"BTS, Help Me Get My Girl Back" | EP.140 | The BTS Podcast

[@sessih1302]

he doesn’t really want her at all. he just has a sense of entitlement and his ego is hurt by the fact that she’s no longer making an effort despite being the one that would always make an effort - even just expecting her to dm YOU so that you can avoid the vulnerability of reaching out and potentially being rejected - you still want her to make the effort and continue that pattern of being the one to put herself out there. pls she’s not ‘your girl’ and she may not be single in any event. i hope she sees it for what it is

[@sessih1302]

i actually think doing it through a podcast is really cowardly considering you have her socials and you aren’t blocked. it’s one thing coming here for advice but you weren’t (genuinely) asking for advice, you wanted to put her in the position of reaching out to you (as always) while benefitting from plausible deniability.

[@Chokani]

word

[@lexifresh1552]

Tammy’s hair is always on point 😍😍😍

[@kdgem9354]

U not lyin but she looks extra good js 💜💜💜

[@Sarah.f524]

Facts she always looks good and put together ❤

[@IkaneishaJenkins]

Hi from North Carolina USA! Yall are everything! I literally have changed the way I pronounce "dilemma" and my husband is like, "You ain't from Essex!" 😅😅 Yall are proof that us black people are the same everywhere, we all speak the same slang 😅

[@deaironhill6190]

definitely changed the way i say it too 😂😂😂

[@TheUncutpodcast_]

😂😂❤️

[@Crowned_ladyd]

Im og from NC and same! I say uh uh instead of aht aht now lol

[@IkaneishaJenkins]

@@Crowned_ladyd 😂😂😂

[@ayomidedareabel5525]

I'm not for it sha. Bro is trapped in his delusions. "My girl?" Bffr😭😭🤣. She doesn't deserve to be an after thought and someone's sloppy seconds. I'm sure he's single and lonely that's why he is chasing her. Cause when he had options he was ghosting her up and down partying up and down. Nah he doesn't deserve her

[@lcalvin20]

The same thing I said… “my girl” bro get it TOGETHER. If you really wanted to, you would have. Point blank. Leave that girl and her peace alone.

[@Chokani]

i agree

[@TeachYourMrs]

He should move on and leave her alone. He doesn’t like her, he just feels entitled to her. She was never “his girl” te begin with. He has no regards for her feelings and does not respect her. Broke contact in uni, went out partying and was with girls. Suggesting to meet up, then to ghost her while it was his idea. Now that he sees she’s doing good, he wants to come back into her life?? He’s an opp.

[@AnyaEsma]

The audacity of him saying "my girl" and "we basically broke up" even though they've never been together... Sounds like he's reading a lot into it and claiming her without her agreeing just because they were close friends and she asked him on a date. Presumptuous in my opinion.

[@Sarah.f524]

Tammy always looks 10/10 and her hair is alwayyyyssss on pointt😍😍

[@jayw4]

Loving the crew harmony took me out 😂😂 love you ladies!

[@xxblackbellexx]

Beatrice’s hair thoooooooooo ❤ Idk how I missed it last episode.. And Tammy’s makeuuuuupppppppp 😍

[@sinalojaca8927]

I hear you Sharon, if someone does me dirty, I forgive but i don't forget and i will put am at a distance from me because I need to protect my space. I am believe in the notion of, "if a person shows you who they really are, believe them", even when they say they have changed, I have a hard time believing that. i still put them at a distance to avoid being hurt and being disappointed by them.

[@sanrihoe777]

Woke up at 6AM here in California with zero motivation. but listening to the pod first thing on Monday helps me wake up and prepare for the day ♥️♥️

[@patriciafernandez6690]

Same!!!

[@TheUncutpodcast_]

You got this!!! Hope you have had a good week so far ❤️

[@sanrihoe777]

@@TheUncutpodcast_ omg thank you!!

[@SabrinaLydia]

SOOOOOOOOOOOOO soz, but Tammy.... ooooooof, girly!!!! you loooooook flyyyyyyyy todaaaayyyy hun!!

[@kezia-priscillavalentine1274]

Tammy and this JetBlack hair😍👏🏾

[@sabrinastaten1121]

this pod is the highlight to my Monday!

[@margaretgarret164]

BTS dayyyyyyyy !!!💃💃💃Now the week has began 🤓

[@passivepanda3656]

I don’t why, but i feel like it’s because it didn’t work out with other women that he think about her now, like a plan b. And also, you asking her to DM you ??? Be a man and court her properly my dude.

[@samariamungaila8871]

Tammy’s hair and makeup 😍

[@naaisyahs]

aaaah YES! My weekly therapy has arrived 🤗🤗🤗 Keep doing what you doing girls! Your podcast keeps me in check on what to avoid when looking for a potential partner! much love from Malaysia!

