Candid Conversation with “Born Again Virgin” Christian Feminist ©

[@trailmonstah1892]

How can you be both a Christian, God’s word-abiding woman AND a feminist? It’s like trying to mix water and oil. That woman has received false doctrine.

[@PharmersConsulting]

Depends on which definition you're going with. Jesus himself was a "feminist" in that he never condemned women as the community would have it. He loved everyone and gave them all an equal valuation. True feminism should be about equal value/rights or choice not equal function.

[@adriana-kp4np]

@@PharmersConsulting Feminism is Satanic. Anyone that has actually read the Bible knows that God wants women to not lead over men and wants women to submit to men.

[@dalisobanda5575]

@@PharmersConsulting Jesus was not a feminist.. Genesis 3:16 "Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you”

[@PharmersConsulting]

@@adriana-kp4np leading doesn't negate anything else mentioned.

[@PharmersConsulting]

@@dalisobanda5575 desiring your husband doesn't negate anything else

[@whatisjoedoing]

this is a tough watch... she seems like such sweet and humble woman 🥺 i hope she finds love.

[@androidqmusic1023]

Yea she seems like a good one! Kevin could have spoke life into her & she'll be unstoppable but he kinda spoke unnecessarily harsh...she's definitely different from other women that called in.

[@ecatskid]

Looks are deceiving her situation is weird and most likely she is weird and probably doesn't like being with a man for an extended period of time.

[@mastervader4444]

she probably already found it but was "not good enough" for her

[@JesseLockeHere2Do]

She doesn't want a man or a woman and she's using God as an excuse. She's damaged and I hope she can get some help before she's on the street and forgotten.

[@rd4469]

@@JesseLockeHere2Do You're ignorant.

[@xirteck]

The number of women I see in her position is unreal. Kevin’s timing to address this issue could never be better. Ladies, good and available men are out here for the taking as soon as you get out of your own way.

[@actionsspeaklouder469]

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[@actionsspeaklouder469]

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[@brothaonanadventure3573]

These women have lost the ability to pair bond. Even if they get a man, they cannot be satisfied with him. Being with a man in a marriage would be a prison sentence for them. We need to be working on the next generation to get this train on track.

[@deancampbell753]

@@brothaonanadventure3573BINGO✅

[@WeCoachMentalHealth]

Nah girl don’t listen to Kevin, Manifest it girl you gone find ur man! Lololol

[@rbranch57]

I was married twice, four children between the two. I got divorce from my 2nd wife 30 years ago. I'm 65 now. I took myself out of consideration. I now date women around my age (50+) who are in the exact same situation...in other words meaningless relationships...who just don't want to die alone. It's pathetic! Neither of my ex's ever remarried as well. What were they waiting for? Turns out that I was the only man that ever offered to put a ring on their finger. Mr. Right has left the building.

[@UrbanTimes]

They gotta pay for that D ,men at 50 can date can date a 35yr old woman .

[@francissmalls3882]

It's a shame, she's a beautiful woman. I'm shocked she has got to 43 and hasn't been able to hold a good man down. Modern feminism has really set these women down a sad path of loneliness

[@Incognitoblue]

She like many women today has never made that a priority.

[@roclex325]

She very beautiful and so is Halle Berry but yet past pains keeps them from real relationships and we ask blacks don't get therapy as we should to deal with those issues to have better relationships with men and other women! They only have a handful of sister friends and can't keep a man. She got beauty, brains, body and a Christian, but the MAIN COMMON DENOMINATOR in the relationships is HER! She needs theopy yet she don't see it!! Like he said, relationship experience wise she's around 15 (mentally) even though she's 43! Thanks this was a work of art Kevin

[@BlackSantana]

I'm not shocked at all. I see this type very often

[@minimalist_monk]

@@BlackSantana Bro, you kill it on that guitar. One of my favorite music back the the day was Wayman Tisdale. Had a jazz album

[@BlackSantana]

@@minimalist_monk thank you!🙌🏾 wayman Tisdale played for the suns back in the day to if I'm not mistaken 🤔

[@adriana-kp4np]

“I’m a Christian feminist” Translation: “I am a degenerate and combative woman who wants to be equal to a man despite our biological differences. I can’t function like a man nor do I want the disadvantages of being a man but i want all the credit for the advantages of being a man. I want the advantages of being a woman and i also want the advantages of men that don’t belong to me. I like that the Bible offers forgiveness, love, and salvation, but I don’t like the parts that go against my degenerate worldly desires. Therefore, I will ignore those parts that I don’t like in order to feel like I can have the cake and eat it too: I can have Gods love without having to abide by his word. I am deceptive and full of greed and pride.”

[@jnetwork3232]

You sir have taken the very words out of my mouth 👄 truth be told

[@shonehi546tim9]

The Mental Gymnastics that are coming, are definitely popcorn worthy.

[@PharaohIshmail]

This was a translation that was long but you surely made it worth reading with all the truth in it.

[@grindhard4312]

And this is it!

[@PB22559]

Nail on head.

[@JoshNtheedrifter]

She went through foster care and she definitely needs some therapy. I feel bad for her and she actually seems sweet, no cap. 🧢

[@deandremurray6239]

She really does. There is some uncovered trauma there.

[@GDMetellus8]

I agree with you about her demeanor, she has definitely been through some kind of trauma and seems agreeable.

[@KayMyName]

Only on camera

[@tanderson2too]

That was issue that needed to be unpacked. The foster care thing spoke volumes.

[@m.danielmills7091]

Ohhh ok that makes since. The foster care system is no joke. Damn. 😩

[@supersaiyanbino]

I worked with this woman at a grocery store when we were younger... She's a sweetheart that definitely deserves happiness

[@supersaiyanbino]

@@jedediahsolomon9405 to be honest with you I hadn't seen her since we worked at Raleys in the bay area, I just happened to come across this video, I had to check with some of our old co workers to see if it was her, lol. But everything she said adds up with her history.

[@xX-qw4of]

Why didn't any of y'all date her?

[@---H_M]

@@xX-qw4of women turned men into sissies. Men are afraid to approach women and they don't trust women.. There's thousands of videos online of women admitting to cheating in thr past. Yall single-handedly destroyed what took thousands of years to build

[@supersaiyanbino]

@@xX-qw4of so... Full disclosure... I was legit in love with her, lol. But we had a playboy working with us and he swept her off her feet, pretty sure he's the guy she's referring to that was an off and on relationship. I tried my damndest to date her but she wasn't feeling me, it happens, but she's a good woman, I think she's just afraid of being hurt

[@patrickscott8014]

What's her name??? I think I know her but I wonder what's her name

[@ag4389]

This one is heart breaking. She seems like such a sweet woman and she's beautiful. I hope she gets it together.

[@NB-nh2sf]

She probably needs to find a man of like mind. I read a virgin until i got married. Nothing was wrong with. I didn't have relationships before that. Dating was for marriage I was intentional and if I died at virgin it would have been obedient to the LORD. TO insist this woman is at fault is demonic.

[@ag4389]

@@NB-nh2sf A few distinct differences between what you said here and the conversation Kevin had. You were actually a virgin, she is not. You also said you were intenonal in your dating, she is not. She seems to be waiting for God to send her someone. But how many has he sent that she has picked over and found lacking in some sort of way? What I got from Kevin's point of view is that she has to take responsibility for that and correct it so she can move forward. I dont see how that could be demonic.

[@theonewhostandsaboveall6826]

@@ag4389 exactly woman above is caught in her feelings some

[@thegreatest08ify]

He is so wrong. Why take secular advise from the worldly as a Christian. That is where she went wrong?

[@thegreatest08ify]

Women conceive at 47

[@donstarlancer]

I am so confused. She 5’11” still looks nice at 43 and perpetually single. What happened in her youth? At 22 she could have stood still in some random mall and shouted “I’m single” and be set for life. SMH

[@combocentral]

Bruh, I can imagine her doing that at 43 and still getting hits.

[@ladybayoutalesthetruth6788]

Exactly! This comment hits home for me cuz I met my husband at Perimeter Mall 17yrs ago......lol

[@BlackPrimeMinister]

@@combocentral Being real, if she told you she'd been a supermodel 20 years ago, we would believe her. Her beauty is uncommon; she is stunning. I know she is old, but I'll be damned if a thousand men still want to try. I suspect her upbringing in foster care shattered her ability to have relationships.

