If You Run Out Of Things To Say, Play This Simple Game

How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation
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We’ve all been there - you’re in conversation, things are humming along nicely and then out of nowhere the awkward silence rears it’s head. At just that moment, your mind goes completely blank, you don’t know what to say and you can sense the other person’s eyes wandering as they look for someone else to talk to.
That scenario sucks so here are 5 tips to make sure you never run out of things to say in conversation
0:20 Play Reminds Me of
0:54 Ask open-ended questions
1:40 Use revival questions
2:37 Make a complimentary cold read
3:00 Flip the script and let them be the one to talk
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[@jaimieomalla8676]

I haven't laughed/cried this hard in ages. Love this comment section

[@yazdanahmed7790]

Made my day!

[@Leo-kd1xy]

Mine too!

[@daliblue_]

Same!!

[@itsmanasK]

What's your age?

[@alishaikh3663]

Same, this comment section is hilarious..

[@FonchoVidal]

- What are you doing? - Drinking - Why? - Because I want to forget - What? - The shame I feel for drinking (Awkward silence) - This reminds me of that time I was in Toranto

[@Kayoloz]

Family guy ahh conversation

[@cheezit4080]

Little prince

[@random_user-i2i]

"You look like the type who would be great with kids"

[@bpdp379]

What do you like about Toranto?

[@mevslife3080]

little princess

[@reallynoname]

I told my first date „You look like you enjoy McDonalds quite a lot!“ She really opened up, even raised her voice. It brought so much energy to the conversation.

[@mitch1488]

😂😂bruh lol

[@alishamedlock4904]

😩😂

[@shiningnights]

you really down bad 😭

[@charlesm2627]

🤣

[@EchelonPandora]

Man this made me smile so hard XD

[@yafi6214]

Sometimes it’s worth watching a video just to read the comments. Gold mine!!

[@turtleburger200]

Why?

[@PeetaLove]

@@yafi6214 It's true.

[@somedude0001]

​@@turtleburger200Toronto

[@mariekeung7187]

So true! I'm cracking up on these comments. Didn't know there are so many comedians out there. LOL.

[@PeetaLove]

@mariekeung7187 Literally!

[@camryn9597]

me at his house- “so do you come here often?”

[@FBWUniverseMode]

That is a nice way to talk to a thief he'd peacefully leave.

[@Xinyannya]

@@FBWUniverseMode"and that's how me and your mom met son"

[@mistertrueromance]

Maybe we should just be friends Mind: She's insane, just distance yourself, man.

[@uttkarshkumar6897]

That will Bring more Awkwardness

[@2trekkers777]

Why

[@_tronk_2529]

Bold of you to assume that I engage in conversation.

[@treblinka9530]

James Hickok I have aids :)

[@sus3509]

Swear bro I ain’t never starting a convo

[@stevesbonesai]

@@treblinka9530 so.., what do you enjoy most about having aids?

[@bl8d5uck3r]

noo i feel bad for liking your comment and making the number iLlUmInAtI

[@VisionVaultArchive]

@@bl8d5uck3r dw i changed it :)

[@carageak]

Me with my girlfriend at their place meeting her family: So how do you all know each other?

[@m.m7732]

Lookl

[@NiceEyeballs]

lolololol

[@kaylamuller441]

bwahhahaa i would probably do this and not notice

[@danamoldovan9135]

😄😄

[@icannotcomeupwithanything4609]

I dying man. 🤣

[@sniper6081]

I was wondering why this video was recommended to me until I saw the comments section. It all makes sense now.

[@Quisshy]

Comments are literally the greatest feature to ever exist on KZbin

[@PeetaLove]

@@sniper6081 It does.

[@PeetaLove]

@@Quisshy It is.

[@cheesesteakphilly]

That reminds me of the time I read comment sections.

[@s-c..]

@@cheesesteakphilly How did you like it? I’m curious to hear more about it.

[@ziimbo3957]

Flirting with the bartender: “you come here often?”

[@user10842]

😂

[@rpeshbhujade3974]

😂😂😂

[@Mr.DudeMan2872]

Bro, why.

[@claudizero6964]

I swear, if she’s that type of cool girl, she’ll laugh and that’s the spot where you want to be! Now order a se+ on the beach and she’ll be all yours 😏

[@mitsuracer87]

"You, come here often."

[@audreythorpe6962]

My fav question to ask when convo goes quiet is “how do u think chairs would work if our Knees bent backwards” I’ve had some wild convos from it

[@harambe8302]

That question is so random lol

[@fercam4792]

Lmaoo

[@rustyshackleford3917]

You’re a saint Audrey

[@tomjones6277]

Having read this comment yesterday and asked this question today I can confirm the results are legendary

[@edsonq.valencia1802]

Or something like "have you ever asked yourself if hippos think that rhinos are unicorns?"

[@nachocabo4221]

-So, how do you like Toronto? -I've never mentioned Toronto... - ... Why?

[@Bprimemod]

Underrated comment lmao

[@robertkruse6035]

only he spelled it toranto

[@koen6468]

Lol

[@Kevessi]

Lmao

[@haoyuanjin8280]

Why what? Erm… You remind me of Toronto…

[@willandrews8577]

I've never wanted to meet someone who's been to Toronto this much in my life.

[@_Sami__]

Why?

[@theinfernocyclone776]

Do you go there often?

[@starbreaker_zed]

Toranto

[@bethmw28]

My husband is from Toronto (sorry, Toranto)... we've been there several times together over the last nearly decade, I know his opinions about it very well... but is that going to stop me asking him how he finds toranto the next time he's quietly trying to watch something and I decide it counts as a silence? Hell nah, it'll make our relationship stronger I think 😂😂

[@stiffmiddlefingers]

"Are you from Toranto? WHY??"

