CAN I VENT

[@benandheatherh]

People like to bring up your past because your present and future looks better than theirs.

[@ffffrog1]

Well said!!

[@EB5005]

A woman who doesnt take child support? Bless your wonderful kind spirited heart Carlie!!!!!!

[@CentennialCripple]

Get em Carlie!! Screw the haters, keep doing you. We got you.

[@CarlieStylez]

Thank you so much! XX

[@knoose]

People can tell when youtubers are thinking more about that business rather than audience. No one thinks its bad when people do business deals, its just how its approached.

[@CarlieStylez]

I think this is a great approach and point of view, thank you for sharing that!

[@roblecai]

It's videos like these why I love watching Carlie's videos. Kick ass, taking names, spiking some humor into the mix and keeping it real.

[@StayConnectedEV]

Carly i am always tough on you. DONT SWEAT IT! You have an audience. Don't worry.. relax..

[@CarlieStylez]

Tough love :). thank you. xo

[@ItsEulonzo]

You're one of those people where when I watch your videos, I legitimately feel like I'm having a conversation with someone I've known for a while. Love this video, Carlie! I'm definitely glad I've gotten into your videos recently. :)

[@MissHellmage]

I respect how you layed it all down!! You get to choose what info you want out and ppl need to respect that! You are doing a great job being a Mom and working woman to take care of your own! You go girl!!

[@xxangeleyesxx804]

I love your vent sessions! I also am a mother who didn't take child support and did and still am doing it on my own. You are an amazing woman and such an inspiration!

[@ShaunnaConti]

Not long ago I became a member of the Carlie Stylez KZbin page. I didn't know anything about Carlie or that you even had a son, but when I did find out Cooper was yours I didn't really care about the facts. Sure I was curious about what happened with the divorce but I let it go because it wasn't my business. Cooper is an amazing kid and you are an amazing mom with raising him. When you were talking about moving on and having a new life, it made me think something. If a couple was dating and broke up, neither would want to be known as the guy/girl that dated so-and-so, especially if they're dating someone else. So I can understand how annoying that must be. I idolize you for this video. I wish I could tell people off this easily!

[@CarlieStylez]

Thank you so much for this comment and support. I can feel your honesty and love. IT makes me so happy! thank yoU! XO

[@Heatherkc1995]

Your such an amazing person and inspiration Carlie! Keep doing what you're doing and there's a lot of us here to support you through EVERYTHING

[@CarlieStylez]

You are so sweet. Thank you! xo

[@pihla01]

So happy you told us about your gift to Steve and showed us the pictures of you two together. I got a gift idea from that and want to do that kind of a scrapbook for my husband on our one year anniversary. :) Thanks!

[@CarlieStylez]

Yay!! thank you this makes me so happy!

[@andreawilson21]

Do you girl!! Your a strong, independent hard working woman setting a good example for others. Keep up the good work

[@Charz139]

The annoying audible brand deals piss me off though because nearly every KZbinr does it! But I love all the people I'm subscribed to so I just fast forward those bits, it's not that difficult to do so why do people hate about it?

[@CarlieStylez]

I also feel like the you tubers I know, only do deals that really benefit everyone involved and most companies pitch them that way!

[@kittykittymeow703]

Oh my GOODNESS, carlie you are super inspirational, and I LOVE your honesty. Most people find it impossible to be upfront with one another. I love that your real with us. Oh and its sweet that you do brand deals, who doesn't like discounts?? People need to take a chill pill, you have a large fanbase here that's travelling on this road we call life with you. And I for one, appreciate your input! Praying for you girl!

[@Desensitized19]

I don't understand the people that complain about brand deals... DUH you need to get paid. Brand deals allow you to keep making videos and I looove your videos, so I think it's a great thing! Get it girl

[@Laura.v.b]

I love when you get real with us. I think it opens up people eyes to how life/ youtube really is. KZbin is just the same as movies Product placement/ sponsor is a thing no big deal :) Carlie you have very quickly become my favourite KZbin and I try really hard never to miss a video. You look so beautiful in this video :)

[@rubyoakley4532]

Do what you have to do, we will always love and support you. Most of us understand that youtubers need to do a brand deal every now and then to continue making videos. Love your videos and the message you portray to your audience. Keep going :)

[@BrittRamez]

Girl!!!!!! More power to you, I completely agree with you! Your life is your life. Moving forward and not giving authority to anyone else is an amazing way to live. Your are a great mother and the fact that you are authentic and vulnerable is what makes you even more lovable. Love you lots and keep trucking on!!!