[@davidrodgers9558]

.. what your joking .. right.. ???. She's picky picky picky ... Like all modern vvomen are ... She uses men gets dinner five times a week payed for ... There is a reason a pretty vvomen is single... I lol at my guy friends my age... This gal is how old and is still over the top picky ... And you really think you can win her soul... Lol... We men are just sad ..

[@billybones6463]

@@ladybayoutalesthetruth6788 I think she in the closet

[@MarcG7424]

One of the things that sets her apart from some of Kevin's other female callers is she listens

[@aberwood]

This one is tough. She's a decent women clearly suffering from CPTSD or something else from a tough childhood in foster care. Hate seeing people with a good heart get stuck like this, hope she pulls through.

[@kwaseb]

😂... always women playing victims... think about that!! They would pass over a good brother anytime, any day because they are not 'feeling' him!! Rather than getting to know him and looking for substance. They wait till they are damaged and want a good man to come 'fix' it

[@Jericho-xs3ju]

This is the result of errant western church non biblical teachings and a nice woman waiting to king for Prince Charming

[@VeeShenge]

she is not a victim cut the bull shit.

[@MrJess-el8ku]

Aberwood I agree

[@firelord675]

No, that would only keep the Bs Going in her life. She needed a real man 20 years ago. Not a Beta man, like what mostly populates Ca. A real man that’s going to tell her what he wants her to do. And because the feminist has told women “they don’t need a man” she will die alone

[@davecarli1187]

She is a good listener and never try to interupt.. trying to hear patiently rather than feel offence... I wish her the best the world had left to give..

[@DiaAkin]

I wouldn't call her a "good listener." She. IS listening, but she's not actually "hearing" him. This is why she can't separate the delusion from reality.

[@chalkkey433]

Learning is a process She seemed ok Just needs a Christian man that likes her enough

[@Moonee-Adam]

Amen

[@DiaAkin]

@@chalkkey433 That's the thing. Men are pulling AWAY from the church in droves. So, her chances are dwindling by the day!

[@chalkkey433]

It's a fact the numbers may have dropped, but if she wants to make it happen she has to broaden her view by getting on the Christian dating apps and be open to other churches and allow the African or Caribbean families in a church to help hook her up (even abroad)

[@BChan1991]

i hate that this dude passed away

[@leojanuszewski1019]

Me too

[@michellemarshall8199]

I'm not 😅

[@BolitaDeKetica]

@@michellemarshall8199 Of course. Go on… 🍿🍿

[@mlopez3567]

​@@michellemarshall8199why would you come to his channel if you hated him so much? He's still living and rent free! in your mind😂

[@bigtomboye]

Definitely before his time 😢

[@MMNemesis17]

When they say I've started listening "this past week" you know it's going to be great content 👌

[@jasonBGI]

All great stories start with 🧢🧢

[@michaelthevisionary]

Most of it sounds like a lie.

[@toomuchwolves]

😭😭😭😭😭 & the entire time, was using all types of S.I.G.N. ever since she seen the Average at Best video over a year ago

[@876inc]

🤣🤣🤣

[@viewsthatfade]

Kevin's old stuff bang way harder than anyone living today. Most KZbinrs talking about relationships are all chasing his legacy and failing hard.

[@robertquaintance838]

She’s a “foster kid” that’s beautiful, imagine what could have happened to her. She’s trying to live a Christian life amongst savage worldly people. With clear emotional damage.

[@goldenink22]

I agree… she needs counseling and solid guidance.

[@gabrielcoleman3519]

I won't lie, I feel sorry for her. As Kevin said, she sounds like a teenager! I'm sure she has been through a lot, (foster homes)... I went through hell to get where I am at, I can relate, but this world is not nice to men in her situation, and if a woman does not have children, they are not that great to them either. TO me I can see the fear in her as Kevin gets her to realize she is screwed with her current thought process!

[@MsLisalisa24]

Exactly.

[@yourmedicalupdatepodcast7256]

She's belongs to the church, they have help for everything, stop the pandering. Get it together

[@robertquaintance838]

@@yourmedicalupdatepodcast7256 it’s not pandering not all organizations are created equal and she clearly needs professional help.

[@theblackchadd3145]

She looks good physically but she is destroyed on the inside…I actually feel bad for this women..she’s been destroyed before she ever had a chance to learn anything…..no telling what happened to her in those foster homes. It’s obvious it wasn’t a good time for her….sorry love

[@ud558]

Agreeed. Counseling is very imperative

[@architecture.w]

She is a 4.5.

[@RONALD......]

Yes someone destroyed her early on..and now shes holding on for dear life to not be destroyed again..and now shes old..wow..this is incredibly unnerving ..

[@leonhenry4861]

@@RONALD...... she’s not old she’s 43. Chill

[@DJ_BROBOT]

@Victor Johnson nope....it was the foster care situation.

[@LutherMahoney]

I am going to watch this and get my push ups in for my morning workout - 10 pushups for "I feel" - 25 sit-ups for every out of wedlock child she has - 50 jumping jacks if she is a lesbian but is saving her body for her husband and living a Christ like life. By the summer I should look like MIcheal Jai White

[@maslinje2109]

Can someone pin this ✅

[@alexandermoore5024]

Lol 💪🏾 great workout plan Reginald!

[@torachan23]

You gonna mess around and become Thanos by the end of the summer

[@alexandermoore5024]

@@torachan23 oh snap!

[@greenearthpoetscafe]

Lolololol funny

[@cjdebono8811]

I talked with a woman like this who said she was celibate. I asked if she masturbated and she said yes. I explained that celibacy is a refrain from all sexual activities and she got upset. Lol. She tried to pick and choose in order to push her agenda lol

[@timothybakke5243]

That is awesome 🤣

[@antman8060]

FACTX GOOD LOGIC FROM YOU

[@julianmontoya428]

I chose to be celibate from 27 years of age until i got married...in or about 1994, i decided to pursue my relationship with God through repentance! Changed my diet to what God teaches in Genesis 1:29...i realize God knows the truth of what is right and best for all human beings ! It so happens the woman a am currently married to was the first girl i walked home when i was a kid!....God knows all truth! To many laws of the usa has taken us away from God! To many cultural ways and traditions has taken us from God! We must all realize God is the relationship we must all seek! When i was a child God was always my first love! I have returned to that truth! And i pray with all my heart all my sins have been forgiven! GOD is truth we must accept that truth! Stop assuming God must accept your sins because you live in this world! Research to see how terrible the sins were during the days of the tower of babbel! How terrible were the sins of sodom and Gomorah? GOD destroyed those people! And here in the usa worst sins are commited! Joe biden promised to work like the devil! Its was during his campaigm and was on cnn, the us constitution ,law makers, supreme court judges, police force and local judges allow satan worship, worst then sodom and Gomorah! They teach kids sex! They have how many books and movies about evil and horrow movies? How many ways does the church still tell chirstians to obey the laws of the land so they can get their tax breaks! Tell all church leaders to come from behind their pulpit! Come from all their money and go to the whie house and congress and all law makers and judges and police forces and tell them God is to be worshiped! The evil satan worship staff should be behind bars repentance is what they need !

[@razorsharplifestyle101hard9]

Its probably many of them like that using dildos to get off instead off a man. This female got smash 100 to 200 times by a few dudes and all of sudden she been lonely 20 years. These scallywags crazy as hell.

[@amlach1]

That is a good point, but it is not easy. It is better to masturbate than actually sleep around and have a high bodycount. But you are right, it should be refraining from all sexual activities!

[@Garblegox]

I love how optimistic the comment section gets when a caller is reasonable. She's been misled, wasted a lot of time, but she's got a good head on her shoulders. Her only sin has been not valuing her precious time. She's not creating hell for anyone but herself. Everybody's wishing her the best, and that's lovely.

[@lances4537]

It really is sad that she is this age before realizing the truth.

[@bannedbycommieyoutube5time920]

@@lances4537 too late

[@garmind4868]

yes it is.

