Chatting with a Transgender Man

[@Joel-Haver]

It’s so funny that the Chatting With series has always been about empathy, you’ve had criminals and people from all walks on here, and yet this is where some commenters draw the line. People really need to get out of their information bubbles and think for themselves and more than anything enjoy life. The misery of hate is alluring to those who have yet to welcome an alternative. Thank you Andrew and Ernie! You’re the best!

[@BigDeepz]

Joel!! Couldn't agree with you more, man. Pleasure to see you here :)

[@PeepsThatDoStuff]

Joel swooping in with a based take 😎 good man

[@SweetenedCondensedMilk]

what do you think about the detrans movement and how people in the trans information bubble treats them? you've made a nice comment but there is only one accepted conclusion.

[@Tyler-hk4wo]

@@SweetenedCondensedMilk around 1% of people detransition as you put it. That's an incredibly successful medical intervention. Around 1/3 of people regret getting knee replacement surgery for instance. Also the majority of people who detransition who give reasons behind the fact that they detransitioned in studies on the subject, have stated that the reason they did was because they lost their entire social circle, religious groups, and were ostracized in their work environment. It wasn't that the majority of that 1% weren't happy having transitioned, it was how society treated them that caused them to detransition. You can do the research yourself. There are legitimate cases of people who shouldn't have transitioned to begin with as you stated. It just means we haven't completely understood the subject. What we do know is that transitioning has proven to reduce suicidal ideation in those with gender dysphoria. That's where the scientists and researchers are going with the subject. That's where the science so far has led to.

[@MrBaumGeo]

@@SweetenedCondensedMilk you are spreading misinformation?

[@PaulaBird-kr7nk]

Thank you Andrew for interviewing my Amazing Son Ernest 👏 ❤ As his Mum that gave birth to him 26 years ago, my midwife who delivered Ernest said...Congratulations you have a Boy! Obviously my little boy was a little baby girl. Took my one and only beautiful child home, low and behold, all my gorgeous baby just wanted to play with hilarious boy stuff, hated dresses, pig tails, dolls ect there were super funny times trying to dress in the mornings for school, " I want to wear shorts Mammy" Today, I'm the Proudest Mammy in the world, yes I had a baby girl, now I have an amazing Son that makes me proud and happy every frigging day. Love health and happiness to all reading this ❤

[@rosaleendyer5629]

Thank you Ernie, for being so candid, eloquent and honest, you are so inspirational, I’m so proud of you and your mum 😂 ( I’m biased she my friend 😂) , but you have great confidence and presence, and you bring people with you. I remember you teaching Darragh Mindcraft I think he was 7 , he got quite obsessed with it 😂 and was really good 👍 thanks to teacher. 🤗🤗 you’re great 👍 x

[@jameson4844]

Your baby “girl” is sick in the head and you’re a crappy parent

[@engineeredtruths8935]

Bullshit about the midwife 😂

[@StackBrains]

​​@@kabutoyakushi6618 Your life must be so miserable 😂 let me guess, you lost a lot of friends? Or you never had a lot to begin with? There is a reason why people leave you and, with that mentality, you'd be an awful parent. Please, just drop it, do a couple of therapy sessions, ground yourself in reality and stop believing in the right propaganda. Nothing justifies saying such a thing to somebody else's mother. It's not your business and I don't think your mother wanted to raise you like this in the first place. If I were a father I'd be extremely disappointed in knowing my son is spending his time trying to hurt other parents feeling on the internet, blaming them for their son having a condition millions of people have. Do better, be better, please.

[@iGotSpaceLikeNASA]

@@kabutoyakushi6618Dude, just focus your energy on enjoying your own life rather than being so concerned about how others live theirs? You’ll be a lot less bitter, best wishes.

[@mackerouac9658]

Thanks for sharing with us Ernie. Really glad to hear this interview.

[@daledecker]

Man this was so good. Ernie seems wise beyond his years. Very vulnerable and insightful. Love it.

