bridezillas that messed with the WRONG opponent - REACTION

[@suzannegraham7076]

The use of "boundaries" and "I can't allow disrespect" to bully people gets me every time.

[@alexia3552]

It’s so narcissist-coded

[@vaporean_boylove.0w083]

It really gives that energy of "I wanna justify my anger towards you! How dare you not enable me!"

[@yes2542]

Exactly! Boundaries are a two way street not just a "I SAY SO IT MUST HAPPEN". Entitled 🥱

[@loganbeverly7147]

The gaslighting and manipulation are just off the charts.

[@BeckBeckGo]

Someone can have a boundary around needing to be an asshole. Luckily my boundaries don't allow that. So I guess we can't be frens

[@XCaptianXChaosX]

Even if it is someone's wedding day, the fact that some brides think that they can dictate what people do with their hair, weight, etc. is nucking futs.

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

If you don't mind I want to borrow this, Bestie!

[@nutty77]

Charlotte covered one where the bride wanted to give her bridesmaids some weight loss drugs without their knowledge... crazy

[@rachelmaddowswife8713]

Yeah, unless someone shows up with swastikas carved into a buzz cut or something, I don't see how it's justified. These brides should have just hired models to pose with them if aesthetics are more important than their relationships.

[@heathercamera]

When I got married I was just happy to have them there. I got dresses for them but I told them they could wear a burlap bag and I’d still be psyched to have them there! What is wrong with these chicks?

[@elincarlsson6388]

It happened to me with an ex friend & bridezilla, I had beautiful naturally curly hair down to the end of my back, however I was tired of taking care of it and wanted to cut it to my shoulders = 2/3 of the total lenght, she gave me a look and said "don't you dare cut your hair before my wedding" I was 😮 but laughed nervously as I wasn't sure if she was joking, turns out that was just the beginning...😅

[@BlakeThePainter]

“I think the cash must’ve fallen out of the card!” I couldn’t have stopped myself, I would’ve HAD to respond with “it looks like my actual wedding invite fell out of my mailbox!”

[@lisamelroy2855]

😂😂😂 That's perfect!!!

[@marythewinter]

I think I would be very direct "Oh I'm sorry, I wasn't aware I had to pay after spending 2K on your decorations and not being invited"😂

[@candacen7779]

Perfect response! 🤌

[@francesmcstay]

I would have replied in a horrified voice, "Oh no! I had put $5,000 cash in the card. I'm so sorry it didn't make it into your hands."

[@Inspirayetion]

I was thinking that too! I would've said "What do you mean, I sent it right after I got the ceremony invite!"

[@Missuskeefe]

my bestie since we were 7 years old was my maid of honour when I got married. I was hers. I even named my daughter after her. I got divorced, she got divorced. Years later, she was getting married again (she had three sons from her first marriage. She approached me about getting married again. I was beyond happy for her (I actually really like this guy and hated the first guy). She asked how I would feel about not being her maid of honour (she wanted her sons to stand). I told her we had been there, done that and I just wanted to be there to see her marry a man who deserved her. My mom (her second mom) officiated the wedding. It was absolutely beautiful. She has been and always be my bff. We are 50 now. (Love you to bits Tatum)

[@I.am.hooked]

Awww, this is such a cute story.❤

[@Nana_Lala_]

So wonderful 💯

[@TheHappyHoneymooners2022]

Love this!! My ROCK & I have been Friends for 39 Years!! We have been through Life together! She is 76 & I’m 60! I’d be so lost without her!!

[@Kathern-l6x]

As a 50-year-old well I'm 53 I understand a bond that you made in a time where the world could have ate you and you were supposed to smile and get away. Bonds forged during this or the strongest ones you'll have in your life. I love your love for your best friend and I love you for it❤ thank you for reminding me what friends are there for at my age not many of my friends made it with me like none of them. On the last girl standing and I would give anything for one more day that friendship

[@Missuskeefe]

@@Kathern-l6x

[@mnicolestarrn]

I like how the woman who took the bridezilla to court, her hair started growing back as a result of the friendship ending. It literally showed how getting toxic people out of your life makes it so much better for you to enjoy. Also, just happy to hear that she’s much better off :)

[@ramachandra776]

"Auto renew Amazon subscription to audacity" - that's a term which I will remember for a long time . That woman is a genius . 😂

[@TheRealBrotherGrimmy]

Thank you for typing that out... because I was HARD confused when I heard it... and I'm pretty sure it would have totally gone over my head... like it did, until the last 30 seconds of the video, when I saw this. So thank you, good person, for making sure us stupid's could "catch" the drift!

[@lindapatton4478]

I'm adding that to my list of rare insults.

[@_Ella_Serbia_Deutschland]

What minute does she say that..

[@aubreycarter7624]

Such a golden line!

[@anncoleman]

God, Charlotte, this one was freaking hilarious!!

[@sarahsong8345]

When I got married I had very little money and so my family and friends gifted me things to make the wedding happen. I bought a lot of stuff from thrift stores and yard sales. Got my dress for 35 dollars from the thrift store, very pretty. Some of the gifts were - altering the dress, making the cake, buying components for decorations, helping make decorations, making an archway, setting up and taking down. I had SOOOOOO much support and I made sure to thank all of them and invite all of them to the wedding. I did not expect them to give us money or other gifts since their help WAS the gift. I can not imagine asking for further gifts when loved ones have offered their time and money to help make such an important event happen. People need to learn gratitude.

[@lisamelroy2855]

I bet your wedding was really beautiful and full of wonderful people and memories!!! ❤

[@dudeorduuude5211]

Beautiful. My wedding was very simple as well. Like 15 people. And all of my family pitched in. I made the food. It was at my Dad's house. That's all you need.

[@Queina1]

Same here, a friend of my mom's donated a wedding gown for me to borrow, another friend of hers made the bouquet from silk flowers we bought. My sister, who was my MOH, wore a semi formal gown I had in my closet. My mom's cousin made the wedding cake. A friend of my MIL's did the wedding video for free. I didn't expect any additional gifts from those people and if they chose to give a gift as well, they were very generous. I was very grateful for all of it. Though I never saw the video. He gave the tape to my MIL, she watched it and then left it in the VCR. Then the next day her soap operas were taped over it. *sigh* She felt so bad about it happening, so I know it wasn't on purpose but it was very sad cause she said the video was beautiful.

[@justjeni83]

I got pregnant at 23, our family’s pressured us to get married but we were young and broke. I was 8 months pregnant when we finally gave in. We had a small ceremony in my BILs backyard with family and a justice of the peace. To include our friends we had a big bbq potluck party out at my in-laws cabin. We did not ask for or expect any gifts. They were all more than happy to come and bring food and some brought us small gifts as well. We felt so loved and even though it rained we still had a wonderful time. Not once did any of them complain or berate us.

