Stay at Home Dad - Chandler Brown

Yesterday I had the privilege of writing the kind of song you dream of writing your entire life. Incredibly thankful for my co-writers who helped me craft this song. This is a live take.
"Stay at Home Dad"
Written by Chandler Brown, Devin Dawson, Kyle Clark
Can I try some of your coffee?
Will you make me French toast?
Can you come clean me up
Cause I got syrup on my clothes
Can you double knot my reeboks
Can I pick out your shirt?
Could we watch Spider-Man again
When you get back from work?
When you walk out the door
Can you take me with you please?
Promise I’ll be good
Do you really gotta leave?
Stay at home, Dad
You toss me the baseball and I’ll throw it back
We could have the best time that we’ve ever had
I know, Dad
You gotta go, Dad
But just today maybe you could stay at home, Dad
I know all my colors
I know 2+2
I can sing my ABCs
I look just like you
Dad, I got a question
Before you get in your truck
If mama can I can’t understand
Why you can’t just
Stay at home, Dad?
I'll help you drive the tractor when we mow the grass
We could have the best time that we’ve ever had
I know, Dad
You gotta go, Dad
But just today maybe you could stay at home, Dad
Stay at home, Dad
me and mom are gonna miss you so bad
When you pull out the driveway I get so sad
Stay at home, Dad
We could throw baseball maybe mow the grass
We could have the best day that we’ve ever had
Yeah I know, Dad
You gotta go, Dad
But just today maybe you could stay at home, Dad

[@corybensen9362]

Please put this song on Spotify love it

[@MrOsbomike]

My dad died the day after you posted this song, but I only just found it on Instagram. It's hitting pretty hard. Chorus feels like I'm begging him not to leave me behind. I love remembering all the good times. Thank you for this gem.

[@ChandlerBrown]

Praying for you and your family ❤️

[@Sandra-Sings]

I'm so sorry for your loss

[@Dontslaythybroski]

Sorry bud. Hope you can heal up soon and get to enjoy your life x2.

[@chadpatrick3996]

Great song! Saw it on Instagram and had to go find the rest of the song. It is a tough one to get through though 😅

[@junebug8960]

Me too!

[@vineandbranch]

Same!

[@mattryan7053]

Same here ... really hits home 😢😢😢

[@TheFallxIn]

Yeah me too. This guy has a lot of good tunes. Real talent. Probably watch this guy make it all the way.

[@jenloke-delacruz559]

Same here!

[@NickyFreakingJ]

As an entrepreneur and dad of 3 + another on the way this song crushes me. How easy it is to miss the desperate hearts of our children crying out for more time with us…

[@tybenvie]

This song hits too hard right now. Dad to one beautiful 4 year old boy, and currently deployed away from him and there is nothing that can describe the daily struggle of being away feeling guilty and also providing and setting an example to my little boy! So glad I found this on Instagram, thank you! Hope it goes to Spotify soon ❤

[@paulsdesigns]

I am a loving dad to 3 beautiful children who I have to leave regularly due to working in the Oil & Gas sector... mostly on oil rigs... And this song is just... there are no words to describe the hurt, the pain, the love, the beauty in what we do to provide for our kids and give them a better life than we had ourselves. Its hard to write comments like this with tears streaming out of my eyeballs. But thank you so much. ❤

[@dgpaintandbudlight7643]

Any blue collar dad that hears this has an instant lump in their throat i know i sure do, remember fellas we're doing this for them ! Someday they will be doing the same for their kids, its apart of life. Doesn't make it easier tho thanks for the song buddy

[@Ryan10Super]

I’m not even a dad yet and this got me wanting to stay home with my son

[@bryanjackson2692]

Thank you so much for this! Truly explains what all us dads wish we could do for our kids!

[@Acw0015]

I can’t wait for your music to get to Apple Music! You’re have such an amazing music career ahead of you 🥹

[@gabriellaruhlman6688]

Happy early Father's Day to all the hard working dads out there just wanting to spend more time with your family. Your kids and your spouse love and need you so much. You are IRREPLACABLE.

[@omg_Michae1]

I’ve cried to this song 36 times in a row. My kid is 15 and I haven’t seen him in a year. It drives me to this… Do I want this or not?