[@kathyconnell1400]

RAW. BEAUTIFUL. Thanks Ernie. ❤

[@rossjam123]

Ernie is the best. This was a great conversation!

[@hchchc948]

Cool of you to do this. I think a lot of people have hateful opinions of trans people because they just don't understand it. It doesn't help that there aren't a lot of ways to discuss this sort of thing in a civilized way. So this is a really helpful thing to share. Of course, the hateful bigots will never take the time to expand their perspective, but I hope they do. To any one who is transphobic/hateful/bigoted reading this, I get why you don't understand, it's definitely confusing and I get it. But a lot of people have this experience. It's not invalid, clearly, since so many people experience it. So why don't you please try to just listen to these people, instead of trying to decide for yourself the worth of another human being.

[@leonkennedy3398]

@@hchchc948 believing in biology isn't being hateful. It's OK to disagree without hating

[@hchchc948]

@@leonkennedy3398 well there are millions of trans people who are actively experiencing something different. So maybe you have more to learn. Maybe if you simply googled the definition of "gender" you would see it's more than biology. Like, it's literally in the Oxford English definition of "gender" that it expands beyond the confines of biology. I know it's a newer concept to society as a whole, and I thought it was silly when I first heard it. so again, I get why you don't understand, but that doesn't mean you're right and that you can't grow and learn as a human about the human experience.

[@Camarilla0]

Don't try to talk down to us normal humans who understand the nuance of the situation as if you have some sort of higher understanding and intelligence, long story short, these people are taught to put way too much stock in gender stereotypes to the point that they think they need to change their physical bodies if they don't fit in with what's expecting from their gender, born in the wrong body doesn't exist, I've literally seen parents say they have a 4 year old boy who plays with barbies and likes dresses so they instantly go, okay this is a girl and they go down this long weird path of turning their boy into a girl rather than understanding that a kid doesn't understand gender stereotypes at all and is just being a kid, I played with barbies when I was a young boy and now I'm a big muscly construction worker who's happily married to a woman. A LOT of women had the tomboy phase where they would climb trees and cut their hair short and hang with the boys and then they grow out of it and have a family when they're older, if it happens nowadays they are manipulated into doing irreversible harm to their bodies before they understand the repercussions of such decisions and then end up being miserable when they find out they were sold a lie and now the life they could have had is impossible. I'm all for people being themselves and being happy, but this is not the way, you don't need to alter yourself physically to be allowed to express yourself. Especially I'm against when this is happening to kids, it's heartbreaking and it makes me so angry that people like you are too caught up chasing virtue that you are completely blinded to common sense and logic.

[@leonkennedy3398]

@hchchc948 ok nothing you just said has anything to do with my comment. I said disagreeing doesn't mean you have trans hate. So no need to accuse people of hate when they just simply disagree with them.

[@Buffalosabskis]

​@@leonkennedy3398I believe psychology comes from biology in a neurological way. If a person has an eating disorder caused by body dismorphia making them feel they are over weight under 100lbs it is generally a mix of treatments that can be successful depending on the individual, but it is very difficult to treat. It has been shown that the best treatment for a person that does not feel comfortable in their own body is to be able to make the changes they want to feel most comfortable while still being healthy

[@barbh1]

It's a new concept for some of us that people born appearing to be one gender, are actually another gender. I watched tons of videos with trans people and began to understand. Thank you for adding to my understanding.

[@ExecutionMods]

If the comments and dislikes don't say something about the world's view of trans people, idk what does. Folks rejected gay people, black people, immigrants, etc. Eventually the general population came to the consensus that that was wrong. But here we are again with just another group of people...

[@superego8405]

@@ExecutionMods reject modernity embrace traditionalism.

