Can an 18 year age gap work? Millions of Dollars & 3 Kids later, Valeria Lipovetsky says Yes

[@moneybuyshappiness]

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[@dipendrasah4255]

👏👏👏👏

[@1.3.7]

Valeria could do everything by herself with the same success. He is just trying to always control her and attribute her success to him.

[@sharaguzman9414]

The importance of choosing a good life partner. Valerie is absolutely right.

[@moneybuyshappiness]

One of the most important choices in life ✅

[@eunicedith]

Valeria speaking wisdom ❤

[@talkingtochapri]

Good life partner 🤭💀 Grandpa is half-dead and looks like her grandfather. Let's be honest, she wouldn't have married him if she came from a rich or middle-class background 😅

[@juliawainstein8622]

"i don't like poo" im sorry you think all these moms are out here liking poo?? 😂😂

[@beasgoes]

Dont use that "i cleaned your poop" on your child. The obligation to take care of them is yours, dont use that against them. You are the one responsible for them, don't act like u did them a favor. BOTH parents should take care of the children equally.

[@akwamarilla]

It’s the fact that they were married and she was doing KZbin and Blogs for months and he didn’t know about it. Like how do you not discuss each others day. He only cared about her day once he saw a business opportunity.

[@sarahs7043]

Why is he so dominating? Did you see how he was yelling at her to “stop, stop, stop” when Valeria was mentioning that she always has a choice to leave the marriage?

[@samsara7337]

21:06 for those who want to see..yea, that was awkward!

[@jokerblum6255]

Hope she finds a better man

[@talkingtochapri]

I hope she dumps that grandpa and sends him to a retirement home 💀

[@HortenseLapasse]

​@@talkingtochaprishe really looks like a great person it genuinely makes me sad to see her with him 😭

[@sarahaide8788]

before you comment, maybe you should watch some vlogs with them :)

[@laurelgeorge3766]

It’s so nice to stumble onto a podcast that has truly talented hosts… this felt really natural and fun to listen to.

[@moneybuyshappiness]

That means the world to us! Welcome to the show 🙏

[@claudialora9659]

If mansplaining, weaponized incompetence and a lightbulb had a child:

[@dianalastovska8386]

Interesting, to me Valeria seems much, much more mature than Gary.

[@cicirue101]

This was so cool to listen to. I have been a Valeria fan since the beginning of her KZbin (2017) career and it is so cool to hear the behind the scenes of how she got here. This couple is just amazing all around as parents, business people, and just genuine humans.

[@zaram2806]

100% predatory vibes and it's being normalized on a podcast. Sickening.

[@deezed6478]

Could you imagine if people acted in the workplace the same way so many men act at home? Like hey boss, listen, I know you hired me but I’m not gonna do all these necessary jobs I don’t want to do, but you can trust me to contribute later. I also just can’t do this task because I’m just not good at it, sorry. *then complains after getting fired.*

[@games4music]

😂😂

[@luciiiana27]

most dads changed diapers, girl you just have a sexist husband, the generalization about men was cringe

[@maraszekely]

Garry is trying to make Valeria this Oprah person but she is loved because she is humble and not that arrogant celebrity type. What brought her truly fame was her innocent sweetness, her wonderful family and her interesting life-path, not the megastar mindset and act. I am following her from the start. So what's the point of making more money if you lost yourself in the process? You can never buy yourself back after that.

[@moneybuyshappiness]

Well said! Valeria has been able to stay grounded and true to herself while building an empire 🏆

[@elizabethwilk9615]

Valeria success is in her wisdom and humility as such a young age. The fact her husband saw that and encouraged her is a blessing.

[@lenasprw6523]

I truly enjoy listening to Valeria, she’s got so much to say that I need to hear. Honestly this format is perfect for her. And what a power couple! People often don’t understand what it means to be in a partnership, this dynamics is not easy, but it is so worth it. Huge shout out to Gary for stepping down and letting Valeria BE. It can be hard for men, let alone older ones, so I think it’s important to acknowledge that if we can. And Valeria - just 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Icon, so much power, knowledge. You are inspiring

[@lilia_spn]

16:09 maybe help the child and change it's diaper? What's wrong with this dude... "You have a nanny, go ask the nanny" this is weird on so many levels I have never heard of these people and i don't care about their "Influence" but this is just ridiculous. Lousy podcast host. They didn't even address this comment. I haven't heard a single confronting comment. It seems more like a brand deal than a serious podcast. Bruh i'm clicking off of this.

