Bridezillas That Are On Another Level

[@melaniev4390]

A "pre-wedding honeymoon" is not a thing. That's literally called a vacation. It's a vacation.

[@telenuvem6355]

I got so invested 😑 🤣😂😂🤣🤣. It was crazy

[@PandaMonium92827]

I mean, mine did but that was because of covid and it was non refundable.

[@marystrope1345]

Absolutely agreed.. I could SURE use a vacation!! especially at a tropical location.

[@BeckBeckGo]

And I love how the more she’s called out, the more she demands they just fund every single aspect of her life.

[@Lala_pawzX_X]

The fact I wasn't surprised when I heard their names are Edward and Pam

[@shch1673]

I love that she accidentally typed “financé” instead of “fiancé,” because that’s where her priorities are.

[@chefc]

LOL literally thinking more about money than her (now?) husband

[@arianebolt1575]

Which one?

[@moonstruck-swede]

LMAO I DIDN'T NOTICE THAT! OMG that is the best thing ever 😂

[@DylanandPeia]

moneymoney!!!

[@CarlosDesmithy]

It wasn't an accident 🤪 lol

[@quinn3110]

When the Rich Uncle pulled up with the 12k and a threat, my head went to two things; old lawyer, or a mafia boss. Good to see that my 6th sense is working

[@lushiousification]

Or the Old lawyer FOR the mafia boss

[@nicolenotizieeamici]

Mafia boss!!!

[@kimberlychloe7880]

OoO

[@abishaakmal7455]

hes a level 100 Boss for sure

[@jordankay8578]

I need an update

[@claravignaud8119]

I love that in the second story it's "only a 3 hours drive" when the bride is trying to convince her acquaintance, but then it becomes "a long way" when she talk about making the trip herself.

[@timovoelker7457]

😂

[@anjaglas5784]

„Pam, what did I tell you about day drinking.“ LMAO 🤣

[@alfredolizardi2972]

That was so freaking funny!!

[@lottieeliza6699]

😂😂😂😂 im 💀

[@trypommd9634]

LOL

[@kendrahansen7480]

I was dying! 😂🤣😂🤣

[@kodileigh9210]

Office theme song

[@inkedmomblu1510]

$30 K?! That’s a down payment on a house. This bridezilla is insane. I love that the monster uncle demanded his 12K back.

[@autumn1734]

Thankfully it was all a hoax!

[@kellysong2256]

$30,000 for ONE vacation? Is this couple crazy? The bride must think she is a freaking, entitled-idiot Kardashian 🫢

[@Norinia]

@@autumn1734 was it? When and where was it found to be a hoax?

[@autumn1734]

@@Norinia Been a while since I've seen it, but if you google that segment/title it usually pops right up on reddit...😆 lol...👍

[@addie-eileenpaige6460]

Total respect to the uncle. Seriously, $30k is a car, a down payment on a house like you said, a really nice vacation, or a year's tuition at a state college.

[@Superduper666]

A gift someone gave us for our wedding was a handmade basket (made out of recycled wood paneling). They couldn’t afford anything else. We didn’t need a gift, we would have been happy for them to attend the wedding without one but they felt obligated to bring one. We still have that basket with pretty plants inside a clay pot inside the basket. That man who made the basket is dead now but I think about him when I see the basket. It was a very thoughtful gift.

[@edith_ing]

Awww.. that's cute tho

[@colleenross8752]

The best kind of gift

[@laurafedora5385]

Aww that’s so sweet and a nice thing to cherish

[@cherryvalance3686]

And your response to it is lovely, and how everyone should feel about their guests.

[@BeczaBot]

That is beautiful.

[@bluelotus3750]

When my first college roommate/bff got married she asked me to be a bridesmaid. She just asked us to choose a black dress I would wear again and liked, because she hated the idea of us having to buy a dress that we'd never wear again. She lived in NY and I lived in Philly, about a 2-3 hour drive. So she knew I couldn't help out too much. I drove up for the bridal shower, a month before the wedding to share in that pre wedding festivity. Even though, I lived farther away than most of the wedding party, I still wanted to participate and support her. Her mother made it a point to show me off to the whole family, when I arrived. She introduced me to everyone saying incredulously, "She's a bridesmaid and she drove all the way from Philly to be here for today, as well!!" Making sure everyone knew how appreciative and grateful they were that I took the time to be there. I did get to help pick the dress. She had narrowed it down to 2 and had pix of them. She and I always had similar tastes. So when I instantly gasped and chose the gorgeous strapless one with bright hand embroidered flowers on the bodice and full skirt, she was so happy, as it was her favorite, as well. It was still a very traditional white wedding dress with pops of colored embroidered flowers. She was married in a flower/herb garden outside, so the dress was perfect. The wedding was beautiful. And though her older sister was a bit of a brat on the day, it was probably the loveliest wedding I ever attended. When I hear these stories, I feel so lucky that that was my one and only bridesmaid story and it was for the best bride😊

[@YourWingmam]

*WHY IS ANYONE MARRYING THESE WOMEN??* 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@Doc-hp5wf]

Bless them for life 😂😂😂😂

[@Sassafrass95]

cause society has bullied guys into submitting to crazy woman or they are sexist pigs who hate all woman

[@fdm2155]

@@JessicaMiller-pc4dj Yeah, groom must be on board with this scam so he's not any better!

[@fdm2155]

@@Sassafrass95 More likely he is as greedy as she is. Why would it be sexist of him to refuse to scam people out of money?

[@freshsodaa7023]

Why is anyone getting married in general, absolutely a joke😐

[@danielleoliver1734]

I need an update on what is happening with that Italian wedding, I’m so invested right now

[@emy4314]

Me too, that was a lot of tea

[@darcydoll437]

Me too. Kinda rivals a telenovela. Love it. (more so because it's not me) Lol

[@vijsm]

It's not true and that was the end it seems

[@eleanorlyndon865]

Me too!!!

[@SarahJeanCole]

Omg same I was hoping for names or something to try to find it.

[@MJ_Hershey]

It's not a honeymoon if you're not getting married first. It's just a trip.

[@marvymba88]

Exactly

[@davidamoritz]

True 👍

[@kangaroo432]

Yes! F this couple. With a pineapple! F 'em!

[@InservioLetum]

"vay cay" as those twats call it. Single most frightful thing about living in asia: californian tourists.

[@dracoargentum9783]

Maybe it was planned to be during the June full moon...

[@bellerain381]

Two very dear friends of mine got married last year-I got them two gifts not from their registry: a family Bible and a set of dish towels. A week after the wedding, they called me to thank me for the gifts! They said the family Bible was the perfect gift and I was so touched! That is the kind of bride I want to be when my time comes!

[@BrookieLikesCars]

That's so sweet!!! The family Bible was a beautiful and thoughtful gift too 🩷 I hope your friends have a beautiful life together!

[@bellerain381]

@@BrookieLikesCars I hope they do!! I was expecting a thank you note, but them actually calling me to say thank you was even more meaningful!

[@bea2985]

As a former makeup artist, you couldn't imagine how many ""friends"" suddenly remember you when it's wedding season or Halloween, coming with the excuse of the portfolio. Like, hell no, if I want to add more photos i'm going to decide all the artistic choices, since makeup, hair products and transportation cost money. I'm so done with entitled brats disrespecting every arts/creative job. We didn`t study to do things for free.

[@rachaelford5525]

So true! I did try to ask a friend but only because I used to go to her and thought she'd do a great job. She wasn't working as one and had trouble with her hand so wasn't able to. But I was still prepared to pay. The hair and makeup girls I got I just paid their travel cost because it just makes sense lol people are crazy

[@SidneyCritic]

You should tell them their face is not what you're looking for, ie, they're ugly - lol -.

[@brunnenvergifter]

its the same as an hairdresser. i cant count anymore how many times ive been asked to do hair for free or when we where done thr person says „uups i forgot my money“ and all of that. its absolutly disgusting and thats why ive decided to do absolutly nothing privately anymore. im done with all that

[@Flowergurl2000]

Yep, hairstylist has entered the chat at all holidays.

