My Mom and Dad must have been real rebels. My Mom, a full blooded Italian, and my Dad, who was black, white, and Indian, ( More rebel ancestors), got married 58 years ago, and had 4 mixed kids. Growing up in a 99% white city wasn’t too bad. I think because everyone knew us since we were born, and saw us grow up. I only had a few nasty things said to me. I just figured they were so filled with hate, that they were the ones with issues, not me.
@margo33673 жыл бұрын
That's the correct way to think about that! You'll be just fine if you keep that attitude throughout your life, wherever you may go.
@lizgreenspan48833 жыл бұрын
I am totally with you on this💛💜
@onemorepinacolada53563 жыл бұрын
@Aj Soprano kzbin.info/www/bejne/rZCznZ9tfKmJnas
@michellecena81593 жыл бұрын
@Veronica Foster You figured correctly, Veronica.
@mariadegan10293 жыл бұрын
Good for you👍👍👍
@Fiawordweaver3 жыл бұрын
My black in-law family show me true love. If I didn’t have them in my life I would never known what unconditional love is. I’m the only female in a family of five brothers. Mother, Sicilian and narcissistic -Father a racist Swede even hated the Italians. Also considered my mother’s family stupid. He was a Swedish covenant minister’s son. He passed his racist values down to four of his biological sons. Oldest brother, son of a Sicilian father. He and I were the oddballs. Me being female and my oldest brother full Sicilian. My mother didn’t like females. There are abusive stories that I don’t need to share that traumatized me. My husband’s family embraced me from day 1 and I finally felt loved and worthy of love. We’ve been together 16 years. Ours is an older marriage finding each other in our late 40’s. He and his family are love.
@henowillson9343 жыл бұрын
Black people tend to be more loving and forgiving. Happy that you have love.
@Fiawordweaver3 жыл бұрын
@@henowillson934 Thank you for saying that. I am so very blessed!
@TheEnigmaticBM393 жыл бұрын
@Meka Ma'at and the daughters of the trade..read up on that
@notmebutyou83503 жыл бұрын
@@henowillson934 Yep, which is why they sometimes get treated so poorly - it is believed (and expected) that no matter what is done to them, they should "turn the other cheek." As far as I'm concerned, there is only so much "cheek turning" a person should do (IMO).
@ijumaainjabulo59832 жыл бұрын
@@henowillson934 Unfortunately this why racist take advantage of Black people. Black endure so much they don’t like seeing others suffer.
@KAlovesherkitties3 жыл бұрын
Love is love. My husband is white, I'm black and I couldn't have married a greater guy. He makes me laugh, smile and brightens up my day. I couldn't imagine someone not wanting people to have that. I know those people exist but it's still mind boggling.
@bigniks233 жыл бұрын
As a black man I love hearing that you found somebody who made you happy. As long as people don't fetishize a race even though it's not my cup of tea I frankly don't care. People put too much energy into a small minority that dates out.
@kem12333 жыл бұрын
Lets be honest, when it comes to interacial dating. Its mainly between black and white people. They have most insecure and racial tension.
@cainesaintclair10453 жыл бұрын
@@klnj9714 What I really hate is when someone finds out my wife is white they assume I'm not attracted or have never been with black women. And they often assume that somehow it makes me less of a black man.
@cheriemarr33823 жыл бұрын
I don’t know why anyone cares what someone else is doing. Worry about your own life and your own choices. That’s the problem with some people....just because they have certain views they expect everyone to share the same views. So happy you found your forever love.
@GDavis-uy1gg3 жыл бұрын
@Kristina Anderson : So you're saying the grass is greener sister , right ? GD
@ivywestmoreland93102 жыл бұрын
I was married interracially for 43 years. I lost my husband last year to COVID. We had a son and a daughter and they were raised to be proud of their multicultural background
@nca47942 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss. 43 years is a long time, but also doesn't seem quite long enough. ❤️
@kemeyartusniki8422 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss. I also have multiracial children and come from a mix raced family .
@aaronjones32842 жыл бұрын
In all fairness, until the Lord's second coming our world is going to continue to be prejudice.
@jamaldavis77952 жыл бұрын
@@aaronjones3284 it's so refreshing that you wrote that text, God bless you sir...
@Life-er6mq2 жыл бұрын
So so so sorry for your loss 🖤
@cardion4113 жыл бұрын
Just imagine being so pressed about who someone else is married to that has absolutely nothing to do with you. Humans are strange creatures.
@cardion4113 жыл бұрын
@Jdjd Ndj I didn't! His fascination with who Black people marry is STRANGE!!
@mensspace95193 жыл бұрын
Ask white people about that, once you have answers, you let me know.
@mensspace95193 жыл бұрын
@Jdjd Ndj from 0-9 seconds of the video, and if you know at least a bit of the history of this country, you should understand. If you don't get it, sorry but I can't help you. 🤷
@crabsaresilly83172 жыл бұрын
It’s natural to be against anything that’s a natural get that in your head
@cardion4112 жыл бұрын
@@crabsaresilly8317 How about write your sentence better so it will actually flow and make logical sense. And while you are at it, probably throw a period in there. That way, the reader knows you have finished one point and are on to the next one. Anyway, take care! LOL
@TheAlfredPlatform3 жыл бұрын
So many beautiful couples featured!! I am African American and my husband is Latino. There are definitely challenges with an interracial marriage but the love is always strong ❤️❤️
@SandyWolf-2 жыл бұрын
I'm white and married a Cuban man I got plenty of slack, but nothing worse than seeing you children teased because the color of their skin😪
@marysmith37632 жыл бұрын
Being Latino he is still in the Blk population.
@marysmith37632 жыл бұрын
Irish is also in the Blk. Family
@marysmith37632 жыл бұрын
All of this is going against God's intent for man. You are whatever your mother is. Man will tell you otherwise because they don't want anything of color in their race. You can no way be out side of who gives birth to you. This is why nothing shouldn't be treated bad because of skin color because their are Caucasians in brown skin as well Brown people in white skin. Treat people the way you want to be treated.