[@indoorphine]

this guy creeps me out so much. old men who try sneak into very young females pants are just gross

[@cdb88]

yeah same. he's weird.

[@AHMEDZAC]

Cry about it

[@vaportrails7943]

What’s creepy is people on the internet saying this kind of stuff about people they don’t know.

[@melisagalli3693]

I liked when valeria said i always have choice

[@moneybuyshappiness]

She’s funny 😂 🤩

[@emiliabrzozowska8205]

What’s funny about her stating that?

[@dianethompson6804]

Money doesn't buy happiness, but it buys comfort and better health care! If you can afford to go to the Dr and the dentist, you get regular checkups and tests that lead to better over all health! Also you can afford the groceries that fuel your body more efficiently!

[@Fivetimesthree]

Truly an amazing episode. Lots of space for natural conversation with sincere curiosity from the Interviewers. I wish Val also did this content bcus she’s so good at this particular format.

[@moneybuyshappiness]

Agreed! She killed it in this type of chat, we will bring them back for a part 2 🤗

[@joykayoga]

I love how you all lift each other up! How the first instinct (half way) through receiving a compliment is to redirect it to crew/partner. Truly humble and beautiful!

[@innafox5853]

There is something very unsettling about him. She seems like a very sweet girl but she grew up without a father so it was so wrong for him to take advantage of her like that. Them being wealthy and him getting her pregnant so fast does make it all seem better than it actually is though and makes them more willing to make it work

[@sophiasmile5195]

She grew up with a father figure aka. Her stepdad. Oftentimes she mentioned it how she never needed her real father because she had one

[@innafox5853]

@@sophiasmile5195 if I remember correctly that wasn’t until she was like 10 and then they divorced and it was ugly. Not sure at what age. But girls who date older men have daddy issues, periodt

[@Yuna2346minji]

@@innafox5853 the idea of girls dating older men because they have "daddy issues" is a myth.

[@fireandsugar2625]

​@@innafox5853No all of us do so don't generalize us. Period. My husband's 11 years my senior. No daddy issues but you are unbelievably ignorant.

[@mizzhelloo]

What’s unsettling about him is that he’s trying to portray that he’s “the boss” in their marriage and it’s coming off very cringy lol Valeria is not a foolish girl. She knows that she can leave if she wants. She’s still with him because she likes him lol Watch her interview with her mother on her channel. Both her and her mother are strong women.

[@anaisjanuary1]

Thanks for the video. It had a few interesting social media business highlights, especially for people who dream of becoming influencers. Nonetheless :1. The husband is a bit too over confident and cocky (even if he plays the humble card... Badly). When he said Valeria should not be doing beauty and fashion when she will be older because of simply bering older... Damn. The market for older women influencers is just starting and omg we desperately need that. Mature and older ladies need to see people like them get dressed and being confident and beautiful not just 20 year old girls that they simply cannot relate to (anymore). Valeria is so relevant especially because she is a mother of 3 and wife and looks beautiful and has an almost normal life. But his comment on age and beauty not mixiging together speaks a lot on his view of the world... Proof being he chose and hijacked a super young wife. 2nd. Their body language during the interview. Like omg! 😂 They didn't touch hands or not even the tip of the fingers... Not only for a second. This speaks vooooolumes. Not sure what their personal relation is but damn... It does look really cold and distant and business oriented. I mean... How can any couple talk for 1h30min and not touch once! Also... Her body seemed to be closed, arms crossed, in deffense almost nonetheless her legs were open towards the guys interviewing them 😂😂😂. His body language spoke volumes too: not leaning into her, not even caressing her like litte friendly tap on her knee or shoulder. What he leaned into was the microphone and omg he was all over that microphone : he wants to showoff his wisdom and business knowledge... He wants to show off basically (and he does try hard to create a personal brand even if he says he doesn't). This man encouraged his wife and saw her potential but... I don't know, it feels a bit opportunistic from him and it almost looks like he is exploiting his wife (I exaggerate but still... The feeling is off). I hope she will still do beauty and lifestyle and mom content and maybe 2nd mariage content lol for women in their 30 then 40 then 50 and so on... and that she sees and trust more her instinct and potential.