[@clutch_zone72]

Awkward silence: Why and Toronto: I'm about to end this man's whole career

[@adr_x1114]

Lmao 💀

[@ezdor8877]

Why dpes this only have 66 likes. Lmaoo

[@santaclaus3077]

Hahahaha

[@n-3262]

I woke my sister up laughing at this😂😂😂

[@agathawiebe6339]

Bahahaha 😂😂😂

[@oppelo5981]

“Do you like Toronto?” “Yes” *awkward silence* “How do you like Toronto?” 😌 “It’s good.” *awkward silence*

[@fletchedfps]

Why

[@nil4897]

So much for an open-ended question lol

[@cartanfan-youtube]

That’s when you ask then what they like about it

[@roscoe4943]

Yes

[@mg-lb3tm]

i’m from toronto and i can confirm it is good

[@levince9315]

*The gods have given us this outstanding comment section.*

[@m.m7732]

Yess

[@ironforged2329]

More than we could ever wish for.

[@arzu3587]

So what's Ur story

[@yoiamparthu7887]

*Why?*

[@theonlygrizzy9769]

God tier comment section

[@oljenka88]

Most important thing imo - make yourself genuinely interested in the person. A lot of the conversation will just fall into place by itself instead of trying to come up with the next best thing to say 🙂 This helped me so much in life

[@Ramenko1]

this. ☝️

[@Ramenko1]

This! ☝️

[@tuananh1440]

Great advice

[@oljenka88]

@@tuananh1440 glad you found it useful 🙂

[@philippm8039]

This advice reminds me of Toronto.

[@Dr.Discombobulated]

One of the best feelings is when you're so close to someone that even the awkward silences aren't awkward anymore and you're just enjoying one another's company.

[@imusingmymomsandroid2375]

Bro I feel that.. I'd love my date to be just like me, to enjoy and embrace the silence, exchanging smiles and eye contact, that kinda something

[@user-dy1vf7lu3i]

Nice name

[@gameseeker6307]

🗿🗿 2 bros being bros in silent peace

[@ada5851]

It's so rare. If you meet someone that vibes with you like that never let them go, whether they're a lover or a friend.

[@callasan1681]

pulp fiction

[@Aubjordan]

“I had a good time yesterday at the party.” “So you had a good time yesterday?” “Um yeah like I just said... “Why?” “...Because I went to the party...”

so anyways, how do you like toronto?

[@AlexanderMacleod]

😂

[@novelle.27]

What’s your story?

[@animerequiem7041]

@Doggo 😂😂😂

[@laavanya2335]

😂😂😂😂

[@rainyclouds7631]

“you look like you would be great with kids“ “Oh actually not really“ “well I had the impression because you look like my mom“

[@rei-pq8vx]

"why?"

[@levince9315]

“toronto?!”

[@margaritagonzalezbenegas1040]

This reminds me of..

[@jajangmyeon0618]

HAHAHAHAHA

[@gabelheim]

Underrated comment lmao 😂

[@JetBlackJester]

I tried that complimentary cold read technique at a work event - "What do you like to do for fun" and "You look like you're pretty into fitness" after introducing myself. The woman (a complete stranger) thought I was flirting with her and I ended up in a disciplinary with HR for inappropriate behaviour. Be very careful who you use this advice with.

[@danny.ray101]

"It seems you were hitting on that female coworker. What are your thoughts?" "Don't worry, I have learned the lesson. So you all look like you enjoy eating a lot?"

[@JetBlackJester]

@@danny.ray101 Not really. I had been talking shop all day and was looking for common ground. If it hadn't been a networking event and I wasn't already supposed to chat to people I didn't know I might have seen it that way.

[@danny.ray101]

@@JetBlackJester Then it's even more ridiculous...

[@abodieqwerty4678]

Don't trust women.

[@theinacircleoftheancientpu492]

@JetBlackJester I think that talking about fitness to a woman brings up different connotations than if you talk about fitness to a man, quite simply because a man talking to a woman about her body is considered flirting or at least borderline usually, while guys are not as sensitive on the topic. That said, at a setting where people are supposed to interact, and given the information I am aware of, I feel like she could have cut you a little more slack and tried to guage your intentions before coming to a conclusion. In summary, I believe all parties involved could have done better, its just a little unfortunate that the learning experience for you was rather awkward.

[@sovereignty7897]

Me flirting in class - "So which school are you from?"

[@Kuza01]

Why?

[@mandystop1077]

@@Kuza01 Just Asking

[@AlexandruRadu96]

@@mandystop1077 how do you like Toronto?

[@advancedtheories1332]

@@AlexandruRadu96 Toronto? isn't that a city? that reminds me of where I'm from. which is kind of like a city but much smaller.

[@dragonicbladex7574]

@@AlexandruRadu96 yes

[@Judoka008]

Person: "So where are you from?" Me: "Why?" ..............*awkward silence* Me: "That reminds me of all the other awkward social interactions".

[@hansitorsnes5020]

Pure gold

[@RhinoGamin]

The funny thing is that could actually be a really hilarious conversation😂

[@amyh1755]

I'm screaming laughing at this

[@tuyuu2191]

@@Zgtsu 😂😂

[@DreamEaterMusic]

I laughed so fucking hard at this. You are a legend

[@ltv9784]

I tried to make my crush laugh by extra saying “Why” “Toronto” etc. But she just watched me awkwardly. Then I remembered that not everyone knows this comment section.

[@jenniperkins4260]

Hahaga

[@Sam-ih9pi]

@@jenniperkins4260 hahaga

[@lukesmith8896]

@@jenniperkins4260 hahaga

[@hazyhope._.]

@@jenniperkins4260 hahaga

[@someoneyoumayknow5637]

@@jenniperkins4260 hahaga

[@priskasama]

Welp, I watched 32 sec of the video and spend almost 1h on the comment section. Laughed so hard and found nice advices along the way 💀

[@saadanwar9559]

Me meeting my friend standing with his father Me:So how do you guys know each other?

