Carlton MELTS DOWN in Radio Interview Over Love is Blind Criticisms!

[@GraceReport]

Things get especially heated around the 14:00 and 22:00 marks 😳. Do you think Carlton is overreacting to fan feedback?

[@rammsterdamm020]

Yes, he is.

[@GraceReport]

@@rammsterdamm020 1000000%!!

[@cintiaperez764]

Wooo those hosts are better than me cuz I don't go for this...he's threatening to leave I would've said BYE! but they're so patient with him &are trying so hard to diffuse the situation 🙄

[@gogogadgetabby]

What the actual fuck is he talking about? Grace, I commend you for being able to sit through that

[@Lalacandoitall357]

Carlton is acting like a child.I don't understand why he agreed to do an interview he had to understanding of the backlash you would get. He expects you to just be quiet ,no what he did was wrong. They should have just told him to leave or to not come on the show cuz he's acting like a child. He's acting extremely insecure yet he says he's secure in his sexuality he's contradicting himself .I don't know how they have time for his tantrums and hissy fits. And then he has the nerves to say oh" b****** like you". If he's in so much turmoil you might as well take himself to therapy to get professional help.

[@rammsterdamm020]

Carlton is a guy who has a problem for every solution. He wants to play the victim card. Diamond didn't judge him for one second and he almost seemed dissappointed.

[@GraceReport]

Ugh, that is a whole entire WORD boo!!! A problem for every solution indeed! Diamond still wanted to marry him yet according to him she's a homophobe! Like eff off, dude!

[@angeladuncan2454]

Grace Report he is being so rude and EXTRA AS FUCK smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ geez he needs to calm down

[@d0misworld962]

Exactly! He WANTS everyone to be negative even when they aren’t being negative! They were literally showing him people giving positive comments saying they loved and supported him and he said “F#*@ them” Like what?! He literally WANTS to be the victim even when he’s not smh

[@princesslamour1985]

EXXXAACCCTTTLLLYYYYYYY

[@enuphsayd9746]

You hit it on the nail

[@teniseuna]

Diamond dodged a bullet!! This guy is an obnoxious victim player..! Cry me a river..

[@LatriceDiane]

tenisse h that would’ve been one hell of a marriage welllllll beyond some bisexuality.

[@acestarone]

I hope she blocked him on all socials as well as her personal phone. He wants to be her friend

[@wesley5074]

She really did!! 😳 The issue is not even his sexuality , it's his self hate! I hope he gets the help he needs

[@toneyfox6328]

tenisse h we hope

[@ladybugjones76]

I don’t think he planned on marrying her he wanted to be on tv thinking the lgbtq community was going to back him and he would get a spin-off

[@lauragarcia415]

It’s like talking to a wall. He doesn’t listen. Go to therapy Carlton.

[@cynthiadrake1488]

100% He does not listen he wants to do what he wants and that's that. No regard for her or anyone else.

[@ashiaku9864]

Therapy wouldn’t work for him. You have to be willing to listen to the therapist which he won’t

[@Miracle-ms9hu]

He needs help - honestly!

[@WAWANI-Nation]

Like my mama used to say " it's like speaking to a Spanish brick wall"😂😂👀 we speak English

[@melscotto5330]

Carlton needs more than that. He should be institutionalized for about a year. Shame on producers for bringing in a sick man just because they wanted drama. He needs all kinds of help.

[@erichicks8698]

1. He's still negative! 2. He's still on the defense. 3. He's still interrupting others during conversation. 4. Still not wanting to hear what others have to say. 5. Still not taking full responsibility of what he said and how he acted.

[@DRUGSTOREMAKEUPDIVA]

He's not taking responsibility for who he is. And you can really see the "gay man" part of him coming out. Imo

[@erichicks8698]

@@DRUGSTOREMAKEUPDIVA I agree.

[@TheCeceSmiley]

It’s been over a year and he is still defensive 🥴

[@Crystal-t6g]

His a horrible person 👎🏾

[@ang5942]

He is such a diva as well and he is gaslighting the audience and the producers. Like they will never know what it's like to be on tv they barely on Instagram. Already attacking the audience. Also, I will say that a lot of men do get treated shitty for being bisexual and there are is a lot of misinformation out there. I've had men freak out before because I dated someone previously who was bi. However, there have been some gay/bi black men celebrities that have been very well received. Lil Nas X, Frank Ocean, Little Richard, and RuPaul. I am sure they have received their own fair share of hate from different communities but I feel like their current media representation and reception has been pretty positive. I wanted to like him during the show but it's just difficult when he is so mean to everyone and then turns around and calls them all bigots.

[@drsparx1343]

This is frickin exhausting. This man sucks all the light and energy out of your soul.

[@letticecorless5520]

Ver Bilano he is sick!

[@caole88]

❤️

[@beatricedevarenne2621]

True

[@OouchCharty]

Yesss he does! I would stay far away!! Wouldn't care if he was a friend or family

[@reneedavis870]

He's not listening to anybody. He is a train wreck.

[@Jackie-md8zs]

He simultaneously hates himself and is obsessed with himself. Total narcissist vibes. Yikes. 🤮 netflix casting deserves a raise.

[@stardust5531]

Kkk true

[@princesslamour1985]

Yup

[@Metaphysicalmindspace777]

I wonder did Netflix casting KNOW that this guy is gay BEFORE they cast him.

[@Jackie-md8zs]

@@Metaphysicalmindspace777 they HAD to have! It's so apparent after 5 minutes of convo with him. Its literally all he can talk about, but hes NOT gay 🤪

[@edsmart5443]

@@Metaphysicalmindspace777 Hell yes. Look at what it did to the episode. I think they told him to hold off telling Diamond too.