[@Lostintheflames12]

physical touch doesn't seem to be their first love language. It's definitely words of affirmation, which they both speak so highly of one another, and even when they haven't been cued in the conversation. Thats a beautiful thing. Maybe they didn't show love in a very physically noticeable way, but I definitely heard it. This is coming from someone who really identifies with sharing love verbally when in public, over physical touch :)

[@anaisjanuary1]

@@Lostintheflames12 indeed. Maybe maybe

[@MBlondeRebellion]

@@Lostintheflames12 yeah very nice, what about the part where a 38 y/o meet a 19 year old teen and try to hook up with her? and then marry her when she just became legal and she became a mother in the speed of light at just 22 . it speaks volumens. 18 years apart is not that big when someone is 30 and the other 48, but at 19/20, my god. I just feel he was in a rush to became afather, thats why he didnt let her get a break and inpregnant her that fast. 2) so funny they talk all about success but very light tap into how much is due to him having $$$ to hire nannies, whcih is not cheap in canada. They married and right away had a condo in center, nannies, she was able to not work...... not the reality of 80% of the world population where couples even in their 30s both work fulltime, have to save up for rent or get a morage to buy house and live the kids in a kindergarden when they are months old.

[@Lostintheflames12]

@@MBlondeRebellion ... did i set them up? match make them? i'm just talking about how they seem to be showing love to one another on this podcast... any issue you have with their relationship shouldn't be directed toward me.

[@MBlondeRebellion]

@@Lostintheflames12 i really coudnt care less about you boo

[@irinazoda]

I'm in the middle of the interview and i'm so happy I have another hour to enjoy it. I'm in love with Valeria but hey Gary such a smart and wise man! Thank you guys for the interview!

[@moneybuyshappiness]

Glad you enjoyed it Irina! They are an awesome couple 😎

[@tamaraiakymenko9924]

One of those interview which you could watch another 3 hours. Indeed.

[@kaitlinbiddau]

What a great episode 👌🏼 the guests keep getting better ! I love Valeria and Gary because I relate to Valeria alot (3 kids before 30 & married) so I took alot from this pod. Thanks so much guys!

[@moneybuyshappiness]

Our day 1 Kaitlin! Glad you took value from this one! We appreciate you ❤️

[@indoorphine]

it’s sad and uneasy to watch the guys sit in front of her and laugh at the story, its clear to them what strategy Gary used. His actions were all about getting married as fast as possible, then quickly inseminating young bride before she realizes her misery. Now she grows up and becomes aware of having been groomed by an old man. as 19 year old she was not able to see or comprehend it, and now as a woman she begins to realize how disgusting the situation is. she now begins to see she bore children to an old man who used his advantage to exploit her. Her peers are free, dating, falling in love or getting married with men they find attractive, while all she’s stuck with an old baldheaded 50 something with a big belly and grey beard. we all get old, but some of us try and get old with grace, we don’t exploit very young people with unprivileged background who have nobody to protect them from very questionable tactics of old men. he was ready to have kids but she wasnt. He got her pregnant with speed of light to keep her at all cost. if you do something right you take your time, only thief has to act fast

[@jokerblum6255]

I couldn’t agree with you more. It is really disgusting to watch and I feel deeply sorry for her. In the end, I think her realizations will make her move away from that marriage.

[@zaram2806]

You worded everything so perfectly. It’s truly disgusting. She is so far into the “relationship” to the point where she’s trying to normalize this predatory behaviour to make herself feel better. Nothing about this is normal.

[@Tantan-cn7gb]

This is so true

[@znieszka]

this is a Joke right! She came from Russia a place where everyone at that time wanted to leave - all the Russian girls are taught from day one merry rich and leave Russia. All she saw was the rich American Russian she was 20 what do you think a girl likr that knows. Her mom raised her to be a wife to a rich guy!

[@gracewilson6640]

I stumbled unto Valeria’s KZbin when she was at 40k subs, it was a steep rise even for me the viewer to see and she deserves it all.

[@fruityeva]

My opinion: It probably is a bit concerning having children so young and so fast after dating and getting engaged. I can imagine how desperate Valeria felt at that time to have children at such a young age. But from a business perspective. Having a partner who knows about business and believes in you can be really helpful and can push you so much. Really crazy how much impact they have now.✌️ Thank you for the episode. I learned a lot about the behind the scenes of the creator economy and what it takes to get to the top. ☺️

[@annakirshenbaum1458]

What's wrong with having children so young? I wish I had kids at twenty. She'll be a free person at forty. At twenty, you have much more energy. You know, those nights when you party till morning and are fresh as a cucumber the next day - that crazy amount of energy wasn't given us so we could dance and drink our life away, it's so we could spend sleepless nights taking care of our kids and still function the next day. Valeria is the one who did it right.

