3 Things: Husband locked wife in closet, Husband wants to divorce over 🍑, Woman has a Pest

Redditor's husband locked her in closet. #advice #claustrophobia #claustrophobic #marriage #divorce
"AITAH for divorcing my wife because our sex life will never be what it used to be?" #aita #aitah #yta
"AITA for asking my ex- husband to split the cost of groceries."#aitah #aita #redittor #reddit #marriage #divorce #economy

[@phoebevanderhorst7760]

He committed a felony. False imprisonment. Send him to prison.

[@SunandSunflowers]

I hear many stories of lack of empathy for the mother once the baby is born. Not once did he speak on helping his wife with the baby smh.

[@Ombudsman-jg6mn]

🎯

[@ladosis5596]

I'd bet a months wages that her libido is shot because she's exhausted, her emotional tank is empty, he doesn't participate in parenting or housework, and he's a selfish lover. This woman is better off divorcing and buying a Rabbit ™.

[@masumi1990x]

Men should not "help" with their children. Men should parent them! But they want only the title "father" without doing much.

[@gabrieldaniels6191]

🙄 if she works outside the home she may need help, if not hell no!! I’m sure she has many excuses to avoid s•x 🙄

[@BigNoe-u7u]

I would've called the cops that's false imprisonment

[@giggles1219]

I was just about to comment the exact same thing then I opened the comments and your's was first 😊

[@helena3631]

Thie

[@brunoqnzbk7891]

​@giggles1219 I just did😂😂😂

[@continuousself-improvement1879]

Emotional abuse. Could get him on a case of DV.

[@lauratracey1405]

I would leave that creep immediately!!. I could never look at him as my husband ever. I absolutely hate men like that.

[@Peachyqueen23]

The husband from story"1 is a demon

[@sarahrobertson634]

They're all demons. Evil and rotten to the core.

[@jjohnsengraciesmom]

I wish she would have called the police and had him arrested.

[@MayDay-yn3bw]

Absolutely

[@studiosandi]

This is just one more reason why so many women are choosing to remain child free. While we still have that choice.

[@godpilled9077]

You always have the option to stay child free. Just don't have sex with them.

[@videofan1010]

They just don't care.

[@Emptytopfloor]

@@godpilled9077 there are still parts of the world where neither is a choice. Women get forced into marriage (sometimes very early), no law against marital gR…p and forced birth.

[@levtieart3409]

dont forget grape in general can leave you pregnant afgainst will and shamed by society and family and forced single mother or forced marriage to ur abuser @@Emptytopfloor

[@godpilled9077]

@@Emptytopfloor I'm sure that abortion isn't allowed either in those countries. So those women don't have a choice either way.

[@mistyvance4544]

Claustrophobia lady - She is in EXTREME danger. Call the cops and get out, and don't forget to divorce him. Keeping the pregnancy is your call of course, but I probably wouldn't. He would fight for custody and abuse the child.

[@joycejoy4119]

Maybe XY was trying to make her miss carry That’s pure Sadi££sm

[@helena3631]

He’s testing her boundaries and this can lead to the M word

[@dianaprince3176]

@@joycejoy4119this

[@JorgensZelda]

Or use the child to further abuse and manipulate her.

[@sarahrobertson634]

He's going to unalive her and her baby.

[@amazingfire707]

I agree with the husband that divorce is the best course of action. Let that poor woman go and get a better life without him. What a piece of work.

[@cloud9beauty]

Probably going to leave her mentally wounded and destitute. This doesn’t sound like someone who is willing to manage their financial expectations so they can pay child support. He’s gonna be a problem for the next 18, poor lady.

[@kjones8747]

Yes. It seemed like a quickie relationship and he didn’t care for her. Only what she could do for him.

[@JPanettieri]

So the guy in story 2 got a woman pregnant shortly after they began dating, immediately began pouting about the decrease in sex he was given, then pressured his newly postpartum wife for sex to the point that they needed counseling, and then he filed for divorce. Like, dude, just get a fleshlight if that's all you're here for, what a fucking monster.

[@rumooooni]

😢 is so sad so many women get abandoned/left because of that ALONE, like dude use youre hand or hello???? Think about your family/ love? My grandfather said that he "had no right" he can just study/ farm work do hobbies because if a man loves you he wouldnt punish/do something against you're will 😢

[@senorpapi3659]

He acts like he’s gonna get more after the divorce. He forgets that men have a way harder time than women getting sex.

