One Foot In And One Foot Out?

[@Southernsunsetters]

Not loving myself WAS the thorn in my relationship. Once I began to love and honor myself, the dynamics of all of my relationships changed. I didn’t have to leave anyone to be happy. I knew that I would be taking my broken self with me if I ended my relationship. I love my partner and knew that he deserved to know my whole self. Once I became whole by loving myself, our relationship became more loving.

[@nehemilia5033]

I agréé with you

[@karenmininni4962]

Original Wounding causes so many issues. When you asked for what you needed and were never validated or given what you needed you STOPPED ASKING. It was always easier to just do it all yourself without having to beg for needs to be met. Meanwhile, the ones who never validated or given back are still asking for MORE.

[@suncluster]

It’s an expression of my self-love to stay away from people who can’t be all in. If they don’t have the accountability for dealing with their emotional wounds I consider it a 🚩 for a future Betrayal.

[@ingegirl518]

Sure am resonating with this video. Just got rid of the relationship that was not working, now on to the next blockage asking myself "what do I want"

[@sensi6457]

Candace is a genius. Ive never heard anyone speak so clearly, so simply, and so directly to the truth. If only psychologists over here could learn from her

[@nehemilia5033]

Everything that I ever needed was intimacy with God. In Christ there is everything

[@winniewinkles]

Very resonant Candace. I have worked so hard to be living my life in congruence, speaking my truth, expressing my preferences. My block has been fearing I won’t survive on my own as in my childhood and teens, I experienced very real consequences for doing so such as being ostracized and rejected by my entire (admittedly narcissistic) family. I’ve internalised that ‘it’s not safe to be myself’ and ‘I’ll have to manage every last thing all by myself’ if I am myself. Am reparenting, trying to get past it. Thanks for wonderful videos

[@littlekitty013]

I cried hearing this. I was one foot in one foot out of my last relationship and when I was in it, I wanted to be out and knew I needed to be out. But, now that I’m out, I’m living more peacefully, but I’m struggling because I so want to be married that I feel like I missed my chance because even though I wasn’t all in, he was. I’m going to write what I truly want without stipulation or expectation and see what I come up with.

[@celebrationhappiness]

Your videos make me believe that not only someday i will be secure enough to fully open up to somebody but also maybe.. Just maybe i deserve someone I WANT not someone that WANTS ME and that automatically makes him good enough... Thats hard man... Thanks for being such a support and light❤️

[@beeyourselfcounselling6748]

Funny how we so often don't ask ourselves, "What do I REALLY want?" and cruise along doing what society expects. Enjoyed this video as always. Thanks. 🙏

[@yarivdavidkohaly4998]

Much appreciation n gratitude 🙏🏻

[@jamestrouten3423]

Going to make the best out of this fall I needed this to happen to me.love all of you God bless me and all of you life is going to get better for me. Tell my mom that I love her. I can see my light this time thanks to all of you peace good.by tell the kids I love them a lot.

[@faridahtauheed808]

Thanks Candace u av given me hope....I wish I cud meet you in person

[@Mansions.]

This is a good. The truth and the noise

[@lenawall363]

Thank you so mutch. I needed this ❤

[@phoenixflamessurround]

This couldn't have been any more accurate! I find myself talking myself out of things that I really want to do - that make no logical "sense" why I want to do it, besides the fact that my heart feels happy - because I'm scared to take a leap and fail. I'm afraid that who I am now will be ridiculed for "thinking" I can do things out of the box. In result, I've been holding myself back and living one foot in-one foot out.

[@sunshinewisdom2070]

Such perfect quotes behind. I need to hear this and it just came up on my feed. I'm not listening totally to my own feelings and it's starting to be a drag. Lol so but I'm closer to making a phenomenal change than ever

[@SarahDale111]

I'm going all in on getting the hell out of a toxic relationship.

[@Liz-in8lu]

I just said these words yesterday. I have had one foot in, one foot out my whole life. It’s a safe feeling but now at 34, I realize how detrimental it is. I have nothing honestly. I question everything I’ve done and can’t trust myself anymore. I just wanted love from others, love from myself and to feel accepted. I want to go back to college and do it all over again. To let things flow, to be gentle with myself and to step all in...

