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@amah91
@amah91 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think these women realize that a slightly larger skirt makes the waist look more snatched
@kitty62862
@kitty62862 2 жыл бұрын
Cinched. The word is cinched.
@amah91
@amah91 2 жыл бұрын
@@kitty62862 yes and also young people also say snatched
@sethrayne8076
@sethrayne8076 2 жыл бұрын
honestly!! its all about the details of the shape of the dress, something with a lower waist like the dress they picked shouldn’t cause much problem, but idk why all the dresses in the bridesmaids section of this show are atrocious
@crashharmonyroberson5076
@crashharmonyroberson5076 2 жыл бұрын
A form fitting dress would not suit the bigger girls. They think they’re making themselves look smaller but it’s the opposite
@BrittAnarVlogs
@BrittAnarVlogs 2 жыл бұрын
@@kitty62862 they said what they said
@lionelluva
@lionelluva 2 жыл бұрын
I think the bride is a sweetheart and very considerate. My heart breaks knowing her own family is so far way; it’s not easy. I think the husband’s family is a bit selfish. Being a bridesmaid is optional and their opinion should not override the bride’s opinion.
@jemma-joon
@jemma-joon 2 жыл бұрын
I really don't understand why ppl agree to be bridesmaids if they know they won't wear what the bride wants. Just say sorry I'll be a guest, I still like you but that dress is more important than you. Besides, in this case, they don't even know the girl and causing trouble already
@LS-gl9yv
@LS-gl9yv 2 жыл бұрын
Very well said!!!!
@monaessam4567
@monaessam4567 2 жыл бұрын
Yes dear but the girls are not that slim so they need a certain modile.
@traciannveno
@traciannveno 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. If my bride wants me looking ugly as can be, its her day and I am happy to comply! Its not about me one bit. Anyway, bad bridesmaid dresses are classic lol i think I like them better to be honest haha
@bofhzerozero777
@bofhzerozero777 2 жыл бұрын
She picked curvy women as bridesmaids and she doesn’t seem to understand or be open to their concerns. Who cares you like the dress? The cousin looks horrible in a halter top with half bare back. It’s the bridesmaids who have to wear those dresses. Let them pick or alter the design so they don’t feel like they look horrible.
@Geronimo2Fly
@Geronimo2Fly 2 жыл бұрын
The bride smiled at every bridesmaid in every dress they walked out in. Not a rude word to be heard. What a pleasant change from most of these shows. That's one lucky groom to have found a woman like that.
@Topicaltropicalpopsicle
@Topicaltropicalpopsicle 2 жыл бұрын
Even when she said anything bad she said it about the dress itself and not about the person in the dress or how they looked.
@noneofyobusiness4449
@noneofyobusiness4449 2 жыл бұрын
The bride is so accommodating and caring. Since when is the wedding about the in-law bridesmaids?
@noneofyobusiness4449
@noneofyobusiness4449 2 жыл бұрын
I just have to make one more observation. At one point, when the one soon to be sister-in-law "claims" that the other soon to be sister-in-law "is the strongest person I know," I had to laugh. People like that think they are strong, but they are not. What they are is opinionated, selfish, self-involved, and insecure. If they really were strong, they would be the better person and be accommodating instead of throwing a tantrum. Just sayin.
@emt07
@emt07 2 жыл бұрын
@@noneofyobusiness4449 yes your right these woman need to calm their horses it really wasn't that big of a deal its literally a dress you'll wear once in your life
@jkookie1964
@jkookie1964 2 жыл бұрын
Idk these people are crazy and selfish other brides would have removed her from being a bridesmaid
@reberi
@reberi 2 жыл бұрын
​@@noneofyobusiness4449 yep I wouldn't want them for my in laws. Honestly I would reconsider my marriage if I was her. It will get worse the more comfortable/familiar they feel with her. They already feel too comfortable frowning and wineing about everything in front of the camara while they barely even know her.
@BasedSockHead007
@BasedSockHead007 Жыл бұрын
The crying was over the top. Don’t take attention away from the bride!
@erinjaynes
@erinjaynes 2 жыл бұрын
Can we just take a minute and say how darling that bride is? Such a sweet person!!
@internetjunkie3
@internetjunkie3 2 жыл бұрын
She is the sweetest bride ever!
@MaxRoc21
@MaxRoc21 2 жыл бұрын
👰‍♀️ wants to speak to the manager
@Armando_Uzumaki
@Armando_Uzumaki 2 жыл бұрын
@@MaxRoc21 LMAO
@arfanido6482
@arfanido6482 2 жыл бұрын
Not the bride, the in laws are the one who wants to talk to the manager
@akshathahegde6550
@akshathahegde6550 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who is big around the hips, A-line skirts make me look good! The a-line cut masks the heaviness, because it fits and looks the same as if you were skinny while emphasizing the waist. The skin hugging dress in turn just would emphasize the fat. There is NOTHING wrong with having fat! But these women who are insecure about being heavy, are choosing the dress that makes them looks heavy. I just don't get it!
@ShelbyZealand
@ShelbyZealand 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, same. Their understanding of what different fits do is backward. I can understand them not liking or being comfortable in a certain style, but as a plus-sized woman myself, I ALWAYS look better in an A line over fitted.