[@xerx_is_bored]

dead😂😂

[@itspurelypassionate]

Saad Anwar 😂😂😂

[@frankievaldez6816]

I have done that one before

[@saadanwar9559]

@@frankievaldez6816 what was their resonse?😂

[@francescorotolo1947]

😂😂

[@socklips7655]

1. Maintain an unblinking stare 2. Randomly and substantially change the tone of your voice. 3. Respond to all of their responses with "As was foretold in the prophecy"

[@martinprince7773]

Socklips and then follow up with “Bring me the child!”

[@00wolfQUEEN]

I love you guys

[@willrogers9932]

@@martinprince7773 bonus points if you point to a pregnant lady

[@lunacyrus2274]

I’m so glad I had your advice

[@Ryan-rv5em]

LMFAOO

[@DanielVoyles]

"I see you have a big mouth, do you like to talk a lot?"

[@jared4575]

😂

[@xavierblitz5647]

Toronto?

[@topeque6993]

@@xavierblitz5647 Why

[@thebombspayloadisexposed]

@@topeque6993 that reminds me of...

[@2layIa]

Why?

[@bradnotbread]

3:11 Breathe deeply whilst maintaining eye contact and staying silent. Got it.

[@faithli2131]

There’ll start talking for sure. To 911 Cuz they think you’re psycho

[@1yoan3]

Especially if you got that Jeffrey Dahmer look lol

[@_username]

“The weather nice today huh?” "Thanks, you too"

[@mikolajk2372]

I’m dead 😂

[@jellymatsuryuka6853]

Well someone could be called Carl Weathers somewhere

[@jenniperkins4260]

Hahahaha

[@luchinazo]

y-you too

[@brookie_pooh]

Relatable

[@PatoValdes18]

me in an airplane: “so, where you going?”

[@shotgun_daddy-1089]

On a plane

[@panlis6243]

@@joaquin991 to Toronto?

[@flymb3358]

I did do that once actually

[@MrDoon-ez5qm]

somehow that's what I get ask all the time

[@vmillio7564]

Is this directed at someone or just a question out of nowhere hoping someone replies?

[@hamza3065]

Laughed my lungs out!! This comment section is on fire!!

[@ryoo1234]

why?

[@katiecook9774]

Ryo Hilmi how do you like Toronto?

[@user-ef5nd3ho3n]

ikr😂😂😂

[@robertremy9067]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Mohammad-Almemari]

😂😂

[@BokuWaLee]

Got recommended this video again after about 5 years and here's all the wisdom I have learned throughout the years by applying this knowledge at work and adult relationships: . . . -Why?

[@jobless5866]

Them: How old are you? Me: Toronto Them: That’s not an age Me: Why?

[@jonathanSpg]

That’s technically a conversation

[@jonathanSpg]

Why

[@jacobharris5894]

Lmao

[@laavanya2335]

😂😂😂

[@1minutequickvideos-169]

the perfect conversation killer doesn't exi

[@pkminpkmon]

Could you make a video on how to end conversations effectively without being rude? Especially if the other person is too chatty and can't understand regular cues that you need to leave for another matter?

[@pedrocaldeirajorge3624]

pkmaniac Just say something like "It was pleasure to meet you, but unfortunately I have to go". That's what I do.

[@atfkdi7940]

pkmaniac what I do and works fine, is to answer their last question, start leading the conversation and show interest in what the other person says, then without letting them say anything else I just say something like "so yeah that's what I think (or something like this depending on the situation), anyway it was nice talking to you, gotta go now". Basically, interrupt yourself to end the conversation, not the other person

[@user-ez5vq9fd2t]

Key to is start off the conversation with a disclaimers saying "I'm on my way to ____" or "I've got some work/something to do" to let them know that you could leave at any moment with good reason. Then, when you actually want to end the convo, interrupt yourself after you finish your thought and mention that you have to leave for ______ that you already mentioned at the start. It makes exiting the convo a lot less awkward.

[@mommaddie4316]

pkmaniac, just say "good bye"

[@fireburn95rs]

Yell "SHUT THE F UP" and punch him/her

[@yahdood6015]

[ awkward silence ] Me: [ sees glass of water ] “heh, reminds me of how humans need to stay hydrated”

[@Narstar100]

🤣 🤣 🤣

[@ivonunes3937]

lmao

[@jonaskragt3006]

Lolll

[@YungGrpeTurno369]

hahahahaha

[@SjonnyBB]

10/10

[@Wheredidigetthismuffin]

The more I see videos like this, the more I understand that I just have anxiety. I follow this script, I don't do anything incredibly weird. But my mind puts everything under a microscope. And sometimes I just got to accept that I just don't vibe with everyone. Some conversations just arent going to be great.

[@dylconnaway9976]

It's been 13 years. Did you find out where you got the muffin?

[@coollittlebinch4689]

So true, I used to deal with really bad social anxiety and like you I would second guess everything I said or did and felt disappointed when I didn’t vibe with someone or the convo was awkward (which was most of the time lol). Realising that you won’t get along with everybody, just because we’re all different, is so freeing.

[@alannothnagle]

The only thing I‘d add to this video is a statement that if none of these methods work, it‘s time to abandon the conversation and talk to someone else.

[@Volkbrecht]

I have learned to enjoy the awkwardness. If you don't feel like saying anything else, just smile, stare and notice the other person becoming uncomfortable. They'll leave you alone soon enough.

[@blacklarry998]

*me flirting at a funeral "So, do you come here often?"

[@nicktokar2459]

Who you trying to flirt with at a funeral?

[@blacklarry998]

@@nicktokar2459 the widow

[@Nexusstorie]

That funeral comment made cry bc my grandma died not to long ago and now im sad

[@kaysas9686]

@@Nexusstorie why? Did you flirt with someone there?

[@terrencesora1174]

@@Nexusstorie Why...

