Broken man in the Philippines

[@w0zy]

Howdy. I just stumbled upon your channel. I like your direct approach. I, myself, personally, I want to run away. I want to get away from everything I am used to. Most everyone I've known has passed away. I have no purpose to be anywhere in particular anymore. I just want to run away and clear my head. I hope travel will do that. Then I can plan what to do next. I spent time not wanting to wake up in the morning. My desire to run away has inspired me to get moving. I think that will make me feel better.

[@piacash5216]

Yes , Travel while you still Can Man …. Life is too Short to sit Around Go and See the Other Side of the World’s…. 🙏🙏🙏✌️

[@BIGALINTHEPHILIPPINES]

Its a second chance here in the Philippines ... made me a new man in just 2 years...

[@Telfund38154172]

Find you new life somewhere...if you have the courage try the Philippines or wherever your heart takes you....Life is out there open for you to enjoy....Give it a try.....

[@caseyu8514]

Enjoy your life now and look after yourself ok

[@carryon5163]

I think a lot of us are in the same boat but you know what, I was blessed to have kids that saw that I was unhappy. They encouraged me to come out here and I am having the time of my life. I wake with less anxiety, less stress, more prayer time and many new friends that see the same thing. This long trip I am taking is giving me a new perspective on my life and the things I used to appreciate back home that I forgot about because I was trying to make someone else happy. My Mother always said,it’s a big world out there, go see it, life exists beyond the front yard.

[@dannymckenzie3676]

Damn bro!! Most powerful video I’ve seen yet. A lot of us are going through the same shit

[@treyparker3422]

Unfortunately I feel it common these days.

[@AnthonyShaw-ty9pi]

Isn't that the truth.....

[@ceciliakowalewski7775]

Trey, think positive, don't loss hope. I'm very glad you are in the Philippines because there's someone out there for sure who will make you happy & will take good care of you. Maybe you have not meet her yet but you will anyday soon. Just be patient & trust God. Someday soon, you'll be settled down with your love one with no more sadness but all happiness in the future. Praise God!

[@treyparker3422]

Thank you

[@LucyMoser-pz9hj]

Hi Trey good content you have in your video. I was taught as a child that it is a cold cruel world. People have to learn to be their own best friend. When things go wrong in life you is all you got sometime. You may have a friend or two but you need to rely on yourself. Keep the faith in God, cry in the night but joy cometh in the morning. I do believe there are good people in life but people need to respect themselves first!:)

[@treyparker3422]

Thanks for that!

[@RandallGlatt]

That sounds like the typical western marriage YOUR NOT ALONE

[@treyparker3422]

Thanks for watching, sadly it seems more common

[@rickyrenzo2279]

Glad to see you here in Philippines bro!

[@treyparker3422]

Thanks! 😃 I am happy to be here

[@TDE1593]

Great message, I hope you find what you are looking for. You deserve it.

[@treyparker3422]

Thank you so much!

[@surjit1961]

Overcome sad past. Life changes ; yours too can. Life is precious.

[@treyparker3422]

Yes 👍

[@Jimmy_Duff]

Thanks for sharing. Peace

[@treyparker3422]

Thanks 🙏

[@joeg2551]

Brother that was deep stay strong and keep your head up time heals all !!!

[@treyparker3422]

Thanks 🙏

[@Qima1]

I have zero space for regret, shame and bitterness in my life. The victim mindset was never part of my wiring.

[@treyparker3422]

Good for you my friend, I hope you don’t think that’s what I was saying. I think I was saying I was reflecting on my experience and moving forward.

[@neliaalejandrino8478]

Just saw your video on You Tube. I feel you. You're not alone. Wish I could build a center for old single people who are alone and lonely so we can sympathize, listen and take care of each other❤

[@treyparker3422]

Why not do it! Make sure to have a old dog and beers 🍻

[@Treasurehuntingmania]

You are speaking facts my brotha, I believe mostly every family man who handle their business in America feels this way, when i traveled to the Philippines to get married it was a game changer for me, from now on I’m doing me, very good video

[@piacash5216]

That’s Awesome

[@treyparker3422]

Hit me up on Facebook look up Trey’s adventures in the Philippines

[@GenilynManigao]

Don’t worry someone will take good care of you☺️ someone who gonna treasure you, be contented and faithful.

[@treyparker3422]

@@GenilynManigao thank you 🙏

[@marierocher4422]

You’re in the right place my friend. That country has lots of empathy, care and respect. It’s a family oriented place, the foundation of building up. Take your time, be friendly and be open you’ll find the right one someday soon. Right you take care of yourself first.🙏🏻

[@treyparker3422]

Thanks for taking the time and sending me a message, I’m sure I’m right where I need to be!

