Discover Your Personal Style with This Unique 3-Step Method (Fashion Over 40) *Game-Changing*

[@dawnkidd1567]

Erin I love this path you've taken. I grew up with a abusive mother and absent father. When I married my husband wasn't very demonstrative and could seem cold. I had no self esteem and this year I turn 58 and have decided to find Me. I lost 25 lbs last year and have been searching for the colirs,fashion and makeup that makes me happy. I have decided to start a KZbin channel so that others out there with Lupus,Fibromyalgia and other issues will realize that we're still worthwhile people no matter our age. I am constantly told I look 40 and when I pick out clothing or makeup many times I find myself reassuring myself that it is OK to wear because I look younger,LOL. The problem is I belive everyone should wear what they like and that most styles are wonderful on all ages except my little voice comes out telling me "But not for you." I think a lot of women do that to themselves and it's a shame ,so thank you for this help and sincere caring you are showing all of us with this addition to your channel

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are not alone... It's time to re-frame our thinking on what we "can/should" wear. SO glad you are here! xo

[@peggywickman8800]

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[@rhondaisler1882]

no inentions, thanks for the comments about feelings, thats a small game changer ❤

[@suzanneburleson8843]

Hi Erin- Love the inside-out method of dressing with intention. I have practiced this for years. If you haven’t read “Style Statement” by Danielle LaPorte, it proposes a method to deeply refine your individual style expression into two words. Mine are Sacred Sensual. So every new purchase or outfit is run through my inner filter to discern its alignment with my statement. It’s funny, I even use this with something as challenging as being true to my style in scrubs! I’m a 46yr old graduate student of Speech Language Pathology and spent an inordinate amount of time to pick scrub silhouettes/materials that still somehow feel sensual and feminine. On days off, I LOVE to wear exotic prints, faux leather and fur, etc. My growth edge is to feel worthy of investing in genuine designer pieces rather than knock-offs b/c my former career was in non-profit with limited compensation so I became a pro bargain hunter. I’m gonna start with purchasing the actual Charlotte Tilbury Pillow Talk set instead of an imitation. I’m sure even this small act will help me manifest a future job that provides greater abundance. Love observing you evolve in your process of self discovery and healing as you share it with us!!!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Love to hear about how you approach style, Suzanne! Even in your scrubs. That is great. You should love what you're wearing and you have found a way to do that in every area of life. I also love how you've added feeling worthy of investing in designer items that you love too! That took me many years to feel worthy of. xo

[@mikaelamorganartist]

I love this video. I struggled at first to think of a time I felt really beautiful and then I remembered standing in front of a mirror 21 years ago trying my wedding dress on to show my mum who I lost 7 years later. I had a short pixie haircut and she told me I looked like an elf princess. I never forgot her sweet comment. It was a rare time where I felt beautiful, elegant, regal, a bit ethereal but also just a little bit cheeky and mischievous and sweet…. Like a fairy! 😂 I’m now 50 so I’m closer to fairy godmother age 👀 but I will remember her words and how I felt and now that I’m separated from my husband and starting a new life alone I’m going to embrace making myself feel that way again. Thanks Erin 😊❤

[@BusbeeStyle]

What a beautiful memory, Mikaela. Thank you so much for sharing that with me here...Wishing you the best on your current journey to feeling this way again! You deserve it. xo

[@westernnut8407]

You have skillfully managed to combine fashion with the stunning work of Dr. Emoto. Epic!

[@nancyg.3536]

I listened to this when it first came out. I WAS driving in my car, so I didn’t do the journaling, but I knew exactly which photo, and every detail of that occasion. I changed my hair color back to a similar tone, I started wearing more eyelashes, and certain jewelry and it’s been amazing! I get the comment, “You always look so cute!” from my friends. That’s because I feel that every day we are alive is a day worth celebrating. There are no days where we want to feel “meh”, so we should never dress “meh”. And that includes those days when you need to wear sweats or work clothes. They can be cute, too! This can be life-changing! We are worth the effort. 😊

[@BusbeeStyle]

Wow! That's AMAZING, Nancy! I am so glad you shared this with me! xo

[@caronreck295]

As a life coach I know the power of visualization. Thoroughly enjoyed this video. Well done!