[@monkman4788]

I have no sympathy for her , she had many opportunities to settle down but she chose to pineapple nigas ,, 😂 now she stuck on the 6th floor 😆 no men available because men want younger fertile women 😊

[@TheOneLawgiverHolyGod]

@@garmind4868 ... Does her soul belongs to you??? Keep talking about one that does not belong to you...

[@TheBigbark0341]

A Christian feminist, makes about as much sense as a fish on a bicycle.

[@eliporter3980]

As a fish that regularly does triathlons, this post offends me 🐟🏍😞

[@dazcrypto]

@@eliporter3980 😂😂 y’all wild

[@jasonBGI]

🤣💯

[@cici9137]

Apparently you don’t read Dr. Seuss 😂😂

[@angryox3102]

People will distort religion entirely to fit it into their own life views.

[@doodlydodo]

Shes attractive, looks better then most women her age, 20 years ago she surely was more attractive. She looks fit, im sure she's had plenty of opportunity to find a suitable man in her life...

[@jmar385]

Stop with the cap! With that close up. She looks tired!

[@NunYaBiz1313]

Fit doesn't equal a good woman. I was dating a personal trainer, we both loved the gym, she was younger than I was but her brain was skewed with being an independent woman, not needing a man, the whole modern day bullshit with woman. Said I changed her after being together with 3 years, she went her way, I went mine. You live, learn and grow

[@lutherodanielsjr7876]

Correct

[@kamikazehound3243]

@@jmar385 tbh she slightly look like she has a black eye

[@jmar385]

@@kamikazehound3243 😂😂😂 like she got in a fight with a raccoon

[@lifeisimportantkate]

This interview was so profound and deep. Some people needs reality check. This is why we need to read the Bible for ourselves and get a better understanding. I pray she was able to sort her life out from this serious conversation. Kevin please bring her back for an up date.

[@scamchan]

what????

[@quetube5890]

Well he’s dead..

Before I got married, I attended a church for the first time and heard a pastor say, “Jesus will be your husband” I immediately got out of my seat and walked out the church. I was thinking 🤔, the devil is a lie!

[@dazedillinger6159]

You can’t make this stuff up

[@angelafinest7757]

😂😂😂

[@lifecoachingformen]

lol

[@graceharney7352]

They probably said that because of the parables Jesus used (bride waiting for bridegroom, for example). But they said it wrong, which is off putting.

[@NevaG2190]

Right! The way I heard it was "date God until he sends your man" and "love God to learn how to love your man" something along those lines 🤣 not God gone be my man FOREVER?!?!

[@nyorafrancis]

I hope she finds a man with a tender heart to handle hers. She's a nice lady who may have been traumatized when she was younger.

[@fireworksfanatics2777]

Ill give her credit because she actually sat there and for the most part LISTENED and digested the truths. That is better than 3/4ths of the women on here

[@dsfdotnet]

foster kid and I would not be surprised if she been thru some type of abuse as a teen/twenty something. people dont end up that closed off on accident. she seems like she got a good heart I hope she finds her way

[@fleming1124]

It doesn’t matter what Kevin says, She is going to keep doing what she has been doing. At 43 years old, (SHE WILL NOT CHANGE). Men would be wise to avoid these types of women. RUN!

[@JudahTheantidote]

Ruuuuun!!!! Far far away!!!

[@lussdacourtier4801]

Run! Get to the chopper! 🚁

[@zondakaymusic5145]

.... She won't even buy a dog 😫

[@riddickj16]

Exactly what I was saying to myself while listening. Women like her can’t be help even when a man has the best intentions smh

[@darthkek1953]

If she's 43 then I'm a Jedi.

[@Chi-qt5qg]

My mom is in her 60s & I’ve tried having the conversation about how she’s going to pay her bills after she retires. I was concerned because she still struggles paying bills , even though my sister helps her. The convo turns into my mom yelling at me , being combative & saying she knows what she needs to do because she’s “grown”. Mind you, Her & my younger sister are roommates basically. My mom doesn’t have a 401k, she makes under 45k currently, still struggles with bills in her 60s. I’m OVER it. I have my own life to live, she didn’t prepare for her retirement & that’s going to be her problem… not mine. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@juscelinefernandes3674]

I hope she does something in time because she is holding your sister down too! She could be saving for herself and not having to help your mom with bills!

[@Chi-qt5qg]

@@juscelinefernandes3674 I tried to warn my sister, but she’s gullible & believes it’s her birth right to “take care of struggling mama” F that. I moved out away from my mom jan 2019.. ever since I stopped living with my mom & stopped helping her will bills..my life got better financially. I’ve built up 10k in credit to use, started my 401k 2 yrs ago & my credit score is almost at 800. Plus I’ll be married in 4 months, so me & my hubby are preparing for our retirement already. So, if my mom can’t pay for herself, thats going to be my sister’s responsibility, not mine.

[@robertlunderwood]

@@Chi-qt5qg Cue Roadrunner. "Beep beep*

[@JT-bt6jy]

Sometimes you gotta cut ppl lose if you want to fly.

[@2jcward]

She’ll get the maximum social security. She’ll be fine. There are programs and housing out there for her. Now we’ll it be nice? Probably not. But she’ll be in a mediocre 1 bedroom apt probably on food stamps in an average A to B car. It’s not a horrible life, millions of people out here doing it.

[@marshallduvall4251]

I've dated women that were orphans. My son married an orphan. My nephew is with an orphan. They have no real sense of family. Because no matter what. They always feel ALONE ! It is so very sad 😔!

[@matthewgaines10]

That’s sad indeed.

[@bobbyminor9177]

Damn y'all gotta a type in y'all family

[@Lurch685]

I wasn’t born or raised an orphan and loneliness is all I’ve ever known. 🤷🏼‍♂️

[@Brian-fk8zr]

@@bobbyminor9177 lmaooooooo

[@Shaolin91z]

Accepting Christ as Lord..... being faithful to a weekly Bible study class...and reading the Bible a few days a week(4 to 5) even if it's just for 20 mins a day...take away all loneliness. Haven't felt it in more than 10 years ... almost can't remember that feeling. But you have to do those steps in that order... Accept him, Bible study class, daily reading of the word...best wishes

[@tartfresh5565]

"Where is Mr. Right in the King James Bible" wow that was deep this Man was unbelievable 🙌

[@Diamonds100]

This lady reminds me of myself when I was her age; and she better not make the same mistake I did! My current boyfriend. He actually vetted me @ 42 but due to my foolishness I turned him down. What a grave error on my part. He was and still is my first male relationship.. I’m blessed that he’s back years down the line and I will never let him go! Women like her “Us” need to remember that our time is extremely limited!

[@Baller4life405]

We need more woman to speak up like yourself !

[@huntley390]

Aww thats nice

[@dollhouseq1530]

Why did you turn him down..if you don't mind answering?

[@tracksuperstar]

Tell him I said, he’s a dummy and a weak man for letting you back in his life. 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@TheKeefeStone]

Put your story out there. Help break the glass window of feminism. Teachings from a place of love & sharing knowledge often reach the furthest, like Mr. Samuels, he doesn't need the money, nor the fame, but he saw a problem & thought to himself "Can I make the world better?"

[@Cooliganify]

You know, I knock a lot of the women callers on here (for good reason) but this lady just pulls on my heart strings. Anyone can tell she’s been through some things, and that tears me apart. I hope this lady finds peace, I really do.

[@user-bm8fx9zs1r]

𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ±𝟏𝟔𝟎𝟔𝟑𝟓𝟐𝟑𝟗𝟏𝟕 Let him know i referred you.......

[@iBloodxHunter]

That's cause she's not overtly antagonistic, she IS ( _was_ at this time at least) suffering the same issues though.

[@aallen2563]

She's a beautiful woman and who knows what happened to her as a foster child...she held her own while in the hot seat and never once got irate. I like her, with a lil guidance and reassurance of herself and a committed relationship she'll be fine. Keep yo head up sister!

[@ExtraterrestrialBeing-jc7to]

She not giving that box up .. Big problem

[@blackmenmustfightback7859]

You are delusional and part of the problem. Nobody is telling her the world isn't fair and her outcomes are determined by her actions alone. You have no idea if she will be fine. You are clearly not married either.

