Bullying Your Kid for TikTok Views?

[@myra4565]

people do this and wonder why their kids don't talk to them when they're old

[@gregmcgregginton574]

No, no way it's because I've been a shitty parent. It must be that they are ungrateful for everything I've done to them, yeah, that sounds better.

[@Jvxlca]

frr

[@nataleigh8377]

lmao seriously

[@Eveoriginalsinner]

😔 yea

[@raymond2930]

Straight to the nursing home 💀

[@virfah]

Its sad how adults see pain as good content to display. They think hurting their child will make them famous, when in reality, they are just giving their child mental instability, and evidence to the internet

[@Queendeedeedee451]

*Sad

[@ryuk6517]

Asian parents : I disagree

[@LEONA1234able]

I think it’s cuz they’re trying to relate to gen z humor

[@Jvxlca]

frrrr

[@GODSLITTLEMEOWMEOW]

This is daddyofive all over again, let's hope it doesn't get as bad as that one

[@acrappyartist7262]

This should actually be illegal though, this is literally child exploitation.

[@over-uz3pq]

im pretty sure its also child abuse

[@acrappyartist7262]

@@over-uz3pq yeah, this father is pretty disgusting. Even if it's a joke, there's a possibility that the child still takes it to heart. So the dad is doing more damage than he thinks he does.

[@m0bz0mb39]

@@over-uz3pq Definitely abuse

[@cyrussbug]

he says it’s a joke, but it can actually do damage to the relationship between him and his son, and just damage his son mentally and emotionally.

[@maggiedk]

My abusive ex used to excuse his words/actions after the fact by calling them "jokes"... Just saying

[@einarkuningas2196]

How do parents come to the point where they think using their kids for creating content is a good idea?! Use Famester instead and leave your kid alone!

[@noonelooksatusers]

Fr

[@lilsansbigsans792]

pedo

[@Pugkin5405]

When their kids are fine with it

[@Ezprozpo]

Thekid seems like he likes it ?

[@xmiunax4385]

They're bad people who were probably raised by bad people and who will inadvertently raise bad if not insecure sad children... parenting is the most important job in the world cause it makes the people who fill up the world with love or hate... we need to do better

[@okito1165]

“Your mother was right. I should’ve married your brother.” AHAHAHAHAHHHH

[@jelly_lori]

Chad Chad can be so funny lmaoo

[@calhuh1232]

😂😂😂

[@His_scars]

🤣

[@swearitjustajuice63]

Pretty Sure, is "My". Instead of "Your". But, Eh.. It could be "Your" ig lol

[@McFlurrArtt]

@@swearitjustajuice63 Oh i thought i was tripping couldn't make it make sense for a good minute! LMFAO - this was before i watched the video ;-;

[@BucketOfGrass]

It’s satire but a quote I once heard describes this pretty well. “If you have to constantly explain your work is satire, you made bad satire.”

[@Blockoumi]

well this quote doesn’t apply hear. The comments were cherry-picked. CLEARLY. People know it’s satire and people like this kind of jokes. People find him funny. You don’t have to buy a strong majority of people that find his videos find it funny

[@CompSomAnichi]

@@Blockoumi wait they do? The comments find it funny?

[@Blockoumi]

@@CompSomAnichi Why would they be this popular then? But yes, they do. Some people have better eyes for jokes. I’m not a big fan of this quote because it rarely depends on the joke. Actually, the joke can also be funny when it describes something only a niche few of people could understand. Sometimes, the person you’re telling the joke to…. Is “dumb”. Oblivious people exist and some just don’t get things you tell them. Some people also have different types of humour. This quote doesn’t have any basis and when you think about it, doesn’t even make sense. The quote is really just random and comes out of nowhere without anything to back it up. If someone made me the funniest astrophysics joke ever and I didn’t understand it, is the joke unfunny or do I just not understand it. There is no cause between funny and understanding a joke. If it were something like: “if you have to explain your work is satire, you made satire that some people don’t understand” but that’s just redundant. There also some jokes that people know are jokes but get offended by. Are racist jokes that are obviously jokes better than a harmless joke that isn’t that obvious? Are we equating how easy a joke is to get to how funny it is. Is chicken crossing the road the funniest joke to some because it’s obviously a joke? Most importantly, who, why and WHERE DID THIS QUOTE COME FROM. It’s a quote that’s a quote, not for being thoughtful or correct, but for being a quote. A quote can’t prove a point when the quote is just something some random guy pulled out of his toilet bowl and acts like it’s a golden egg

[@CompSomAnichi]

@@Blockoumi Are you alright? I just asked if the comment section of the guy found it funny but it seemed you've ranted about OP.

[@CompSomAnichi]

@@Blockoumi Not speaking for everybody but can't blame people for being wary not after stuff like Daddy O Five happening.

[@cheni9543]

He's the kind of guy who failed to become a comedian because of his awful sense of humor, but still thinks he's funny as hell.

[@CrimesAgainstHuFranity]

He's the kind of person to punch someone till they start bleeding and then immediately say "I didn't even touch you!"

[@daniboy4153]

Imagine him at a family dinner. Everybody would be looking at him with disgust for his jokes he makes.

[@daniboy4153]

@@imsorryrumham7686 Of course! I need to lighten up

[@iamtherealbritney]

He's the kind of unfunny guy that keeps repeating the same joke over and over again until his friends laugh just to make him shut up.

[@رزيئة]

Are you saying comedians are funny 💀

[@KeitieKalopsia]

I think what Chad Chad was trying to say was that some of these jokes are the type that are funny on paper when you read it about a nonexistent hypothetical person, but once you put a face to the people in the joke, it becomes more sad/concerning than funny. That doesn’t apply to all the TikToks this guy makes but it is true about some of them.

[@Cyberwaddles]

Ok this makes more sense 😂

[@jasperjazzie]

yeah, i was thinking the same thing, it's funny when jokes just exist in a vacuum, but then once they don't it becomes very off

[@thefluffygenius4857]

Yea I got that too, especially after hearing the audio the second time but I lol'd

[@LEONA1234able]

Boomer humor went from hating your wife to bullying your kids

[@micnik3573]

Yup

[@botticellibarbie]

now it’s hating your wife AND bullying your kids 😀

[@His_scars]

Yikes. Sounds *abusive* buddy 😖💀

[@froggy.2256]

Nah that’s gen X humor

[@onyx2463]

@@froggy.2256 YO I SPOTTED A BOOMER

[@MrHunterWiseman]

As a boy who’s been getting called stupid by his father every day for years, whether he’s “joking” or not, it’s hurtful. I legit questioned my intelligence for years.

[@giggles4895]

No literally I try really hard not to call myself stupid or dumb but it’s really ingrained in my head 😭 it’s like the first reaction I have when I make any kind of error I hate it.

[@claudiau2620]

My dad is the exact same way and then wonders why I have constant anxiety about being a perfect student and self-esteem issues

[@Twat_Dirt]

It’s even worse when they’d compare you and your sibling's

[@ginnundso]

Omg same here except that it never was a joke and he always instantly called me that whenever a fight built itself up. I've been called dumb or stupid almost everyday for years. He also called me dumb bitch one time. In addition to that, I was slapped a few times in those years. But not so often tho. I remember when I dyed my hair blonde I had a phase of purposely acting dumb towards things. I think I had that insult so ingrained in my brain (in addition with those blonde - dumb jokes you hear everywhere) that I simply acted on it. I had a long relationship where we broke up a few times in a total of 7 years and in one breakup, when I was having that phase, he seriously said I wasn't intelligent enough for him. I still am hurt thinking back to it because he knew what things my father had called me. Up until I was 19 my father continues to be insulting and if I hadn't moved out then and if I wouldn't hang up the call anytime I notice he'd get heated I'm sure he continues as well. I'm also SO sure my parents are trashtalking whenever him and I had a heated call (well, only he got heated). But I don't care. I realised that I am smart and intelligent actually when I was learning for my finals and when it finally became my time to correct him. He is actually a dumbass himself. He lacks grammar understanding of our language and his sources of information aren't well researched. Whenever I'd throw plenty of articles and facts to him he'd just turn a blind eye. Typical. The whole growing up with that also is what makes me emotional whenever someone tells me I'm smart! I started working at a place 2 months ago and I had taught myself a thing and my boss asked me if I know how to do that and I said "yes, I thought it was self-explanatory" and she was impressed and called me smart. It was the highlight of my day lol. Or I always feel really proud and kind of emotional too whenever people ask me for help, e.g. I'm good at languages and grammar and they'd ask me anything then. I also really appreciate that, it makes me feel smart and needed.