@amandahuber2775
@amandahuber2775 2 жыл бұрын
Oh dear. Apparently no one taught those ladies about balancing their figures! A larger bust then put on a fitted skirt? Yikes! Recipe for insecurity!
@kathrynpasteur4211
@kathrynpasteur4211 2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@mikayla7260
@mikayla7260 2 жыл бұрын
@@ShelbyZealand literally that’s what I kept thinking, a tight skirt is gonna make you look bigger rather not smaller wth.
@renownedbandanawearer1345
@renownedbandanawearer1345 2 жыл бұрын
I think part of it was how all that loose fabric feels, especially at that length. It looks more flattering imo but can feel less secure. Even though you’re not showing more than in a fitted dress, I can imagine someone feeling like they are because nothing’s holding the skirt in place. Tummy feels exposed and stuff if I’m making sense. It feels like there’s less control over where the skirt falls.
@MrsBrit1
@MrsBrit1 2 жыл бұрын
In cases like this where there are ladies of a variety of sizes and shapes, the bride needs to find a line of dresses that come in the same color and let the ladies pick from a couple styles she likes. That way they feel more comfortable and feel like the dress flatters their shape. It's not easy to pick one dress style that honestly looks really good (and makes them all feel good) when you're dressing a size 6 and a size 22, for example. Do dress lines like this not exist anymore?
@lj9608
@lj9608 2 жыл бұрын
That’s what my sister-in-law did. All of us bridesmaids had the same color just different styles.
@ZoieZombie_Lily
@ZoieZombie_Lily 2 жыл бұрын
This is exactly why I went with A line shape for my girls they all have different body shapes
@Furiafelina
@Furiafelina 2 жыл бұрын
That and options that aren't strapless for those who need the extra support, or simply aren't comfortable showing skin. Imagine being cut out from your only brother's wedding because the bride wouldn't let the would-be maid of honor (me) get her dress with straps.
@dsquared1950
@dsquared1950 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t know why that isn’t presented as a choice. It’s not like the bridesmaids are joining the army or some other institution where uniforms are required.
@Dulcess
@Dulcess 2 жыл бұрын
@@dsquared1950 honestly it would make the bridesmaids look like guest at the wedding who was told the color scheme. I saw a photo of something similar and I thought that they just attended the wedding but wasn't in the wedding. 🤷
@melissameaux3639
@melissameaux3639 2 жыл бұрын
Lord have mercy, they were acting like she was trying to kill them! Good luck with those in-laws ✌
@jemma-joon
@jemma-joon 2 жыл бұрын
They aren't even her friends, they can turn down being bridesmaids, ridiculously selfish
@cottontop4223
@cottontop4223 2 жыл бұрын
Agree. They are selfish.
@ChristineInNornia
@ChristineInNornia 2 жыл бұрын
I know, the Bride needs to set some boundaries because there’s a few 🚩with her Fiancé’s female relatives⛔️
@jocelyngail4196
@jocelyngail4196 2 жыл бұрын
😂…. So true
@Be1smaht
@Be1smaht 2 жыл бұрын
Shes trying
@mochatheartist
@mochatheartist 2 жыл бұрын
To be blunt, the displeasure the in-laws have with their own figures is not the responsibility of the bride to cure- and yet she compliments them, tries to find things that they actually look good in, and comforts them. Hope she's blessed with a long a happy marriage because she deserves all the kindness in the world.
@lanybugbooboo
@lanybugbooboo Жыл бұрын
In the end, they can say no to being a bridesmaid and just say they want to be there to honor the union as a guest.
@courtjunk7
@courtjunk7 2 жыл бұрын
This is why I had one person in my wedding. I picked the color and she picked the dress. Not a tear was shed.
@Littlegingerrocker
@Littlegingerrocker Жыл бұрын
Noy everyone wants one person
@AFAskygoddess
@AFAskygoddess 4 ай бұрын
​@@Littlegingerrocker, and not everyone wants their wedding to look like an English coronation. They focus more about the long term marriage, not the one day party.
@sherrymeans1106
@sherrymeans1106 2 жыл бұрын
Good Lord! Ina doesn't deserve what? Nobody was doing anything to her.
@heavensqueen7143
@heavensqueen7143 2 жыл бұрын
Wait which one was Ina again? The bride or the one that was crying??
@heavensqueen7143
@heavensqueen7143 2 жыл бұрын
If Ina is the lady that was crying...no one was doing anything to her but she was struggling with her body which apparently hasn't been dealt with. I don't think she wanted to make the bride feel uncomfortable the way she did but she was overwhelmed by something from within because of the situation. Although it should be about the bride I understand ina's situation.
@cindy844
@cindy844 2 жыл бұрын
@@heavensqueen7143 I totally agree 💯
@reberi
@reberi 2 жыл бұрын
I think they are used to get what they want, when they start crying. Terrible childish behavior. My aunt does this, too: "meeehhh You think I am stupid, fat and ugly". I swear, one of these days I will say yes.
@Havis_Princess
@Havis_Princess Жыл бұрын
She doesn't deserve to feel uncomftorable, unhappy, insecure, hideous
@cecynay7369
@cecynay7369 2 жыл бұрын
The insecurity breaks my heart. At some point it becomes selfish, though. Loving and accepting yourself is a service to others, sometimes.