[@viioletukasss9]

love what u so natural real talking about business and ect. :)

[@CarlieStylez]

thank you. xo

[@OurTwinLife]

Carlie, we just started doing this full time and many people don't realize how hard this really is! Some days just feel like you have accomplished NOTHING, but then you get a special message or a sub makes you a video and it lifts your spirits. Sometimes it just takes a Carlie video to inspire me to keep plugging away. No matter .. you have a wonderful support team and we admire you so very much !

[@aturner83indy]

You have my complete support and always have! I appreciate the fact you are different than other KZbinrs and that's what makes the community such a success. Love ya!

[@nicci337]

Carlie I'm subscribing because I value your honesty i'm a single mum as well and know how challenging it can be your doing an amazing job!

[@nicci337]

So glad you found love as well 7 years divorced and i'm still looking for mine!

[@TheStimpsons]

I'm so proud of you... I think it's awesome that you are standing up for YOU!!! Keep doing what you are doing and you will be unstoppable!! YOU GO GIRL!! You should do a "don't be that hater video" hahahah xo

[@roudydogg1]

Best Monday vlog (never in forever would I imply every other monday was anything less than best) in a while! Enjoyed the catchup c:

[@jessiixoolynn]

Hi Carlie! I just joined your channel (coming from Shaytards). I love your honesty and how upfront you are. Thanks for being honest and doing the best you can for your son. My parents are divorced and I could not imagine having thousands of people questioning my mom's decisions on a daily basis. Keep up the great work you are doing and focus on how blessed you are!

[@zeehundred100]

In all fairness to Carlie she uploads videos full of entertainment for all of us for FREE. I think she deserves a bit more than a few brand deals for that. Yes she gets paid for them and maybe her videos but we aren't paying to watch her content. So why do people have such an issue? You don't ask an accountant or teacher about their earnings? Carlie you are a wonderful beautiful person and an amazing mother. Don't let people get to you. There are always going to be people with itchy noses that love to gossip about you. Better have people talking about you than not talking at all. You have plenty of subscribers who love and adore you and back you 100% remember that always. You are very right you are Carlie Butler in her own right and an amazing human a true angel on earth you're not attached to anyone else! Love you loads chin up pet! X

[@emmashawc]

Love how honest you always are Carlie! Your positivity is always so inspiring, your channel is where I come if I need some motivation, thank you! x

[@justinebarker]

I have been following you for a few years Carlie and I'm so proud of how far you have come! I'm so happy that you have been able to use youtube to support you and your son... You're an inspiration.

[@KrissywalkerCo]

honestly i love these real talks Carlie! And i think the people that get so upset over you doing brand deals are the people that aren't really in the youtube culture, and don't really understand what its about. Every single person with 50k+ subscribers (or even less in some cases) does brand deals regularly or has done at least one. Honestly i hope that when i finally get a job i'll be able to tell people "I'm getting paid to do what i love, and i get to help people" cause i think thats pretty freaking cool that you can say that

[@leighannsays]

awww ily carlie!

[@fergusson24]

Yes!! You tell em! Love your honesty and straight forward attitude. It must be difficult to move on with life when people keep throwing your past up when they have no reason or business too. You are a great mum and role model to young women and i will continue to watch and support you for as long as you allow us xx

[@juliab6999]

This video was so refreshing. You addressed it without causing a spark for more and that's difficult to do. Congratulations, I think you're a great role model!

[@Sesumii]

Awww, the pictures were so sweet! Love to see you all together as a family! :)

[@sarafae]

It shouldn't matter even if they are brand deals - you have a little boy to take care of! It's nice to hear that you only agree to brand deals with products that you actually like. I can't really imagine you doing a brand deal for whiskey. I can't really comment much on the divorce part, but that's your life and people should stay out of it. I'm sure it's hard enough without people constantly talking about it. Anyway, we love your butt too, Carly. :D

[@emilylikessmakeup]

proud of you for doing this video! i found your channel through shay ages ago, but i appreciate you as your own person! you should be proud of you as a person and the mother and girlfriend you are! also, i love using photobox to print off my photos! xx

[@RoseKimberly]

I love you & support you a 100%;)

[@CarlieStylez]

Thank you ROSE. xox

[@EmmaSheridan2004]

Me too

[@sometimesshelynn5625]

I really enjoy when you put your viewers in their place haha. Like you said, a lot of people may scold you for ‘feeding the trolls’, but there’s only so much criticism a person can take before they have to take a stand and establish some boundaries! This is why so many of your viewers look up to you - you're a lover but you're also a fighter and when you do fight it's always for the right reasons

[@Joana_v]

I love you Carlie and will always support you! You are an example of determination.Thank you

[@Mysteriousheadlines]

I love you Carlie! I have been watching you for almost three years and I support you and I everything you do! People can be frustrating sometimes and you have a right to get feisty every now and again. Keep being awesome!