[@TheBaumcm]

My cousin did flower arrangements for funsies so she did my bouquet, smaller for bridesmaids and boutonnières. A friend on my hubby’s side made the cake. My in laws helped with the arrangements (we got married on a popular date and my mother went momzilla, cancelled the wedding and we had to scramble 6 months pre game) and the centerpieces, along with decorating the reception area. I was just happy to actually get to the date, be able to have my dad walk me down, my autistic brother with me (he did not travel anywhere at the time and he came by vehicle), and be married at the end of the day. The fact that people were willing to spend this time and money to do these things for me was just too sweet to ask for something else.

[@sarahtaavetti]

I learnt that when it comes down to “services rendered” as wedding gifts ALWAYS send them a invoice listing the price what it SHOULD have cost, then totaling it to zero. Especially when it comes to decorations and stuff. That shit adds up and people are SO unaware..

[@lisamelroy2855]

That sounds like a great idea. You're absolutely right that most people have no idea how much time and money goes into stuff like that!

[@elinor6525]

Yep, I've done that in other situations where I have donated my expertise.send a statement with the actual cost and write 'Donation in Kind', $300, balance $000

[@TheBaumcm]

Good idea!

[@wiggilytaco7570]

Honestly yeah. Especially the hours it takes to make things work. I once helped a bride decorate the venue and we made it back home exhausted. I was happy with the results thou but I had no idea how much skill and manpower you need to make even the simplest things look right.

[@EmGee12]

I’ve recently been diagnosed with cancer, and I am bridesmaid in a few months, I will undoubtedly have no hair or very little hair for the wedding. My bestie has been so accommodating with me. Including looking for wigs with me close to my natural hair so I will feel confident and beautiful on the day. I offered to drop out, and she said “don’t you DARE!” With friends like that that poor girl has, who needs enemies honestly. UPDATE: 31st October 2024. Thank you to everyone for your amazing love, prayers, and support. The wedding was yesterday, and I got to stand beside my best friend, in my wig and beautiful dress with tears of pride. I am now in REMISSION!! I have one more session of chemo left, a scan, and I should be discharged for regular checkups. It's been a year, but I'm so grateful to be able to stand here and say I kicked cancers butt. Sending all of you lovely Internet strangers lots of love and a lifetime of good health ❤️

[@Babex214]

So sorry to hear that you have cancer… stay strong ❤

[@dazeddeiz]

Fuck cancer.. Rooting for you

[@cobaltmidnightoilamp6748]

​@@Babex214, what cancer do you have? I am sorry to read @ that.

[@thegrimmreaper9688]

I know that it probably won’t do much but, I am sending a lot of positive energy to you! My godmother died of breast cancer and it was horrible… I genuinely hope that you get better and have a blessed life! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@mollymorgan8388]

You have an amazing bestfriend right there and also I’m wishing you a speedy recovery. I’m so sorry, cancer fucking sucks but you’re doing amazing!!

[@hannahraedobre]

Not inviting your friend that decorated your wedding is WILD

[@lisa070502]

And even wilder that she still expected a gift after being gifted the decor 😢

[@eliza6971]

I know a lot of people have been planning their weddings since childhood but I can’t imagine getting so invested in a literal daydream that it ruins my friendships with my besties

[@spacedorito9592]

I just realized something… when people say it’s their childhood dream to have a wedding, is it to marry someone who they love and be with their partners forever OR just have this big fantasy dream party and nothing else?

[@whoahanant]

That's how I view these too. They're all just daydreams and fantasy, nothing else. A wedding is about you celebrating your love with your partner, not an aesthetic purity party. You don't need matching bridesmaids/groomsmen. You don't need a fancy location. You don't need all the expensive stuff. Yet these people act like villains when it comes to their 1 day.

[@adoptdontshop3911]

Its kinda sad. Its like they believe 100% that their life will peak on that one day and its all downhill after.

[@ArtixellAnimations]

100%

[@rebecca9608]

I think nowadays people focus mainly on the wedding for social media reasons and not for the important parts like the relationship. Personally if I was ever to get married it would be a registry office thing as for me I think it’s just a piece of paper at the end of the day and the actual relationship would be far more important.

[@lostshadows768]

First bride: "I wish you'd told me more than a week before the wedding." She did. Two weeks is more than a week. Plus, I don't think hair coming out in clumps would have looked good in the photos.

[@mage1439]

"Two weeks is more than a week." Clearly BZ didn't watch enough Sesame Street as a kid, or she'd have learned to count.

[@boogiebear3095]

@@mage1439😂 very true

[@YellowFreesias]

Losing your hair is heartbreaking, having to go for the chop to hide it sucks so much. Why can't leg hair fall off instead?

[@lindapatton4478]

@@YellowFreesias Agreed!

[@raisedstray4947]

And I bet had she have reached out in time to satisfy the bride that she would’ve only offered her to wear a wig in the photos and at the wedding

[@ChefSarah4104]

"While I sympathize with your health concerns, I'm not willing to compromise on my vision." Is an unhinged statement. Wholly crap. (Edit to add) My husband wears glasses. He offered to wear contacts the day of our wedding (he only wears them to play hockey), I said no, that's not who he is.

[@karencotlar2023]

Obviously, she doesn’t really sympathize with her health concerns and is a totally garbage human being to be more concerned about her “vision” than about her friend’s wellbeing. You’re not staging a Broadway musical here where your vision matters. This is a wedding which is supposed, IMHO, to be about bringing all the people you care about the most to share what should be one of the happiest days of your life with you.

[@mage1439]

Any time someone wants someone else to ditch the glasses I keep thinking of Velma stumbling around saying "I can't see a thing without my glasses!"

[@aimee5259]

I wear glasses. I've been a bridesmaid and a groomswoman multiple times. Never even thought of taking my glasses off for photos, because why would I? I wouldn't look like myself!

[@patriot-hj5vx]

Wholly?

[@ChefSarah4104]

@@patriot-hj5vx Yes, as in it's "total and complete" crap.

[@Ciela531]

Nah the OP who did the decor as a wedding gift should’ve responded with - “oh I’m sorry, I left your gift blender at home. Btw you owe me $2k+ for the decor I made for you”

[@r10greyhoundsrule87]

The last story was heartwarming in that the other maids not only defended the maid who wore glasses, but supported her to the end. There are some people who wear glasses who cannot, for a multitude of reasons, wear contacts. It isn't that they don't want to do so, it is an eye condition or other health reason they aren't candidates for them. This bride didn't deserve their friendships. I'm happy the bridesmaids all had social, ethical and moral compasses and weren't intimidated by the bride to not act accordingly.