[@starojunes]

And these types of men cry about just wanting to be touched lol. Their wives will touch them will hug them and kiss them but then they start trying to escalate it to sex every time. They don't get the physical touch doesn't always mean that sex is on the table. And then they wonder why their wives don't even want to hug them anymore.

[@manifest2203]

Yep. The husband doesn’t care about the child and doesn’t care about raising the child at all. It’s clear she is exhausted and lost attraction to him. I find most women are ok with doing everything at home befor the baby. But once the baby arrives, if they see the husband doesn’t do his share and it becomes even more difficult because the husband is also another dependent and acts like her ch1ld, she simply l0ses all attraction. Women aren’t s3xually attracted to their s0ns or ch1ldren (unlike a lot of m3n). This is why pregnancy and child birth 1s l1fe changing for a l0t of wom3n. She is better off being single than to stay with someone like this. A lot of women barely notice the change when the man l3aves and in fact find their workload has reduced and she can actually find time to reduce weight, have more time for herself and she can relax and then her libido comes back.

[@Katarina23]

He will have a rude awakening when it keeps happening to him because this is normal after child birth. What he wants is to screw around and get wife benefits. He'll learn the hard way as they always do

[@kimaparks2592]

Divorce over smex story… if the shoe were on the other foot they’d be begging her to understand. She’s post partum! This soon to be ex wife doesn’t realize the blessing she’s about to receive!

[@cloud9beauty]

Story 1: made me physically ill. He was LAUGHING?!?! She VOMITTED?!?! You know he didn’t apologize or clean it up. And he’s gonna bring it up to embarrass and control her. She gotta run TONIGHT. The streets sound safer 😢 Story 2: yikes. He bred and discarded her. I wonder what the age gap is, that’s some predatory bs. Story 3: Sometimes squatter rights can cause more issues. She’s really set up herself for a fight.

[@sally180]

RUN my ex started abuse as soon as I was pregnant 16weeks (latest for abortion in AUS)…… RUN RUN RUN Do not wait until baby arrives GTFO

[@TheePrincessBrat]

Evil. I know that happened with someone else. She said he didn’t hit or choke her until she was pregnant. She didn’t expect that because he said he grew up seeing that and didn’t want to become that.

[@just1desi]

I do not trust any man from an abusive home they always say they don't ever want to do that but men who grew up in toxic environments don't seem to know how to overcome it the way women do they're always evil in some form or fashion. And on the rare occasion when they are not despicable they're exhausting with all the allowances you're supposed to make for their trauma and not knowing any better

[@cerisecitron2451]

@@TheePrincessBrat I feel like that's what they all say, yet they do nothing to actually address their traumatic childhood

[@TheePrincessBrat]

@@cerisecitron2451 💯💯 and become defensive if you suggest they do

[@dorino9057]

What is AUS

[@OGfromQueens]

My ex husband locked me in the house 6 months post partum from having twins and our other son was 2 years old and he BEAT ME FOR HOURS. He was in the military and I had gotten out. We had one of those front doors where you lock the second lock with a key. He took the key out after his friends left and accused me of being too friendly because I asked ppl did they want something else to eat or drink😐 I ran to the front door and my heart sank when I seen he took the key out the second lock. I hid my car keys after he broke my phone when I tried to call the cops. He choked me til I passed out and I came to to him saying Aint nothing wrong with you! I locked myself in a bathroom with a bat and he broke down the door. I hit him in the head with the bat and ran to the garage door and left my babies to find safety. I still feel guilt about that til this day, but he had never hurt the kids, just me. I went to his friends house a couple blocks away and they called the cops for me. I was so ashamed and battered. I had a black eye, burst blood vessels in my eye, a swollen nose, a sore neck and several bruises all over my body. I drove 3 hours way to my cousin's houe and when she opened her door at 7 am she just started crying and hugged me. No words were exchanged at that time. I will NEVER put myself in that position again!!!

[@BurbNBougie]

Oh my gawd 😳 what happened to him? How are you

[@BurbNBougie]

Did he go to jail? How old are the kids now

[@OGfromQueens]

@@BurbNBougie The kids are 18 and 16 year old twins. I'm just fine thanks for asking.