[@spicybeantofu]

Considering how well your sentence is written, I'd say you aren't stupid.

[@jamieexists6493]

Parent: **is a shitty parent** Child: **doesnt like being around parent** Parent: Why does my child not like me anymore? 😭😭

[@allnamesaretaken.]

Yeah.It really sucks.ive been through that and it's horrible because my parents would sometimes guilt trip me into spending time with them. But it's gotten better and we are all better now.

[@inkspotdraws4582]

Exactly.

[@larry8902]

seriously, my mother badly traumatized me (which made me sleep in a closet for 2 years) after two months of me not talking to her she started crying because she didn’t see what she did wrong 🙂 update: i now live in the safety of my closet again

[@neville2308]

Yep I don’t speak to my mom after 17 years of abuse and she plays the victim and acts sooooo confused as to why I won’t speak to her. Has her little flying monkeys message me. I always say “don’t you think I would want a mother? Don’t you think it must be pretty bad for me to go no contact?”

[@hannahmontana4401]

@@allnamesaretaken. My mom guilt trips me if im on my devices too long or with my friends too long

[@Yorgl]

That's a pretty bold move to say to your kid "hey let's pretend we hate each other !" on a weekly basis and not worry about the impact...

[@madisonmathis7757]

The more he keeps “acting”, the more the kid will grow up to believe everything his father has called him. Joke or not, don’t exploit your kids for fame, especially don’t use them in a manner that’s degrading them and making them feel like shit. It’s also the fact his responses are like “lol it’s just a joke chill out”. BIG narcissistic behavior

[@heypidge4270]

My step dad does this to my 16 year old brother and it kills me because he's internalized it to think "well, dad says it, so it must be true", and I hate him for it. He wasn't good to me either (lots of mental and emotional abuse I am still working through 5 years later), but my younger siblings are going through it now, and all I can do is watch & be there for them. This guy is so gross.

[@katiekazoo6389]

Why do people exploit/abuse their kid for tiktok I don’t understand how they can use the excuse “it’s just a joke” Wow child abuse haha so funny

[@pocketcat9049]

I think it’s more manipulative than narcissistic behaviour, either way, this guy is straight up evil.

[@dogbiiite]

please don't use "narcissist" as an insult it's harmful towards actual narcissists/only further stigmatizes npd /srs

[@madisonmathis7757]

@@dogbiiite I’ve literally never heard anything about that. Do tell me more since I am interested . But as someone who grew up with a Narcissist grandmother who constantly put me down and stuff, apologies if I don’t have a good track record with people like that .

[@disaster.-.5607]

The start of the video is how the down fall of every child prodigy starts

[@Jvxlca]

fr

[@extratao50]

My trauma came up again 💀💀💀

[@Jesus_Loves_Jen]

Reminds me of love me love me by kikuo.☹

[@parkchimmin7913]

Please don’t remind me of my childhood.

[@mar.ia.2592]

I was like "oh that sounds like my dad haha" and then I went oh shit wait

[@whytho8856]

talking about the "oOh, iS tHaT yOuR bOyFrIeNd/GiRLfRiEnD?¿?", that joke actually had me lose a friend. we were in KINDERGARDEN. all we did was hug goodbye and the guy that had come to pick him up from school was like "oUh aRe YoU gOnNa KiSs hEr tOo?" and then he ignored me after that😐

[@putriislayy5803]

Lmao sameee. But like.. he didnt really ignore me, he just ignore me for a few days. Like seriously why do parents do that? EVEN MY SISTER DO THAT I-

[@dukstedi]

b/c yall are children

[@veronicawilson7594]

As a little kid who was being abused by my mom's affair partners she would sexualize all my friendships with boys and say they were my boyfriend and I was so traumatised I assumed they would want to abuse me too. So I bullied all my male friends until I had no friends at all.

[@forsaken_ghost]

i had a very similar thing happen to me, except we were in 1st grade, like what???

[@emoscotchtape]

@@dukstedi It's romanticizing any interaction your child had with other kids, which is weird behavior.

[@dkolendo]

this is definitely child exploitation, but i have to admit i laughed at the one where the kid was manipulating the dad into folding all the clothes until i felt bad for the fact that he had to add calling his son a moron for no reason. clearly he's capable of humor without the need to frame it as an emotionally abusive father, yet he insists on it.

[@s_mai8970]

Exactly, like the skit was smart and reminded me of how I'd be sly and let the adults do my chores when I was like 6 or 7. But the insults were... it just rubbed me the wrong way, even as a joke. You only joke like that with people you consider your friends and you hangout with, not the person you are nurturing! Like if I were to call my mom stupid as a joke, I'd probably get kicked out of the house lmao

[@karmica7591]

Yep. Even if that bit wasn’t super creative, without the mean name calling it could have worked. But like this? Nah, sorry. It’s still terrible. I feel like, no matter how many times he’ll say “iT’s jUsT a jOkE”, his son will grow resenting him for all the horrible things he was said for anyone to watch.

[@beggot]

its shocking how these parents that exploit their children make content directed towards children. they are teaching their viewers that abusing children/being abused is normal and "funny."

[@emoluvrrrr]

exactly!!!!

[@nomdeplume2213]

Theres a way to mess and play with your kids thats not abuse.

[@anyalaASMR]

@@nomdeplume2213 yeah… we know that. why did you feel like you needed to clarify that?

[@putriislayy5803]

@@nomdeplume2213 that is an abuse, his son is still 11 years old and he might take his insults that supposed to be a "joke" seriously. His father using him for content, he might feel sad abt it. He just want love from the dad ....

[@miles4597]

name twin

[@sp0rts.l0v4r7]

Ok but can we all agree that Chad Chad is funny as shit

[@claranadine1086]

Yeah, her humor is honestly so good 😂

[@daemondoodles]

Yes there is no argument

[@maggiedk]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@poffydaisy5134]

WE STAN A QUEEN SHES SO FUNNY

[@justsomeguy4392]

ChadChad agrees

[@hufflepufflez3293]

Someday, chad chad's twinge of cringe will break the sound barrier. I patiently wait for that eventuality.

[@Jvxlca]

lmaoo samee

[@sarahpepper6206]

That’s when things go fast, not when sounds are loud

[@nataleigh8377]

We all do.

[@virtuousthing9070]

Only dogs could hear it!

[@urgadurga]

a twiiiiiinngeeee of crrr- *monitor just explodes*

[@lenabeans]

My mother is bipolar, and when I was a kid growing up, she would always mask insults as jokes. It's really toxic, and even when you know "it's a joke", it still hurts. I spent my whole childhood questioning wether my mother really felt that way about me, and questioning myself. I can't imagine how that boy feels with his dad treating him that way AND THEN POSTING IT. That's emotional and psychological abuse. Doesn't matter if it's a joke or not.

[@spiderus14]

Kid: *has depression and various other mental health issues because of how their parent treats them* Parent: tHaT dAmn pHONe 😡😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬😠😠😠😠😠

[@GODSLITTLEMEOWMEOW]

How life after miss sunny sunflower patch doing for you

[@emmaanderson6451]

it is that damn phone; the parents phone

[@spiderus14]

@@GODSLITTLEMEOWMEOW not good man, people keep saying im 'james charles'??? like who the fuck is that

[@movedchannels1543]

Exactly why I haven’t told my parents how I feel :,) Tw/// mentions of abuse “Omg what?? Me calling you worthless, lazy, fat, ect made you S a d???” - my parents probably.

[@achycakes]

Omg yes!!

[@taliaa-444]

I’ll never understand why parents always are like “Ooh do you like them?” when friendships exist. Like, am I not allowed to have a platonic relationship? Trust me, I want nothing to with them other than being friends.

[@glassofmilk8069]

Exactly, like I get them being curious and all that but when your a kid that's pretty damn weird.

[@Diana-jn1mi]

My parents kept saying do you like them to any boy I was in the same room so I cut ties with anyone male and developed a dislike of anyone who is the opposite gender. They then ask me why do I not hang out with any boys? (Fun fact I stopped caring about anyone’s gender and just focus on personality so I think I’m getting better at becoming my own person)

[@AnimeFan9833]

No you aren't, if you look at them for more than 4.56 seconds you have to marry, that's the law.