[@aallen2563]

@@blackmenmustfightback7859 how am I delusional for stating the obvious, she is beautiful and she held her own in the hot seat. I've seen women break down when Kevin is talking facts to them, some women have actually hung up the phone. Also, far as myself being married...what do I gain for no be honest about that?

[@aallen2563]

@@blackmenmustfightback7859 NO ONE has any idea if she'll be fine. Everything stated far as comments are OPINIONS

[@bigknox2115]

Lord here comes the savior lmao

[@slovelyyx7718]

That’s crazy, she’s actually very attractive even at her age I bet she was beautiful at 22 and 32, I hope she finds peace she also seems very sincere and down to earth this woman deserves a good husband

[@nigelarchibald7570]

She needs emotional healing as well.

[@michaelversace456]

She is PERFECT for a single father! Humble, beautiful and REALISTIC! A father with kids would be great for her, not to mention him.

[@warren9402]

Kevin is horrible, he knows nothing about Christianity.

[@michaelversace456]

@@warren9402 Oh yeah? That's not for you to say at all. Thankfully I'm an atheist but you buybull bullshitters are prime examples of why we exist. Oh and don't even try to convert me, I was studying at seminary when I became an atheist.

[@ibrahimcoulibaly4085]

Nope she will not bond with kids wich is a disaster

[@Centori88]

Man,I think she may be socially and interpersonally Ill equipped to get into such a relationship.

[@mrsanatra1]

Stop it. Just because she has a sweet voice doesn't mean a damn thing. She is child like in her mental. Thats a liability and men can sense that. Honestly her best case scenario is to continue her life with her religion, a pet and investments.

[@nyshonadonis3323]

“God wasn’t looking that day?” I Hollereddddddd Good Luck to this woman! He told her just what she needed to hear

[@streetsiswatching9660]

🤣🤣🤣

[@daphneyharris9908]

Me too🤣🤣🤣

[@visq]

😂😂😂

[@Byrdontheone]

😂😂😂

[@A_PringlesCanwithVeins]

lol , sad part is she isn't going to listen

[@Issey_B_Devo]

An actual walking talking living and breathing OXYMORON in perpetual motion. Stunningly Absurd to say the least 😂

[@diligentsun1154]

the hamster is wearing that wheel OUT

[@Issey_B_Devo]

@@diligentsun1154 🐹😂🐹😂

[@roninhubbard9059]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 lord help us 😂😂😂😂

[@Issey_B_Devo]

@@roninhubbard9059 This is The Final Frontier 🤣🤣🤣 idk where we can go from here😂😂😂

[@blackscazrsscarzs2392]

Damn straight up!

[@2pac19Seventy1]

The background music is so smooth

[@antoinewarren8869]

It is, indeed 💯

[@TheMoonDejesus]

There are plenty of men that just want companionship and don’t want more children. They want to retire and do fun things with a fun attractive woman. This woman is older but I’m sure some 50yr old guy might find her just what he’s looking for.

[@GrzegorzDurda]

Frankly she looks younger then many 25 year old women.

[@efosaodiase501]

Ever thought of the probability? So far she doesn't look like someone who knows how to have fun. She has been too alone for too long !!!

[@TheMoonDejesus]

@@efosaodiase501 people that are comfortable alone tend to know how to enjoy themselves and are more interesting to talk to.

[@efosaodiase501]

@@TheMoonDejesus true but not with other people 🤣 That's just it. They know how to make things work for just themselves and are terrible at communicating such to others. Then ultimately end up being alone afterall

[@TheMoonDejesus]

@@efosaodiase501 based on what? Some fiction in your mind? People that are good alone aren’t necessarily great in a crowd but they are often the most interesting people to be with one on one. You’re just making shit up.

[@Lrules364]

I came back here to say this; Ive dated a girl, just like this. 38, no kids, working retail or fast food, with no future. Half black, half white parents, yet she chose the hard path after she recovered from her cancer early in life. Was given every opportunity to succeed, yet she chose to ride the bus and work dead end jobs. Fast forward, after 8 months she finally decides she wants to end things. She had no car, no liscence, no apartment, tv, laptop, phone, even fridge. I GAVE HER a new phone, computer, tv, game consoles, helped her get internet, helped her get her licence, and got her into a nice apartment with a low rent fee. She threw ALL OF THAT away by throwing a tempur tantrum over a car. The deal was, i would help her find a car, but that it wouldnt be new. It would be used. This wasnt good enough for her. She got the free $1200 stim check, and her taxes back, and told me to hold onto $1,000 of it so she wouldnt blow it on dumb shit. So i did. And when it came to trying to find herself a car, she decided to throw the biggest temper tantrum ive ever seen by an adult, because i wouldn't give her the money to put as a down payment on a brand new car, explaining that it was my part to hold onto it until she was ready, as per her request. She had just gotten her license, and had exactly 0 driving experience down, so i thought itd be a great idea for her to get some experience driving around one of my cars for a while before she bought her own. She refused, threw another fit about it, and demanded the money. So, i gave it to her. Dropped it off next day and exited out of the relationship. 2 weeks later, she bought her brand new car she couldn't afford the payments on(which i warned about), and got insurance for it she couldnt afford(also warned her about). 2 months later she sends me an email(yes an email), looking for sympathy and someone to give a shit about her. She wrecked her car, broke her arm, and there was no insurance on the car, so she lost it and took a massive hit to her credit. Then she lost her apartment, and had to sell everything to just pay bills. She's now single, singing in some traveling circus band, miserable, and at her moms home. Her and every woman like her get to eat the shit sandwiches they make themselves. Dont try to save them gentleman. They aren't worth saving.

[@InfiniteFramesGaming]

Project Pat taught us this decades ago.

[@nattykadifa2856]

Wow

[@SuperJutah]

Mate I believe every word... Every woman has a money situation every single one... It's all about image and making themselves feel good

[@prentisdavis9781]

Damn Bro. Singing in a circus? Not even Ringling Bros. Barnum & Bailey?

[@frankright4454]

When they say, "children with breasts". They ain't kidding.

[@lady6164]

The first question should have been: Why do you feel the need to protect yourself? This women is guarded because she's obviously been hurt. She's not a feminist.

[@panserspikes6011]

We all been hurt, nothing special about that. So many women use that as some dumb excuse "I been hurt" 😂

[@lady6164]

@@panserspikes6011 The hurt that I am referring to is Trauma. This woman has suffered some form of trauma. Most likely at the hands of a person who was supposed to protect her. Some of you men are on here simply to boost your self esteem. You're not even the high value men Kevin is talking about. Dumb as a box of rocks and not equipped to lead. I'll give you a pass because sound young AF. Grow up and come back when you've matured emotionally and intellectually.

[@liamsmith3290]

AGREED!

[@Lashard89]

But why do you say guarded, because she chose to break her oath to sleep with a man and she have dated and is currently dating a guy I know alot of crazy stuff happen with foster kids but I don't chop this up to trauma I just see lack of guidance probably didn't see relationships or was taught about it growing up

[@lady6164]

@@Lashard89 women exchange their sacred energy for what they think is love or in hopes that they will receive love or special favor from men, most of the time. She stated that she has God parents with whom she associates with on the regular so she's seen positive relationship. Idk, I say it's a trauma response.

[@evildoses2428]

Such a powerful message behind this

[@draco2xx]

ks left behind a message that will live on for generations

[@Frainkey]

She came on like many others to basically say, "I saw your content and those women you talk to are this way but that's not me." Conversation happens and they are just like the others.

[@JIBBS1017]

🤣 facts

[@thedeanogaming]

They're worse than the others

[@neoreign]

That's exactly it! They call just to say they're diff only to be told they're just like everyone else. This wmn is attractive 5'11 but it is her mental disorder that has her in this spot in her mid 40s

[@illijah]

That’s the entire show

[@neoreign]

@@illijah but like, she's a 43 year old wmn. In my culture once a wmn passes 24, she's considered 'agjusa' which literally means 'oldie'. This wmn is 43 fk years old!

