got your beautiful daughter, then life kicks you in the guts again. Jessica you are looking amazing, Brian there is nothing wrong with being loved and cared for, it's what real love is. ❤
@Coach_Jose8 ай бұрын
Gluttony is a sin. It’s in the bible.
@Gigi2five2028 ай бұрын
@josemama1 Aren't you a bright ray of sunshine? We all sin, including you. Thankfully we can go to our heavenly Father and ask for forgiveness. Why can't you just be nice?
@Coach_Jose8 ай бұрын
@@Gigi2five202 Gluttony is one of the seven deadly sins.
@CharGC1238 ай бұрын
@@Coach_Jose Apparently you are a glutton for judgmental ugliness and superiority!
@wanya_telborn8 ай бұрын
Omg! Wow calm down
@maryblais77918 ай бұрын
I love that you two communicate every emotion. It is rare as a couple. It is perfect for a strong committed marriage!
@susannebrorby59928 ай бұрын
It is hard going from the caretaker to the patient, but what a gift you are giving to Jessica to take her turn as your caretaker.
@ronnimesser8 ай бұрын
I was diagnosed with clear cell renal cell carcinoma in November following a nephrectomy. The mass was found by accident on mri for my back in September. I didn’t have to have a biopsy though, they just went straight to nephrectomy. I now have Addison’s disease ugh and having some new symptoms so back to the oncologist I go tomorrow! Praying all is well for you both
@jessicabellone9138 ай бұрын
Wishing you good luck at your appointment tomorrow! ❤
@lisatowan45368 ай бұрын
Sending love and prayers your way. Cancer is a beast and the worst roller coaster ride ever! Praying for a good outcome for your appointment.
@heidik-lady81357 ай бұрын
Brian is blessed to qualify for biopsy 1st. Didn't get one just had a mass too big so kidney just came out ! At least you know ahead of time how much needs to go or stay.
@faithf49888 ай бұрын
Brian....just surrender to the idea of being taken care of....it's temporary :) Happy Mother's day, Jessica :)
@debbiecrum75858 ай бұрын
Happy Mother's day Jessica. The first one is always rememberable.
@patmeek90948 ай бұрын
I will pray for each of you. How can this happen to you? It is so unbelievable. Continue to pray and rely on God beside you.
@jillmorton30968 ай бұрын
You guys take the sickness and heath to a whole new level big hugs from Maine
@paulachristie78078 ай бұрын
Add to that hugs from California
@CaribbeanQueen72xx8 ай бұрын
Hugs from New Jersey as well 🥰🙏
@jaclaird26517 ай бұрын
I'm a kidney nurse & the recovery is pretty quick and I wish you a speedy recovery x
@cececat95498 ай бұрын
As always, prayers to both of you, If you remember, 3x cancer survivor, different Cancers! You'll be fine!
@Craftygirl568 ай бұрын
Brian I’m not going to lie it seems so strange to see you as the patient this time. Praying so much for you and your beautiful family. Prayers for abundance of strength and blessings no matter the circumstances.
@toniabrock76777 ай бұрын
Jessica, is much stronger than given credit for. She just has a different process. Brian I hope you allowed her to do the caregiving. covering you both in prayer as you go through this time.
@Its_me--Boo_Radley8 ай бұрын
Of course you are both exhausted. Worries about Brian's condition, stress about Jessica's follow-up and caring for Elsie (which I'm sure while it may be exhausting, is also the bright spot in your lives) ... it sounds like a perfect storm. I know you'll come through it and be stronger on the other side, but it's the "getting through it" that has to be challenging. Hoping for the best possible results and outcomes for both of you wonderful people. Happy Mother's Day, Jessica!
@sarahhendrickson97957 ай бұрын
What incredible parents you two are. That girl is so special and so lucky to have your guys love ❤
@terri57577 ай бұрын
I hope all went well with Brian’s biopsy results and that all of Jessica’s tests and scans came back well. Hugs to Elsie. 🤗
@sleepycalico8 ай бұрын
Brian, your serenity shines so brightly even when you are exhausted. I bet it was worth it to talk in the car so the talking part of the video could be marked off on the day's check list. I hope you had a good rest for the rest of the day. Happy Mothers Day, beautiful family. And Jessica, your hair is so adorable it makes me grin.
@jessicabellone9138 ай бұрын
Tiny nurse Elsie is absolutely precious! ❤ Praying for both of you! Healing thoughts and vibes are being sent your way. 🙏
@JenniferJohnson-v2w7 ай бұрын
My father is a kidney cancer survivor. Caught early, the prognosis is usually very good. He's 15 years post op and doing great. He just has to be careful to take care of his remaining kidney. I'm sure you'll do great Brian! So glad this was caught.