[@misssunnydee]

Really, you didn't? How weird... (end sarcasm) I studied Journalism, and specialised later in the creation of magazines and websites. I also have a BA and MA in history, so sometimes combined the two (educational work or writing courses for young historians). The amount of times I've been asked to work for "portfolio" "the mentioning of your name on our website" and more is too innumerable to count. And my expertise and educational background was rather extraordinary to say the least. But even if not... It is freaking ridiculous. I only lowered my rates for foundations who worked with subsidies, because they truly couldn't afford more (And when I considered the project important enough). Problem is; diploma or not, our talents and experience is simply not taken serious by many. After all... anyone can write a text, right? P.S. Hairdressers in my country actually rarely get these comments so I'm surprised this does happen in The States.

[@mackenzieb2218]

Girl, my friend I went to high school with had a low-key wedding, and the most they asked for was spending money for their honeymoon. Everyone decided to pitch in $50 (there was ~70 guests) and we sent them off with enough spending money for their honeymoon. They purchased every guest a small item from their honeymoon destination. It was super cute and super thoughtful.

[@VampyBlood17]

That so sweet! Honestly the whole point of a gift is that it’s based on the generosity of the gift giver not the receiver. All these brides putting price tags on their gifts are the definition of entitled

[@1Letter23Numbers.]

That's the kind of couple you want to help get started out in their marrige and building a future together. That's what weddings are for.

[@Xoxogossipgurl]

That’s a fantastic idea

[@seganaleqa]

I do the same thing when I do my humanitarian trips. Anyone that donates enough for a souvenir, gets a souvenir. I also always bring my parents back a t-shirt too. Even from the smallest destinations like a province away or signature city that’s only a few hours away my parents get a shirt. ☺️💜 It just feels better to give back, I can’t understand how some people are so greedy. 🙈

[@NUMBR1_CHEEKYFAN]

Awh , that's so nice!

[@seganaleqa]

The expensive gift registry one, she said “anything related to the car”, but didn’t specify a price for that one. _Everyone brings tree air fresheners for the car as the wedding present_ 😅🤣🤣🤣

[@Blankjinxx]

I would’ve brought a hot wheels car for them

[@seganaleqa]

@@Blankjinxx Yassss! Edit: But don’t get the actual hot wheels, make them dollar store brand ones. 🤣

[@tiggerpup_nz]

I thought that, but at the end she clarifies that everyone must spend at least $400

[@seganaleqa]

@@tiggerpup_nz She doesn’t state she needs a receipt (Edit: if I remember correctly, but if so I’ll conveniently lose it), I’ll get her 50 of them from the dollar store and claim they were $8 a piece. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@terrimcguire9706]

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[@KARIS1961]

That first bride. 😳 My mouth dropped open from the sheer disbelief. The audacity!

[@alicianelson1252]

She should be in jail

[@AC-wt3vd]

Got married 3 years ago. We did it in my parents backyard, we had a bouncing castle, giant Jenga and a food truck. No photograph, just regular cameras everywhere. We didn't ask for gifts and the music was basically a radio with a Premium Spotify account (I know, fancy right?). You don't need money to get married, just fresh air and witnesses.

[@SquiggyGirlForever]

Now THAT is sweet and memorable! I love it! I like the down-to-earth low maintenance type wedding! The only thing I'd worry about in a back yard type wedding is rain or nasty weather. Using premium spotify account for the music is perfect! **What I'd like is an old fashion dj who spins records - like Johnny Fever!** I'm an old soul who likes that kinda stuff! :) Wedding guests bring their albums and we get a "Johnny Fever" type DJ to play them records.

[@dr.claudiafinch1088]

@@SquiggyGirlForever DR. JOHNNY FEVER FROM WKRP! YES! XD

[@ladygrndr9424]

Congrats on your wedding! It sounds perfect. Here's to many more years of low-drama happiness! My husband-to-be and I sized up our mothers, KNEW that independently they are lovely women, but between them they would turn our wedding into a nightmare as they wrestled for who got to be in charge. So we eloped. $70 marriage license, $50 to the judge which she donated to charity, 3 friends and a bunch of fun photos where the judge let me slap the handcuffs on my hubby. A week later we told everyone that we were married. That was 15 years ago now. We did have a lovely reception eventually in my MIL's back yard with close friends and family, and by that time both of our mothers were just laughing about it and free to enjoy themselves. Strongly recommend that to anyone who doesn't want their wedding to turn into a circus!

[@leeedsonetwo]

Hundred percent agree. My hobby is photography and I have done weddings of friends for free (they paid for printing).

[@Mrs_Schleeter]

in Colorado you don't even need a witness, or anyone to preform the marriage. It cost us $35 and a trip to the DMV to get married. $30 for the marriage certificate, and $5 for four copies of it. All we had to do was sign it, and turn it in.

[@amriakamiran3732]

The bride: "I don't think the trust can be build again" Also the same bride few words later: "Please donate again for my mental health" Bruh this bride in story was not a clown. She was the entire circus

[@moonstruck-swede]

LMAO 😂 best comment

[@tyrantkuwaga]

boom mic drop

[@perjus]

Not my circus, not my monkeys.

[@tylerkinley268]

This seems kind of planned. Collect the money, make a stink, then break it off and blame the family for it while you walk off with your ill gotten gains. If they got married I pray that poor bastard got a prenup cause she is gonna eat him WHOLE in a divorce.

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

Your mental health is not my priority and does not matter to me! Sounds like something you should discuss with your shrink!!

[@sunflowercara8691]

I love how the woman who ended up in the hospital said she had a $700 bill that magically became 3k...

[@heatherreilly6595]

I caught that too! I think she included her 2k of lost wages as she planned to take the week off work. Either way she is insane

[@KatieBellino]

@@heatherreilly6595 I laughed when she said her mental state was questioned at the hospital too.

[@jesclifford88]

@@heatherreilly6595if she gets 2k a week why the hell is she fleecing everyone?

[@arianebolt1575]

@@KatieBellino Yeah, I think she has no idea how hospitals work

[@leamubiu]

That MUA mustered the most courteous and professional answer that I could not be bothered to string together if I were her. Gosh I admire that English phlegm.

[@pseudonamed]

Wedding gifts were originally meant to help young couples build a home with the appliances and necessities (because people used to get married young, often without living apart from their parents first). If you already have all your household needs left, why TF does anybody need to buy you Gucci bags just because you decided to get married? what?

[@amstreater]

Exactly, people forget what the purpose of wedding gifts was supposed to be. Plus weddings used to be local and relatively small (I mean, I'm guessing) not these huge affairs with hundreds of guests and thousands of dollars of flowers. People used to spend their money on a marriage not a wedding, and gifts were a gesture from loved ones to help them out. People forget that gifts are GIFTS not an entrance fee.

[@bararobberbaron859]

@@amstreater The royalty and nobility used to throw giant weddings and invite people 'under their care' to join in the celebration and enjoy good food, everyone else had smaller weddings or a wedding with the entire church congregation so there's a lot of people there, but only like 10-20 are there specifically for the marriage. Now church attendance has gotten lower and the age people get married at has gotten higher it turned out like this. You want a full church but aren't really a believer? Then you invite 200 people to fill the place up. Can't afford that? Ask for money.. I'm basic, I just give a box of assorted chocolates and 100 bucks at any wedding I go to. Chocolates never hurt, I'm sure 100 bucks can come in useful. If that ain't enough, tough poop.

[@BeeTeePee]

@@bararobberbaron859 I like your attitude. I'd be more excited over the surprise box of chocolates even though I'm broke. So your kind of gifts would be much appreciated by me.

[@madhouse6422]

@@bararobberbaron859 i don't Go to that much of weddings,i Just Go when they are from my family or friends,in my country at least people Still marry Young so give things for they houses is Still Common,when you give someone like a sofa people gather together to buy It,like 4 people buying or something like that,my dad likes to give people money so they buy whetever they want but here you Just give money in the day of the wedding and generally people are more on the poor side and the wedding is small, so we help them making the food or cleaning the place and with decoration as well,my mom Cook cakes so a lot of times the cake is the gift to the couple.

[@donaldoehl7690]

When my sister married she said that what they spent on wedding would be made up in gifts they received. WTF?

[@mmlm4116]

"30k is financial stability and a couple bags of crack" I'm dying 😭

[@InservioLetum]

Crack comes in bags? I thought it was crystalline, wouldn't that puncture the bag?