[@DailyAnni]

I love those venting videos, haha

[@CarlieStylez]

sometimes I is a feisty pants.

[@aiavila2010]

CarlieStylez are you still doing those ItWorks wraps?? I'm interested that's why I ask lol

[@Lexaloodle]

Girl, you do you to make it in this world. I understand that this is your job. Make that money! Get those brand deals!

[@sweetkiki16]

I have a lot of respect for your honesty and I think you are a strong woman. I know you make your family proud!! Love your vlogs!!

[@owensmatt]

Carlie, one of your newest subscribers. I enjoy your post; awesome seeing your life/lifestyle. That vent totally caught things up but just saying, you've gained more then support with being open and truthful. Tough chick for sure! Stay positive and stay focused on positive things! Keep up the hard work & best wishes for the future!

[@MettaWP]

Carlie, YOU ARE THE MAN! Keep doing what you're doing! Keep your head up and stay positive! I love watching you cause your a nut and can talk for dayzzz! I met Steve last year here in San Jose while working out at Golds Gym a couple hours before the Fit Expo opened up! He was recording (and even taking selfies) so I asked him what it was for and he said it was for his KZbin channel! It didn't click until I was in line at the OptimumNutrition booth and I was so stoked cause I just saw him a couple hours prior! Even since that day he's been my fitness motivation to get YOKED!💪 Just wanted to share that with ya! Stay strong! You're awesome!

[@RandomShtbyAllie]

i love you carlie!!! haters gonna hate theres lot girls that hate me say rude things to me at school i just walk it off say screw them!

[@yvettenoriega8968]

I love your honesty and that u keep it real! Even tho some of it shouldn't be our business people push so hard to make it our business. . I think you handle it well and love it when the feistyness comes out.. as for the brand deals almost everyone on KZbin does brand deals how else would they get paid.. just that some KZbinrs try to hide it.. I stand behind you in everything you choose to do! Love your butt ♥

[@iluvdance2010]

You are so amazingly beautiful Carlie, even without washing your hair or barely wearing makeup!!

[@CarlieStylez]

Ahhh JEssica you so sweet! Thank you. xo

[@eleshaburgess8567]

Carlie you need to put food on the table you owe no one an explanation. I watch because your fun and I hope you get paid for that. I also hope shay telos you out when the money cones rolling in lol

[@amystirling7926]

I enjoy watching all the butler siblings each for a different reason and I think some viewers need to start embracing the differences instead of wanting everyone to be the same

[@Ashe4497]

I love Carlie's vents! They Always make me laugh! Your always still such a happy person even when your mad!

[@Dorkerex]

I love how you described not being shay "guys I don't have a beard " you are the best

[@cl4za]

I really love this. your character and personality is so sweet and amazing and so funny!!

[@728lam]

Love you girl keep your head up always everything happens for a reason. It makes me smile to see how close you and Steve are, so happy for you two :) ♡

[@Shanpoo777]

I love your personality Carlie! Please remember that the ones that put you down are just very unhappy people and wanting to make you unhappy as well. I find it very sad when people have to spread hate to people that are truly just trying to be a good person. You're rant helped me in another way. I have a problem with over sharing. Many years I have tried to curb this habit and I feel your rant really got to me that I "do" need to pick and choose what I share. Good luck and keep your positive outlook on life it's a beautiful thing and contagious. Love ♡ your butt!

[@Reina-1-43]

Love you Carlie! Keep it up girl. I was a single mom until my son was 5...I know the struggle and I really relate to you in they sense. You continue to inspire me every day! I'm glad to see you happy and successful. You deserve it! ❤️

[@ohheylili]

First CarlieStylez video I've watched EVER! I will definately keep watching man! I love your attitude and spirit (: yayayayayyyyyy okay bye

[@kristine1794]

Honestly, sometimes I question people in this world when times are bad. It's easy to focus on the negative. But you are really such a beautiful and genuine person. I'm more than glad that I'm subscribed to you and give you support. I don't know you personally, but I wish you all the happiness in the world. Your beauty comes from within, and that is truly inspiring. Love you Carlie!

[@chefjanet2k]

Hi, Carlie! Keep it simple....hug him, extra close.....kiss him and whisper in his ear how much you love him and will miss him. THAT gift, in my humble opinion is what is truly important. Not an object that he will carry around with him but a true "gift" from your heart. It doesn't always have to be a present, you know?