[@ShadowWolf1307]

As a woman who had to shave off her hair last year bc of medical reasons, the first story was heartbreaking. Cutting your hair can be a very personal thing and having problems with hair can literally lead to depression. When i was admitted to a hospital to have specialists monitor me and try procedures, in the very first meeting they told me "you need to get into therapy, at the very least join a support group as these things can lead to harsh psychological issues bc humans have strong attachment between their identity and hair" and the docs weren't kidding! I was sobbing each time in the shower when hair fell out, and at some point it got so bad I only saw a monster when I looked into a mirror (that's how bad the hair looked/got). The only thing keeping me from going fully into a deep depression was my partner, family and friends. And it was they that finally convinced me to shave what every was left. It was one of the hardest things of my life, but I am glad I did it. The docs had easier access to my skull for procedures and things improved. It felt weird and uncomfortable for months with just stubles and i did look like a boy sometimes but since then things have much improved, tho some of these health problems i will carry with me for the rest of my life. Much respect for OP to cut her hair and a big FU to the bride. What a bad friend. I'm glad she sued her to get the money back. EDIT: Wow! Didn't think so many people would even see my comment, but thanks for all the kind words! And for all than went through something similar: you are NOT alone! You are brave and strong and you will get through this, just like we did :) For those worried for my health: i have recovered enough to be able to live a normal life again. Things are off, i still rarely wear my hair open as you can see spots and wierd coloration of skin but my self-esteem is back to a normal level and i am no depressed anymore. I have accepted that this might be how i am now and that is okay.

[@rebny7801]

I wish you all the best. Oh hey! and congratulation to you for all you overcame! You are a fighter!

[@TheBaumcm]

It can be extremely traumatic and people don’t understand how scary it can be when your body goes out of control. I know several survivors who didn’t even know if they’d survive much less if their hair would grow back. I shaved my head in honor of what would have been my brother’s 40th birthday for St Baldrick’s and donated to Locks of Love. So many people said I was brave. It annoyed me, only because I knew it would grow back, and quickly. I have fine curly hair so it grows like a weed and there really isn’t too awkward of a grow out. Hope you are doing better, if that’s a possibility in your situation, and your hair is growing like a weed too, and if not, that you have learned to rock the bald and relish how little time it takes to get ready in the morning.

[@sidneyrenee7186]

I feel so validated by this comment. I'm sorry for what you went through but to know I wasn't the only one losing clumps of hair in the shower and sobbing over it brings me a lot of peace. I used a seriously damaging product for a couple weeks and months of hair loss ensued. You can see in my profile photo that my hair is kinda the point, my identity and hair are strongly linked. I know I'm just kind of rambling but I just really appreciate your comment. My hair is growing back now and is starting to get healthy again. Thank you for sharing your story ❤

[@nleem3361]

Absolutely. I started wearing wigs last year. My hair had been thinning for years and couldn't hide my bald spot anymore. Wigs are fantastic. Even the cheap ones on Amazon can be great and the synthetic lace front by designers look so real. Anyway, it's still hard to see myself without a wig on. I'm just grateful we have options now days. Hope you've found some good ones too.

[@kenzieuchiha1191]

I had to cut my hair last year (chemo) as my hair was thinning and literally coming out in *CLUMPS* so hearing the bride basically throwing their entire friendship under the bus over a hair cut for a wedding really messed with me.

[@annecannon-tolento8807]

NO woman wants to cut her hair when it starts falling out I clumps, but we do whatever we can to feel in charge. Especially when we feel our body is no longer in our control. As someone who recently went through Chemo and Radiation for 8 days STRAIGHT, for inoperable brain cancer (Thankfully 7 months in remission), and already lost all my hair 7 years ago, of course when the time comes that we realize we HAVE to do something. I am so excited she won!!! Now I hope she gets paid!

[@pamelaoliver8442]

And I hope you recover well ❤

[@cierrahubers]

That first bride sounded so bridezilla like even after her friend did like so much for her wedding, she still wasn’t going to allow her to participate over HAIR???

[@silveritea]

Exactly. Has no one heard of a wig?

[@ceceelizabeth527]

Truly

[@WhatTheWHAT524]

Right!?!? And not just hair she chose to cut per say. It was health related and out of her control. How selfish and gross a human being do you have to be to react that way.

[@jadend6978]

Right?! I didn’t even care how my bridesmaid wore their hair, told them to do whatever would make them comfortable for the day. I could never imagine being upset at any person I considered a friend over their hair cut

[@Nanasays0731]

Maybe she was losing her hair from the stress of dealing with the bridezilla?

[@Meeckle]

Wedding drama is wild!! My wedding was in December. It was low key, a wee group of family. We had wonderful hand fasting ceremony that involves twining hands through a strip of fabric, and pulling our hands apart, for the twined fabric to pull into a knot. (This is where the phrase "Tying the knot" comes from) Our reception was food at my parents house. It was literally perfect.

[@LuckasSilver]

Some bridezillas are the definition of "I care more about my photos than you dying."

[@nicolevance802]

To the first bride. Boundaries are for you to set around your own behavior. If you set them around someone else that’s called being a control freak.

[@Armystaytiny2380]

^THIS🙌🏾

[@FukaiKokoro]

Seems like a lot of narcissistic people like to abuse the term boundaries for their benefits

[@Anonicant]

I'm so tired of people trying to be controlling and saying they're setting boundaries. I'm just tired of hearing "I'm setting boundaries" in general. I think Reddit has scarred me.

[@Armystaytiny2380]

@@Anonicant facts

[@MidniteSpectre]

​@@Anonicantboundaries are good, you should have them. They can be as simple as "If you do x, i will do y" You can't let other people step all over you, ya know? You gotta leave a little something for yourself and if someone really cares about you, they'll respect you.

[@chrystalminor1422]

The glasses one; I would be so so petty. I would absolutely not wear them at all, bump into absolutely everything, "accidentally" knock multiple things over and continuously say "oh I'm so sorry! It's just that the bride doesn't want me to wear my glasses."

[@Bookq36]

Knock over the cake 😈

[@pastelfantasy_rika]

Walk into the bride and spill stuff on the bride cuz couldn’t see

[@tiffanym1108]

The way my eyesight is, it wouldn't be an accident lol

[@yasminni485]

Asking your "friend" to take off her glasses (which she needs to see) reminds me of the zilla who told her grandma she can't use her wheelchair.