[@mariahlynn3245]

HE'S LITERALLY DOING THE SAME THING TO THEM THAT HE DID TO DIAMOND. Go to therapy dude

[@brandinicole7992]

Mariah Lynn I was literally thinking the same thing!!!

[@enuphsayd9746]

He's taking paranoia to a whole high.

[@Miracle-ms9hu]

Yup lool. The same thing!

[@crystalwitter761]

Yup I agree he was being disrespectful to them and to her viewers 🙄

[@sonyahferris5510]

He needs THERAPY for a long time... This dude has some deep hurt and needs to deal with that before he looks for love ANYWHERE.. Praying for this brother!!

[@SonjaS222]

Carlton wants people to hate him. Diamond accepted him and he’s painting her as some homophobic bigot. He wants people to see him as a good person but he slanders her character. It’s not even about sexuality, Carlton is toxic. Period.

[@jackseve]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@Isaidit129]

100% Toxic 💣

[@Yumi88888]

YES! This has nothing to do with his sexuality this has everything to do with is crappy personality. He's sitting here telling them how to run their radio show, "I've been in the industry so I know how it works, let's have people call me if they want to date me." This isn't your show Carlton! She makes comment about how they're arguing like cousins and he snaps back with "we're not arguing" he is combative about any little thing!

[@toneyfox6328]

Sonja S he bates himself

[@trudy_triad]

"Don't save [him]. [He] don't wanna be saved." - J. Cole.

[@colodro44]

Trudy Rozani 😎 three six mafia

[@SCJune803]

Project Pat

[@christinen9001]

Preach

[@nahova3167]

Trudy Rozani 😭😭

[@blindeyeshater]

Trudy Rozani 💯

[@PennSorpranith]

I wish they would have just cut the interview. He’s so toxic. So entitled.

[@marsha1758]

Yes! Send him home. His story line wasn't that important. The majority of viewers tuned in for Cam and Lauren anyway.

[@Crystal-t6g]

His a narcissistic pretentious selfish nobody 🥵😳🤯🥶😡🥺☹️😩😖😣😟😔

[@AmberLoveTV]

I don’t think Carlton deserved shamea’s grace and patience. Shamea was very forgiving of his very bad vibes.

[@emilykimber4444]

Amber Love i thought the same. She was so compassionate with him and he just kept givin her his ass to kiss.

[@LifeOfKells]

AT ALL! He got coached through that interview, and she is not this mans therapist smh

[@kpopcougar6832]

He hates himself, and by extension he hates everyone else...women, his people. He is a lost cause for now. He needs therapy...lots of it.

[@loveafrica97]

Kpop Cougar that’s it. I feel bad for him.

[@Carameldamour]

@@loveafrica97 I don't, he did it to himself... asking for special treatment after he fucked up.

[@solitairedoll]

Kpop Cougar this!!

[@dingstrini]

That's what I said. Therapy ASAP

[@leisaamore7951]

Therapy can't heal a sociopath. He is fundamentally evil. That's not something therapy can fix.

[@suras8984]

After seeing this whole interview I know now there is nothing Diamond could have said that would not have resulted in a different ending. He is inconsolable and zero ability to self soothe. This is the most extreme victim mentality I have ever seen from anybody let alone from an aggressor. He needs to find himself a bisexual black therapist just so he wont be able to use the line you would never understand as an excuse to not listen.

[@GraceReport]

Well said!!! I agree 100%! Carlton isn't interested in anything but victimhood. He'd probably use age or being a 'preacher's kid' to differentiate himself from a black bi therapist - there's no winning with him LOL!

[@coffeetalk5917]

Can you post this somewhere we can share this that you wrote.

[@suras8984]

@@coffeetalk5917 Where do you want me to post this...what do you mean?

[@fashionistaT85]

@@suras8984 I think what @CoffeeTalk means is; if you could post your comment on another social media site like Insta and paste the link here so she can share..... Maybe lol🤷🏾‍♀️

[@fashionistaT85]

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[@tulip324]

The fact that they were coddling him and he was STILL being oppositional and demanding sympathy was astounding. He’s a broken man and a lost cause. How does he have friends cuz 15 minutes with him would drain me of a weeks worth of energy. And the fact that he’s specifically mad at black people.... whew the self hate is on 💯

[@caole88]

WoahhItsMonica 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@satob7690]

No way he has friends. If he does then they are just as toxic as he is. He is a drainer of positive energy.

[@leonardofarias8843]

Its all to push a dumb agenda about black people

[@darcyadelle]

He is LITERALLY the most toxic person... wow. Like what a CHORE it is to even listen to him. I feel so sorry for Diamond. How dare he drag her the way he did...

[@bettyjohnson4875]

He is his own worst enemy. He will never like what anybody says, especially if it's not what he wants. Blames everybody except himself. Uggghhh

[@jasminelafaye]

He should've stayed his a** home. Why even do the interview?

[@colleen1219]

Jasmine La Faye Right! I’m sorry nobody is dragging you in there. He’s taking advantage of the press he has right now.

[@GraceReport]

CLOUT IS A HELL OF A DRUG! Gosh this guy hates EVERYONE yet he's so desperate to be famous! Make that make sense!!!

[@erichicks8698]

Watching this play out was very draining. This was supposed to be an interview not a therapy session. I agree he should have just stayed his ass home. He wasted their time and money. They spent way too much time trying to comfort him and it still didn't work. IDK I just feel like he wants pity!

[@FunwithCFS]

This is the most exhausting child therapy session I've ever seen.

[@colodro44]

Fun with CFS why you insulting children like that. Lol. This fool need to just go back to Carmax and live his life and stop trying to be famous.

