Byron Katie and grief expert, David Kessler do "The Work" on grief

Byron Katie who is known for "The Work" and the four questions works with grief expert, David Kessler on his own Byron Katie has been bringing The Work to millions of people for more than thirty years. Her books include the bestselling Loving What Is now in a revised edition, I Need Your Love-Is That True?, A Thousand Names for Joy, and A Mind at Home with Itself. For more information, visit thework.com.
For more grief support please visit:
www.Tenderheartssupport.com - David's online grief group with over 25 different groups and 4 live zooms a week to choose from
www.GriefEducator.com - David's certificate program for counselors, coaches and others who want to turn their pain into purpose.
www.Grief.com
www.AboutGrief.com
www.griefsuicide.com - 3 part series of death by suicide

[@sunriseschubert4391]

Losing my beloved mother unexpectedly has been the most painful loss of my life. 💔😢😔

[@jadetolbert1320]

Really want this to help me with the tragic loss of my 26 yr old son in Aug. Her work has helped me for many years but I'm stumbling with this one only because I don't want to accept it, and I feel so much guilt.

[@Aceofcups111]

I understand. Sending you love.

[@mmbshaffer]

As a bereaved parent, I agree with you. I so wanted this to be helpful. Wishing you peace.

[@douglasmaddy3812]

I'm sorry to learn of your loss... If you wish to contiune trying the work on this subject.. maybe try another thought to question... for example... "I don't want to accept it"... try the work process on that statement... Hope this is helpful... Wish you all the best ❤

[@Eam1213]

This helped me tremendously, thank you ❤️. I lost my oldest child, David Lee, just this past summer to a very traumatic vehicle accident. I feel kind of afraid to stop thinking about him and at the same time I know I need to be present for my 4 other children. In my heart I know he lives on with the Lord and within all of our hearts. I have to get past wanting his physical self here. This session has helped me tremendously. I am so thankful for him and my time here on earth with him. I know we will reunite one day♥️♥️

[@danerose575]

❤‍🩹

[@domcrockett2197]

David you are so brave. I know your son is proud of you.

[@healingwisdomarts]

my heart hurts so much I cant breath

[@BelieveAndLive668]

Sometimes for a second, years later I still think "I can't wait to tell this person" but then I remember they are gone

[@BelieveAndLive668]

My person died but 1000 people came or sent cards. Anyone who impacted that many lives, in death is inspiring

[@AmyOes70]

This is an amazing gift today thank you 2024

[@Sebastiaan75]

Two heavy weights in their own field... what a joy... thank you for posting... 🙏

[@gardenbill]

This was exactly what I needed. Just lost my partner of 33 years on the 11th of February. I'm not depressed I'm just sad and yet so thankful for what we had and what's in my heart in my mind. material items can go but my thoughts of my heart and my mind will never ever leave they never need to be cleaned out. Thank you both. Sending love out to the universe

[@-s-7471]

Thank you so much kind people , thanks David for being so brave so as to show us your vulnerability , I was amazed that this video found me today. It is incredibly relieving that there are people out there guiding others through grief and loss of loved ones. And Katie as usual , extraordinary!

[@mymichelle745]

I lost my mum 6 weeks ago, I cannot cope without her, I want to be with her, this world is a world of death

[@janetrussell2908]

Hang on, dear lady. I’m 4 mo bereaved & know what you’re going through. Be patient with yourself. Prayers for you.

[@brindagannon7643]

Just wow, thank you so much for sharing. I lost my 23 year old daughter two years ago and have been struggling and I had so many epiphanies listening to this session. Thank you, thank you , thank you.

[@catphillips4335]

@brindagannon7643 I just lost my 23 yr old daughter and I want to disappear into nothingness 😭😭😭💔💔💔💔 How do you get through???

[@lunyefranklin5970]

This is a powerful session. Thank you David for sharing this with us.

[@TJ-jq9bz]

I like this approach and I intuitively came to this thinking with the death of my son. It only helps to see and think of him as alive and always with me living an amazing adventurous life on the other side but also always present when I think of him. I communicate with him on this level and it truly helps.🙏🏼💕

[@fondac9647]

Thank you so much. ❤️

[@lovelife9799]

We all lost love ones and deeply suffered. The story of Anita Marjooni who die and came back from the other side also comfort my heart 💜 she has a book of die to be me might help too. Thank you so much beautiful Kathy for your book of (Love what is ) and all of your KZbin channels and work. We are grateful for knowing you ❤️❤️❤️❤️ you are the gift from above 🌹🌺And thank you for sharing this.

[@raju-bitter]

Thanks for sharing your grief and gratitude with us, David! ❤

[@betha8761]

Thank you for this!! 🕊🌸🕊

[@alejandroalejandro1368]

Forgot to mention , I also could relate “ not being held or embraced “ in public. Travis was conservative about PDA 😂❤.. I would say to him, “ not nice “ I mean we would be in West Hollywood🌈😂, or Palm Springs❤🌈 , but Katie understand I can relate … I would hold his hand while Travis slept . I wanted to feel every crevice,indention and the texture . I wanted to not forget what his hands felt like . This was while he was living. I ponder that sometimes ❤

[@theinngu5560]

Allow the feelings/thoughts to be ..be aware and let go ( ie relax) and repeat over and over. With constant work, we suffer less and less and less. With a bit of work, we suffer a little less.