[@taylor_xi_0978]

I have a friend who’s a boy (I’m a girl) and my grandmother is always saying “do you like him!” And it really gets on my nerves

[@charedits333]

@@Diana-jn1mi that means your pan.

[@olimagmoli]

in general i dont mind people posting tiktoks of like, their babies, bc those things havent a single thought in their tiny little heads, but as soon as those babies become kids and start developing their own personalities and feelings about things i think thats when its time to cut back on the publicity. maybe post some of their funnier moments every once in a while like an AFV type beat. but displaying a childs misery, "scripted" or not, makes me feel so sick and i wish these parents would stop exploiting these very real human beings for five minutes of fame on a dumb video app. it's almost more appalling that they pull the kinds of numbers they do. 50k+ people consistently liking videos of this miserable little kid?? therapy. therapy for every single one of them.

[@lodgimoss]

some parents dont realise how words really take an impact on a kid alot and its just, sad

[@Hannah-zw9ow]

If they “haven’t a single thought in their tiny little heads” doesn’t that make it equally bad? Like they don’t even get to agree to you showing them to millions of people online.

[@justinwatson1510]

I agree with Hannah. The kid being completely unable to consent doesn’t make it better. People shouldn’t think of their kids as accessories, props, or revenue streams.

[@olimagmoli]

@@Hannah-zw9ow this is a good point too! i was just thinking more along the lines of the baby not really caring either way bc they don't know what's going on like an older kid might. honestly the ethics of these situation are pretty nebulous and case-by-case. for example, there's a single dad who does a podcast kind of thing with his daughter thats super adorable and theyre only ever shown doing fun stuff together, which i do actually enjoy. i think it makes for a great example of compassionate parenting, and it's also in a controlled environment. but then there's parents like the guy in this video and it's just...... yikes!

[@whytho8856]

@@olimagmoli i think i know the guy you're talking about! if it's the same guy, i'm pretty sure he even said in a podcast that he only make those videos with her when his daughter is having fun/wants to. it's one thing to make bank off your kid who might not even want to be there, and another to do fun things with them online and letting them choose whether or not they actually want their lives to be public like that.

[@sincerelyrio_vball]

as someone who began showing signs of depression at 10, this is pretty much what i experienced and i feel so bad about this and i wish that i could help that kid. even if its a joke, it doesn't help a child's mental health.

[@kkjlsmlkw]

Sorry that you had to go through that, I cant imagine how bad that was. As of the kid though, he’s doing better and is doing great. I know depression isn’t always obvious, it looks like he’s doing much better.

[@kirikakirikakirika]

The problem is, most kids don't really understand sarcasm/irony. Even if it's just a little bit, this poor boy could be internalizing this.

[@Blockoumi]

They write the jokes together. The kid also has some skits where he makes fun of the dad and trolls him but chad chad (probably not her real name) decided to cherry pick clips

[@kirikakirikakirika]

@@Blockoumi She literally admits "Chad Chad" isn't her real name at the beginning of every video. And that doesn't mean anything. Teaching your child to produce these "jokes" can and often does have disastrous consequences. Not to mention they're obviously targeting a child audience. An audience that can't recognize sarcasm. How is abusing your children good content, especially for a younger audience? Don't exploit your kid for fame.

[@Blockoumi]

@@kirikakirikakirika “obviously targeting a child audience” yeah, no They aren’t targeting a male audience and some of his jokes are more mature than other. Also, the child is fine, makes the jokes with him and makes some jokes against him. I think there is a big part of the internet missing if these jokes, which are fairly tame mind you, are actually “extremely bad and harmful” because you don’t like it, it really doesn’t mean that it shouldn’t be online or anything. No one is actually getting hurt from these things and his reception is always positive. Chad chad (if that’s her real name (probably is considering she always says it is)) only showed comments that weren’t sure if he was joking. Most of the comments actually know a joke. That’s why the video got popular in the first place Also, he’s already well known in his sphere and he does it with his son for fun

[@kirikakirikakirika]

@@Blockoumi Did you not read my comment? She says at the beginning of every video that "Chad Chad" _isn't_ her real name. You're accusing her of cherrypicking, yet you didn't even pay attention to her video. These are the clips she showed, but she watched _many_ tiktoks from this channel before she decided to make a video on it. She even said she knows it's fake, as any adult would, but that doesn't change the fact that their channel targets a _young_ audience. Their account has been explored by many people and the father even admitted his "content" with his son is for a younger audience. Of course most of their reception on TikTok is positive. It's all kids. That said, there are several tiktoks where you can hear the mother berate the father in the background, telling him to tone it down and saying he isn't being funny. Again, don't use your children for fame and clout, especially when the "jokes" are abusive/insensitive. The boy will do whatever his father tells him to do because children _want_ to please their parents. And it's a lot deeper than just me "not liking" the content. We have literal evidence, cases, and studies that prove stuff like this is harmful to children and child viewers. Children aren't a commodity, they shouldn't be used for comedy and income. Remember Dadd O' Five? His kids said they weren't being abused and claimed they were in on the jokes, but once police investigated, they found the kids absolutely _were_ being abused. Kids simply don't know when they're being mistreated, just like they don't know when they're _watching_ someone being mistreated. What's "funny" about a dad tearing up his son's award and making him cry? Why is that enjoyable to you? Why do you like seeing kids in distress?

[@Blockoumi]

@@kirikakirikakirika so now you’re just going to trust her. She watched many, and how does that disprove she cherry-picked them? When you cherry-pick, you pick the ones most suitable for content Again, his channel doesn’t specifically target younger audiences, he’s made plenty of mature jokes. Also, when has he even admitted it? And I’m not talking about tik tok reception, I’m talking about KZbin reception. He already made videos about how he scripts his jokes with his son (I think he might’ve deleted it or maybe it was on another account) and the reception were full of people either saying “people are too gullible” or “people are dumb” and rightfully so. If you don’t think this is scripted, then you just have a hard time understanding anything. There are also some comments that say “fake” which is so obvious it doesn’t need to be commented. I don’t even get why anyone would bother writing fake over a skit And also, making skits with your son really isn’t a big deal. This is supposed to be a Tom and jerry duo dynamic. Tom is a fool that hates jerry. Jerry is smug and tricks Tom but also hates him. Then you also have the scenes where the dad is supportive and the son is the one insulting him and joking and then the dad doesn’t get the memo and thinks his son loves him and what not. Chad chad (if that’s her real name) probably saw those ones but just picked the ones where the dad is insulting his son and it looks like it’s a one way thing. But others have mentioned it, in the last clip, she clearly missed the joke and showed one where the kid is smiling at his gullible dad and people are saying that it was an actual funny joke. Calling people abusers is the same as me calling you someone who likes defaming people. I don’t know you so I can’t call you that, you don’t know him then don’t call him a child abuser. Call people who are known to abuse their children child abusers. It that hard to grasp? I’m actually done with this

[@VashPickles]

I feel so lucky my parents are more "old school" and don't like social media....Im sorry for anyone who..has the cringey parents like this..or verbally abusive for...views..

[@putriislayy5803]

Same, but sometimes my parents blame my phone for a headache that an old milk caused it and not actually my phone lmaoooo Like.. bruh I drank expired things, it always happen somehow

[@isabella4793]

@@putriislayy5803 ik

[@charedits333]

Same. They have KZbin accounts but they never comment or follow trends and all that.

[@yukikitty697]

mine stay on facebook looking for posts they dont post any thing for me but sometimes they dont spen too much time with social medias but they help with the house

[@lamineamari]

No your actual name is Chad Chad, first name Chad last name Chad and my middle name is Chadling. You gotta deal with it Great content btw, I'm forever thankful to youtube for recommending you last month

[@clayph0bia]

whats up checkmark

[@s1eepyjaee]

@@clayph0bia that gave me jschlatt vibes

[@clayph0bia]

@@s1eepyjaee rightfully so

[@vaultgirl42091]

I thought her maiden name was chadly? Chadelson? Lol

[@anistolewhat]

Chad chadling chad

[@ciaran4135]

2:25 I love how even the mum doesn’t think it’s funny. At least one parent has sanity.