[@4naymsakeRW]

Yes

[@mikedanielslifestyle2470]

Fun with CFS That’s Narcissism and mental illness

[@luluseatowngetdown6251]

iih? 🧠😣🤕

[@kdeloris2225]

🤣🤣🤣

[@keyvonnaarline3466]

He’s the kind of guy who cheats and blames it on you

[@SchelDiva103]

Keyv Vill it’s called a narcissist

[@kingchubs]

Lyschel Edwards can you stop using that word for everything. He’s just too empathetic. He needs to be more ruthless and selective of who he lets in his life. Simple.

[@Seer-nn4qo]

Anthony I that is not empathy....that is literally the opposite. Empathetic people truly can understand how something makes someone else feel. They listen a lot and place themselves in the other person’s position in order to better understand and connect. That’s what we Empaths do. As a matter of fact, empaths often attract narcissist people. I would even venture to say that Diamond is an empath. That would explain her willingness to try to have a conversation and better understand him. An empathic person is also very self aware. Carlton has none of these traits. He needs to work on himself and stay single until he is better mentally.

[@xoxoreyah6975]

yes!

[@milaa.ballentine4260]

😂 Mhmm.

[@angeladawson8904]

Lemme just say, seeing so many people worried that he's representing the black community. I am not in that community and as an outsider I can 100% say, this man does not make me think of your community worse. In my opinion, he represents the abusive gaslighting community, which has ALL races in it. However, the two ladies from your community on this show, damn! They represented! You have the most beautiful woman on the show, from YOUR community, first thing in the morning slightly concerned about her bonnet, hands down STUNNING. 100% integrity, 100% respectful, 100% intelligent... she topped them all! Then with Diamond on the show, she got stuck with a gaslighter, and she had so much self respect, self knowledge, integrity.... she walked away head held high! Strong as **ck! So many women get stuck with men like carleton and can't leave, she saw the red flag, approached it, confirmed it was a red flag and walked out! Smart, strong woman who knows her worth! This man here, so called man, is nothing more than a victim of his own imaginary issues.

[@Becauseoftheimplicatons]

Totally agree! He is trying to jump on the Black community is biphobic bandwagon so that the gay community will come out and defend him. He's just trying to flip the story from him being a a**hole into him being a victim of biphobic attacks. He called tmz after calling 911, to milk it even more. I think Jessica got way more backlash than he did, I'm impressed how she is handling it compared to him.

[@lovelybeauty24]

Tyler Sheppard well said!

[@three7446]

Tyler Sheppard Im not black but as a woman I feel comforted by what you said. It’s nice to know men know it’s wrong to insult women like that

[@sweetne80]

1000% agree with you

[@noneya1238]

Thanks but a lot of black men are like this. Not all, but a lot.

[@CHRISTLKE]

I think he has a problem with black women.

[@mrs.cadogan4417]

Nide' because he’s NOT one!

[@fancynancy109]

He wants to be one sooo bad 😂🤣

[@oldsnookie]

Black ppl in general. He need to find him a white man and sit the hell down

[@oldsnookie]

@@mrs.cadogan4417 love this comment 😂

[@claireh8125]

I think there is a small minority of closeted gay men / men who are not okay with their sexuality who are resentful of how easily cis women can attract the attention of the men they would like to be with.

[@AutumnKalli]

Omg he’s literally the worst. He’s one of those people that you can make the best sense and use 100% logic and it will NEVER get through to them because it’s like talking to a wall. He’s a manipulative pathetic wanna be victim omggg. This actually irritated me to no ends lol.

[@Julie.Canada]

Exactly! You can't reason with unreasonable people.

[@Jackie-md8zs]

I cant imagine being around him all the time. So draining. I wonder if he has friends

[@AutumnKalli]

Julie 100% correct. A hard lesson I have learned over the years. It blows my mind and he’s a perfect example of someone so unaware and blinded by their behavior and actions it does not matter if the best therapist or whatever in the world tells them their wrong, they won’t see it like that. Just a brick wall!

[@tammyiswicked]

Totally. I had to stop watching him because I’m so frustrated with the twists and turns of his “logic”. All this “That’s your opinion!” Bullshit.

[@Msladyrae92]

Kalli Kube right. He’s listening solely to make a response. I will call him Mr. rebuttal

[@teaks9504]

He is soooooo cringe!!! He makes no sense when he talks... can't stand him!

[@melscotto5330]

Diamond should see this video.

[@VeronicaNoemiAlvarez]

Mel Scotto she lived it. She’s suffered enough.

[@melscotto5330]

@@VeronicaNoemiAlvarez I don't think she would suffer watching this.

[@VeronicaNoemiAlvarez]

Mel Scotto I was just joking/being sarcastic

[@melscotto5330]

@@VeronicaNoemiAlvarez Haha! Yes, I thought she would enjoy it! 😋

[@gogogadgetabby]

This guy is NOT living his truth.

[@goldenglowable]

gogogadgetabby He just doesn’t love himself, all of this is just a cry for more attention because ppl can see right through him and that scares him smh.

[@country1717]

Nope!! Carlton is gay, not bi. He's not being truthful and that's why he's acting this way. He thought he could become reality famous pretending to be into women also. He has no idea how to treat a woman. He is RHOA Cynthia Bailey's gay bestie and assistant. He's pissed because Cynthia didn't defend him on her instagram.

[@Carameldamour]

Not at all

[@anz10]

@@country1717 why assume hes not what he says he is? That's so rude. Imagine if people assumed you were not straight just because...

[@the1andonlylele]

country1717 yup Cynthia isn’t going to publicly defend a liar lol. haha She knows it and everyone knows it in Atlanta and Houston knows it too.. there are ppl in his own community calling him out.. I don’t get why ppl lie and go on reality shows like ppl who know them wont call them out lol especially this is the era of CLOUT and everyone wants attention. He didn’t think it through

[@cowgrll]

Carlton: NOBODY wants to talk about mental health in the black community Them: okay then talk about it! you have the platform right now Carlton: nah just forget it how is the black community ever supposed to address the situations you think we’re ignoring or against supporting if you flat out refuse to talk about it? don’t bring it up if you won’t hash it out. i’m exhausted by his negative energy.