[@lisamelroy2855]

Oof - that story was a doozy!!!

[@yasminni485]

@@lisamelroy2855 yeah, almost unreal that people like that exist.

[@TheBaumcm]

When I was really nearsighted, I wouldn’t have been able to help it. Malicious compliance would’ve kicked in. I would’ve taken my glasses off and then had someone at the end of the aisle hollering, and waving wildly, flagging me down with those violently orange lights they use for airplanes.😂

[@koconnell968]

​@@TheBaumcm I am super super nearsighted (like -8 to -9 prescription) and have astigmatism as well. The one time I lost my glasses in the ocean while babysitting my cousins recently (long story), I was functionally blind without them. Had to call us an Uber and leave my car at the beach in the meantime, and it was so disorienting overall. I would not be able to function in an unfamiliar environment like a wedding without glasses. Contacts aren't really an option for me either since they irritate my eyes after a couple hours.

[@mistypiker466]

I had someone tell me that about my wheelchair. I am no longer their friend.

[@sillymcchilly9617]

My best friend shaved her head with short hair on top, almost like a Mohawk the day before my wedding. She loved it! She was glowing while showing her new hairstyle. It didn't bother me at the wedding (and yes, people were staring at it sometimes... because it was different 😅). But I support everything that makes her happy! Because that's what real friends do!

[@xraydemo4157]

"So many gasted flabbers" 😂 CHARLOTTE!!! when I tell you that you had me cackling and I almost died - there's no joke here girl 🙉 I nearly choked on some jellybeans 💚 not trying to meet my maker just yet

[@pierremaiden]

I love the Bridezillas stories where the resolution is: ''you have no power here'' and everyone just straight up left with the victim.

[@Freya025]

Asking someone who wears glasses to wear contacts is not always an option either. They can be expensive, and not everyone with glasses has them as a backup.

[@mymlan]

And some people can't wear contacts at all. Like me. Contacts can't correct all the things wrong with my eyes. If it was me the bride would have had the choice black or green glasses, that's what I have.

[@pippagrey9633]

@@mymlan I had severe astigmatism and can't wear hard lenses. Also dry eyes (we think it's optical rosacea, not fun) and many times even soft lenses weren't an option. One of the joys of having had cataracts develop early was getting IOLs and now being able to function without glasses ( I still need them to read, but don't to drive; before I couldn't find my car without glasses). Heck, I can find my glasses in the morning without help if they get knocked off my bedside table!

[@crazybiogeek]

@@pippagrey9633 I'm imagining you acting like Velma from Scooby Doo, looking for your glasses. (And that's a complement because Velma is awesome. And the glasses bit from the cartoon is funny and thankfully doesn't happen very often IRL.)

[@melissasheppard6674]

Yes, that’s true. I’ve been wearing glasses since November and it’s probably easier than using contacts.

[@crazybiogeek]

I've never even asked if I am eligible for contacts, because I have no interest in sticking things directly onto my eyeball. Nor do I want to spend the money. Nor would I ever go through all that just for one day as a bridesmaid. I'd take off the glasses for photos if it would make the bride happy but I can't go without them for long cause it makes me nauseous to try to go without them. (My actual vision isn't so bad that I can't see what's in front of me. But my depth perception is pretty awful without glasses and I would be in danger of running into things. Running into the cake would be a much more plausible accident.)

[@talesofflaws7509]

Lol there are literally wig options for the first story. The bride is being ridiculous and she as a friend being unconcerned for OP's health is nuts.

[@B.Harper7]

100%, you can get a BOMB ASS wig noways for $30-50 that you CAN'T tell it's not real, when installed properly. Sure, they could get a WIG wig and drop $5-10grand, but it's not necessary!!

[@bufficliff8978]

That's probably the other type of option the bride was referring to. Depending on where one lives and knowledge of wigs it's not always possible to get a wig on that short of notice, and nice wigs with long enough hair to do the multiple styles would be expensive. An expensive wig with more of a heads up could have been possible but in one week would have been difficult. The bride likely would have recommended a wig. I'm usually more chill than the comment section. The bridesmaid knew how important hair styles were to the bride. I would have told the bride before cutting my hair. I'm pretty sure she said it was 2 weeks before the ceremony. Sometimes hair can fall out overnight, but it's also possible that if she had waited 2 weeks the patches that were lost could have been covered by extensions. We don't have enough info. Sorry for being a rambling time-waster. I'm sick at home and bored. I think a lot of not-the-assholes are inconsiderate while simultaneously definitely NOT being assholes. For a wedding event as extravagant as a 3 day event with multiple hair styles there's definitely a hair stylist. I would have contacted the MOH or bride and let them know what was happening and asked if I could contact the hair stylist to make sure they have the tools to make the styles work and then cut it after the wedding. The hair stylist might have even had an "in" with someone who had a quality wig. The bridesmaid communicating could have prevented the entire problem before it happened. She wasn't an asshole, but I wish people communicated more.

[@AmyVanhoozer]

Of course, that assumes the OP wants to wear a wig - BTW, wigs are NOT comfortable, especially if you're just starting to wear one and not used to it (I have alopecia and have worn wigs for over 38 years, starting at age 11, and have switched to hats or scarves instead). That bride is a real b1tch!

[@raraavis7782]

​@@bufficliff8978 Yeah, you got a point there. That's how it should have gone. What's most shocking actually, is that neither one of them made any attempt to work things out. One minute, they're besties and the bridesmaid is very involved in helping with the pre wedding stuff. Then she has to cut her hair, lets the bride know...gets immediately uninvited and immediately sues?? I don't know. That was one weird friendship, if you ask me. And how come, no one tried to intervene and talk some sense in them? All very odd.

[@karaamundson3964]

As someone currently experiencing the same/similar condition telogen effluvium), wigs just make it worse tho

[@GeoD007]

I loved it when Charlotte said, "I screenshot the EFF outta EVERYTHING! And so should YOU!" I felt the emotion behind her sage counsel. But also the humor! Good one! 😄

[@kaitlanparks8061]

I wrote my vows and stumbled through because I have intense social anxiety. My husband has given speeches to tens of thousands of people at once, both live and broadcasted. He spoke from the heart at the alter and it was perfection. It truly shows how we complement one another and I still look back after a decade and that’s one of my favorite parts despite how terrified I was in the moment. ❤

[@HorrorandScience]

I can relate to the first story. I didn't sue but because of a medication I was on, I gained some weight and was removed from the bridal party. I spent 1000 dollars and am still bitter about it. Especially since I was there for her and helped plan the wedding.