[@denisecooper2469]

❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you 😊 I have this on repeat.

[@neopheko5650]

You're changing and healing the world. Thank you so much Candace

[@nehemilia5033]

Candance please you should work with thé rehab centers because you are really good. In collaboration with thé pyschologists there. We all need spiritual psychologists

[@prettysmarttechie]

Got so much insight. Thanks a lot

[@sanjaypatel14]

Outstanding thanks Candace!

[@roorooadventures4771]

Thank you for this video makes sense similar story to freedom I just had with my counselor today. This video I believe will help a lot of people . Thank you candace have a great weekend. 😺😃⛵🏕😼😸😉

[@lionheart4062]

"i wanna love myself enough to leave him so I can be happy" This stuck with me.

[@nicolegollan9581]

Thank you for sharing that story I can absolutely relate to your client ❤️ looking forward to soul lab 🙏

[@MoaGus]

Your best video this far!😍 And that's when all your other videos are truly amazing, so helpful and inspiring!❤️

[@johnebrecht1656]

One foot in, one foot out, one foot in and you shake it all about , you do the hokey pokey and you turn yourself around. .. that's what Issa all about

[@johnnyavila5261]

All IN!

[@uruuuuocean]

Pretty spirit pretty face ❤️ Thank you.

[@aNnAkt1qw]

Awesome , thank you 💓

[@Crystal5555]

Excellent video. Thanks for the reminder.

[@deanmoulton8994]

Thank you Candace, very inspirational. I hit "like" and "share". More people need to know about your channel. Thank you for showing us the path.

[@nehemilia5033]

I Always do thé 3 tiers. Very helpful

[@realhealthtalk466]

Brilliant video Candace - thank you so much! ❤️

[@ryankeys]

great message C

[@wouterdesmedt1736]

So much love and truth in your words lately. They really help me see things in myself I couldn’t see before. Thank you. 💚🙏

[@cheriee93]

This was fantastic, thank you Candice 🙏

[@gavinr5576]

On point, as always! This is something I've been experiencing profession-wise for a long time.

[@terrencepeterson9669]

u called me out

[@nehemilia5033]

Following m'y heart

[@nehemilia5033]

I was facing thé problèm of intergrity. I was not being true to myself. That has been thé cause of all my internal turmoil. Thé holyspirit was calling me back to myself

[@nicmax444]

So pertinent to me right now!

[@laurencd6707]

I never could be me. I have been someone else for so long I have forgotten who I AM. I know my wants might be wrong so I always said that I take Gods wants over mine… I did not know that God dwells in me and wants to experience life through being me and I am standing in the way of the I AM. If I choose to be me and go with it and just know that God is with me…. It will be so embarrassing for me and it would suck real bad. But it would make me really happy. So long as God stays with me… but God has never left me yet.

[@notavailable708]

8:30 heal

[@rickaster]

It’s complicated. Level 1: Just get me out of this crisis. Level 2: I want a lot of things that seem to contradict each other, but none of them are really for me. I want to be frugal and efficient to impress one group of people (who aren’t really there) and I want a lot of cool stuff to impress another group of people (who also aren’t really there). Level 3: ??

[@zackofpluto2884]

Thank u

[@tandemprojectx]

[@ARMAGEDDONsCOMING]

Hello!

[@katherineanderson2551]

Hi Candace, I joined the truth room tribe yesterday and can’t find a link for the Facebook group or private KZbin group? Thank you!

[@CandacevanDell]

Katherine Anderson private FB facebook.com/TruthRoomMembership

[@CandacevanDell]

Katherine Anderson but I will mention that the real truth room activity happens over the live calls and in the membership DISCUSSION section :-)

[@adamconnor1898]

To be all in, you have to be able to know what your heart's desires are. For some of us, that is very difficult. Anhedonia is a thing. I think your analysis is correct. It's just harder than you make it sound.

[@tianasharpe67]

Kept catching him in lies and one foot when then the arm

[@nehemilia5033]

A répression of self

[@JT-wc7me]

Hold on.. she wanted to have a baby for her parents, with a dude that she wants to leave? Ask the guy first if he wants to have a baby with a woman who doesn't love him, to do her parents a favor...?

[@willmooney6096]

Lol I'm. Such. Kook