@theeccentric7263
@theeccentric7263 2 жыл бұрын
That's an interesting way to look at it and I think I agree.
@oceanfarmer420
@oceanfarmer420 2 жыл бұрын
exactly why we all owe others and especially ourselves to love ourselves
@seriliaykilel
@seriliaykilel 2 жыл бұрын
The A-line dress was almost universally flattering - I hope she realized she looked great in it.
@cloude2519
@cloude2519 2 жыл бұрын
I love how the bride try’s to make all the bridesmaids feel so nice
@bethmccullough5896
@bethmccullough5896 2 жыл бұрын
I've worked in a bridal shop for many years. In cases like this where everybody is a different shape and size and height it is best to give the bridesmaids your color, a length and the fabric and have them choose the style that is best for them. Gorgeous weddings have happened when all the ladies feel beautiful
@MsJubjubbird
@MsJubjubbird 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know why they don't want A line. A line is flattering on nearly everyone. That first dress was gorgeous on Ina. But really she could just pick two styles and have half in one and half in the other
@Crackpot_Astronaut
@Crackpot_Astronaut 2 жыл бұрын
👀 I thought it looked terrible on her. Her chest disappeared and it looked like the waistband was hiked up sky high. I thought the last dress was pretty on her though
@MsJubjubbird
@MsJubjubbird 2 жыл бұрын
@@Crackpot_Astronaut having big boobs sticking out isn't everything. It's a wedding not a nightclub. A line usually makes everything look even. They're also very forgiving. and empire waistlines do the same unless you are extremely flat chested, which she is not
@Crackpot_Astronaut
@Crackpot_Astronaut 2 жыл бұрын
@@MsJubjubbird What haha I didn't say anything about "big boobs sticking out." It just wasn't flattering in my opinion, and didn't look like it even fit her horizontal measurements. The bust looked oddly high up and small 🤷‍♀️ Maybe I'm just not fashionable. It just didn't look right to me.
@MsJubjubbird
@MsJubjubbird 2 жыл бұрын
@@Crackpot_Astronaut that's an empire waist. like the opposite to a drop waist. very classic and very forgiving as it flows away from the natural waistline. also very big ten years ago when this was filmed. not that fashionable now. I kept all my clothes from then because of how kind they are. and also practical because you can move a lot. They will order the dresses to fit the individual bridesmaid. The dress on the rack is too small.
@ellenmason3833
@ellenmason3833 2 жыл бұрын
My cousin was stationed in Germany when I was getting married. She sent me her measurements, I ordered her dress with the others, sent it to her in Germany from California where she got it altered by the wonderful tailors there and made it to my wedding in a perfectly fitted bridesmaid dress. Same with my bridesmaid in NYC. This bride is so sweet and I get wanting to please his family, but the fact that “her” friends are in Texas and therefore too far away to be in the wedding is rather confusing to me. Does she not have a bestie or any good friends in Texas wondering why they are too far away to be in her party? I live in Texas now. It’s a big state but not that big 😁 and I would drive across it in a heartbeat for my best friends wedding
@frenchartantiquesparis424
@frenchartantiquesparis424 2 жыл бұрын
Not everyone has that kind of money...... It could be money, it could be something else. Maybe she fell out with her friends for some reason after she left Texas...?
@pdcates6184
@pdcates6184 2 жыл бұрын
@Ellen Mason I wondered the same thing. Eight hours driving time could have been planned or arranged considering it’s a once in a lifetime event. At least a few of them could have been there for her.
@LyricalXilence
@LyricalXilence 2 жыл бұрын
If she is paying for a full wedding with bridesmaids dresses, I do wonder why she wouldn't be able to fly at least 1 family member out.
@billielittle
@billielittle 2 жыл бұрын
I thought the exact same thing.
@howdyyall4335
@howdyyall4335 2 жыл бұрын
I pray you and your family are doing well! God bless 💓
@deborahwheeler4302
@deborahwheeler4302 2 жыл бұрын
The first dress that Ina had on was gorgeous on her. What we see is beauty; however, her self-image created an aura of unpleasantness. Though the dress flattered her physique, her feelings caused the eyes to focus on her facial expressions of discontent that distracts and displaces all attractive features no matter what style of dress or outfit she was wearing.
@dietotaku
@dietotaku 2 жыл бұрын
The one with the straps? Is everyone blind, how am I the only one that sees how it made her look COMPLETELY flat-chested with a big ol' belly? That was the most pear-shaped dress I've ever seen on a woman.
@emt07
@emt07 2 жыл бұрын
@@dietotaku idk I thought it looked cute 😍
@TEDDYBEAR-hw4qt
@TEDDYBEAR-hw4qt 2 жыл бұрын
Nah that first dress was ugly as hell. I hated it she looked awful but I don’t get why she was crying and acting out instead of just saying how she feels. I am also a big girl bigger than ina and have felt how she has but She def had a moment lol
@totallynameless8861
@totallynameless8861 2 жыл бұрын
@@TEDDYBEAR-hw4qt Because not everyone has the same history, or coping mechanisms, or confidence. Crying is often an involuntary response.