[@saltpepperketchup7082]

@@nahadoth2087 I left the pet store with some aquarium rock salt tied into the corner of a baggie, compliment sample from the fish dept, and on my way to the checkout counter I picked up a cat toy that came with a vial of catnip. When I sat it on the seat of my car I realized I had to put it out of sight because it sure did look like the pet store offered more than just pet supplies. It cracked me up! No pun intended. You're right, the rocks did not puncture the bag.

[@mmlm4116]

@@Lindseyisloony Fair enough but still made me laugh

[@notyourdamnbusiness8795]

man.....if somebody demands a $400 present for their wedding, im staying home that day.

[@daisyface007]

She did she "or anything in relation to the car"... I wonder how many car fresheners she got 🤣😂🤣

[@lauriefrohlich9901]

I'm so with you!!👍

[@CampingforCool41]

Legit, $400 for a wedding present? Sorry, but I ain’t even giving that much to my closest friend. This person must be a rich spoiled brat that thinks $400 is pennies

[@notyourdamnbusiness8795]

@@CampingforCool41 to be honest: even if i was a trillionaier i would stay at home. its not about the money, its about the demanding part. even though $400 is quite a lot.

[@anjie3871]

@@notyourdamnbusiness8795 I often see those who have the most money make a lot of smart financial decisions. They can buy whatever they want-expensive or cheap. But, they’re smart about it. So, buying that woman $400+ gifts means you’d have to make a financial decision that impacts you personally. It also depends on the person you’re investing in and their attitude. And, again, as Charlotte said, the bride does exclude her groom and therefore does display bad financial behaviour. The demanding and selfish bride would be off the rich people’s list, because why invest if they don’t gain anything and only receive spoiled and selfish behaviour?

[@Necromancer0225]

3:18 He's putting this on public social media because YOU weren't answering his private texts and phone calls Pam!!

[@kathaleenreed3166]

The bride spelled "fiance" "finance." The truth comes out...

[@GyattaGo_Fast]

OML YES HER SECRETS! I wonder wear the fiancé is now…

[@Muryxkitteh]

@@GyattaGo_Fast She skinned him and turned him into a handbag.

[@allisondail9482]

😂

[@SterlingGirl1968]

@@Muryxkitteh bahahahhaa!!!!

[@skywanker31415927]

Freudian slip :D

[@DepressinglyOptimistic]

Oh she definitely had that money spent long before informing anyone of them “postponing”

[@dsyfug]

You are definitely on to something haha. Did not think of that, but it makes soooo much sense.

[@hayleygolding4187]

I agree! I think the "wedding" was a ruse to pay some debts (her entitlement suggests that spending money is priority, but paying it back isn't) then ask people to donate AGAIN to pay for an actual wedding! I mean.... BRAH! 😳

[@stinkingyeti]

Gambling addiction?

[@marielaausher]

For sure. Probably that's the reason she postponed it.

[@Stopthisrightnow560]

I almost wonder if she spent it, fiance found out and then called off the wedding.

[@snorsaxattacks]

I love how the makeup bride was like "it's only a three hour drive for you!" and also "I could come see you, but it's a long way" in the same message. Lol!

[@artmusicloveandwords]

I was looking for this comment 😅

[@flitsertheo]

Since this happened in the UK (London was mentioned) a 3 hours drive is actually very far away.

[@Therika7]

Fifties hairdo bride: Watch a tutorial!

[@brysaius5548]

That last bride would be getting an air freshener for her car as my wedding gift 🤷‍♀️ She did say anything relating to the car 😆

[@storiesinthedust]

I have never in my life heard of people donating money for someone else to have a wedding. If you can’t pay for a wedding don’t have one??? A “money fund”??? Girls - please do better lololol

[@Kristiekins2]

When I was planning my wedding I was on The Knot message boards a lot and there was a LOT of debate about this. I can’t imagine ever doing that. If all you can afford is a small backyard wedding with some friends and family, then that’s what you get. Don’t go begging for $30k.

[@osakaskuam]

In México, asking people to be your "padrinos" and have them pay for your cake, the band, the dress, the alcohol, etc. is a thing. A disgusting tradition if you ask me, but a very alive one. I agree, if you can't pay for a wedding yourselves, don't organize a wedding!

[@imogenkemp4626]

yeah like if they wanted/were able to help, they'd offer in the first place, like people have their own expenses lmao

[@charliehatch288]

Thank you! Saving and working to eventually propose is something I'm taking seriously and these mofos just get it donated????????

[@LieutenantSheep]

Lmaooo right?? Wtf donating? For someone else to have a wedding? That’s called paying for someone else to have a wedding.

[@KatieBellino]

Holy crap, Pam must think her friends and family are stupid. A "honeymoon" without a wedding is a vacation. She also took the donations under the pretense that they were for the wedding (and perhaps honeymoon). The rich uncle can totally win, lol. She is no longer using the funds as she led people to believe.

[@tarantulagirl]

This turned out to be fake

[@Lucky-ei6yh]

@@tarantulagirl how do you know?

[@thatonewitch]

​@@Lucky-ei6yh Not the person you commented, but I looked up "bride cancelled wedding and goes on pre wedding honeymoon" and I got results saying it's fake and was apparently a marketing stunt (article is covered by Buzzfeed)

[@hayleyz1703]

​@@thatonewitchdo we actually trust anything on BuzzFeed though? 😅😂

[@thatonewitch]

Idk

[@natalina8593]

The bride with the whole honeymoon situation was so funny cause she was like “Edward took me to an urgent care cause I was crying” like no wonder you were charged 800 you came in for nothing and inconvienved the doctor

[@Sushi_Cat2793]

Exactly. Don’t. Waste. The. Doctors. Time.

[@letmedream111]

the mental status thing cracked me up. That's literally a standard question for any patient physical & history 😭

[@murielredondo1261]

IF she was telling the truth about going to the hospital 😆

[@HighAsHeckPriestess]

And then she kept changing how much the bill was. She went from 800 to 3000 in 4 seconds. I wouldn't be surprised if she's also the Nigerian prince in my emails

[@isaacbyrne2554]

She prolly went "EDWARRRRRRRRD TAKE ME TO THE HOSPITAL PLEaseeeeeee!!!"

[@dusicababic7828]

The amount of entitlement and delusion that the bride has is amazing 😂

[@maxfastest]

Got married 35 years ago. Wife got a $45 pawn shop wedding set and has always cherished them. Our wedding was low dollar and great fun. Home made decorations and dresses. Pot luck reception, No honeymoon, 3 years ago i noticed Her rings were about worn through, I got her a new set that she picked out, $800 She's an amazing woman and has been the glue that keeps our family strong !

[@claytoncoker6489]

I hope you're one of the few and I'm sure you are just by your acknowledgment that puts her on a pedestal and appreciates her to the level where she knows it. Good simple women are scarce nowadays, I'll be single the rest of my life and thats fine with me if my family would ever be expected to buy a Doochie bag.

[@btsa.r.m.y7752]

Thats great news! Congrats on everything, yall deserve it ✨

[@elledesignsart]

Sounds like my kind of wedding!!

[@saramartin4791]

i got engaged last year it was amazing my fiance and i decided before we got engaged there would be an engagment ring i picked out a few and let him decide our trick was we got a white sapphire instead of a diamond but it looks just like a diamond our wedding is going to be DIY we're doing our own invitations (thanks to these templates i found online) i'm doing our own flower arrangements we're not doing overpriced photography and we're thinking of a dry wedding

[@lilianmorgenstern2123]

My grandparent’s nice china that they use to this day was bought with the money my grandma earned at her apprenticeship money in the 1970s. She saved for over a year. They were newlyweds. She was 19. They had 4 kids which they could only afford because they had a little land they used as a horticultural garden. Their wedding gifts were things like curtains sown by their elder sisters. When I see things like this I have to think of her and it makes me so mad.

[@1rperry68]

You don’t become this way just because you’re engaged. They’re entitled 24/7.

[@elmondo-s1e]

You’re bang on, but somehow when the Entitled get to their weddings the entitledness seems to increase tenfold.