@mariarod69982 жыл бұрын
Latinos are not white
@squirrelnibbler192 жыл бұрын
Living in the Bay Area, mixed marriages are so common, our kids and their friends are seen as normal, even the majority. It’s a wonderful way to raise mixed race children who feel completely at home. I wish this for all the other mixed families out there. However, when traveling in India, people assumed my husband was my tour guide!
@jennifercampbell-klomps55492 жыл бұрын
My husband and I arrived at Mumbai Airport (a couple of years ago) and I was stopped 3 times whilst walking through the Airport by different officials; the third time resulted in being escorted to a room and the door was locked so that they could search the contents of my handbag whilst my husband waited outside. My husband is white and I am black - no need to guess why they kept zooming into me! 🖤
@msreen2692 жыл бұрын
@@Andrew-om1pw My mother is white and there are 8 of us with skin tones ranging from light/yellow to dark drown and never once was she been accosted by anyone questioning her relationship to us. Strange how that works in this country.
@msreen2692 жыл бұрын
@@jennifercampbell-klomps5549 My brother and I went through that in an airport in Moscow back in the last 80s. We went to visit our Grandparents for the first time in their country. You should have seen the mean stares and heard the whispers, even pointing like we were aliens. I went back a couple of years ago and it’s not so bad since the Soviet collapse.
@msreen2692 жыл бұрын
@@Andrew-om1pw here in the “good ole” USA. I say “strange how that works” because in a racist person’s eyes, anyone of a darker race shouldn’t be allowed to have children who are white in complexion. They will harass and question a parent or caregiver of those babies as if they are committing some sort of offense, yet the same wouldn’t apply in reverse. They claim it’s for the “safety” of the children, yet they don’t have that same reaction when a white person is out with darker complexion children.
@jennifercampbell-klomps55492 жыл бұрын
@@msreen269 sounds really hopeful - even though there’s no way I’d go there whilst Putin is in power.
@nedyah1513 жыл бұрын
My wife is Mexican and I am white. Her family was extremely racist to me. It comes from all sides, not just one group.
@nedyah1513 жыл бұрын
@Zhara Moreira what’s funny is her grandma is super racist while her grandpa isn’t, his favorite saying is that “Mexicans are all colors, white Mexicans, brown mexicans, black mexicans” so I think it’s just life experience. Doesn’t bother me much as I grew up white in a totally Mexican area. Water off my back ! 🦆
@antnam44063 жыл бұрын
Nah! you guys master it the most.
@jaylenadegoke3 жыл бұрын
it’s not racist, it’s just their beliefs. respect them!
@LOL-cv9it3 жыл бұрын
@@nedyah151 Don’t worry bro
@ernst913 жыл бұрын
And whites are extremely racist to Latinos.
@stevenphelps56262 жыл бұрын
That's so heartbreaking to watch, but I'm glad, that these two beautiful couple are strong enough to face anything. Much respect to them.
@gregoryfujita82652 жыл бұрын
My parents had received soo much grief when they were to be married in 1963...my mother is Mexican from East LA..my father is Japanese from Hawaii....they met in Los Angeles...married for 35 years....both sides of the family got along very well....
@megshimatsu86152 жыл бұрын
My friend Jose who is Mexican, married a Black woman in the early 60's. His family and friends told him he was crazy. They had a son. Their relationship didn't last, but Jose was close to his son. They both experienced racism due to their mixed relationship. I asked Jose once why he married Dorothy, and he simply said, "Why not!"
@BETTERWORLDSGT3 жыл бұрын
Everyone should Marry whoever they want, People need to get over their stupidity, but of course they won't.
@eargasm10723 жыл бұрын
Most people in America, regardless their color or ethnicity, still have antiquated mindsets and attitudes....they care more about what strangers and those who subscribe to the close-minded majority of society "thinks" about anything they do, more than how they themselves "feel" about it. When we live amongst the most self-centered, self-absorbed ignorant individuals imaginable. I am more attracted to women of color as a white hispanic man, but it's always been a struggle or just a plain losing battle. Most black American women are never comfortable being with a man of another race, or their own skin
@lostintime86513 жыл бұрын
People do marry whoever they want. Nothing's holding them back from doing that. This is all fictional. Something that the media loves to propagate this non-issue.
@williamsebastian84153 жыл бұрын
I'm white, I was maybe 9 years old, had a friend over who was black, my father came in and said get that ***** kid out of my house. As a nine year old, I knew that was wrong. No body told me, no body guided me. In my heart I knew then as I know now, it's not right to judge by color. I'm not a God fearing man but I'm thinking that if two people find happiness with one another, regardless of their color, sex or where they may have been born, I think God would be ok with it.
@soniahemmati23723 жыл бұрын
The way you said it's not right to judge other by their color it's as if there's something wrong with the look of black or brown people but it just should matter!!
@williamsebastian84153 жыл бұрын
@@soniahemmati2372 I look at people as people. So many other people want to judge by someone's race or color. If I offended you in any way, that was not my intentions.
@williamsebastian84153 жыл бұрын
@@soniahemmati2372 Some one way better looking than me said "When white people stop calling black people , black people and black people stop calling white people, white people and call each other people, the world will be a better place " I'd have to agree
@soniahemmati23723 жыл бұрын
@@williamsebastian8415 Sorry if I said anything not polite. I didn't mean anything bad.
@dgirl18643 жыл бұрын
You think?
@6ftbeauty3783 жыл бұрын
I love seeing people genuinely happy! No matter the race we all deserve someone who loves us unconditionally ❤️🤞🏾
@maxxypad80973 жыл бұрын
🤮🤮
@maxxypad80973 жыл бұрын
Damm your so confused
@jeffstewart74392 жыл бұрын
@@maxxypad8097 I know right! Who wants to see people marrying alligators, and horses! Freaking race traitors! Stick to your own kind! #MARRY_HUMANS
@xralchemist2 жыл бұрын
@@maxxypad8097 black culture is best for everyone
@xralchemist2 жыл бұрын
@@maxxypad8097 We need to change from whyte culture
@juliegilleland79473 жыл бұрын
Such an important piece. 54 years later, the work is not done. 👏🏻✊🏻
@Juliaflo3 жыл бұрын
No...it is just beginning. May God go with you.