[@DanceAway152]

i thoroughly enjoyed this. As a follower of Valeria’s for quite some time now, it’s incredible to hear her and Gary’s perspective and vision of the business side of content creation. Learnt a lot through this.

[@GoonAdventure]

sorry for being the person who doesn't romanticize this type of relationship, I think it's a sexist stereotype, the way he talks about her as if it were a trophy for his ego....🙄

[@lillykoller]

It's so crazy !! I think she is so much smarter than him so he has to play the macho-card like she is his property. And I think he acts like an asshole and is like "yeah i am a man I am allowed to"

[@chrysistef4514]

Absolutely agree. There is so much well hidden manipulation and because of Valeria’s past and unstable family situation it was easy to handle her. I also believe that Valeria , even though she is lovely, does not necessarily enjoy all the attention. I feel that she is being pushed to perform because Gary is more outgoing. And no, opposites don’t attract. Some people are better off with their own tribe.

[@GoonAdventure]

@@chrysistef4514 so well said

[@ferguzman1490]

No one in the comments is talking about how good the questions were! That’s the first step to spark a brilliant conversation. You guys were great!!

[@moneybuyshappiness]

We appreciate that! Glad you enjoyed the chat❤️😎

[@mary.kedych]

I love this couple! Can listen them for ever 😅😅 Thank you guys ao much for the interview! It's great! ❤

[@moneybuyshappiness]

They’re the best! Energy and chemistry on fire 🤩

[@miosotiscortes6214]

I love Valeria so much, she is so composed and clever!

[@user-lb4ip3hb9k]

Amazing episode ❤.. guys really good questions, the conversation was amazing, absolutely natural, educational, with so much value...loved it ..I don't know how the 2 hours passed 😅

[@moneybuyshappiness]

It was just as fun for us! A lot of education and gems in this one 🤩 thanks for tuning in Majusa!

[@stellamaxwell777]

Came here from Val’s channel! Honestly one of the most interesting interviews I’ve listened to in recent memory. Fantastic job, guys 🎉 The ads weren’t to my liking, but I may not be your target demographic 😅 Keep up the great work!

[@talkingtochapri]

Wtf. It all sounds like a young immigrant girl got groomed by a predator preying on a girl who can't say No. And he was so quick to trap her and made her pregnant. A lot of old dudes do that, they mess around their whole life, and in old age, they look for a nurse with a purse 😅 Age very much matters in a relationship. Every woman deserves a young man who fulfills her needs and spends quality time with her, not an insecure grandpa 🤭 Hope she realise this bs and leaves.

[@MNDJTM]

On the other side, I think she saw a good deal and took it.

[@zahiaiad5751]

What she will gain in being with a young man who gonna ask her to go 50/50.

[@talkingtochapri]

​@@zahiaiad5751 do you not all young males ask for 50/50 relationships, my partner doesn't 😅 most people could never date a melting meat grandpa 🤭💀

[@talkingtochapri]

​@@MNDJTMMaybe, she married for alimony and child support. Because nobody is interested in elderly males their grandpa's age 😂

[@sakshishetty2201]

Am i the only one who thinks this marriage isn't as perfect as these two are selling it to be?

[@KayKayshaw]

They don’t even make it sound perfect to me…. a marriage isn’t supposed to be exactly the same, marriage to marriage. The “quality” of marriage depends on the characters of each of the spouse, y’ know?

[@user-gg5pw8iu9d]

At what point are they selling it to be perfect?

[@magnolia7321]

Lol they are like the realest couple out there that actually doesn’t try to sell their marriage as perfect - they sell it for what it actually is: a union of two different but strong individuals that complement each other

[@SummerBaby728]

Yes you are because for one, everyone knows no marriage is perfect, and two - no one is selling them as perfect especially not themselves. And three, they don’t give off any vibes of there being any kind of dark thing behind their relationship so your suspiciousness seems unfounded.

[@kimoralee-bp4eb]

To me they look like “showceros”

[@Chicquette]

Nice topic. Quick tip, the guests microphones were really low volume and had to listen on max, and then when you two spoke it just blasted the car speakers. Perhaps balance out the volumes a bit more?

[@OurloveisMusic]

It’s crazy that he seems proud, that he did not help with the children and that he locked her down young, so she would stay. Their whole relationship is based on power and money on his side and grooming her young to be his wife. And the podcast glorify it, instead of questioning the whole thing. The whole empowering her and almost pushing her to be bigger than she wants to, is just a disguise for him, that he preyed and groomed her and is still controlling the whole marriage. I hope she is happy, because it seems, like she is often really angry at him. Maybe it’s all transactional for both and they are aware of it, but sell this power couple dynamic as a brand.