[@ang5942]

He is also surrounded by people who are saying that they love him and support him and hear him and they are trying to give him a platform to speak his piece. They are trying to tell him there are other people who are in his position who are hurting. But he just doesn't care he can't hear it. It does seem like he is hurting but he is shutting every single person down like how can people help him or hear him out if he is just constantly combative.

[@DD-Lo]

Seems to me he's struggling with the fact that he's gay, and doesn't want to take ownership of his feelings. Trying the "love is blind" experiment was his last ditch effort to be in a heterosexual relationship, but instead it seemed to reconfirm his true self, his homosexuality.

[@COURTNEYVCK]

ddlo I agree I think he’s gay and really has to work through that. He will find a problem with anything.

[@torirosalyn]

Hit it on the head

[@Tradewiththepen]

I agree, I think he felt like being in a heterosexual relationship with Diamond will help him fit into the community but he ended up hating her for ‘unknowingly’ trying to make him what he is not (bisexual)

[@KimBlaQue]

Carlton WANTED Diamond to reject him so he can continue to play the victim card!! Also he is unjustifiably arrogant and obnoxious 🤢

[@annmonicakitokoeleki]

He was on RHOA season 5&6 as Cynthia Bailey's assistant as a gay man! This was 8 years ago! He was full on gay and then 2-3 years ago he tried to play Diamond on Love is Blind!? Production need to do better!!

[@KimBlaQue]

@@annmonicakitokoeleki He's a confused and angry male that's running from his truth.

[@ree2946]

He clearly has mental health problems, its quite sad to see he has no idea that he is the problem.

[@sexyblackcharlery]

Definitely

[@spilgrim7061]

Exactly he is own head about things.

[@sherreenichole]

He is EXHAUSTING!!!!!! The problem isn’t the black community or the LGBT community it is YOU CARLTON and the fact that #1 you didn’t give Diamond a chance to decide whether or not she wanted to marry a FLUID man!!!!!! And #2 you switched up on her and acted like a victim while completely disrespecting and humiliating her. Own up to THAT and quit trying to make this about something it’s not!!!!!!

[@dummysick_8117]

sherreenichole true true true.. He never adressed the insults and alla dat. Always about 'Im fluid.. Im bi..' No boy shut up thats nit the CRITICISM

[@islandmixox]

You said the words out of my mouth!!

[@ayidas]

100%%%%%%%%%

[@ginnagw]

Diamond dodged one hell of a bullet with this one!

[@MrJames-hu2xj]

- Carlton, you said today is Tuesday, right? So then- - (interrupting)No, I never said that! I said yesterday was Monday! SMH A narcissist will "contradict" and agree with you simultaneously!

[@chef.in.the.woods7]

Someone needs to tell Carlton to stop playing the victim. He is not the first not the last black bisexual man. He acts like he has a condition the world has never heard of. My kids have shorter temper tantrums than he has.

[@beatricedevarenne2621]

He’s clearly not bi but only gay

[@chef.in.the.woods7]

@@beatricedevarenne2621 that makes sense.

[@anz10]

@@beatricedevarenne2621 stop assuming that's rude

[@AmaryllisTV]

Right? My two year old can be reasoned with in the midst of her tantrums. He's a train wreck with an undiagnosed personality disorder. Carlton's problems are his own creation.

[@gogogadgetabby]

Why does it have to be about black live matter? Diamond is also black did he forget that? What about her and her feelings? Everything is always about him.

[@Lafemmefutile]

gogogadgetabby Black lives matter is about men, they forget abt women each time.

[@nyanzarojas8776]

That’s how the “black community” is. They are quick to attack black women and are only really concerned about black men’s wellbeing. It’s always black women and white men are against them.

[@melscotto5330]

Black Lives Matter is run by gay women. I guess he doesn't know that.

[@disneytoysr4fun975]

@@nyanzarojas8776 yall must watch Chrissie and Beyond Black and White lol.

[@nyanzarojas8776]

Disney Toys R 4 Fun lol you don’t have to watch them in order to see what’s going on. Just listen to black male music, look at what’s said on social media and look at every black lives matter protest. All black male centered or hate towards black women. Shoot even our everyday interaction with black men can end up like this.

[@teniseuna]

Why is he making it an lgbt vs black community thing and not accepting accountability for his actions! Nobody gives a damn who you are attracted to, you should however accept responsibility for the way you treated diamond! He even had the nerve to say diamond said things to him.. if she had they would have showed it.. he gives me anxiety!

[@melize7035]

😂😂🤣🤣 seriously he’s the one separating the issue. I’m a lesbian and he was disrespectful and misogynistic asf and now he’s crying wolf 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@kkingmusic13]

Cos you want to beat his ass lol

[@kdeloris2225]

Did he say his family is a different type of black family? What type of black family is that?

[@aliciaa927]

I can't stand it how they are babying this Man ugh

[@bryia.mitchell8231]

He really thinks someone wants to date him after he acted like that on the show lol. His behavior outweighed his sexuality. He definitely could’ve been the very cool romantic man that happened to be bi but he went the other way and is the bi man with a piss poor attitude. He needs to change his attitude and speak on the backlash he’s getting. No one wants to receive him with his guard that high up.

[@AtMissbell1]

Preach well said! He’s using every irrelevant reason for why people are against him. Deflection at its finest

[@sasicasi04]

Oh they sure would date him. They clout

[@Msladyrae92]

It’s funny how he never claimed bi-sexual until after the show. He couldn’t even utter the words. He just proclaimed that he was intimate with men in the past. He was not open about the possibility that it was ongoing . He is exhausting.

