Femme Lesbian Struggles

[@harmonylindsay8050]

whenever i’m being nice to a girl they think i’m being gay and when i’m being gay to a girl they think i’m being nice smh

[@bunniesWHISPERSasmr]

Well shit

[@samantharuiz9562]

Harmony Taylor happens to most of us

[@HoshneModeena]

This hit me hard 💆

[@Worldeatsgirl]

Harmony Taylor FRRRR

[@malefsij8284]

Same :(

[@darkpurplesky6660]

“What a waste” is probably the most offensive thing you could say to a lesbian. I’m a straight guy and that statement offends me 🤬

[@stephdoesart3792]

Bless you

[@tillykmedia]

thanks

[@ngicara5372]

Bless ur heart🙏

[@grimmreaper8589]

Bless your beautiful soul.

[@oohmymiyah508]

We claim you

[@JordanRLOL]

honestly its so frustrating that people use bisexuality as an insult

[@blackheart7051]

Yep😭

[@ginaplopper-norton8839]

Yes agreed!!

[@yuka679]

Agreed! My family is homophobic and they always use being gay as an insult while im just out here being gay and hiding:/

[@lilymcclure2410]

I don't really care if people use gay or bisexual as an insult. And I'm a lesbian.

[@cometobelieeve]

Right??????

[@melethmaethor5776]

I'm a lesbian and I'm really into femme girls... But everytime I have a crush on someone, they turn out to be straight Damnit

[@snowflake7266]

Same here.....

[@TinyWarrior1468]

Story of my fucking life

[@stupidkid6507]

Omg same

[@maturelydisapointingmember2699]

Same!

[@crystalg4021]

ikr goddamit. and then the one time I fall in love with someone, she’s gay and doesn’t like me back... ;)))

[@emmalouge123]

Asking men to take rejection gracefully is a tall order...

[@alivc2458]

Agreed

[@DogNamedWatson]

As a woman, it really depends on the man. I've rejected men who have taken it HORRIBLY, and I've rejected men who accept it.

[@Ievux123100]

Emma Kate Well that's fucking sexist. It's pathetic when girls want to be respected by males, but pile stereotypical shit on all male species even though every individual is different. Thanks to you and women like you feminism lost it's meaning which is gender equality.

[@Septembersend34]

The truth 👏👏👏

[@nerdymaxx7630]

@@dontletthedemonsoutofyourb692 This comment didn't specify that, though.

[@Lilmagirkalgirl]

I identify as Bisexual and when I go on dates with men, I always let them know that I'm not Straight because its a big part of who I am and I HATE when they respond with "That's really hot...like I just got really hard." EEEWW! I feel dirty and disgusting when I hear that shit and it's beyond annoying. Yes, I do like both Women and Men, but that doesn't mean my relationships with women are allowed to be sexualized by men. It's a HUGE turn off.

[@SarahWhelan]

Urgh! I feel the same.

[@Kinglisette]

Then why tell them if you get the same response and you don’t like it

[@savannahdanobrega9966]

@@Kinglisette because its a part of her identity maybe.

[@daisydulo1082]

Same thing happens to me and it puts me off. And guys always assume that because I'm bi I can help them fulfil their fantasy of having a threesome... Ugh!!!

[@savannahdanobrega9966]

@@kayleyhahn4811 exactly

[@gildahobbs8829]

the butch version of "you're too pretty to be gay" is "yeah I'm not surprised, it explains a lot" like what does it explain dude? my short hair and lack of a flower dress??

[@Noonecares3203]

I’m a femme lesbian who LOVES butch women. ❤️

[@cuteprincesssong1906]

It's because some handsome men are rare that's why they say these things but I think it's nonsense

[@thealannahwride]

There were two girls kissing at the bar I work at who were obviously a couple, and this creepy ass dude went up to them and was like "damn that's sexy, can I join?"... Guess who got cut off and kicked out by yours truly ☺️

[@CammieScott]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 yesssss! I wish I could say that's never happened to me but it absolutely has

[@lydiajupp1907]

oh my god, the same thing happened to me. some guy came up to me and my gf and said something along the lines of "hey, could you do that thing again?" and i was like "what thing?" and he said "you know, making out." what made it worse is that this guy had seen us kissing and then FOLLOWED US TO ANOTHER LEVEL OF THE BAR. this happened months ago and i'm still fuming

[@yellie4102]

Once I was in the club with my now ex and we kissed and when we went to pull away to go back to dancing some creepy guy tried to physically push our heads back together. It was so gross.

[@joketsu100]

Alannah Wride good job most people wouldn't do anything

[@mariliaquezado1105]

OMG, I relate to this so much! On New Year's Eve, me and my girlfriend went to a party with a gay friend and his straight friend. He spent the whole night just "admiring" us, which is so gross, and around two in the morning, we were kissing on the dance floor and he just comes up to us and says "Wow, you guys are making me so jealous, maybe I should just leave". All I said was "bye". Such an asshole!

[@lalabEsjen]

Being beautiful doesn't make a person straight Being straight doesn't make a person beautiful.

[@cuklabcusade]

Pernille Kjeilen Fauskanger being confusing doesnt make you smart

[@satanpie3957]

dank memes if you find that confusing you must really be dumb

[@oddy180]

I mean just because you don’t have long hair and wear makeup doesn’t mean you’re not beautiful

[@berlinwall6674]

Cocoa Bean Yeah, I've met plenty of women/girls who are super attractive without long hair or makeup

[@adamcolebaybay6566]

so what chance me going date with u?

[@LovingYuri619]

Girl, I can't stop staring at your eyes. Help.

[@InsaneLaughter01]

Miroku IKR! They are so bright and intense and the minimum eye makeup just makes them deeper.

[@clairejost8647]

Miroku sameeeee

[@theshayshay2046]

Same

[@sagecrops7368]

Miroku Even how she talks reminds me of Mila, the actress from friends with benefits lmao

[@wowjuswow]

Same

[@sapphic.shortcake]

I remember when I first came out to my group of friends (who are LGBT+ as well), I was wearing a skirt with long hair and makeup on and such. And my friends literally said "You don't LOOK lesbian though", "Yeah, I don't think so" and "Within the next few weeks you're gunna be straight again". Which honestly really hurt me because my own friend who were in the community rejected me just because I like dresses and skirts and makeup. And then when I started dating a girl they - till the very end - would tell us to our faces that it wasn't a real relationship and we weren't really girlfriends. Which made me EXTREMELY mad. But, I'm happy to say that now I'm surrounded by people who accept me for who I am and I hope you do too!