[@dube88]

It's called being a sugarbaby

[@dube88]

@@RA-lc8ht nobody is upset about it. Just stating a fact. It is a choice fine but then don't go around doing other podcasts (not this one) called "you are not alone", talking about woman independence as if her life was like the one of many others that don't have a sdaddy or that money when you have made certain life choices.

[@dube88]

@@RA-lc8ht nobody talked about abuse. I don't see any abuse there.

[@stephgomez-xf3wd]

Let me just remind you grooming is a term used when adults prepare underage people to date them the moment they become 18. This is not grooming

[@OurloveisMusic]

@@stephgomez-xf3wd I mean she was just 18 when they met and the whole „nothing did happen, until she was older“ aka 19, is just bs. It’s still grooming imo, he was significantly older and she came straight from a different country and was new there…

[@mrdouche9172]

Young russian model and rich older guy. A tale as old as time.

[@max-mtg]

facts lmao

[@juliawinter8604]

His family is from Ukraine.

[@annadavis6630]

this rubs me the wrong way…

[@desikoleva9436]

She's got it all within her in order to be what she wants to be! I've always been a fan! I think they go well together and it's a good partnership because she creates and he scales it by the sounds of it. I do hope though.. that she is truly happy in her marriage because without a doubt she deserves it!

[@moneybuyshappiness]

Well said! Thanks for tuning in 🤩

[@itsvaivi1662]

Honestly? Gross and creepy money...he is into young girls and she's into money.

[@jazmeengood]

She is supposed to be with a bum?! Lol she is young and beautiful smart move on her part

[@SAJENICOLE]

Hun thats natural human nature. Women want secruirty, men want to be able to procreate with their mate. Basic human nature. AND how we keep the human race going. Going back to the beginning of time, the men that couldn't hunt and kill, their families DIDNT SURVIVE. The women who couldn't have kids, that family nameDIDNT SURVIVE. lol... SO in the modern age some people don't know how to identify that this is actually VERY basic human nature. ♥

[@zaram2806]

it's disgusting

[@Isilub]

- How did you know so early she’s good for you? - I’m old and ugly and she doesn’t know how to say no. What a nightmare. No matter how many millions.

[@Valencia_268]

So funny how scared people are when hearing a raw story about relationships..Like everyone is so perfect. Guys, it’s 2023 isn’t it? Let’s let people live the way they want! I see no problems in their relationships as long as it’s ok for them.

[@lanaconstanti-nova6379]

The thing is Lera was brought up by mom who went through Soviet times. All I wanted to say we Russians don't see it as a crime to date or marry someone 20 years older or even more in the old days. For her generation it's unusual, but I am 54 like her mom's generation. So...

[@mariposa1933]

For you all naysayers they have an amazing relationship which is totally normal. Dysfunctional relationships are so normalized that when two people have a healthy existence (NOT A PERFECT EXISTENCE) it’s comes off as fake to people. Not okay! I had my crap together, am educated and owned two houses before I met my hubby who is 16 years older than me. We don’t even have shared bank accounts. We didn’t need anything from each other and we have no kids although we love them. Unfortunately my health was a problem. We are super happy, have no drama, are each others best friends and married for 10 years now. Nothing is perfect and we do have our moments, but you CAN have a successful marriage WITH a huge age gap and it has nothing to do with money. Circumstance are always different for everyone, but when you seek peace you get peace.

[@theechubbyone]

What she was describing is weaponized incompetence. It's actually pretty exhausting and not fair to pass off a lot of the domestic labor and maintenance to women just because. We don't like any of that stuff either.😒😒😒

[@stefangeorg5435]

She can do a lot better...

[@GoonAdventure]

true she is very insecure

[@icantwiththis]

They both know it

[@carlymaher8581]

How is it that they were married with two kids and Gary had no idea what she did for 9 hours a day...

[@BusinessFinancialNetwork]

BBM old school vibes more relationships nowadays start as friendships it’s authentic. #MBHpodcast rocks Gary is sharp af 🧠📈 and Valeria is talented 👏🏽

[@moneybuyshappiness]

BBM days! 🤩

[@Spicytots5]

Love this video! Just a suggestion, I think that having all guests in the same frame would be easier on the eyes than moving for each different side talking.

[@rianna20]

NikkieTutorials is the new Oprah of the generation. An absolutely selfmade charismatic person with noooo backup help of videographers etc. I like how Valeria shines bright - absolutely stunning personality. But she had much luck and support, imho.