[@beatricedevarenne2621]

Luckily he shows his true color! Someone toxic as fuck

[@anz10]

@@Msladyrae92 on the show he said he was fluid and had been with both men and women. He said he is attracted to people for who they are not their genitals.

[@alc1602]

Textbook narcissist. 🙄

[@PortraitofAsha]

Textbook!!!

[@soulsilk1127]

A bipolar narcissist 😥

[@gaaapd]

correct

[@laurenkeim5031]

Sounds a bit like the way my husband gaslights me. He is definitely a narcissist.

[@teddishaashley]

I feel like Carlton tried to make his 15 minutes of fame happen by his antics on the show & even after it's wrapped up. However, he's getting the opposite & now he's trying to play "the victim" because the public sees through him.

[@GraceReport]

YUP!!!!! It's crazy how he thinks literally everyone but him is WRONG! And even crazier to see him curse out the few supporters he DOES have!

[@brooklynforever1990]

💯 he wasn’t prepared for the backlash

[@acestarone]

He's rude too. He told that woman being on the number one show on Netflix is something that will never happen to her

[@GiGiChosen]

Teddisha Smith hes a typical stunt queen

[@ohayes1581]

Something is seriously wrong with him...he's an infant.

[@amieklein6043]

He’s actually CRAZY and is making it worse for him. No one is sorry for him

[@blackqueen5330]

I think he should seek professional help seriously. He needs to speak to a professional and learn how to convey his emotions in a positive way. It's clear he still needs to work on himself off camera.

[@GraceReport]

YES! PLEASE!!

[@Guajamlg]

Black Queen clearly he creates his own conflict and drama.

[@blackqueen5330]

@@Guajamlg That maybe true but there are some issues he needs to work on. There's a reason why he acts the way he do.

[@christinar8419]

@@blackqueen5330 he acts that way because he knows he isn't being honest with himself. He's gay.

[@blackqueen5330]

Christina Radiant that’s why I said that he needs to seek professional help in order to find himself

[@eimanali9382]

He got so disrespectful!! They spent way too much time babying him. They should’ve kicked his unprofessional, narcissistic ass out.

[@mikedanielslifestyle2470]

Eiman Ali Narcissism Isn’t even the word. He needs sometype of help and keep telling people that they will Never be on TV, he is definitely disconnected to Himself and got a lot emotional instabilities

[@katina5222]

I'm glad they did to show the world how he really is. Unedited.

[@LillianBlanche]

sayyyyyy ittttt

[@adwoamk8918]

Diamond is a gem, she seriously dodged a bullet.

[@letticecorless5520]

Adwoa Mk yes!

[@brookiey]

Yes. I want to see more interviews with her

[@StopThatSquirrel]

"Diamond is a gem" lol literally

[@synamin1]

He wants someone to co-sign how he treated diamond

[@iamjheani]

Yup. And it’s NOT gonna happen. 💯

[@wesleytait7982]

@@iamjheani 👊🏾

[@red11232003]

We should not give him any energy whatsoever. Hurt people, hurt people. He is not ready to progress forward. You can't control what people say or do. You can only control yourself.

[@PrincessZahraaa]

He is childish, toxic and rude.

[@luvingg]

Shemea is so kind and patient. She is literally begging him to speak.

[@Jackie-md8zs]

Her face is so irritated by him looool

[@jesswilliams1981]

She’s better than me cause I would have blown tf up

[@twinmomma1631]

She tried everything she could think of to make him feel better & he did not appreciate her for it at all! I would like to think that he would watch this video in the next few days & feel like the a** he proved himself to be. This won't happen for him though...it is apparent this "man" has no self reflection skills! He needs a therapist, a life coach & one huge mirror for him to figure some things out in front of.

[@princesslamour1985]

Yea. She trying so damn hard. I woulda been out

[@ijugreen]

She’s talking over him and the producer as well

[@colleen1219]

How exhausting! He seems to be a victim in every community. I love how he’s asking for his own dating show. As if they are more than able to set that up in 2.5 seconds. Honestly it sounds like he’s having a manic episode. You can’t reason with somebody in that kind of state.

[@GraceReport]

Colleen can you believe this went on for over an hour???? I couldn't stomach watching any more of him so I stopped screen recording half way through! He is so toxic you feel your energy being drained by the minute!

[@buffytheinternetbullyslayer]

Colleen I used to say “who would want to play victim” and then I heard Carlton 🤦🏾‍♀️ he made himself look so bad and according to him that’s EVERYONES FAULT but his... I feel bad for whatever man or woman that ends up with him! He’s exhausting. I’m soo over hearing his “pity me, angry and aggressive “ BS

[@colleen1219]

life Imagine the lifetime of that. I couldn’t. even make it through the whole video apologies to Grace.

[@Isaidit129]

Grace Report yes my energy was really being affected! I felt my anxiety rising and rising, how could he say the things he was saying about the black community, and I know damn well his family didn’t condone his attitude or how he acted on the show. I would like to see a interview with his parents.

[@teaksafiya]

Uhhh 🙄 Carlton is exhausting, I would have cancelled this interview. He’s ridiculous

[@gardengirl21]

As Rupaul says, “If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are u gonna love anybody else” He needs to take a step back & do some serious therapy.

[@chloenotkhloe]

He is a prime example of why some people are so guarded while dating! He's delusional and this has nothing to do with his sexuality and everything to do with being dishonest! He doesn't listen!!!!

[@teniseuna]

Chloe Williams he is gives me so much anxiety..

[@goldenglowable]

Chloe Williams yup, exactly why ppl have to put their guard up. Guys like him will have you questioning yourself when you haven’t even done anything.

[@luvingg]

Carlton is ridiculous! He wants to blame everyone but himself. Hello -- Self accountability! He choose to participate on the show and to be extremely rude. There are consequences for everything that is done.