@renownedbandanawearer1345
@renownedbandanawearer1345 2 жыл бұрын
@@dietotaku I agree, the bodice sucked and did nothing to give her shape. I am also confused by everyone saying how good it looked. Maybe I’m just not able to picture what a properly fitted one would look like as it was way too small I think. The red dress looked way better on her imo
@MeganHitachiin
@MeganHitachiin 2 жыл бұрын
The purple will be so flattering on everyone on the day.
@dianaahakim2001
@dianaahakim2001 2 жыл бұрын
I LOVE how the bride doesn’t want to make Ina uncomfortable and is unwilling to make her uncomfortable and is willing to change the dress to make her comfortable
@miasoloproductions
@miasoloproductions 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this clip. Everyone was thinking about everybody else's feelings. You never see that anymore. Even when the bride chose the dress Ina didn't want to wear, Ina still said at the end that she'd wear it and make herself feel good in it.
@sararomero7090
@sararomero7090 2 жыл бұрын
If someone asks me be a bridesmaid in their wedding, I would be honored and wear anything they asked me to. It’s their wedding, it doesn’t matter if I think I don’t look good. It’s not my special day and besides, it’s only for a few hours anyway. A friend of mine got married a few years ago and I flew up to be in her wedding; she took us all to a salon of her choosing and had our hair styled the way she wanted it. This was out in a rural area, the country lol, where I’m originally from; their idea of “trendy” and “fashionable” is a little different from in big cities. The lady spent like three hours doing my hair, and when she turned me around to the mirror I had this big, poofy, Dolly Parton 1980s hairdo 🙈😂 I looked, um, different. But I didn’t say anything I just smiled and thanked the lady. The wedding went great and my friend was so happy, that’s all that mattered. I just looked like a poodle for one afternoon 😂
@sharonaxelrod4608
@sharonaxelrod4608 2 жыл бұрын
That was sweet of you.
@almohvn33
@almohvn33 2 жыл бұрын
Agree.. and if they are that unhappy with their bodies.. hit the gym...
@sararomero7090
@sararomero7090 2 жыл бұрын
@@almohvn33 I know it’s easier said than done, but I agree. If someone isn’t happy with their looks, change it. In high school I was the biggest dweeb 😂🤓 I had braces, a very short, boyish haircut, acne, and was about 60 lbs. overweight. After I graduated I would wear baggy clothes all the time and a clip-on ponytail because I hated how I looked. I grew my hair long, got it dyed, had my braces removed, started an acne treatment regimen, and started dieting/exercising. I got down to about 100 lbs. and bought a whole new wardrobe. I had a breast lift surgery after all the weight loss. When I ran into old friends from high school they hardly recognized me. Not only because of the physical changes but because I was more confident and outgoing as well. But I had two choices: keep hiding and be miserable, or change what I was unhappy about.
@davisholman8149
@davisholman8149 2 жыл бұрын
@@sararomero7090 SO PROUD OF YOU...don’t know you, but WOW, you took control of your life & fixed what bothered you. Well done.👏🏽
@LyricalXilence
@LyricalXilence 2 жыл бұрын
That's how I always thought it was supposed to be.
@HeronCoyote1234
@HeronCoyote1234 2 жыл бұрын
Easy solution: pick a color, a length, and a fabric. Then let the bridesmaids choose their dresses w/in those guidelines. Teal, satin, short. Done.
@mariacasella6474
@mariacasella6474 2 жыл бұрын
I really like this Bride for her compassion towards her future in laws-with so many styles and sizes-I would pick two styles in the same color.I felt so bad for the bridesmaid that was crying she is very uncomfortable.Ina and all the girls are beautiful and they are all very blessed to be together,healthy,happy
@cybersylv
@cybersylv 3 ай бұрын
All the women looked beautiful!! Women are like flowers, each beautiful in their own way!
@BellyDancerDiaries
@BellyDancerDiaries 2 жыл бұрын
I love that the bride embraces her fiance's family into her wedding party. They all want to be friends!
@clwbchbabycakes
@clwbchbabycakes 2 жыл бұрын
Marrying into a family where it's all about them. Good luck girl - you're gonna need it!!! CRYING from just trying a dress on??!!! RUN!!!!!
@rileyraney8960
@rileyraney8960 2 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad when people start feeling insecure! The bride was really sweet and I think she chose a dress that will compliment each one of them! For my wedding I chose the color and said I wanted them to be long (since was going to be a winter wedding) but let the girls choose the style they wanted and they really like that! One was confident in strapless one wasn't and got a halter top and so on! And they all looked beautiful!
@Sar-ahG
@Sar-ahG 2 жыл бұрын
So many cute options, the bride made the right decision -- she's the one who is going to be looking at her wedding photos for the rest of her life and tbh that style looks amazing on all the ladies 💕
@Blueeyedjenn14
@Blueeyedjenn14 2 жыл бұрын
Moments like this are why you don’t always need to have a bridal party/groomsmen. Having a dozen others sharing the altar/stage with you isn’t necessary. This bride was beyond graceful and kind, especially with all those personalities
@MrOllie716
@MrOllie716 2 жыл бұрын
This is when you choose a color and let them all choose their own style
@uphillhomestead6188
@uphillhomestead6188 2 жыл бұрын
But then you have a chaotic mess!