[@meredithgregory4982]

And a result of poor parenting, which comes from never being told "NO", always having a parent who blames others when her daughter is the guilty one, etc. It's normal for a Bride-to-be's nerves to be frayed, but seriously, they forget that the #1 thing to remember is that she's marrying the love of her life & it's not about spending a ton of $$, parents mortgaging their home, who can buy the most expensive gives, has a wedding bachelorette party that rivals in the money spent on the actual wedding. Unfortunately this seems to be what entitled young people expect. How about if they were paying for it themselves? It is possible to have a very nice wedding without breaking the bank. I know I did it.

[@jml6263]

The wedding's the excuse to put it all out there.

[@gentlegiants04]

@@meredithgregory4982 Exactly. We spent less than $3k on our wedding and it was great. 18 years later still going strong, too. I can't imagine anyone this entitled will be able to make a marriage last.

[@sksk-bd7yv]

Most probably.

[@tessgivnishartist]

The money fund bride wrote “financé” instead of fiancé in her “update”, Freudian slip? 😂

[@jf7098]

Right?? 😶😂 Maybe my favorite part of the video.

[@Quebonitoeslobonito123]

Lmao I think so, yes haha

[@Deebnoff]

🤣🤣🤣

[@SereVie]

A person I know deliberately called her now husband "my finance" when they were engaged. She makes a good money herself but she's just being goofy like always 😂😂😂😂😂

[@ajpetrone8653]

Good catch! Lol 😂

[@shamanthshivaswamy9661]

Charlotte screaming “ next bride” is hilarious!😂

[@ckee8437]

I can't imagine asking people to pay for my wedding, if you can't pay for a big wedding, don't have one. My tiny backyard wedding was amazing and cheap.

[@TheHeartandFist]

My hubby and I got married in our tiny apartment living room lmao 🤣

[@imogenkemp4626]

yeah like all that matters is who is there, that it's fun and that you are marrying the love of your life imo

[@rexana]

I've never understood why people want big weddings, anyway! I mean... no matter how much you spend, you're still married. Like you're not Extra Special Married by spending tens of thousands, you're the same amount of married as people who just go to the registry office or whatever lol My partner and I have been together 15 years and we're not married yet, I'd be perfectly happy with just the basic registry office thing. Main reason we haven't is because whenever the subject comes up, family start trying to plan it for us. "Oh, you couldn't possibly do that, you HAVE to have it in a church/mansion/castle and of COURSE you need the £2000 dress and open bar and blah blah blah" Go away I don't want any of that!!

[@VampyBlood17]

I would be embarrassed to put a price tag on a gift. Like make a registry at Bed Bath and Beyond or Target and be done with it.

[@toom_56]

@@TheHeartandFist see that is so cute!

[@Barbara349Stead]

When I got married in the UK, there was no lists and people just brought a gift if they wanted to. We got married in a registry office and and didn’t have a honeymoon because I was due for my first round of chemotherapy the next day. People really don’t know how lucky they are in life. I’m still married to my wonderful husband and have been for over 30 years (my chemo and radiotherapy worked thank god). People are so entitled these days - all that matters in my opinion is the celebration of marriage and nothing else

[@haroldinho9930]

Yes!

[@filegurl]

You could not be more correct Coder Girl! Having the people you love there for one of the most important moments of your life is truly all that matters! But most importantly, CONGRATS on your recovery and your long wonderful marriage! Here's to 30 more years filled with love and laughter! XOXOXO 💖🥂🙌🥳

[@dorotheatang4050]

I’m so happy for you both about ut marriage and ur chemotherapy working well. Ur a queen w ur priorities set right ❤️❤️

[@hayleygolding4187]

I'm so glad you got the all clear, and yes! My jaw is still on the freakin' floor after reading all that entitlement! Good grief! Much love to you and hubby ❤

[@BeeWhistler]

Seriously. I made decorations for my reception which I had in the church gym after a simple wedding. We made food and ladies from the church provided some as well. My mom made my dress, the rings were simple bands, my husband's suit was a gift. Couldn't have cost more than a few hundred bucks. I wish we'd had a decent honeymoon but as it was we had nowhere to go but up. It's been 28 years and I can happily say my marriage didn't peak with the wedding day.

[@pepper922]

I don't understand the brides who say they won't accept gifts under a certain amount. Like, you'll get what I give you if I give you anything at all.

[@elmondo-s1e]

I honestly feel pity for people that genuinely measure the worth of everything around them in terms of monetary value. They are taught (clearly from a very young age) that money is all that matters, and they never get their wake up call about life and stay entitled twats forever. I don’t agree with them but I can understand where it stems from… poor parenting 🙃

[@gwenp3450]

We certainly didn't expect anything but added "expensive" items on our registry that were $75 - $200 on it (20 yrs ago). We were shocked and very grateful when a few older ladies pitched in and bought us a nice kitchen appliance from our registry.

[@doctorpaul34]

I'd say here's my gift.: 🖕 The cost was exactly 400..

[@decorDD]

@@elmondo-s1e I agree with you ... what kind of values have their parents taught them ! It’s hideous and they must be truly awful people to behave like this

[@erdnuzz8368]

Its a gift! You dont have certain rules for this. ITS A GIFT!!!

[@crystalgee7885]

I just found this channel and I’ve been binge watching for the past few days!! All I can say is thank you !!! 👏 👏👏👏😂😂😂❤️❤️

[@lindsaymoss8667]

Bride's mom: No, Pam.... Why did that crack me up when the mom came in

[@Muryxkitteh]

I could ACTUALLY HEAR Pam's mom rubbing her temples when she texted that.

[@kateyare4708]

"Hey, hey - no reason to get all lawyer-y on me right now." Ummm, yeah, there is: it's called fraud and misrepresentation. You'll be lucky if your "guests" (or, more accurately, "non-guests") don't go all "district attorney-y" on you.

[@kemonono]

I'd be getting a lawyer from the first post, and a bat to the back of her ego filled head.

[@melatoninqueen6914]

Yup, I run a charity I started at 12 and people donate hundreds of dollars every year, that would be like if I used that donated money to buy a phone instead of the products I’m supposed to purchase.

[@melaniep.4282]

The amount of satisfaction I'd get if the uncle really put her in court would add another 5 years to my life

[@eveningstar8581]

@@melaniep.4282 Righttt

[@eveningstar8581]

Exactly! I hope they do, too!

[@megandunnett7900]

Plot twist: the ‘apologetic bridesmaid’ was the snitch. She did it so she can be promoted to maid of honour.😜

[@djm4854]

OMG I did not see that coming!!!! I'm on the edge of my seat for Season 2. AHHH. LOL

[@melb3150]

I want to read the rest of the post 😂😂 Where can I find it? Lol

[@diyatiwari9680]

@@melb3150 it was deleted from reddit after being conformed as it was fake. It was just a marketing stunt for a new website

[@francinel8154]

@@diyatiwari9680 lol! It was so incredible.

[@mintc.6456]

One heck of a story, real or not!

[@Youre-Welcome]

I did my sister's and three bridesmaid's makeup for her wedding for free. I am not a makeup artist, just good with makeup and loaded with products. That was my wedding gift. More than fair, everyone seemed pleased with my work, even though im my worst critic.

[@nenamichelle]

Conspiracy theory: “Apologetic bridesmaid” is the one who posted this to Reddit.

[@luluvenky]

That's exactly what I thought 😂😂

[@anastasiab3001]

Ohhhh snap!

[@Flowergurl2000]

💯

[@CharlotteDobre]

LOL

[@clairehiggins3658]

Its fake it was part of a marketing campaign

[@GabrielaMartinez-it3kb]

I love how she says "It's only 3 hours away" when the MUA is the one who has to go to her, but when it's the other way around "it's a long way"

[@Sara_Lindros]

Same!!!!

[@yvonnepalmquist8676]

I was coming here to say this one. POV is everything, lol.

[@Nicm7767]

Because it’s FINE if it inconveniences you, but don’t you DARE inconvenience me.

[@peachpink123]

Men like marrying these exciting (crazy) women, 3times, so charming!