[@mpras684]

Their rejection is your protection sweetie. Really hard to fathom what some folk value and are willing to do in order to get it… sucks about the cash and treatment but make sure you remind yourself (if you can) that all that bad ‘juju’ is baggage GONE! Let someone else be her gofer.

[@Solènelamigonnelicorne]

Bonsoir Tatie Charlotte je suis présente je t'aimes très fort tu es ma meilleure amie ❤❤😊

[@mike90317]

Steal the husband! Get her. lol

[@B.Harper7]

@HorrorandScience. WTF?!?!?!?! Please tell me you've sent them an invoice, that's fcked up and you should get your money back. Absolutely go to court.

[@HorrorandScience]

@@B.Harper7 I'm a pushover so I never really did anything other than return the shoes and sold the altered dress on eBay. It was 3 years ago and I'm not sure I could get anything from it still. Her excuse was that since the dress was altered it was now personally mine. She got divorced though lmao.

[@paginator]

I don’t understand these brides that freak out over hair, especially when the hair cut or loss is health-induced. If i were getting married, I would want my friend who has cancer to be there even if she has no hair. Her presence is what’s important!

[@joanneloudin8309]

Having lost my bestie to cancer I would have loved to even have one more day with her, one more picture, one more memory let alone to have her in my wedding. That would have been awesome. Shame on this bride.

[@paginator]

@@joanneloudin8309 Amen! 💜💜

[@CassMaxwell13]

I was MOH at my best friends wedding a few months ago. I did not leave them any cash but I did make 48 cupcakes, 24 chocolate, 24 vanilla decorated with white and sage green rosettes. I’m a professional baker and cake decorator and that was my gift to the couple. My friend was so happy with them she said she couldn’t have imagined anything better. If I had sold them to her I would have charged at least $200 plus delivery fee. The thought of gifting someone my work and then asking for a gift would have got a prompt invoice from me. “It cost this much cuz it takes me fucking hours!”

[@Armybrat4life35]

18:28 imagine that bride standing at the alter with NO BRIDESMAIDS!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 The whispers!!!!!

[@alisinger007]

After watching so many bridezillas I am not really sad anymore about never being a bridesmaid, I'd much rather be a guest.

[@hauleimacecsko7501]

Charlotte.... I'm a recovering people pleaser myself and it has taken 52 years for me to realize it. I have begun changing my life. Your videos have been inspiring ... I would love to get that shirt. I will wear it proudly 😊🎉

[@CharlotteDobre]

Proud of you bestie!

[@Luvhlymiraa]

Slay!!

[@marareyzaga1417]

First story: indeed, there are wigs that could have been used, but I feel the hair shouldn't have been an issue in the first place. If you're going to be so fixated on small details like that (bridesmaids hair, weight, tattoos, etc), you're never going to enjoy your wedding and you're only going to get people fed up with you. Some things need to be let go.

[@mymlan]

These types of brides don't want friends at their wedding. They want Instagram worthy clones just to look aesthetic.

[@thetwistinside2857]

​@@mymlanMakes you wish they had the self awareness and honesty to just hire the models they want. But I guess it's cheaper to try to bully your friends into it while snatching at their purse strings.

[@FlawlessImperfectionBeauty]

Yes! As a makeup artist, brides often open up to me about concerns and worries for the big day. I do my best to help where I can, but I also let them know that if they can let go of impossible worries they will enjoy their day no matter what. My very first wedding client and bridesmaids were amazing, everything was perfect. During the ceremony the country club was hit by a microburst (mini hurricane). The windows were broken by flying patio furniture, and the power lines were taken down- no power. No lights, no music, and the caterers couldn’t cook the meal. I comforted the bride, and gave her a pep-talk with a makeup touch up. Everyone helped fill the place with candles, and we passed out salads and appetizers. You will never find more beautiful photos, everything was by candlelight. The photographer backed his car to the ballroom and we used his cars sound system for music. What started as a disaster was a wedding no one will ever forget! When the bride was able to relax, they had the most amazing day with the best people. She kept a great attitude, and that made all the difference. 💕

[@gloriamontgomery6900]

Oh, yessss! So true.

[@justjeni83]

That and if they’re actually your friends you’ll love them for who they are and happily include them on ‘your day’ no matter what.

[@caljones]

I’m kinda thinking that the first OP’s health problems might have been caused by the bride, possibly. She sounds like a right piece of work

[@lisamelroy2855]

That's what I was thinking, too. Planning a wedding can be stressful, even if you're not the bride. I'm sure it contributed to her health issues!

[@StrangeFacinations]

It was also in the middle of Covid!

[@seameology]

My thoughts exactly!

[@alexia3552]

If it’s alopecia triggered by stress the wedding and bride no doubt contributed to that stress

[@annieharris2965]

15:22 “oh that was so wonderful thank you for sharing” and the little hand claps were so cute. 😂😭

[@Craze961]

That last bridezilla didn't deserve any of those bridesmaids. Good on them for being awesome!

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

I wouldn't be surprised if she was deprived of her future husband too. 😂

[@audraberreth7632]

As someone whose parents hate each other so much that I could never conceive of having a normal wedding, I can’t comprehend why brides insist on such ridiculous things like all bridesmaids having the same hair. Why the duck does it matter?

[@carmeltabby]

Because they don't have bigger problems. Or I have to assume they don't.

[@Zinnia-bs8tt]

@@carmeltabby Or they obsess over trivial stuff because they don't want to deal with the real problems. The groom's cheating on me? La dee da it didn't happen, but OMG my MOH got her hair trimmed & the flower girl sneezed & my entire wedding was ruined!!!

[@7ShadowMaiden7]

@@Zinnia-bs8ttmy future in laws are abusive turds? NononononoNOOOOO THEY PICKED THE WRONG SHADE OF CORNFLOWER BLUE FOR THE TABLE SETTINGS

[@kaelin_cherise]

Instagram aesthetics? Making sure the BRIDE stands out in the photos. As if 9 times out of 10 IT ISNT HARD BECAUSE SHES WEARING A WHITE PRINCESS-STYLE DRESS?! Honestly, these types of stories just read "insecurity" from the bride.

[@MamaDearest-bc5uv]

Same, that's why we just went to the courthouse.

[@Allie_phelps]

I had a good friend that I met through work. She did flower arrangements from home and when I was getting married I asked her if she could make my and my bridesmaids bouquets. She did them, they were beautiful they would’ve costed me an afford but she did it for the cost of the flowers and gave them to me as my wedding gift. It was the best gift I received because it came from such a sweet, kind, wonderful friend. I couldn’t even imagine 1)not inviting her to my wedding or 2)asking her where my wedding gift was. WTAF, who does that?!?!?