[@itsetosanerewa9222]

I don come mark attendance for today💃

[@AligwaraChimere]

The way this episode ended sha.😂😂

[@CEOMinerva]

I agree. I can forgive, but once you have done the crime, i can never disassociate. If you should do the same thing again, my mind will rush back to your previous offence. I wouldn't see it as a unique situation that i never expected. Instead, i would be like, you have done it before, you did it now, you will do it again. I can forgive you, but i expect this from you going forward. In my eyes, you can not be the same as before, even though i have forgiven you. That doubt will never extinguish, although i am not dangling the offence above your head.

[@sivuyiledhlula7958]

notification gang!!!!

[@nkems_space]

Sharon: we having fun 🎉🎉😂😂, got Lori Harvey on my wish liiiiiiiiist! 😂😂😂

[@gennyArs]

Hey from Canada ladies! 💖💖 love the podcast so much! You girls are having me giggling alone at the gym in the morning! Definitely the highlight of my mondays! xx

[@TaminoemiDiri]

Beatrice,Tammy and Sharon… you guys are absolutely amazing. Superb energy and absolutely great advice. 10 across the board 🎉

[@zoejaiattoh1243]

So y’all gonna drop that bomb and walk away 😂😂😂😂

[@lashandawear2907]

I love you ladies podcast. Please keep the episodes coming.

[@abdulibrahim2565]

I have to comment about the men who find out they lost 'the one' years later. Sometimes, you need to venture outside to appreciate what you have at home. I can only speak from my point of view. There is that added pressure of not being ready or feeling like you are not good enough for that person at that time. That's my two cents anyway. Love the pod, keep it coming ladies. 😁

[@ayomidedareabel5525]

No man or woman deserves to be am afterthought. Y'all treat the girls who do the same thing like crap and insult them. Every small thing "nice guys always finish last" or "you are done picking all the bad boys" and then use the for sex only. Don't expect grace when you wouldn't do the same if you were in her shoes

[@kkapesh]

This is my first time coming across this podcast...but let me tell you girls you are absolutely amazing 😍😍 I really love this big up girls 😍😍💖 I have loved you so much

[@TheUncutpodcast_]

Thank you so much!! ❤️

[@Dr.HeatherKirkland]

Spot on advice as always ! and Looking Beautiful

[@FaithWalks]

Naaaahhhh we clowning Nick Cannon, Future, and Leonardo DiCaprio over here. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@patriciafernandez6690]

I love this podcast so much! I emailed you guys a dilemma but 48:30 made me question if it was too much tea 😂

[@0AriesFire0]

this dilemma 😂 imagine this the only episode she doesn’t watch

[@TheUncutpodcast_]

😂😂😂😭

[@qxy7440]

I love that I am early for this. So excited

[@Crowned_ladyd]

15:56 😅 ❤❤❤ Its TIMMMMEEEEEE

[@avie365]

She needs to ignore him. He seems like a horrible person. She’ll get hurt.

[@kdgem9354]

I am loving these back in the days adds lady's. 😍🔥💯 Y'all bring me back I am for IT 😏 Here are some of my favs I couldn't help but share. J Holiday- Bed, Suffocate Avant- Read you mind, Makin' good love Keep being fabulous lady's 💜💜💜

[@TheUncutpodcast_]

Oooooo serious bangers here!!!!

[@xxblackbellexx]

I feel like I can’t send in no dilemmas bc ya’ll are 10 years younger than meeeeeeeee 😂 I'm 33..

[@TheUncutpodcast_]

Girl… send it in 😂🤥❤️

[@vangileseroto-mabitsela6628]

Notification gang gang!!🤎

[@ayoolaesho9461]

Like we all know there are some men that would want to be with you, won't want to date you, and will not want to see you with another guy. I feel he's not happy with the fact that she has moved on without him being part of her tale.

[@Crowned_ladyd]

He wants access to his oatmeal again and thats on Degrassi. I hope she sees this and blocks him again. Or lets him see her happy somewhere else

[@Chatzonepodcast]

All favs 🇯🇲❤

[@flomo1334]

African aunty approval❤❤❤

[@Itsmargaretta]

Ngl I love lori. She is not gonna settle and lower her standards. It’s like one mistake ya done. Men are evil and self centered and can only see their own self interest in things. Lori pulling their cars threatens their egos

[@littleetor]

Love you guysss❤😊

[@blackbeaty1000]

PRESENT 🙋🏾‍♀️❤

[@thecarterfilez]

can you guys have Trish from Big Brother on your podcast ?

[@ShawnieakaLadyC]

Hmmm... has he grown? Because trying to get this girl back and you're still immature and tryna live life and airing her messages sounds like he hasn't matured or grown into the man SHE needs. Also if she's the ray of sunshine for him what is he to her? He could be an inconsistent nonsense goat that she's had to heal from and doesn't want to go put herself back into that situation. I dunno man, guys always let the good girl go and then try come back later disrupting their peace because they realised too late she was the one kmt🙄😤 I say leave her alone. She needs a King that's gonna bring out her Queen energy, not someone trying to lessen her worth.

[@JustShaye]

Come on product placement !!!

[@TheUncutpodcast_]

You better recognise 😂❤️