@sharonaxelrod4608
@sharonaxelrod4608 2 жыл бұрын
@@uphillhomestead6188 I disagree. The color makes it cohesive.
@alidavideo
@alidavideo 2 жыл бұрын
If they're in the same fabric, I agree it can work. But different fabrics starts to look a bit messy
@justjaein
@justjaein 2 жыл бұрын
…it really depends. Sometimes it works well- but in my opinion it looks like a mess. And honestly it just symbolizes the fact that no one wants to compromise.
@renownedbandanawearer1345
@renownedbandanawearer1345 2 жыл бұрын
I think if you want identical bridal party dresses that’s fine to try, but yeah I understand why a lot of women prefer to just give them a colour. I don’t think it’s a bad thing when brides do want the same dress for everyone, as long as they understand how difficult that’s going to be when your bridesmaids have such a diverse range of body types.
@bridget_miley
@bridget_miley 2 жыл бұрын
i can understand the insecurity, especially when you have to be in front of everyone in something you feel bad in. but sometimes you have to trust the people who care about you when they say you look amazing. Ina is a strong woman and i’m sure she was feeling good at the wedding
@innominate172
@innominate172 Жыл бұрын
I love the bride, she's so compassionate and sweet :)
@moand7862
@moand7862 2 жыл бұрын
This bride has patience. It's hard enough to get "friends" to agree and let the damn bride have her wedding. These chicks wanted nothing to do with any of this. 🙈
@not_yours_ever8444
@not_yours_ever8444 2 жыл бұрын
The bride was very very sweet and considerate of everyone!! The two in-laws were very picky and don’t realize the dress she chose was amazing!!
@kamjayde4294
@kamjayde4294 2 жыл бұрын
As serious as this episode was I gotta admit the two pigs fighting under a blanket got me😂. Best. Movie. Ever
@Hooperjz78
@Hooperjz78 2 жыл бұрын
Facts lol... that didn't slide by me 😄
@LisaLGruman
@LisaLGruman 2 жыл бұрын
I wondered why they didn’t have the blonde on the right try on the bride’s dress of choice. I think it’s OK and rather nice when there are different styles that look best on each and all in the same color for the wedding.
@doritobandito_1323
@doritobandito_1323 2 жыл бұрын
they most likely didn't have a sample in the right size
@sarahkingan2752
@sarahkingan2752 2 жыл бұрын
This bride is so sweet and considerate.
@atreq
@atreq 2 жыл бұрын
The curvy bridesmaids looked LOVELY in the poofy skirts!
@vrsalcedo7245
@vrsalcedo7245 2 жыл бұрын
Stephanie is the stealth SIL and I get the feeling Ina _always_ gets her way - Bride better watch her back.
@evanschultz4741
@evanschultz4741 Жыл бұрын
When the other cousin said she didn’t deserve that and that’s not what we do here made me so confused. Like clearly the bride is vocal about wanting to please everyone, what is she doing wrong by simply liking a dress? I feel bad they have insecurities about themselves but that’s not the bride’s problem when she’s trying to be accommodating.
@oposscm
@oposscm 2 жыл бұрын
It’s so heartwarming how the bride’s face lights up every time she sees any of her friends or family wearing either of the dresses because she just looks so delighted that they are so pretty in the dresses 🤧💗
@HPManiac123
@HPManiac123 11 ай бұрын
I understand and even agree with the comments that the dress the bride picked and all the other a-line dresses looked great on her. But I wholly disagree that she was being selfish or mean or whatever negative comments I keep seeing about the in-laws. The bride was kind and was considerate and obviously cared about their opinions. But I found the cousin kind just a little too straightforward on her opinion, but the fact the cousin kept putting on those dresses, looked at herself in mirror, hated how she looked, but still walked out in front of those cameras anyway. And she did that multiple times before she just couldn't do it anymore. And when the bride came to her and asked her if there was anything she (the bride) could do and the cousin just wanted to wear something else, she just wanted to feel pretty at least once in the appointment. She didn't beg the bride to pick something else or she would quit the bridal party. She just asked her if she could make the other two wear the A-lines and let her wear something more fitted for the next round. And a lot of comments are condemning her for it. She did several rounds of the large skirt dresses, even the chiffon round she wore a larger skirt than the other two, who wore more fitted dresses. I admire how much she tried for the bride before asking to wear anything else.
@nikitatrisha1616
@nikitatrisha1616 2 жыл бұрын
As a person with a big top and small bottom we feel very body conscious in certain dresses. It was nice of the bride to be so considerate.
@gwenstone9685
@gwenstone9685 2 жыл бұрын
What people need to understand is self confidence goes a long way. Own who you are and love yourself. I wish I learnt that before my 40s.
@rugiasamson7400
@rugiasamson7400 2 жыл бұрын
The bride is such a sweet considerate person..
@melodicarpenter5820
@melodicarpenter5820 2 жыл бұрын
I can't get over how a beautiful dress makes a beautiful woman so much more confident and self assured. Miss Ina you are gorgeous sweetheart.