[@0pal.]

lowkey feel like she doesn’t speak up because he does the same thing to her

[@PinkxBunnixx-tk7fi]

With how he continues I feel like she just lets it happen though

[@puppyproductions964]

That was a part of the script, obviously

[@AnimosityKate]

Just because he says it's a joke doesn't mean it can't have a real impact on his son. His son might very well understand that his dad is kidding when he calls him dumb, but it will still affect the way he views himself and his relationship with his father. Also... it's all in vain because the jokes aren't even funny!

[@putriislayy5803]

Ikr, he might remember it until he old. Like seriously I still remember what my mother said when I was young, that how my insecurities and guilty feelings come. He have to stop, his son might crying bc of what he did

[@mori4532]

I also looked at the award and it had a name on it. I think that was the kids actual award and the mom’s reaction seemed very genuine. If I was the kid, I would want that maybe framed or put up on the fridge at least

[@Illlium]

@@mori4532 It's a goddamn piece of paper made by the dozen that's going to be redundant by the next year's award about both of which nobody is going to care by high school. The accolades are in your brain.

[@natashalawely2900]

@@Illlium That doesn't mean the kid doesn't deserve to be recognized for his hard work and achievements. Just because you don't believe in awards doesn't make it meaningless.

[@Illlium]

@@natashalawely2900 IDK, I had a literal stack of diplomas of sorts from my childhood and when one time during spring cleaning my mother dredged them out I tore them to pieces like garbage they were.

[@cerysxox]

the father wants to know why his son hates him and starts off the video with "I was snooping around my 11 year old sons room"

[@paniccake1219]

For real

[@jaadn6197]

Invading someone’s personal space makes a ton of trust issues

[@Roserae16]

My actual out loud response when I heard that: "oookay....? why would you do that?" Like, that kid is never going to trust his father or go to him for real advice. I still have trust issues with my mom from her reading my journal 15 years ago.

[@alyzu4755]

Even though this kid is in on the (really unfunny) joke, it's still going to affect him deeply. Also, forcing your kids to perform like a circus animal is just so pathetic and wrong. Especially when it's put online for everyone (including his classmates) to see.

[@kiwi_arms]

That's... a lot of projecting there, I think. Like why do you assume the kid is being forced?

[@noonelooksatusers]

Yeah

[@Pedrocito07]

@@kiwi_arms Because he is not in an age where he can comprehend the impact of situations. It's liek saying "My son loves to go work in the mine with me, he is not forced", it's just stupid. Now I know laws don't exist yet for kids online but they should since they are getting exploited as much and don't know what the real impact can be. Just look at child stars as example of how fucked up they can be sometimes

[@kiwi_arms]

@@Pedrocito07 i'm just saying that when i was 10 i was probably able to tell that if my dad says "i'm gonna pretend to be mean to you for tiktok" it means i shouldn't take his insults seriously

[@Pugkin5405]

I think it should be up to the kid and parent to decide before random strangers Not all kids are dumb and lots are mature enough to understand this. It also isn’t going to affect him like you think if the kid understands it. Because that’s literally the whole joke

[@ghostkitsune3431]

Did anyone else notice at 8:33 after the dad calls him stupid you can just see the kid look down all defeated and then his shoulders fall, like his confidence was just destroyed. I feel so bad.

[@PontschPauPau3451]

I swear to god, is half this comment section blind? The kid is smiling while the dad is saying that he has to do his laundry because the joke is that the kid is weaponizing incompetence to trick his dad to do his laundry. It's all scripted. It's a boomer joke but it's still one of the few ones that has an obvious joke. It's so weird that Chad Chad didn't pick up on that.

[@Roses6858]

​@@PontschPauPau3451A smile could mean anything

[@stagewaste]

@@PontschPauPau3451 It's so weird you make this all out to be right because of that.

[@rayduron6396]

@@PontschPauPau3451 bro fr like It’s jokes in skits, it’s not that serious

[@noorashiraz9046]

​@@PontschPauPau3451 it's not that we aren't picking up on that lmao, it's that you aren't picking up on the fact that verbally berating your kid isn't funny and at one point can cause the kid to believe you mean that and actually hate you. He can have the skit without calling his own son a "moron" repeatedly,like the skit in itself is fine, kids do pretend they can't do anything to manipulate their parents, people are complaining about the way he speaks to his own kid.

[@SM-yz4hi]

I love how he just glided past the fact that he was invading his son’s privacy in the first tik tok. He didn’t even offer an excuse for the snooping 😃

[@Doggy844]

Ok but that TWeeing Of CrInGeeeE never gets old

[@SuperNuclearUnicorn]

I loved your point about the "ooooh someone has a girlfriend" thing. It really did fuck up my relationships with girls all through high school because it was like ingrained in me that if we aren't here to date or smash why am I bothering? It's such a toxic mindset and I'm glad I'm past it. Sad thing is I have a friend who is 22 and still has that mindset. He's in a relationship and his girlfriend doesn't want him having any female friends because I guess his penis will just gravitate to them? It's so fucked up

[@laurahafner5742]

That’s so fucked up. That mindset can cause a toxic relationship so easily. I’m really glad for you that you are past it

[@Montesama314]

Hey. If he does break up woth her, he can just say, "Sorry, I guess I'm just not ATTRACTED to you anymore... Eh? Get it? Because... Cuz of science... Im taking the TV."

[@HotCoco_]

People be doing that shit to little ass kids in the first grade and shit. I have a coworker who creepshots her son at social gatherings and birthday parties and stuff whenever he interacts with a female and she posts the pics on her Instagram and says shit like "they're on a date"

[@StrayKisswHobyStrayKids]

that's effed up but you also had me laughing at "gravitating penis" lmfao

[@Steph-xq3sx]

@@HotCoco_ Yikes... That's so invasive and creepy. I feel bad for child.

[@Spritesarentreal]

I am a closeted queer 14 year old and I am constantly getting asked by my nana every time I mention a guys name if he is my bf, she says it as a "joke" but it just really bugs me she does the same with my aunt who is 40 and has not given birth and doesn't want to ( she doesn't hate kids, she just doesn't want to become pregnant or go through that whole process)

[@seitanbeatsyourmeat666]

:( I’m sorry

[@notstarfiSh]

if you don’t tell her she can’t read your mind OMG plot twist I know

[@vexusmorpheus932]

​@@notstarfiSh?? Some people's parents/grandparents (and etc.) are homophobic OMG and would likely kick them out!!

[@hottiemccottie]

@@notstarfiSh some people just don't feel comfortable coming out??? And just bc she doesn't know doesn't mean this person can't feel uncomfortable. Coming out to someone is a HUGE thing and isn't a walk in the park for some people.

[@JustKelso1993]

​@@notstarfiShShhh the lgbtq cannot comprehend that concept, you are gonna confuse them.

[@LemonSharkSoup]

I hate when I bring a boy over and my mom is like “Oooh is that your boyfriend~”, like no mom this is Isais and he came over to play Cod with me not to make out with me.

[@Dxwnn]

it just gives you that feeling that you want to slap your mother and be like “what the actual hell is wrong with you”

[@LemonSharkSoup]

@@Dxwnn Yeah she has always been very rude to me about my love life but if I bring a boy over she turns into this sweet and caring mother. I don’t know how she does it

[@putriislayy5803]

SAME. When I was introduce her to a friend that is a boy ( but not face to face with him ) she said " OoH ArE yOu hAvIng a bOyfRieNd RN?"

[@LemonSharkSoup]

@@putriislayy5803 Yeah my mom is the same and I hate it, I can’t even bring over my childhood friend over now because she does this whenever he is over.

[@0nkrul]

ikr they be like "yo bf?" no mom I'm gay!

[@SaltyMojito]

I cant imagine how much the words that this fully grown man says "joking" hurt the innocent 11years old boy.This is just not okay even if its a "prank"

[@winterdonuts]

ikr

[@putriislayy5803]

Ikr you can see how sad he is with what is his father doing

[@cmm3699]

Saying: “it’s just a joke” or “it’s just a prank bro does not give parents a Get Out Of Child Abuse Free Card… **cough** DaddyOFive **cough**

[@mori4532]

That dude was way worse tho, that pos physically and mentally tormented those kids and had genuine hatred towards them. I don’t think this dad actually feels the way he does in the vids, but I still don’t like what he’s doing

[@AutisticBrainrot]

@@mori4532 poor cody, glad he got a new family

[@cmm3699]

@@mori4532 I think it doesn’t matter “who is worse”, all that matters is what is happening to these kids. Just because someone was stabbed with a butter knife, and someone else was stabbed with a steak knife, doesn’t mean that one person needs more medical attention than the other. One person may need more assistance repairing the wounds once they get help, but they both deserve to get help ASAP.