[@LegitSarchie]

Teacher: where’s your homework? Me: *takes deep breath whilst maintaining eye contact* Teacher: what are you doing? Me: so why did you decide to be a teacher? Teacher: excuse me? *awkward silence* Me: How do you like Toronto?

[@no-fc9tp]

teacher: asks for homework* student: “but why?

[@salmanallam2012]

AYEEEE sarchie is heree 😍🤣

[@mayarchithung4683]

RIP bro😂

[@ahegde1004]

Epic 👌🏻

[@LegitSarchie]

@@salmanallam2012 you watch the my videos?😂

[@Gigatless]

Me: How old are you? Her: 21 Me: *Why*

[@fiorenzacavallini6730]

lol

[@brianwalendy3735]

Because I drink the blood of babies, of course

[@nopeq7993]

Well, I was born at an early age and I've been alive ever since.

[@ragnasheen8950]

Her: Because I was born at a very young age.

[@ShadowZone1996]

Have a date in an hour. I’m using this as a pick-up line for sure dude lmao

[@LucianoBAF]

1. Open ended questions (how do you like ?) 2. Ask about their motivativations with a simple "Why?" (Why did you decide to get into ?) 3. When the conversation stalls, use revival questions: - "How you guys know one other?" - "What's your story?". The person might give options on what specifically, then you can read which option was mentioned in a more excited tone of voice - "What are your plans to the future?" 4. Complimentary cold read (you look like you are pretty into ) 5. In a cold silence, deep breath and keep easy eye contact. Alternatively, repeat the last words they've said

[@Prizm44]

Jesus Christ, does anyone else want to write yet another comment stating the exact same thing that was in the video?

[@xhvsh]

how do you like toronto?

[@igor_ostrovski]

​@@Prizm44this is called a resume so people remember what they watched. Maybe understand some people might appreciate it??

[@strim_gibbles]

@@igor_ostrovski So, why did you decide to get into lecturing people in the comments section?

[@igor_ostrovski]

@@strim_gibbles if pointing out the obvious is 'lecturing people' to you alr

[@rottencheeseballs2496]

Me: So what’s your story? Her: What do you mean by that? Me: ... Why? Her: *leaves* Me: sits to rewatch this video and take notes

[@pragyanatri7942]

Great!

[@LadiiBlues14]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@erfanfekri7156]

😂😂😂

[@amethystspeaker6919]

🤣🤣🤣

[@belieall9974]

practice makes perfect 👌🏻

[@alyssa3415]

me: what's your name? them: Emma me: why? them: me: so how do u like Toronto?

[@jaymike8611]

So all of them are named emma

[@marshayas3494]

Emma: why?

[@XORevolveOX]

Her*

[@사이버섹스]

that reminds me of Toronto

[@____-zk1iq]

Plot Twist: Emma has never even been to Toronto.

[@d.lastbreath2272]

We all lack social skills , don't we?

[@kblc7952]

D. Lastbreath no just had that a few hours ago.. damn that was the most awkward thing. long story short she turned me off with one sentence and then i had to change my sentence i wanted to say and then i left..

[@peterg9798]

@@kblc7952 thats what you get for being a oldhead

[@kblc7952]

Apree i’m 15 lmao

[@peterg9798]

@@kblc7952 you can be 15 and an oldhead tf

[@kblc7952]

Apree yeah aight u a oldhead too?

[@helved807]

I've come to learn a bit about this, and it took me a while to understand that it's not only me in a conversation that is struggling, it's both sides, (or in a group, all sides). This made me less worried about the responsibility of the conversation failing falling on me.

[@rohan1748]

Her : So do you like Toronto ? Me : Hey that's my line !! Her : Why? *Awkward Silence*

[@babayaga3064]

Man what a hilarious comment section, I wish I cud meet u all and make more jokes about this video, that would be epic! I'm so weak for good humour 😂😂

[@missingpatel7349]

@@babayaga3064 We are really doing okay in comments section but chances are it will be *severely awkward silence* if we meet in real life.

[@ungewohnlich510]

Uno reverse :D

[@IoannisFragiskos]

Underrated comment 😂

[@muhammadraza2766]

😂😂😂😂

[@jadacorrell1152]

I love everyone and everything in this comment section. I feel like we are all uniting across the world because of of our non interesting lives and social awkwardness:) its like a weird family.

[@johnifemezuo2641]

Yeah I agree with you

[@bingbib5505]

*Dom Toretto enter stage right*

[@vedantbhawnani907]

so.. how do you like Toronto

[@mhwlasagna811]

that reminds me of the time i didn't watch this video, why ?

[@tsdynamic9740]

Yeah homie

[@oblobbles]

A depressed person:"sometimes I just feel like this world would be better without me" .... Me: "so what are ur plans for the future?"

[@DeadeyeToya]

You know the word future reminds me of a state that is my destiny to behold my actions a period of time following the moment of speaking or writing; time regarded as still to come.

[@thinginground5179]

"I wanna kill myself" Me: "Toronto"

[@meowww7557]

why?

[@jimsclub8080]

Why would be better ;)

[@iiCounted2134]

damn that went dark quick lmfaoo

[@monaebreak561]

People who you can just be silent with are the best!!! ❤

[@dylconnaway9976]

....

[@Beaeaeaedsfdsfd]

....

[@bonkkus]

....

[@thetankinator]

...

[@tultiden2040]

‎

[@raffirahmansyah]

I'd like to believe a couple out there having a casual conversation. When they got to the silence part, they recalled this video vividly and knew every tip from it. It'd be so funny for them to start talking about Toronto or "that thing reminds me off" and slowly realise that they've both seen the video. From there on, they watched the video again together just to laugh their asses off reading the comment section.

[@jackmemphis777]

That might be the start of a long lasting relationship

[@faisalbaseit7547]

Let’s do it raffi, next month we both travel to Toronto? You in? If not.... why ?