[@B3damn]

But the fact that nikki is trans also helped her publicity wise

[@elenavasiliu2827]

I am so thankful that you took the interview with both of them, I follow Valeria since the beginning (making healthy snacks and so on) and I find their evolution fascinating!

[@adelshanlee]

Omg this is the best interview I’ve watched, because I learned so so much. So much insights, learnings, and unselfish sharing. Pls do more of these! Thank you :)

[@moneybuyshappiness]

Thank you for tuning in 🤩

[@heidibedidee]

lol my husband did a very similar thing with driving me home when it was completely out of his way, back when he was pursuing me but I wasn't interested. We are married now with kids.

[@moneybuyshappiness]

Seems like a smart move to make! 😂👏

[@noname-tj3rp]

Seriously gross. What does an almost 40-year-old want with a literal teenager? Can't even have a proper convo, worlds are so different. Shes doesn't look like she loves him at all. I guess he was a way into an easy world

[@juliawinter8604]

You make him older and her younger as they were😂

[@vaportrails7943]

@@juliawinter860420 years old. A literal teenager. You are smaaart.

[@Drunkcilla]

Hahahahaha a friend hooked me up with my now husband online because of our distance, told me I am his wife by the phone after 3 days of talking with each other. I thought it was BS when we haven’t yet seen each other yet. He went to see me in person after 2 weeks with a Cartier diamond ring. And now we are married getting stronger for almost 9 years and we have 16 years age gap. He was the most player in the world but he just became the most adorable, faithful husband in the universe ! I love my twin soul to death!

[@LyPham-zx1sx]

Gary gives you faith for finding the man of your life! That level of wisedom and understanding!

[@AnjuliMack]

WOWWWW it feels weird to be this early 😂 Excited to hear this one - 18 years clearly works for them. Congrats on the growth guys!! Smashing it, well deserved.

[@moneybuyshappiness]

We appreciate you Anjuli! Thanks for tuning in 🤩

[@AnjuliMack]

@@moneybuyshappiness always supporting rocket 🚀

[@vmuz3516]

This so funny I literally met my husband at 19, I invited him over through a friend. We were taking for 2 weeks and went on a date and he purposed to me 2 months after and we got married 6 months later we both knew from the very beginning. 8 year later and I’m so grateful to build a family, we have ❤. Hard work pays off

[@louvrebaby]

that’s lovely! 💗

[@adaw332]

How old was your husband when you were 19?

[@vmuz3516]

@@adaw332 he was 21

[@adaw332]

@@vmuz3516 It's important that you say it because I guarantee there are a lot of pervs her assuming you are like this girl who married an old creep, and as you are saying, that's not the case at all. It's a 2-year gap, THE NORMAL SITUATION BY FAR

[@MBlondeRebellion]

@@vmuz3516 21 and 19 sounds way more healthy and normal than a 19 y/o with a 38 y/o . god, he was starting Uni when she was being pushed out of her mom's uterous!

[@CLEOPATRA2311]

Someone needs to state that the age gap works (for a awhile) if someone is loaded with money...Daddy issues beautiful immigrant girl meets Grooming immature narcissist .He try to sealed the deal by impregnated the girl right away in the fear she ll go away.The guy looks like her father and he doesn t even sound like he is evolved in his family at all. He wanted someone to raise his kids as he works on his business already being a middle age man.How is that a good example of a father and a husband ? Valeria seems like an nice , talented,grounded person, but the business she created for herself having 3 kids at the same time, was due to money privilege.Having everything provided and having nannies gives you the time to be creative, so you dont be just a housewife or someone s wife.I know so many couples like that...woman when hits 40 and kids are grown leaves the marriage and end up happy with someone their age with a big alimony .

[@hb5664]