@motherblank8 ай бұрын
The mutual respect and love you two have for each other is so amazing!❤ Prayers for good news for both of you. Happy Mother’s Day, Jessica!
@beverlyhromec3377 ай бұрын
Oh my! You guys are just absolutely precious to be considerate enough to make US a video report on such a trying, exhausting day! Thank you! You're right, we DOOOO want to know! Praying praying. Much love, support, and appreciation. Cares and prayers!
@Nannerchan8 ай бұрын
It tests your strength as a couple. You are strong.
@Denise007008 ай бұрын
Thank you for keeping us updated! We care about you. Such a beautiful family! Praying for you… 🙏🏻 🕊️
@PPN4518 ай бұрын
Whenever you are fatigued, situations magnify...get some much needed rest....praying for you guys....
@mruggier07 ай бұрын
When my kidney mass was incidently discovered I was told by Cleveland Clinic a biopsy wasn't needed. The only way to determine if it was cancerous was to remove the tumor and then biopsy. So I suppose each Cancer hospital does things differently. Mine was removed robotically and it was found to be a 4cm chromophobe, which is cancerous. No treatment but closely watched for 5 years with scans and blood work as well as symptoms ,if any. Chromobobes prognosis is measured by size. It will be five years in July. So far so good. This type of cancer if it reappears is in the chest , not kidney. Sure hope Brian result are better than mine and no cancer!
@edb4258 ай бұрын
Praying for you! I truly feel everything is going to be fine. Elsie is such a beautiful child! Happy Mother’s Day Jessica!
@theresarolla84998 ай бұрын
Sending lotsa love & prayers for both of you & Elsie too! 💕💕🙏🙏🙏🙏
@kellyhenry41878 ай бұрын
Brian, I hope your recovery goes smoothly, please realize that when you love someone, caring for them is a higher calling and provides its own fulfillment. Happy Mothers Day Jessica! This is a great example of how a real loving marriage works.
@WhimsyF-sr1ns6 ай бұрын
It's hard to rely on other people. It takes a great amount of humility. Sometimes we have to learn to receive from others when we are in difficult situations.
@juliebaker92667 ай бұрын
Thanks for the update. You are both a picture of love that I enjoy seeing good things happening to so I pray for complete healing and health for both of you. Good things are coming in the future.Hang in there and just keep loving eachother.
@dbrolig15348 ай бұрын
Brian…Sending best wishes and prayers -your unit of 3 will prevail anything life throws your way -Jessica-you got this😍
@Sylvia19767 ай бұрын
It’s ok Brian. Marriage is like this . Sometimes you are the caregiver, others you need care. You are a beautiful couple and a great example for others.❤❤❤
@christinetaylor57268 ай бұрын
As the caretaker in our family, I totally understand how hard it would be to have someone caring for me. Prayers for you both. And Happy Mother's day Jessica.
@amyr63098 ай бұрын
You both contribute to your marriage and family together, the way it should be. And those dynamics may change with time. Life is an endless challenge, and it's a huge blessing to have someone like that to go through life with. Prayers for positive outcomes.
@celinescrappassion21848 ай бұрын
your family has been through so much... i will pray for you guys!
@snugglepuss55578 ай бұрын
Happy Mother’s Day Jessica! ❤ Wishing all the best for you and Brian 💞🌟💞
@hstteacher8 ай бұрын
Happy first Mother's Day, Jessica. Both of you - be glad you have each other during this difficult time. You are doing so well.
@verily3607 ай бұрын
The baby is the image of Brian. At least that's what I see. She is so beautiful! Sorry about everything you guys are going through.
@colleenrichardson53398 ай бұрын
You guys are amazing. Thanks for taking us along with you on this journey! I know everything will end up fine in the end! Hang in there Brian, we love you! And Happy Mother’s Day, Jessica! ❤❤❤❤
@narelled1598 ай бұрын
‘For better or for worse, in sickness and in health’. Sometimes these vows take on a significant meaning when you are faced with something like this. Prayers, love and strength for a good result. So surreal when the roles are reversed and you are now the patient. 💜
@kathleenfredrickson85937 ай бұрын
Brian, you are such a sweet, good person that I wish you a healthful, pain free life.
@robinmeier60487 ай бұрын
My brother had kidney cancer in his transplanted kidney! Removed kidney went back on dialysis for 6 and a half years!good things ahead! He has had a total of 3 transplants and going strong at65
@terissawatkins68397 ай бұрын
❤️🙏🏻Prayers for you both🙏🏻❤️
@ginawhittaker25858 ай бұрын
You guy’s are so adorable. I wish you both all the best!!! Happy Mother’s Day Jessica!!