[@LifesPeachy321]

Bride: *It's only a 3 hour drive!* (for her "friend to come to the wedding and do her make-up _for free_. Also Bride: *"I could try and come up to see you but **_it's a long way"_*

[@honeymalmborg9952]

My family is like this tho. I have driven 4 hours to see my family many times and they never did. Then me and my bf decided to move closer and my mom and sister was a big part of where we should move etc. and yeah now we only live like 50min away and even tho they kinda decided where we should move they never come visit. But I should come visit them all the time and I have LOTS of time and it only take 50 min for me BUT when I ask them they don't have any time at all (even tho they just sit at home) and it is actually a LONG WAY for them to travel and it is actually easier for me then it is for them.....

[@LifesPeachy321]

@@honeymalmborg9952 Yikes! I've had many, many EX friends that were like that. I hate the hypocrisy crap! Have you sat down and told them how you feel? If you haven't, and you decide to...make sure you think of what you are going to say beforehand and make sure it is not "accusatory", if it is, they won't hear you. Make it about how it makes YOU feel sad. Sorry! Really none of my business! Good luck!

[@GCata-ys3hw]

My aunt (mom’s sis) was dying and my mother (who was sick with cancer), my father, my sister and her family along with me and my family drove 3.5 hours one way to be with her many times. The last trip was my father and I the day before she passed away. We then as a family attended her funeral leaving at 6am and getting home at 10pm. Not one complaint was said by any of us because it’s family. When my mom passed away last year my uncle and his son refused to come out because in his words “it’s 6 hours round trip and gas is expensive “. We cut them off that day, my father received a card from my cousin which went straight to the fire pit. Selfish and entitled people show themselves eventually.

[@LifesPeachy321]

@@GCata-ys3hw Some people would say you were wrong to cut them off... *I'm **_Not_** one of those people!* We would have done the same!

[@carmen_says_hi]

@@GCata-ys3hw Were your uncle and cousin who refused to come the husband and son of your aunt who passed??? WTF?!

[@MummaLlama]

9:41 as someone who, while NOT Italian, has an Italian uncle…can confirm. Give the money back. 😂

[@MegaToronto1]

The one who wanted her "friend" to do her makeup for free told her it's "only" a 3-hour drive, but when she asked the bride to travel to her, the bride said "it's too far to travel". 🤣

[@alextroy9202]

The bride is a fool. Saying it is “only” a 3-hour drive but SHE won’t drive the distance plus she didn’t even reach out to her when the parents happened

[@jgw5491]

Bridezilla AND Choosing Beggar- a twofer!

[@ShinryuZensen]

Coherence at its best.

[@savannahtollison4425]

The first couples “wedding fund” was more than I spent on my entire wedding and honeymoon combined lol. Both were pretty damn great I might add.

[@learnittryit474]

The story turned out to be a prank.

[@alysiabernardo8900]

Since she specified she expects you to spend $400, and anything related to the car, i would love it if someone brought $400 worth of tree air fresheners for the car.

[@perjus]

Or fur dice.

[@Everlucky_Clover]

a giant stack of playboy bunny r rated car decals is a good option too. i am sure the wife will be thrilled for her husband to receive those at a wedding.

[@alysiabernardo8900]

@@Everlucky_Clover clever! This is a good one too!

[@amaccoy]

She also mentioned floor tiles. Send her one of each tile.

[@Katie2986]

Genius 😂😂😂

[@mandiehann4150]

I have been obsessively watching these videos since I got engaged as a "How not to" resource. Not that I could fathom doing half the things these bridezillas do, but now I make sure I am checking myself. Whenever I email potential vendors I make sure I am kind and mindful of their time (and talent/worth).

[@JadedJada]

"Anything related to the car" I would get the most EPIC set of fuzzy dice for her, she'd love them I just know it

[@meg_2087]

Yk what they say, you can't go wrong with fuzzy dice

[@Djeispark]

I MISS YOU JANET!!!!!!

[@alicialowes6]

I was thinking fuzzy dice too!! Haha. Great minds think alike...

[@NJ-xp4eb]

A DIY clean your car kit with a massive bucket and sponge

[@mackenziemeyers5291]

If you really wanted to go crazy! you could get a pine air freshener too (Fuzzy dice are the best)

[@jadems01]

"Thank you for donating to the deaf and blind children's fund, but we're actually going to be using the money to have a destination employee getaway, but feel free to donate again and we promise THAT donation will get to the children."

[@arthe_nice]

Exactly the comparison I thought about during the video !

[@Tracymmo]

I raise money for nonprofits, so I thought about this too, but I also wanted to throw up over the $30k in donations to begin with.

[@Tilion462]

"You can contact my FINANCÉ" - best Freudian slip ever...

[@FlickeringEmber]

I thought the exacr same thing!

[@mikastamoody2275]

I was wondering if anybody else saw that. 😂🤣

[@yay_danae_nae27]

Lol I noticed that as well! 😄

[@rayramos2240]

+900

[@mrjokke]

9:39 it's been 3 years now. I NEED AN UPPDATE

[@j0guerrero]

Same!

[@joyestel]

Saaaame!

[@Ciela531]

Same! Hopefully we may get one if the KZbin algorithm is recommending this old video again 😂 🤞

[@Cringetubietwo]

Ikr,like where is this UPDATE!!!🤬😡

[@polgaravasti]

I can relate! I'm a chef. I only get wedding invites if I agree to do the wedding cake for free. When I say no but I will come as a guest, I never hear from my "friends" again. Good way to see who my real friends are. I hope they are only embarrassed for trying to take advantage of me and not really horrible dogs.

[@lilyr5279]

Yep those aren't friends at all. Ditch them. 👍

[@RadiantBleu]

That’s why I’m afraid of becoming a pastry chef I’m nervous for that to happen to me

[@bunkyman8097]

It will only happen if you allow it.

[@polgaravasti]

@@bunkyman8097 very true...lessons learnt...;)

[@ForeverMe543]

Same 🖐🏻 makeup artist

[@jacquelynroe9036]

That make up artist handled that in as classy a way as possible I think. Props to her.

[@addie-eileenpaige6460]

She was super nice offering to send KZbin videos to do her own makeup.

[@BeckBeckGo]

And then was told to go fuck herself. I’m starting to see why they haven’t spoken in a decade. And I highly doubt they were that close 10 years ago either.

[@fanfictiondreamer7836]

I would have loved it if the MU artist responded with "Tell your fiance that I will see him at the Divorce Party". That is one of the best clap backs that I have ever heard being directed towards a bridezilla. 😂😂😂

[@samanthapattison7286]

Imagined update on the Italian wedding - Edward ran off with the bridesmaid, taking the £30k and leaving a note saying 'hasta la vista' to Pam. Pam has reopened the money fund on a permanent basis as she can no longer function as a contributing member of society. Her emotional zen is all over the place and, naturally, she expects her family to foot the bill for her lifelong therapy...

[@charlottesmom]

Sounds about right...😆😉

[@geezygee]

Are you a fortune teller?😂

[@ElizabethT45]

Pam has an Instagram for photos of her 'emotional journey towards healing' and a TikTok where she makes shopping haul videos. (Did you notice one of her preferred gift cards was for JC PENNEY?). She constantly begs her 'supporters' for Venmo and Paypal cash. Edward mainly uses Twitter to avoid Pam. He posts photos from tropical beaches with pretty girls in bikinis, photos of him biking to work wearing his helmet of course, and having drinks with the lads down the pub. His family and friends are very glad he moved on from Pam.

[@laurallewien2165]

They all pitched in and bought her a straight jacket including Jesus!

[@samanthapattison7286]

@@ElizabethT45 Aww, you mean it didn't work out for Edward and the bridesmaid - I was rooting for those two kids! 🤣

[@samanthalandry2296]

8:12 I’ve never seen audacity like her! Omgggg

[@Catras_unfairly_gorgeous_smirk]

Bridezilla: *Luxury gifts over 400$ ONLY!* Meanwhile my mom last year at my wedding: Here, I made you both hangover sandwiches for breakfast tomorrow. 😘 My wife and I: 🥺🥺 _We love you._

[@valkyrie9646]

Catra, please, PLEASE tell me what a 'hangover sandwich' is!! It sounds kind of awesome.

[@Catras_unfairly_gorgeous_smirk]

@@valkyrie9646 Well, everyone I know who makes them makes them differently, but my mom is by far the best at it so far. I may be biased tho. 😂 Anyway, so you know how a lot of people find that eating salty, greasy food helps them feel better when they're hungover? Take that rule of thumb, make it a sandwich and boom. Hangover sandwich. My mom makes them with toasted buns, fried egg, cheese, roast beef and bacon. Sometimes she adds some aioli and tomatoes when she feels like it. When I make one myself I like to add some red onions, somehow those really hit that lil extra spot for me.