[@mori4532]

@@cmm3699 that’s not really a fitting analogy. Daddyofive needed his kids to be taken away from him when this kid isn’t in that terrible of a situation. I don’t like what this dad is doing but u just can’t compare the two, daddyofive is literal satan spawn

[@mori4532]

@@AutisticBrainrot yea I’m really glad too

[@Eli-qb2sw]

7:38 "Dad, i think i love you"

[@ik_yk_minho]

UNDERRATED COMMENT LMAO

[@justrandompun]

LMFAO💀💀

[@notmychairnotmyproblem]

I unironically walk around my house saying "a twinge of cringe" thanks to you.

[@nihilistbagel831]

goals

[@samyukthasrikanth4214]

I literally commented this on Chad Chad's other video lol

[@pinkdoll3578]

OMg me too and then I feel cringey about myself. 😳

[@perry2194]

Same and my bf thinks i thought of it myself. I did not, I wish i did though

[@aur9035]

@@perry2194 did you tell him

[@kayleecaca]

so when are we going to get some laws for children on the internet? like there are child labor laws for young actors and stuff but so many kids get exploited for videos online by their own parents and there's really nothing being done about it, I used to think it was only family vlogging channels but this guys content is pretty similar and I feel like the whole "I'm abusive" joke is really weird and I get that the kid knows it's not serious but I cant imagine my dad constantly calling me stupid and joking about hitting me and just brushing it off as funny

[@liriohardy7240]

agree with this 100%!!! there reallyyyyy needs to be legal protection for children on the internet

[@MyDuckSaysFucc]

Yes, I don’t get why people think it’s ok to support these content creators. Their kids get no say wether their tantrums are plastered all over the internet, and dear mommy and daddy edit the crap out of everything so they appear to be mr and mrs perfect... look most parents fuck up once in awhile. Get frustrated at kids for misbehaving. That kind of thing isn’t shown on these channels and creates a false picture of the parents/authority figures being perfect... aka it’s all about the kids misbehaving, not the parents behind the scenes setting the kids off.

[@DeathnoteBB]

It’s not just the internet, if a parent has say a business it’s common for the kid to work for the business even when they are young.

[@Illlium]

Imagine this is not even this guy's kid and just some up-and-coming child actor showing off his chops. Would that still be abuse?

[@emilyjohn2034]

Super old comment but I wanted to say those kinds of laws are actually currently on the table being talked about! A few places have proposed bills similar to the laws surrounding child actors. Giving them to the right to take down videos where they’d have the expectation of privacy (such as in their own home), require a certain amount of profit to be guaranteed for the child if they are prominent in the video, and having maximum times you can make a kid record for. So it definitely took way to long but they are trying to implement protections

[@FredericChen]

YESSSS 200k

[@janussanders8345]

Yes. My favorite KZbinrs

[@harlensdestruction7115]

The best crossover

[@hungry6919]

ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ

[@bobesca6965]

300k*

[@Tictokz4u]

300k

[@-nutella]

As a kid who was incredibly sensitive if an adult made negative comments about me I would never forget it and no matter how close I was with them it still always hurt.

[@rainbowrose2048]

honestly, as a person who has heard these “jokes” unironically from my parents, wtf. its okay to joke about ur own trauma, but ur joking about CREATING trauma. sir i really dont care if ur playing a character or not. this is toxic and abusive as hell

[@Chillaxpepper]

Hey I hope you're doing better, and I just wanted to say I really love your pfp :D I mean. Ranboo amirite

[@rainbowrose2048]

@@Chillaxpepper *plays fallen down* edit: i am going to therapy now and so are my parents. my mom is improving a lot more than my dad but overall they are much better than they were

[@genderfluidlygay7146]

Same, have had my parents said this to me too, as a "joke". And all i could notice is how abusive this dude is. Even if the kid knows his dad is doing it for clout or for a video, it will STILL affect him SOME WAY, nobody likes to be called, dumb, worthless or stupid....even as a joke. It's just straight up mean and sh*tty, and presumably, bullying.

[@Lotuseaterr]

Imagine acknowledging that you’re assuring your child’s desperate need for therapy as an adult and then continuing to exploit them. This dude is a malignant narcissist.

[@barachel6469]

It’s really not that serious. Come on. A malignant narcissist? How sheltered and privileged do you have to be for this guy to be considered a horrible person in your mind 🙄 people are dying, Cory

[@Lotuseaterr]

@@barachel6469 lol are you being ironic? I don’t get how pointing out this man’s obvious disregard for his kid’s mental health makes me privileged and sheltered. You don’t know anything about me or how I grew up or my own experiences.

[@ruetistic]

@@barachel6469 that “people are dying” argument is so fcking stupid. he is treating hid child horribly and is being, like cory said, a malignant narcissist.

[@daniboy4153]

@@barachel6469 Damn you really don't care about actual issues that much...

[@Sarawarawara-]

@@barachel6469 How ignorant do you have to be for him to not be a horrible person In your mind?

[@sweeswoop1235]

Honestly, I hope he gets fired, even if it is fake. Especially for his job as a professor, he is meant to offer support, and this is like the opposite. Even with the video at his uni/college whatever, those students look terrified and the command to laugh or clap whatever sounded like he has a previous experience of yelling/being a bitch to his students

[@GabiKostha]

Tbh, a professor getting fired for being mean is very unlikely. One of the things you see the most in uni is a professor failing someone because they felt like it/didn't really like that person, I know a person who was the only one failed in a class (even tho some people didn't even have the grades to pass) because he questioned the professor and he didn't like it. There's a professor in my department who is racist, with actual documented proof of that like naming one of his sculptures a very offensive name and defending using people and their cultures as costumes because his white ass doesn't see a problem with it, but no one is going to do anything about it because somehow professors are above other people's feelings. I was told in high school not to question a teacher's authority, if they were being mean you'd just have to bend to their will because it was going to be way worse in college, the guy that told me that was just trying to protect this teacher that was being horrible with his students just because he was having a bad day and also abused some girls (myself included). They were long time friends and he actually tutored his daughter, so if there's no outside intervention that could actually damage the school's name, it's unlikely that a professor would be fired.

[@KlidesCorneroftheInternet]

@@GabiKostha that's the problem with colleges and unis, they care too much about their rep rather than the rep they might recieve when people ahare their experiences when attending there.

[@selenium3447]

Even if they did fire him, it would make the kids situation a thousand times worse with the parent being home more

[@solomonpardue3605]

This is a completely asinine take, I can't tell if it comes from a place of projection where if you were in a position of power that's how you would actually behave; or if you've lived such a sheltered life you have no clue what real abuse looks like. This professor / dad is obviously being over the top with his humor, it's absurdist humor that elicits laughs from how unrealistic it is. For actual child abuse and/or exploitation look at Daddy o' Five's channel and eventual intervention by CPS or Ryan's Toy Reviews where the parents are working their own child week after week making content. Even if Ryan enjoys making the videos the speed at which they pump those videos out that kid is definitely working over the legally allowed limit for children.

[@czarekdupa]

idk it kinda feels like satire, i dont really think its something to be fired over.

[@tobrose731]

"Why do straight people do this?" Well Chad Chad as a straight people myself I find this statement HIGHLY... agreeable

[@chilling_koala]

Because they are the only ones capable of doing this. Gays can't have kids. What tells you they wouldn't do this if they could?

[@JustKelso1993]

I think it is highly ignorant.

[@kaimochi_930]

He says this is a joke, but I almost feel like it's just how he treats his family and says it's a joke when people call him out. Because that's exactly what my dad does. He treats everyone around him like garbage, insults them, makes shitty jokes, and then gets defensive when we get upset because he's "just joking" and we must not have senses of humor. That kid is gonna grow up to resent him either way, and I really feel for him.

