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@IyokuUnlimited3 жыл бұрын
If you’re undecided on whether charisma is a learnable skill, go watch any KZbinr with a highly energetic or captivating persona that’s been doing their thing for several years and compare how they are now to where they were at the start; even those that began with an advantage usually find a way to improve, consciously or unconsciously, which totally disproves the idea of it being a God-given ability you either have or you don’t. Immersion and repetition is key, be actively working on yourself until it becomes a natural part of your identity.
@alexanderlyon3 жыл бұрын
I'm not undecided. I said in the video that it's learnable and it's not an either *_you have it or you don't_* quality. Both the "born with it" and "it can be learned" schools of thought can be true at the same time. The same could be said for musicians (or any talent). Some people are born with an innate musical ability but others can practice and learn and be just as good. But, I think where we may see things differently is that just because *_some_* people can learn it, that does not mean that other people aren't born with it. Learnability doesn't disprove the natural gifts of others. I don't think you're saying that but I just wanted to be clear. And, of course, like you said, people born with an advantage can cultivate it further. It sounds like we may ultimately be saying the same thing. I give most of my view on this toward the very end of the video.
@worldofameiso54912 жыл бұрын
I don't agree that Princess Diana could be categorised as a 'leader; of any kind. She spent most of her life being led by others.
@Talgi9nv Жыл бұрын
She still had a huge loyal following and significant influence, given her natural charisma
@whaleplays90343 жыл бұрын
Good job 😀
@alexanderlyon3 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😁
@MasterTalks3 жыл бұрын
Alex is doing such an incredible job, proud!!!!
@BostonSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Almost at 100K!
@alexanderlyon3 жыл бұрын
Almost. I hope it does somehow crash before then! Ha.
@noorfaraz18433 жыл бұрын
👍
@novruzyusifov19922 жыл бұрын
Hello sir. How can I get Conger and Kanungo's "Bahavioral dimensions of Charismatic Leadership" book?
@alexanderlyon2 жыл бұрын
I don't own that book but I'm guessing it's available for purchase online through Amazon or another book seller. It's possible college libraries also have it available.
@anjaliekunwar3 жыл бұрын
i am a mass media student and find these videos sooo helpful! your voice is super soothing too. love this channel. god bless you ❤
@alexanderlyon3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words, Anjali. I'm glad the videos are helpful.
@anjaliekunwar3 жыл бұрын
@@alexanderlyon oh my god you took my name!! you're an inspiration! you don't know what this means to me! lots of love 💕
@MasterTalks3 жыл бұрын
Almost there Alex, final push!!!!
@alexanderlyon3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Brenden. I appreciate your encouragement.
@zoemaria36486 ай бұрын
Totally moot, but just wanted to say your video gave me unintentional ASMR xx
@aditighosh49263 жыл бұрын
Hi Alex, love your communication videos. Do you have any online communication courses? I would love to improve my communication skills.
@alexanderlyon3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I do. There are links to classes in the description below the video. Some classes are free.
@cherryyaki2248 Жыл бұрын
About your last point on playing the part of a charasmatic leader and still being unsuccessful, I think that has a lot to do with the increase in how much authenticity is valued and how easily most of us can see through someone faking the funk nowadays.
@yoloswag62422 жыл бұрын
In my opinion, Steve Jobs is one of the most charismatic people ever. His attitude is embodied in the Apple products ie iPhone, iPod, Mac. Very curious and playful but proper.
@SuperJamalShah3 жыл бұрын
Very useful stuff. God bless!
@MasterTalks3 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more, Alex is doing such a great job!
@alexanderlyon3 жыл бұрын
Man, you're too kind.
@senecaaurelius181111 ай бұрын
6:36 right here, this is the reason why this society is in. Well, maybe not the entire reason, but you hit the nail on the head with this point. Basically, it used to be called hypocrisy, or being a flake, but now we have more politically correct term for us.
@RelishWebPlugs2 жыл бұрын
Clearly, Max Weber not only defined charisma, he also had loads of it himself, continuing to influence people from the other side of the grave (given he died in 1920 and you quote him from 1922). Spooky...
@hillary6943 жыл бұрын
I liked that you spoke to both the positives and negatives. I look forward to your next video! :)
@alexanderlyon3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that! Next week's video will be a reaction video that looks at an _Ashton Kutcher_ award acceptance speech. I was super impressed.
@amanpreetkaur98013 жыл бұрын
Ur videos are very helpful .thanku so much for posting these kind of videos
@alexanderlyon3 жыл бұрын
So nice of you. Thank you. I'm glad they are helpful.
@anthonyrossmaund31613 жыл бұрын
I think Im gonna learn right now to be a leader.
@alexanderlyon3 жыл бұрын
You can do it! These are learnable skills.
@peterkhanbanypieny91792 жыл бұрын
Please, if possible increase the the numbers of the videos that you have sent,please send all leaderships visionaries not merely visions,therefore make sure that it will not be just watching the videos, but to have identification tomorrow that will show your mercy as a world's most visionaries. God bless.