[@margat-h2173]

Wow Erin, this is getting better and better! This approach to personal style makes total sense, it is empowering and full filling. You have manifested an idea that has spoken to me subconsciously forever, and I didn't realize it until now. My intentions are to express my feelings and emotions through my clothes by selecting special things in my closet to reflect them, and by being more curated/special about my purchases. You are speaking to my soul Erin. 💕

[@stickman1215]

I keep rewatching this - sometimes just listening as I’m on my morning walk. The first time, I was not able to think of a single time when I felt amazing. At the age of 61, that is just sad. 😢 I’ve been paying more attention to how clothes make me feel and I’m starting to understand why I’ve been buying things that I end up not wearing - they don’t make me feel good because they are not “me”! Two weeks ago, I bought some tall, stiletto cowboy boots - in red. 😍 Paired them with some distressed skinny jeans and a simple black top with a crazy sleeve and felt amazing. My boyfriend did a double take but I DID NOT CARE (because you prepared me for comments from loved ones!). I want to feel like this every day!

[@eugeniasnyder8845]

Late to the party, but what a great exercise. I’m going to write this up and put it on my closet door,”Will this outfit help me feel amazing today?” Thank you so much!

[@UNREDACTEDTRUTH]

OH MY GOSH! That Brown Leather Jacket at 13:02!!!! Is that a Balmain?? I NEED that JACKET!!!!!!!

[@Mateo-z5q4i]

You are absolutely Bella inside and out ! Yes, you are right!! I only use the things that make me happy 💕😃

[@dawnlondin3973]

such an insightful video love Erin

[@mercedeskerr720]

Kind, gentle, funny, joyful, special, harmonious and elegant. Confortable, flows, texture, definitely bold lipstick when in the mood. Love the topic today

[@jackiebazylewicz9584]

Thank you for this!💖 You are so inspiring to me! You've helped me get out of the, "I don't deserve this" and "I don't deserve to feel this good" mentality. Being a mom of three teenagers, my life is opening back up with some time again. I'm excited that your channel is a guide to explore and have fun with style and setting intentions. I was in an incredible rut when I found you and you have been such a positive influence in my life. Just wanted you to know I'm grateful for you.💖

[@BusbeeStyle]

I'm honored to be even a small part of your journey, Jackie. I am so excited for YOU that you now have the time and energy you need to prioritize and care for yourself again. Thank you for sharing, and for being a part of this amazing community! xo

[@lameroux]

I love the direction your channel is heading. I need this in my life ❤

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you so much for saying that. I really appreciate your support! xo

[@mikki3961]

Erin, this made me cry. My special outfit: I had just had my son, so I'm bloated, I'm nursing, I am sore and tired. He was two weeks old and I had an event with my hubs. Black tie. AND I had to leave my baby with my MIL....lol I wore my hair up, done professionally, bold lip and a sapphire blue gown. That dress was so out of my norm, it was so beautiful and I felt like a queen. I wasn't a wife, a daughter or a mom, I was ME. THANK YOU, for allowing me to remember that night in all its glorious detail.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Love to hear about your special outfit!! Thanks so much for sharing! xo

[@dianemacdougall319]

This was very good and empowering suggestions. I’m away on VACA celebrating my anniversary w my husband. I have a beautiful white dress which looks great in me which I will wear to dinner tonight and remember you saying to dress for myself to feel wonderful. I wore it recently and got a ton of compliments but I need to get used to feeling I “should” get compliments! (I know-crazy) the attention is a bit of the struggle for me. Thank you Erin!

[@nanzilla3000]

Hey Miss Erin! I watched this twice through while I washed dishes because it is SO GOOD. Now that my hands aren’t busy I’m going to go play it again and do the exercises. This is EXACTLY what I need right now. I am struggling to find my identity again because I’ve been a stay-at-home mom for 7.5 years now. I feel like I should be able to do this and still dress with intention, I’ve just let so much self-care slip away. The bit about our bodies being dressed in clothes we don’t like and the water inside of us reacting poorly, really spoke to me. I remember that experiment and it never occurred to me to apply it to my body and what I put on it. Thank you for all your insight and kindness. We are in the same place I think, I also want to stop saying “have to” to myself when it concerns self-care. My best friend and I have decided this is the year to be gentle with ourselves and to be as kind to ourselves as we are to everyone else. Same with my sister, she and I will go above and beyond for other people but never put that same energy into ourselves and we spoke the other day about making this the time we treat ourselves as well as we treat others. Thank you for your videos, you are SO very helpful!!! I’ll be back with intentions :)

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you SO much for sharing that with me... I'm honored to hear how much you enjoyed this video! xo

[@natalieglock9575]

Thank you I’m going to stop worrying about dressing for my age (menopause anxiety) and take your advice an dress for me, I’m also going to get my hair sorted out xxx you always look amazing by the way x

[@sombrerosmom]

I’ve enjoyed this video most of all of yours. You’ve got a look that I feel like I want a little piece of and I feel like I figured it out. I’m not overly frilly or a girlie girl per se, but I like being comfortable in my skin. And I see that in you. You totally pull off the blush tulle gown and that just wouldn’t ever be me. But now I feel like I understand a little better what “me” is (when it comes to fashion).