[@Waterwolf221]

Very wholesome

[@petruzzi6268]

That's the start of a great relationship

[@jenniperkins4260]

Hahaha

[@anythingbutme6602]

Me: You look like you are really into food! Her: I'm pregnant. Me: ...Why?

[@FirstnameLastname-es1ko]

Anything Butme Who the hell says that in the first place?😂 “You look like you are really into food!”

[@xapokalypse]

@@FirstnameLastname-es1ko that's why they watch this video! 😂

[@aaliyahs.adventures.]

🤣🤣🤣

[@itzelneptune]

She allowed herself to get nasty

[@benderisgreat95able]

Seriously. Why? Smart people stopped having kids in 2008.

[@Zwervar_]

Barber: "So what do you do for work?" Me: "I'm a cashier, what about you?" *awkward silence*

[@d9095]

lmaoo

[@amirtamang4210]

😭😭😭

[@kristiteneqexhi5833]

Gold

[@panlis6243]

I actually did this once. Most akward 10 minutes of my life

[@FlikkieFloekieFlakkie]

omg yeah I've actually been there... ooff

[@justmechanicthings]

The open ended questioning was one of my key plays on first and second dates, along with asking what favourite and to elaborate on what makes it so

[@unacuentadeyoutube13]

- This place reminds me of my grandma's death. - Maybe that's because it's my mum's funeral. - How did she die? - I don't want to talk about it, please. - Ok. How did you meet each other? *Akward silence* - How's your mum doing?

[@penglu364]

🤣🤣

[@frossknight3209]

This one's underrated

[@kylewadley5031]

That sounds like something that Oversimplified would write for his videos😂

[@Lucas-gx8ic]

Ouch 😂

[@rhitoja1]

I'd love to like thus comment vut really dont wanna ruin the fine like counts 420

[@augustuscaesar5076]

Her: I had a fight with my sister Me: How do you two know one another? Her:..... She's my sister Me: *why?*

[@IsaiahReitanFilm]

Augustus Caesar her: because we’re related Me: because you’re related?

[@KingLoof]

@@IsaiahReitanFilm Me: Actually that reminds me of a friend who, just recently, got into a fight with her sister

[@hankiedave]

@@IsaiahReitanFilm Her: uh..yes Me: *_why?_*

[@user-dc4yr2ev5h]

Augustus Caesar Well her parents did the big f*ck twice.

[@AdmiralBonetoPick]

Her: Toronto

[@trevorwhiteboy2649]

PRO TIP: You can’t run out of things to say if you never initiate a conversation

[@harsha307]

The other person is just not interested

[@ultrablitz9673]

Me after reading this: kalm Me after someone else initiates a conversation: PANIK

[@igorbednarski8048]

Big brain stuff

[@ETn4606]

Fax

[@ashbash8716]

Catch this radio (This is a joke)

[@majadinicc]

seeing that this video has so many views makes me feel less alone. we just all have some problems with social skills but hey, nothing that we can't overcome

[@f.b.iagent3971]

Me, talking to my cousin at her mum’s funeral Me: this reminds me of that time my aunt died

[@bingbong5786]

John McKenvil r/woooooosh

[@Zangetsu_]

John McKenvil LMAO

[@fade2008]

@John McKenvil But you didn't give any signs that u understood. Sooo how do you like Toronto

[@MushisCow]

@@fade2008 *_Why?_*

[@fade2008]

@@MushisCow ummmm *_Nice weather, huh?_*

[@zacadoole1]

If someone asked me "so what's your story?" I'd break into a cold sweat

[@aligamiles]

why

[@loot3647]

@@aligamiles toronto

[@AvaRose06]

this reminds me of the time I got -cold- feet and ran out on my wedding. … so what’s Toronto like?

[@linasbubble]

@@loot3647 PAHAHAHA YALL LEAVE. IM CRYING

[@DinoWattz]

@@linasbubble why?

[@pasteltheunicorn3899]

“So...tell me a bit about yourself” My mom at the dinner table: “..what?” *pointing to vase on table*“This reminds me of a vase I have at home” “????”

[@omid1442]

Why?

[@TracyMing]

toronto

[@gregorbugri717]

😂😂😂

[@tofferooni4972]

I love these comments

[@TracyMing]

@@tofferooni4972 why?

[@brunotheexpert8230]

Teacher : Where is your homework ? Me: At home , and yours? Teacher : what? Me: why? Teacher : *confused* Me: So what do you do for living?

[@ashleyw5579]

Bruno The Expert thank you for making me actually lol 😂😂

[@ernarjandos1031]

Thats just “how to escape homework”

[@jeamychun]

This made me laugh 😂😂😂

[@swoop155]

Omg this was awesome hahahaha

[@user-sl1ry6op7m]

😂😂😂😂

[@spethmanjones2997]

Awkward silence with a single person “So how do you all know each oth-wait, damnit that’s not it...”

[@crusader2603]

Soooo true lmao

[@user-ef5nd3ho3n]

why

[@iamlame9631]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kylesykrebs]

This one cracked me up 😆

[@datmangotho9618]

*frantically pulls out flash cards and drops all of them*

[@deusvult3103]

Girl sitting alone on the bench. Me: Hi She: Hi Me: So how do you guys know each other ?