@Regina.6692
@Regina.6692 Жыл бұрын
I really hope Ina realizes that she's beautiful, regardless of what dress she wears. It didn't make her look bigger, the colors looked great on her
@janicewebber5584
@janicewebber5584 3 ай бұрын
I wish they'd shown the brides pick on all of them at the end. Also, if one is big & they know it, everyone else also knows it. Stop being in denial. The end dress is very pretty so, all of you will look lovely. ❤
@barbarahayden5602
@barbarahayden5602 2 жыл бұрын
looking at the final choices inset right at the end, the choice looked good on all the girls. Hope the wedding and future of this family goes well
@Samantha-qj9wq
@Samantha-qj9wq 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I KNEW that was going to be the dress she wanted, and it's beautiful, and that last shot of Ina IN that dress, she looked spectacular!!
@csandford6011
@csandford6011 2 жыл бұрын
Lori is so sweet it's not a show without Lori and I love her with Monty also
@katvb4550
@katvb4550 10 ай бұрын
The bride is the nicest human ❤
@eeemilu
@eeemilu 2 жыл бұрын
Ina's so pretty. It makes me sad seeing people struggle so much with their body image -- though, as someone who has only recently begun accepting my body, I completely get it as well. Also, what a lovely bride. So many people would just be all "welp, I want this so too bad", but she's so considerate of everybody's opinions.
@soulstrength
@soulstrength 2 жыл бұрын
I thought Ina looked beautiful in that red dress.
@reberi
@reberi 2 жыл бұрын
She looked ugly in everything with that facial expression she pulled all the time.
@tinkeramma
@tinkeramma 2 жыл бұрын
@@soulstrength I agree. Ina looked stunning in everything we were shown. Ina, if you ever see this video and come read comments, please know you made *me* feel beautiful as a curvy lady too.
@slash19604
@slash19604 2 жыл бұрын
The dress the bride picked is flattering on all of them. Beautiful color.
@stephaniecook6034
@stephaniecook6034 2 жыл бұрын
WHY! do some of these women think they can say no to a dress she clearly likes!!!! It's ONE DAY out of the year and it has nothing to do with what you like!! 😑 I swear that repulses me to my core.
@rrabiya.zz006.
@rrabiya.zz006. 2 жыл бұрын
Cuz they are paying for it..?
@stephaniecook6034
@stephaniecook6034 2 жыл бұрын
@@rrabiya.zz006. To wear at HER wedding. Your not buying a dress to wear for church. Even if i think the bride style is horrible, or if I'm the only fat bridesmaid and it doesn't suite me, why bother the bride with my opinions? It's supposed to please her and match her vision.
@stephaniecook6034
@stephaniecook6034 2 жыл бұрын
@@rrabiya.zz006. You are forgetting that brides typically pick bridesmaid according to who's closest to her. You can't be supportive for one day because you are afraid you aren't looking YOUR best. That's selfish AF. I think she catered to that girl because she is still probably trying to fit into her in-laws family.
@rrabiya.zz006.
@rrabiya.zz006. 2 жыл бұрын
@@stephaniecook6034 being a bridesmaid is really great thing. It just tells how much the bride cares about you that she wants you to be there on her special day. I agree they should fully respect the brides choice. But the thing is these dresses aint under 100 dollar that they're like whatever it's just for a day. Even if being a bridesmaid is such a big thing, they should still not look hideous on their friends wedding. There will be photos and so many people. Plus it's the bridesmaid who are wearing and paying for it. They should have a right to say no if they feel insecure or really hate it. The best thing is for the bride to choose a color, length, fabric and the bridesmaid to pick their own dresses according to their own budget and bodies. Thats fair to all. Not everyone looks good in everything. And loving your friend is on a side, there are people who have average salaries and wouldn't want to spend over 200 dollars on a dress in which they feel insecure and won't ever wear again
@stephaniecook6034
@stephaniecook6034 2 жыл бұрын
@@rrabiya.zz006. I'm not heartless so I do get your point, trust. But cost is different than you crying about not getting your preference. If i thought the bride was gonna try to make me look "hideous" on purpose than I would have never said yes to be her bridesmaid. The bride clearly liked what it looked like on her and now she is going to jeopardize her vision to make an in law happy. I would feel like dirt if I had to make a scene in front of all those people to get what i wanted, and then to get it? I wouldn't be able to sleep from the cringe. Lastly, they said the crying woman was typically very tough and strong. You don't think that personality type gets whatever they want? I highly doubt she would have given anyone, much less an in law that kind of time. She's lucky that girl really loves her brother.
@A.I.P
@A.I.P 2 жыл бұрын
I loved Erica's dress in the second round and it can go on different figures.
@anncbower5564
@anncbower5564 2 жыл бұрын
The bride appreciates her bridesmaids figures even when they feel insecure & sees past their insecurities & wants their inner beauty to shine thru........the bride loves her bridesmaids curves.
@BettyOs
@BettyOs 2 жыл бұрын
Who lied to these women and said something fitted would make you look smaller! Nipped in at the waist with an A-line skirt is so slimming.
@mrst678
@mrst678 2 жыл бұрын
Dear LORD! Watching these shows, I now see why more people opt to do smaller weddings with no bridal parties.