[@ceilingfan9943]

I love your name and pfp!

[@thetardyowlvg9155]

Your mom sounds amazing

[@belleblack437]

That’s a good mom lol

[@SapienSafari]

Don’t give people large sums of money without a contract demonstrating the clear terms of usage!

[@cocochanel1399]

I agree counselor. A gift is just that sans a contract. The only thing that could be returned is a ring given in contemplation of getting married when if a wedding didn’t occur. That being said, what a mess Pam created. Edward ... I hope you ran.

[@kerenkroll]

If there is a gofund me, there is a stated purpose and clear expectation... unless it says for "personal discretionary spending"

[@omegasobsessions]

Wedding fund donation is for wedding though... it is in the title

[@cocochanel1399]

@@omegasobsessionshey I hear you!! What she did is disgusting. I was commenting on the viability of bringing a lawsuit to recover those funds given to fund a wedding. But, if that fund did say “for wedding” she can’t use it for a honeymoon! I stand corrected.

[@nondescriptnyc]

In the US, cash gifts should be returned if the wedding gets canceled. If it is postponed, though, there is no obligation to return, under the premise that the wedding WILL be happening in the near future. In this case, though, since the bridezilla publicly stated she is spending the money on purposes other than the planned wedding (including medical expenses, a trip, etc.), I think people MAY have enough grounds to take it to court and win. In other words, this bridezilla is shooting herself in the foot by giving all those excuses, fishing for sympathy!!!

[@rhondaflesher8313]

I went to a wedding of some friend's son and his girlfriend. It was one of those "rushed weddings" (wanted to get married before baby arrived). The couple didn't have much money so I was kind enough to furnish the bride's wedding dress and made her wedding cake. Then after the wedding I find out that the bride was upset that I didn't bring a "gift" to the reception. I guess the dress and cake didn't count.

[@lose2341]

That’s so horrible I’m sorry. This is why I try to stay away from getting close to people. I’ve been burned too many times as well.

[@ssansu]

No good deed goes unpunished, as they say.

[@victoriashevlin8587]

Wow....

[@flayful]

Your friend should have knocked some sense to that daughter in law 😒

[@gdjwarren2]

Woooah!

[@hannikito]

Watching old Charlotte videos after learning of her engagement…life’s good rn

[@jaspr1999]

Listening to these makes me SO grateful to my lovely bride of 35 years! Now, we did ask for hugs from the guests of our wedding... And they more than delivered! Some did give us money, a little less than $500, that we used on our honeymoon (Our honeymoon spot got rained out and flooded so we hid out in a hotel for the rest of our honeymoon) and we had a wonderful time. I honestly think that if either my wife or me was to be as self-serving and greedy as these folks our respective families would have nothing to do with us.

[@fairladykd6734]

Congratulations on 35 years! And you are so right - your friends and family don't care how much you spend - it's just about being together on your special day!

[@LazyIRanch]

Sounds like you honeymooners got rained IN, and that sounds wonderful! I know you have sweet memories. The most fun wedding I've ever attended was in Mexico City. What a party! The couple spent a lot of money to make sure that their guests had a wonderful time, and we did. One tradition I loved was when the best man took off his tux jacket and walked around with a jar full of safety pins. Everyone took pins and used them to pin cash to the best man's white dress shirt. It was a huge wedding, hundreds in attendance, so his shirt was completely covered in dinero! When he had all the contributions, he walked over to his best friend, the groom, and literally gave him the shirt off his back, and they hugged. It was so beautiful!

[@jaspr1999]

@@LazyIRanch - That is SO cool and sounds like everyone had a blast! That's how to do a wedding right. All fun and happiness for everyone!

[@IsleNaK]

I've seen this exact post before...

[@venusflawn1980]

Thank you for sharing your beautiful story. I hope you and your wife have many more wonderful years.

[@JaneXemylixa]

Re: rich uncle who threatened lawsuit. I just thought the bride's announcement sounded like something a greedy megacorp would say. If you talk to your family like a corporation, girl, _you get treated like a corporation._

[@oceanspace7671]

That first bride was a trip. side note: shout out to all the italians screaming at the first bride to give the money back to the uncle XD

[@tmross4]

My husband is half Sicilian. I am glad I wasn't a bridezilla! Forget the mob! We're talking Mafia here

[@djm4854]

I'm not Italian, but I'm still screaming it. I stand w/Uncle Vinnie. lol

[@101catful]

Tell me you can't take care of yourself without telling me omg I can't believe she asked for spa stuff at the end lmao

[@karstenbursak8083]

Italian uncle: „I make you an offer, you can not refuse.“ Next day the bride wakes up beside a bloody horse head

[@anthonystike6034]

See that somebody remembers the movie.

[@dinaashford-more1172]

😱😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@missmurphy420]

@@anthonystike6034 of course! ICONIC! (Literally!) 😁😊

[@summersaroundthecorner5948]

😄😄😄Exactly!

[@embee1316]

My husband and I eloped and planned our wedding in about five days. It was a lovely event with a few close friends. The total cost wasn't more than $750. Friends gave us modest gifts, such as supplying our (simple) cake and paying for our hotel for a night. We were later pleasantly surprised when some co-workers bought us small, useful gifts the next week. We have been married five years and are very happy. So glad we missed out on all the wedding stress!

[@kotorisama3080]

Hubs and i also eloped after we started writing down guest list. Wanted a small 25ish people and as we started writing names we were like yeaaahhh F this and went to Vegas and got married. Been married for 16+ years and going strong

[@ultimateninjaboi]

I love how, traditionally, the whole point of wedding gifts is to help the new couple start a life together. And yet so many people seem to think its meant to be some kind of major reward for "succeeding" in getting married

[@KatieBellino]

As people live together and marry older, we are losing the original idea of why you give the couple a gift. It's kind of sad. I'd be down with helping fund the venue instead of giving stuff if it was helpful. However, do NOT mandate that my gift must be a certain number of dollars.

[@constanceleah118]

I always wondered why I would need gifts. I already have house set up, no need for all that. Idk what anyone would even buy lol

[@bellerain381]

Yep! I once asked my mom what her and dad’s registrations were and she simply said “dishes and camping supplies” 35 years strong! 😂❤

[@SquirrelMasterAsh]

if they had simply gone to the courthouse instead they would have had a leg to stand on. as it stands now, its fraud

[@phofire77]

The way she said something for the car I'd be getting her windshield wipers or valve caps.

[@mellyb5454]

The best wedding I ever went to had theee smallest, tiny budget everrr.. and it was amazing. !!! Crammed into a tiny church and church hall and it was cheap, cheerful and most of all full of love for eachother.

[@pdxroses24]

I was the DJ for a friend's wedding (she paid and fed me she is **not** the entitled one here) and let me tell you, the mother of the bride was a piece of work. I knew this going into the event from lots of stories from the bride. MotB was actually the bride's aunt who raised her (and from my understanding was a complete jerk about it her whole life) and favored her bio kids over the bride (even when the younger son got his teen gf pregnant). Her loss, the bride is a beautiful soul and one of the nicest people I've ever met. SO yeah, MotB is a jerk, but I did not expect her to try to back out of the mother-daughter dance. At the ceremony. Without telling the bride. Instead she told **me** and then asked me to not tell the bride, said she wanted her to be surprised when she was left out on the floor while her husband danced with his mother. Needless to say I did not keep that a secret, 100% told the bride ASAP and her new father-in-law danced with her instead without giving the 'mom' time to try to pull her stunt.

[@simplywonderful449]

Good for you, that was the right thing to do. Perhaps the bride suspected her "mother" would try something embarrassing too.

[@charlottesmom]

Damn...what a complete jerk the MotB is...though there are some people on this Earth that just love being dicks. So glad you told her what was about to go down. 👍🏻

[@spectralight8412]

She wanted to" surprise" her? Wtf!?

[@lindab424]

@@spectralight8412 Sounds like the cow wanted to humiliate the bride. I really hope she was left with egg on her face when the bride's father in law had the dance with her instead!