[@amirtamang4210]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@f.b.iagent3971]

That one was on you, if you had replied “why” then you guys would have had a better conversation

[@deusvult3103]

@@f.b.iagent3971 hahahah you are right FBI...I'm gonna remember it for the next time. Thank you ✌

[@rykterskamroyals2121]

😂😂😂

[@OldVids_]

*runs away*

[@deli_bread]

I just like to ask completely random questions out of the blue. I don't mean stuff like "Where'd you get your shirt from?" or something. I mean questions like "Is soup a drink?" or "Do you pour cereal or milk first?" since those types of questions usually lead to a debate, or just an interesting conversation. Also yes, both of those questions were food related. Food is always a good conversation topic, since most everyone enjoys food (or at least has an opinion on it). Some other good questions to ask are hypotheticals. I like these since they're pretty interesting, and if you run out of them it's really easy to just make one up. Ex: "Would you rather fight 10 5 year olds or 2 20 year olds?" or "Would you eat a gallon of mayonnaise for 10,000 dollars?" You can also elaborate on the question, or change it slightly depending on their answer, like instead of "Would you eat a gallon of mayonnaise for 10,000 dollars?" it'd be "Would you eat a gallon of mayonnaise for 3.5 dollars?" Sorry for the long comment, and thanks to anyone who read all the way through! Hoped this helped!

[@R9naldo]

How to get friendzoned in just one interaction

[@TheRatioMan]

@@R9naldoyeah 💀

[@hazelmint6671]

My cousin always asks us these kinds of questions lol! Its usually very crazy so we roll our eyes each time he starts with a 'would u rather...' 🤣🤣 Questions like, 'would u rather, marry/date a person who is shockingly ugly, (he also includes some kind of abnormality, like he has unstoppable diarrhea) but he has the best personality (factually) and loves u dearly , or would u rather marry someone who is impossibly gorgeous and rich but has the shittiest personality.. This is tame actually, compared to some of his other ones 😂🤣🤣

[@pinkroses135]

😂 love that approach! Not too personal yet allows someone to display their personality and go into other subjects.

[@martakeczek6476]

@@R9naldo Best-friendzoned. I immediately would know this is a person I wanna have long lasting friendship with!

[@Whydoothercomments]

Me: How old are you? Girl: 19 Me: when I was your age I was 21

[@vairiskovels]

why?

[@ReaSeBy]

Kovels because 19=10+9=9+10=21

[@oliverschaible3189]

69

[@whiskers8771]

XD Old memes

[@anouarzizine8272]

This situation is as confusing as king crimson's timeskip

[@Anny-me9ny]

“So how do you like Toronto?” “ I don’t” “Well that’s *N I c E*

[@MrMastermeier]

How do you like Toronto? Yes it’s Nice

[@davidkamski5286]

Annnddd we're back to square 1 lol

[@dee8163]

"i don't" "Is it the traffic or crowd? I've heard it can get crowded?" (I'm learning so much from this channel)

[@madmisskelly]

I always laugh and add "well at least you're honest!"

[@kblc7952]

*WHY?*

[@Ant-jt7ur]

friend: i got an A in my maths exam me:why?

[@Choo-choo-chookcha]

friend: i got an A in my maths exam you: So how do you like Toranto?

[@justinchoi6334]

Her: I hung out with my family and i really enjoyed it me: *getting comfortable with silence* me: so you enjoyed yourself?

[@jeffrenjr]

Friend: *I got an A in Maths* Me: *How do you guys know each other?*

[@AnnaMarianne]

Actually... that wouldn't be too bad a question. "How did you get an A?" That opens up lots of possibilities to start talking about studying, school, how he other one has felt in the past weeks, personal habits, things the other one is or isn't interested in, etc.

[@mrflippy3578]

This comment thread has me dying.

[@marcusfarrands9311]

short, ad straight to the point, no unessecary buildup or intro, love it

[@haironyourscreen4848]

Me: hi Her: hello Me: tell me your story Her: I was born in Switzerland... Me: so how do you like Toronto? Her: I said Switzerland Me: you said Switzerland? Her: yes Me: Why?

[@masud_1]

i thought there was a hair on my screen, Lol

[@moural1133]

@@masud_1 ibwas blowing it the whole time until i read ur comment😂

[@ananya1541]

I literally thought there was hair on my screen and was blowing on it the whole time until i saw your username lol

[@sarahB06]

oH lol I tHoUghT tHEre wAs A hAiR On mY ScReEN

[@therebelartisteofficial]

😂

[@aurilio5633]

Me: *Looks at flower* Also me: Woah, That flower reminds me of flowers.

[@panlis6243]

Why?

[@tania2299]

Bahahah

[@Josuh]

h o w d o y o u l i k e t o r o n t o ?

[@preciousoh705]

Does it look like it would be great with kids?

[@thefamoustoilet4632]

@@preciousoh705 LOL

[@piranhabones]

Me: So do you like Toronto? Her: Yes, actually, I went there last year, it's beautiful Me: How do you like Toronto? Her: ... I like the landscape I guess? Me: Why? Her: Why what? Me: That reminds me of that time when I went to Toronto

[@gutswithdrip879]

That’s not too bad

[@penglu364]

Lmfao love this

[@rickydiaz1983]

420 likes yessir

[@alishamedlock4904]

y'all gotta stop this 😭😂😂

[@brittneylphillips]

Lol

[@sunlight785]

Never pressed like buttons for so long continuously, I'm loving this comment section! Been wondering simultaneously, how can these hilarious peeps be watching this video?

[@kookiesjams595]

1. Say ‘this reminds me of..’ 2. Ask open ended questions. 3. Ask ‘why?’ 3. Use revival questions - like ‘How do you guys know each other?’ 5. Ask them about their future plans 6. Compliment them 7. Allow the other person to move the conversation by maintaining eye contact, or repeat the last words they said to encourage them to continue

[@afiqhalib7232]

Thank you,this reminds me about that radom guy who used to give these

[@not_jared9404]

Cool...So how do you like Toronto

[@ArrowMaster_]

Why?

[@lm-oi1ke]

8. Ask them where is point no. 4.

[@gamertardguardian1299]

What are your future plans?

[@saraha2927]

I’m an alien from another universe and this video really helped thank you

[@hindsight8522]

This video is a fake and doesn't accurately describe how homo sapiens sapiens operate.