[@OGfromQueens]

@@BurbNBougie he did not go to jail. We lived on post and it is up to your command how you are punished. Since his 1SG and CDR were both woman beaters all he got was 2 weeks extra duty and his rank taken to cover their a$$ in case he k¡lled me. I did get a no contact order. But NO he did not go to jail.

[@p.8837]

My goodness. I’m so sorry, and so glad you survived.

[@hippie1252]

If someone is finding joy in your suffering, they're officially not your problem anymore. Let them go to the old man mojo dojo casa house.

[@mizzmolly7649]

Is that all men care about? S3x? I'm so glad I decided when I was in my 20s to remain single and childfree.

[@fantym1633]

Yes. There are a lot of men who will choose a good bed worker over a good cook, when it comes down to that - coz prepared entrees & such

[@DorothyZJ]

​@@fantym1633 men can cook for themselves...

[@MayDay-yn3bw]

I think they actually care more about having a human punching bag that he can take out his frustrations on.

[@thelastshallbefirst6036]

Story one, he hates you and working on your demise in

[@Ms_Introvert_4_Life]

That 1st husband is cruel That 2nd one with the sex - y'all can have these men. I have a low drive and these stories make me love my low sex drive even more 😂😂😂

[@mistyvance4544]

Facts! I ready don't need seggs even if I live to 120 years old.

[@SuperGlue4321]

I am trying to mould my brain to not like them at all, just girls. I am sure I’ll manage to do it if I try hard enough. 😅

[@Ms_Introvert_4_Life]

@@SuperGlue4321 good luck on that one. 😁😁 I've been a lesbian all my life.

[@silververnallbells191]

@@SuperGlue4321 I'm bi, so maybe I can help? Just view pictures of your girl crush. Like Rihanna or someone. She's one of my celebrity crushes along w/Lizzo & C.GEANE (check out her song Berrie Girls) .. Margot Robbie's not bad to look at either, but mostly I stick to bw & mixed woman which is funny cuz irl bw won't give me the time of day as far as romance goes, but ww come up to me cuz they think I'm exotic & hot so ALL my ex girlfriends have been yt LMAO

[@lucindabreeding]

Sex education in our country is terrible. Someone needs to let teenage boys know that the first three years of a a child's life marks a time of intense relationship dissatisfaction and self-dissatisfaction for enormous numbers of women. There was a swedish study about the impact of parenthood on relationship satisfaction, and if I recall correctly, the first 3 years of each child's life significantly decreased mother's sense of their relationships and themselves . I'm also consistently shocked at how often men seem to just not care that fatigue is a libido killer for most women. When you have a child in diapers, usually moms are living with sleep deprivation that would kill a mortal man.

[@adarateranroldan]

I agree that sex ed focuses too much on mechanics. It needs to go over what healthy relationships look like, how to date safely, male and female fertility timelines …

[@unicorn73212]

Except disclude the fertility time lines because women are not cattle they need to know there's a light at the end of the tunnel and it's motel 6 get yourself a key, get on some birth control and choose yourself thats what they means by choosing better I know it pisses the younger crowd off when they see the options that women really have out there for them but teaching them how to make babies is not a healthy option sense men are not capable of loving women and they never will be there only capable of pretending to love women. If they had better options for women and they actually cared about there children and his wife's health and safety it would be different they hide behind these traditional lifestyles to make it seem like there good fathers that care about their families. But everyone knows that's not in there true nature. Having a wife and kids makes them look less crazy that's why they push for it. If it didn't make them look crazy to be single it would be different they would probably live in the woods.

[@TheePrincessBrat]

I’ve heard that too. I wonder how much of that is because it usually falls on the woman to do the child rearing. Where is the energy to be all romantic? Does he still try to make her feel attractive and valued?

[@smfarrie2943]

There is a Reddit Thread of women being pressured to have SMX well before 6 weeks post partum guideline. One woman tore her stitches and had to see her doctor. I can only imagine the lifelong impact that will have physically let alone emotionally. L&D Nurses were on the thread sharing stories of being called into the new mothers room to walking in to find the partners on top of the woman. Very concerning that the moms are pressing call buttons to get the man off of them as it clearly demonstrates they’re being assaulted. A lot of Men see women as sex objects and maids. Zero empathy if they’re in pain, tired, sick. That logic Might also explain the high divorce rate when women get sick with cancer.

[@DJRenee]

That's why when you come from the hospital let that fucker do work. Also a baby room with a BED is best. Don't you dare get up with the baby. They need to know what it's like from DAY ONE.