@armandodelafonte56303 жыл бұрын
Work is not done because, AMÉRICA IS VERY RACIST
@AllWillBeRevealed9573 жыл бұрын
You will never ever ever get rid of racism. Tribalism runs within the blood of the whole human race.
@nicoleelder41343 жыл бұрын
And never will be!
@armandodelafonte56303 жыл бұрын
@@AllWillBeRevealed957 I can not agree with you on that, because when other people went to others Island they was welcomeing not in the states, when white tell others to get out of there Country
@j.h.60813 жыл бұрын
One in ten Americans disapproving probably isn't honest. As someone who's mostly dated interracially, I think it's higher than that.
@amandayee9063 жыл бұрын
same hear i dated to men out of my race one peruvian and one white and my parents were cool with it they didn’t care and im not even proud of where i came from either i wish i was white
@spiderguy40553 жыл бұрын
Mostly white dudes don’t have to worry about dating outside their race compared to blacks. Their more respected and looked as a strong provider with integrity. Black dude on average needs to be a damn surgeon to be compared with a normal white dude as far as dating interracially🤣
@kameron8523 жыл бұрын
Yea it's probably higher and there's nothing wrong with that it's called self preservation. If you love yourself you want your offspring to resemble you. Even bacteria is attracted to similar bacteria.
@spiderguy40553 жыл бұрын
@@kameron852 facts you’re right. I just hate how so many people think we live in a fairytale world where color doesn’t matter when picking mates. Mostly white dudes/girls don’t needa question what they’ll bring to the table as far as providing and being looked at as respectful. I’d rather stick to my own who actually appreciates me
@allybrosia37253 жыл бұрын
Way higher.
@HeritageHighlandAcres3 жыл бұрын
Being in an interracial marriage and the mom of 5 interracial children I can sadly say that racism is still so prevalent and it does make it so hard as a family at times. But at the same time it brings us together as a family as well because we have to protect one another and be strong.
@yoeljose10223 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right in my case, my father is African American and my mother is of Spanish Italian descent and my grandparents love each other and adore each other and teach us values without denigrating anyone, we are all human, I will know who it was who invented that of race by color or facial features The world needs good mothers, good fathers, good children, above all, who respect the other for being or thinking differently without hurting anyone
@maxxypad80973 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@maxxypad80973 жыл бұрын
This so why Asian countries are homogenic
@marilynwillett8042 жыл бұрын
Life shouldn't be about about protection and strength, we are not LIONS in the wild. That theory will age you quickly and zap your energy. IT IS OK to want a little girl with blonde straight hair, pink complexion and blue eyes. The battle is yours alone, not your husband's. Marriage is hard enough without that dynamic.
@marilynwillett8042 жыл бұрын
YOU EXPECT EVERYONE TO BE OPEN MINDED so I am telling you to be just as open minded and not only accept your views.
@Emy532 жыл бұрын
In today's time, I didn't think this was still such a big deal. It seems as long as you have the same skin color it doesn't seem to matter, but if one is black, they notice. Love always wins, and I am so happy for this beautiful man and beautiful woman. May they always be blessed in health, love and abundance.
@DePoire5 ай бұрын
You are saying that this whole program of immigration and assimilation and chasing down every white on earth who wants to live in a white community is just for True Love? If a person cannot find a single mate among the billion members of his own race, he doesn’t need integration, he needs therapy.
@PM2024-3 жыл бұрын
As an American living in Asia, I can tell you that America’s diversity is its strength 👏 we have a come a LONG way (yes, we’ve got a LONG way to go too) 👏
@KAlovesherkitties3 жыл бұрын
Having lived in Asia as well for a while, completely agree!
@cydonianmomentum32683 жыл бұрын
The right to marry whomever you choose, no matter the race, is a right that should be preserved no matter what. Loving V. Virginia is a landmark case that protects and allows for people to act on this right to the fullest. The federal government, state governments, local bureaucrats, or any power centers should never dictate how people choose to love, because that’s an unnatural barrier that goes against the the most natural part of a human, which is the heart. Ultimately, love is something that transcends beyond racial lines, and hinges upon the character of each partner. If your partners have amazing qualities and traits, race is utterly irrelevant.
@tichtran87922 жыл бұрын
Well guess what?! Now that abortion is a state issue with the same logic interracial marriage could go back to the state like. Clarence Thomas want to revisit the cases concerning birth control, homosexual marriage, and etc. But Clarence Thomas didn't bring up interracial marriage because he would be a HYPOCRITE.
@spike222711 ай бұрын
Race Mixing is Unnatural yet you are talking as if preventing it is an unnatural barrier which is crazy because it isn't natural in the first place.
@brotherchristopherc.johnso54802 жыл бұрын
My wife and I have been married for 12 years, she's black and I'm white. When our oldest child was about 6 months old (late summer) he had gotten really dark, I had the police call on me at a local grocery store (in a predominantly "white" area), the lady told dispatch "possible kidnapping of a tar-baby" Of course the police came and thank God one of the officers knew my wife and I.
@shimmer4771 Жыл бұрын
So sad. Glad it worked out!
@edwingooden25432 жыл бұрын
I'm a black man who has a white friend married to a black woman..I'm proud of them..love has no color...Crayola does..what would a box of crayons be if there was only one color..We need to mix it up..variety is the spice of life..human is human..
@amyreynolds36192 жыл бұрын
Dang. That crayon analogy is great. The world is a rainbow.
@rachelsravels40993 жыл бұрын
Since we're dumping antiquated terminology, I wish we'd stop referring to these types of relationships as interracial. We're all the same race; human.
@brooklynbred14603 жыл бұрын
You might want to tell white people that
@copperhousefarm47943 жыл бұрын
Your right. God only made one race. The human race!