[@theclotheserinsews]

Yes! I’ve been focusing on how I feel when getting dressed for about a year, and I just want everyone around me to know how impactful it has been on my mood and overall well-being. I love to wear black and white with a pop of color, and THAT is my style. I am going to reorganize my closet and put all of my black and white garments together, and all of my favorite colors together. This will help me to see the gaps in my wardrobe so I know what to add. You’re killing it lately with your videos lately, Erin! ❤

[@i1pink-Survivor]

Thank you for giving us something to REALLY consider in our daily lives. Prior to the world’s experience with C-19, I got up and dressed for work. However, now my life is in a “work-from-home” situation where I don’t put the effort into dressing because no one sees me. But!!!! I’m now gonna make a conscience effort for ME!! ❤😘

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thanks for sharing! You deserve to dress for YOU! xo

[@novapill]

Pamela, I agree. Thank you for sharing. My intention is to re-start the ‘camera-on’ readiness for my work-from-home circumstance. No more hiding behind the easy ‘camera-off’.

[@lizsmith3717]

I recently made my album in Pinterest, I have that picture of me hanging in my kitchen and it’s of me and my mom in Paris! I’m a solid color girl too and Winter White is my favorite! Thanks again❤

[@lisamcculloh9584]

I love this video! Finally someone is showing those of us who are fashion-challenged simple fashion techniques to find our own style! I’m going to make the list of feelings I had during my beautiful experience, condense them so I can look at them frequently, go to Pinterest and save outfits I like and pull out the things I love in my closet. I’m going to make daily plans and try to build an outfit that elicits the feeling I had on my special day. I’m looking forward to the process!

[@BusbeeStyle]

SO glad this was helpful for you, Lisa! Thanks so much for being a part of this amazing community. xo

[@nancygurr4200]

Thank you Erin! I so appreciate your videos. In my previous life I used to be fashionable and I showed up for life and work everyday. Then I became a Mom. I got super busy juggling kids, pets, a husband, in-laws, a yard, a house and activities for my family. I didn’t even consider me. I got my hair done and I have a uniform of black pants and some top and beautiful coats. That’s it. So this year is for me-not selfishly just intensional and only you and who ever reads this will know. I am going to sign up for your course as I own a lot of clothes but have nothing to wear. I am rekindling my creative side and going to put outfits together so that I am not always last on the list when we head out the door. I am starting with a more colorful lip-no longer trying to be invisible. And then tomorrow is my nails. Thank you so much. Even though I don’t know you, I understand your spirit and I am so grateful.

[@BusbeeStyle]

I am so glad you are here, Nancy! It is time to become a priority again! You deserve this time. Thank you so much for sharing! xo

[@jessw6617]

Good for you Nancy... bet your bold lip said confidence today and your nails tomorrow will tie everything together x

[@danalaborde1525]

Great video. As a 64 year old,its hard to keep this going. I truly believe this,but when retired, there's not much reason for doing all this. However, I have done much of that thru the years. I have a private Pinterest board, I only wear a bold lip, I have made a note section in my phone of what you talked about. I love dressing up ,but,I'm also a jeans girl ! My color is red as well as black, blue and fuschia. I love lace,silk, cashmere ,and velvets. I like a little shimmer as well. I don't like loud prints as well, mostly solids. I have a Mardi Gras Ball coming up with a garnet red velvet dress, can't wait! Plan on taking pics!

[@RoseTheOver70MakeupArtist]

That was one of the most sincerest things I think you could have done for other women , I am 74-year-old widow and I thought back at pictures of myself in my mind ,when I was young and beautiful, and my husband thought I looked sexy, it was black with a slit on the side, but I can't wear things like that now because of my age, I want to be more cheerful, I have depression, and health problems, watching death of my husband and my entire family and losing our home and everything just wore me down, but I want to be like I used to be, and feel more attractive so I do wear makeup for myself, and I found now dressing very womanly makes me feel so much better in my heart and soul, God bless you for bringing this up for me, and all women of all ages, especially mature women! God bless you that was a wonderful help to women to think like we used to! when we were young or if we're young to bring it out! Thank you again xoxo Rose 🌹❤️

[@jacquelineparks257]

I also love that you are putting more personal stuff out there. It validates the rest of us that are not as visible as you are. Thanks! Also, thanks for these well thought through steps. I never thought of focusing on how colors make me feel and how I want to feel. Brilliant.

