7 Habits of Successful People and Musicians

[@chrishughes4285]

"You're not judged by the commitments you make, you're judged by the commitments you keep" has always been a favorite of mine. Thanks again for putting out this material!

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

That’s s great one Chris! Thanks for that!!!

[@stratman9449]

oh yes Carl...THE biggest "enemy" of my days in the 70s having a band or group, was the total lack of reliability of other band "members"...not showing up for practice, or whatever...in the end i more or less gave it up on those grounds.....the actuall "music" (BIG topic..)..was often (sadly) only a thing on the side.....sooo many egos in music......but hey...here we are...:-) cheers.

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

I feel you!

[@blueheron5232]

Bravo, Maestro! Once more you've done the Music Community a very great service. Bravo! As compared with those who merely have to say something, you, sir, clearly have something to say. For my own clarity and to better internalize your insights, let me rephrase some points in more familiar terms... (A.) "Great Training" equates to acquisition of the "specialized knowledge" particular to one's chosen field. It's literally crucial. (B.) "Commitments" are to be kept or not made at all. As like goes to like, those good for their word soon leave behind those who are not. This is simply by virtue of who they've become. (C.) "Come Fully Prepared" is like showing up on time, dressed for work, work boots on, toolbox full, knowing both your job and how to do it well. Now you're playing with the Big Kids. That said, don't be a "Bottle Baby." If you rely on a chemical crutch, you are a weak link in the chain and need to fix that. As sung by Paul McCartney, "Stand on your feet. You won't get far if you keep on sticking your hands in the 'medicine jar.'" (D.) By knowing more than my part in the arrangement, I'll make my part fit that much better. This touches on taking up only the "sonic real estate" I need and leaving "elbow room" for everyone else to play. (Three Note Thumb Chords are good friends.) If "The Song Is The Thing" then if it doesn't serve the song, something's wrong. (E.) Getting the call says they have to fill a spot and thought of you. They may be under the gun timewise and have to go with whoever gets back to them first. Be that person. As the saying goes, "You snooze, you lose." (F.) Getting there early is simply smart. Duane Allman was well known for getting to session gigs an hour early (outwardly) to put on and break in a new set of strings, the mark of a pro. (G.) Be a Joy to have around or "easy to work with." No one plays so well that they can afford to be a burden on people. No matter how good we may get, some Humility will always serve us. Whatever you put out comes back to you, so help others shine. Call it "enlightened self-interest" if you want but do it. (H.) You are playing music in the Real World. Stuff is going to happen. Roll with it or stay home with the little kids. (I.) People want to FEEL something outside of their norm, usually something more elevated in some way. Your job is not to merely "recite" the music but to share how it feels with them so they can feel it too. They're hungry for that. If you don't feel it, they certainly won't, and they'll know YOU don't either. To be boring is possibly the worst of social sins. (J.) Eye Contact... The audience has eyes as well as ears. That's obvious yet somehow still needs to be said. Maintain eye contact with the other members of the band too because any player who doesn't could be replaced by a machine... or another player who's more "with it." (I.) Playing music is a SOCIAL activity. As Musicians, we have a special role to perform. Show yourself you take your role seriously. Dressing for it is part of our job... and as professionals our stage threads are Tax Deductible. Again, Thank You... Each one of your points could possibly be a topic all on its own.

[@robertmellang6998]

Cool video. I am a retired bus driver. I love playing. I rejected formal music training when I was 8 years old. I was in the 7th grade when I heard Led Zeppelin II. I had never heard anything like it. I have played guitar and bass with some groups/not professionally. I love guitars and playing. I could never be a professional musician. Cool channel.

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

Thank you so much! Keep on rocking!

[@nickcosta8062]

Carl this is beautiful and everything I subscribe to... Dependability is one of my biggest pet peeves.. I don't drive due to poor vision ... That has never stopped me from getting to band practice, A recording session or a gig. I used to work a 10 hour day then take 3 busses to band practice in Garfield Hts. Eat on the bus.. get to practice,, Get home by midnight. Then get up at 3 am to catch 2 busses just to get to work by 5:30 am every morning and doit all over again. The other thing I think is important is visualizing the gig and/or recording session. I would literally visualize and playout every moment in my mind a week in advance of the gig.. Self mental conditioning is a very huge key for me. Anyone who is a musician or aspires to be one should see this video... Great work and sage advice.. Thank you , Again!

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

God bless you brother. I really respect how you’re wired!

[@mojo-hand4539]

Word of Wisdom, Carl - thank you! I'm not a professional musician - but this is applicable to pretty much any profession!

[@barrywarren4221]

I just recently found you channel, been watching your Led Zeppelin videos. I started playing guitar in the 60's and still play Led Zeppelin or Jimmy Page is my guitar hero. I Played in bands into the 90's. I really enjoy the video's that you put out, can't wait for your next one . They take me back to my roots, in music, bring it on home. Thanks

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

So glad you found my channel and dig what I’m doing! Peace! Carl

[@jltrem]

Carl's bloopers at the end of his videos shows another trait of successful people, a sense of self deprecating humor.

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

:)) you’ve got to laugh at yourself!! And I sure have a lot to laugh at being a 1st ballot, all-time goofball!

[@luisvolpon1598]

Carl, this is a great lesson. It applies to almost all professions! Thank you!!

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

I thought it crossed over! Peace. Carl

[@CraigFlowersMusic]

Just gonna say right off the bat: I'm completely untrained, completely self taught. Maybe I'm the only one, idk, but I never found a teacher or mentor nor did I feel any need to. Thanks for the content!

[@StevenShults]

Also useful thoughts for hobbyists who hope to someday not suck. 🙂

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

Count me in!!