@ebybeehoney3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! I say that too!
@mr.reconstruction35933 жыл бұрын
I am happily not a 0RGEN!
@kbram73633 жыл бұрын
@@brooklynbred1460 lol. Black people as well.
@pamelamays41863 жыл бұрын
My Mom didn't exactly believe in interracial marriage, but, she accepted the spouses of myself and my siblings as part of our family.
@MrDMC118893 жыл бұрын
@NICK GEHRZ Exactly , sometimes people just learn to live with things. That doesn't mean they've changed.
@brihow243 жыл бұрын
Lovely segment and so important.
@suzannem6513 жыл бұрын
I'm American and my husband is North African (Egyptian). We will be moving to the US soon (1st time for him living there). I admittedly have some anxiety about racism rearing its ugly head. However in the end, our LOVE for each other is stronger than any hate we may face.
@amjadali67352 жыл бұрын
you and your husband need to stay away from the white society as much as possible.
@ecoasis12 жыл бұрын
please allow the anxiety be on the individual/s with 'the problem'. Your relationship is your BLESSING...NOT your problem. I know that sounds simple...but like many things, it simply takes practice. LOVE is an act of our WILL. May our LORD be your guide, and GOD bless you and your husband!!!
@baloo212Ай бұрын
You converted . Tomorrow, if your husband's Muslim sister wanted to marry a Christian man and convert to his religion. Will she be allowed to? You see Muslims only accept Non Muslim women into their family because they see Christian women as conquests to increase their population and have more Muslim children at the expense of Christian wombs whereas the Christian community loses a woman and her children. Hope you come back to your culture whatever it may be. As someone who has a Pakistani Christian family , I know the mentality. They have a Trojan horse strategy. Conquering a nation through the wombs of their women.
@RichardRjmccoy3 жыл бұрын
Great story. As a biracial child, I enjoyed watching and like to add that there are couples of two races together where one of the partners is not white. My mom is Mexican, and my dad is black. Dual minority biracial.
@danthomas65873 жыл бұрын
You must have some awesome meals. The best of both worlds.
@mr.reconstruction35933 жыл бұрын
Truly a tragedy for THE Mexican race! 😔
@loved83823 жыл бұрын
@@mr.reconstruction3593 @MR. Reconstruction so you wish to be black but have "no cojones" to admit that. For the record, mexicans are one of the descendants of european and native americans mix. Races are only 3 (black, asian, and white). Read a book of antropology if you can understand one and stop embarassing yourself!
@mr.reconstruction35933 жыл бұрын
@@loved8382 - NEVER as they have been led by the noose and only understand being told what to do! NO THANKS!
@loved83823 жыл бұрын
@@mr.reconstruction3593 if you have never wanted to be black, what are you doing in this chanel?, obssess with people who you claimed you has never wanted to be? 🤣, it seems more like an uncounscious wish but don't worry a therapist can help you admitt what your inner soul wants, that is to be black. Also, you're wrong, black people have never follow others indications if it was so they would not be alive as other races have unforrunately perished. Blacks succeed always, even when others perrish and that's the thing, the hate against them is cause you know you can never be like them, Sorry (not sorry).
@davidstaley37373 жыл бұрын
Why would ANYBODY put a thumbs down on this story?? Yes, racism exists in both directions. Congratulations to this wonderful couple.
@ariejohnson19443 жыл бұрын
👎
@sunshinerobinson11233 жыл бұрын
They don't have love.
@dp70473 жыл бұрын
Because some people feel it's best to stay with your own. Everyone doesn't agree with this, but we still should have respect for all races
@davidstaley37373 жыл бұрын
@@dp7047 we should all have respect for all PEOPLE to do for themselves as they see fit without bias or prejudice from others who may see things differently for their own selves.
@MsTinkerbelle873 жыл бұрын
@@dp7047 you’re disgusting!
@torisefford56713 жыл бұрын
I'm not supprised,but still hearing meghan markle speak about how the royal family feels towards her child is very revealing, no wonder why they left.
@lindabarber19513 жыл бұрын
The daughter is absolutely beautiful!!! And the love each other!!!
@fabolousnature38732 жыл бұрын
Is she🤦🤦🤦
@pabloalvez9153 жыл бұрын
Trivia: First-ever recorded interracial marriage in American territory took place in Cuba (then a Spanish possession), in 1565, between a Spanish man and an African woman. One Love
@margo33673 жыл бұрын
I was just listening to that Bob Marley song. He had such a beautiful spirit!✌️❤️🌷
@briandelaney97103 жыл бұрын
And probably with a solemn High Mass :)
@pabloalvez9153 жыл бұрын
@@briandelaney9710 @Brian Delaney Probably, yes, as was the norm in Spanish territories. Other than that, people would just move in together and start their families without religious sacraments. Her name was Luisa de Abrego and she was a free domestic servant in Jerez de la Frontera, Spain. After she moved to the then Spanish America, she met and married Miguel Hernandez, a soldier from Segovia, Spain.
@Juliaflo3 жыл бұрын
That was around the time of that St. Augustine was settled.
@tobehonest75413 жыл бұрын
people have been doing it before records began ....so likely not the first !
@chrisfinch86373 жыл бұрын
“Love and Marriage, Love and Marriage, Go together like a horse and carriage.” Sometimes life is not always meant to be that way, with the people you love and try to cherish.
@blacklyfe554311 ай бұрын
People don't get married for love
@blacklyfe554311 ай бұрын
They don't belong in the same sentence
@stimpyfranklin805225 күн бұрын
Hmmm. Explain@@blacklyfe5543
@icc20103 жыл бұрын
I remember a friend of mine saying she would never date a person of color. Due in part cause her father would never accept it. That was my first realization that this may be a common thing. Having been adopted and living in a multi-racial family I figured It was normal. But as you get older you realize just how un normal it may seem
@PunkMartyr3 жыл бұрын
It says a lot about love, faith and forgiveness that neither will name who didn’t accept them.
@manujohn992 жыл бұрын
White & black must not mix like this. This is wrong.