[@carryon5163]

I’ve been in Manila back and forth for the past 5 months and now I’m gonna go to Cebu. Maybe Davao for Christmas, let’s see what tomorrow brings.

[@treyparker3422]

Hit me up when you get here!

[@blazerk.7189]

'the mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation,and go their grave with their song...unsung'!(Thoreau)

[@treyparker3422]

True statement!

[@mrbbkk]

I bend I never break. I dont look back. I just deal with it and keep smiling.

[@treyparker3422]

Never break, I love it!

[@Thoy575]

Enjoy life here in the Philippines ,forget all trials in your life ,just move on,maybe in the future you will be in a happy life,enjoy .

[@treyparker3422]

@@Thoy575 thanks 🙏

[@jimcunningham61]

I came here to retire and leave the west , it just got to damn expensive, and I’m enjoying life for the first time in years

[@treyparker3422]

Good for you! Nice to know that you’re doing well

[@freshaloha4747]

Great point of view. I appreciate your straight forward approach. Empowering and truthful. Love it!

[@treyparker3422]

Thanks I appreciate that!

[@FritzBerlin]

There is a broken man in every country, in every city. It has nothing to do with the place, it's about the individual. Bad decisions lead there, no one forced you.... This can only be corrected by new energy, new better decisions. Taking responsibility for your own life increases your chances. An old story that has been repeated over and over again for 1000s of years. And yes, God will help you too. Start with the Dale Carnegie book, How to Stop Worrying and Start Living. Then you will see your “problems” in a different light. Try it!

[@treyparker3422]

Thanks for the advice!

[@davesrvchannel4717]

You made the correct decision to look for love in a different culture. Love doesn’t exist in America anymore. Everyone watching this video has been crapped on without earning it

[@treyparker3422]

That’s sad 😢

[@keithjetski3060]

Good explanation of the struggles of good men. Good men are chewed up and spit out by the western societies in this world. I suffered the same as you and my attitude today is similar. I retired to experience some life with the time I have left.

[@treyparker3422]

I hope you’re enjoying every moment

[@Simpleliving88]

I'm retired here from los angeles California. Im happy here better than the west for sure .much safer too.lots of problems in the west now.just enjoying my life to the fullest. Life is so short.

[@treyparker3422]

True, tomorrow is never promised

[@ansonjimmy9129]

Dude The best video I heard in long time Wow Thx I'm from USA, 8 years legally here. Went through all, learned from them all - good and bad.... I'm 63, now past 3 years finally HAPPY... Nice to hear from you, keep u great work Jimmy

[@treyparker3422]

@@ansonjimmy9129 thanks jimmy, I appreciate that!

[@TheHappa54]

Wow! You remind me, of me. Thnx for sharing your wisdom

[@treyparker3422]

Thanks for watching, I don’t know if that’s a good thing, I wouldn’t want anyone to feel or experience what I have.

[@no-whereman1257]

Trey, dude, we all experience similar feelings and tribulations in our lives especially now that most of us are older, perhaps retired and have moved to the Philippines looking for greener pastures. Disappointments run rampant but we need to keep our head high and continue learning to improve our existence on a daily basis. We certainly all have regrets and are convinced to not repeat the same mistakes. As the saying goes, live and learn. You seemed to be a person of wisdom. I am sure all will work out for you. Thank you for thoughts.

[@treyparker3422]

Thank you 🙏

[@brucemattingley3358]

There are many good woman out there, patience my friend

[@treyparker3422]

I’m sure they are out there

[@loishunter8434]

Cheer up man. You have not meet yet the right one. People have problems more than you. Some may have a limited English so they shy talking to you. Do not give up that easily man. Think positive. Smile at prople.

[@treyparker3422]

I’m good, I was just sharing my thoughts, saying my peace and hope you enjoyed my little chat!

[@HoofHearted_Eh]

We have the same storry.... And I am a broken man.

[@treyparker3422]

Sorry 😢 I hope it gets better for you

[@HoofHearted_Eh]

@ There’s nowhere else to go but for the better! Thanks! I just arrived here in Manila last week.

[@nanaybing6238]

God will heal your brokenness. Include Him in your daily life and you will be healed.

[@treyparker3422]

Thanks for your words

[@vilmajones7877]

I hope you find peace and love in your life.