[@heathenhalflings]

You have to think about if you want to be a Dad?.....

[@jameslarr5906]

Got me for sure. A good blue collar dad song I'm gone more than I'm home and both my kids say this to me quite often. Wish I could but Daddy's gotta work Mommy's gotta stay home

[@dimetrieharris8713]

Man i had to find this i was just over instergram, and i saw it . I can relate to this some much c i leave my two beautiful daughters back home in jamaica and come to the states to work and they wish i could stay home the oldest is 4 at 2 years apart man this song is amazing much respect sir love your music 🎶 🎵

[@Kahutiangamahara]

Dropped my 3 year old off at preschool, your vid popt up on insta ...I was in tears on my way to work bro. So I searched your shit up on KZbin so I could figure out the chords on guitar. Was I tears again but at least your words touched another father with 3 year old ❤❤❤

[@jamesdaviduk583]

Well, I sure wasn't planning to cry myself dehydrated at any point today. This, sir, is not only an incredibly beautiful song, but an IMPORTANT one, if that makes any sense. Well done to you.

[@jimfinn2311]

I don't think any father can watch this without crying. Really beautiful mate.

[@waylongreger8158]

Same vibes as “The Dollar” by Jamey Johnson. Love it

[@Only.builds]

Dude Do your best to advertise this to the world This is the one that could change your life !!!!!!!! Amazing song ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@RedSplinter36]

A father of four myself... this hit me so hard. Thank you for this brother. Truly.

[@mattkc27]

this song needs to be heard by so many. Thank you for sharing

[@crashingmoto8790]

Wow… guy has mad talent

[@danieljordan3725]

This song should have at least million views by now we need to share the hell out of this!!! Great song man!

[@Dontslaythybroski]

Great song bro. Thanks

[@W3RDOUTDOORS]

I HATE that this song applies to me... my son is 3 in 4 months... my job requires me to work away from home for weeks on end. I LOVE this song because it is what has fired me up to make changes... i am so tired of struggling with the contemplation of weather or not what i am doing is worth it. I wrote this song in my head since the day my son was born... hearing it has confirmed i need to make changes... i put in my notice 2 days ago. Thank you for being an amazing father and opening my eyes.

[@ChandlerBrown]

Keep your head up, dad. You’re doing the best you can for your son. Glad to hear you’re making changes to be more present in the future! We just wanna give our little ones all the time in the world. He will be thankful for your decision when he’s old enough to realize what all you’ve sacrificed for him.

[@DJIllustration]

God bless you man you are doing the right thing. You are doing the right thing. Maintain conviction. Sending you strength and prayers 🙏

[@SdLoc619er]

Have 3 kids and I wouldnt change these memories for the world

[@CAMHVACR]

Brother been a long time since I been in tears like this . Thank you , this one hit hard

[@glassguy283]

We heard you at Alan Jacksons a couple weeks ago in Nashville. Ended up finding out you were playing at another bar off the strip and had to see ya play again. Really hope you make it big man! Congrats on the new additional well!

[@breakmytee93]

This is what authentic music sounds like. I would not have appreciated this song 14 months ago the way I do today. My 13 month old has changed my life and I can't imagine life without him and his mother. Thank you for writing this, I hope to hear more from you Chandler! Instant save if it goes on Spotify! Also would love to know what chords you used.

[@Luis-gf4ql]

Can't get through the song without my son and I crying. The sacrifices we make to provide aren't always easy. God bless all the hard-working, loving dads out here.

[@timkoen1685]

Stop making me cry 😢

[@robm.6400]

how are you not signed yet !?! this song with piano opening then into guitars and drums would be epic

[@craigmosley2017]

😢well now I have a new favourite song 🥹 only problem is cannot listen to it 😭 ❤

[@adamboozer9204]

You got me man! Outstanding. My son (our only child) is 18 and he’s really starting to seem more and more like an adult. The greatest privilege of my life has been being able to watch him grow up and become a fine young man.

[@DJIllustration]

I've been struggling with my career a lot recently but it has been one I chose specifically to allow me to work from home as much as possible to be as close to my daughter as I can. I also found your video on IG and had to hunt this full thing down. I am on my second watch in tears. This is becoming an incredibly inspiring release of energy that is putting me back in touch with why I took this route and how proud I am to give ad much time as I can to my family. I want to thank you for writing this song and giving such a touching performance. You have given me a gift today and it isn't often I find these moments in my life. Thank you.