@mr.stately9205Ай бұрын
My mother-in-law is white and can tell you some absolute horror stories dating outside her color in a small Alabama town in the 90s. Though long since outlawed she is living proof that racism nowadays is a learned and passed down behavior. That's why it is so critical that schools never let off the gas teaching kids honest history.
@shimmer477121 күн бұрын
It's sad. Sorry she went through that. Fight hate with love.
@galepatrick17023 жыл бұрын
Beautiful stories - long live diversity - making each other happy and laughing is what counts-
@jocelynleigh46523 жыл бұрын
Absolutely beautiful story. Brings tears to my eyes and hope for the future.
@ijumaainjabulo59832 жыл бұрын
There is no hope for the future if all were creating is biracial racists.
@omargoodnesssake3 жыл бұрын
*When I went away to college a group of white students I became friends with told me that their parents begged them to not date a black person. This was upstate New York in the very late 1980s.* *They even admitted that their parents were ok with them experimenting with drugs but not with dating black people.* *I feel sorry for the hardships these couples have had to face.*
@lizgreenspan48833 жыл бұрын
So me and my significant other went to a restauraunt in up state NY. He is a black Dominican & I'm white. They said they were full which they were not & they took a white couple. That was proof enough. That was a few years ago
@jeffstewart74392 жыл бұрын
I feel more sorry for the parents of those students that you went to college with. They unfortunately have a more miserable existence and life experience than these couples could ever face. 😥
@ijumaainjabulo59832 жыл бұрын
I feel more sorry of the hardships Black couples have to face. Life is harder for black couples.
@ijumaainjabulo59832 жыл бұрын
@@jeffstewart7439 And what if they were okay with their kids dating Black people, what would that do to change racism in this country?
@g.lowenklee22682 жыл бұрын
@@ijumaainjabulo5983 It changes a lot, American history shows as much. The colonial class structure based on race relies on preserving exclusive rights and privileges by enforcing artificial lines of separation (e.g. the pseudo-science of "race"). Obviously that becomes incredibly difficult once people start intermixing ...a process that begins with freedom of association.
@nickbarcheck10193 жыл бұрын
How could anyone possibly be against two people wanting to be together for any reason? It just blows my mind.
@Catlily53 жыл бұрын
I agree and even for people who don't like it - it is not your life so let them be!
@TimothyMury Жыл бұрын
I've been married for 30 years going on 31 and we never been any happier and we are interracial marriage
@frankiebabieeeАй бұрын
My husband is Korean and raised in Austria. I’m Western European/Japanese and raised in California. We seem to fit only halfway everywhere we go. I’m eager for a coming future where this isn’t so.
@kittenbug83843 жыл бұрын
I come from an interracial family. I love seeing mixed couples, families, kids (e.g., by partnership, adoption). I can’t imagine being in a family (or a society) where one color/race is the norm.
@jeffstewart74392 жыл бұрын
AMEN! God loves variety... thus He created different hues of people. Nature tells the story so perfectly. If all were the same color, life would not be as vibrant and refreshing to the eyes palate.
@ijumaainjabulo59832 жыл бұрын
That’s meant to sound profound but it’s actually racist.
@kittenbug83842 жыл бұрын
@@ijumaainjabulo5983 ok, racist police 😂
@eeeccc35622 жыл бұрын
By logic, the more races are mixed, the more uniformity there will be for future generations, because there will hardly be any racial distinction. It s actually damaging diversity and bringing forth uniformity.
@ijumaainjabulo59832 жыл бұрын
As much as you would like to think you're saying something profound, but its actually not. B/C black lives matter just like every form of existence. People issues are not going to be solved b/c of mixing. Europeans lived in countries where they were the same race before colonizing the planet and still had classism. Its lazy white liberal way of thinking. B/c it devoids of doing the actually work to help solve exploitive groups.
@madamelogicbombdropperblac77993 жыл бұрын
I live in Los Angeles and I see black women with men of all races and beautiful black ladies with their adorable mixed race babies. This is the new reality and for me as an African American woman I see it as an expansion of my many options.
@mamimimusubi31163 жыл бұрын
I miss living in la for that reason I’m mixed And it was the only place I felt like I belonged lol I live in Portland now and people are obsessed with race and very weird here
@GDavis-uy1gg3 жыл бұрын
@Madamelogicbombdropper Black Women Multimedia T.V. : Ummm , ok sister . GD
@TheEnigmaticBM393 жыл бұрын
@@GDavis-uy1gg she hates black men...this is coming from various engagements with her.
@markelraya104 ай бұрын
Same for black men
@shellydawn59663 жыл бұрын
If two people love each other and want to be together.....nothing should try to stop it. Only evil wants to stop love bw 2 people.
@lostintime86513 жыл бұрын
This goes without saying. No one is stopping anyone from being together. This segment of the show is a pack of lies. People just want to do their own thing and be left alone and enjoy the freedoms of being an American. They don't spend their time and other people's businesses. Only liberals do that. Just think of every time you hear a change in a law. Who is presenting that? It's a Democrat. It's never a Republican. The Republican party was created to hold the Democrats back from taking too much of our American freedoms away from us. Learn some history and you know that to be true.
@dp70473 жыл бұрын
my opinion but.......I still, and will always feel it's best to stay with one's own kind. We can still have respect for one another because NO race is better than the next. Everyone's different but this is what works for ME. Sorry not sorry. This just seems like a propaganda piece 🤔
@shellydawn59663 жыл бұрын
@@dp7047 i understand that as well.
@shellydawn59663 жыл бұрын
@@lostintime8651 you are right. However no couple should be whispered about are called names...i.e..n.lover...1/2breed etc.... It is wrong to try to make people feel less than or wrong...... Just because of who they choose to live their life with. Some people feel better about themselves by putting others down in whatever way. Humans do this all the time and don't even recognize the behavior.
@bbworks1593 жыл бұрын
@@dp7047 How would you feel if a relative dated outside their race? Would you disown your son or daughter? Just asking
@marianforeman88653 жыл бұрын
There is one race HUMAN......nuff said. Blessings to all the couples. :Peace and Love to everyone.