@saturnsflower11
@saturnsflower11 Жыл бұрын
I felt immediately bad for the bride. She was trying so hard to make everyone else happy with the dresses when it was her day in the end. Even when the others were rude to her she handled the situation with such grace, and smiled every time. And Ina seemed very sweet in the end, and she looked beautiful in all the dresses she tried on. Insecurities were definitely making her see things nobody else was.
@Opinionakadatruth
@Opinionakadatruth 2 жыл бұрын
If you’re a bigger girl, the flare at the bottom will honestly make you look less “huge” (as these girls said it) then you think. It gives the allusion that you’re smaller from the waist. These girls are being impossible.
@thornepp6286
@thornepp6286 2 жыл бұрын
Full skirt brings in the waist and gives an hourglass figure, column dresses don’t flatter curves and make you look big and boxy
@frosty818
@frosty818 2 жыл бұрын
This whole family is working the Karen hair bob 😂 but seriously the purple one she picked was stunning and the bride is a sweetheart
@r.e.7138
@r.e.7138 2 жыл бұрын
I'm still trying to figure out why the in-laws think a fitted dress would hide anything...
@ghettoprincess_80
@ghettoprincess_80 2 жыл бұрын
Ina looked horrible in that strapless, fitted dress she was so adamant about wearing. She doesn't seem to understand that fitted is NOT the way to go if you're trying to flatter a bigger figure. When she came out looking like a potato sack insisting it looked the best my mouth dropped open.
@cheesecakelover6692
@cheesecakelover6692 Жыл бұрын
I would also pick dress #2. Its gorgeous!
@DravenGal
@DravenGal 5 ай бұрын
I think they all looked lovely in the dresses over the outro at the end. I liked the colors too. Bold choice!😊
@eringemini7091
@eringemini7091 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder if a bride has ever chosen all the same color dresses,( same length obviously), just in different styles to match each body type? In photos as long as the lengths/color is all the same, as well as accessories ( shoes, jewelry & flowers), I think it would still still look great in photos.
@happyash6048
@happyash6048 2 жыл бұрын
I know lots of brides who have done that. You usually pick a fabric (so the color is exactly the same) and length. Most bridesmaid dresses are made to accommodate this also in that you can get lots of styles in the same fabric.
@vrsalcedo7245
@vrsalcedo7245 2 жыл бұрын
It's a HUGE trend in bridesmaid dresses to have them all wearing the same (or similar) colors, but the style of the dresses are different to suit each person. Makes dressing bridesmaids much easier!
@eileenmcdonald1599
@eileenmcdonald1599 2 жыл бұрын
I any times done that way looks messy.
@renownedbandanawearer1345
@renownedbandanawearer1345 2 жыл бұрын
That’s fairly popular these days. I’ve seen some like that I like and some I don’t. Personally I think it also helps to be the same fabric or they start losing cohesion. There are a lot of brands that have collections where the dresses have an identical skirt but different bodice or neckline, and those work even better imo. If I ever went the same colour/different styles route myself, I’d add the rule that the bridesmaids must also be either all in pairs or all unique dresses (not that I’m anticipating ever having a bridal party so big lol). If half the party is in a matching dress and then the other half are all mismatched it would make it look much messier.
@francinec.5085
@francinec.5085 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly why I had no wedding court. I didn’t want to deal with it.
@1blueyedgirl1
@1blueyedgirl1 10 ай бұрын
The bride is so sweet.
@chrissycopeland8064
@chrissycopeland8064 2 жыл бұрын
I've only been a bridesmaid once. There were four of us. My friend, the bride, found 4 identical dresses on sale at a retail store that were roughly the bridesmaids sizes (mine was one size too big). The bride bought the dresses and we paid for alterations. Was it my favorite dress, no. Was it a good deal, yes. Was my friend happy, ecstatic...I would have worn anything to make her happy. Also, the only person I know that can make red and yellow be perfect wedding colors ❤️💛
@starchan2036
@starchan2036 2 жыл бұрын
The bride is too sweet for these people. She just wants to make everyone happy and they're acting like she's acting awful??
@charityrocks
@charityrocks 2 жыл бұрын
Oh she looked absolutely beautiful in the dress the bride chose for her 🥰👍 I know how it feels to be not sure of how I should present myself but that's why you have to trust others sometimes. Bride did good here.
@englishteadrinker736
@englishteadrinker736 2 жыл бұрын
What a really sweet bride ❤️.
@roserose749
@roserose749 2 жыл бұрын
Brides in my family pick a color. Say light blue.... everyone buys their own dress. Some are more baby blue, some silver blue etc. Diff shades of blue, diff silhouettes and people spend what they want. the photos are gorgeous with the blended styles. No need for this same dress drama.
@MsJubjubbird
@MsJubjubbird 2 жыл бұрын
Yup. My friend sent everyone a bunch of fabric in the colour she wanted. Gave them some parameters- long dress, not too revealing. no showy add ons until after the wedding etc.- and they could take it to a seamstress and make the dress that they wanted. One bridesmaid was a larger girl and had a top and skirt made because she felt it was more comfortable for her
@eileenmcdonald1599
@eileenmcdonald1599 2 жыл бұрын
Many times different styles look like a hot mess.