[@strawberry2233]

You're awesome Carlie, always inspiring me! I hope you find lots to keep you busy while you and Steve are apart.. I know how tough that is. God bless! And wooo you go girl! You are such a respectable independent woman. I support you with any brand deals, any brands you just feel like supporting because you love them and your videos of any kind! Honestly I feel like I get the KZbin process and how it is you job and I will always watch because I know you have such a passionate heart and love what you do. Without some of those things you wouldn't be able to just have this be your job and with that would mean less videos, I wish people would connect those dots.. You have my support, love you girl!

[@JaamieMaarie]

Seriously I swear I wish every youtuber was like this. There's really a connection you can make with viewers by sharing a lot which I know makes you more vulnerable to hate comments but there's people that'll stick by you through whatever & that's what matters.

[@jannekeuh]

you go girl ❤️❤️❤️😘 haterz gonna hate !! Haha, I love you girl. You are amazing as an individuel. You are an amazing mom, sister and just an amazing woman.

[@ilonkalemperger1110]

Preach it girl! As a single mom know exactly where you're coming from. I Support you 100% and I know your a great mom and a beautiful person. you don't need people who can't handle what you do or know when to just butt out of your life deal with their own.

[@julienguyen4546]

I love the scrap book!!! Some of us will always support you!!

[@StubbsFarmAlpacas]

Even when you talk about what you eat, I find you so charming! I'm normally not a fan of watching people ramble, but yours actually interest me! Ignore the hate, you are so happy and blessed to be living the life you are so keep it up!

[@oliviadupe2392]

OH MY GOD I LAUGHED SO HARD WHEN YOU JUST RANDOMLY SAID "I don't coach baseball, I'm just wearing a baseball hat because I need to wash my hair" LOVE YOU CARLIE

[@TTCHILOREMOTE]

Omg I love how real you are! It's refreshing to see youtubers with no Shame and so real something no offense your brother doesn't do keep it up you inspire me :)

[@HediSalm]

Love You Carlie! You inspire so many, including me!! Do whatever makes you happy!!!!

[@daniabbott9326]

Carlie, you have always been a crazy inspiration to me! You are killing it. Keep it up girl.

[@michellehutchinson6116]

Get um girl!! Haha dude I love you and your brand deals :)

[@phoebemartin1784]

I love your support and advice Carlie. You, Casey, Shay and the Shaytards are my KZbin inspiration. Thank You don't know what i would do without you.

[@jessicasalmeron0214]

Wow this video is just amazing! ! The fact that ppl still hate on you after u explaining to us detail by detail is just stupid.plz don't pay attention to the haters. You and your siblings are all very different (I watch all yalls channel every day) but you inspire me to be a better mom since I'm a single mom of two kids. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing a part of your life with us.

[@fudgmonkeys34]

don't worry carlie, I don't care if some of your products may or may not be a brand deal coz I have tried them and they are really good, like your skincare products that you mentioned a wile back, I tried and really liked and if it wasn't for you mentioning them and liking the product I would not have tried

[@CarlieStylez]

THANK YOU! like I said I wouldn't have promoted it or offered it if I didn't stand by it 100%

[@fudgmonkeys34]

CarlieStylez thankyou for your product promotions and opinions. I always like hearing opinions before trying a new product. there is nothing worse than paying good money on products that don't work. I like listening to your reviews/promotions coz they have been tried and tested and work . and I know that you truthful and wont promote a product that is not worth the money. sending you love from Australia

[@MacFootball57]

Just started watching your vlogs today. I've seen 3 videos and I already love you haha

[@TaylinJaye]

Good for you Carlie! Some people just need to hear it straight. "Sometimes I post a lot of selfies of Instagram, sue me." I died laughing! Love ya girl and keep your head up because true fans will always stick by you. Love your butt :)

[@Kristennicole622]

I just LOVE you! I respect what you DO so much! And you are good at it! Love this video, and love your new style video as well. You are so talented Carlie! Keep shining bright! =)

[@rebeccabarnes1946]

Good on you! I have only become a fan in the last few months but from what I've seen of your family, I really respect you guys. I really love how real you are, because if there's something bugging you, you'll deal with it and let people know how you feel. Of course your going to take brand deals etc, like you said, it's your job and I hope you can ignore people who judge you for that because their not worth your time. You have every right to keep certain information private and I think it's shows the strength of your character that you approach the whole situation so maturely.