[@NewEraMovementOnThaGrind20]

I usually be with Kevin, all the way, and I am as far as the basic principles go. But I wanna give this girl a hug, apologize for her childhood and tell her she deserves love. You can tell she has unresolved trauma. She's actually kinda sweet. The whole 'teen' mentality and the fact she comes from foster care suggests that it may have been bad sexual abuse. I hate that. 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@plot229]

Bro she needs tough love so she will take action the last thing she needs is more coddling

[@alanadrienne8870]

Coming from psychiatry I can say I agree with you right here. I believe she does not want children because she wants to shield them from the pain she went through. I pray she finds healing love and actually has a child. Blessings to the sistren

[@JM-ps6le]

She’s 43 and you’re talking about a hug. That’s the problem. Too many adults have been allowed to be big ass kids. He’s being harsh to get the point across. Society has been lying to women

[@olgaharris1103]

To NEW ERA MOVEMENT - You are absolutely CORRECT. I wanted him to pick up on that and not be SO hard on her. I feel she has been traumatized and this threw another bomb at her. He clearly picked up on the tithing part. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@olgaharris1103]

@@plot229 WOW, coddling and compassion are two different words with two different meanings. 😐

[@TheAnointedSamurai]

Women understand this: "Women are given YOUTH; Men are given TIME." Straight fax, no printer.

[@madamebartendersmeetmeatth4370]

With a permanent marker!!!!

[@janelles.4774]

The lies you tell 😅

[@lavarball7538]

Facts

[@keenansmith7176]

@Christopher Thomas LOL! You told him not to try to sound smart while you said something nonsensical. Wow.

[@TheAnointedSamurai]

@@janelles.4774 Lies?😆 Evolution. Biology. Nature. Facts. What are you disputing exactly?

[@stucbr1100]

Childhood trauma leading to a wasted life. It’s very sad!

[@spatty2589]

This is a meaningful conversation. So many other channels just regurgitate KS's talking points without moving the conversation to a realistic place of understanding. This woman now understands that she is stuck on pause and needs to adjust her attitude if she wants to be married. KS has single handily shifted the culture and conversation to be more marriage minded. Thank you KS, thank you!

[@06alwilliams]

Facts

[@charlottejones157]

Yes he needs to empower her . He is joke.

[@Bodybagbart]

A lot of what you probably consider KS talking points are in fact just RP talking points mf have been bringing up for years bro 😂

[@06alwilliams]

@@Bodybagbart RP?

[@Bodybagbart]

@@06alwilliams red pill. All of KS talking points have been in the rp community for years some over a decade. Nothing he says is new he just presents it differently by telling it to individual women live.

[@erica8165]

Bottom line is she's using religion and not being accountable for her being single and old. It's not religion, it's her personality and mindset.

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

It's always someone else's fault to certain types of people, you see it everywhere, always blaming literally anything and everything on why they dont get what they want in their life. Life doesnt owe you anything and you might not get what you want and that's fine.

[@Leo_nbd]

@A J It was St. Paul who said so, and the complete lecture is that it's better to remain single (so you can dedicate all your personal time to God instead of dedicating it partially to God and partially to your spouse) _if_ you have the vocation for celibacy, otherwise he advises to marry.

[@grantwithers]

"it's her personality and mindset." Don't blame personality and mindset for obvious propagandization and social conditioning of a whole population which she just so happens to be in.

[@minimalist_monk]

If she wants to be single and alone it’s okay. Kevin is single and alone. And what’s up Kevin acting like the Feds with all the questioning. Geez

[@gizhou3034]

@@grantwithers Dude, still having trouble getting that second date huh., I can understand why.

[@killaking22]

Women like her needs to realize everyone settles you can’t have it all. But man something happened to her man its sad.

[@yayaclayton4691]

I personally think she has been sexually abused and she has not had counselling

[@killaking22]

@@yayaclayton4691 yea man she is just sooooooooooo fine and good personality.

[@toomuchtruth]

The doctrine of having it all is LITERALLY satanic. It's the promise sold to Eve by the serpent. "You shall be as gods", ie. no limits, having it all.

[@peaceispriceless6051]

@@toomuchtruth So very true💯💯

[@death24314]

@@toomuchtruth very true

[@abcdefg54321x]

I honestly felt so bad for her the whole time. She seems like a really sweet woman and she was floundering and Kevin showed no mercy. I hope she’s been able to meet someone and is working towards marrage now.

[@MartinLaforce]

Sounds like she's never been spoken to like this

[@stan121midling5]

well i agree and hopefully she took what KS was saying to her to heart ok,

[@BigTomInTheBasement]

@@MartinLaforce sounded like she didn't speak to people much outside of work.

[@arcangel3579]

It was a wake up call.

[@jab4634]

Why should he have mercy on her actions and not be held accountable for them? 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@derrickmason7457]

From a man who married my wife in the church she’s definitely under no leadership nor does she want it .. yea 43 is crazy if she was putting herself in the position to be picked by a godly man she would’ve succeeded along time ago she’s not ugly but she did it wrong

[@Laugherslane]

Omg why talk about god not doing what he does best perform miracles, this is your opinion aka judgement but you are in no place to judge anybody, because you are of the world. It’s sad that people are this mean. I think you should stop judging, every time u judge your being judged by our Heavenly Father. God also said be loving to one another and not to judge one another. You worshiping this false idol. Your speaking like this false idol. Watch and listen, he is for sure misleading you people.

[@derrickmason7457]

@@Laugherslane nah the Bible says judge righteous judgment that means if I’m doing it right and your doing it wrong I’m right to judge ppl take the scriptures all wrong. The Bible never said don’t judge it says don’t judge unless your willing to be judged and if your doing it right there is no problem to be judged

[@cici9137]

@@Laugherslane I think that what Kevin is trying to say to her and women like her is - put yourself in a position where you won’t need a “miracle”. Of course he’s going to get his sound bites because that’s his brand. It does seem like she isn’t under good leadership though. On the other hand I don’t agree with him telling her she has to have sex more than what she’s comfortable with.

[@justbleek3261]

False Christian identified: Matthew 7 :: NIV. "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

[@damicothebest]

@@cici9137 she will have to if she wants the man she wants is his point. Realistically nobodies waiting for her fake virginity.

[@ubecool454]

This lady is a good person and a great listener. She not once lost her composure and answered all questions without an detectable aggression.

[@yuNGDeLaPhoNtE]

If that was true she would’ve been married already….

[@highlycreativedigital5472]

she is beautiful and a man will still marry her because she is sweet, kind and has showing she is not for the street

[@colossuses]

She hot, but mentality is just like a teenager. You not gonna be hearing that ish as a 40+ man. Maybe a 60 yr man with low T.

[@sdhsn774]

A woman too

[@southernbellefiguresTN]

He isn’t saying she won’t find anyone he is telling her to get out of her own way. It ain’t about her being beautiful and not for the streets if she cannot stop blocking her blessings and wasting her life alone. She isn’t being intentional about being with anyone.

[@dafoo3671]

I've met women like this. She will struggle to find a man because she expects the man to believe in her religious thought and follow her.

[@southernbellefiguresTN]

@@dafoo3671 literally and the problem is most women like this are not actually following the Bible so you cannot actually win. Most women do this to paint a perfect picture of themselves.

[@wchjr0972]

This woman deserves much more praise and generosity than she found here. If she is truthful about her sexual history, then she is capable of tremendous discipline and possesses amazing integrity. She is in an age range wherein most of her male counterparts have whatever children they desire and are seeking a loyal companion. He may be correct that she has some growing up to do, but with wise counsel and intentionality, the trade off would be well worth the while.

[@NurseLisaD]

You sound like one wise man!!

[@wchjr0972]

@@NurseLisaD just a little golden rule evaluation protocol.

[@CKDNatedogg]

She's beautiful and came off very kind but naive. I do hope she did some personal work and found someone though. His answers on live, even though the callers give him specifics, seem to be geared towards a wide audience. For sure she's far more disciplined and calm than many born again virgins with kids and baggage believing they can just start over like none of that exists and still expect a high value for their diminished value. (Dating market value, not value as a living person, dont come after me 😅). I'd have to ask someone who did one of his consultations if he was calmer and more personable in that setting.

[@leroypoter2313]

This woman is seriously mentally ill, her looks is getting the pity pot protocol there's a reason why she is the way she is.