I'm so happy I found this comment. The producers of this podcast only seem to like positive comments, which says a lot. Why are so many people commenting here that they have such a beautiful relationship? Usually the internet is full with "How to spot a narcissist" videos, where the first thing they state is "if he proposes to you within the first couple of weeks and claims that you belong to him and he's lovebombing you, get the fuck out" and in this case, people are like "wow, such an inspiration" . When he said "After 10 days, I told her You Are my Wife!" I got the chills. It seems more like that he saw her young age as something he can still "form" into the character he wanted, and that she was vulnerable to his authority and wealth. All of a sudden age does not matter anymore (and the power relations that naturally appear if one of them has more life experience), all of a sudden it does not matter that the guy is disgusted by the poop of his own kids and simply denies to change their diapers, all of a sudden all of the shit coming out of this man's mouth is like "oh my god, thank you for your honesty". Yes, he got criticism for that, but looking at the comment section here, he has enough supporters who motivate him to continue spreading his opinions all over the internet. This generation is fucked up, let me tell you. As long as the money flows and that dude has a trophy wife to fit into his lifestyle, that's all he seems to care about. As long as she is fine with it, good for her. But let's not normalize and support this. We live in a society where social media fame and big business is suddenly all we seem to care about. Nothing wrong with traditional roles and family values. But this guy thinks being the "provider" means only bringing home the money. A provider, a man, is also someone who can provide support to his wife and children and be the strong shoulder to rely on once it gets tough. That dude took the sentence "traditional roles" and brought it to a whole new level. Not wanting to be involved in your child's first couple of years and their upbringing overall, because it's annoying, just screams "I'm a narcissist". He can't get any benefits out of them (love is apparently not so important), so he leaves it to his wife. Everyone watching this should rethink their view on a healthy relationship and should stop admiring this. Let's not make these people and their opinions more important than they are. Yeah money is important to have, but this is just fucked up and they should stay away from influencing young adults with this. I don't want young women to accept this bullshit from their partners, thinking it's totally normal.

[@sandrabojovic4817]

What can I tell you? I'm disgusted beyond words. But, if this sugar daddy scheme works for the two of them, good for them, I guess? I mean, I wouldn't want to be their child. What will their children learn about male-female relationships?

[@user-lc4sg3tv1k]

Well recently had a closer look, and realized that there is nothing but a community of ~ estimated 100 people on this channel who regularly comments and praises how wonderful, amazing and great everything is. From the 2 Million subscribers, only 30-80K watch the videos. I got disappointed in her integrity, I just made a comment on kids exposure and she ranted on this. She is constantly exposing her kids including her toddler. I feel sorry for this little guy, as I feel sorry for the kids being used as cash cows. Of course they love their mother. All kids do until they are grown up and possibly question things. You should not take love as consent or as a proof for your correct decisions.

[@kristinacvetkovic5620]

​@@hb5664 bravoo! Great thinking ❤

[@jokerblum6255]

This should be the top comment!!!

[@firelordplayz]

Summary: a pretty young girl fell for a rich old guy who could be her father. The end.

[@lennalooor]

Loki my life rn

[@levismirnoff5450]

Who has children at 18? In what low socioeconomic stratum are you? Glasshouse + stones much.

[@Tia.K.C]

I wholeheartedly agree on the partnership contribution to each others success. Considering they’ve been together for 13 years they have contributed 13 years to each others success and this is key to any long lasting partnership is remembering you are all the ships: friendship, partnership, companionship, and relationship. My parents have always admitted that they make a good team in many areas, they always try to help each other out with almost every area of life, and they thank each other for that help. The representation of Valeria’s support system is obvious. My parents practically raised each other having gotten together at 21 😂. My sister the same, she is successful and her husband is her best cheerleader. My father is always encouraging my mom to do what makes her happy.

[@ailintouran8442]

So I understood that it doesn't work! she is clearly angry at him probably bcuz she feels she's been forced into this.

[@dipendrasah4255]

Money in the right hands can change and make so many life happy ❤️❤️❤️❤️💯

[@moneybuyshappiness]

Agreed! 📠

[@elism8862]

So he is old and didn’t compensate it by caring even more after the kids?🤣

[@visionboardpodcast]

We need Valerie and Gary on the vision board podcast!!

[@moneybuyshappiness]

They’d kill it!

[@danielacorreia1566]

They are so sweet together

[@moneybuyshappiness]

Agreed 🤩

[@summerbird4288]

They’re great couple. Very down to earth, vibrant, joyous ❤

[@appleprieto5350]

The longest YT video I’ve ever watched! I don’t even know these people but it’s so interesting!🎉

[@cinnamonteeth]

She got the money/stabiliry but not the good husband. It’s shameful for him not to be that involved with the kids and he seems very old fashioned.