[@renovclean2]

He is one lucky little guy for such a loving Dad 😭

[@jasonziter]

Great work. Perfect !!!!

[@saschab4082]

Thanks for this song. It brings life in perspective and reminds us of what's the most important thing for us.

[@linger5032]

Wow, Spotify please 🙏🏼 Your voice is so nice and this song get me goosebumps 🥹❤️

[@sammyvillegas6567]

Man this song came to me in perfect timing!! Just took a new job with a pay cut just to be home with my family more. This is an amazing song for us dads that sacrifice time with being with our loved ones to make sure they have everything they need.

[@DJIllustration]

God bless you man

[@jacobcalmes928]

I need a full version of this song on Apple Music right NOW. My three year old son does everything you sang about in this video, and it’s brought me to tears (20 year old working 100+ hours for my three kiddos)

[@austineatman2151]

I’m in the same boat brother. 29 and father of 3 and they say the SAME things. I’m working on building multiple companies trying to make a life where they don’t have to want for a thing. Getting in my car in the mornings and hearing them beg my wife if they can go with me kills me. I get it.

[@jacobcalmes928]

@@austineatman2151 dude I’m learning six different trades to include hvac and auto mechanics and the wifey is nagging with them. It kills me everyday and I’m suprised someone else in my age range is dealing with this. Must be a pain with three, I’m soon to be dealing with that myself

[@Gcaliusa]

Found it let’s goooooo

[@snickerdd]

I've had Spotify for years I tried KZbin music and I've never went back and I never will every time new artist come out this is where I find them on KZbin music I never have to say please put it on spotify cuz I'm no longer listening!

[@ChrisMartinLP]

This one hits the soul! Thanks for this brother!

[@Sandra-Sings]

Wow! Amazing!

[@SkepTones]

Hey dawg, saw you open for BILMURI in Cincinnati back in March. There is some serious power in your music, as a band and solo! Kinda crazy cause all the Indiana folks I know love this type of music, yet never heard of you. Yet that is... Idk why you haven't really taken off already but I know so many people who would go nuts for this!

[@mikehillproject]

My kids have all grown up and this song made me think back in time. It got me big time. Beautiful song

[@Nick-vx1tb]

Awesome! Where can we download it?!

[@kangaroodf3406]

Congratulations! That's such a beautiful song! Thanks for sharing! God Bless! 👍

[@miwady]

Im gonna be a dad soon, we need your music on Spotify please 🙏

[@WVOutlaw-sk1nm]

I’ve done so many difficult things in my life, but this is by far one of the hardest things to do. To leave your child for even a second when life goes as fast as it does. I love the little man my son is becoming, but damn slow down. 😢

[@Jerds]

I’m literally crying dang. Amazing song

[@Internet_Music_Scout]

Wait. Didn't I hear this one the other day? LOL. Seriously, sounds like a signed country artist.... Stay blessed.

[@bethaxyla4478]

Thanks Mate.. For wonderfull words makes me cry as thankfull dad..

[@michaelgoertzen4523]

I love it. As a father of 4 this hits home. This is such a beautiful song.

[@fatsidekick]

Fuck dude thanks a lot I was on my lunch break at work. Now I’m crying

[@sherzodprosto4323]

Lovely song, do you have Spotify account ? please open

[@JGomezabino]

As A Father... INCREDIBLE BROTHER... INCREDIBLE!!!!!!

[@l.-._.-._.-._.-._.-.l]

I stumbled on your video of nutshell/broken window serenade and was completely blown away by your entire bands skill. But it was the tone of your voice that really hooked me in. Not to keep knobbing you off but i really do see you being big, you have a great mind for composition.

[@ChandlerBrown]

Thank you for sticking around. Lot of stuff on the horizon for this year, stay tuned

[@oklahomakid74726]

This breaks my heart in the best way man, stopped me in my tracks to see how my kids want to spend every waking moment with me as I'm leaving the house for work. Thank you so much for sharing this with all of us! 😭🥹

[@KeithLilly-x6s]

Great song Chandler. Will you be playing in the Nashville area during the last week of July into August by any chance?