[@Stamara2011]

He essentially treated those radio hosts the same way he treated Diamond so he can't blame the editing . This guy is just looking for a reason to hate black people. There is no winning or any solution with him

[@WhitneyPrather]

Man, Carlton has so much self hatred. That's his number one issue. He says he loved Diamond, but he was negative from the jump. Every other couple was in bliss when they got to the resort. He knew he had a hard conversation coming up and he self sabotaged. Diamond was willing, and he literally self destructed. Pray for this man. He can’t see himself.

[@misa6608]

I am apart of the black LGBT community and I side with Diamond. Carton has some issues he needs to work on. He is insecure

[@Elizabeth-uu5tv]

Wow. This was exhausting. He is unedited in this interview and he is coming off worse than on the edited show.

[@AyelMathias]

He definitely wanted to control the narrative with the callers and how come in the reunion previews he was very apologetic to Diamond and even claimed to ask her out a few times again but now he's back to bashing her. He's very disingenuous and is hiding behind his sexuality to deflect from the fact that he's just not a nice man.

[@lovelive2216]

It just seems to me he has an issue with himself. People are telling him they support him and he still has an issue. If he doesn’t want to hear negative then why is his putting himself on tv??!?!?

[@Lalacandoitall357]

On National Televosion for that matter. He clearly needs therapy or something because he hasn't come to terms with who he is He's the one that's battling this issue the most with himself and no one else.because if you were really secure in himself although people may put out negative comments he wouldn't take it till personally from people he does not personally know. He says no one really understands his struggle and what he's going through as a bisexual man but then he's not trying to hear anybody out he's not trying to receive any understanding he's just being defensive and hurt.if he's so insecure I don't understand why he would broadcast his whole life story on national television it's just doesn't add up.

[@lovelive2216]

Halima Ellams Exactly! You are so right. It just doesn’t make sense. He is playing victim because he doesn’t want to take responsibility for how negative he is being.

[@angelsilver.]

He's acting like he was born on television. Miss me with it.

[@OceanisInfinite]

Why does she feel the need to coddle him? He is literally having a temper tantrum. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@sm.r3751]

LaToya Forbins I feel like they aren’t trying to diffuse what’s going on he is just a ticking time bomb

[@mommabanchero8851]

They are enabling his childish behavior. He's grown and acting like a child, he cannot figure out if he's mad, sad or glad. Exhausting.

[@jy3781]

My God , he insulted diamond on a national TV . He hurts her with his shady comment about her wig . That hurt me and I don’t wear wigs . I can’t even imagine how she felt . No man will drag a woman to that level . Diamond is a sweet , beautiful and classy . She deserves better . He needs help to accept himself and accept his sexuality .

[@RNM-bu4rj]

J Y He is the king of gaslighting.

[@lenaprice6239]

I agree, there was just something so hateful about what he did. Diamond felt really good going to Mexico and thought that he was genuine, and it turns out that he was really just playing her all along. It became even worse when he blatantly disrespected her and treated her like trash. You can tell that she was so hurt by his actions.

[@sarcasticmomma3]

From the moment he “thought” he was in love in Diamond he should have told her the truth about his sexual orientation. Everything that happened from that decision is his responsibility. But instead he wants to be applauded for saying it WELL after the fact. No one is going to applaud your dishonesty or rudeness. He’s not bipolar; he’s a narcissist. Shamea was entirely too nice to him. Until he admits the truth to hisself he will always be on the defense. I don’t even know why people keep trying.

[@thepeacefulone4166]

I don’t think there’s anyone less self aware than this man. Like on God’s green earth

[@teniseuna]

He is so pathetic!!

[@suras8984]

I couldnt agree more.

[@kingchubs]

Alexandra Ndawonde nah there’s mark

[@thepeacefulone4166]

Anthony Lol okay, I’m listening ... ?

[@Msladyrae92]

I agree. Never in real life or on tv. And I’m not here for it. It’s very mentally draining .

[@tonyaanderson190]

Oh my God he is so draining. He has self hate against himself and seriously needs counseling in order to love and feel whole with himself. I pray he gets help and surrounds himself with people who truly love him

[@bei.8608]

He’s such a bitter human with nothing in his head

[@mrs.kimberley.taylor]

He is insane he so defensive and refuses to take accountability for his role on the demise of his relationship

[@GraceReport]

There's no winning with this guy!!

[@Bae_mackx]

He’s so argumentative. I know someone like him and let’s just say it’s exhausting and I don’t enjoy being in communication with them.

[@twinmomma1631]

Yesss! The entire conversation on the show just made me shake my head! He was looking for a fight & COULD NOT WAIT to slip into that victim role. He is supposed to be a grown man but grown men communicate, they bend in their views when wrong & they definitely do not throw away a meaningful relationship because of a heated misunderstanding. He is a child & will be single forever if he continues to act like that! No one needs that negative toxicity in their lives - no one!

[@Msladyrae92]

I think he lacks self awareness because he probably surrounds himself with “ yes” men. Friends that don’t give you the truth just tell you what you want to hear. His parents are probably his biggest enablers .

[@JustCallMeWah]

ugh. he gets on my nerves

[@ivys5057]

The black community doesn’t side with her; the common sense community sides with her. This chick is a flaming homosexual & he needs to embrace it. How do you simultaneously play the victim AND insult/“read” everybody??

[@sajehsingh2534]

Perfectly said.

[@rubyorchid2639]

He is a fraud and I'd sue netflix for setting me up with him

[@sandrayessica9568]

Ruby orchid fr they messed up her chance by letting him disclose that info before a proposal

[@rubyorchid2639]

@@sandrayessica9568 netflix should have never casted him in the first place.. Why do Netflix think they have women out there who would be okay with a man whose secret is that he likes dikc too...I never met one yet

[@beatricedevarenne2621]

Ruby orchid specially amber

[@ifyouweremeforreal]

This man is actually out of his mind. SO DELUSIONAL!!! HES A BAF PERSON, NOTHING TO DO HIS SEXUALITY OR THE BLACK COMMUNITY OR THE GAY COMMUNITY. HES NEEDS HELP!!