[@BusbeeStyle]

I'm so glad this was helpful for you, Jacqueline! xo

[@OrangeVilla]

I saved this video to my “this matters” folder so I can easily find it. My intention is to stop being lazy when it comes to getting dressed bc my body deserves to look and feel great everyday. Stop saving things for special occasions. Someday is today. Why not wear something that raises my vibration and helps me to attract more abundance? Thanks for a great video!

[@barbarareeves8754]

It's actually amazing. I did exactly that in November. Decided to clean my wardrobe and keep only clothes that I'm excited to wear, clothes that makes me happy. I also started to take pictures of myself everyday to catalogue and see what I'm actually wearing and how it that looks on me. I discovered, with shock actually, that the colours that look the best on me are not the colours I thought was "mine". I always thought I'm "autumn" and locked my self in greens, browns... but from the pictures I found out that I'm actually look much better and Happier in pink, blue and cream, and every time I'm wearing those colours I'm feeling great and have lots of compliments, so totally right here! It works! Thank you so much for your videos and hard work, your enthusiasm is contagious 😊 ❤️ Thank you 😊

[@BusbeeStyle]

Closet editing is SUCH a powerful tool for your life. Thank you for sharing your own journey! xo

[@MereMarc]

I EFFING LOVE THIS♥️♥️♥️ This resonates with my heart, soul and fashion passion. You just articulated how I feel about fashion. That no one else understands. YOU ERIN is officially my NO.1 Fashion Inspiration🤍🤍🤍 PINK is also my favourite happy and safe colour💖💖💖 Thank you!!! Xo Meredith Marcos (Sydney Australia)

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are SO sweet, Meredith! SO glad this resonated with you! xo

[@clairwilliams4093]

I think this is the best fashion video I have ever seen. It shows how much work you have done on yourself and I want to thank you for being brave enough to share it. I especially love how you explain your previous approach and why you have changed it.. without apologising for it. I have a definite action plan to take away from this.... texture, loose (but styled) hair, feminine, original. Just one question please.. Please can you explain how this raises vibration?

[@jnantel13]

Hi Erin ! Thank you for this video, it awakened something in me especially when you asked us to do the visualization exercise. It brought me to tears because I vividly remember it and how I felt. I wrote everything down and I went right to my wardrobe and I'm curating it to what I wrote. Again thank you this is what I needed today. Bisous.

[@BusbeeStyle]

You're so welcome! Thank you so much for sharing this with me. I'm humbled by your words and the impact that my video has had on you. Sending light and love your way... xo

[@aidahimawan]

Omg erin….that water crystal theory ❄️💦is so true!!! Thank u for the wonderful video🌹😍

[@dananichols5260]

Why did this bring tears to my eyes?! And compression in my chest from emotions. To think of oneself in such a way can be a challenge and struggle. You, precious Erin, are teaching us to research, dive deep and honor ourselves. I thank you.

[@katydid203]

Great video! I'm going to stop hiding and blending in. I'm going to be true to my style . I'm going to adorn myself with clothing that pleases me, not the masses.

[@christinecade8206]

This was EYE OPENING for me!!!! Thank you so much Erin........ I used to dress sexy and I grew out of it because I became a mom and I just felt that it was over for me. At first I still wanted to feel the way sexy clothes made me feel (I always thought it was about seduction) BUT...... with your exercice, I realized that I want to feel EMPOWERED! Straight hair pulled back, subtle smokey eye, black clothes, skirts and dresses with straight lines... Yes I felt sexy and I thought it was just that but noooooooo!!! It's all about power for me! WHAT!!??? Hahahah! Thanks to you, I can now look for that in my clothes. I don't say I cannot look sexy because I'm a mom, let's be clear on that... But on a day to day basis, for me at least, I think it's easier to pull off a powerful vibe than a sexy vibe when you are... at the grocery store! ;) So thank you, I finally understand what I was looking for all those years. (decades!) :)

[@BusbeeStyle]

Wow, Christine! I am SO glad this process was to eye opening for you! Thanks for sharing that with me! xo

[@catherinegloria7266]

Love this! I love feeling pulled together meaning styling what ever I'm wearing from head to toe. Not just throwing on what ever due to lack of thought and time.

[@conniebaxter5139]

Thank you, really validating! So brave of you to do things differently….admirable. I believe that what we wear is such an expression of ourselves and love hearing your similar thoughts about that. I loved revisiting how I felt years ago at a conference….nice way to connect with those great feelings….mine are powerful, attractive and interesting…ya, I want to feel like that more often! All the best! ❤

[@journeyofsimplicitywithmay2978]

I’m very thankfully for ur video today Because I’m trying to coming out for my comfort zone U super right,, I’m going to try new things and share it with u// Was ready to cry at some point!!