[@nashigaming7878]

For the first story. I don’t plan on getting married, but if it was me, I would sit down and talk with her about how she feels and ask if she wants to step down. Not for cutting her hair. To make sure she isn’t putting herself under too much pressure and risking her health. If she feels like it won’t make her worst, I would allow her to stay. But never put someone’s health below a wedding.

[@Bertoboy41]

3:14... "Choo! Sorry, sorry... I'm allergic to bs." One of the biggest guffawing laughs I've had in a while. If that joke has been around a while I've never heard it. But you did it flawlessly 🤧 😔 🐂 💩 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Plautus]

5:35 whoa, slow down, let me transcribe this gold for my wedding.

[@chemicallyscrwd5485]

I have a lot of anxiety every single moment of my life. Listening to you makes me less anxious for a little bit. Thank you for being such a lovely person 🩵

[@mil0ishere]

Charlotte has taught me the ways of screen shots and now I have stuff against so many people who messed me up😊 Thank you Charlotte!!!

[@libbit75]

Bridal season and the Honorable Judge Charlottes, the perfect start to my weekend!

[@boogermaiden]

She woulda been a good lawyer

[@Guitarbarella]

At least Bridezilla was stupid enough to put it in writing for court.

[@KaityPea3]

Charlotte's outward personality is literally my chaotic inside personality while reading these stories 🤣 But she has the guts to say what I don't lol

[@daphnereal3129]

As a glasses wearer, the baby mamas in the final story warmed my heart. I can only imagine how EMBARRSSING it was for the bridezilla to be alone on her side, no friends in sight, while all the groomsmen and guests were looking around trying to figure out where all the baby mamas went. Edit to add: AND THE WEDDING PHOTOS WERE ALL RUINED TOO :D

[@raghailligh1080]

If the groom had any sense, he should have seen the departure of each bridesmaid as another red flag, or a host of semaphores waving a big giant warning.

[@ratsika3]

17:55 contacts aren't a solution if she doesn't already have them. It takes a while for your eyes to get used to them and not be all red and irritated. Also, many people aren't able to wear contacts.

[@TheBaumcm]

Not to mention some people have a thing about fingers in eyes.

[@FukaiKokoro]

Some eye conditions also make it hard. I have astigmatism and the lenses I got were so thick one snapped when I was putting it in. Didn't even get to try it for a single day. Plus it was super expensive so I got over it quickly because I'm not going to waste time and energy if they were that thick and complicated

[@roguerouge]

Plus, some people can't afford contacts on top of glasses

[@DawnKellyMedia]

I can't wear contacts.

[@staycee639]

Yup I can't wear contacts, lots of people can't.

[@jessicaroses9831]

I haaaaaaate this trend of writing to your friends like it’s a business email. Like girl, just say you’re mad your friend cut her hair without your permission and she’s fired as a bridesmaid. We don’t need word salad.

[@Meredith13Angel]

I agree! It wasn't even a good one lol 😂 I kept cringing! If I got a business email then let's do business! 😏

[@draconicfeline6177]

Right, it's so bad. Shows what she thinks of op. Op then treated it like business and I love that for her.

[@pearlofthedarkage]

I agree. I think it's because big business wants to corporatize the world to normalize "the culture" and gaslight us into believing that this is the pinnacle of human existence.

[@Enskoennedag]

Yeah, and it was so poorly written too.

[@rachaelgibson2330]

😂 "word salad" I like that! Hope you don't mind, I'd like to use that in the future 😉

[@iverg_]

"achoo! sorry i'm allergic to BS!" The actual best quote ever said

[@amyvary6875]

I have been using that wonderful phrase “ My Flabbers are Ghasted “ I love it Thankyou I love it 😻

[@agkittyhook2257]

2nd bride: OP should send an invoice, and in the discount line, in all caps, write " DISCOUNT - WEDDING GIFT" and put the 100% discount so the invoice total is zero. If the bride continues to escalate with public gaslighting, post a copy of the invoice along with proof of delivery.

[@alexia3552]

Gorgeous, good idea

[@nada.serhan]

The first story, you have actually read the bride's initial post a while back!! everyone dubbed her the ah. I'm so glad we have the other side now! closure

[@larissafeltus6013]

Oohh!! The situation did sound familiar. Do you recall which video?😅. Must rewatch

[@ceilinh6004]

OMG. That last story. I love that the bridesmaids had glasses girly's back. I wear glasses, and can't imagine trying to function without them. My eyesight is so bad, that I have a very specific spot that I put my glasses when I take them off to sleep because if I don't know exactly where I put them, they might as well not exist anymore. I have such anxiety about trying to do anything without my glasses. 👓

[@sarahpcato]

I pray that the lady with cancer is fully healed and her hair is more beautiful that ever❤

[@Debster-di3gw]

I live for your sarcasm! ♥️💯 All the flabbers have been ghasted!😂🤣

[@arttherapywithamanda]

Remember for those document queens out there, always keep 3 copies of your screenshots and other documents. 1 on computer, 1 usb in a different location, and 1 on a cloud under a different name/account ❤

[@artphotognh]

Charlotte mentions the bully who showed up at her house party; something similar happened to me. In high school, a female covert malignant narcissist had been emotionally torturing the cutest guy in school. She was super-flirty, but when he asked her out, she said she had a boyfriend who went to another school - so it "wouldn't be right." But the love-bombing continued until he graduated. He & I started going out, and I had a birthday party for him & a mutual friend, and this psycho (who had never even acknowledged my presence in school before) showed up for the party! And even signed the card, "Love, Cheryl." She showed up unexpectedly at a couple of other events we attended. Malignant narcissists never stop trying to ensnare their victims again, and there's a reason they are the inspiration for the Succubus of legend.

[@flamefangstar]

How'd she find it?

[@lightningangel45]

@@flamefangstar she prob used the book of faces

[@wikiwoof9590]

You ever watch its always sunny? Dee does this to rickity cricket! LMAO funny in fiction. Not so much irl

[@TheColorHopeIsBlue]

My mom developed the exact same hair condition just two months before my wedding and she was super stressed over it (which I’m sure didn’t help). She went to the dermatologist, tried some medication which didn’t work for her, then finally opted to get special wigs. Let me tell y’all, she. Looked. Fabulous. But you know what I would have done even if she hadn’t taken all those steps to make her hair look good? I’d still let her be in my wedding, because she’s my freaking mom and I love her to death. I didn’t care how her hair would look in pictures as long as she was there. Also, just fyi, if you have a great photographer the pictures will look great too, but nobody is going to look perfect or exactly how you want them to. Nobody. Especially when candids are taken. And it’s really, really, really okay.