[@nadiaishimwe3663]

Im late, but that really SUCKS😬 ugh glad ur better now!

[@razzleberry041]

Those friends suck! Join me And my accepting friend group lol

[@alrightythen3483]

People say that me and my gf aren’t together just because I don’t constantly ‘act’ gay or whatever sorry I wear makeup 🗿

[@mg6621]

@@user-si2bc6gz7f i dunno what you re going through but i feel you. Also fuck you

[@mariacimpan4286]

I was about to say that hopefully they aren't your friends anymore.

[@lilapen9007]

Told guy I was lesbian. Said he’s glad cuz I’m ugly after flirting with me for a week 🤣🤮

[@GarlicKiss]

XD I hope you laughed in his face. Cause bro you've been flirting for long...why then?

[@Alexander-ys9dh]

GarlicKiss Sex

[@angelic7532]

Nah he was just mad you turned out to be les, like why else would you flirt with someone that you're not interested in for a week??

[@fionabrennan9148]

Sounds like your typical Nice Guy™️ Sorry you had to deal with that dude 😣

[@originalbabygal]

Would you date me instead? Im Pakistani :D

[@valoriharris1682]

As long as people walk past me and say, "yeah, she's a homosexual", I've done my job.

[@CammieScott]

hahaha yesssss

[@jparrish6751]

When I walk past one of our people I always whisper 'fam?' to my fiance.

[@internetslayer9000]

Jamie Parrish omg me and my friends literally do the same thing. I'll say "fam?" and for confirmation they'll say "fam" lol.

[@INeverMetaphorIDidntLike]

hahahahahahaaa that's a thing in sf, too :D

[@Alyssa-rb1kv]

Valori Harris I see your comments everywhere. I think I'm in love.

[@laurenc9458]

I'm bisexual and its so hard to know if other girls are into girls too. I'm very femme, I love makeup, clothes, shoes. and so far ive only been attracted to other girls who are femme also. which makes it even harder for other girls to know I'm into girls also lol.

[@aleshalopez7711]

Lauren C I completely understand your struggle!!!! I’m a femme lesbian but have a hard time figuring out who’s attracted to me

[@stigmatamartyr4223]

A fan of Trump, Mark Dice, Fox News, Tommy Sotomayor, Steven Crowder, and other questionable channels. I'm sure you're the belle of the ball in the lgbt circles. 😂

[@kahmariirenee631]

As a lipstick lesbian I completely understand. I love clothes, shoes, getting my nails done, im black so of course i love getting my hair done too. And im only attracted to other feminine girls but those girls are usually attracted to masculine girls so it’s tough for me. Also everyone assumes im straight because i dont give off a butch vibe so I completely understand

[@Rosemallow]

B, you gotta be bold and go for who you want .... you never know

[@toricow8573]

Same let’s get married

[@abbiezimmerman6758]

Brother: Sooooo..... I know your gay and all... but... who’s the man in the relationship? Me: I’m dating a girl because I’m not interested in guys. Brother: But... who’s the guy? Me: ........

[@alexanderaanimations4344]

.. Do you actually not know what he’s talking about?

[@alexcwright]

@@alexanderaanimations4344 It's such a rude and invasive question that doesn't deserve answering in any way except "we're both women, that's kind of the point" (or "we're both men, that's kind of the point" in the opposite situation).

[@savannahgamble1410]

Alyssa Wright they just mean who’s the more dominant one lol, I used to ask that all the time and I never meant it in a rude way

[@alexcwright]

@@savannahgamble1410 It has a very sexual element to it, though, and it's not your business. Even if you don't mean it in a rude way, it comes across as rude and insensitive.

[@rrksk]

He's talking about the gender role that butch women are taking on. Wich makes them have more freedom - just like men.

[@jparrish6751]

'but you're too pretty to be gay' the first thing my mother said to me after months of silence when I came out to her. Then a drag queen once told me I was pretty for being a lesbian...

[@CammieScott]

it's just ridiculous. Those comments make me sick.

[@celidiary44]

Jamie Parrish well, women are too pretty to not be gay 🏳‍🌈 don't listen to people who wanna bring you down! you're strong ❤

[@TheCrafterAaCrafts]

Jamie Parrish I just facepalmed so hard

[@charleneandkortney7580]

That is the most ANNOYING comment ever. I feel like so many people use it too. - Kortney

[@taym1698]

Jamie Parrish ohhh god 😒 some people!! looks doesn't define our sexuality

[@caitlyn328]

I'm femme lesbian 🌈 I HATE when people say "you just havent found the right man yet" btw 😍 you're soooo pretty !!

[@kyeranimoo]

Bunny Cross I can relate to the not found the right man comment soo much 😅

[@JennaTriplett]

I had an ex friend who also identifies as lgbt+ tell me that right after a breakup, and then followed it up with “a man just hadn’t made you come yet” 😂

[@mg-dy7wm]

I know!! My parents were like maybe you just haven't rushed on a boy because the boys in my school were d heads. They support me though

[@neidalukas2452]

Bunny Cross or what guy hurt you

[@mirjamseinen5367]

I always think that if I haven’t found the right guy yet, in that logic straight women just haven’t found the right woman yet right?

[@ness4966]

no one believes im a lesbian kskskks sorry my eyeliner is straighter than me

[@JBR939]

about the eyeliner lol

[@neidalukas2452]

Nessie yessss love

[@JulietteVeronica1201]

Same. And my eyeliner looks like shit 80% of the time.

[@user-si2bc6gz7f]

@@JulietteVeronica1201 because your eye liner doesnt want a man.

[@pixiecakes1765]

nessie okay this!!!! It's like "at least something is straight about me?" Is how I've felt like responding when I get the "oh but you can't be a lesbian, you wear eyeliner!" (To be fair there are days when I embrace my masculine side).