[@joh4647]

LOVE THIS VIDEO ERIN!!! Thank you!! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@jeanettekays1954]

My husband prefers me in button up, stiff shirts. I never feel right in them. I feel better in soft, glowing fabrics. Turns out I am a romantic. Now my feelings make sense. Thank you for bring psychology into the elements of style.

[@samanthabarron8481]

For me it is a sensory thing. I don’t mind a button-up shirt if it is in a soft and moving fabric. These tops are moderately feminine but not over the top, which really resonates with me (and doesn’t make me feel like I’m suffocating lol)

[@yifatjovani333]

In the past my husband was commended when I used to come back from shopping because the colors are too bright, but that's what makes me happy and beautiful, and I just realized that I can't dress for him or anyone else just to please others which I did a few times in the past but I felt weird and not myself. I encourage you to wear things that make you feel beautiful as it will make you feel more confident and empowered! We need to realize that we are exactly as we are!

[@happygoluckystar8069]

Please talk openly to your husband. You can tell him: „ babe, I know you love me no matter what I wear. I also know you like me wearing shirts. Therefore, I am happy to dress for you twice a week, Just FOR YOU, because honestly I do feel good in them. So during rest of week I will dress for myslef as I need to feel good in my style. This is important to me”. Similar conversation worked very well for me 😉😉 good luck Jeanette! And enjoy your romantic style! 😘

[@joannmannarino8898]

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[@jericlarke3809]

I enjoy how authentic you are

[@millymay0025]

This is fascinating and one of the most useful style vlogs I’ve heard! Thank you for giving us so much to think about and inspiration!❤

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome! I'm SO glad this was helpful for you... Thanks for watching! xo

[@BuyLessJess]

I work from home and fell into the style rut of pajamas all day. I will organize my closet so that my soft wool, alpaca and cotton sweaters are front and center so that I wear them more.

[@linpearson5272]

You've done it again. What a great session. I was amazed that i had to go back to the Prom to feel myself completely happy with my whole look. I have had brautiful clothes for different events n my life; my hair & make-up done so I felt wonderful; but going back to the dinner dance decades ago was a shocker. It's time to pull out clothes i love & wear them with intention of feeling like all's right in me & my world today. Thank you I needed a reminder of being my best & most comfortable self today. I am definitely worth it.

[@BusbeeStyle]

I am so glad this served as a reminder of how worthy you are! xo

[@feliciasafunnygirl2256]

Love this video! I live and work in a small town. My personal style is typically bold and bright beautiful colors that represent my indigenous side. Needless to say, I stick out. Other women can be especially unkind. I have some great friends that are super strong women that can handle my personality and my style. I just turned 50 and decided not to dye my hair anymore. SO I found a method that will help conceal the demarcation really well. I realized after finding who I am in therapy how much courage it takes to be who you are. You have to learn to blow off hateful comments and allow yourself to feel good because, dammit, we deserve it! I wish for all women that we continue to have the courage to be ourselves on the inside and outside. 💃💎

[@jillybean55]

Many thanks Erin! Just echoing others here - I’m going to coordinate my favorite pieces and add different accessories for variety - I like that it’s ‘okay’ to wear them on a regular basis and not feel like I need to wear something completely different every day - awesome! 🎉❤

[@kimmiebowlinjg]

Loved this video! I’m going to look through my current Pinterest boards and see if I can find a common thread. I’ve been pinning looks for years. Thanks for the idea!

[@juliemeyers8715]

This video was fabulous!! You're helping get out of my "I don't care or deserve to look could" mood. I've gained weight but been trying to hide for years. You are starting to make me care again at 63 years old. Thank you

[@BusbeeStyle]

You deserve to feel your best today, Julie! xo

[@GailIvey]

Awesome video, Erin! My intention is to lose weight so that I can get back into all the clothes that made me feel great before the pandemic. I started losing the weight at the first of the year, and I've already lost about 10 pounds, with about 15 to go. Can't wait to get back into my deep aqua lace gown that made me feel so confident and beautiful!