[@derekclacton]

3:22 The great English football (soccer) manager, Bobby Robson used to say “To be early is to be on time, to be on time is to be late and to be late is unacceptable!”👍

[@ImYourOverlord]

All important and insightful points. Thank you, sir, for bringing these tips and reminders to us! The most challenging one for me, as I came up in live music performance, was to connect with and engage the audience. I was so focused on my playing that I realized I wasn't entertaining as well. This made me appear uncomfortable on stage, and probably aloof, which no performer should put across. As soon as I started making random eye contact with people in the audience and moving around more to show that I was enjoying being up there for them, I felt more relaxed and happy, and had more fun playing! It takes so little, and creates an enjoyable experience for both the performer and the crowd 😁

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

Such a great a great comment!! Thank you for sharing!!!!

[@redcloudshaman2509]

I can't believe I've only now found your channel. I cannot thank you enough for your video's and instructional training, especially regarding music theory. Thank you from Japan :)

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

So nice to hear from you. I must visit your country soon!

[@Adam1213100]

Carl, thank you sir. You joyous professional, you.

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

So sweet! Thank you!

[@klubbladet]

Thanks - Carl !

[@edsterpka5986]

I loved this video… things we don’t normally think about as musicians… Bravo Carl and Thank you, I will share this with all my musician friends…

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

Thank you!!

[@lumberpilot]

When I was at Berklee, I heard that the difference between an amateur and professional musician was that a pro will play whether he wants to or not whereas the amateur only plays when it suits him.

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

I understand that completely!

[@saintbrando]

Ritchie Blackmore actually has a video on YT explaining why he doesn’t smile. You are someone who practices what they preach. Great video Carl.

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

Thank you. I’ll have to find the video of why Ritchie doesn’t smile!!

[@alexcaulfield2214]

I love this video. As a young salesperson who’s favorite thing in the world is music, I can see the similarities between both. Thank you for this wisdom, I can see the areas where I’m doing well, and also where I’m lacking. Looks like it’s daily self-review time

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

I’m so happy you watched and saw wisdom! Bless you on your journey!

[@stevenjones6780]

Excellence! "Live long and prosper" Hmmm....interesting. Did we ever talk Trek?

[@derekclacton]

8:10 Buddy Guy is the greatest example of a musician / entertainer I have ever seen 🎸🙂

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

I agree.

[@budforler4338]

Well done

[@keithmartin1067]

Dear Carl, you present great advice in such a positive and joyous manner - thank you! May I please bring to your attention a most wonderful band: "Khruangbin" especially their song: "Dern Kala" from their album: "The Universe Smiles Upon You". Yours sincerely, Keith. Peace and love to everyone!

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

I’ll look it up! Thanks!

[@LachlanSheringham]

It's good to hear this stuff, from someone I admire and respect. P.S. Loved the Ten Years Gone video. I learned heaps, I'm 69.y.o. and just picked the guitar back up after a 15 year gap.

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

Fabulous. Keep rocking!

[@wb1985]

Good advice

[@jamesnicholson9392]

JAMES SCOTT NICHOLSON, LOVE THIS SEGMENT OF MY DAY, I WAS RAISED IN CHILDREN’S AID AND BORN 71 AND AT 12 IN C.A.S. I STARTED PLAYING AND WAS A PAGE FAN INSTANTLY. AT 14 I 1) PUNCHED A GUY PICKING ON ME FOR LONG HAIR.(HE WAS A 19 year OLD MODEL) THE JUDGE ORDERED I PAY 1700 $ . MY FOSTER MOM ASKED WHERE TO WRITE THE CHECK TO, “ OH NO JUDGE SAYS HE IS GONNA WORK FOR IT. “ HE HAS MY MOM SAID, HE HAS HAD A PAPER ROOT, SINCE THE DAY HE GOT HERE. HE HAS 2,500$ SAVED.WELL I TOOK THE 800$ AND BOUGHT MY FIRST GUITAR A 12 TAKAMINE ENDED UP REALLY WANTING A SIX STRING (LOVED THE SOUND) SO I TORE SIX STRINGS OFF AND WHILE ALL OTHER GUITARISTS WERE LEARNING HIS ELECTRIC I WAS FASCINATED WITH THE OPEN TUNINGS . LOOKED FUNNY BUT OWN 21 AXES TODAY 7 AMERICAN PAULS,STRATS,CHARVEL ETC.THIS IS MY KINDA T.V. LOL TOP LEFT ♥️♥️✌️🇨🇦TO A GUITAR GEEKS GREAT CHANNEL 👍

[@PentagramDave]

99% of players I grew up with reject the idea of "training", & so now in their 60s still sound like a first year beginner

[@rareform6747]

Are band Rare Form would mix it up and play "GO" It was a song made up live never played and never will repeat , went over great and was exhilarating !

[@MusicMotivator]

Excellent Carl! I think you may enjoy one of my books on personal improvement and guitar. I'd love to send you a free copy and would value your feedback.

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

Please do send one! I’d love to read it!

[@fritzb.3978]

Thx! Sarcastic (but half true) comment: how can I get more time to be an hour early and iron my shirts while I still to need to practice?!! 😂

[@blueheron5232]

No one "makes" the time for anything. We don't make time; it is given to us, and we all get 24 hours every day. The truth seems that one either "sets aside" time for something or one does not. In that case, one may be conflicted but that, sir, is an entirely separate topic.

[@fritzb.3978]

@@blueheron5232 I totally agree. The answer is in the question.

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

St. Augustine’s Confessions give the best philosophical description of time I ever heard!! For what it’s worth!

[@Bronco-1776]

I was just wondering about this subject, too! .... I was also a professional actor and I would say that most or everything you said applies to the acting profession as well. e.g. ..... An actor will just "switch on" when its time too.

[@CarlBaldassarreMusic]

Thank you! I’m glad the message crossed over!