[@treyparker3422]

I’m finding my peace one day at a time

[@mamamia5556]

My heartfelt wish for you is to heal in mind, body & soul as I know that your being truthful to yourself and bravely facing life's challenges is the beginning of good things to happen to you... Here's hoping that the holiday🌲 season brings you cheers that'll mend your broken pieces with the love that the universe throws back to you which you so deserve, you simply have to Believe ❤

[@treyparker3422]

Thank you for that! 🫶

[@mirriamyamyam8253]

😢I dont know why I cant stop my tears from falling in 9:15 😢😢😢

[@treyparker3422]

No need to worry about it, I’m ok I promise!

[@WolfGirl_Vshader]

Put God first and love yourself secondly and everything will follow.. everything happens for a reason just don't lose hope and find the right ways..God loves us

[@treyparker3422]

Thanks

[@lowellbaldago]

Welcome to paradise 😄

[@treyparker3422]

Thanks

[@travelw.b12oo3]

I'm sorry about your experience but you are right!! Take your time and heal!! Every time I go home in the Philippines, everything feels like wow, I feel good, I feel free of worries, I'm not what is in the air that the Philippines just makes you comfortable!!!

[@treyparker3422]

It’s a different vibe for sure

[@bert-bb3cm]

You’re not good enough. Folks are not seeing the big picture. We have a similarity of ups and downs. Everything you have said is similar to alot of expats here in the Philippines. I’m glad that you have chose this path and start rewarding yourself. You deserve it and along with other foreigners that have woke up from the western countries stile of livelihood. It’s toxic that everyone knows. Not all are happy at the outcome of learning their past behind, but you know what we are just plain sick and tired of being sick and tired. You know what I mean. More power to you and we know God will give you strength always. 24/365

[@treyparker3422]

Preach it!

[@peter-bakestar]

New subscriber here. Look forward to watching your videos

[@treyparker3422]

Welcome aboard! Thanks for watching, I’m pretty surprised people are paying attention to me! I’m glad you’re here.

[@carlTis]

You sum things up perfectly . Well said .

[@treyparker3422]

Thanks I appreciate that!

[@piacash5216]

Power on 💪💪💪👍👌✌️🙏💕

[@treyparker3422]

Thanks 🙏 I will!

[@Gregory-Masovutch]

The Philippines is a good place to live. Me and my asawa have been here for 6 years and built our home conjucal property.

[@treyparker3422]

Very cool 😎

[@BIGALINTHEPHILIPPINES]

New subscriber here... I to am in the Philippibes for 2 yesrd..years... how long ago did you start your channel???

[@treyparker3422]

Only 3 weeks ago! Thanks for watching!

[@BIGALINTHEPHILIPPINES]

@treyparker3422 your off to a good start... I started 2 months ago

[@jayneh2006]

Bro! Evry human feels same way! Anywhere you are, stress/ problems is always behind us. Im living here in usa and its more worse i am having in life.

[@treyparker3422]

I’m sorry to hear that! We all have struggles I know! I am amazed at how many of us are having the same struggles

[@RitaLake-jo6zo]

I'm a 63 year old man living in the uk ,as you said ,we've all had our ups and downs, but to be honest I've learnt how to relax and look back at my life as though im reading a book...you have children and maybe a grandad,so you have put your d.n.a out there for thousands of years to come..never had children myself, been married, had girlfriends but for some reason didn't manage to be a dad..so look on the brightside mucker,you've lived the dream..take care trey..Happy day's ahead..

[@treyparker3422]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts

[@edalan685]

This hits hard... 💯 true bro.

[@treyparker3422]

I am glad you liked it, I was having a moment!

[@brucedoane4819]

How doyou.ikeyour location inpi .what is the city that you're i n.could you rate it😊

[@treyparker3422]

Cebu city is convenient great place but busy noisy but over all not bad, my other place in the province, is quiet and laidback but not as crowded and a little harder to get things. I like both places but I like the provincial lifestyle better

[@gemmalee3032]

undergoing a process as normal people do- respect BUT please DO NOT dwell on it. Problems? Sleep them over with; when you wake up in the morning, problems are still there. At least, you have slept and rested.😋

[@reycasas8082]

I am living your past and hoping to arrive at my future on your present life, taking my life day to day for my kids and will take my future me on me.

[@treyparker3422]

I’m sorry 😢, stay strong 💪. Your journey isn’t over and it’s a rocky road ahead keep your head up and keep moving forward!

[@reycasas8082]

@@treyparker3422 Definitely staying strong. I find it inspiring knowing that there's an end and I know that I just have to focus on my personal and financial goals to get through the day. I hope that your journey will connect your pieces to make you whole again. We know that we are more than the parts that we see ourselves in.