[@wilhelminaviviano1629]

Hayley kiyoko has entered the chat

[@lanize107]

Mina viviano tee hee

[@reversemitosis4213]

Mina viviano LESBIAN JESUS

[@horrorfan2000]

MK XYZ has entered the chat

[@elipeeli]

@@reversemitosis4213 who needs real jesus when lesbian jesus exists. Unless jesus is gay then i stan

[@sadie1150]

Meh. I don't see the hype for her.

[@laurentregaskis44]

“But you dont look gay” Me: oh sorry hang on let me change *wears rainbow flag clothes and rainbow flag as cape and rainbow hat* “Better?”

[@dontletthedemonsoutofyourb692]

Lauren Tregaskis “but you don’t look gay” oh sorry lemme change *insert macdoesit wearing a rainbow shirt and a hat here*

[@emilypapillon]

😂😂😂😂👌

[@redrhino4740]

Macdoesit reference

[@sophiaruizuvalle2523]

I know its a joke but, I WANT THAT OUTFIT THO

[@apotato6183]

I was told by a guy that I don't look like a lgbtq+ person, when I said I was a pansexual. I wondered at the time if there was a certain way one would look, and I was shocked to hear that from them.

[@CammieScott]

am I naked? IDK, maybe, you'll just have to watch and find out.

[@meaghanmarie1433]

Cammie Scott some of us might like that too much 🙈

[@mrjorgepasquel]

hahaha, is the first thing I saw haha, thought was the only one, but is your blouse, the cut is so low, that looks that sexy way. hahaha, you look so beauti as always, a little bit tired under the eyes, but great. as always. so big big hugs and the best endevours 4 U as always. hope I said right. you know spanish

[@Holly00h]

mrjorgepasquel 'a little bit tired under the eyes' hahahah you're honest

[@rihamchehabeldine9172]

Cammie Scott Best content you have ever had❤️

[@immaundacova999]

Nope, you're not naked at all, but if you want to get 1,000,000,000,000 views and likes, I suggest you do so! :-p Great message you passed along, keep up the great work CamBam.

[@nope9745]

I'm a fem lesbian who is dominant which is always a pain during sex because the other will assume I'm submissive 🙄

[@ashantimeneweather9775]

AHHHH I CAN RELATE SO MUCH!!!

[@k8lynmae]

no pe I am far from submissive and definitely not dominant. I don’t go for that shit or top or bottom.

[@savannahdanobrega9966]

I'm a bi sub but I'm starting to think I have a switch side

[@stephdoesart3792]

I am completely masculine however I am very submissive in our relationship. She is high femme.

[@kayahg6380]

no pe me toooooooo

[@fabes6873]

I had a nurse tell me that I was “too pretty for that sort of thing” while I was in the emergency department and incredibly ill. She then tried to give me her sons phone number.

[@genericchannel126]

Fabes WTFFFFF

[@urdadsonic1036]

thats so fucking messed up

[@lol-zi5zo]

That weird af

[@fabes6873]

@@lol-zi5zo It was. I was in so much pain and just like 'really, lady, does I look like dating prospects are my top priority right now?!'

[@WerewolfSuperSoldier]

Lemme guess, she was Filipina

[@YiCaiShan]

Sometimes it feels like being a lesbian is the loneliest thing in the world.

[@andalacomessenome]

YiCaiShan yes, i feel that too

[@dandymandy7342]

YiCaiShan i feel you.

[@Amy-ms6wj]

Definitely agree. I live in FL where there basically is no lesbians.

[@Amy-ms6wj]

My Self I creeped through all of your videos...I like them. We should chat! [e-mail]

[@clairejost8647]

YiCaiShan yeah, especially before you are an adult (like in high school) its hard to tell if someone is gay and your lonely

[@pennyjarkinss]

I'm a femme Bi and I totally get the flirting thing, like no no i'm not giving you a nice girly compliment i'm gay flirting with you D:

[@vanessarb7580]

Jenny Parkins hello i was looking the comments and you make my attention if you are agree, we can have a talk?

[@rashikasharma6354]

hlo

[@BlaiseRashelHarman10]

Omg too real, I work at Lush and I flirt with girls a lot but theY JUST THINK I’M BEING A TYPICAL LUSH EMPLOYEE

[@soym1lkg1rl]

Uhh, I might be wrong, but I think femme is a term used exclusively by lesbians?

[@sugarghast]

Yaaassss

[@semisweetie12]

"clickbait: I look naked, and this says lesbian in the title" I love you

[@rubydreamt2440]

What pisses me off the most is the fact that just because I am a femme lesbian, everyone assumes that I will eventually fall for a guy later, and that makes me so angry that they think they know better what I really want.

[@LongAwaitedBaby]

A lot of straight people think that it is a phase, but it is not.

[@thenerdnmk]

@@LongAwaitedBaby I am a straight man, but I understand the homosexuals. It's not like a button that you can switch "today I am hetero, tomorrow I am homo", no it doesn't work that way. Another example, there are feminine lesbians who are only attracted to other feminine lesbians so the dating pool is even smaller.

[@asiacoleman6975]

OMG I HATE THAT TOO!!!!! It's so irritating when you gotta KEEP REPEATING yourself that you're NEVER gonna be with a man. Like ppl should just fuck off and leave us be. 🙄🙄

[@animicat6688]

same I hate it so much

[@raschidmalik464]

The problem this straight epidemic is normal

[@irvingsanchez6630]

As a straight guy I think everyone needs to realize that assuming someone's sexuality is so fucked up. But the more that I think about it, the more guilty I feel, because I've done that before. I'm so sorry that everyone who is LGBT+ has to go through such shit within the community and outside of the community. Can't we all just respect each other? ❤️🏳️‍🌈

[@heyyitssabii]

is no one going to praise this fabulous boy bc hell I will

[@loona7642]

YES , thank you ❤

[@em9807]

Irving Sanchez I love this comment

[@abbi7025]

Irving Sanchez thank you ❤️

[@miltdta]

If only more people had your level of maturity and thought the same way as you... Thank you!

[@aurorasparks1985]

I read the title as "female lesbian struggles" and was very confused

[@CammieScott]

lmao!

[@maelleletertre1559]

Aurora Sparks Same for me 😂 In French Femme means female so I didn't understand before starting the video haha

[@kekeblossom5351]

Same! I'm studying French so I thought this would be a French video!