@Sandi5337 ай бұрын
You all been through so much, sometimes life seems unfair. Love seeing the baby, good things do happen!
@robinmaynard16408 ай бұрын
I am so glad you two chose to address your health so many years ago. I found you in the potato days. What a wild few years it has been. My thoughts are with you daily.
@Rosa-kf6yy7 ай бұрын
Happy Mother's Day Jessica. I pray for strength for the both of you to endure this difficult time. Hold on to God, each other, sweet Elsie and Peef. 🙏
@karenschiavone30688 ай бұрын
Prayers for Brian and a speedy recovery 🙏. Happy Mother's Day Jessica 🌺
@geng86677 ай бұрын
# cancer sucks Thank you for sharing your story. I can already see some weight loss in Brian. I pray you both take good care of yourselves; you’ve got a little responsibility to tend to now! You need to be there for your little one. I will keep you in my prayers. May God bless you both.
@sherrieoday68488 ай бұрын
You 2 have been through so much…❤ . Your daughter is gorgeous! Sending you hugs and prayers…❤❤❤❤
@loriburgess18667 ай бұрын
You two are amazing. I will pray for medical peace for the both of you.
@coolinspirer69988 ай бұрын
You two have a powerful bond with each other. Baby Elsie is a cute little angel who showers your lives with happiness and love. May you have good health and fulfill all of your dreams throughout your lives.😍
@grandmasewhappyhomestead1878 ай бұрын
Praying for both of you. Happy Mother's Day, Jessica. Rochester is a hundred miles from us, I have family that work there medical staff that are hands on care for people. You are surrounded by the best medical care. Trusting the Lord to be with you In each step. I am so sorry you both are going through what you have.
@pamlynch18628 ай бұрын
Stress is exhausting. You have my prayers.
@KrocksInTheKitchen8 ай бұрын
It really is. Thank you for the prayers. 🙂
@asus123518 ай бұрын
Many prayers for both of you. You guys relationship is rare in this day and age may God contine to bless you all
@pacoandellie8 ай бұрын
Happy Mother's Day! The love the two of you share is lovely. Prayers for continued healing and positive news. Hugs to you both!
@cindyhayward12247 ай бұрын
Elsie is adorabe❤. You are so fortunate that you have the Mayo Clinic.
@janereading15088 ай бұрын
Keeping you in my prayers. Happy First Mother's Day Jessica!
@debbiemiller38878 ай бұрын
Lots of prayers to your family ! Elsie is beautiful!🤩
@bethstratton33918 ай бұрын
Wishing you a good recovery from your biopsy Brian. 🙏📿Happy Mother’s Day Jessica. 💐 Elsie is looked so contented, especially playing with Brian’s new dinosaur plushy. 🦕
@annarussell37518 ай бұрын
Please keep us informed, so we can keep praying. ❤️ Thank you for the video! Happy Mother’s Day, Jessica! You look so pretty and healthy.
@annarussell37518 ай бұрын
Elsie is so cute!
@mtkaren7 ай бұрын
You guys are so strong. I wish you weren’t going thru all this but just know YOU BOTH GOT THIS!
@susaneng7 ай бұрын
Praying you get good news and there is no cancer. 🙏
@papabear25158 ай бұрын
Do whatever you each and both need and want to do - you owe NO ONE any explanations, answers or ANYTHING! Without question, you’ve been hit with more than most couples will have to deal with in a lifetime. It’s not fair or understandable. I encourage you both to let no one in your life - especially KZbin commenters - who don’t support you, uplift you and provide you with the love and light you deserve and need. Holding you close and sending healing and peace your way. Kathleen
@Diligent-dp7gi8 ай бұрын
LOVE & PRAYERS !!
@BeBlessedToday8 ай бұрын
You two are so precious. God created marriage with the plan that a husband and wife should support each other. You two are a perfect example of that. And Elsie is cute as can be! Praying for your sweet little family. 🕊
@marthayoung94788 ай бұрын
Happy Mothers Day! Your baby is gorgeous, a nice mix of both of you. Prayers being sent for your beautiful family.
@beebe44188 ай бұрын
Brain, please take a deep breath and let Jessica step in. Prayers for you both. Happy Mother’s Day Jessica….Brian -grab your faith, look at Elsie and the miracles so far. Prayers for many more to come your way. Love you three❤️
@lisakinftworth8 ай бұрын
I am praying for your whole family.
@leelastoma58098 ай бұрын
I just can't believe this is happening to you guys. Im so sorry. I will keep you all in my prayers 🙏🏻
@FlaGrown19558 ай бұрын
I had a 76 year old friend that had the same situation. They removed the kidney, and she was fine. Best Of luck and I will say many many prayers for you. This does not seem fair at all and i'm sorry you're going through this. P t s t is a real thing.