[@janetjaken1389]

My plan is to put my favorite colors front and center in my closet and wear them! I will not allow myself to feel dowdy anymore. Thank you, Erin.🌸💖

[@joannemainella70]

Thanks for your positivity and empowerment, Erin. You've parlayed your career, which was seemingly external and public (from what you've shared, ) into something more personal and service oriented. We are the beneficiaries. You and your family are lovely. Your demeanor is calm, supportive and courageous. You have the total package, but retain humility along with a much needed honesty and "come on now, step it up" and" find your own strength" vibe, kind of like a benovlent ,yet demanding mentor. I appreciate how you connect fashion and self- esteem. Though your style is stunning and aspirational, it is different from mine here in NH, but you make that seem okay! I'm not a glam girl; I've got more of an East coast traditional-yet hip -aesthetic. Still, I find myself tuning into your You Tube tutorials. Thanks! Best to you from NH! Jo

[@marthaadams9269]

This video really spoke to me. Thank you for this eye-opening new approach, I spent money on a professional color matching consultation about 2 years ago, none of the colors make/made me feel good. But I kept buying those colors since they were supposed to be my colors, ugh. Never again. From here forward, only clothes that feel good. I intend to create a Pinterest board filled with clothes that make me feel like a rock star, strong, tailored, powerful, smart, loved, confident & elegant; I also intend to edit the clothes in my wardrobe that make me feel none of those things!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thanks so much for sharing your own experience, Martha! SO glad you've decided to wear those things that you LOVE! xo

[@lillywhite8166]

I live in a town where it's normal to occasionally see people wearing pajamas and dressing gowns to the shops. One time there was a 6ft man in a one-zee pajama with pink bunny rabbits. So, your channel gives me hope!

[@djtomlinson3797]

Thank you, Erin! I watched every video in the link you shared. I purchased hangers, motion sensor closet lighting, (already had rolling rack) and followed all your steps to edit / organize. Your advice was extremely helpful and inspiring! You said it would take 2 days to complete. It took 2 WEEKS! HaHa. Not a small task, but so worth it. It's fun now "shopping" from my own personal boutique! I appreciate you and thank you so much for sharing your expertise with us all!

[@BusbeeStyle]

I am SO glad to hear it was helpful for you! Yes, it can be a big task...but definitely worth it! Thanks so much for sharing... xo

[@jammiemathewstang6671]

Hi Erin, firstly thank you. The visualization exercise was difficult because I am unable to recall those moments. It dawns on me that I have been existing and not living and loving my life all this while.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Now is the perfect time to change that narrative! Sending light and love your way on this journey. xo

[@wilandilaubscher9030]

Love this Erin and you are always such a good example to other women. We need to understand that women have to look out for one another - but we tend to unfortunately do the opposite. As I get older, I have loads of changes and one of these are "perspectives" I have, are changing. About me, other people, the world etc. So thanks for this, I am going to implement this for sure. Lots of love💌

[@annegannon2993]

Thank you so much Erin! I have made my Pinterest board and discovered I had a lot of the pieces in my wardrobe already but wasn't pulling the overall outfit together.

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome! SO glad this exercise was helpful for you, Anne! xo

[@glam815]

Love this advice and exercise. I’ve stopped wearing clothes I don’t like and only those I gravitate for since I started following you and I have felt so happy since.

[@kimgurley472]

Love everything about this concept!!! 💗💗💗

[@rachelmaxwell5953]

Love this approach!! 💕 My intention going forward is to prioritise ME, focus on feeling good about ME and enjoy dressing, decorating and pampering ME! (From someone who's really not been in the habit of this and is on the way up from rock bottom.)

[@jamievaduva1708]

This more intuitive approach (as opposed to just physical and visual) is really awesome! Thank you for sharing. It’s interesting because I would say I lean to a boho style , favorite color to wear is green, but in my visualization, I was wearing a long, black maxi dress. I felt amazing that day and when I see the photo of it, with me holding my toddler son (who is now 11) I felt so beautiful.

[@BusbeeStyle]

So interesting! That is exactly why I don't feel good putting myself into only one or two categories. Thanks so much for sharing, Jamie. xo

[@lisarosewright1602]

Wow! This was my all time favorite video of yours. Such beautiful and uplifting words and concepts. I am loving your content lately. It was always great but you are stepping into a whole new vibe and I am here for it Erin! My intention, after seeing this, is to go into my newly organized closet and really work on putting new outfits together without buying anything new. I’m going to expand my mind a little more. I really want to meet you one day in person. You are truly an inspiration and you are lighting it up girl! Thank you for being here.