[@thebardwhowanders9106]

16:53 bless you

[@goofyrat2938]

How polite of you :D

[@AngieW79]

Ahole!! You stole my comment two months before mine, how dare you pre-cheat! 😭I’m southern. Polite rights are reserved by all states south of the mason-line. My lawyer will draft a cease and desist. 😝

[@catforlife1876]

Thats exactly what I was thinking. Since I’m practically blind without my glasses I started imagining myself being petty and purposefully knocking into things. 20:17

[@revgurley]

Couples, listen to a grizzled wedding officiant - your "vision" is what you hope for your wedding: your dress style, venue location, dress requirements for guests, food. But your MEMORIES are going to be what actually happened on the day. Will it go perfectly? Though we vendors and ministers do our very best to make your one day exactly how you want it, things WILL go wrong. A lot goes wrong and you couples NEVER KNOW because professionals fix things without bothering you about it. So yeah, you can request certain things from your wedding party, but honestly, the stuff that goes wrong becomes the stuff you share and laugh about years later. I promise!

[@TheBaumcm]

After having seen how many weddings go down and end years later, all I can say is focus on the purpose of the day, to be legally and/or sacramentally committed and to celebrate this decision. The other stuff is just details and fodder for funny stories later. My hubby got his groomsmen tankards. I have a vivid memory of them with my FIL, singing Piano Man while sloshing them all over. Wouldn’t have guessed 6months prior when my mom went momzilla that it would be so funny. Even started a new family tradition.

[@devikakj9338]

I can relate to the first girl. I had severe hairfall because of health issues and I was forced to cut my long ass hair because it looked like a rat tail in a very bad condition. it take so much willpower and courage to cut your hair like that. It's painful. I can't imagine how the bride didn't have any concern for her friend.

[@TheBaumcm]

Definitely way scarier when you don’t even know if it will ever come back AND have some health issues causing it. The stress makes it worse and it’s like a dog chasing its tail. Hope you are doing better now, if your issues are resolvable, and if not, rock the short styles and revel in how much less often you need to buy shampoo😂.

[@itismedicationtime]

Ohhh I’m so ready for the honorable judge Charlotte !! I love her way of reacting and her judgements 😌 The first bridezilla makes me angry. Imagine your friend thinking their aesthetic is more important than your health ! Huge yikes

[@jadlad9666]

First bride really said "your health doesn't fit with 'my vision'"

[@petehowell220]

My daughter had the most low-key relaxed wedding and it was amazing! There were only 10 other people there. My wife and I organised a wedding car for her - she was just going to arrive in whoever's car she could. We went to the supermarket the day before, found out she didn't have a bouquet so got a bunch of roses for her. The reception was back at their house with food she had cooked the night before. When we asked her if there was anything that needed doing, she sai, " I think you're overestimating how much of a shit I give about those sorts of things." The least Bridezilla-ish bride I've ever seen and the best wedding I've ever been to. It was about confirming their love and nothing else. Love you Josie 💗

[@SherryStansberry-z6w]

What a joy it must have been to raise such an absolutely amazing and beautiful child. I can only imagine how incredibly smart your daughter is and what a precious handful she must've been like to raise. I love being around people like your daughter, who are very hard to find. Someone who is not pretentious and who never worries herself with 9:16 always trying to "please the crowd" and their preconceived notions of how things MUST be in order to qualify as a success. Children who are as intelligent and "bottom lined" as your daughter can be a bit of a handful to raise simply because they're always a step ahead of the crowd and we, Mom and Dad are often part of that crowd. lol. I'm sure your daughter has always known just how Blessed she is to have parents such as yourselves, but I would like to take this opportunity to say Bravo 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 and job very well done. And I hope that you are what feels like running your legs off while playing with your grandchildren. Again, job very well done. And Happy New Year's to you and yours. Sincerest wishes for a very prosperous 2025 and that you and your family will be surrounded by all things Beautiful. And never forget to be the reason someone smiles today. It's a most wonderful gift that 😊costs nothing. With Much Love and appreciation for sharing your story, Great-great-great Grandma Sherry

[@donnabradley9926]

Charlotte, I absolutely love your channel. I feel so sorry for the girl who was ill and stated to lose her hair.Her so called friend/bride is a piece of work. I am so glad she won her court case. Chuck that friendship in the bin.

[@UnauthorizedComedy]

I have risen for the Honorable Judge Charlotte. I am seated. Love you, 🥔👑

[@erikarussell1142]

This was so cathartic to listen to. Especially since I think most of us were bullied for being too amazing.

[@KiaTy91]

Take off your glasses or leave… I’m taking my glasses and “accidentally” walking and knocking everything over. You will rue the day you told me to walk around blind. Ahh why did someone on Reddit say this also as I’m typing! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@brandonmartinez518]

The pause at 5:40 to try and find the right words was such perfect comedic timing 😂 i hollered

[@SirSamsen]

Greetings from Cologne Charlotte. We discovered you last week during an one week hike and it was hilarious judging people with warm food in our belly with the privacy of our tent. Couldn't ask for more. Thanks for that:)

[@jessica8471]

My sister was a massive bridezilla! Good thing I wasn’t there because she said we look too much alike lol she had her destination wedding during the pandemic, and my mom couldn’t even go due to her health condition. Best weekend spent with my momma and my dad still hates his trip he had to take to be ignored by her pretty much all night. Haven’t talked to her in over a year now, blood doesn’t mean you have to deal with mistreatment

[@alexia3552]

Dude that is all so disappointing for you guys. It’s really sad that she took herself out of your lives and just declined to be a decent human being.

[@jessica8471]

@@alexia3552 say it louder for the people in the back 😂 we are doing very well with her not being around honestly

[@ericamee5285]

Oh my god "recovering people pleaser "shirt is amazing 🙌🙌🙌🤣🤣

[@ashleydaemen627]

I'm a Charlotte Dobre fab since the beginning and I hear the stories again that were already read years ago 😅 love you sharklot you got me through shitty days ❤

[@themslydia]

The last one is the absolute BEST!!

[@mrscatlady912]

Lol, she wanted a cash wedding gift while she wasn't invited to the wedding 😂

[@dinasilva9263]

People should want a wedding to celebrate their happiness with friends and family. Not to be the center of the universe. Just because someone is a bride doesn't mean the world has to stop.

[@Solènelamigonnelicorne]

Bsr tatie dina je t'aimes ❤😊

[@srkh8966]

Social media says otherwise

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

​@@srkh8966 You're right. But we can only blame social media for so long. 😅 Some people are just that entitled.