[@Luisandre22526]

Facebook is not working zuckerberg

[@asxtro4100]

Same dude

[@godplayer5336]

Your comment made me laugh thanks haha

[@beigi8637]

not funny idk how 558 lunatics liked this comment. Feminists

[@smokeyretro4151]

Me: What’s up Her: Hi Me: Where are you from? Her: Wiscon.... Me: TORONTO?!...Perfect

[@Skeletone56]

With this, I was able to bring back a conversation with my grandparents at dinner. This was very helpful, thank you.

[@owfi]

(Unironically) So, how long have you known each other?

[@elladre137]

@@owfi I don't think he's gonna reply... Anyways, how do you like toranto?

[@gorillagains6735]

No joke I laughed so many times going through the comments. It shows some of us have great humor and personality but we just have social anxiety lol.

[@PR1NCETD0T]

Its easier to text what you think than it is to wittingly say it in person.

[@tebbiki]

You’re right, it does show that 😮

[@nilsdula7693]

Person: My son died last week! Me: You look like the type who would be great with kids.

[@Bossmanplayzzz]

🤣🤣🤣

[@thomashardacre]

Nah, better response "why?"

[@router9717]

Why?

[@superflea72]

lmao! 😃😃

[@mariocart98]

NO!

[@Isaiah-Hughes]

"Great weather today!" "Thanks, you too."

[@volcryndarkstar]

😂

[@ZrJiri]

Plot twist: You are at a convention for weather wizards. 😂

[@DrewHealey-dq8tv]

@@ZrJiri damn

[@ResetYourCard]

Idk why this is on my feed but for anyone that needed this video y’all just gotta go out and enjoy life. Don’t take things to serious joke around be funny be yourselves and quit worrying about the best thing to say in every situation just talk lmao. Love y’all god bless🙏

[@inseptus712]

It's extrovert propaganda! Extroverts trying to convince introverts that being themselves means being funny in conversation.

[@whim_tv]

"how do you like Toronto" "I've never been there" "why?" "because I live in another country" "this reminds me of the time I didn't have anything to say"

[@puthtikmony4071]

Haha😂

[@16ounceproductions]

💀💀💀

[@skie6282]

That reminds me that i live in a different country lol

[@robertkruse6035]

except he misspelled toranto

[@Noctifern]

Toranto lmao

[@iamatrashcan]

me: you look like you're into fitness. my cat: ...

[@Chillwave6]

Shane Dawson, seconds before tragedy

[@zzanatos2001]

Me: I'm into fitness. Her: Really? Me: Yeah - fitness whole pizza in my mouth.

[@laavanya2335]

😂😂😂

[@devanshudev4432]

The people battling with social awkwardness have definitely mastered being funny! Just look at this comment section.

[@ezgaming6886]

Devanshu Dev tru

[@SpyderK]

big facts

[@SuperMiley1994]

We only know how to be witty online lol

[@junoxii6181]

Why?

[@alan-hz1to]

That's wholesome

[@ChiChiDoesStuff]

As someone with Autism, I struggle with maintaining conversations and there’s tone of awkward silences. It’s mostly due to the only questions I can think of in the moment being closed ended ones. I’m starting a new job this week and I’m gonna try and use some of these tips to help me.

[@KindredBrujah]

I'd recommend gauging the tone of the comments section before implementing any of the suggestions from this video.

[@lukassaezalmendras4669]

Maybe try to practice the ability to rephrase close ended questions into open ended ones

[@airyballoon]

*at a bar* Me: you look like you come here often Her: What, I look like an alcoholic?? Me: what’s your story Her: I don’t have a drinking problem! Me: Tell me why

[@nelmae6026]

*Her, starts to get drunk and proceeds to loosen up:* ain't nothin but a heartache

[@ej_matthewsart]

@@nelmae6026 glad I wasn't the only person who though BSB lol

[@sarahgebhardt404]

🎵Ain't nothing but a heartache🎵

[@fiipknife3830]

@@sarahgebhardt404 TELL ME WHY

[@sarahgebhardt404]

@@fiipknife3830 ain't nothin' but a mistake

[@pikarizardcharikachu2573]

I can tell from this whole comment section that we are all introverts.

[@lilpogchamp4904]

😶

[@sauce-ke6202]

*Why* ?

[@coldrain4115]

Don't you mean toronto

[@pinkcherry9695]

so how was toronto?

[@Abdullah-hc7il]

So how do you guys know each other

[@Thepulpgulper]

Person: hello Me: *is awkwardly silent for 10 seconds* Me: why?

[@jigglypuff3941]

this is so me im gonna cry

[@justincaseyfeltersnatch6309]

Why?

[@sabes44]

Jake Hagin how do you like Toronto?

[@berkanozkan9454]

Dude 🤣🤣🤣

[@X-RayWolf]

@@sabes44 why?

[@samsularifin16161]

Awkward silence Me: the table reminds me of... Um, the tv reminds me of... Friend: don't force yourself Me: why?

[@SummerSwedish]

ahahah this made me laugh out loud

[@jeffrenjr]

priceless 😂👌🏽

[@bigj1350]

HAHAHAAHA

[@cleanuppros]

This made me laugh pretty good

[@abhinavjain2985]

😂😂

[@tobiasfilms8825]

Her: Yeah my last five years were pretty rough. I lived in Toronto with my now ex-husband but he was really abusive and manipulative. When we finally divorced he also took my precious children. I don't like to be reminded of that time because I'm trying to move on. Me: Her: Me: So what's your story? How do you like Toronto? I'm sure you'd be great with kids!😀

[@pinkcherry9695]

but why?

[@NameCJ]

underrated comment imo

[@justanidiot5592]

asking her "why" would be more hilarious

[@muhammadraza2766]

Very very underrated comment 😂😂😂😂😂

[@abhishekanshuwali3808]

😂😂😂

[@Rorshacked]

Love Charlie’s videos, but as someone who talks to others for a living (as a therapist) I’ve always been taught to ask “what” instead of “why”...so in the example in the video “why did you get into consulting” would be “what made you get into consulting?” Why questions feel interrogative, what questions feel more curious. Food for thought.

