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The narcissist is incapable of attachment, bonding, and positive emotionality
He is possessive of his women only in two situations:
GRANDIOSITY/UNIQUENESS
1. When he is acquiring a woman and she chooses another man over him for sex only or for more, thus disrupting the process of co-idealization;
UTILITARIAN/INSTRUMENTAL/TRANSACTIONAL
2. When in a shared fantasy and he risks losing the 3 Ss that she provides him with (sex, services, narcissistic or sadistic supply).
Similarly, he is interested in sex only in two situations:
GRANDIOSITY/UNIQUENESS
1. As a somatic "player" in short term conquests (but not in casual sex with promiscuous non-discriminating women and not with the conquered women);
UTILITARIAN/TRANSACTIONAL/INSTRUMENTAL
2. As a cerebral in the lovebombing phase which precedes the shared fantasy (but not later).
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