[@Blockoumi]

It’s scripted. He isn’t treating them like shit because everything is scripted. He’s not randomly entering in his son’s room and insulting him. These are skits

[@NiyxRa]

My dad acts like this too. It's a really terrible thing to do to your child, regardless of whether it's scripted or not. They're stuck in their own world where they're always in the right and if you disagree, they think there's something wrong with you.

[@Blwbelle]

@@Blockoumi bruh you're in every single reply thread... Take your ignorance somewhere else

[@Blockoumi]

@@Blwbelle I already have. I don’t live here you know. Let me go argue with other people and waste my life on trivial things like this. I mean, do I really need to touch grass? Grass probably wouldn’t appreciate touching me anyways. Not even my parents. Even my imaginary friend left me. Yeah, I’m bored and really sick right now

[@Steph-xq3sx]

@@Blockoumi Yeah, I still wouldn't want videos of my father insulting me and "joking" about abusing me circulating on the internet. I feel bad for the child. These are his formative years. He'll remember this shit for the rest of his life.

[@zxrx7985]

Chad Chad's covers for the songs are the highlight of my life

[@poffydaisy5134]

more like highlight of earth itself

[@tylerk6206]

It's always so fucking good.

[@senseichang_]

Duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuude

[@kesidremel9174]

Can't wait for Chad Chad to drop an album

[@hahaha5763]

"Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child."

[@veemou]

5:25 NO DUDE I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN he's like aware of what hes doing and trying to passively dismiss it as "ahaha funny funny joke" but he's really just projecting , ,, that narcissist joke was a little too detailed to be anything else LOL

[@6abii]

the poor 11 year old had to watch when his dad ripped his academic achievement, i would hate that dad out of tik tok ngl 😮‍💨

[@me-gv5ok]

Love your pfp ❤️💜💙

[@6abii]

@@me-gv5ok aw thank you! drew it myself

[@me-gv5ok]

@@6abii omg that's so cool!!

[@GODSLITTLEMEOWMEOW]

@@6abiithat drawing is amazing, my dad would cry tears of joy if I was that smart,

[@keepyourshoesathedoor]

It made my chest hurt.🥺😓

[@birdieh07]

There are very few people that look magnificent with a mullet, you are one of those people Chad Chad!

[@ruetistic]

like kurtis!

[@stilltrash]

5:17 Honestly, I sorta get her point. When it's just on paper, it doesn't feel as personal as it does when it's associated with this emotional and real child

[@portisthetortoise3239]

'i know this is an old comment but ive been binging chad chad videos and im glad someone else followed what she was talking about! Even when the kid isnt in the video, you can still imagine what his face would look like if the dad insulted him to his face.

[@stilltrash]

@@portisthetortoise3239 Exactly! Glad someone else felt like this too

[@_hihi_0.0]

Well yes, but he has a face.

[@lovelycloudyskies]

It’s so bad that even the kid’s own mother said to her husband that it wasn’t funny when he ripped up his own son’s certificate. Hopefully they get a divorce and the mom gets custody of the kid.

[@soulgazer11]

"You can say whatever you want as long as it's sarcasm" is what he thinks, but what's closer to reality is "you can say whatever you want and always have some people believe you", which is why his videos are harmful. He might think that he's trolling but some people will see this and remember their own abusive childhood, and others will think it's an acceptable way to treat your child. Also, I certain that there is no positive effects on his son when he does this. What kind of person is he going to become? What kind of values and morals is he learning from this? He's being exploited for clout and ragebaiting. This is messed up.

[@putriislayy5803]

Ikr, my family is kinda toxic but still I remember some good memories when I was a child. I still remember my mum's word to my sister a long time ago...I still remember my mum beat me..I dont even remember for what reason. He is going to give his son trauma bc its internet, its large. He is never going to forget that

[@soulgazer11]

@@putriislayy5803 exactly. It's absolutely psychological abuse. It's all "a joke" until it's not. It's just come full circle.

[@putriislayy5803]

@@soulgazer11 I wonder if the son already hate his father, like seriously why do the father insult him for views? he is another example of bad parent

[@katzea.a7880]

@@putriislayy5803 That part: "I don't even remember for what reason" it's a piece of proof psychologist tend to use to disregard physical punishments on children, Alfred Adler on his book Understanding Life said something like this: "It's stupid to put your hands on your sons, the parents don't know what needs to be corrected and the children don't know why they're being punished" The entire text is a nice read and kinda the origin of things like superiority and inferiority complexes albeit he explains it a little bit different from what we understand

[@natashalawely2900]

yeah the scene in the car kind of triggered me. if i tell my dad i don't think his joke is funny or i don't want to talk, it becomes very passive aggressive and he becomes an aggressive driver.

[@bunnie6517]

I feel bad for the kid, like yes it's a "joke" but it's a little far... the kid might end up believing it and have a really effed up self esteem bc his dad jokes too rough. I know that if my dad did that I would be destroyed.

[@KikiKagePro]

I had a father who did this sort of thing. I wrote him off and now haven't spoken with him in almost 10 whole years.

[@bunnie6517]

@@KikiKagePro I'm so sorry he thought this was okay at all, I hope you're well

[@lemonwhxre]

My dad straight up bullied me my entire life like not even as a joke, he literally used to make me cry for fun and every time I've tried to interact with him he's just done the same shit. I learned at a really young age my father is not a worthwhile person with worthwhile opinions and I just don't care anymore.

[@scarfoxart9250]

Ok maybe I’m being over sensitive but like if it’s a joke, it’s actually insulting. Like my dad did this sh*t for real and it messed me up for years. This feels like someone is laughing at the destruction of my mental health and it hurts.

[@KikiKagePro]

As somebody who also had a dad who did that sort of bullshit, I'm sorry. I wish you the best.

[@aalexx22]

I'm sorry to hear that you had to go truh something like that. I hope you feel better now🤍

[@scarfoxart9250]

@@aalexx22 much better now, thank you ❤️ I cut him out of my life a few years ago and have been healing with a lovely support network ever since 🖤🖤

[@putriislayy5803]

Like seriously, I was a clown crackhead friend and I know what is joke and an insult. His son might hate him from now on..he just using his son for viewers and that is sad..

[@thesweetragicsync4151]

No, the people are insensitive. They don't care about respecting other people.

[@gordananikolic7993]

7:04 I watch horror movies and just the thought of that man telling that to his child unsettles me more than any murder scene I have seen.

[@pixiecardamon9256]

mans really cried over a "you suck"

[@NagitosWifeSpotty]

honestly i feel that but he was doin that shit for the clout so damn

[@nataleigh8377]

mans did that 😰

[@raveng8217]

Lmao hes probably the one who wrote the card tbh 😂

[@Vaxedia]

@@raveng8217 It's obvious

[@movedaccountscyayalls7119]

If the dad did cry, Good.

[@imexisting9734]

For the adults being all about the boyfriend/girlfriend thing. That has honestly caused me and my brother to be a bit secretive about our friends who are of the opposite sex because they would tease us to the point where we're uncomfortable or angered by it.

[@00captainduck00]

So relatable, I've always been having more male friends than female friends and my parents and even other family like aunts and stuff would start teasing me about that. From kindergarten until the end of elementary school they were continuously bugging me about this Greek friend I had to the point where I felt awkward ever even talking to him in class :/

[@fxiryjxmin155]

yep! still struggling with this and im literally moved out now living with my FIANCE

[@angelinacamacho8575]

Imagine sexualizing a platonic relationship between a boy a girl especially if the 2 are below the legal age limit.

[@JustKelso1993]

My parents did this, I just ignored it, ya'll are too soft.

[@aamateur-artist]

@@JustKelso1993You do realize not all parents are like your own right? They said in their comment that their parents got angry abt them having opposite gender friends, who knows what their parents anger translates to

[@honeymoon_006]

This could potentionaly traumatize the kid. These comments,whether they are jokes or not, could actually really harm his self image and make him feel like he's never good enough. He could be taking these comments personally and just not showing it. Someone calling you ugly or stupid is already harmful especially when it came from your parents. Someone whos suppose to love you no matter what. But I mean I don't live in that house so what do I know.