[@whiskeykilo2h429]

Truth to power ✊🏼 Ex-pat here in Costa Rica. Yah bless.

[@treyparker3422]

Nice 👍

[@whiskeykilo2h429]

@@treyparker3422subscribed. Build a relationship with the Most High. Trust YAH and life will be clearer, better and with purpose. You are not alone. Many of us men have unfortunately gone thru the same things. This world is corrupted beyond repair. You are out of the U.S. This right here is already a blessing.

[@1danacom]

Thanks Trey tell it like it is my friend

[@treyparker3422]

No thank you!

[@jessiedeocares2591]

it takes time to heal. perhaps, it will be good if you visit Tondo (with somebody!). You will see people’s destitution but they still manage to smile or be happy. Such visit might help you heal better, seeing you still have so much to be happy with. Or, take my sister’s advice. “When youre feeling down, give away something or help a stranger.”

[@treyparker3422]

Tondo huh 🤔

[@Gaza-vu6gl]

NNew subsciber, warched your video with sentiment and interest. Yes we are all mostly broken by a wife or partner abused and used you. At the time we dont see it. We help to provide, thats whar real men do. Life is full of pleasures but also failures that you try and get through. Me my friend wnt through what you did. After many years of marriage she took off leaving me with our youngest boy of three children. Yes people were telling her stuff because she worked away from home. I was used by giving her a beautiful home and three healthy children. Did nothing wrong a nd helped her parents in many ways over the years.. used and abused is the term. She wanted the business to herself and she got it with plenty of money. Now ive been to the Philippines many times and formed a relationship with someone who appreciates me.

[@treyparker3422]

I hope you are doing better my friend

[@Gaza-vu6gl]

@ I am my friend. Took sometime but makes you who you are today. Heading back to the Philippines in a few weeks to carry on with my future. Thankyou for your kind words and thoughts

[@treyparker3422]

@ good luck 🍀

[@agent.86]

If my girl leaves me I won't care! I will hop on a plane to Bali and enjoy the night life, head to Singapore and enjoy the redlight district... Go to Malaysia and enjoy the great food at the mall.. head to thiland and get a massage, go to Japan sight seeing,. Go to Taiwan and go fishing, head to Guam and explore war History, head to Hawaii and go swimming, go to Boston and enjoy the four seasons, visit Cape cod, new Hampshire and Maine, beathe the fresh air and be happy to be back home in New England.. no place like home! Then I'll buy a sailboat and spend my time sailing south America and the Caribbean islands .. then go back to Boston where I was born and raised.

[@treyparker3422]

Wow 🤯

[@agent.86]

This dude is creepy! He jumped off that rooftop

[@treyparker3422]

That’s not a good thing

[@goldsilver-ff6wr]

I understand your pain and same to those who have similar experiences but the only thing that would make a big difference is on how you handle it and face it in your life, its not easy but forgive them bless them and move on in life healthyly. You did your best for your kids unfortunately kids nowadays except for few already mentally corrupt. Few people appreciates what you've done for them but most people are selfish never satisfied wants to have more focus only for themselves while you worked hard do your best sacrifice born out of your love for them. Sad but it's reality. Nowadays all over the world children will get more worst lucky for those few who will not. The only one where you could find true love and comfort is GOD. People yes sometimes but most times not. Nowadays love has become corrupt as well. So you pray hard that God will be the one to lead you if in the future you meet someone. Just be positive despite the pain smile. Lastly you can choose people you let yourself be surrounded with hopefully you will be with real ones.

[@treyparker3422]

Thank you for your kind words and support.

[@luisasangel3088]

Hello ❤❤❤❤❤

[@treyparker3422]

Hi 👋

[@piacash5216]

I like this Video…. But Why you look Down and Sad Cheer Up 😅😂😂 🙏👍👍👍👌

[@treyparker3422]

I’m on a helicopter pad, didn’t want to walk over the side! It’s a long way down!

[@nelsontragura1441]

Above all love and fear God. You are in the Philippines, where the sun rises first. Find where God works first through his Son, many people there know of Christ's words. You just need to ask. You can even find them in the local news.

[@treyparker3422]

Thanks for your kind words

[@michaelmallal9101]

Qudos if you did the best you could. I'm sitting at home watching You Tube videos.

[@treyparker3422]

I feel like I did

[@manuelroque5840]

Always good to be honest. I admire you for that, bro! Past is past. You can no longer do anything about it. Look ahead now. That’s why there’s two words: Second Chances. Me, I never regretted about the wrong I did before. I use them as my teachers. Moreover, I found my God in Jesus Christ, and He is a God of second chances. Seek Him and He will let you find Him. And you’ll be surprised He is all you need. And you will rebound into smiling the true smile.