[@juliarunn5009]

Omigosh 🤭 good on you for telling the bride ASAP so that she wasn’t pranked horribly by the pos

[@ShrodingersHat]

So they raised 30 grand from their guests and still want MORE!?!?! Just wow.

[@jasonmiller6800]

She not they

[@chrisbolhuis297]

Wow is an understatement of the century. I admit my parents were very comfortable (upper middle class) money wise (they worked themselves up from literally nothing) and they spoiled me while I was growing up and I'm not even close to being as entitled these people. Provided if I had been my parents would've handed me my butt on a platter and would tell me to kiss it. They still taught me the concept of working for what you want in life no one owes you anything

[@chrisbolhuis297]

​@jasonmiller6800 they can be used when referring to 1 person.

[@MagiclySydney]

I just lost a friend over her being a major bridezilla. These videos have been like therapy for me

[@sweetesthoneybee]

What did she do?

[@AnonakiTheGreat]

I’d like to know what happened my anonymous online friend

[@ari-in8ny]

you don't need that bridezilla. enjoy your life without the drama !

[@sbegum246]

You didn't lose a friend, you're just getting rid of toxic people in your life. Now you have got space for new people.

[@TheErren]

Sorry about the friendship but i agree these videos are kinda therapy. I get weddings are stressful but some people go 100% of the deep end.

[@bettamom7593]

Weddings are only expensive if you make them expensive! What my honey and I did was we spend as little on the actual wedding as we could possibly do so that we made sure that we had plenty of food and dance and drink for the party afterwards! We wanted to party and celebrate with our families, the ceremony was just a formality! Celebrating together is everything!

[@irenetozetti5492]

I married 50 years ago. My mom sewed my wedding dress and friends brought some food: popcorn, a simple cake someone cooked out of a box, a jar of Olives, some cheese. The most expensive gift was a blender. I cherish those moments.

[@hannaherickson1379]

Aww, that's so sweet Irene 😊

[@Unknown-qb3xf]

Im a humble person, but this is a no for me. Why making a wedding at all at this point. Just sign the contract and meet up with some friends to drink some tea and eat a little 3$ cake :D I do not consider this as a wedding at all. My family was also very poor, still you saw the effort they put in the preparations, they cooked etc. It wasn't extraordinary or expensive but cute and you saw the effort, because it was a special occasion. But everyone is different I guess. 😂

[@mnm716ily]

Lol the second bride, “you can come up, it’s only a 3 hr drive”... then literally in the same text, “I can try to come to you, but it’s a long way...”

[@Zaft_K]

I noticed the same thing. "You can come up to me, maybe a couple of times to try out options. I would come to you, but it's soooo faaaaaaar..."

[@lynne523]

That whole thing is nuts ! I hope there's a sequel to "the money grabbing bride."

[@anilashafaq763]

Hope so......🏵💐

[@trustmemysonisadoctor8479]

Oh yes!!

[@melbee5000]

TL:DR it was fake. www.buzzfeednews.com/article/ellievhall/wedding-viral-donation-facebook-bride-possible-stunt

[@lynne523]

@@melbee5000 dayum

[@caljones]

@@melbee5000 god fucking damn it

[@hiflyer000]

My friend is a wedding photographer and she gets the "I want you to do it for free but you can have the pics for your portfolio, plus you get the honor of attending my wedding" offer more than you would think. She doesn't even bother responding back to those people any more.

[@mrsmw2020]

Weddings do not have to cost thousands, or even hundreds. I got married during the pandemic and the whole thing cost less than £300. Including my wedding dress. It’s about marrying the person you love, not about showing off and making people buy you expensive gifts. People really need to get their life in perspective and calm down. Great video, but so frustrating to see how people are.

[@notagain1237]

The only new things we purchased for our wedding were the rings. The blue jeans and boots came straight out of our closet.

[@mslilmercy]

U remind me of my wedding it happens during the pandemic. I use my fav black dress, my sunglass. LoL

[@jumafaro]

I think the pandemic showed us that modest weddings should be more of a thing.

[@CapricornGirl9]

I love the brides that think feeding vendors is such a horrible thing. “I’m paying them good money, why should I feed them” well hun, the photographer has been with you for the last 6 hours do you want them leaving for an hour to grab a bite to eat or have a pizza delivered to the reception. “

[@ChaoticShelly]

lmao I eloped and my wedding was less than 4 hours from start to finish and I still gave my vendors snacks lmao

[@janegirot1623]

We paid the vendor and feed them as well

[@angeleedm]

Right?! They are still people with basic needs 😒

[@DiamondPrincessMex]

We are feeding all of our vendors and I hope to have the venue set up their own table so they can sit and eat comfortably.

[@leilaniz5909]

I would love to feed anyone i invite to my home as a hostess, I just don't know where this etiquette stops and starts as most times our places of work give us a break and during that break it is up to us to figure out what we'll eat. If someone says "your break is at this time please bring a lunch and snacks." then I don't think that is a big deal as that is already our culture for the common workplace. Might I add, I still think it's great to provide a meal with the break. I just also don't think you're a bad person if you provide the break and refrigerator space only.

[@percevalmahpouyas9933]

"It's not all about the money" Proceeds to ask for money after the honeymoon, for another marriage, more gifts, medical bills and tutti quanti 💀 Edit 600+ people agreeing? Time to start a YT channel ig xD

[@angelabeaudry5947]

Medical bills???)! 750$sooooo $2000 ambulances?

[@jenniferwilliams4315]

@@angelabeaudry5947 ya it jumped up 3 different times

[@arikamouton1518]

👀

[@CH-sl1ug]

Sounds like she needs a J O B.

[@marziaaureliadeogratias7668]

Italiano/a??! 😊

[@CrochetAlice]

As an Italian from Italy, will give you the money the day of the wedding, not before 😂

[@lounakin]

The first one sounds like they saw the donations and decided then to 'cancel' the wedding so they could get more!

[@kev2020]

The fact that she called her fiance her "Finances" says more than enough. Dude, don't do it.

[@kashakroger1692]

Freudian slip!

[@kendrahansen7480]

biggest red flag ever, guessing there were other red flags the entire relationship, but that red flag is so big it can probably be seen from space...

[@arianebolt1575]

Which one?

[@dr.claudiafinch1088]

If that red flag was any bigger it would be a blanket.

[@moonstruck-swede]

@@kashakroger1692 LMAO EXACTLY 💀I ENJOY IT SO MUCH 🤣That was my first thought too--"wow, this is the best fucking Freudian slip I've heard in a loooong time"😂

[@NekomiSon]

Wait! So she cancelled her original wedding date because of finances, but they’re going to use the money that was donated for a honeymoon before the actual wedding? Also, I love the groom’s friend.

[@101catful]

God I wish I had the luxury to "take a week off life" 🤣🤣🤣

[@MelissaJetzt]

How do people learn to be that entitled? I feel bad even at the thought of a gift registry. It feels tacky. And yet some brides have the audacity to ask for something that’s AT LEAST $400? Insane.

[@lindab424]

If was going to that wedding then I would make a point of buying the bride something that costs $50.00 and wouldn't inform her beforehand. Fuck that shit, how rude!

[@lisaspikes4291]

I like the bridal registry. It makes it easy for the guests to pick something that the bride and groom really want. Instead of a tacky ashtray! ( do they even make ashtrays anymore?) But putting an inflated dollar amount minimum, and expecting each guest to spend $400 or more is absolutely tacky! It’s not the bride or groom’s place to dictate the gifts they will receive! If I get invited to a wedding of people I kinda know, but are not really close friends, or very distant relatives, my limit is $50-$75 for a gift or cash gift. I think that’s appropriate. If it’s someone I really love, like a close family member or friend, I will go much higher. But that’s my decision. It’s not to be dictated by the happy couple!

[@ShinryuZensen]

Right? A gift is something you give from your heart, not an Amazon's cart.

[@stephaniereynolds6921]

@@lindab424 Personally there would be zero chance of me attending a wedding if the bride posted something like this. The entitlement needs to be rewarded with no gifts and no attendance. That being said, it would be pretty hilarious to see her face when she opened up some gucci or noras box just to see a kitchenaid spatula.