[@zen3005onroobet]

Aurora Sparks HAHAGAHAHAHA

[@cryptic3941]

My fiancee is a gorgeous white, blonde blue eyed girl. I'm Mexican with dark curly hair and brown eyes...While grocery shopping one day we were being cutesy with each other and the cashier asked if we were sisters 😒 after saying no she's my fiancee, the lady was shocked, looked at us weird and didn't say another word. That's just one of the many questions I get all the time. I can relate with so many if not everything you said. Having to come out all the time is annoying lol and having people assume I'm just gay for now is ridiculous. So I'm a lesbian who likes makeup and cute dresses and heels and girly shit. We don't all look alike lol.

[@kpdexter4795]

Lmao!!! my girlfriend and I always get the "are you sisters" question....

[@BrunaPinheirox]

Cinthya Martinez ughhh the "are you sisters" question pisses me off so much, it's just so condescending. I look nothing like my gf and we still get this a lot. Like, really? Are you really that blind?

[@sunflowermonroe666]

Bruna Pinheiro so you hold hands and flirt and act loving with each other and people say ''are you sister's?" WTF sort of sisters act like that? Lol

[@BrunaPinheirox]

lol IKR??? people can't see past their heteronormativity.

[@ablenin9013]

If that is you guys in your profile picture, you two look lovely together!💕

[@crystal.matter]

When you're dating other femme lesbian and you can't kiss with full face of makeup unless you're wearing same shade of lipstick. A struggle I tell ya

[@navi6981]

crystal Lip stains!

[@dandymandy7342]

crystal lol

[@santanastecker2109]

crystal feel ya

[@clairejost8647]

crystal omg thats me

[@bnatrual]

get colors that mix good together xD

[@chriswilkerson3157]

I'm a gay male, and I think you're gorgeous! I'm just glad that you are being yourself. 🏳️‍🌈♥️

[@lordronn472]

She’s too gorgeous

[@21ceaday]

I like femmes. But my gaydar is broken. I will never find my girl 😭

[@goldstarchar2236]

Alex Antopolis sammmmmmeeeeeeeeee

[@jaebreslin2851]

Relatable 😭

[@suzu8006]

Go to a club. If you can't make a gay straight alliance at school.

[@sadsunflower6106]

same my gaydar only works for gay men WHICH IS USELESS FOR ME but very useful for my friend lol

[@Enid0997]

Omg sameeeeeee

[@BreeElisexo]

Femme Lesbian Struggles: Dropping your phone every 5 seconds XD

[@H.Wotton]

B E lol 😂

[@psychoticpercy6479]

B E LOL

[@bobbieproductions4491]

B E ok but me af though wtf. Are all femme lesbians the same????

[@elissakhoury1836]

E E hahahahahhahahaha lol😂😂😂😂

[@ashantimeneweather9775]

I feel attacked

[@ameliejaye4261]

:)

[@lockheart619]

literally me twice in the last month!

[@kaitorintefantasizor679]

Amelie Jaye ME-

[@popularslut4072]

Amelie Jaye hahahah sameee that happens to me

[@stxrryalxc2765]

XD me when I first met my current girlfriend

[@wowjuswow]

I'm not even out yet and I can relate to this I'm always flirting with girls and they are just like thanks your such a good friend and I'm lol NoNnoNoonoooNoo I want to kiss YyYOOoUuU

[@netizen_m3919]

I’m not sure how Cammy being a beautiful Femme lesbian is “a waste”. Im pretty sure a lot of ladies would disagree!

[@Rollingstonesfangirl]

I'm bi and I only had one girlfriend in my entire life. She is definitely not a waste

[@shakinglikemilk6222]

Dating a femme lesbian strugle: her heels create a height difference but you wanted to be the taller one because of your futch daddy energy.

[@bunniesWHISPERSasmr]

Add in some height adding shoe insoles for some extra height without needing to wear heels to be taller

[@trash912]

i have the opposite problem tho cause i'm sub and femme/stem n shit but i'm also tall and LeT mE tEll u that shit conflicts

[@shakinglikemilk6222]

@@bunniesWHISPERSasmr I already orthopedic soles but it's not enough, I'm t.i.n.y.

[@shakinglikemilk6222]

@@trash912 lmaoooooo

[@txmilxssi7803]

so you basically wanna look like a straight couple, it's kinda funny

[@lormackk]

i just finished my junior year of high school and i'm not really accepted by the LGBTQ+ people of my school because i'm a femme lesbian. it's super discouraging because the straight people don't accept me because i'm gay, then the people who are not straight don't really accept me either for being a femme lesbian :/

[@HannahSims]

Lor I'm the only openly gay person at my school and i'm super femme and my girlfriend is a long distance girlfriend sooo people thought she was fake and thought i was doing it for attention. well i finally met her and now everyone is apologizing left and right for doubting my relationship and my sexuality. and there are probably people who still think that i'm straight and some people at my school don't know what bisexual even means (and pansexual). I live in Georgia.. there are lots of close minded people

[@lormackk]

I've lived in New York my entire life, but I'm moving away to South Carolina next week and I've got to leave my girlfriend behind. I'm super scared for what my senior year in SC is gonna mean for me but I'm trying to remain optimistic! At least I can pass for straight if I need to lol

[@ciennag9587]

Lor I wish u luck, Ive have lived in SC almost my entire life, and one thing I can say is that there are some homophobic people here, but there are also tons of people here to support you ( and I'm sorry u have to leave your girlfriend)

[@jawarapittman6889]

@@HannahSims Yes indeed, around here in GA. I've seen it.

[@drinthemoment]

"Hey! Me! Gay!" Hahah 😂

[@CammieScott]

have to make it known any way you can lol

[@hanaowens5988]

True tho 😂😂

[@АнастасияКостенникова]

Just make a tattoo on your forehead :DD

[@kaitlynbetts914]

Edrienne Fae Yap literally me

[@crisponciano6963]

changed my twitter bio into hey! me. gay. 😂

[@VideoStar-nw3mh]

being a femme who's also into femmes is a whole nother struggle

[@cyrilp.593]

true!

[@oh_dip_donkey_doug]

I feel you girl!