[@martinprince7773]

William Summers GET OUT OF MY HEAD 😜

[@joymunchkin4160]

So how do you like Toronto, you look like you’d be good with kids

[@chrisgriffin1010]

So what brings you to Toronto? Therapy stuff?

[@SerenaYip]

Exactly what I was thinking.

[@killemwifkindness]

True. All of the tips gradually sound like test questions you find in exams imo x') If I was put on the spot I would feel like being pressed to answer personal questions instead of sharing personal thoughts or experience

[@FlintSparkedStudios]

These types of videos crack me up. I feel like there’s some dude out in the world who has watched them all and now terrorizes society trying desperately to convince people he’s not a robot.

[@tetrabirac779]

My dad, who is really great at socializing, taught me one rule: Try asking your conversation partner questions about him/her. Not only will it lead to new conversation topics like they mentioned in the video, it also gives you time to think about how to follow up after they finish. As an introvert, this works greatly for me.

[@caramelese8520]

Till the person says I'm good you?

[@tetrabirac779]

@@caramelese8520 usually it does not continue like that, but if it does thennn bruh it's gonna be awkward silence again

[@jadenpina3989]

@@caramelese8520 after that talk about something that happened to you recently that might continue the conversation (in a good way obviously)

[@ahleenah]

Ohh I got the same tip! He even used it on me without me realizing and after I finished talking he said “see” Stuck with me since then and as a shy introvert, has helped me a lot

[@as8kay]

Please gimme some more tips like this I really die during a conversation have nothing to ask or say and the conversation ends right there with awkward silence from both sides

[@DragonPanda4]

I'm autistic and this will help me so much in social situations. Thank you so much.

[@nouta3226]

Timothy Crowther no it wont

[@tedchirvasiu]

Thank you so much... why?

[@brendanswords4659]

Kalecgos why?

[@chrisbartlett454]

Why wouldn't it? it's straightforward advice that generally works if you try it. Those saying 'no it wont' likely haven't even given it a second thought.

[@iqtidarrahman2148]

this is a confusing thread, are they referencing 'why' tactic or replying to Kalecgos?

[@jasiahhaia]

her: yeah i’ve been to toronto a few times me internally: finally someone who’s actually been there, ok don’t mess this up again. just say “how do you like toronto?” me externally: how do you why toronto. you seem good with kids. why? have plans any exciting for the fut- her: *frantically getting up to leave* me: evael t’nod esaelp !tiaw

[@nelsonsjourney9714]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@GHM1122]

U messed up the "wait" bro

[@rayyanhussain2080]

I laughed

[@pandapandaexpress6462]

OMG SUCH AN UNDERRATED COMMENT HAHAHAHAHFJWMJDKQKD

[@arasbg6482]

Best comment in the world so Far lol (I laughed so hard ty)

[@irfanbaig2547]

2:53 defiantly skipped leg day

[@rahishnamikaze1516]

Brain: don't worry guys Brain: I got a plan Brain: has left the game

[@jocksstar49]

So anyways... How do you like Toronto?!

[@youmakenosense7437]

Tahiti?

[@hello-----__]

@@youmakenosense7437 mangoes?

[@ВладиславБулаев-л3э]

"I have a plan... This is a good one".

[@namekiz3199]

*literally fall off a cliff

[@camillagalvez6948]

Bruh everyone, even the ones who used to carry the convos, are gonna need to re-learn social skills once we come back from quarantine.

[@sokipoki6185]

Why? 😂😂😂i kidding but really i must to rewatch at least once By the way, where are you from? Im from SouthEast Europe, Montengro country

[@cdc_pacochill3479]

@@sokipoki6185 so how are u liking Toronto

[@willrgamer791]

@@cdc_pacochill3479 it's great. You look like you would be good with kids

[@crazymangoz9583]

@@willrgamer791 why?

[@sosrslysydney168]

So how do you guys all know each other

[@plantiron]

*Me: So why become a nurse* ? *Her: That's none of your business* *Me: That's not what the video stated*

[@yazdanahmed7790]

Error: Command doesn't exists.

[@volume_02]

! Brain.exe has stop working !

[@kokonut3487]

LMFAOOOOIO

[@ChrrolloDI]

Honestly I'd ask if they're having a bad day or if something's wrong if I still want the conversation to go on at that point.

[@alessandro6574]

Leave that girl now dude

[@kyettterry]

Yall I'm fourteen and I just spent like four hours with my girlfriend saying almost nothing to her I needed this thank you

[@DrewHealey-dq8tv]

damn bro save some women for the rest of us

[@DrewHealey-dq8tv]

rizzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

[@JustGotRespawned]

Man.. Conversations are tough!

[@jovanamalobabic43]

jaha out nice nickname 😂

[@jovanamalobabic43]

jaha out 😂😂

[@verytere]

Mikkelwolf- You're telling me 😰

[@KingTut14]

esp with women..

[@lolotroll2]

so you're saying you think conversations are tough?

[@OllyOutdoors10]

Crush: So weird weather we're having huh? Me: Thanks, So how do you like Toronto? Crush: Wait what? Me: ..... That reminds me, You look like you'd be great with kids. Crush: Erm, Ok? Me: So, weird weather we're having huh? Crush: Yeh I guess... Me: Why? Crush: I'm confused Me: ... Crush: ... Me: So how do you like Toronto

[@romansongen6284]

Oblivion conversations in a nutshell^^

[@DolphinPain]

It feels so good to know I'm not the only one like this.

[@Daniel-rw2gy]

Muzammil Abubakr IM proud of u

[@JODECIFEENIN]

this guy is funny😂

[@lostinsauce4515]

@Muzammil Abubakr *bold of you. Proud doesn't make sense in that sentence.