[@kitarrah1422]

A gift registry isn't really tacky, in my opinion. It is merely a suggestion of things that the bride and groom need (small appliances, towels, bedding, etc.) to set up their new marital home, and helps to avoid people buying the same thing. What I did was pick a lot of things in varying price points, so that even if someone could only afford say $10, they still could get us something we needed and would appreciate. There certainly was no expectation of fancy/expensive gifts from everyone, nor was there a set minimum amount they had to spend.

[@captivated388]

👰🏽 to the “friend” who reached out after 10 years, I wouldn’t have even responded. People who reach out after that long that long usually want something ridiculous, or are trying to recruit you to a MLM company. That happened to me once several years ago and it was so disappointing

[@mtz21601]

true though I did reach out recently to an old friend. I was nice enough to mention though that I didn't want anything free for her to charge me as we never met because as a fellow business owner I understand that helping friends will put you out of business. I was sincere in that I knew she was the best at her trade in our area and wanted to get her services.

[@shannonr4360]

I've reached out to an old friend after 12 years just to catch up. Found them in my contacts. Had a great conversation. We still occasionally message eachother. I hope to be able to visit her someday soon since we are in different states. The odds may be low for a genuine connection but you never know.

[@oniminikui]

I agree. 10 year gap means you respond with: "New phone. Who's this?"

[@editsweet101]

@@oniminikui *nu fone hu dis

[@lilash6041]

How did the medical bill go from less than $800, then magically.'''3k?" Lol that broad is nuts.

[@foreseengust]

It went up incrementally as well, you can actually see the BS building up in front of your eyes.

[@victoriashevlin8587]

Because she's adding in some spa shit to 'rebalance her zen'😆

[@EvelineUK]

Because she had to take 'time off from life'? I dunno... Pam is beyond crazy.

[@adeel-eh7xq]

$800 for the medical bill. The $2200 for the retail therapy to regain her mental and emotional health, daah :)

[@BasilissaKleo]

That's how medical bills work. I'm French so I don't pay for medical care, but when the health care refunds me, amounts change. I don't know how, but they do. Magic, I tell you. Have the bride's message been longer, I think poor guests would have been asked to refund $6000.

[@Momo-su6xz]

9:49 Gosh I wish there was an update on this 😂😂😂

[@mitziemason6970]

See this whole idea of asking for money to fund a wedding or a honeymoon is just appalling to me. If you can’t afford a big wedding those that love you won’t care.

[@rp6635]

this is why i believe in act within your means..

[@-Devy-]

When someone is delusional and think that it is their God given right to have an expensive wedding your kind of logic just doesn't work.

[@samsamdesigns2391]

Right! It seems so tacky!!!

[@fdm2155]

Yeah, I don't know where this idea started of crowdfunding your wedding and honeymoon BEFORE the event. And wth are you spending tens of thousands on a wedding if you are apparently BROKE?

[@kissit012]

Especially considering a marriage certificate is like $200. Weddings are not necessary, neither are honeymoons.

[@zuglymonster]

If she was just rescheduling they WOULDN'T be mad. It's because she's not even using the money for the wedding

[@abbvocado]

Exactly. And then the fact she was asking for more money and gifts 🤭

[@Zaft_K]

Asking for more money after she blithely spends the first bunch on a vacation. And wants extra donations so her second honeymoon can be even more extravagant.

[@danielleking262]

It was also because everyone took that time off already and it was up in the air if they were really even going to reschedule the wedding! And yeah, to take the $30k donations and go on an early "honeymoon" (basically just a free vacation!!!) and not put that into the NEW wedding??? That's just a huge middle finger to everyone else.

[@elizabethfrohn-hengst296]

@@Lindseyisloony what am I supposed to look here? But tbh I know people who are like that in fact someone who did something very similar so I would say it could easily be true

[@mjboutin7224]

I really and truly and honestly don’t understand the alleged “logic” that a grownass person making the CHOICE to get married to THEIR partner means EVERYONE ELSE in their life now owes them whatever they want. Like you deciding to spend your life with someone somehow magically makes you the center of the universe HOW?? 🧐

[@gwenp3450]

Exactly!

[@marxk4rl]

That's the point of the wedding. To make her the center of the Universe. After that, she can divorce, to make another wedding with somebody else, and be again the center of the Universe.

[@aheedehee6290]

Right??? My mom works as a cake decorator and she had to call a woman about some issues with her cake order (whoever took the cake order wasn't a cake decorator who knew about some of the regulations). Despite my mother being very clear on a pretty alternative that she could do, the lady acted like she was super confused and didn't know what my mom was saying, then proceeded to go, "I'm sorry. I'm just flustered. I want my wedding day to be perfect and my friends aren't doing what I assigned to them," or something like that, and it's like, okay. If you guys talked it out and planned something and they aren't doing what they said they'd do, then yeah it might be shitty. At the end of the day though, it is YOUR wedding that you should have thoroughly planned and saved up for. Not to mentioned that it seemed like she ordered the cake with special instructions later than she was supposed to. Some of the things she wanted required ordering weeks in advance, but she decided to call a little over a week to order it.

[@MB-ml8ti]

@@marxk4rl the point of the wedding is to make a commitment... hell i know this and ive refused to get married.

[@MandyPandy6168]

Amen!!!

[@blue_xmen]

The orange Groom’s friend is HILARIOUS!!!

[@jlasvideos]

I used to work in a wedding dress shop and a bridesmaid once called to make an appointment for the bride to try on dresses. She asked if we served drinks and finger foods during the appointment. I said no. She asked how we make it special. I responded we make it special by helping the bride find her perfect dress. If you want food, go to a restaurant. If you want a wedding dress, go to a wedding dress shop. WTF

[@Tattedlady60]

Food and drinks. Good one. So someone can get tipsy and spill stuff on the dress, carpet, wherever. Glad you told them that.

[@addie-eileenpaige6460]

I know some higher end wedding dress shops do give drinks, but I think those are an extra cost.

[@bocconedolce]

Yeah, because there's no guarantee that the bride will even buy the wedding dress from your shoppe.

[@chelsea_Xxo]

Yeah because you really want those sloppy monsters to put their greasy nasty fingers on a fabric of the most important dress is ones life or spill on it 😐

[@jumafaro]

I think if they payed for it, that would be an option.

[@pau11iska8D]

Lessons learned: - Don't ask for donations. If I cannot afford an expensive wedding, I should not have an expensive wedding. One of my aunts literally had a wedding in the bushes with my immediate family and her mom (my grandma), so I KNOW that weddings DON'T have to be expensive with like 100+ guests. - Don't ask for gifts. It's not a gift if you're asking for it. - If these people are able to get engaged and married, then my chances are looking amazing.

[@gwenp3450]

Exactly! My mom made my dress, we got our cake at the local grocery store (small and nice) + Costco for the guests. Our family all pitched in on the rest of the treats and food. We spent about $2k for everything.

[@frida507]

Exactly, nobody is forcing them to spend more than they can afford.

[@cristakampert8740]

I love your last point, should be sooo true

[@agentwolf5305]

My parents had their wedding in my grandparents back yard so yeah

[@frida507]

@@agentwolf5305 My parents too. It's too much materialism these days.It's not like that luxury stuff automatically makes you happy ever after.

[@alyshiakroll15]

Thats insane...when we got married we didn't have any expectations for gifts, like at all. I would be embarrassed to expect that from my family

[@charlottesmom]

Same here, our wedding cost a grand total of $2,500 and we didn't ask for anything gifts or otherwise. Weddings were a simpler thing back in the 80's. SOME brides these days are very much greedy little things.

[@ashleylancaster8378]

13:46 my bestie came to me and said don’t bother hiring anybody I will do your hair and make up for free. She made that bet almost 7 years ago. Honestly I would still pay her for her services even if she did it for free cause her time is worth something. I do that with my nail tech and it worked. I helped my nail tech to move with my husband, 12 hours later I got paid, and I sent her $60.00, she called me in tears. Long story short, when I sent the money, at that moment she got served with foreclosure papers. Her landlords house was up for foreclosure and didn’t include that piece of information when they rented the house. Somehow in one weird way, she knew it was going to be ok. I’m helping her again move now for the second time, and I don’t care if I got my services for free. Her time away from her babies shouldn’t be free. In other words pay up. lol