[@jooniperlynn]

I will never get over "Your mother was right. I should've married your brother" I'm going to randomly remember that 5 years from now and still be dumbfounded over the thought of a mother actually trying to talk a woman into marrying the other son for the woman's sanity xD

[@ladadee4829]

its like how my mom flexes to her friends that sometimes she doesn't feed me or give me only very few portions of food just so i could lose weight..and they laugh so just laugh with them 😀 like its not funny, it just hurts. i commented this and i accidentally deleted it LMFAOSJBDD to those who commented, yes i am okay! thank you for caring💕💕

[@angeljones965]

I hope you are almost old enough to just leave, thats disgusting that she brags about it too.

[@nataleigh8377]

i'm sorry you have to go through that. You don't deserve it.

[@GODSLITTLEMEOWMEOW]

When you are old enough just eat a bunch of high calorie food and gain a healthy 20 pounds just to spite her

[@ladadee4829]

@@angeljones965 sadly im not🙏 but as soon as i can i will hopefully

[@atmywhitson]

Jeez your mom needs therapy! I'm a mom of 3 and even though I'm definitely not a perfect person never in my life would I do something like that. Just think when you're old enough you can buy and eat whatever the frick you want. Meet up with her at McDonald's or chipotle and eat half the menu while chatting about how awesome your life is now.

[@senatorpalpabean2638]

The laundry one actually got me to chuckle- the way the kid smiled when the dad wasn't looking reminded me of my own childhood when I used to pretend to be completely inept at homework so that my dad would do it for me, lmaooo

[@NefariousSpineLizard]

Dude same, I think this is all way overblown.

[@fishbowlheretic]

i was looking for this comment!! i can understand how some of the other ones are unfunny or in poor taste, but the laundry one was such a classic! his little smile each time his dad looks away sells it!!

[@catsballs9657]

@@NefariousSpineLizard so you think emotional abuse and manipulation is totally fine?? youre a delusional piece of shit. never have kids.

[@catsballs9657]

@@fishbowlheretic aww abuse is so funny!1!!1

[@fishbowlheretic]

@@catsballs9657 did you even read my entire comment? apparently not. try again.

[@apexartnerd7238]

It’s a little concerning that it normalises the kind of abuse where the person hides behind the crutch of ‘I was kidding’ because it is a real thing that happens where a parent will verbally and emotionally abuse their child in real life but use the excuse of “we were joking around they’re being sensitive” I’m not saying he’s abusing his child I have no proof that he’s not just making content, but even if he is just making content it does normalise that kind of abuse and make it seem ok…

[@Blockoumi]

“Normalize” isn’t something he isn’t doing. The joke is that it’s bad. When he say’s it’s a joke, it means he doesn’t actually abuse his son and that they both scripted the scene and it’s all acting. The joke is that the dad is a bad father that’s a bit gullible and dumb and the kid is smart, trolls his father and finds witty ways to insult him

[@cloverbuns8800]

@@Blockoumi i think this the hundredth time I’ve seen you try to defend this guy

[@Blockoumi]

@@cloverbuns8800 go listen to the whole breakfast in america album by supertramp. btw, I would stop defending him if someone actually gave me a reason to. I'm not trusting anyone who accuses people of horrible crimes with literally no proof

[@FennekinBraixen]

(I know this is old but still) It's not even just parents. Kids will look at this and then go around insulting their friends just to hide behind the "It was a joke, dont be so sensitive" and the thing is: That is exactly what happened to me. My friends insulted me daily for years. Normally I would just laugh it off but it got to the point where I just couldnt ignore it and started doubting myself. That shit was part of the reason why I couldnt look in the mirror or take pictures of myself/let pictures of myself get taken for *years*. That shit made me have trust issues and think my friends didnt actually like me, which by the way. That shit is still playing a major part in my depression and anxiety. Literally the only issue I was able to fix is the mirror thing (Still have some problems with pictures but at least I dont avoid my friends and family anymore as soon as they start making pictures. Still kinda hurts tho that it made me avoid family pictures or hanging out with friends pictures from age 11 up until 16 years).

[@Izzy_jam]

@@Blockoumi a good reason is you shouldn’t use literal children who aren’t even old enough to have the app themselves as content

[@achluoph71]

2:30 i feel like this is how dogs are when they want you to throw a ball for them but don't actually want to give you said ball

[@valentinaiakovidou7594]

Speaking from a personal experience, it's an extremely hurtful situation for the poor kid. As a child growing up, I had a slow (compared to my classmates) maturing stage, so I'd be called "stupid", "useless", "naive" many many times by my class, teacher, friends, even my own family, despite my high academic achievements at that time. It was super traumatizing and damaged my self esteem and self worth for literal years that continue till today. During the ages of 13-14 I had a rapid mental change and now that I'm 15, I acquired a much more mature mind than some people my age. My mom is still verbally abusing me, and whenever I try to bring up this fact, she dismisses it by calling all those insults a "joke". One of my biggest insecurities in life is being considered stupid; because of these "jokes". If you're an adult who bullies and belittles their child, I really hope you choke on glass and have your custody taken tf away.💖

[@clev7989]

I feel this in my bones. I was and bad communicator, and made fun of for it. To this day when people tell me that they don't understand what I said, it gets to me, even if innocuous.

[@CursedCaptainGaming]

Same except my mom is nice to me, it’s mostly my peers that are like that to me

[@genderlesswhale2868]

First, I'm sorry for the things you've been through and I wish you the best life and best recovery. You deserved support and love and I'm sorry you didn't get it. And if you were really struggling, the response should have been more support for what you could accomplish, not less. (Also, I get told I'm mature for my age even now and I always say or think: "Thanks, it's the trauma". I wonder if you feel the same). I have a story about this. I'm autistic and went through something similar but different; I have a great memory and an abstract thought process so people always had high expectations of me, but because of my autism I find to really hard to set goals, self motivate and communicate to ask for help. Even as a small child I would be accused of being lazy or not trying my hardest. I still struggle with daily chores and have an unhealthy complex around being perfectly independent and Industrious despite chronic fatigue and mental health issues. I feel like a floating consciousness and my intelligence does not translate on a physical or social level- but if youre smart people expect you to be better all round. Anyway. My parents dealt with this by withdrawing all support so I'd 'toughen up' and calling me horrible things all the time. I lay in bed all day from age 10 because I was in so much emotional pain. I developed insomnia at 12 because my stress levels were so high. I have crippling social anxiety and still need help setting up and going to appointments. I wasn't born with the same mental structures as some but my parents didn't help me develop any tools either. My mother often belittled me and sometimes laughed at me for being so 'sensitive'. The kicker is that she's sensitive, and she endured terrible emotional abuse as well. I'm even more sensitive than her but because I'm worse at expressing myself (autism) no-one pulled their punches with me. My dad calls child protective services 'baby snatchers' and we always argue. "They should be with their family" He always says. I feel a lot of righteous fury about children in neglectful conditions especially. I'm pretty meek, as a result of being emotionally broken down at a young age, but I feel as you do. When others suffer I could kill. I still talk to my parents but I don't consider them my parents, really- In my head I consider them strange boomer 'friends' who give me free shit and have terrible takes on politics. Even this detached relationship hurts sometimes. I get dismissed a lot because my personality now is of an optimistic dreamer who tries to see the best of situations and people, whereas they are both incredible cynics distrusting of humanity. They have some awareness of how they've treated me but I have to accept that they will never understand the pain they caused me, and how much I've had to learn as an adult because 'tough love' was all I got as a child.

[@mawithaxdd]

Okay but the college professor thing at 6:17 is true. When you’re in college, professors can basically give you whatever grade they want. I took a history class where I failed most tests, or didn’t show up to them, and got Bs and Cs on the papers and homework, if I even turned them in. I was nice to the professor a few times and ended up getting an A. It was literally not possible with the grades I had. She gave me an A because I was nice. There’s no shame in being a teacher’s pet. Get that A.

[@L0rdOfThePies]

Exactly! Im not the best in my class but i know my teachers like me alot. Just.. Being rude to someone who's Just trying to teach you always seemed counterintuitive to me

[@idontreadorreply]

Perhaps in ur college. (Not even sure what college is, they don’t exist in my country. We have universities)

[@mawithaxdd]

@@idontreadorreply In the US, college is the same thing as university.