@alexandrajackson84983 жыл бұрын
NOT in THIS country!! This is AmeriKKKa!
@Moormores3 жыл бұрын
Why are you lying to yourself? No one buys into your statement.
@LoverOFhopeANDcompassion3 жыл бұрын
If only it was that simple problem is GREED fuels all hate especially racism
@ebonylamb48713 жыл бұрын
Humans is NOT a race, it's a species but I understand what you're saying. We are all human beings.
@BethCampbell-b9c2 жыл бұрын
This is so sad, that this is still an issue. My grandchildren are also biracial, hispanic and caucasian, and if anyone were to say something negative about them, I would have serious actions towards them!!
@artsyweirdo3 жыл бұрын
I’m white and my husband is Chinese. And it just dawned on me that when we have children someday - they most certainly will be subject to hate in a way that I never was. This breaks my heart. We will raise them to be strong, and to know that their identity is more than their physical being and blood line.
@lorieesqueda97273 жыл бұрын
I have 3 half asian girls. They've found their way,and they are beautiful
@bodyaindahood973 жыл бұрын
Well, you are to blame for this, since you did not want this for your own children. I think that nothing threatens your children when the white race mixes with someone. Everything that is inherent in white (eyes, eye color, skin color, hair color and coarseness, etc.) disappears, you do not have to worry about giving birth to Asians. All the same, the white race cannot be saved, tolerance kills everything human in people - this is culture. A person differs from an animal in that people have a culture (languages, color differences and other diversity). Just think, the race that gave everything to this world will soon be gone. No, I'm not at all racist, as you might think to call me. I am for a world where there will be all blacks, whites, and Asians. The world is cool in variety and each race is beautiful and unique in its own way.
@maxxypad80973 жыл бұрын
🤢🤮🤮
@maxxypad80973 жыл бұрын
Don't have kids
@cedric71222 жыл бұрын
How could it have just dawned on you?
@desmeisme3 жыл бұрын
You have the right to love whoever you want of any color regardless of your own color. Love is meant for everyone and no one should ever feel ashamed or get abused for it.
@Moormores3 жыл бұрын
Well apparently not everyone thinks the same way. Get over it!
@MrDMC118893 жыл бұрын
@@Moormores Those who disagree should learn to live and let live. If you're a white man who wants to marry a white woman do it but leave other people alone. Other thing is that once you're kids are adults they don't have to listen to your ignorant @$$ anymore. If they refuse to care for you when you're old you deserve it.
@benjaminmartiniii53752 жыл бұрын
@@Moormores 🤖🤖🤖
@lthemarvelous322 жыл бұрын
@@Moormores True. That’s is why I don’t understand human. It’s simple if you want to date within your race go ahead and don’t mind people who date outside their race. That’s on them.
@msreen2692 жыл бұрын
@@Moormores No one it supposed to think the same, that’s the beauty of being human. Therefore, those who take issue with skin color should 🤔 ☝🏽GET OVER IT!
@LoverOFhopeANDcompassion3 жыл бұрын
If this exact story aired in 1950 heads would be rolling literally. Fact that it can be aired without a riot/genocide says we've come a long way
@PunkMartyr3 жыл бұрын
There will always be some people who care if someone is gay, another skin color or whatever reason they can invent in their head that someone else should be judged to feed their insecurity. I do believe 90%+ of people do not care whatsoever.
@ijumaainjabulo59832 жыл бұрын
America is a racist country. And it’s cruel to pretend it’s not.
@slayaw99 Жыл бұрын
My husband and I have been married since 1999 and the four years after Obama was president were the absolute worse. We have three teenagers who are multi race, but I’m sure that most families with children have found the toxicity that has followed difficult. The hatred that has been spoken openly at all levels of government, attacks on civil rights and civil liberties of all peoples. The backlash has been real and so long as society has these issues families and children will be affected.
@mazellknowles8940 Жыл бұрын
I was married to a white guy from 1988.I am a Widow for 17yrs. I never realized that I was the only person in my Church, work, School that was in a mixed marriage. We experience many hardships because of it but our love for each other was seen in everything we did. We lived a better happier life than every friend, Neighbour, family member and co-worker who hated on us. Years as a Widow I still experience the hate. I have no regrets. I lived and still living my best life. I am writing my story and I am telling my Story.
@madibawayne63143 жыл бұрын
The Heart wants, what it Wants!!❤ People Everywhere Need to Realize that it's Not Their Life. Get Over It. Hate Poisons the Mind.
@danthomas65873 жыл бұрын
It also poisons their children's minds and that I think is the worst part.
@madibawayne63143 жыл бұрын
@@danthomas6587 Amen to that. Children are Taught to Hate.
@dp70473 жыл бұрын
my opinion but.......I still, and will always feel it's best to stay with one's own kind. We can still have respect for one another because NO race is better than the next. Everyone's different but this is what works for ME. Sorry not sorry. This just seems like a propaganda piece 🤔
@danthomas65873 жыл бұрын
@@dp7047 Muhammed Ali thought much the same thing.
@MrDMC118893 жыл бұрын
@@dp7047 I couldn't even tell you what my kind is. I'm black but don't really relate to African American culture. I've always been an individual. I'm a freak anywhere I find myself. Skin color is irrelevant. If my parents were to try to dictate who I marry I'd put them in the worst home I could find. Fortunately though my parents aren't like that.
@teeed61102 жыл бұрын
I loved this so much! This spoke to me, as a multiracial/multiethnic, millenial woman. Please raise our children to be open and accepting of others and of their own blendedness!
@cynthiahawkins23899 ай бұрын
Ric was born in Mexico and I am an Italian NY lady. We married late in life - I was 58 and he was 63.. (Second marriage for us both)..we just enjoy one another and really don't have any issues.
@worldgurl69572 жыл бұрын
Beautiful story........I wish each couple abundant happiness......glad you are living your lives uncaring as to what others think....God Bless....