[@juiceaddictbosnia]

@@superego8405 reject traditionalism embrace single-cell organic life

[@leonkennedy3398]

Except gay, black, etc isn't denying biology and asking you to believe in someone else's delusion

[@KS-lx7ng]

Dislikes have been gone for years

[@destroyerofturtles5024]

@@KS-lx7ng you can still view dislikes using certain programs

[@cookieintheinternet]

So sad seeing all the hateful comments. Really cool of you to do this chatting with! I've been following your channel for years (since before I transitioned) so it's nice to know you're accepting and willing to actually understand transgender people and actually talk to them. So much of this hate comes from ignorance and it's much harder to hate when you get to meet and know a trans person as a person. We're just trying to live while trans

[@sharinawatkins6739]

if you’re defining “hate” as anything that questions the logic involved here, so be it. call it ignorance if you must. but that type of “hate” comes from people who have understanding, but simply dont agree rationally. this video helped me understand further how brainless this movement is.

[@Camarilla0]

@@sharinawatkins6739 the whole movement is a representation of how much stock society puts into gender stereotypes to the point where people are okay with doing actual physical harm to their own bodies to try and chase the impossible, and the fact that society puts it on a pedestal, romanticizes it and sells it to children is really really messed up. We should teach people they are allowed to express themselves and like what they like regardless of what they are and that they don't need to harmfully alter their bodies to fit in, nobody is born in the wrong body.

[@DoubleStrike-ye6tw]

​@sharinawatkins6739 Sorry, denying a person's identity while hiding under the thin veil of ignorance is cowardice. One side wants trans people to have human rights, and the other side does not. Trying to paint this as anything else just showcases how spineless you are.

[@jeffspaulding43]

I'm always surprised when I find out there's yet another english accent that i don't recognize.

[@1in7.8b]

That’s a mix of a English accent and autistic speech impediment

[@bertlikewhoa]

That’s not an English accent, they’ve just picked up a US twang likely from media interaction. Low key cringe but I’ll allow it

[@petson253]

​@@bertlikewhoa:o

[@dylan74837]

@@bertlikewhoahe’s actually irish lol but he has lived in the USA before.

[@Drenwickification]

@@bertlikewhoayeah was gonna say. I’m British and that’s not an accent from anywhere in the uk. Sounds a bit New York or something to me. Definitely more American than British anyway to me as a British person.

[@EternalLife91]

Hi Andrew, what are some of your favorite videogames?

[@Itsfilthyy]

💀

[@tcuisix]

Good convo. Glad to see more chatting with

[@monikerone3203]

Some of the people in the comments are absolute dicks. You will never understand something you haven’t experienced, so try to open your mind a bit.

[@bang3528]

IMO this Ernie dude is such a great spokesman for the trans community. Completely down-to-earth, open to talk, not too sensitive and just seems like a normal, cool person. It seems like a lot of trans figures on the internet can be very defensive/sensitive (I am sure for good reason) and can often be really loud/intense/in-your-face. Not always (and thats fine anyway - each to their own), but sometimes they come across as quite unstable. But I think Ernie does a really good job - is a good example of a down-to-earth, happy member of society, without being combative or preachy. Looks like a straight up dude too - you'd never know he's had to change. He's lucky, sometimes its really obvious and that'd make life super hard I would imagine.

[@artrabum]

Solid interview.

[@shrewdobject3220]

let’s gooooo we love ernie

[@olfrud]

Great conversation!

[@marlenarose]

Shame that much of Andrew's audience is so unaccepting of a man just simply living his life, in his lane, not hurting anybody. Queerness is beautiful and courageous, and I hope this guy knows he has people who love and support him! ❤️

[@generalmikalie2739]

It is naive of you to think that one’s actions not directly affecting anyone would not undirectly affect people around them.

[@Camarilla0]

no penis = not man , this is literally the most basic things in reality, she should have been taught to feel comfortable expressing herself as a girl who likes things that are deemed masculine, it's a fact that these "treatments" do harm, anyone with a brain knows this

[@ExecutionMods]

​@@generalmikalie2739 you thought you said something profound but really just said nothing

[@Gadfly333]

She is unaccepting of herself as a butch lesbian.. it’s sad, she has now made now made herself infertile and will be in bad health…. Because of what!? Because of a search she made on the INTERNET… She will regret this…

[@Videosuser]

@@generalmikalie2739 Could you give us examples of what you're saying?