[@idontreadorreply]

@@mawithaxdd oohh

[@alissaschindler5782]

Not sure if they're actually German or just obsessed with German soccer shirts/ other shirts relating to Germany but we do not claim him at all. At this point he's just giving his son free trauma even if he claims 'iT's JuSt a JoKe'. This clownery is not the tea

[@slurmmackenzie5752]

look at the poster in the kids bedroom 8:52

[@fgw2262]

Not me actively looking for the "Germany obsession" comment hahahah

[@Ggyhhggtyyy]

Yh, im really worried about the nazi flag in that poster. Also the T-shirt the father wears at 10:53 to me is at least nationalistic I would not want to associate with these people

[@fgw2262]

@@Ggyhhggtyyy I'm pretty sure that's just a soccer shirt

[@sturmfrei5853]

@@fgw2262 It's not a soccer shirt. Not really nazi stuff but nothing a normal German would wear casually.

[@shakyhandsc4278]

7:12 the way he looks at the camera while saying all that really makes him seem like a psychopath if he isn’t one already

[@RepressedStress]

"45 year old ant" got me laughing for way much longer than needed😂

[@majl9585]

was looking for this comment

[@gregoryvn3]

"Why do straight people do this?" Ah, the eternal question of why everything is on fire and slow-motion crashing.

[@JustKelso1993]

As if gays or bis are any better.

[@skittlemuffin]

He’s just milking it because yeah, the son’s gonna be actually hating him soon when he becomes a teen

[@thephony1651]

The laundry one is actually pretty funny honestly. When his dad looks at him, he looks all sad, but when he looks away he smiles. The joke is that the kid is pretending not to know how to fold the laundry so his dad always ends up doing it for him.

[@kiliaduicaps]

The problem I personally have with this sort of videos is that no matter how much the father says it's fake, the kid isn't a fully developed adult who has matured the ability to understand jokes and could still take it seriously. It's risky territory and since I've been hurt by _friendships_ with this kind of dynamic I'd never want to have a "lovingly hateful" relationship with my kid.

[@Blockoumi]

DO YOU NOT KNOW WHAT FAKE MEANS? It means that it’s scripted. They write the script TOGETHER. The son also makes fun of the dad, trolls the dad and insults the dad too. It’s not a one way thing at all and they both know it’s a joke. His son probably isn’t even 11 considering that it’s a running gag he’s done throughout the years

[@kiliaduicaps]

@@Blockoumi dude. calm the fuck down. go back playing fortnite.

[@letterborneVods]

@@Blockoumi The way you’re in every comment thread defending this guy like it’s your secret channel is also a joke, by the way.

[@Blockoumi]

@@letterborneVods I know. I know chad chad is joking but I also don't understand the logic of this comment section

[@letterborneVods]

@@Blockoumi I think they’re pretty harsh (as someone who’s love language is also insults), but whatever, you can’t change people’s minds if they’re made up

[@user-pc2yh6oy7h]

I think the dad needs more therapy than his son lol

[@enjae7962]

Isn't this also gonna enable the kid to not actually respect the dad when he grows older... He's gonna stop calling him dad even...

[@maggiedk]

I hope the kid is able to do well in spite of his dad and leaves as soon as he turns 18

[@ramennootles4414]

The kid can start referring to him as "My 53 year old dad"

[@bananabed9492]

1:19 Eminem been real quiet since this banger dropped

[@Rosiiii556]

Need to replace dad with mom

[@Goober440]

3:57 So I am a guy, and my 2 best friends in the entire world are girls. When I was a kid I didn’t understand the concept that a boy, and girl can just be friends, because of crap like that. I thankfully got out of that dumbass mindset. That stuff is incredibly harmful, and people should be encouraged to make friends with whoever they want no matter gender, or anything else cause otherwise you could be keeping them away from some of the greatest people they’ll ever know.

[@thenetherbaddie9760]

glad you grew out of that toxic mindset! :)

[@idontreadorreply]

@@thenetherbaddie9760hi Greg!

[@mori4532]

2:26 I think that was a real award… it wasn’t just printer paper, it had a name on it, and the way the mom reacted tells me that this was probably the kid’s actual award

[@oioioioioi994]

Yeah, I didn't even think about that before. That makes it even worse. Makes it seem as if the dad cares more about these TikTok jokes than his son's actual life.

[@kkjlsmlkw]

I’m pretty sure it was, too. Around 2021 or something like that, he got an award for it, and the papers looked just like that. It’s awful that that was probably real.

[@Freshc0re]

Ah yes bullying your child *quality content*

[@joeysoftpaws]

your profile picture is godly

[@kiyo_is_an_emo6977]

Omg hey bestie🤭😃🤪 Your here too?😏🤭❤️🍷

[@zombie9680]

Oh hey my fav gachatuber👋

[@movedaccountscyayalls7119]

holy shit it's you wtf

[@Rocket_s_ship]

2:06 I’m so glad that I have really good parents like when I got the award for all As in elementary my parents said good job and that they are proud of me- I saw a guy that stitches kids talking about how trashy their parents are and he goes, “see this is not good parenting and a child should not have to go thru that *fist bumps chest and points at camera* do better”

[@h0lodm0966]

7:15 this guy speaks, acts, and looks like an edgy 8 year old on gacha life trying to prove they’re not scared of fnaf

[@_Who_Am_I]

Lmaooo

[@H341HER_D_K3]

As a 9 year old I am laughing at this as I am better then the one year old. Younger than me children

[@Anaea]

@@H341HER_D_K3 what

[@69420_ayo]

Who TF is scared of fnaf lmao

[@BloominFleury29]

@@69420_ayo i was

[@leix7]

I feel like it doesn't even matter how scripted this is; having your dad film himself acting like he hates you and posting it online has to do *something* to a kid. I can't imagine they have a meaningful relationship.

[@Kakepop_a]

I honestly like how you don’t reuse the same a twinge of cringe intro cause it leaves room for you to make it higher and higher and higher Edit: wow 48likes already and I commented this 9 mins ago! Thanks so much!!! ❤️ Wth 151!!

[@panda_oofies5877]

@star \\ a twinge of cringEEEeeeeeeeeee

[@nightmarefreddy0422]

The likes are because of your cursed Walter pfp

[@mimistardust3915]

Don't keep editing or you'll lose your heart from Chad Chad lol it's happened to me so many times 😩😭

[@Kakepop_a]

@@nightmarefreddy0422 honestly kinda figured lol

[@Kakepop_a]

@@mimistardust3915 yea I stopped at a certain time cause oof

[@manus3126]

thank you for pointing out how dumb it is when people say that pre-teen kids have a boyfriend/girlfriend. why on earth would they even think like that?? why do they think boys and girls cant just be friends????

[@Licec8486]

One day the father's going to end up being called in on and and they'll use this as evidence. Regardless if you're "joking" or not that child is a child and saying/doing those things can impact their life and future. Dude needs to stop.

[@indigovertigo2266]

I wasn't seeing any comments about this but literally, like that child is not developed enough to even understand why anyone would find these things funny let alone his own father. Whether he actually establishes with the child that everything is not of his actual opinion or not is not clear but i do not think that child will develop well in that toxic environment, cause bottom line it's just toxic and borderline emotional abuse to recite a "script" telling a developing child they are stupid over and over

[@elithec00lguy12]

Her ability to portray this character so well is proof that Chad Chad (not really) is secretly a dilf

[@movedaccountscyayalls7119]

BEHWHQHQJKEE

[@SutekhChroma]

She's one of those girls who has high levels of Dad energy.

[@poffydaisy5134]

7:52 I SPAT MY DRINK LMAOOOO

[@FynnLivesInTheVoid]

That dad’s explanation of love makes me glad I’m aroace.

[@czpop6347]

your outfit is so pretty!!!

[@sihwj3255]

4:49 this is genuinely worrying...

[@daydream304]

Literally was whining saying I miss chad chad. I need to watch her videos and you posted 😭

[@jdrico3782]

4:03 “My elevenyearoldSON”

[@UsagiRebL]

"He's a person and has a face" ChadChad I love your humor and that you make me feel more normal when trying to explain things (because I explain them just like this).

[@alinapolat7336]

as a german, i'm ashamed 😔 this man literally only wears germany jerseys

[@SlothsAreFunnyAndCreepyLooking]

Why does almost every “funny” parent Tiktok want to be DaddyOFive? It’s definitely not something anyone should do

[@DixieTsutsaeva]

This is my childhood. Only my dad was a preacher and his audience was the congregation and it was before social media. He always thought he was so funny but he did it in front of a boyfriend once when I was older and he was horrified by it. He was always a thousand times worse behind closed doors.