[@englady]

Lost my husband recently . After 64 yrs of marriage

[@Aceofcups111]

Sending love.

[@gardenbill]

Much love ❤ to you.

[@estelaferrari612]

Thank you so so much David and Katie for sharing this with us, blessings to both of you.

[@yamunarohrich3753]

and thank you both you to be in this world ! so honest and transparent! thank you so much 🙏❤️

[@sharonlujan9497]

hello good job.

[@alexismiller8978]

❤️❤️❤️

[@tanyaking2311]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@nicolemayr-konig6776]

what a wonderful session. Thank you so much for sharing. I love Katie since many years. My brother died (is it true;) a few months ago and I was deeply touched by "your work". Once again: thank you for sharing

[@jwalsh2281]

Thank you for this xx

[@meninagreen5704]

This doesn't help me at all. My husband of 32 years died and I am shattered and lost. I'd do anything to have him back.

[@carmenburnham1088]

I’m so sorry that you loss your husband. I totally understand what you are saying. I have had many losses including the loss of a child but nothing can be as devastating as the loss of my husband of 41 years. And I am a very strong independent woman. No one understands a widows grief like another widow. The grief of the loss of a husband is like no other. The oneness we share the many many roles a wife and a coupe are together gets ripped away. It felt like an amputation and I have heard others say that as well because the Bible says the two become one. I don’t want to minimize others’ loss at all. All loss is painful. I went on KZbin looking for answers and found nothing helped. I am a therapist and can say since the loss of my husband changed my perspective on widowhood. What I know now I wish I would have known from the beginning of my grief. The grief does change but it all takes time. It’s been 5/1/2 years for me and each year i felt a little advancement forward coming up out of the valley of the shadow of death Ps. 23. Please give yourself permission to feel the pain as much as you need to. And keep asking the Lord to help you heal. Ps 42:says he is close to the broken-hearted and those crushed in spirit. And he is an ever present help in time of trouble. He kept me alive. He promises to never leave us or forsake us. That means he will never leave us physically or forsake us emotionally. He still has plans for your life Jeremiah 29:11 and it’s ok to have questions and he will answer them. ❤ he is holding you, dear one. Please take care of your physical health it is so important. When you feel ready find a widows support group or if you have a great support system already that is wonderful. Did you know the name widow means empty? The hole in our soul left by our husbands passing can only be filled by the Lord 😇. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@englady]

Me from U.K.

[@karyndee]

So helping me with my loss of my dad...my ego...Buddhism I'm here I'm not....the only thing we know..iam im.not

[@dalladi]

Ruse to have notifications on

[@marcogasperoni2391]

Lol I thought those were food stains on here shirt 😂😂 love Byron Katie!

[@claresmith9261]

We oldies often get stains on our tops... the beauty of ageing and changing ❤️

[@theinngu5560]

@@claresmith9261 😂

[@denisetownsend9928]

I found my 39 yr old son dead on his kitchen floor from a drug over dose. My life stopped 3 weeks ago when I found him. I truly feel that I am going to die from the pain. Please help

[@eldonscott9]

I’m here searching too Denise… I hear you, I see you… you’re out there somewhere in the world right now and I’m reading your words and all I know to do is acknowledge you right now. Don’t isolate, let someone who is available to you come along side and just be there if you don’t want to use words. What happened is a shock to you, I don’t know how it couldn’t be, just know that and be gentle and loving towards yourself. Keep doing what you’ve done by watching this video and making a comment… look for the next step forward and then pause and rest and then look again. I know you feel like the pain is going to take you, but it’s not… for right now there’s just knowing that you are going to find your way through.

[@denisetownsend9928]

Thank you dear friend for your kind response. I am sorry that you are dealing with your own pain and really hope you find some relief. Your kind words have helped. Denise

[@s3sarahscheuererstudios384]

❤here with you! Your pain could be your love that wants to be expressed and you think you cannot do that without your son beeing there..but he is getting you anywhere you open up to amd also his answer will find you! Stay open, love is out there, for you and needed from you! Listen further to Katies content and try the work... also Eckhart Tolle Teachings could bring relief❤ Sending you warm, thight hugs!

[@fondac9647]

About 3 weeks ago I experienced the same situation. I didn't find him like you did. Age 39 . I'm with you in my heart. This video really helps.

[@organicbrain7029]

Earth school? ...and we are learning throught suffering? Strange school indeed

[@radicalhonesty3628]

I watch the video and I try to process all that arises in me... I am in so much pain. Suicidal shame and grief. Homicidal rage. I wish only for death. I hate myself. I hate my life. I can bear the hell of this life no longer. I want out. I pray for death. I have nothing to live for. The past is a prison of torture and torment. The future fills me terrorizing paralyzing fear. And the present is full of shame. I wish to die.

[@magalinia7288]

Pray to God to help you.

[@theinngu5560]

Try calling the work help line ..if you want to suffer less…

[@louisar4227]

I pray you find peace in your heart ❤️ 🙏🏼