[@treyparker3422]

Thanks 🙏

[@MarianBaranda]

" The poor will eat and be satisfied; those who seek ADONAI will praise Him; Your hearts will enjoy life forever. All the ends of the earth will remember and turn to ADONAI; all the clans of the nations will worship in Your presence For the kingdom belongs to ADONAI, and he rules the nations. " Psalms 22:27-29

[@treyparker3422]

Thank you for your words

[@piacash5216]

💪💪💪

[@butwhole-r9q]

I live in Davao and live off of welfare .. I get a $400 check a month and I'm doing just fine...

[@treyparker3422]

That’s impressive! I know it possible here in the Philippines 🇵🇭

[@jayneh2006]

Wow men!

[@jayneh2006]

Just happened to see your vlog and sounds intrested for me. We can be friends bro to cheer up!

[@treyparker3422]

There let’s be friends!

[@MarianBaranda]

Shabbat Shalom Trey. 🙏 ♥ May the Most High God's compassion, love and mercy restore your inner person, guide you to the right path and experience peace that the world cannot give and cannot even comprehend. In the most trusted and powerful name of Yeshua the Messiah, King, Lord, Savior, Healer, Friend and Redeemer. Amen.

[@treyparker3422]

Thank you for your kind words

[@jeffw5333]

Dont jump !!

[@treyparker3422]

Lol 😂

[@gericornista8133]

Lord GOD & Savior Jesus CHRIST is watching & waiting for you to reach out!!

[@treyparker3422]

Thank you 🙏

[@BIGALINTHEPHILIPPINES]

The Philippines gave me a second chance of life and made me a new and better man ... 😅😊😊😅

[@treyparker3422]

I’m happy for you!

[@Farmboy420-v5i]

The Philippines made me never want to go back! Worst woman ice ever dated were Filipinas cheap girls, the grandmother's speak nothing but bad about the younger generation

[@tonybattaglio4625]

How to PM you?

[@michaelmallal9101]

I was good enough to provide Filipina wife with a passport and property.

[@treyparker3422]

And what happened next?

[@livinb450]

You sound lonely bro.. We are all looking for love and a way for our money to get us thru how we want to live. I would drink too much here. Constant heartburn, runny poops, and me being irritable if not drinking, and then angry and mean if drunk. I ran off a really good Filipina. It created a bottom.. my feeling shame while making my body sick. The solution… I put down the poison (alcohol), got her back and see the beauty in little things. Buy food at a combo of wet markets, and stores.. Eat food we make, from simple ingredients, cook eat n clean together. Go for lots of walks. Watch movies, online. One time every week, Sundays, visit her home and family. Every 6 weeks or so, hop on a long bus ride to some destination with just a back pack and see new places. Scramble upon arrival for a room and enjoy some dining, walks, the ocean where the water is clean. For me, it all comes together with a good Filipina..

[@treyparker3422]

Wow , sounds like it’s coming together for you! I’m happy to hear that!

[@CelitaEborde]

Sir mzta

[@treyparker3422]

👋, thank you for watching and your comment

[@jayneh2006]

Why broken bro?

[@treyparker3422]

I’m okay 👍

[@thomasclementz8149]

Why did you get married and had children? Obviously you should passed on these troubles!

[@treyparker3422]

That’s complicated question, I was just a dumbass, it’s the simplest answer.

[@Brian1952ful]

Seems you feel sorry for yourself.

[@treyparker3422]

Nope, just my thoughts and experiences in life. I made a choice to do everything I ever did. I’m learning from those experiences good or bad.

[@hansgruber2509]

Dude you are the example of the average joe that does what he's told is his duty, works his ass off, sacrifices his happiness for his wife and children and in the end is kicked to the curb

[@treyparker3422]

@@hansgruber2509 it happens!

[@catdorrs6890]

Hey, new Subcriber of your channel. I very rare pay attention of some you tuber. Yet i see this. I can relay some you said. I am filipina veteran. I can really relate to some what you saying my friend. Wish 🤞 someday 🙏 i would be meeting you in person. I am a loyal subscriber and a friend. Chat back. See you someday. Looking forward to retire for good out there soon. If ever you need a loyal friend. Just reach out friend. By the way ( for a heads up ) i am not looking for a partner. Never and never will 😅🤣✌️ friend. Just a friend, that i could relate in some of view of opinions. Take care out there and don't let your guard down. ✌️ friend.

[@treyparker3422]

We can be friends! Let me know where to look you up!