[@KC-ez6yv]

Same😣

[@FH-er7us]

Sameeee

[@jinkstkittensen99]

Saame

[@lauriiie]

OMG SAME. I was at this club one time and this girl walked up to me saying her guy friend liked me so I was like I like girls and she was like yeahh I don't believe you you just don't like him👀👀 bish no I'd date u not him

[@CammieScott]

lol "I'd date you not him" yeah anytime girls get weird and jealous if I talk to their boyfriend I'm like oh no honey I'd rather date you don't worry.

[@alexlopez-pn8bj]

Cammie Scott i wish i could like this comment more than once 👌🏼❤️

[@grxcix4810]

Cammie Scott omg so true😂👌🏻

[@claireelizabeth7802]

7:25 "hey, me, gay" replayed it at least 12 times omg so cute

[@singingmyblue8000]

claire elizabeth saaaaameee 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@neuhaus1658]

I think I replayed the video 20 times

[@sleon2528]

Me too 😍😂

[@YesNoMaybe789]

I'm on the process of slowly not hiding inside the closet anymore and you have been a huge influence to this decision. I've never been happier. I love you and will continue to love you for who knows how long.

[@CammieScott]

so proud of you! Keep being you!

[@adaywithgerardatthediamnds9633]

"yOu DoN'T lOoK gAy" Ah, sorry. *Paints my entire body rainbow and surgically implants a pride flag onto my head*

[@leealiyah3188]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 love this

[@jaelynrae8836]

My family always does the "I don't understand how she's gay...She's so beautiful! She should be with a man and have beautiful babies!" thing and it gets real old after a while

[@CammieScott]

so gross. You can be with a beautiful woman, and have beautiful babies!

[@jaelynrae8836]

Exactly. My girlfriend IS beautiful and we plan on having a beautiful family. They just don't get it!!

[@sfx592]

I dont understand this denial thing. You can have someone else's baby's and that kid wont know who their father is. Im not trying to burst your bubble, but you can't be that selfish.

[@jaelynrae8836]

What haha

[@Ariel-mo3om]

If you were born and had 2 moms raise you, but you never know who your biological father was, how would you feel?

[@sama3208]

"Hey! me! gay!" mood.

[@etach2210]

Haha i felt that

[@kaibrinkley6]

You lowkey look like Mila Kunis

[@MeoMeii]

"Maybe you just haven't met the right man yet." My lesbian friend get that a lot.. Abd she'll reply with "Or you just haven't met the right girl for you."

[@vanessarb7580]

I'm femme lesbian and i love femme girls too not big deal 💪🏼

[@k8lynmae]

Vanessa Rb I love women-not girls

[@pinnrose]

from one femme lesbian to another..i have an important question.. what lipgloss/lipstick are you wearing?

[@cait333]

Cherry bliss❤️😂😜

[@jana6089]

Pinn Rose yess it looks really pretty

[@J_Damico_Arts]

Dude her eyeliner is bomb too

[@Sam-rx4se]

Pinn Rose truuuu

[@jidzia7398]

Co ja tutaj robię xdd

[@mastersouth531]

A simmilar problem happened to me, I am a masc gay guy, not going out of my way to be one, but that's just how I behave/dress, when I interacted with other gay guys they said a lot of mean things like "why do you straight-act" which threw me off, still, I get that part with the double edge blade, I have a crush on a guy and I really don't know how to make him figure out that I like him, guess I'll just have to do the first moce :D

[@klara9698]

MasterSouth5 good luck with your first move! post an update on how it went if you want! :D

[@anomienormie8126]

Fuckn “Straight Act”. I hate the prejudice of ‘fem male’ == ‘gay’&& ‘gay’ == ‘fem male’.

[@m.t.443]

Straight act? Oh allow me to just *grabs beer and starts humping a truck* LIKE THIS???? AM I A STRAIGHT MAN NOW??? It's so annoying when people expect you to 'act gay' or something equally as stupid, but if you told them to 'act straight' you'd get a long-winded explanation as to how every straight person was different and had a personality, etc. lmao, as if we gays don't have personalities of our own haha

[@abayomi5743]

The one that I get the most is "You're probably pretending and just bi or something." I have nothing against bisexuality, but just because I have feminine features and appearance does not make me attracted to men.

[@becscott6231]

Ugh, preach girl! The "such a waste" comment irritates me SO much!!! And why do people think that as soon as you say "yes, we're together," do they think it's acceptable for their next question to be something along the lines of "do you guys use a strap on?" Like you would EVER ask a straight couple about their sex life within 2 minutes of meeting them!?!?!

[@pupu416]

Bec Scott YES!! Like im not some nice candy that is thrown to trashcan because i don't want to date guys??? What are they even thinking??

[@EdwardoLover]

I think in our society nowadays, is filled with people who think it's okay to either ask invasive questions or try to invalidate someone's identity because they don't fit their idea of what they're supposed to act or look like, LGBTQ+ and those who aren't LGBTQ+. I'm ace and the amount of straight men and women who like women who have asked if the reason I was "claiming" to be ace was because I was molested as a kid or violated by an adult or have said that if I slept with them, I wouldn't be ace anymore... People expect all LGBTQ+ to be open-minded because they haven't felt oppression or discrimination but, not everyone goes through it. It makes me sad. Literally every person on this planet will go through some sort of discrimination or judging at least once, some are just more lucky than others.

[@Bobbyfawn]

I've had this before and I can't believe it even came out of his mouth. Unbelievably offensive and disgusting. Straight males, I am not an object to fuck that is a waste if not fucked by a man.

[@AC8X]

As a straight woman, I can actually say that I have been asked weird and invasive questions about my sex life by essential strangers. Of course, straight girls get more of "I bet I'm better in bed than him" when the SO is out of hearing range.

[@lordjagged8625]

Kimmaline..Stop lying..do you 'identify' as a lesbian dalek?

[@rebeccamorgan175]

Ugh, Cammie - you are just a breath of fresh air.

[@mmudez]

why are u so pretty? omg

[@CammieScott]

🙈

[@lauraholmes9353]

her eyes remind me of mila kunis :*

[@alexwallar8608]

She looks like a Blonde Mila Kunis

[@actualchangeling8365]

YES! I was like: What the heck do you do with your skin it's so freakin perfect

[@somapersaud4600]

“Hey. Me. Gay” Oh uh. Me gay too! Where are my One Day at a Time peeps at? 😁

[@aurora_skye]

oof heard about the cancellation through the Andi Mack friendom

[@ILoveMyDogCash]

Right here buddy

[@chainaconstant7440]

Love that 😊

[@brownstudios5379]

ayyyy

[@agneseguizzo7756]

right here!