[@BriannaWeldon]

This is exactly how the convo went with Diamond. He wants to be the victim.

[@kristabenette8026]

Give this baby a bottle. Just pathetic.🤱🏾

[@denisebellanich7938]

He's very emotionally immature. He's talking over people and being combative and reactive. I would bet money people are very open to him initially and it turn sour very quickly with this attitude. And all that feeds into his victim mentality. Diamond dodged a bullet with this one. I suspect his relationships turn emotionally abusive very quickly.

[@myvalentine9590]

So now he’s a victim. The man is more emotional than the average 16year old GIRL.. OMG

[@Julie.Canada]

Uhm no need to need to insult girls. The average 16 year old female is NOT a narcissist.

[@prairieflower7967]

Men and women are both emotional that’s what makes us human.

[@christinar8419]

He's not even bi. He's straight up gay. Bye Carlton!

[@country1717]

yep!!!!!

[@nofearonlylove21]

This is so frustrating for the bi community. He is bi. He is obviously in defense mode because people like you guys who automatically reject the bi community. He is out of his mind with all this defensive shit but these comments dont help that.

[@ness0388]

Horus the only reason I would say he might be gay is because he came into the show saying he was CHOOSING to have a wife. It just seemed like he was forcing it. He seems like he wants to choose against that part of himself and wants to deny it. Makes it seem highlighted likes he’s forcing himself to like women and choose a wife. I don’t know him for real, so idk his sexuality. But I think people are reacting to that.

[@christinar8419]

@@nofearonlylove21 did you see him on real housewives of Atlanta? A bi person does not flip their entire persona to attract men or women. They are who they are regardless. Carlton was very effeminate. Now he's completely different saying he likes both. Something is very wrong here.

[@christinar8419]

@@ness0388 I'm reacting to him being around ATL as a best friend to the housewives. He was even on the show. Go watch his real housewives of Atlanta clips. Carlton is gay. He is not bi.

[@jamiegeek4203]

He’s so annoying. No wonder he’s lonely! Cry cry wahhh wahhh everyone is against me.

[@pt3033]

I feel bad for the hosts. Carlton was acting like a child, being disrespectful and trying to act like a victim. He wasted Diamond's time and these radio hosts' time. He's a narcissistic manipulator. These hosts were way behind nice and patient. He needs to get help.

[@StopPlayingAtLife]

I know he did not call the black community dusty....giving me more of a reason to not like him. Someone correct me if I’m wrong.

[@janayxx4057]

Worse thing is he does not know all black communities, black people are world wide it was a broad and unjust comment to make he does not want to be judged but is non stop judging all black people

[@LatriceDiane]

Melissa L. Holmes I thought he was wrong for how he handled the situation on the show, I thought he was wrong for not taking full accountability for calling diamond out of her name, but mostly I think he was wrong for his comments on “the black community”. I mean that’s cool. Just stay on over where you were then bro.

[@tamikkajohnson1589]

He did. He makes EVERY ONE his enemy.

[@tratrazy1633]

He would NEVER TALK to them like this on ENTERTAINMENT TONIGHT. He's wack and very problematic.

[@SAlina-se9xq]

Exactly!!

[@HoneyBeeLuv22]

I would’ve paid him to leave the interview. He is a Queen in need of help.

[@ladyyoyo7297]

Nique Nique I was thinking the exact same thing...show him the 🚪😤😤😤😤

[@paulziiee]

Not everyone is a king or queen, some people like Carlton are jesters

[@lovelyladycarter3687]

Nique Nique yes💯🙌🏾🤷🏽‍♀️

[@lovelyladycarter3687]

mckealla Atkinson facts💯💯

[@shanittathompson2039]

That cry baby is a CLOWN!!!

[@Pooh1608]

He could've had multiple people call in praising him and he still would've complained 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️. I dated a narcissist before and OMG the signs are bold asf.

[@JourneytoJazmine]

Carlton has such a chip on his shoulder and a HUGE sense of entitlement. It’s time to do some deep soul work and healing. Sending you love brother from a fellow pk🥰

[@kris_really2538]

He makes it so hard to either understand/entertain his perspective

[@GraceReport]

RIGHT???? The guy is IMPOSSIBLE! Shamea & her co-hosts tried EVERYTHING to placate him but he kepts attacking them as well!

[@kris_really2538]

Grace Report it was too much! I was wanting for Shamea or her co-hosts be like “bye”. He is such a baby and takes no accountability for his actions.

[@anz10]

The funny thing is I agree with a lot of what he has to say but he doesnt know HOW to express himself at all as he is super super defensive and hostile ... he is doing himself a disservice. He doesn't feel like he has to explain himself but to change peoples minds he needs to be patient. We dont know what diamond said to him in the extended conversation like he says. He didnt have to tell her straight away he was fluid or bi as he can be monogamous and falls in love with one person at a time etc. and also rejection can be harsh so he doesn't have to expose himself to that straight away. He is also right that many people have been very harsh on him but he is making it way worse by acting like he is here.

[@sheritownsend7525]

He's too thin skinned and insecure to have a positive conversation with the public. Why did he decide to do the show if he doesn't trust the "black" public"?

[@anz10]

He doesnt have to trust anyone right off the bat but to be understood he needs to be patient and less defensive. Thin skinned is def the word for it. If you're not open to dialogue than how will people understand you? It may be exhausting to have the same conversation over and over but you have to come across as patient if you want others to be more open.