@tedreynolds63633 жыл бұрын
This is SO sad that this story was done. These people are BEAUTIFUL, been together since 1996, married since 2000, what is wrong with this, NOTHING? Over 25 years together, this is wonderful!!!!!!!!!! In this hateful world, we need more love. They're both employed, this man is a business owner and she works for the post office, NO shame in none of that. It saddens me. You're a BEAUTIFUL couple, GOD bless you both, and continued success to you!
@SheltonWalden3 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!!!!
@reggiejohnson12012 жыл бұрын
They look like a lovely married couple! Made for each other!!
@erickomar3152 Жыл бұрын
Bix nood
@starseeker27 Жыл бұрын
@user-lb8ju6vm9pwho cares dude it's not your problem now is it.
@sfunyc12813 жыл бұрын
I smile when meeting someone to help make that person feel comfortable and break down barriers. I don't believe that's being disingenuous.
@YorktownUSA2 жыл бұрын
Neither do I. It's entirely based on what you're inculturated into. Both positions make sense when looked at from a certain point of view.
@ancillabernstein11112 жыл бұрын
My mum is German and my dad is Chilean, married to a American caucasian man from Boston, so we have all in our family. ❤
@svetikchum69888 ай бұрын
learning your spouses family dynamics has nothing to do with racism, sometimes people see things based on their perspective and hang ups that dont actually exsist; being in an IR relationship the lack of a victim mentality is one of the qualities I appreciate the most
@tamirenno58453 жыл бұрын
We are all human beings…every one of us are the same on the inside. The color of our skin or our ethnicity, should have nothing to do with anything at all.
@allybrosia37253 жыл бұрын
That’s not true Tami. We are not the same and that’s OK.
@tamirenno58453 жыл бұрын
@@allybrosia3725 of course emotionally we are not all the same…true. To clarify what I meant …I meant that we are all made up the same physically…heart, organs, etc.,
@tamirenno58453 жыл бұрын
@@allybrosia3725 it’s great we are all different emotionally and intellectually, but for others to decide one person is better than another person based on the color of their skin, when the color of our skin is based on our location of origin, even though physically we are all made the same other than that…that’s NOT ok.
@toddmuhammad38272 жыл бұрын
A black man and a white woman in an interracial marriage deal with the challenges of racism, which makes their love stronger, more than any other type of interracial marriages/relationships.
@hhh1200 Жыл бұрын
LOL, white men dont do things by mistake. are you really that clueless? they are aware black men thirst for white women. Biracial children of white women reject black at 80%. they go on to marry someone white. that's an erasure tactic. black man has too much self hate to see it
@o0oStillWeRiseo0o Жыл бұрын
@@hhh1200white women thirst for black men. I’ve never seeked out any woman. Women go after what they want
@louannwaters66913 жыл бұрын
Open hearts! Open minds! Love is love❤️.
@manujohn992 жыл бұрын
White & black must not mix like this
@audreymay93782 жыл бұрын
@@manujohn99 It’s been happening and will continue to happen
@manujohn992 жыл бұрын
@@audreymay9378 This is why we don't have a perfect world
@manujohn992 жыл бұрын
@@audreymay9378 Colors must remain seperate thats why its called as "colors" but not "color".
@RyanHLee-nc7hg3 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful story about the power of love in this world.
@Moormores3 жыл бұрын
Yuck
@xralchemist2 жыл бұрын
@@Moormores Interracial is beautiful
@Moormores2 жыл бұрын
@@xralchemist No one believes that statement... Just look at the real world. You people are so funny.
@benjaminmartiniii53752 жыл бұрын
@@Moormores 🤡🤡🤡
@MobscastBlackOut2 жыл бұрын
@@Moormores 🙆🏿
@bonipazhiio63173 жыл бұрын
I’m an Indian & I don’t like or eat dosa so their nothing to be offended if a person doesn’t like the taste of dosa .
@Loveroffood413 жыл бұрын
My oldest sister recently got married a year ago and what's really cool is the fact that my brother-in-law is from Antigua is black is probably one of the best men I know.
@CathyS_Bx3 жыл бұрын
What's going to save us? What's going to destroy racism? Well, sure. Love, actually!
@marylee-anderson87933 жыл бұрын
We’ve come a long way, but still have a long way to go.
@leorakipi49284 ай бұрын
Not really. We’ve pretty much arrived. Quit romanticizing it. At worst people in IR relationships experience prolonged looks and inappropriate comments.
@chrismacks36403 жыл бұрын
I found it outstanding get reporters especially white ones are shocked about when they hear these type of stories on race relations
@caseymallory54353 жыл бұрын
The 💙 WANTS WHAT THE 💙WANTS
@SandyWolf-3 жыл бұрын
That man had the rt answer Happiness!! That is the most important thing in life!@
@madbug19653 жыл бұрын
People forget that Mr. Spock was the product of an interplanetary couple. Live long and prosper.
@larrysouthern50983 жыл бұрын
Yep ... 👽
@SuperSpace2009 Жыл бұрын
The man said it all at the End! THE HAPPINESS!
@prettylyricsmarie10 күн бұрын
That is heartbreaking to be disowned for their marriage.
@knjmoorhouse50933 жыл бұрын
My family is multiracial and multiethnic on both sides. My marriage is multiethnic. It feels very normal to us to have people of various ethnicities, cultures and religions within the family. As a member of the Bahá'í Faith, this is very normal to us. I tend to forget that this is unusual to about half the country, and I only notice it when we go on large family outings or a group of friends from all walks of life to a restaurant and people stare at us.
@acajudi1003 жыл бұрын
I am more concern, that we stop killing each other.
@allybrosia37253 жыл бұрын
Each other?
@debrahelmlinger62563 жыл бұрын
My mother being from West Virginia always told us to marry our kind as the children would be confused as to where they belonged. I was always confused about our kind since we are combination of about 9 different heritages. Now we have a beautiful brown child and another on the way in our family and my mother's eyes have been opened to how these additions to the family truly are beautiful!🤗
@Moormores3 жыл бұрын
I do not believe that story.. but okay
@debrahelmlinger62563 жыл бұрын
@@Moormores no reason to lie? Believe whatever you want
@Moormores3 жыл бұрын
@@debrahelmlinger6256 With you people there is alway a reason to lie... Keep it up.