[@zahiaiad5751]

He paid for the nanny

[@talhacreates4944]

I'm subscribing, you guys are such natural hosts! Keep it up lads

[@moneybuyshappiness]

Thanks Talha! Welcome to the show 🤩

[@user-lc4sg3tv1k]

I'd criticize the constant exposure of Valeria's kids on KZbin. There are footages that e.g. show the boys' love for farts (just to give one example...). Is that fair for the 18 year old Ben, trying to mate with other girls? Is that fair for the 30 year old Ben, trying to survive in the often harsh business world? With millions of strangers having witnessed his entire childhood, his vulnerable sides, the development of his intelligence? Not to mention filming the 4 year old toddler.... Stop abusing kids for content and $$$. Stop confusing kids' love for consent. They do not have a concept of privacy or a full understanding of SM yet to be able to decide for themselves.

[@games4music]

Yes, Do not use children, they are not toys !

[@talkingtochapri]

That grandpa is trying to make everything about himself 🤭💀 And no opposite doesn't attract. There is a time and a place for everything.

[@Smiley145]

Hey! Thanks for this amazing episode ❤ I can say that you guys are the best hosts ever , I love the way you’re spreading the vibe and listening carefully without interrupting the guest. Keep going! I’m waiting for more episodes 😀

[@ritzismynamo]

18:40 Girl yes!! Ive said this a million times! They play dumb and half ass it so they dont have to do it. 🙄😒

[@tatianabarburasi]

Really enjoyed this conversation. Very insigthful. Thank you!!! and btw ... what watch are they both rocking?

[@moneybuyshappiness]

Thanks for tuning in Tatiana 🤗 I believe they have matching Rolexes !

[@GoonAdventure]

@@moneybuyshappiness nope i think they are patek philippe

[@lalaland1541]

I been follow Valeria for 3 year already . love this ! some advice from them really benefit too

[@moneybuyshappiness]

She is packed with knowledge and experience 🧠

[@maasdd]

such an amazing couple , thx for doing this

[@moneybuyshappiness]

It was our pleasure! Thanks for tuning in 💪🤩

[@itsrebeccaconte]

I was in London when there was that meet up, It was AMAZING to meet with them, I hope they will do the same 🥰

[@moneybuyshappiness]

Glad you got to meet them! Such a power couple 💪

[@soggybiscuit6098]

Age gap? 💸 💰 says yas queen

[@jbslawnservices2165]

You guys just get better and better !

[@moneybuyshappiness]

That’s real love! Appreciate you🙏❤️

[@nourhaneelsayed7309]

I wanna thank You guys for sharing the real story and talking abt it openly it was really helpful

[@andrearoubalova2265]

Amazing podcast ✨ really loved that and enjoyed it a lot! Love from Czech republic:)

[@moneybuyshappiness]

Love to hear it! Thanks for tuning in Andrea 🤗

[@mbhclips]

Incredible episode!

[@moneybuyshappiness]

Familia 👋

[@lgobi2273]

Nice video!, I enjoyed to listen how this relationship was built 😊

[@moneybuyshappiness]

Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for tuning in 👋

[@csc1641]

He looks like her Grandpa. You can tell she's not into it.

[@cristinavanputten9812]

Just sooo focused on money... Incredible. "I followed my instinct" - he followed the money. Someone pays 10k for something no need to have instinct nor business sense to know where the money is... I dont know I guess it may also be because I am european but highly uninspiring materialism

[@Dgnmuse]

His comment of “good girl” put me off. 38 and didn’t have a wife so went for a 20 year old that was staying at her moms…

[@fernandahudson1101]

I didn't know you needed to use your V to change a diaper or whatever else gary doesn't have

[@OurloveisMusic]

It’s really sad, that he seems almost proud, that he did not help with the children 🥴 it’s really sad!

[@user-zg1cy1ct3d]

The best podcast I’ve ever watched! Wow! ❤😍🔥

[@moneybuyshappiness]

🤩 that’s real love!!

[@klaudiamagyar1088]

I was already watching her videos in 2016. And by then she was done with the blog. Why do i remember it better?😃

[@taram9401]

this video was so amazing I'm so thankful for all the raw info!!!!

[@mceciliabcv]

The Lipovetskys! My favourite people on social media, and I don’t like social media at all. But these two make it worth it. I didn’t know your show, and this was such a candid and intelligent exchange. Congratulations! 👏🏽👏🏽

[@anarivodeaux]

Wow. What a great interview. Thank you guys!

[@moneybuyshappiness]

Glad you enjoyed it Anastasia! Thanks for tuning in✅

[@GillianBerry]

love the new branding!

[@moneybuyshappiness]

Glad you do! 🤩

[@dipendrasah4255]

1% better all day everyday 📈

[@simonamankova]

this feels like masterclass. i love it!

[@moneybuyshappiness]

It really was! So much value and knowledge. Thanks for tuning in!