[@213moviewatcher]

he keeps saying “black community doesn’t talk about this/that” she kept telling him he can talk about it on the show and he’s like “never mind” or dismissing the whole community. he’s not even trying and that is one of the most frustrating thing about that live.

[@GiGiChosen]

Ash B. Victim mentality. He wants “support” when he went on TV And disrespected a BLACK woman. Where’s his so called cousin Malaysia.

[@GraceReport]

Ash B. RIGHT?!?!?! And since when are black people a monolith anyway???!?

[@Cattitude369]

I'm so tired of hearing what the black community isn't talking about. Total BS!!! If anything we talk too much and always want to coddle/make excuses for toxicity.

[@ScaryTaco]

HOLY HELL he reminds me of my ex husband SOOOO much! He’s gaslighting hard as heck! He’s awful! He needs therapy.

[@summerrain6125]

Not to be funny but how were u able to fall in love with him?

[@Courie11e]

I'm so sorry hun.

[@Daisieseverywhere]

Carlton doesnt know how to treat women, he is so rude. I've had toxic boyfriends that play the victim, and nope. He thinks being rude is cool. He a drama queen

[@cuddlezsilrz]

Jeez he is such a baby.. it's so stupid that she had to put that much work in to get a interview from this guy.. I wud have just let him go.. hes just embarrassed and want to justify his actions so hes deflecting

[@suras8984]

Im emotionally exhausted on her behalf.

[@toksosayameh4682]

I am exhausted from watching this guy, he keeps on acting like a 5 year old, and I mean no disrespect to 5 year olds, because they much smarter than this guy!!

[@suras8984]

@@toksosayameh4682 Its very frustrating because he refuses to admit his role in everything and wants to think the backlash is because of the ignorance of black people and everyone. Now this guy is suicidal. Now people are going to blame everyone who had a negative opinion on the man for the reason he is suicidal. I don't know how to rectify that in my brain. Because he did this to himself and on top of everything he was the emotional abuser of the situation but he wants a pass because of his sexuality? And if he does commit suicide everyone will blame the cancel culture. I feel bad for him that he wants to end his life but I also dont feel the same level of sympathy for a real victim who is suicidal.

[@velvet123]

So unprofessional

[@acestarone]

She should have..he things he is bigger than what he is. He thinks he is a huge public figure. He claims who would not deal with this at people magazine or entertainment tonight. He doesn't care for black media and he is a snob

[@elaeda2225]

He seems to be hyper focused on race and sexuality

[@09kenedy]

elaeda those were the talking points they gave him... sad

[@redvelvetcakeYUM]

When you based your whole identity on labels, you become jaded, to the world and can become accustomed to looking for victim hood. Aka professional victimhood! He has no capability to have accountability.

[@angelbeautpre]

Those are easier to focus on than his own faults

[@missbee8688]

He wants people to understand him and feel for him,, but he's so disrespectful... OMG,, he should seek therapy

[@kerendawson7778]

When she says, "You're in a tough position." And he says, "Treat me like it." He is literally demanding sympathy. What a narcissist.

[@ilikepiratesroar]

The internalized homophobia that cause him to treat diamond so disgustingly... And now he's just flipping the script and is a victim to the homophobia of the black community. What a lack of self awareness. He's like a bull in a china shop- he needs to remove himself from the media and stop the damage he's doing to his image.

[@asantibrown3128]

Hes disrespectful, he cant take being called out, condescending, negative and damn good at playing victim.

[@bryia.mitchell8231]

I really think carlton expected to be received as some kind of brave man standing in his truth with a little sass but instead hes being looked as this mad gay man.

[@janella7203]

Bryia .Mitchell he MIGHT have gotten away with it if he hadn’t started calling Diamond names and talking about her hair etc. At that point any inkling of sympathy that anyone had for him went out the window

[@bryia.mitchell8231]

Janella Proctor right because diamond wasn’t even being rude about it. I understand it’s his sexuality and it will impact him more than anyone else but he needs to let his partner adjust to it as well. He’s always in attack mode.

[@eddiemac6648]

Bryia .Mitchell he should have been honest from the jump and he wouldn’t have had any of these problems. People are not upset that he’s bisexual they are upset because he kept it from her and disrespected her at the pool and now trying to bash the black community !! Total asshole!!

[@vickivalgal657]

Mad BLACK gay male

[@HeyTash]

Bryia .Mitchell he can sit right on over there w the gay Tupac 🙄

[@brittanyanne4754]

Did he just say that diamond is still in love with him???? Please correct me if I'm wrong but what on earth gave him that idea ?😑😶

[@TheofficialTrina]

Carlton you can’t be perceived as good if you’re just not a good person!!!!

[@rammsterdamm020]

When you meet a person who tells you he or she has been in relationships with men and women, it's not about that. It's about if he or she will be true to you, monogamous and honest. And him talking about suicide when he's met with criticism, that's a bit steep ? When your plan didn't pan out like you think it would ? He was just being plain misogynist and down right nasty to Diamond. And you can be lesbian,, homosexual, bisexual, pansexual, transsexual ……. when you're a jerk, you're a jerk.

[@sexyblackcharlery]

Preach

[@tourissajoseph1378]

He is soo extra.. literally soo negative but wants sympathy

[@fquint6468]

Carlton is so chaotic, I really can’t stand him. He’s got a lot of issues and is extremely disrespectful. That host is sooo kind, and patient. I would’ve told him he can go home if he wants to have an attitude.

[@dgarcia061811]

He wants everyone to be nice to him and he can disagree and give his “opinion”? So it’s a one sided conversation... that’s a lost, insecure and angry individual.... ✌🏽

[@melaninkiss]

He needs to take responsibility for his actions! He knew exactly what he was doing! He went on that show for fame like that caller said. Wasn't nothing ignorant that the caller said. He really need to stop playing a victim and seek help because something ain't right with him he blaming everyone else but him!