[@justbeingnosy1644]

Story #2, I wonder how he would feel if he developed prostate issues and couldn’t perform and his wife behaved exactly as he did. Or would he expect her to be sympathetic, citing bible verses about in sickness and in health.

[@Nope.54321]

Or when he EVENTUALLY has ED.... 😂😂😂

[@dday3322]

And how she doesn’t need to have sexual! Hypocrites!

[@KangwithoutaKangdom]

Women will continue to suffer due to their empathy for everyone but themselves and often their kids at the expect of having a HUTTHHHBAANNNDDD

[@pierceblazer]

Vetting and choosing better is not choosing men at all. They all believe they're great men snd that there is a surplus of amazing men put here. When these stories are shared, and very much so MORE common than not, they go on to attempt to separate themselves from the "bad group" of men. These are their brothers, friends, cousins, fathers and THEM. They try to convince women that they're from the small good batch while telling women that it's her fault she chose wrong when there's more insufficient men available than sufficient ones.

[@KangwithoutaKangdom]

Exactly. MOST men are not good people

[@EmyN]

This 👏

[@katherines144]

This!!! And that's what we are doing

[@dday3322]

🔥🔥🔥

[@candyKane117i]

All of this 🔥🔥

[@thereasajohnson5540]

The story about the woman locked in the closet was sick. Divorce him.

[@sawyerharris3721]

Y’all notice how #2 seemed kinda hung up on the gender of his therapists? The way he talked about them, he might as well have been saying the male therapist was a “bro” and half the female therapist’s issue was being a woman. Maybe it’s just me.

[@rejectionisprotection4448]

It's not just you.

[@jacquellesconiers7961]

The first situation sounds as if he might even be trying to provide a stress-induced miscarriage. That's freaking crazy.

[@sweetsarah226]

My ex husband locked me in a closet once during a fight when I tried to leave and go to my mom's house. I'm not claustrophobic, but I swear I had some kind of primal breakdown in there. I went feral. I screamed and clawed and banged on the door. When he finally let me out, I lost my voice for a week and a half after

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

Laughing hysterically while he abused and traumatized her! He's not a safe person. He DID hurt her AND the baby!!! That's grounds for divorce!

[@kat6569]

The first story reminds me of a incident that happened to me when I was 11 or 12 years old. My sister’s abusive ex-boyfriend who at the time was in his late twenties, locked me in the bathroom of their room and wouldn’t let me out. He was laughing maniacally while I was crying and begging him to let me out. Afterwards, he baited me and opened a little the door and when I tried to leave, he sprayed my face with something and pushed the door back. My eyes were burning and I had to go to the sink to wash my face. That mf continued to laugh and just opened the door and left. And the worst part is that when I told my sister she said she would talk to him and that was it. In my case, that person had always done things that were borderline abusive under the guise of pranks and jokes. Even when he threw an object at my sister during an argument in front of my parents, they still didn’t think he was a bad person. I genuinely hope the first woman leaves him. Don’t try to solve it or go to “marriage counseling”. He isn’t a good person if he’s hurting you and doesn’t see a problem with it. He knows you have claustrophobia and he still proceeded to do it. LEAVE HIM. Stop excusing the inexcusable. You aren’t dramatic for feeling pain and hurt when the person who supposedly loves you, hurts you. If he didn’t want to hurt you, he wouldn’t have done it. It’s so messed up that women have been socialized to accept any amount of pain caused to them for a man and his supposed “love”. It’s sick.

[@_Ridethemaverick]

Woman #3. You’re struggling to pay bills but you’re not even charging this man $300 a month AND you’re cooking for him. I just……. I don’t understand.😢

[@unicorn73212]

Because some people are incompetent that's why it would be different if she had other options, or family or friends to take her in til she gets on her feet my ex hasn't been the same sense his mom passed some of them start to develop dementia when they get older and you wind up having to pay for stuff that they broke too the only difference is I didn't stay with my ex I just had the landlord reduce his rent so I could move out early it is an option but you will still be in debt to these people until they find a nursing home for them to go to or something life was never really fair to women so I do know why some of them stay too either the boyfriend is connected to some sort of street gang and they won't let you leave or you will wind up living in a hotel just so you can sleep at night. If you totally isolate yourself from someone like this and cut them off 100 percent they might come after you or get you fired from your job for checking up on you. It's a form of blackmail.

