overcoming the pain of never being enough.

[@LiLy_22]

you are so underrated. I needed this thank you

[@carasway_]

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[@designingdante]

it was hard to know what to comment on this one, because i share the same struggle. we are very often defined by what we are willing to struggle for and i truly believe that we all should always chase perfection, not thinking that it's achievable, but because that's the only noble path to follow to be better and get better. the problem seems to be on how to be in peace with the constant burden of wanting more of ourselves about something we cherish. i try to keep in mind that the resistance weights the same as our passion and problems are not errors, but features. like alfred said "we fall to learn how to pick ourselves up". (for the nerds in the comments, i known that it was a saying from thomas, but alfred said it better 😁) just remember that you're not the thoughts in your head, you're the one who listens and keep up the good work. you are doing great.

[@carasway_]

I really appreciate it! I guess for me, having perfection as the only goal from the beginning 'terrifies' me from taking the first steps, but I agree that we should always strive for improvement and betterment, cos sticking with what we are familiar with or good at means stagnation and rejecting the idea of personal growth. Like you said, the problem is indeed how to find the balance between wanting more for ourselves without being overly self-critical, which is not an easy thing to do. But through conscious awareness and effort, we get to come closer and closer to that point of balance. Thanks again for the thoughtful comment and encouragement, Dante! Have a great day/evening:)

[@Getting_home09]

Honestly, I've been watching you since December and wanna tell you that you bring me so much peace😭

[@carasway_]

Aww thanks for the kind words xx

[@moooooooooooooooo2083]

Thank you for starting, creating, finishing, and sharing this work with us! This feels very aligned with my own life at the moment and I appreciate your courage to share this! Thank you! 🫶💛

[@carasway_]

SO SO happy that you enjoyed and resonated with this video🤍 Lots of love xx

[@sampada7603]

Totally agree as a person who struggles with perfectionism. I am trying to unlearn this mindset of mine. Also letting go is harder than starting that's my opinion from experience because sometimes weare in situations not because we love it but because we don't wanna be proved wrong. Like it's a slap to ego. It gets better first step is always acknowledgement. n

[@carasway_]

Oh yeah I agree with the ego part, it happens to me too, but awareness of it definitely helps with overcoming that need to be right. And being wrong sometimes teaches us more than being right. Thanks for sharing x

[@TxuButterflies]

I’m so grateful for finding your channel. Your videos are extremely helpful. I’m finally being able to comprehend why I tend to procrastinate so much. Never stop making these videos, you make me feel accompanied through the problems of my life. This has given me motivation to rectify my inconsistent habits and has given me hope that everything will turn out to be okay! ❤️

[@carasway_]

That means so much to me thank you for liking them💖Everything will be okay eventually xx

[@spacewitchhh_]

this is what i feel in the past few weeks too, thank you for reminding me that i am not alone !!

[@yaz851]

i appreciate you putting your heart out in this video, thank you for sharing your thoughts

[@SwetaaaSharmaaa]

You actually give me so much motivation.Thank you Cara for existing and uploading. I love you

[@carasway_]

That makes everything so worthwhile, thank you! Lots of love xx

[@gotakay3675]

loved it. thanks. keep it up!!

[@jimpaulatencio2598]

Your advice help me on my situation now✨

[@anotherday5277]

All do respect you’re very beautiful 🙃🙌🏼

[@arabarbara]

beautifully put :)

[@almiralao9659]

Beautiful and smart ❤

[@sooryak865]

I can totally relate to you

[@Farwaaliart]

This is so me😭

[@putingdepusa]

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