@penumbra68743 жыл бұрын
Just wait for me and I will be with those examples...give me 18 years
@kainoamelendez88773 жыл бұрын
Um magical powers? If you teach charisma then why are you so boring?
@landenbasinger18512 жыл бұрын
the love child of Ewan mcgregor, and mike birbiglia.
@e.k1933 жыл бұрын
You named nobodies as charismatic leaders. Not an Alexander, not a Napoleon, not a JFK, not an FDR but movie actors. What a joke.
@alexanderlyon3 жыл бұрын
The people you mention might be good examples of charismatic leaders. I'll give you that. But, it sounds like you only watched the beginning because I do specifically mention JFK and quote him (though you say I didn't mention him). I bring up Martin Luther King Jr., Gandhi, Hitler, Charles Manson, Osama Bin Laden, etc. These are far from "nobodies." I only mentioned *_one_* actor-only example, Will Smith. I did also mention Arnold Schwarzenegger but he was also the two-time governor of California and is widely regarded as charismatic and far from a "nobody". And, as the title says, this video is about *_ charismatic leadership theory_* . It's meant to explain the theory. I never say anywhere that I'll be doing a profile of the top historical figures who were charismatic leaders. I used some examples to illustrate the concepts but this is a video about a theory.
@jbcrazy3 жыл бұрын
I work in a plant where the manager has the position of authority, but almost zero management and people skills. It is difficult to be positive and productive when goals and details are so poorly shared. I don't think charisma would be very helpful, so the development of some basic management and communication style is perhaps even more vital.
@alexanderlyon3 жыл бұрын
Great example. Charisma is often not going to help if fundamental skills are missing.
@bikingscape5952 жыл бұрын
Love that you brought in WTC! In my research as well (in language acquisition), this is a huge predictor of linguistic success, especially for students who are abroad. Thanks for another great video!
@alexanderlyon2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you noticed WTC. To me, that's the easiest way for people to start developing their leadership and coming across as almost instantly more charismatic. They just have to put themselves out there more, speak up a bit more, and start engaging others.
@EpicMRPancake3 жыл бұрын
Would love a Christopher Hitchens breakdown, such a unique speaker. For research I would recommend his Intelligence Squared debate on the Catholic Church alongside Stephen Fry.
@alexanderlyon3 жыл бұрын
He has come to mind. We'll see. I think I may shy away from debate-type formats. I'm more drawn to inspirational and uplifting messages. I have watched a handful of videos from Hitchens, however. I don't agree with his atheistic position. I'm a serious Christian. But, there's no doubt that he's an extremely sharp thinker and skilled speaker. Either way, you've given me something to think about. Thanks for the suggestion.
@EpicMRPancake3 жыл бұрын
@@alexanderlyon Yeah any video will do really, the great thing about Hitch is that he was diverse.
@kforest27453 жыл бұрын
Any leader seeking attention is not a leader that’s a distraction that monopolizes time and attention.
@alexanderlyon3 жыл бұрын
Good point. When a leader makes it all about them, that's a really bad sign.
@theschoolofbodylanguage Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@redhway7538 Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@husbandwife29702 жыл бұрын
I am here when I see Osama bin laden in thumbnail 😂
@alexanderlyon2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, true. And Hitler and Charles Manson too. I address that issue in the video, charisma (as it is define in the video) does not mean good. Many charismatic leaders in history have led their followers down the wrong path.
@geoffrygifari33772 жыл бұрын
What comes to my mind when charisma is mentioned is its relationship to extraversion. Will smith appears to revel in the spotlight, being the center of attention and surrounded by admirers. In this video you mention Elon musk, who's nothing like that, talking more thoughtfully with frequent pauses, not looking as cheered up. Maybe extroverts and introverts can be both a charismatic leader?
@alexanderlyon2 жыл бұрын
Yes, that's true. Personal style varies widely.
@derpynerdy62942 жыл бұрын
depends if they attarct the same people for example elon uses memes to gain more popularity he knows the studf
@abnerenriquez37373 жыл бұрын
Alex, what do you think about asking others how they're doing? I've always felt awkward about both asking and aswering this question, except when I have a close enough relationship with the other person. The question is almost always asked loosely and answered dishonestly, with a quick "I'm good."
@alexanderlyon3 жыл бұрын
Hi Abner. Yes, I'm 100% in support of asking people questions. It shows an interest in other people, it gets them talking, it helps us practice our listening skills. They are old videos now but I have a whole bunch about how to ask good questions, how to have a dialogue vs a monologue, and a few videos on listening skills that all talk about the kinds of questions we can ask to spark an interesting conversation. Research (and practical experience) shows that making small talk and asking good questions with new people (and existing friends) lays down an important connection and foundation for the relationship. As far as answering dishonestly, that's not so much an issue about the question but our own mindset and approach to conversations.