[@dianaprince3176]

“At LeAsT i GoT a MaN, ThO!”

[@nothereyetlost]

That’s what brainwash does yo. You literally become lame version of yourself

[@truckin_babe]

She has doormat syndrome. Just let him walk all over her.

[@OO9O9]

She's certified doormat

[@tspencer661]

I’m in the middle of listening to the first story. She needs to leave her husband IMMEDIATELY! He is dangerous.

[@formerlyknownas123]

Watch the hemotionals, and BROFLAKES start complaining about women encouraging other women to leave.

[@etam1616]

If I was newly pregnant and locked in a closet by my husband, I wouldn't be pregnant for long.

[@Diana734]

Guy from first story is a psycho...she is not safe. Guy in the second story probably does not help with the child...and his wife is TIRED/healing! Third lady...your ex is not your responsibility TF!🤬

[@ongoingsky9347]

That’s absolutely abuse. And while pregnant no less?? Sickening.

[@dugongsdoitbetter]

Story#2 !!!! My eyes are about to pop out of my head!!!!!!! He's giving MORE than he's getting back??? Because he's the one that gave birth and is the primary caregiver?? Nahhh.

[@Emptytopfloor]

9 years difference - 1st 🚩

[@TheePrincessBrat]

But whenever people say that large age gaps are a huge red flag, that need to be taken more seriously, people get so mad and push back

[@dianaprince3176]

@@TheePrincessBratWho cares? They’ll get over it. Or not. Doesn’t really matter

[@TheePrincessBrat]

@@dianaprince3176 yeah I know. I keep pointing it out anyway. But the issue is that it plants seeds of doubt in girls minds that those “other women” were the exception to the rule. They don’t realize it’s the reverse. Positive age gap relationships, where the partner is a young woman, are the exception.

[@EmyN]

Yeah, sorry not sorry, age gaps are usually shit

[@jupiterthree5228]

Notice how the guy divorcing his wife never once mentioned his kid? Does he even want his kid? If I was her, I would give him the kid and bounce.

[@just.R.A.]

This got me HEATED! Dude that locked his wife in a closet would have suffered stiffer consequences than just a divorce. And the loser ex that moved back in with his ex-wife! Omg what a mess!

[@DJRenee]

Playing with me, he'd be sleeping with both eyes open.

[@TashaSewingTutorials]

File kidnapping charges on the husband who locked wife in closet

[@meowy4720]

As i was listening to the second story, all i could think of was "i bet the baby is a girl"". Men are much more likely to abandon female children, but they continue to play the victim

[@cierrajohnson1006]

#2 i had a surprised Pikachu face for this reading. Im in literal shock, divorce because not enough sex after pregnancy is wild.

[@anabelsama]

If I was in the position of the first one, even if I wanted children, I would have an abortion if I was able to, I wouldn't want to be tie to that man

[@jsChelimo]

😆 why do nem always feel like the therapist is against them? They are not accustomed to compromise or accountability.

[@CharlieApples]

Just the female therapist who’s telling him that his wife’s feelings matter 😑

[@manifest2203]

Story 1: she should leave. Her husband locking her up and laughing isn’t ok. A phobia is no joke. Story 2: the husband doesn’t care about the child and doesn’t care about raising the child at all. It’s clear she is exhausted and lost attraction to him. I find most women are ok with doing everything at home befor the baby. But once the baby arrives, if they see the husband doesn’t do his share and it becomes even more difficult because the husband is also another dependent and acts like her ch1ld, she simply l0ses all attraction. Women aren’t s3xually attracted to their s0ns or ch1ldren (unlike a lot of m3n). This is why pregnancy and child birth 1s l1fe changing for a l0t of wom3n. She is better off being single than to stay with someone like this. A lot of women barely notice the change when the man l3aves and in fact find their workload has reduced and she can actually find time to reduce weight, have more time for herself and she can relax and then her libido comes back. Story 3: having a good heart is no longer the wonderful thing it used to be. Learn to say no. Have a good heart for yourself first.

[@ayingi3461]

That first husband is evil, she better run.