[@saramsjarvis2381]

Tell them Carly!!! :D Love you, your channel, your work.. and also your house, btw! That couch seems comfy!!! :P

[@gbgb56]

Carlier you are so funny! Don't worry we love you, keep doing what you do!! Your honesty is off the chart and that is why I'm here on your channel :-) God bless!!!

[@nailpolishfreakify]

I love you Carlie and I will always support you

[@CarlieStylez]

Thank you so much. xo

[@BethanyKilpatrickMusic]

Thankyou for being real! People can be so nosey. I watch the videos because you are a real person who doesn't read a script, you tell the truth! I appreciate you! @carlystylez

[@beccabirdx]

Love how much respect you have for yourself and you stand up for that! You inspire me :) x

[@savannahflemming3159]

i absolutely love you! The first time I saw you was on shays Christmas special and I was like WHO IS SHE !!! I was so glad u had a Chanel😍 you are so amazing! Don't forget that! Don't worry about the people who hate! Look at the lovers! You are sooooo motivational! I looooove you!!!

[@tonozorras6736]

Love you Carlie you are amazing and inspire people daily.. Haters are gonna always have something to say but the thing of it is if they don't like what you are doing why are they still watching .. I think some people just like to be mean spirited through the net ... In real life those same people probably would never say a word to ur face..

[@laurasmyth6296]

You don't have to explain yourself Miss C ❤️

[@CarlieStylez]

Thank you Laura. Love this and love you. xo

[@laurasmyth6296]

Oh and there we have it, one of those horrible people who have nothing nice to say so instead they just talk crap. Jog on!

[@lindashelley3635]

+stsrvto. This is just an expression, all the Butlers use it. Shay says it all the time to all kinds of random people, whether he knows them or not. It's just their equivalent of 'take care' or 'mind how you go' To use an old British saying it's really nothing to get your knickers in a twist over!!

[@macyschoen]

Seriously so inspirational. I started watching you because of shay but I love how different you guys are. Love the Butler family. 😘😍

[@susannaeich6281]

Just wanted to stop by and let you know that you've gotten me into the habit of saying, "cute bum, where ya from?" I feel like it's our inside joke or thing. Love you and I am so proud of everything you are working for! Excited for you!

[@Keepskatin]

I like watching people vent,I was one of those viewers who stopped watching,and yes I was busy with life,and still are business with life.The title of the video pulled me in,I had to watch.That's a tip,you have to create titles that catch the attention of subscribers and randoms.I'm also a random,even though I'm subscribed.

[@CarlieStylez]

Thank you so much for leaving this comment and sharing your honesty with me. XX

[@Goodnurse99]

Carlie..your awesome inside and out! Ignore your haters, delete their comments, and block them. Your true followers know your genuine!

[@missychelle33]

You are a beautiful, strong, courageous woman please don't worry about the negativity! Even if you are promoting a product you are not forcing anyone purchase anything! It's ply young kids who don't understand! No worries love! Ps...I tried the NLA bc of you and I love it!! You rock!! Xoxo

[@aprilramirez5177]

Carlie I love that u r always yourself and not pretending to be someone that your not ♡♥♡♥

[@isitRachelle]

I appreciate your vlogs because you bring so much more depth to conversation.

[@MissaWillTN]

Love you Carlie! I'm a dork too!!! Dorks rule. Lol

[@CarlieStylez]

Thats whats up.

[@cathairpoodle]

honesty? I love it. I subscribed. :)

[@thecreativebabycow]

I love pictures of u and Steve, it makes me happy to see you and cooper happy!!!! Love you Carlie!!!!!!

[@mshockey73]

Carly, I have a favorite quote that I found on pinterest that applies to what you talked about today. It goes like this........."Don't judge me by my past because I don't live there anymore".

[@pamelajocelyn9210]

Carlie speaks the TRUTH. People need to calm down and leave the parts of her that she doesn't post on the internet alone.

[@dianneraneri9344]

I love that you are so REAL Carlie. Only you know what's right for you, Cooper and Steve. People behave so inappropriately with the cover of anonymity. Don't let 'em get to you. Anyone can see that you have a beautiful heart. Love you!!!

[@tayshaglover5737]

i love your channel i love how honest you are and i honestly like most of the brand deals you do i like how you do good reviews on the product as well plus alot of the time we get some kind of discount just keep smiling carlie you rock and your an amazing mother :)

[@Justmichy1]

Carlie you are a most generous honest person!!! Try not to take some of those comments to heart! Those that know you love you for who you are and what you stand for!!! Hold your head up high, stand tall, you ARE a GOOD person and a great MOM!!! Remember some of your audience are kids that do not have a clue what real life is all about!!! Stay strong, love you lots!!!!