[@marcelladominguez8787]

When I was very young, I remember I had a full skirt that would flare out when I would twirl around in it and I loved the feeling of twirling which is why later in my twenties I bought a beautiful tulle skirt that had that same flowy feel but I hardly wore it then because I gained weight and now I want to find another skirt or dress like it. Also, I have been working on editing my closet to keeping only items I feel good in. What I want to evoke is that feeling of light and airy. Cool and breezy. Love the inspiration in this video

[@edithbisson6245]

Thank you❤ my intention is to revise my wardrobe and remove clutter. Only keeping what brings me joy or that I feel and look good in. Select my favorite pieces and replace my favorites/essentials that are old by having a person remaking it for me in a confortable fabric.🎉

[@martinedeecee]

THIS, this!! Woman! My favorite of your videos. Thank you so much. I will attempt a pinterest especially for me, and dedicate it to you Erin. xo

[@kat_thefruitbat]

You are so creative, and I love the way you think 😊 This approach is so intuitive and universally accessible 🤗 I like the idea of putting your favorite pieces in a special section of your closet- I’m going to do this! ❤️

[@giedredunn6715]

Hi Erin! Loved the video! I live in the rural foothills near Lake Tahoe. Nobody cares about fashion and styles here... I try not to get discouraged by weird looks and sometimes even not so kind comments about my love for fashion, pink, and red color and my short blonde pixie cut. Do I sometimes feel out of place? Sure.. but older I get less I care what people think. Also, with my husband battling 4 stage cancer last few years dressing and pulling myself together makes me stronger..

[@BusbeeStyle]

I’m so incredibly sorry about your husband. Sending strength and love to you both! And, I understand living in a place where no one dresses up. The only think you can count on is that people will make comments or look, but that’s part of taking risks! It’s not for them. It’s for you. 🥰

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so strong. What an important role you in right now, helping your husband. I'm so glad fashion can help you feel a bit stronger during this time. Keep wearing all of the things that help YOU feel amazing! xo

[@melaniemcneil407]

I feel most powerful and joyful when I am active -- hiking, weightlifting, working out. They aren't great fashion moments! But this does help me frame better, how do I want to feel today? And what can I do to feel that way. Useful exercise especially when broadened to more areas of life. Thanks.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Definitely works with many areas of life! Thanks for sharing, Melanie! xo

[@michelleneuman579]

This is a terrific topic for a New Year!!!

[@erinorourke1372]

My intention is too feel free, and put together. Since I work from home and workout twice each day (yoga and walking) I’m going to figure out how I can be zoom ready and look this way in athleisure. My safe and happy color is dark green. I love this video so much. Thank you ♥️

[@dobinsonfamily3146]

Hi Erin, I’ve been watching your videos for years and this one has resonated with me the most by far. Thank you for continuing to share your knowledge, gifts and advice 🫶

[@BusbeeStyle]

Wow, thank you so much for saying that! SO glad this resonates with you. xo

[@KristaHarrisSB]

Wonderful video, so inspiring and I am taking many ideas from this… one is to put my favorite pieces front and center in my closet. I just realized that not everything has to be carefully sorted by type and color, which ends up burying some of your favorite pieces. I really like your idea of putting the focus on the things that you love and make you feel good. Why not have that visual reminder every time you look at your clothes and decide what to wear? Thanks so much!

[@trishhunt4085]

Hi Erin, your last two videos have hit me hard - in a good way - as you have made me do a lot of self-reflection. A plethora of suppressed emotions has bubbled its way to the surface. Your channel was brought into my life at a crucial time and I am so thankful to be a part of your community of followers. I have A LOT of work to do to get to a place of self-love, but one thing I can do is create a Pinterest board. Baby steps are still steps in the right direction. Thank you 🫶🏻🙏🏻❤️.

[@BusbeeStyle]

I am honored to have you here in this amazing community, Trish! SO glad my content has been helpful for you right when you needed it the most. Sending light and love... xo

[@madeleine83]

Going thru my closet gathering my favs

[@jenniferbastolla1197]

I love this! I did a new year's purge of my closet and have decided anything new I bring to it must meet the criteria you have outlined. I think this will have a huge impact on what ends up in my closet and how I feel everyday.

[@elizabethsmolens2752]

I am probably older (68) than a lot of your followers, I loved this video. I have been doing some "dressing with intention" over the past several months my jaw dropped while watching this. I am going to take this further and start to really look at what I have that I love to wear and how it makes me feel. Thanks for sharing.

[@BusbeeStyle]

I'm so glad this video resonates with you! Thanks so much for watching and for being a part of this amazing community! xo

[@tracygray7574]

Thank you for this video! It really helped me look at myself and realize I can look and feel fantastic every single day and keep that memory to use in every day life! Pink, blues, and neutrals are some of my favorite colors and I always feel fantastic when I wear each of them!

[@marianamsn]

Spectacular!!!!!!!!

[@cdavham]

Wow! I just …wow. 😮

[@EnneagramEcho]

You are a TREASURE! 💝 Thank you so much for the wisdom, inspiration and common sense❣My intention with regard to my fashion style is to have it reflect my authentic character, expression, inner beauty, mood, and energy✨... and these bring me feelings of comfort and empowerment!