[@Jtl12318]

I’d argue has zero to do with discipline at all. I’d wager a lot of money she was abused in foster care and one of two things happened she leaned into it and hoed around early teens and into her twenties when she “found god” in which case she can’t escape that past. Or the abuse was so bad it completely turned her off from sex and she hasn’t sought out the professional help she clearly needs. Either way she’s running from something and no man should come and save her

[@sxlxmxndvgxd]

I really feel for this woman, I hope she gets help to work through her trauma. She's definitely been through a lot smh.

[@techyb8614]

My wife had my son at 47 naturally. We called him Isaac which translates in Hebrew "He will laugh". Abraham and his wife Sarah laughed when she was told she would bare a child. He is a major blessing in our life and indeed my wife was shocked and nervously laughed when we found out.

[@katyp5914]

@Techy B "Amen!" There is NOTHING too hard for the Lord.🕊❤️ God bless you and your family. This manner of "advice" is brutal.

[@LadyAsia93]

Praise God. Give Him the glory amen

[@ypmm53]

I’m very happy for you guys. However, your outcome is not the norm. Any pregnancy after 35 is high risk. Furthermore, the risk for increased birth defects especially autism goes up the older the woman is. So, I understand where Kevin is coming from. She still can be a wife to a man who does not want kids. It’s risky to get pregnant at such age.

[@russelynwilliams9698]

Thank you for sharing!

[@TheOneLawgiverHolyGod]

@@katyp5914 ... And ungodly!!!

[@user-kw4wm7fi3f]

She genuinely seems like a sweet women.

[@harleydavidson2218]

They say Jeffrey Dahmer was really charming

[@pnbimaging]

She is batshit crazy.

[@BESTPLACESTOGO333]

She just ignorant to what shes suppose to do

[@alter3go411]

If she really was she'd be off the market in a hot second.

[@AhmedMohammed-zy3pf]

Very

[@tomh5185]

She is the first person on here that I genuinely felt for. I think her values have just been left behind by the modern world.

[@jonsnow5738]

This is literally all of my aunts being told what I would never attempt to tell them....my God kevin your patience is legendary

[@brendabonilla2364]

Yes

[@user-xi3vi9mr9g]

◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴍʀ ᴅᴀɴɪᴇʟ ,ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs..................

[@user-xi3vi9mr9g]

📱ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝🧬 ✚▫️𝟏𝟔𝟔𝟗𝟑𝟏𝟗𝟎𝟑𝟗𝟓✉✔ ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ◦◦◦◦...

[@cyrahomega]

She didn’t do bad. Pretty good attitude on the KS hot seat. Hopefully he got through to her. So many of our sisters fall victim to delusion so much that it actually becomes their reality.

[@jonjones7137]

She is frigid as f.......

[@JT-bt6jy]

Bet you she is going to do that same thing.....

[@yannicksimok1216]

That’s y she need therapy and help … there is trust issues here and there 😩 Because she’s suitable … and she should be with someone and enjoy life …

[@jonjones7137]

@@yannicksimok1216 agree

[@JDMHaze]

what's sad is even if she jumped on it today, her chances are grim she's already 43 even from the biological perspective she's done, she better find her a good 60 year old man and ride on what looks she has left... And bring some good ass personality and hardcore femininity

[@RJ-Isaac-TSOML]

A close relative of mine was like this woman, with the added "perk" of some health issues and being overweight. She got married this year at 33 to a very unimpressive 40yo man who, at the time of their wedding, had no job, had no career, and lived with his parents. And every job he did have was practically given to him by family connections. A couple of weeks ago he had a heart attack. He survived but the future the two will have does not look pleasant.

[@Se7eNBlack]

Dayum. That's a sad story all around.

[@subspace666]

seems like the perfect match to me if you disregard the heart attack , at 40 year old seems like bad genetic or bad luck. i am assuming he wasn't morbidly obese since this wasn't mentioned.

[@RJ-Isaac-TSOML]

@subspace666 No, he is rather scrawny, though he's about 6 foot. They both probably weigh about the same. My wife made a similar comment, that this woman got exactly what she wanted.

[@user-jh1mq2ih2u]

And ?

[@Joel-pg4yi]

It must be love

[@Reofenja]

My friend is like this. Gorgeous, intelligent, capable, funny, and just a sweetheart. But what she is looking for is damn near impossible. A single black, relatively attractive Christian man, at least 5'9, older than 34, makes 40k+, no kids, and a virgin like her.

[@donking3540]

You can make this sh@t up

[@itsruffoutchea6636]

If she subtracted relatively attractive she'd have a 15% chance.

[@ravengaines6160]

She could get it…but she has to take the Virgin part out lol

[@JBTHEJEWELER]

I fit the mold til u said virgin lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@louisj4645]

Lol sheesh....you forgot delusional

[@jwashington54]

“This ain’t Gods plan, this is your plan...” whew she must’ve felt that.

[@ralphthomediaglobalnetwork8854]

“Bars”

[@minimalist_monk]

Sometimes it’s gods plan. But Kevin isn’t God and should take a seat.

[@jwashington54]

@@minimalist_monk bro if you know the Word, you’d know being 44, single and not desiring kids ISN’T God’s plan for anyone, male or female lol

[@minimalist_monk]

@@jwashington54 God speaks to everyone differently. Humans aren’t in control as much as they think they are

[@jwashington54]

@@minimalist_monk huh? That’s a subjective belief YOUVE made up bro. Can you at least admit you don’t read the Word enough to stand on that. Cause it’s clear. If you did, you’d know God is consistent and the standard of morality and righteousness. He doesn’t deviate. Furthermore, we do have all free will to do as we please. That’s why there’s judgement lol

[@warrensloan3467]

She lost me at “born again virgin.” It’s perfectly fine to realize you’ve been making some mistakes and decide to be more discerning with your body, but expecting the man who’s going to be your husband to wait when some dude you met at Subway didn’t have to is just absurd.

[@EightFrancs]

And that Subway fish taco aint worth the wait.

[@devincooper4243]

Bruh I had a female friend in college who racked up a triple digit body count in 3 years and now she's a born again virgin...i just look at her like 😐

[@william3000201]

She is a stock broker 5 years of waiting and that stuff is going. To be worth more didn't you know lol

[@LorelleG1]

😂

[@Jay2.0-]

Subway 😂😂😂😂

[@eulawinfrey5948]

I did not sleep with my husband before marriage and it's a beautiful thing. He was so respectful. There's nothing greater than living an obedient life before GOD.

[@keithburch8997]

What does god have to do with natural sec....

[@anthonywilliams8283]

Of course you can be a christian feminist! You can also be a vegan and own a butcher shop!

[@germanehabib7345]

😂🤪💪🏾DAYUM!👍🏾😜🤣

[@DONTCALLMETHAT]

i love these kinda responses 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@willia3r]

So a hypocrite, in other words. Not much more to say on that one🤷🏾‍♂️

[@Issey_B_Devo]

Nailed It 🔨🔨🔨

[@jasonBGI]

Small c big F

[@jaydub7386]

I hope that she finds a man that will hold her and give her a sense of love and security she didn’t get earlier in life. She is the most real and decent woman I’ve seen on his channel and deserves so much more than what she’s got.

[@brothercaleb]

Society lied to her. I hope she makes it… 💔

[@JT-bt6jy]

Man you know this woman has some serious FLAWS. VERY QUESTIONABLE CHARACTER.

[@vinceocratic]

She’s not the realest she’s just broken and stuck in a naive state. She needs a very empathetic man after years of counseling. The problem is - she grew up in foster care and was abandoned. Somewhere very early on in life she adopted the mindset that she wasn’t good enough to be loved and abandoned all hope.

[@ngalahansel6066]

​@@JT-bt6jywhich woman doesn't? She's had bad experiences probably, but she just needs someone who can navigate the uncertainties with her

[@mtdspfgh]

​@ngalahansel6066 Even the man you quoted has serious and repugnant FLAWS, yet he is casting stones at that calm, decent lady.

[@flourishomotola5306]

I REALLY RESPECT THIS WOMAN. I hope she's finds a good man who will take care of her and love her like Christ loves the church.

[@hoodpeckher2051]

She sound like a clean decent woman. He need stop enticing her into spreading her legs. One minute he's talking about God, next minute he's talking about Satan's wealth. Man put the headache of chasing money on mankind.