[@lindseygarciafreiberg]

As a newly out lesbian I am consistently having to tell people yes I'm gay. And as someone who also dresses pretty tomboy I am consistently surprised how much I relate to very femme struggles. I came out recently and someone said asked if I was a "butch" or "lipstick" (which is an outdated stereotype) and as someone who is free to answer on my own accord I said "I'm not really either because I don't think that's relevant but if I had to choose, I'd say butch." I was immediately told I was wrong "because I'm too pretty to be a butch." I had to argue with them and they tried to turn it into a series of compliments because they thought that's what they were doing. Being pretty doesn't make your self-identity any less valid. Thank you for this.

[@willowisp9150]

all of them. i heard all of these at least once. as a femme who happend to like femme girls i often feel like im not gay "enough", but since my friends are all straight i'm afraid to act "too" gay plus I'm single for so long now because i literally don't know a single other lesbian, i swear it feels like I'm the only one and sometimes i feel incredibly lonly youre amazing cammie, love you! 💋

[@iriselisabeth9625]

call this place our home totally relate to this

[@Amy-cf8fz]

story of my life omfg

[@interactinglarry2278]

relatable

[@sherlockgnome2628]

My mothers in her 40s and all her freinds and people who age say "Girlfriend" to mean "freinds". It confuses me and adult females over 30 use this phrase a lot. I know a lot of gays now and through out HS so to me Girlfriend means dating.

[@dorothybabb1844]

lmao same im always thinking like um aren't you married

[@briannadickson8117]

Ill never understand why someobes sexuality matters to other peoplemso much. Like it doesnt directly affect you- your not in my bedroom. Go away.

[@briannadickson8117]

Yeah a religion that someone else believes. Therefore making it a big factor for the religious one.

[@briannadickson8117]

Also says not to judge. 🙅

[@FLdancer00]

Well some people insist that it "defines who they are". If your sexuality is who you are as a person, it's hard for it not to be part of the conversation. If some gay ppl would stop making it such a big deal, then people would comment less 🤷

[@originalbabygal]

You’re hot. Would you date me? X

[@unusunus4613]

@@FLdancer00 It's not gay people's fault for being gay it's homophobic people making it a big deal. For gay people it's part of who they are, they're not going to hide it to stop descrimination. We need to stop it from the roots which is homophobia. How bout stop being homophobic because gays can't stop being gay? Also if gay people stopped talking about being gay they wouldn't be able to talk about their partner, past relationships and anything they have done with their partner. And still if a homophobic person sees a gay couple they're going to think badly of it. Religion won't stop just because you've silenced gay people because their precious bible still says it's a sin.

[@Mylli97]

This describes my life. The struggle when you are a femme lesbian with close to 0 experience, and then again I'm shy. Making the first move makes me feel all silly and so out of my league.

[@Amy-ms6wj]

Mylli97 you'll get there, beautiful girl. ❤😄

[@snowywinters-x8w]

I clicked on this video because I thought it said "Female Lesbian Struggles" and I was so confused.

[@13quizz]

Winter Snow uM Excuse You😤😤 I am a Man☠️🤘⚔️🍆💪 and I am a lesbian🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈😤😤👌👌Stop Descriminating🥶🤷‍♂️✊✊ Against Me😤😤 (I’m joking ofc lol😂)

[@WhimsicalNessa]

Gurl, this is so relatable. I feel like people will try to clock me as a straight girl if I go to a gay club, and it just makes me hesitant on going.

[@joewoodchuck3824]

I think it's beautiful when women are attracted to other women. You have so much to offer each other. I'm happy when other people are happy.

[@Butternose24]

im done with hearing this. I hear that " Youre so beautiful, you could get any guy you want" and "who hurt you" bs alot. ITS NOT ALWAYS ABOUT MEN! just because shes wearing a skirt, doesn't mean shes 'For a man" it doesnt mean a man can "fix her" it does mean a man "did her wrong" it means she likes to wear skirts and fall in love other chicks. Im sorry to rant but i swear to god i just went off on someone today for saying that to me. Usually i brush it off but for some reason this stranger that called me "such a pretty waste " got me so heated that another stranger had to calm me down. i got soooo emotional.

[@jordanv3926]

People reallllly do underestimate how much it sucks to constantly be coming out.

[@Sophie.L.H]

Similar struggles as a femme bisexual lmao, "you're feminine so you're mostly straight/completely straight really" like errrr no, I actually prefer women. "You're so pretty though you could easily find a man" I'm very happy with my girlfriend thank you very much. Why are people like that??

[@ayeletdrago]

Sophie Louise i'm bi too and my mom used to have the stereotypical view of "you can tell when someone's queer by their appearance" so i said "can you tell i am?" and she got much less stereotypical and much more supportive and great since.

[@lordjagged8625]

Because they are lying to make you feel better. You are about as pretty as a stale turd.. Smell the fkn coffee smh

[@jackcarter5101]

My lesbian cousin is the most girly pink princess you could possibly meet. Her wife is a close runner up.

[@EmelyTurish]

I'm a femme lesbian and yes, I feel like for the rest of my life, I will be coming out to the world. People don't assume I'm gay, which we shouldn't assume anyone is gay. But it's hard to tell people all the time that I'm gay. People see my wedding rings and assume I have a husband. Once, I was getting my eyes checked and the front desk person asked if I was the primary person on the insurance, I responded no, my wife is. Her response was -- Yolanda? That's your spouse? As if it would be impossible

[@samreensiddique3602]

rip your phone

[@CammieScott]

luckily it's already a mess

[@malloryhall4837]

my grandma uses the phrase "girlfriend" as friends... :) oh grandma!!

[@caden926]

Mallory Hall my aunt does that so much

[@user-gk6vw7ck8z]

My mom, grandma,siblings and so many other family members and I’m still intensely in the closet it makes me cringe so hard.. they’ve always done it 😂😫

[@Frog-tl6xn]

Ugh my grandma does too and it irritates the crap out of me since she cringes at lesbians

[@jaylabrowne7234]

Mallory Hall mine does too lol

[@JBR939]

Sometimes when I am walking through the halls at school I am just wondering how many of those persons would be gay or bi.