@MsJubjubbird
@MsJubjubbird 2 жыл бұрын
@@eileenmcdonald1599 It's good to have some parameters I think. Like all short or all long or nothing too frou-frou or not too much sparkle
@renownedbandanawearer1345
@renownedbandanawearer1345 2 жыл бұрын
My mum did the opposite when she had her wedding. Every bridesmaid got the same dress but they could choose the colour as long as they were deeper autumn tones. I think she also let the bridesmaids pick the style as a group. I understand the desire to have the same style of dress - just be realistic about it when you’ve got such a diverse range of body types like this bridal party.
@zoramae825
@zoramae825 9 ай бұрын
The first 3 dresses were perfect.
@Spiderduck-x7r
@Spiderduck-x7r 10 ай бұрын
The in laws acting like it's their wedding 😂
@melodyreyes444
@melodyreyes444 2 жыл бұрын
I just love how Erica slayed every dress, she got bodyyyyyy
@propagatelies
@propagatelies Жыл бұрын
They kept putting Aina in the most unflattering styles they could find. She was given 'the ugly dress' every single round. NOTHING fit her correctly. They did her dirty.
@summer273
@summer273 2 жыл бұрын
“I think it’s real quirky and cute” cackling 💀💀
@sylviebarcikova5763
@sylviebarcikova5763 2 жыл бұрын
The bride is a very nice person.
@ZoieZombie_Lily
@ZoieZombie_Lily 2 жыл бұрын
When I’m doubt always go with A line when you have different body shape types. My bridesmaids look bomb all with different shapes. I even got lucky enough to find one with pockets!
@tierneywilliams557
@tierneywilliams557 2 жыл бұрын
Umm personally she wasn’t crying because she felt uncomfortable in that dress she was crying because she didn’t want A-Line, she looked good in. I’m heavier at top and pudgy around the middle and I wouldn’t be caught dead in a satin/silk fitted dress, A-Line is a good balancing shape
@oasisannie
@oasisannie 2 жыл бұрын
I really thought this was a picture of that Long Island Medium lady.
@TG-fq6vy
@TG-fq6vy 4 ай бұрын
I think Iona’s dresser first one is perfect
@kapofteaa3226
@kapofteaa3226 2 жыл бұрын
Bridesmaid version of syttd, its rare to find eps which the bride is being sweet. She is so adorable
@AshleyFromTX
@AshleyFromTX 11 ай бұрын
I think it’s just hard for a thinner girl to understand how difficult it is to be a curvy girl in a gigantic skirt. You feel like a circus tent, where skinnier girls feel more like princesses.
@kathleenmckeithen118
@kathleenmckeithen118 2 жыл бұрын
Sweet, sweet bride, hope those in-laws will treat her well.
@kristenweinel9101
@kristenweinel9101 2 жыл бұрын
Ok the gray and black dress is so beautiful
@elizabethedwards5835
@elizabethedwards5835 2 жыл бұрын
The hair and makeup gawwwd 😮
@ZillasCoop
@ZillasCoop 2 жыл бұрын
that bride should RUN... they have no intention on welcoming her to the family - they are setting her up for a life of being a door mat to them
@soundlessbee
@soundlessbee Жыл бұрын
I thought that the bride was introducing the entourage like "This is bride's mother, this is bride's cousin, this is bride's sister..." and thought it was a very weird way to talk about her family. The dress she chose was cute and very flattering to different body types. My favourite was the first dress Ina wore.
@tiffanyolivia5908
@tiffanyolivia5908 2 жыл бұрын
This crew is nuts!!!!
@bethbounds2873
@bethbounds2873 2 жыл бұрын
You can have different style dresses, but in the same color. When you have large people and small people that’s a must! !
@nancyaguirre2307
@nancyaguirre2307 4 ай бұрын
Those two need to get over it. It’s not their wedding.
@callanightshade8079
@callanightshade8079 2 ай бұрын
Exactly and if they don't like how they look in the dress they can make some light changes that will help them feel better about it
@totallynameless8861
@totallynameless8861 2 жыл бұрын
I like all these people. I wish them well, and I hope everyone felt beautiful on the big day.
@ebatdorf9991
@ebatdorf9991 2 жыл бұрын
It's too bad the bride didn't have any friends or family who would shop online with her and coordinate and find dresses that made them all happy. I think them not knowing each other very well was the source of the problems. Forget the big group, having just two loyal friends would be better, in my opinion.
@robynmaia3880
@robynmaia3880 Жыл бұрын
The bride is literally the least toxic person I’ve ever laid eyes on
@lindseyowen5968
@lindseyowen5968 2 жыл бұрын
I’d tell them to bugger off! And have my friends instead. Brown and “no” indeed. 👋🏼 “I’m not wearing this dress “ fine , don’t wear any. One less bridesmaid. It’s supposed to be about what the bride wants, it’s her wedding! If a bridesmaid then you wear the brides choice, end of story. They’re taking advantage of the fact that they are the grooms family and so she feels pressured. Not cool. Edit; it’s NOT the brides fault if you aren’t happy and confident with your figure, it’s your responsibility to do something about it. Second edit; walk, save the photos of that bald patch! I’m sorry, I don’t mean to be a bi&@h, but come on. They are clearly using their position to dictate what will and won’t happen on HER wedding day. Third edit; Thank goodness someone said it, it’s the brides Choice! And the insecure one looked better in the dress the bride chose than any of the others!
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