[@TheoCynical]

It's annoying because the standard for men isn't solely a practicing Christian but a successful man who happens to be a outspoken Christian. Purity really has ruined women in the church and it really hasn't built up responsible masculine men. Their version of "masculinity" is like getting a degree, good job, and a house; and "leads"; which could be a variety of things.5

[@KASLtja]

NOPE! STRONG AND INDEPENDENT REMEMBER?

[@ericof6871]

Your respect for her don't secure her a Husband. People like you mess such beautiful ladies up. And when they are old and lonely you will be no where to be found. Meanwhile you are speaking like a married woman

[@louisw4390]

@@ericof6871 Yes Sir. The unspoken downsides of "light skinned" and "pretty" privileges in the Black community.

[@nimblehuman]

This woman is the most genuine and only non-toxic woman I have ever seen on Mr. Samuels' show. I believe she will find a husband, because she is beautiful and has a sincere heart. The man who gets to be her husband is most fortunate, indeed. RIP KRS 🙏🏾🤲🏾🕊

[@JT-bt6jy]

Bro are you on crack??? She has very serious character flaws????

[@jahsoulfa]

*most unfortunate you mean

[@leroypoter2313]

This woman is like so many other women seriously religiously mentally ill superimpose on psychological psychosis impairment with an inferiority complex, by no means order.

[@winstoncannady4224]

A man at his peak earning potential won't pick her because shes unlikely to have kids

[@ZaniahSlayed]

I wonder how’s she’s doing today

[@plantaherbalknowledge9423]

This women is such a angel, most men dream of being with a angelic women. Hard to believe no one found her for 23 years. She’s not telling us something.

[@TheprophetDJ]

Agreed

[@chu-chumbingz6944]

She is no angel ! men know what they want also ,she has too much drama this one buy u cant tell cause she is reserved....

[@sbcl77]

Kevin spotted her mental/ delusional dysfunction immediately. Her outlook and disposition is flawed. She just don’t get it…

[@calvinsparrow9829]

Her choice not to have a man. She, like many other woman bought into that myth that she can have it all (working in retail but NOT management). Insane

[@rm5282]

Yep, something is wrong with her.

[@TeeDaHotboi]

This was tuff. She looked like she been thru a lot. He hitting her hard when she not bout that life. She stated she was in foster care and was abused. She was very timid. Hope she is ok

[@MrMetaylo]

Tough

[@ubecool454]

Tee thats what I was thinking as soon as she mentione foster care. She is a very nice looking woman, well spoken but there seems to be some self esteem issues. I can't help but pull for a person like this lady and he did hit her with some hard truths. Not once did she lose her cool so that means she was listening. Sometimes when you hear the truth about yourself its a good thing. Thats what friends are for.

[@k.c.alarmsltd29]

He may have saved her life...

[@InterviewU]

Amazing how this seems to be the first time she has ever been seriously challenged about her life decisions. This is why Kevin will be so missed. Love and Respect to The Godfather. RIP, good sir 🫡

[@djordu6720]

I applaud this woman for standing up for her morals. You can sleep around and still never get married. Not all societal norms are what's best. The problem with society today is that we are doing things 'our way' instead of 'God's Way'.

[@kerwinellis1793]

Well, she's obviously not doing it God's way either

[@djnastyhank]

Big facts

[@jamesbates5552]

She had sex with the guy who wanted to marry her and then she ended the relationship 🤦🏿‍♂️ she crazy lol

[@krazicjaxxon880]

Is there something wrong with sex B4 marriage??

[@leonelorozco2514]

Gtfoh. You stand up for her..... Realy? She has been having casual sex for over a decade. Wants to get married..... This is code for "i need a man to sponsor my life".

[@joblondine4618]

FYI- my heart goes out to her. She was in foster care, she has trauma from childhood. She needs counseling and good support from her adoptive family . I pray that she gets the help she needs. Tks,Kevin for a great interview. 🤗

[@thebobbydrake6]

Once she dropped that foster care line it really started making sense (for me)

[@elijahwise3060]

It's sad but people should have been hard on her a long time ago. Now it's pretty much over.

[@nomaanalwi9495]

@@thebobbydrake6 yep afraid of intimacy, likely a victim of sexual abuse early on in life.

[@mikezero7422]

@@thebobbydrake6 yeah it made sense for me as well. Trauma from what I understand freezes them at the age the trauma happened. Hence the reason why she still sounds like a teenager.

[@spatty2589]

She has some trauma. No way this pretty little girl came out of foster care unscathed. The fact that we all know it is the shame of our community.

[@mr.duanesharpe]

What I get from her. She is socially awkward and scared. The foster home didn’t help either. I truly feel bad for her.

[@ochenGsUp]

And she has waited too long.

[@antoniotula262]

DEF!!

[@juscelinefernandes3674]

Something really bad happened to her! She shut down socially and sexually!

[@lefty206]

She's an attractive woman, I can imagine she was very attractive throughout her twenties and 30s as well, which means that she was approached and spoken to by tons of different guys. Without knowing her on the personal level I can almost guarantee that she turned down the majority if not all of them, some of which would absolutely have been great husbands to her.. so I really don't feel sorry for her at all for not considering options when she had them.

[@CassCream]

@@lefty206 seeing that most men here would agree that she is a very pretty woman at the very least, I can only conclude that she openly pissed away every opportunity she had. Especially seeing that she works retail. Without a doubt she has plenty of suitors and opportunities to engage with people who are on her level.

[@everfresh29]

I've actually know a women like this. Fear will make you a fool.

[@VernonLegacy]

Beautiful woman. She definitely shouldn't be alone but she's not ready. So many people need work internally. I love my people. We gotta do our individual work for the benefit of the group

[@CookWithStephh]

Yea she's gorgeous. She definitely had options just wanted to be single

[@mcole442]

Not ready?🤔 What is she waitin on, Social Security???🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 She's CRAZY.......🙄

[@cameronevans9516]

Love her hair

[@lilchance1286]

She probably has a lot of issues from her foster care experiences. She probably could not afford therapy being in retail and no degree.

[@igottaspeak]

@@lilchance1286 You may be right about that., I have fostered over 70+ kids and he girls really struggle with wanting to be loved and making wrong choices.

[@Kingkongthugpassion2667]

Props to Kevin he asked her some real life questions that men and women should think about

[@youngman6355]

You know what, she was probably waiting for "Mr. right" thinking he'd "pop-up". With that mindset it's easy to reject potential partners due to her belief that God would naturally provide a better partner.

[@mayanking339]

Pretty privilege

[@JoshNtheedrifter]

Yep catch 22

[@goodfractalspoker7179]

I had a girl tell me she would die single if “the right guy” doesnt approach her. SMH

[@TheMidnightKarneval]

women love to think they're perfect and therefore cannot be bothered to deal with someone in the middle of establishing themselves. The phrase: "If you want to be the wife of a general, marry a lieutenant" applies here. Women age like milk, men age like wine.

[@antoniotula262]

Married to da Lawd!!

[@MyWerttrew]

Thank you, very eye opening. I am a married Christian man and this has revealed how my thinking has been influenced by feminism.

[@AS-qc8iz]

This is a real woman open to conversation and direction. She is looking for a husband but lost on how to find him. Hope she really finds someone to share her life. 🌹🙏

[@leonelorozco2514]

15 years late though. 40 year old + women have a 4 % chance to get married. Women do not control marriage. Men do.

[@damonselmon2307]

women don't find husband men find wives

[@free80four]

This interview almost brought me to tears. I really hope a good man finds her and she makes herself available.

[@jimjaco4210]

more like she has to find a good man and then throw herself at him.

[@Cryboutet]

@@jimjaco4210 💯

[@eleminoupi5670]

@@jimjaco4210 that requires her to leave the house first. Seems like foster care and religion messed her up

[@davidmarvy6788]

No good man is interested in a 43 year old woman. She needs to find a man, not a good man.

[@JoseRodriguez-nw4wc]

@@davidmarvy6788 she could get a good man, probably not a high value man.

[@DC.DYNASTY]

“You’re 5’11”, you have a certain look! But You may as well be a 500 lbs ugly woman…” Translation: you are beautiful 😢 what the hell happened?