[@12cowwoman]

Erin, thank you for this video 😘 It reminded me, that I am on the right track and simply need to put my wardrobe to the next level - so here are the things I am going to do for myself & my style in 2023: 1. buy less "oh, this looks fun, let's buy it!" which then gets donated a few weeks later as I am not wearing it because it's not really my style 🤣 2. invest in a nice coat 3. finally buy a decent pair of brown ankle boots 4. finding a great pair of black knee-high boots, that actually fit 5. buying a pair of black skinny or skinnier jeans, that don't have me looking like a sausage 🙈 6. and wear my favorite clothes more often and stop worrying that they might wear out - they eventially will, but it's because I thoroughly enjoyed them until then... 😍

[@12cowwoman]

...and then you have to realize, that some things just aren't "your style" 🙄 Tried on a few wool coats today, different styles but always the colors that I love - they looked good on the hanger, but just not on me! 😩 There are other things that look so much better on me, like my oversized denim jacket thar's mid-thigh..., so Iguess it's a sign of maturity and maybe already knowing my style, if I can let the idea of me in a long coat go... 😁

[@sueburke4372]

Thank you so much for this video. You are so right-the only person you need to please is you!

[@reneevanveen7280]

Thank you Erin ❤ thank you!

[@sylvieboudreault4966]

Your videos and posts in the last few months have been so much more informative and inspiring. It's really helpful in achieving greater self acceptance and confidence. 😀

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you so much for your support! SO glad you are here! xo

[@7777ddddssss]

Erin, Simply loving the new types of messages on your channel! Powerful! I'm going to wear less makeup and try to show my skin and not hide behind it. Sending Love, Diane

[@ancatoma37]

Congratulations for this video, Erin, and for all your work! And thank you! ❤️

[@loristromski1334]

I'm 57 and my memories are closely connected to outfits. I have the fushia ankle socks and black lace gloves I wore on the first date with my husband in 1984! I love that you swore (probably because I swear like a sailor) after loosing both my beloved parents one year apart I have decided that " Chuck" those who don't get me because I wasn't created to be invisible like so many people are. I'm renewing my wedding vows next to a river in August it'll be 35 years and I plan on using your inspiration to manifest a look that I will look back on in the future and glow from within reminiscing about.

[@marionvilkaitis1515]

I am loving the direction you are heading. I am in the group that can't think of a special moment, garment, time etc. I will follow your recommendation to create a pin board and start there. My struggle is that I would love to be able to wear heels because I love that look. Alas, I can't wear heels without excruciating pain due to a bony change in my foot. So I feel this influences my style outcomes as opposed to my style choices. I guess I just need to find peace with my situation and create a new style. Love your work. Xx

[@BusbeeStyle]

You have to find what works for you right now... Give yourself grace as you discover exactly what that means to you. xo

[@sarathatcher3349]

I love your videos that relate to therapy and emotional wellness. Thanks!

[@mojsharhappy]

Hi Erin, I really like it when you explore and extend fashion into happiness. I believe we look good when we feel good and we feel good when we look good.... we go back and forth.....So love the idea of dressing to feel what we want to feel! my commitment: create a vision fashion board

[@lulululu4444]

This video is so helpful!!! I'm 25 and I often wear "not my favorite" clothes but I really enjoy feminine pieces , soft fabrics and PINK ..😀🤩 pink and purple make me feel myself And I just have to add that you are a brave woman because it does take courage to be your true self , to feel the way you really want

[@sharonmckeown2742]

All these comments are wonderful - there are lots of Fantastic people involved here I love this latest video I don’t experiment with lipstick or makeup I go to work without any on but I’m going to try. I want to reflect how I want to feel my intention will be to try some makeup tomorrow and a smidge of lipstick thank Erin 😊

[@1960genius]

HI Erin! I have always enjoyed your videos and the information you share on your channel. Your recent videos and information you've shared REALLY speak to me! I'm so grateful for you!! Thank you❣

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are SO welcome! I'm honored to have you here in this amazing community. Truly appreciate your support. xo

[@robinniksa2174]

Spot on, Erin. Good video

[@SunFlower-xp6hw]

I always knew you were highly intelligent and all these videos you have done on finding your true self are totally amazing! You are such a blessing and inspire me with every one of your videos.Bravo for sharing with all of us.❤😊👍

[@gospelrecordingartiststyli3848]

Great video, Erin! 💖

[@noushiggharibian2899]

Hi Erin!! Thank you for sharing this video..I love colors..My favorite is blue and green..when I wear these colors makes me happy ..but I like the pink 💗 on you..looks amazing