[@divinghere3380]

Yeaah I am quite sure i can't be the only one, statistically is impossible so is probably more than we imagine

[@aubreyblake1608]

Why do people keep using bisexuality to insult people wthhhh

[@Nefeli851]

Being bi its not an insult. But when you are a femm les (and you have come out as a lesbian) and people keeping telling that you are propably like men as well ("you re propably bi, you are too femme to be lesbian"), its frustrating and annoying. We dont like men, we like women, and when someone insisting on call straight or bi (that is being attracted to men), its upsetting, esp if you are a lesbian who struggling with her sexuality/identity.

[@crissi_cix]

A few weeks ago I was in the club (I am from Germany) and I made out with a Girl that I met there. We were interrupted by a random guy that we both did not know. He looked at both of us and said that we aren’t gay and we should stop pretending like we were lesbians. I was fuming. I just said to him „Well you would wish that it wouldn’t be true but guess what I am Gay“. We just made out in front of him till he leaved us alone. This situation reminded me of this video of yours and I just wanted to tell you my story ♥️ Love you Cam🤘🏼♥️

[@beetlejuulz]

Schon bescheuert 😒 ...

[@karabrianne3414]

Love this!!! Guys can be so disgusting.

[@katharinaklimm8719]

Als ob...manche Leute sind so dumm🙄😂

[@d.oertliche]

Meinen Freundinnen ist was ähnliches an Fasching passiert (die sind zwar eigentlich beide nicht bi oder so aber machen immer besoffen miteinander rum...) und dann meinte ein Typ dass sei ekelhaft und Frauen sollten nicht miteinander rum machen...

[@LongAwaitedBaby]

Thanks for sharing. When did you come out?

[@Debbie-q1n]

As a fem its so hard finding other fems coz there into studs. Struggle is real 😭

[@GOL_D]

Same. Especially in small town where theres no one and nothing.

[@frostyskeletons8950]

Yes! It’s so hard to find fellow femme folks who are also into femme folks.

[@Sayeex]

Yeeaaa me too, I think i'm going to ve alone my entire life hahahaa

[@echp2024]

My lesbian friend thought I was straight when I clearly like talked about hot girls all the time

[@caitlinwalker6951]

I never share videos on twitter but I'm definitely sharing this one, I have majority of LGBTQ+ following me and I think everyone needs to watch this video!!! especially about the discrimination within the community as we already deal with it enough on a daily basis!!

[@nevertoooldgaming_Rave]

butch was just jealous. two beautiful femmes with each other. it happens more often than not and i guess it would be a for a video about butch issues. we want the femmes but 9 out of 10 times femmes want femmes too. was a defensive reaction and she was probably way more frustrated than you were offended. my take anyway.

[@Lillyluvsanime]

See, I was thinking some beautiful femme girl broke her heart by revealing that she's bi (which is like an offense to the "gold star" lez community), or realizing that she actually wasn't gay in the first place. Either way she probably feels that the girl left her *FOR A MAN* , and so any pretty girl who likes makeup and girly things is gonna end up going for a guy anyways. Either way, what she said was uncalled for, and understandably hurtful.

[@The-Bee-Hive]

I was talking at a new job and was with a group of crew members and they said something inappropriate and the girl in the group goes "HEY THERE IS A KID HERE" and I awkwardly said that I was actually almost 18 and it really didnt bother me and they started questioning me on things to see if I was actually 17 like "you got a boyfriend" "No" "You kissed a guy before" "Ew no" "What do you mean ew?" "I don't like guys" "Okay there really is no way you're 17 then" "How so???" "You just said you don't like guys and said "ew" over kissing one" "Just cuz I don't like guys doesn't make me a child" "So you wouldn't like go out with a guy and see what would happen" "No!" "Child" "No gay" "What?" "I'm gay. Like I dont like guys can we please stop this idioticness now?!" A bit later the guy walked by and tried to chat and say things like "so you wouldn't like let a guy buy ya dinner and see how it went" "No...... I mean I'd eat with people but not on a date..." "Hmm.. Such a waste of a girl" "what.....?" "Just a fucking waste. why would such a cute thing waste that" I threated to wash his mouth out with soap and made him run away.

[@savannahgamble1410]

Homestuck Trashcan Shipper r/thathappened

[@GhostRangerr]

Honestly that was hilarious to read 😂

[@charlottedeacon6031]

Savannah Gamble If it is made up it’s pretty good to read!!!

[@victoriapeay3019]

Those people think that the only purpose of a cute girl is to make a man happy. It’s like there’s a fucking entitlement that all attractive women should be available to men... 😑

[@cristinaramos8811]

r/thathappened

[@lariszg]

"Hey! Me! Gay!" That made me laugh so hard... relatable!

[@HoodedGargoyle]

A guy who was talking to me asked where my man was and I said I had a girlfriend a guy said "OH SO YOU CAN TAKE A STRAP ON!" I wanted to say "No, can you?"

[@berlinwall6674]

CounterfeitOfHuman "I always do that" How often do you get asked if you can take a strap-on

[@nataliaalfonso2662]

Maybe he just wanted to bond over your mutual preference!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 #peglife

[@demilov4to]

Hey Cammie you're pretty for a human

[@neuhaus1658]

Wait so ur not human?

[@ivy5614]

You look like young Miley Cyrus.

[@Igboman87]

Yes, I thought I was the only one who thinks she looks like Miley Cyrus.

[@jescareno8332]

Koala shes older than Miley

[@horrorfan2000]

She looks way better then her

[@josephinamungaray6118]

She looks nothing like her...

[@a.lexbian]

The part about people assuming you're straight is so relatable! I have to come out to literally everyone because nobody sees me and thinks I'm a lesbian. And the worst part is they never even seem to catch on or believe me until I've come out like four times to them. I'll straight up refer to myself as a lesbian and they will just go on talking to me as if I'm straight.

[@esoterica73]

I have the same issue!

[@morganhaney8287]

As a bisexual, I totally understand many of your points!