[@amerokeewiya1320]

Fear

[@DC.DYNASTY]

@@amerokeewiya1320 agreed she has been horrible brought up being fostered and then thrown into Christianity. I hope she gets therapy because honestly step mom is her only viable opportunity. She’s attractive though.

[@tom11zz884]

She is pretty though. A Nicole Murphy looking pretty.

[@amerokeewiya1320]

@@DC.DYNASTY she doesn’t even want children tho, it’s not like she can’t have them. There are so many women conceiving NATURALLY in their mid to late 40s. People are incredibly indoctrinated.

[@DC.DYNASTY]

@@prettypractical3372 I agree.. he ain’t wanna say so he didn’t ask

[@jayleezy3681]

I don't think she is too far off,nice looking, soft spoken,respectful, and not giving her body to every man or woman.

[@jimcrowley1709]

She's actually an attractive woman. This is the failure of churches as well. I see it all the time

[@jfc4639]

Fully agree.

[@Polostar79]

The church has incentivized women like this to stay single

[@NevinBrownLLC]

The churches has messed up many people!!!

[@pumelelabanca4806]

True and false. She is too pretty for it to be the churches fault. She probably had hoards of men go to her and none of them were good enough.

[@mr.k9144]

As we can all see, many of these women chose feminism as an escape from having to do the work to attract and keep a suitable man. Unfortunately, once they get in the danger zone, they see what lies ahead.

[@xyz-iv6vx]

That woman is beautiful and she held out THIS LONG... It amazes me how we must be careful with the things we mentally digest because the outcome is another obstacle to deal with.

[@leochannels2893]

I remember for years women saying they were waiting on their Boaz. There are thousands of women in the US like this. In there 40s & 50s it’s like oops

[@renmes2636]

How can you feel sorry for her? She hasn't been able to pick ONE in 43 years? Really? Dude she can't be serious. No one was good enough for her in 43 years.... and she wants advice? She seems detached from reality. A younger more decisive woman got her man 20 years ago. She needs to adopt a cat and be done with it. I'm not trying to be cruel but she is a bucket of wishy washiness and problems. She's already met a few potential "husbands" and blew it. Why would a guy hitch his future to someone like that? She screwed the pooch.

[@toomanybears_]

I'm going to guess the first "requirement" on her list is the guy must be taller than her while shes wearing 4" heels. In other words, she wouldn't give 99% of men the time of day based solely on their height.

[@n3wt]

is she transitioning or is this post op

[@toomanybears_]

@@n3wt I wasn't going to be the one to say it.

[@yolandadonley239]

Please don’t listen to his advice. Trust your instincts, and keep your beliefs. Do what’s needed to heal, and feel valuable. Your personal godly choices are yours to live by.

[@CognitiveDiscussion]

The woman is damn near 50 why do you mean ma’am? If the average man doesn’t want her, ain’t nothing left out here

[@Rory-ct1zu]

Kevin be killin em'. The transparency, exposure, the methodology he employs. oh my God. When I meet u sir, a simple hand shake.

[@ScrewMuggz]

Better dap him up, he won't do handshakes. Lol he mentioned this in a video.

[@Rory-ct1zu]

@@ScrewMuggz u right. I saw that segment. But you know what I was getting at. You felt me. Lol

[@ScrewMuggz]

@@Rory-ct1zu you already know fam

[@markgunther2502]

As a church going male, I can tell you the women in the church of dating age behave no differently than the "heathen" women. The pastor at my singles group actually had to make an announcement that no cars should be left in the parking lot overnight into the morning or they'd be towed due to an event the next day. Why would anyone from the singles group leave his car in the lot overnight? *wink*wink* LOL

[@alexmuenster2102]

>>Why would anyone from the singles group leave his car in the lot overnight?

[@sharifsaladinbey7604]

😂😂😂Lol this made my day.

[@IndiaNumberOneCoubtry]

@@alexmuenster2102no one has jumper cables at church? Too much to drink at church? Had to take a cab home from church? 🤡

[@lucky2516]

@@alexmuenster2102Why would you get drunk in a Church though?

[@alexmuenster2102]

@@lucky2516 >>Why would you get drunk in a Church though?

[@montydec1972]

I feel for her, She seems even more lonely after this.

[@marvelousmartins2362]

Wherever this woman is today i pray she's doing well and have opened herself up to make way for a healthy relationship. I felt bad for her. She's just made so many mistakes but i do believe if there is anyone woman, 43 years old, who has a chance at finding love and marriage in her later years.... it's her. She's an attractive woman but most importantly she seems very agreeable, positive, feminine, etc. God bless you sister. I pray you find your husband.

[@rumproastwitch]

"Christian feminists" That's a VERY oxymoronic phrase.

[@SuperYoyoitsme]

It's ah Crockah!

[@princecharlesokere6224]

Disadvantages of being a feminist in the sense that right from when she became 30 she is supposed to that discussed these things with her pastors about finding a God fearing and responsible man, through conscious and intensional physical search and prayers. But she did not and rather self existed on her own, thinking it is ideal to succeed or survive outside a male figure/Authority . (That is feminism).

[@Rachelya87]

Kevin, your advice, is by and large, Tough Love. It’s so hard to hear. It’s harsh. But it’s realistic and it’s hurtful if you’re on the wrong end of the spectrum. Yet, so many women (including myself) NEED to hear all of it. Thank you sir. Thank you so very much for the time you’ve invested!

[@di3486]

Sadly he didn’t start telling her about therapy. This is not a modern woman, is a woman with a trauma.

[@crisalcantara7671]

Don't a be snowflake

[@DReed1945]

He was way too hard on this sweet woman. She needs therapy and not someone to tell her she’s worthless and no man wants her.

[@crisalcantara7671]

@@di3486 mostly all of them are brainwashed and are traumatised lol

[@crisalcantara7671]

@@DReed1945 the truth is aways hard to hear if you're a a snowflake

[@AurelienmyG]

Bless this gentleman Kevin for having the patience and willpower to just even seat there attempting to make sense of nothing lol. 😂😂

[@douglasnewcomer4831]

She seems nice and she's cute, I hope the best for her.

[@reimourrpower9357]

That's all she's got. As KS stated she squandered her best years being 'cute' and is past child-bearing status. She needs to re-evaluate herself to move forward and possible find a healthy relationship.

[@rtguns1055]

It was tough to watch but this is what she needed. For someone to help work through her current situation in a calm and firm manner. And it didn't cost a dime. She's a gem and deserves to be loved. She needs counseling with a qualified professional who can help her work through it. Stay strong my dear.

[@jwm66]

What Kevin said is not what she needed. He wanted her to give up her sexual purity because of his lack of faith in God's Way. This woman of Jesus Christ should have never consulted with this fornicator. Kevin was full of pride and was blind.

[@lifeisimportantkate]

@@jwm66 you are right. Kevin is right in some areas. Such as if you are in a church and the pastor does not do much to encourage marriage then she is in the wrong church, and needs a new pastor. It appears that tithes is the most important thing to the church and not the well-being of the members. I should know because I was married to a Pastor rat. There are other things Kevin said that I disagree with. But it would be too much to dissect here. Thanks for your comment.

[@jwm66]

@@lifeisimportantkate Enjoy your day!

[@lenniegodber7805]

Calling yourself a Christian is one thing Acting like one is quite another

[@ShadoeWerk80]

Mic drop🚶‍♂️ 🎤

[@stevesmith-ur6th]

LIVING NOT ACTING A CHRISTIAN WAY OF LIFE .NO EXCUSES.

[@freeindeed8416]

How is she not acting like a CHRISTIAN?

[@multi-milliondollarmike5127]

The obnoxious fire and brimstone kind, or the creepy, fake, always 'happy' kind?

[@iBloodxHunter]

@@multi-milliondollarmike5127 Frankly the answer is neither. The Bible has a........ "People suck and it's your job not to suck" Attitude to it, there's very little sugarcoating to the nature of humanity in there and by all accounts, both groups you mentioned are fake and won't be rewarded for their "service." Then there's the bit where it implies humans don't go to Hell if they don't go to Heaven but instead they go to oblivion.