[@FireSilver25]

OMFG I’m so glad I never had much of a maternal instinct!!!! Staying CF has saved me from getting trapped several times. My heart goes out to these ladies. 😢

[@inprogress5210]

1st story: I hope she leaves that diabolical man. Also I bet he was the one who called her over dramatic. She isn't being dramatic, he attacked a pregnant woman and didn't want the confrontation that would come afterwards. He's an abuser and a coward. 2nd story: He's the AH. He can go and kick rocks. Story 3: Ex husband is pest looking to nest. I'm glad she's evicting him from her place so she can regain her peace.

[@cb9825]

that husband from story 1 is sadistic 😱 wtf! Also was the pregnancy really an accident or did he somehow organize it? 🙄

[@LvUhcX]

It’s good the 2nd guy divorced her if that’s all he wants, often true selves come out …

[@lydiamoon5235]

Story 3: Sooo, the ex was facing eviction and possible homelessness? And? Let him ask his family, his friends, acquaintances, or Social Services for help. I don't understand why women are constantly donning the cape to rescue grown men. Isn't he supposed to be a grown man? Let him figure it out. The ex-wife has no place being all up in that grown man's business. Women need to stop this nonsense.

[@ccv_ca_cm]

The first husband. Cruel. Unsafe with him. Scared for her.

[@lilaclotus4103]

I have a phobia and if my “significant” other intentionally forced me into a situation pushing my phobia on me I would FLIP. I WOULD SPAZ. I would black out on him. I would have to hurt him. Omg I feel so bad for her. He’s crazy! Both of them will be better off without him.

[@kekejefferson9219]

Rule of thumb, don't tell your partner your 🍆 history, your past struggles, your fears. Only tell your license counselor. A man that loves you won't intentionally hurt you. She could have deleted and lose the baby. This is classic narc timing while pregnant. Move. Divorce.

[@nature95]

Story 2 - He's not an AH, he is The POS. Divorce is best for her.

[@amyyaku5022]

S2: Why is this such a hard concept? If you're a Richard to your wife, don't expect to put your lil Richard in her 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@dday3322]

❤❤❤

[@Gumbier_Than]

I like your verbiage and avatar! 🤘🏾

[@CharlieApples]

The second guy’s male therapist sounds like he’s destroyed many, many relationships in his career.

[@ayingi3461]

That second husband is not helping her parent or around the house.

[@beeha8133]

The first story made me cry. After I shed a few tears, I’m thinking “Smasmortion” because he’s only gonna get worse and she’s still early enough to leave and start over from scratch. That story really broke my heart .

[@EagerMarshmallows]

Story one: i feel sick hearing that. He will move on to other and more insidious ways to harm her. He may unalive her intentionally or unintentionally because her body shuts down. A phobia is not the same as being uncomfortable. A phobia causes strong bolidy reactions 😢😮

[@dr_ltorres8289]

She also could have, while in a panic, choked on her vomit & died. This happens

[@Sunny-tc3ul]

1st story: I’m trying to figure why she still calling him husband and not ex husband. That’s not how you play. She could have hyperventilated and passed out or away from a heart attack. Edit: She’s pregnant? I pray she gets out because she could have miscarried and with Roe vs Wade, she won’t get any help till it’s too late.

[@NottyAries]

S2: this happened to me. I have a very healthy sex drive but after kids that changed. It went away. Years later it came back. I agree, people don't talk about how a woman's body and hormones can change her.

[@tiffmoore8831]

I would not have my ex husband living back with me post divorce -- bub you are on your own, we have not attachment or connection.

[@brunoqnzbk7891]

That's false imprisonment. Press criminal charges!!!

[@80soa]

For story 2: give this man the kid. Go to court, talk about how you are in a bad situation mentally and economically and can't take care of the kid, let him have the kid. Use that time to find yourself. Women need to learn to give these men the kids and go live life.

[@bmay282]

he'll abuse the kid tho..

[@Katarina23]

I just want to add that we should tell women to stop telling these men about our fears, past traumas because they will use it against you at some point

[@katherines144]

Yeah, I get that but why even be in a relationship with someone you can't be vulnerable with? I say just leave them alone altogether

[@SA-ey6nt]

Thinking we should test them.. Say something small, even if untrue.. Wait and watch

[@rejectionisprotection4448]

​@@SA-ey6ntThe "Blood In The Water" test.

[@Indyghurl]

Omg. Getting locked in a small space, my ex did this to me too knowing full well that it terrified me. I tried so hard over the years not to get into that situation or to pretend that it didn't phase me when i did. Your husband is a monster, end of story

[@incisivecommenter5974]

Hope thr claustrophobia lady got out. What a psycho that guy.