@allybrosia37253 жыл бұрын
No it’s not. She just tolerates it.
@erickomar3152 Жыл бұрын
You are a disgrace to the White race.
@tawnya06273 жыл бұрын
I come from Texas. Growing up, I remember people asking "What race are you?" My parents taught us kids, "We're mutts. We're Heinz 57." We didn't mean anything derogatory by it. My biracial child says the same thing. Her white passing husband says the same thing. He's indigenous. He's from South Dakota. Is this a new thing that became derogatory? We certainly never meant anything derogatory or degrading by it.
@bbworks1593 жыл бұрын
Heinz 57 is delicious
@Catlily53 жыл бұрын
Probably it depends on the tone it was said in.
@ngray603 жыл бұрын
I believe it would depend on the context and tone in which it was used. Describing oneself with that term wouldn’t be as offensive as someone else using it as a descriptor because they aren’t sure of the ethnicity or culture of someone else.
@TheEnigmaticBM393 жыл бұрын
Mutt has always had a derogatory meaning behind it
@tawnya06273 жыл бұрын
@@TheEnigmaticBM39 Well, thank Cthulhu you came along when you did and commented with such authority. Clearly we all needed to know mutt was bad no matter how it was used in a sentence. Whether speaking of dogs or people "mutt" is always derogatory. You cleared that right up.
@PaulGreen113 жыл бұрын
Unhappy people don't want happy people to be or even pursue their own happiness
@alezandradavila25812 жыл бұрын
Lol
@mclanetravel42713 жыл бұрын
This is a WONDERFUL segment.
@spiritualseekeramor3 жыл бұрын
Bless you all. Love is love. ❤️
@v.a.9933 жыл бұрын
I loved the quote about the emotion behind the smile.
@manujohn992 жыл бұрын
White & black must not mix like this. This is wrong.
@BrenB1252 жыл бұрын
God supports biracial marriage. Moses married an Ethiopian woman. When Moses' sister objected God struck her with leprosy.
@dannaphys50082 жыл бұрын
The barriers exist “10 fold” in certain areas of the country. Other states interracial marriage is not an issue. I am white and dated a black woman for a few years. When we witnessed this bigotry, we had fun with it and wrote it off as stupidity.
@tomjon86793 жыл бұрын
Even some who say they believe in God are racist like this. Obviously they don't read the Bible. God is not partial. Mixed couples have beautiful children. It starts at home folks. Stop teaching your kids to hate.
@Mistaking032 жыл бұрын
I am married to a beautiful Hispanic woman and I am Caucasian. We have two children together and I love it. I feel other ethical backgrounds brings a lot to the relationship. I learn from her up bringing as she learns from mine. I see nothing wrong with interracial couples and actually love seeing it. There is soo much to love and learn from one another's background and cultures. I always say that the white man's culture is so bland compared to others. Its funny because our children are bi racial and look as white as me. Lol, but they speak both English and Spanish fluently. Im proud to be in a bi racial marriage. Wouldn't have it any other way..
@hhh1200 Жыл бұрын
you are both white.
@spike2227 Жыл бұрын
The White man's culture is so bland really, have you looked at European history?
@HouseJawn3 жыл бұрын
Still my favorite news show 30 years on 💕
@TheLadyrose013 жыл бұрын
We are ALL mutts, no matter who, no matter where or even when
@debbiecooper16773 жыл бұрын
I dont care who my girls marry just as long as they are good to them. But as long as my girls are good to them.
@sooz94333 жыл бұрын
Love will always find a way. Thank you for this beautiful story.
@SandyWolf-2 жыл бұрын
Good for you two! If you truly love someone and are happy that's all that matters! Who cares what others think!
@wbl2272 жыл бұрын
I am Nicaraguan married to a Polish man from Poland, for almost 20 years. I have been living in the US since 2000. I met my husband in December 1997. Dated long distance for 4 years while I was in law school. We started living together in 2000. We got married in 2002 and have 2 daughters 4 and 61/2. It is hard sometimes, but i put myself in 1997 when i met my husband and we are always learning about ourselves. It is possible to be married someone who is different from you. I am ok with That because i am learning every day.
@kennyo38343 жыл бұрын
Race is a social construct. We are the human race. Everyone is mixed with different 'ethnicities'. Racial discrimination is a form of mental illness.
@allybrosia37253 жыл бұрын
It’s not a social construct. We are not the same and there’s nothing wrong with that.
@fuanasantuary12773 жыл бұрын
so ironic is your statement.
@EHed-kv2wb2 жыл бұрын
@@allybrosia3725 we are the same. We are humans. We should love our fellow humans.
@elora1792 жыл бұрын
@@EHed-kv2wb Don’t be so naive
@elora1792 жыл бұрын
So you’ll marry a donkey next?
@tlondonable6 ай бұрын
My aunt and uncle has been married for over 40 years. We lost her last week..She's AA and he is EA. The love he had for my aunt is incredible. He says his soul mate is gone. They love each other and the relationship did not break.
@AlecPaulssluaPcelA3 жыл бұрын
4:55 Not all interracial marriages are between a white person and someone who is not white..
@ichoosemysanity64673 жыл бұрын
😆
@medalgearsalad14193 жыл бұрын
I dont get it
@norathefish33383 жыл бұрын
Phenomenal piece--thank you! 🤗🙏🏆
@rachelderenoncourt38812 жыл бұрын
Why is she still protecting a person who disowned her??!
@angied.68743 жыл бұрын
Wow. The first couple seem so genuine. I all works out for them
@stsolomon6183 жыл бұрын
Love has no race and no age. It doesn't discriminate.
@zuozhen47583 жыл бұрын
Why is this an issue? If two persons love each other that’s all that matters! Geee!!!!!