[@bbyoungaf33]

Why isn't this song on Apple music? Come on!

[@keithward3484]

Man oh man oh man... As a dad this is one of the best songs I've ever heard!! I absolutely love it and I feel every word your singing!! Incredible!

[@Deedee_gonzo]

Hands down one of the best songs ever!

[@rachelgonzales2345]

Absolute amazing song! I shared it with my husband and he loved it! Ugh 😭

[@NikkiPhillippi]

So beautiful🥹🙏🏻

[@nickhill896]

Awesome song bro!

[@A1Overdose-zc4jf]

Spotify?! I’m crying on the shitter at work. Thanks.

[@JordanFried]

Wow! Chandler I haven’t been moved by a song like this in years. Keep going man!

[@TannerStark21]

Please let me know where and when I can download this audio file or when it becomes available on Apple Music!!! This song resonates with me so much!!!

[@Cbotti]

What a beautiful song with Father’s Day approaching

[@cdub_22]

Gotta habit of listenin to music that cuts straight to the soul..gotta feeling this song is one of those i’ll listen to as long as my time allows. Your composure is uncanny my dude!

[@LoveTodayASMR]

😩😭👏👏👏 What a beautiful song! Thank you

[@BryanFerra]

Need this on Spotify asap!

[@dalemah]

wow mate. incredible

[@thatguyfromjapan]

New fan... All the way from Japan... Can't wait for more music. Bless your soul!

[@perseusarkomanis7287]

Found it on instagram and had to listen to it all. Beautiful! Can relate so much it hurts

[@migslayerdb]

Messed me right up dude ! Killer song ...great piano skills ...and know how to punch us right in the chest

[@robquick4464]

This got me right in the feels. I’m not crying, you are.

[@sprdrums]

Thank you. My kids are my life and this hit home brother 👊🏻 subscribed

[@tannerknight3144]

A little different perspective - I’ve been divorced a little over a year, and my kids not wanting to go back never gets better. These are the same feelings they have because they can’t understand why dad isn’t coming home anymore after 3 years. It hurts

[@craigstreit5283]

Got a new subscriber just off this song. Never heard of you, but im here for it.

[@Jumpman23rocks]

I absolutely love this.. in a weird way that breaks my heart, but brings me so much hope and joy for my relationship with my son ❤

[@brynerhenrique]

Perfect

[@rebecamarie6768]

I loved this so much! It made me cry. ❤️ Great song.

[@jeffhardman8768]

I needed this! Thank you so much!

[@raumeenseifi]

Love it man. This one is really special

[@junebug8960]

Sooooo beautiful!

[@chriso8218]

Great song 😢

[@porchchats]

incredible song

[@brettslaughter4973]

I recorded a snip of you live at the roxy with Bilmuri, I need to know what the song is so if there's a way I could send it to you and you tell me?

[@theoldstyle7453]

LOVE it man

[@dyldovaggins]

I'm in debt, my wife and I are probably going to split up soon and she will take my son to Japan with her. I know it's probably for the best for him. I love him so.much. being a dad is such a painful experience for me, he's all I got and I might lose him. I wish I couldn't feel. Thanks for the song. I just wish I was better. Life sucks

[@danielamantilla1498]

I need this in Spanish so my dad can understand ❤

[@kirkwoodlive7251]

Love it

[@GarretGamesTV]

Yessir ❤

[@juliocorvera2260]

I’ve had YT premium for 4 years, this is the first time I used my download feature.

[@thejoshboard]

I would love some guitar chords for this song!

[@jonathangardner3121]

My son used to say this, now he's almost 15 and asks us to get out of here so he can have the house to himself for a few hours lol:(

[@camivey7936]

Anyone know what setup he’s using for recording and mic? Like is it plugged into a mixing board? Trying to get a decent set up myself.

[@ChandlerBrown]

@@camivey7936 this is a shure SM7dB plugged into a universal audio Apollo twin recorded live into Pro Tools

[@camivey7936]

@@ChandlerBrown 🙌🏻 thank you man! Great song btw. I have a 5 year old and this hit me hard. You’re inspiring me to get back into singing/songwriting. Keep doing your thing!