[@Egg_Apron]

#1 wanted to feed on her terror

[@PaperMario64]

that poor lady. I can relate to her phobia. That would've made me never feel safe in parts of my own house.

[@katherines144]

Unfortunately I think that was the point of him doing that. He is a fkn monster. That poor woman 😢

[@RaspberryHugs]

S2: Wow it's shocking that a closed off person who doesn't know how to talk about their emotions vibes with the therapist who never gets past the surface of a problem and immediately suggests divorce instead of working on his empathy and understanding. huge surprise

[@DJRenee]

Keep your OWN HOME. Never welcome him in. If he or his family has bad 🧬, definitely no kids. Keep your distance. They all lie anyway.

[@dianaprince3176]

Get a divorce lawyer and file a TRO against him immediately

[@DJRenee]

Start acting crazy. Like when he locked in that closet she should have started laughing and saying OH MY GOD I LOVE IT IN HERE! GOT TO OUT CRAZY THE CRAZY

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

While I was pregnant and after I had our first baby our smegs life changed... He pretty much just stopped trying to be good in bed! He treated it like something I owed him, but didn't care if I even enjoyed myself. That's no kinda life!

[@lolabigcups7121]

2nd story: If women left men bc the sex is unsatisfactory, the same men who are suppoting this man, would be calling her every thing but a child of God.

[@NobodyImporttant]

I hope the woman from story 1 stays safe if or when she (hopefully) divorces him. Things will escalate. The man in story 2 is a pig. Like people pointed out, he never mentioned his child, his “legacy”. This man most likely will not bother to be involved in his child’s life.

[@creativelife9871]

ALL of these men are Legions. Smh

[@mikochild2]

The sex life only changed because of the baby he wanted to have with her... If sex was so important, they should not have had kids. When she meets the next man who she will obviously be having sex with, her ex-husband will be so jealous, wondering why she couldn't do that for him. She could have. You just messed it up.

[@jenndesharnais6101]

Tell him to pay half of everything or get out! Only a man would expect his x wife to keep taking care of him. He's just going to take advantage...get him out!!!

[@roninboxers]

What is it with men being cruel and thinking it is hilarious? That claustrophobia story makes me want to cry.

[@snippetx1632]

Im getting tired of women having kids and men complaining about how it changes their sex life. Ladies, start telling him he needs to pay a surrogate if he wants kids. If you want them, then prepare for him to leave you as there is no way for you to keep up your sex life for a couple years during this time, possibly longer.

[@fantym1633]

A surrogate for the actual process & a nanny, @ *least* 1/2 time (8 - 12 hrs/day) til school age.

[@OO9O9]

I'm getting tired of women marrying their own oppressor

[@toscadonna]

Wife #1 - Get out whilst you’re still alive and able to do so, and consider very hard whether you want to be chained by a baby to this man for the rest of your life. Wife #2 - Divorce him and give him primary custody of the child whilst you visit every other weekend and pay child support. Then let’s see how much xes drive he has. Wife #3 - You’re a sweetheart, but your heart is a traitor to your well being. Get rid of this leech. Find a real roommate who will split the bills, utilities, groceries, and cleaning with you equitably.

[@queenla227]

If you all could see my face after the part about him laughing at his wife crying. I’d HAVE to leave because I’d be in prison. Dudes like this will turn you into an unaliver.

[@Agaettis]

Thank you soooo much for these as always... My father was like the guy in the first story, he would purposefully scare me and put me in situations where I til this day have PTSD (chasing me with a mask and costume on) He always said he was helping me, but really he just got his giddies by torturing me. Parents got divorced when I was about 10 and I read parts of "why does he do that" at a very young age. When I got older I was with a guy for a long time who changed when we moved overseas and i had no support and he thought no money (I saved enough to come home). It was scary how long he kept up a certain persona. Sometimes I get extremely lonely and think I'd want to start dating again, I watch your videos to keep me sane 🤭

[@callmechichi1711]

As for story #1…please divorce him ASAP!

[@fathimamohideen1917]

Ist story. Get a divorce. Or youll end up dead.