[@srkh8966]

@@PrincessQ-fj9ly social media promotes Bridal hysteria

[@CtinaBlankk]

I'd be afraid to be a bridezilla with the fear of ending up in one of these videos 😅 And how good the honorable Judge Charlotte would tear them to shreds with a few simple words and show them what a fool they look like lol The entitlement with some of these bridezillas could also have them end up in some of the Delulu videos as well as these 🥴

[@guestguest9634]

I love how all the bridesmaids stuck up for the one with the glasses. I think more people need to take a stand against bullying or bad behavior. ❤

[@óreiðu]

"I don't condone violence, but I would riot" Best. Quote. EVER!!! 🤣

[@kowsee]

This is why after my first marriage was a flop😂 and I found the man of my life…we borderline eloped…select few knew we were getting married but we invited nobody, just had two friends show up to snap a few casual photos ( had a photographer in the small wedding package of course❤). & Our four kids as our “wedding party”, two girls and two boys….and nobody had to worry about nothing. I did my hair and make up, nothing crazy! Celebrating with my kids was far more relaxing :)! Some people be so delulu it’s unbeliiiievable!

[@katiekat-dickson]

I will NEVER get married. 😅 Imma be an old spinster taking care of all the neighborhood cats 😂

[@DawnKellyMedia]

I told my husband if he dies I'm just getting 1,000 cats. Because no one would come close to how awesome he is. I've seen all these stories and dating stories and I'm like, "No thank youuuuuu!"

[@ReptilianTeaDrinker]

Same. Sadly, I'm allergic to cats. :( So I'll just have a bunch of rats instead, because I love rats. XD But mostly fancy rats, wild rats I might have to be careful with. But yeah, I'd rather be surrounded by animals than marry someone. I'm not much of a people person.

[@mizztella]

You and me both. All I had to see was my younger brother marrying this psycho bxxxh on, guess what? October 3rd (Mean Girl Day). Nobody even remotely likes her, especially my younger sister. PS, my brother’s wife is scared of my sister even though they’re the same age lol😂

[@greatjob_barbara]

"I feel as though I've known you for years" need to make sure I work that into my vows for my next wedding

[@marissabulso6439]

These stories of brides excluding friends or family because they won’t “match the vision” never cease to make my jaw drop. I was asked to be a bridesmaid for a wedding and immediately told the bride that I would love to, but explained I had a pic line (one of those IV lines inserted into your vein for administering medicine…it hangs out of your arm and there’s a whole dressing/bandage situation, etc). I was afraid it would ruin the look of her bridal party or distract people. She gently laughed and said it was absolutely not a problem and she still wanted me in the bridal party, so long as I was feeling well enough. She even worked with her family to make several accommodations for my health and comfort. AND fully supported and encouraged me to make a pic line cover that coordinated with my dress (instead of one that was meant to disguise the pic as much as possible). She helped me EMBRACE my pic line as part of my look, rather than feeling awkward and ashamed for being so visibly sick. And this from a girl who wasn’t quite convinced I was actually sick to begin with when my symptoms first started. Made up for that in spades once I had a diagnosis. Wedding days and bridal parties are about being surrounded by your loved ones. Not about orchestrating the perfect image. Why would you rather look back on your day and remember that you excluded a friend for her haircut (especially one related to health problems), than to remember having that friend around despite your “imperfect” pictures? Either way your friend with be present in your memories. And I HATE when people use language about boundaries and respect for trash behavior like that.

[@swostikasharma9647]

On the next episode of Bridezilla tantrums you'll read "She's breathing. Stop breathing on my wedding."

[@franciebelcher4594]

Love the last story. Simply beautiful 😂😂

[@Fluffy-Fluffy]

Thanks for making me smile. In the middle of my mom's funeralpreps and I could use the distraction ♥️

[@daphnereal3129]

I'm so sorry for your loss :(

[@BrianAndresScott]

I'm so sorry for your loss 🫂 ❤

[@lisamelroy2855]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the pain you're feeling right now. ❤❤❤

[@B.Harper7]

@Fluffy-Fluffy Imagine that you're texting Charlotte about outfits at the funeral, and wear heels for all of us. 👠👠❤️ You can't be sad when you're trying not to fall on your face or break an ankle 😆 That's what I did, It actually worked pretty well. I only completely busted ass after eating and drinking for 3 hours! 🤣 💖✨️ you've got this.

[@violetnorwen8491]

I'm so so sorry 💞 love you

[@louisejohnson6057]

My Flabbers just threw their arms up and walked out of the room, with my Gasts hot on their heels.

[@Kmb33831]

When you axe someone from your wedding party 3 days prior to the wedding-the likelihood of the friendship surviving is almost zero. Either a. The bride/groom is being a total jerk and it’s not going to be easy to move past Or B. The bridesmaid/groomsman is being a total jerk and it’s not going to be easy to move past. I can’t believe you would kick someone out of your wedding over hair. I had a friend that was ginormously 7.5 months pregnant. She was huge. She had offered to step down when she found out she was pregnant but I told her if she was ok staying in that of course I wanted her to be a bridesmaid. I felt badly that she had to buy a bigger dress and pay more for alterations. And she didn’t seem super comfortable-but I was just grateful she wanted to be there for me! I mean. Good lawd people. Pictures tell the story of your life. They’re not meant to look like AI created them

[@smirella]

We need to talk about this crazy "wedding vision" thing... In many of the stories we hear here, there's this crazy talk of "I've been dreaming about my wedding for years". Do you dream about a party for years and don't worry about who you're going to marry? Do you dream before you meet your partner? Marriage needs to be a vision of both parties involved. I believe this is related to the structure of our society where women's goal is to get married. And not to have a full and happy life. It's good when you can have both, but I see so many people sharing a relationship with people who aren't worth it just because. It's horrible.

[@paigewoods8792]

Sometimes stress causes hair loss so understandable that she improved after they stopped being friends

[@Nina-rj4nu]

My cat just lifted her leg in her sleep, stretched, then blew off. It has nothing to do with the video, but her bum is pointed right at my laptop. Honestly, until I had recently seen it on KZbin, I didn't even know cats farted.

[@audk328]

ALL RISE FOR THE HONORABLE JUDGE CHARLOTTE🥔🥔

[@rosemarybelore6622]

The AUDACITY❣️❣️❣️ You are a treasure Charlotte Queen of all the potato people 😊❤

[@heatherlowe7330]

Love that ALL the bridesmaids walked out. Those are good friends 😊