[@ryleer3739]

Maree what do you mean? Of course she can relate as do I as a bi woman

[@itskayla9735]

I'm still haven't come to terms with my sexuality. I'm kinda bi-curious but not in the " am I bi or am I straight?" Kinda way more like "am I bi or am I gay?" Kinda way. I've had one girlfriend and like 3 boyfriends but with the boys I'm not as comfortable as I was with the girl. The guys were more sexual and so were my friends talking about the guys. I was never really intimate with the girl I wanted to be and she always told me while I was away that she wanted to kiss and stuff but when we were together we just cuddled a lot and she dodged it if I tried to kiss her. I really think she was just experimenting with me but we're not really friends anymore so I can't say shit.

[@Magendanoir]

Literally some but I’ve never dated a girl but this one girl she just is so pretty I just want to kiss her and she’s my first “Girl crush” I say that with “” because I’m not 100% sure if I’m bi yet

[@abbyluce4610]

Problems of being a pansexual girl “You just want to be special” “Pan and bi are the same thing” “You must have a preference”(from heterosexuals most often, not always) “You can’t have a preference”(from others in LGBT most often, not always) “So you’ll date an inanimate object?” “That’s not a thing” “So you like...pans?” “What does that even mean?” “Is it like a special word for bi?” “So you like girls guys and trans people?” These are just ones I’ve heard and they honestly get annoying I’m not asking you to educate yourself I’m asking that you be considerate, thank you.

[@apotato6183]

I'm also pan and someone asked if I liked animals. And this was in a therapy group... I had to explain to them what pansexual was. The fact they said that and some of the things you mentioned, didn't help my anxiety at all. Then again, I understand that maybe they haven't heard of this term but to at least be subtle when asking. They even started cracking jokes that made me feel uncomfortable.

[@addibeard7123]

Sammy Ah thank you someone understands

[@bluemoon3623]

@@apotato6183 Ohh...I totally understand how you feel it's so bad..😩 They think that you like everything that it's walking 😄

[@apotato6183]

@@bluemoon3623 or that stays still, heck they even asked if I had feelings for the air too😅

[@bluemoon3623]

@@apotato6183 omg...this is so hilarious 🤣

[@sirius-lynatanna4595]

ANYONE CAN BE ANY WAY THEY WANT AND IT DOESN'T HAVE TO HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOUR GENDER OR SEXUALITY OR ANYTHING! Love you Cam 😘

[@CammieScott]

EXACTLY! love you! 😘

[@tianawall6471]

"Ugh... What a waste" definitely the most annoying one😒

[@anahidiazs]

T Plantain i always respond with: not for the ladies;)

[@魚人-o8w]

Anahí Díaz WHY I NEVER THOUGHT OF THIS

[@Nat-re2he]

You. Are. So. Pretty. Honestly speaking

[@CammieScott]

you are so kind💙

[@sophie_jordan]

When you are girl trying to figure out your sexuality and then you see this girl.

[@ntilshan1713]

Great video Cammie. I laughed when you said "Yes... We have sex." 😂😂

[@CammieScott]

🤷🏼‍♀️just being honest lol

[@ashaelise7707]

i'm not super duper femme (my undercut hair seems to give me away hahah) but i definitely wouldn't call myself butch, like i mean i'm OBSESSED with makeup and pink la de da, and the amount of times guys tell me they "could change that", or "you're too pretty to be gay" AND THEN THE SEXUALISING THING oh my god, it's absolutely disgusting!!x

[@Lillyluvsanime]

I have an undercut, am fairly feminine but also have a *SLIGHT* boyish-ness to me (some of my humor, lazy dressing, and other traits/habits) and so I tend to describe myself as, "Andro-femme."

[@DeeLaBee]

I get you, hon. I have the stereotyped lesbian haircut but I love to dress up whenever I can, and I am generally pretty femme.

[@nyahlilith6216]

LITERALLY I GOT TOLD "I CAN CHANGE YOU STRAIGHT OR BI AT LEAST" REEEE

[@trash912]

yah i'm stem (aka femme with a like gay edge) and oH My g∅d i can rELATE

[@Nocchi005]

Cammie : My ex Me: *tears rolled down on cheeks*

[@PrinCezZ1998]

or when she was telling us the story and said "girlfriend" instead "ex gf"

[@sparklingsn]

Hide this comment, I don't want it to get mobbed. I'm glad y'all noticed as well, I was shattered.

[@moonsuneclipse5959]

Staahhp 😢

[@moonsuneclipse5959]

Staahhp 😢

[@rachelalyssajones2550]

Omg the story about the butch woman hit me so hard. I only came out last year and I had a lesbian woman laugh in my face and tell me I'm just "a bi girl looking for attention" I literally cried my eyes out

[@oh_dip_donkey_doug]

Aww honey I'm so sorry that happened to you :( Just know that I love and respect you just the way you are, you're perfect and don't change yourself for anyone love❤️

[@itssaigeysaige]

"oh yeah? prove it".. the amount of times i've heard this at bars/clubs... UGH. it makes my blood boil.

[@tarty9679]

I go to an all girls school and most of the people there are either les or bi. So like I came out to my classmates and one of them said "Ew, just stay straight, it suits you better." and they all agreed. Like bruh

[@daddydolanz9610]

Tarty what the fuck

[@navi6981]

I'd just say to that chick "you have nothing to worry about, I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole"

[@carolinecrowder139]

I go to an all girls school too... same problem

[@greatbigorangecloud]

so many people think that there has to be a bunch of lesbians at my school because its all girls but theres FIVE including staff in a school of almost 2000 girls, its really weird. theres a few that are bi but 90% of them are 12 year old emos who you cant hold a full conversation with. also my gay ass is in love with the lesbian teachers so things arent looking good for me.

[@incgamc]

I'm a femme and im into femmes. It's so damn hard to understand if femme looking girls are straight or gay?? Like... I'm flirting with a girl and she just thinks we're close friends? Idk if she's gay and im too scared to ask because i can lose her?

[@maciedoyle7158]

I had a man tell me that my lesbianism was a “injustice to society”. He meant it as a compliment.

[@cIaimthestars]

First video I've ever seen of yours, but you seem so lovely & as a straight girl, I find it so important to watch videos like these from the LGBTQ+ community to get a feeling of what life is like for you. Keep being you, keep being proud of who you are and love who you love. The ignorance and hatred will be weeded out bit by bit. Lots of love from an ally who will always support the LGBTQ+ community X