[@EagerMarshmallows]

Second story: i have two theories. I wonder if the woman therapist was trying to get them dicorced for the womans sake. And the man therapist trying to get him divorced on some r3d pill stuff. Other theory: Neither therapist actually said/did any of those things. This guy probably just twisted the therapist words for his own gain 🙄🙄🙄

[@lacheregriffin-denton9946]

He basically lied to her the last situation because if he was having trouble with his landlord all he had to do was open up a escrow account and they would not have been able to evict him. And the courts would have held the money into the landlord did what he was supposed to do! So the fact that he did not go through the proper procedure and just decided that he was not going to pay. Should have been a one and enough for her not to deal with his tail at all! Besides the fact she should know him by now, she was married to him!

[@fburnsDubstepEnderFox]

I would be waiting for him to sleep and I would get my go bag (money, documents, car keys, etc.) and I would be calling a safe friend or family member as I pull out the driveway. No exceptions and no I'm not judging her at all. This is absolutely horrible and despicable. 😢

[@ccv_ca_cm]

I wouldn’t want to be in a sexually unsatisfying relationship either and she deserves a partner that can accept that she’s not so into it anymore. If he doesn’t leave he’s going to cheat if he hasn’t already. Divorce is best but he could be less cold about it.

[@OO9O9]

he's deranged. She's lost her sex drive due to birthing his child, they had sex life before he trapped her with pregnancy and now due to the side effect that she's suffering, he no longer wants to continue the marriage. How is this not appalling? I thought marriage was in sickness and health. But for males its not the case I guess. And pickmes are sympathising with him instead of the poor mother who's suffering the side effect of motherhood.

[@neisci]

They need to work on it together as a married couple. He's a jerk. People get sick, disabled which you impact their libido. Is it their fault?

[@sylviaj270]

The lady that let her ex-husband stay in the spare bedroom should have required him to buy his own food, prepare it and clean up after himself.

[@ky9933]

That age gap is disgusting.

[@OO9O9]

Exactly

[@jaeshasway]

1:55 After pulling something like that, he would come home to an empty house cleaned out of everything in the not too distant future.

[@iamshakuri]

Jesus like fighting for a relationship with my wife and baby is just not a good enough goal. He barely brought up the baby.. That lets you know he isn’t doing anything to help

[@maybesoormaybenot1586]

I have claustrophobic feet. I can’t stand for my feet to be confined (think wrapped in a blanket vs loosely covered by a blanket). My husband laughs about it (I laugh about it too because it’s weird) but he would never confine my feet.

[@PaperMario64]

#2 this dude is a grown child. I don't normally wish bad things on folks but I hope he finds his perfect schmextual match and suddenly loses the ability to rise to the occasion for like six months. As for the wife, I hope she meets a man that truly loves her and cares fir her and every night is a honeymoon.

[@gensai93]

He wants it to be resolved in 2 days, lol

[@ADR-xn6dg]

My ex was addicted to sex and porn. His uncontrolled diabetes was his downfall. NOW he understands expectations since he has to do extra to actually have encounters

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

Some men act like smegs is as important as life itself! And I get it to a point! Because who doesn't like smegs.... When it's good? If it's so necessary to LIVE.... why not try being better at it?

[@candyKane117i]

@@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066they have hands though. No one is entitled to another person’s body

[@Muggins1046]

In some places if he moves back in without a tenancy agreement in place, he can claim reconciliation and get another shot at the house especially if she’s cooking for him and doing wifey things

[@lolaWWEWWFpunk]

I would also feel violated. This is so scary.

[@TheePrincessBrat]

I have left people because the bedroom action just wasn’t giving what it should have. But I guess the huge difference is that they talked like we were super compatible, then totally switched up. I let them know how gross they are and cut them off. HOWEVER, those people were not my spouse. You’d think that man would have more empathy for his wife and the mother of his child. He’s clearly very self-centered. Pressuring and sulking has never made any woman *desire* sex more. I’m sure he knows but doesn’t care. If anything, he probably wants to leave and that’s his out (excuse). I feel for the wife. I wonder if her home even feels like a safe place to her.

[@88Roshan]

I feel like husband in story 2 should get full custody 😏😏 good sis deserves to heal her mind body and spirit

[@DJRenee]

Most men hate women and don't know what love is........ don't center your life on this bullshit. LOVE YOU COMPLETELY. BE HEALED COMPLETELY. ONLY PROTECTION I KNOW.

[@tadams827]

Story:2 Yes TAH Yes Divorce is the solution for her. 😮 Husband is delusional.