@BubblyinUSA20107 ай бұрын
On a high note you have a gorgeous baby!❤❤❤😊 Good luck on everything else you two!
@bellawinfield85778 ай бұрын
Praying for Complete Healing 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@terissawatkins68397 ай бұрын
❤️🙏🏻GOD Bless you both 🙏🏻❤️
@tammylimacher51988 ай бұрын
Wishing the best for all of you❤ Happy Mother's Day!
@pamelamichie72317 ай бұрын
🩷💙🩷 I am praying for you all good luck Brian 😊
@christinelamb11678 ай бұрын
Happy Mother's Day Jessica, and best wishes for both of you to get good results on your scans/tests/biopsies! I'm praying for you that God would give you the strength and stamina to get through this tough time. We don't know what the future hold, but we know Who holds our future! ✝
@faisalahmad33093 ай бұрын
Prayers for Us 🙏 All
@oceanakane41197 ай бұрын
Hey, sending you guys all my love. Wishing you all good health, peace and joy❤
@stephenlydon86078 ай бұрын
Happy Mother's day Jessica. Hang in there guys!
@janhankins9118 ай бұрын
Elsie has grown and gotten so big! She's a real cutie. I've been with my husband for almost 40 years now and we've had our own share of each of us being sick. I much prefer being the ill one!! I get so anxious when it's Bill. So I understand where you're coming from, Jessica. But I know, for me, it was a privilege to help take care of Bill when he needed it. So, Brian, you don't need to feel bad or guilty when Jessica needs to help you and take care of you. I'm sure Jessica feels much the same way I do--it's a privilege to help care for you when you need it just as it was for me to help Bill when he needed it.
@OgramRavot218 ай бұрын
I love both of you, and baby. Y'all are beautiful people and beautiful family. I hope all is great & goes great with great news.❤❤❤
@cathytimbs74798 ай бұрын
I understand both of your anxieties! My hubby and I also went thru medical crises. We were so thankful that it didn’t happen at the same time! Thinking of you both, and wishing you well!
@juliegusmerotti92498 ай бұрын
Thinking of you and your family. Prayers and best wishes.❤❤❤
@suewarnes94698 ай бұрын
Amen! ❤
@janiceshanks79237 ай бұрын
Continuing to pray for you both 🙏❤️
@NeNe09Gkids8 ай бұрын
Elsie is so stinking cute! Prayers for y’all!
@KrocksInTheKitchen8 ай бұрын
She really is! 😀
@MFF9018 ай бұрын
Brian it's a share responsibilities and when Jessica was not well you were the care giver ❤ now it's your turn to be taken care of ❤ because we just never know! Sending Prayers 🙏❤️ Happy Mothers Day Jessica 🌹❤️🍰 Blessings from Florida 🙌🌴🌴
@CaribbeanQueen72xx8 ай бұрын
Happy Mother’s Day Jessica , you’re so beautiful 🥰. Positve energy, healings to you and your husband 🙏🙏
@maryellenblount63768 ай бұрын
You two make me smile. The love you guys share with one another is truly beautiful. Praying for all things to go well for you both in the coming days 🙏🏼🙏🏼
@BabyDee728 ай бұрын
Awww bless you both. I pray and hope everything works out well and you both can live far away from cancer with your baby for the rest of your days
@judeharper38298 ай бұрын
Elsie is so adorable, and such a good baby. Keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers.❤️❤️😊
@EmilyHaysisabutterfly8 ай бұрын
You'll do great Brain. It's good to see you guys. I live in N.D. Not too far from you guys. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY Mrs. Krock!!!
@azucenanaverro72668 ай бұрын
Hi couple. I,m so surprised. Wishing you all the best because you deserve it. Don,t forget you are blessed. All my love
@missdaisy57368 ай бұрын
So many prayers for posit solutions and outcome From the testing ! Of course you guys have been through too much already with cancer treatment. !! Your smile and upbeat attitudes speak to humble and courageous this family is❤ LC is so adorable and happy and the best little nurse ever for daddy and mommy each and every day🥰🙏
@jeanettelpehl28344 ай бұрын
Ok you two no you three been waiting for an update on how things are going. We miss your family.
@clairemurray-gellineau29968 ай бұрын
Happy Mothers' Day, Jessica! Blessings to you all. Please remember that self care is really important, so enough sleep, rest and relaxation are necessary to promote healing. Do not be afraid to ask for help if it can reduce stress on both of you and Elsie. Many, many blessings!