[@alexbielovich]

This was educational, wish Ernie all the best

[@devonh.8613]

Im glad you did this video, helps people like me who aren't the most informed in this area. Great conversation!

[@FjompanBullebang]

We love ernie!!!!❤❤❤

[@TrippedGrace]

Hello my friend! Just here to show an amazing and resilient human being love and support through the chaos and darkness the world and internet loves to display. Continue living your true and amazing life as always ❤🏳️‍⚧️

[@dgtooth]

ernie is one of my favourite creators on tiktok!

[@rossjam123]

Lots of scared people in the comments. What sad, pathetic little lives. Why not focus your anger on the wealthy who are destroying this planet for greed.

[@shadowByte99]

Glad for the perspective. ❤️

[@Pancakesaredelicous]

Thank you for sharing this, we love you Ernie ❤

[@andrewlobsinger]

we love ernie ❤❤❤

[@MrYikes-dk2mb]

Aye, much respect bro!

[@tutuzicoco]

Half of these comments are so sad. In the future, everybody commenting transphobic shit will be just like the grandparents that most kids are ashamed.

[@jabuticaba2000]

the most fun ones? aaaaight

[@boojoogoo]

@@jabuticaba2000 Nope they are the bitter annoying ones that get thrown in retirement homes lmao

[@jabuticaba2000]

@@boojoogoo u clearly not fun. doubt u managed to lyao

[@dilliondantin]

Maybe let's not abuse "phobic" terms. Because disagreeing is not being fearful or hateful. You can live and let live and wish for their happiness and success while still disagreeing with big picture things

[@asteiner274]

​@@jabuticaba2000 Most kids are ashamed of their grandparents?

[@apompel4894]

Fucking cracked up when Andrew told him he's asking a lot of dumb questions hahahah. I love this dude so much😂😂

[@kevinfager.]

Love these open honest real talks. People need to be educated. Can’t believe he finds it difficult to make friends with other men. Well. Actually, I can, bc I’m a straight cis male and I find it difficult. But there are cool dudes out there too as Andrew tried to convey. But yes, not as common and def depends on location.

[@peppermintbutler8901]

Thank you for sharing Ernie ❤

[@Hollschoselife]

Love love love Ernie ❤ such a inspiration.

[@tylermaddux5209]

Nothing but support !

[@princeofb7383]

Big love for this ❤️

[@dylan74837]

i love ernie so much ❤❤ one of my biggest inspirations ❤

[@dylan74837]

@@kabutoyakushi6618 liking ur own comment is sad af too but we move babe

[@joehuiras4955]

Good for you Andrew!

[@catharinazaschke]

Thats a really nice video :) I think this is really helpful for anybody thats interested in this subject or is a trans person themself ❤️

[@laurarice6381]

Thank you for sharing!

[@lawrence2992]

How do you internally differentiate between a transgender F-M and a Tomboy who expresses and conforms to gender roles associated with boyhood?

[@xboneyt485]

Shhhh don't bring logic to this conversation you bigot!!!!

[@SuperAwesomeElliot]

You just did it.

[@lawrence2992]

@@SuperAwesomeElliot Not really. Everyone tells me that gender is a social construct. Therefore, in virtue of transgender male having fully aligned themselves with the cultural identity of masculinity, a transgender male is actually a male. But this is what Tomboys do. There’s masculine girls and feminine boys-so why aren’t they transgenders under that definition?

[@hass9510]

​ @lawrence2992 Shh don't question those things with logic. The same people who say gender is a social construct are the same ones getting surgeries and changing their hormones to biologically align with the gender they say is made up.

[@jonmilly]

⁠@@lawrence2992tomboys and feminine men don't have a issue with their biological sex unlike people who feel trans.

[@TheSmashysmashy]

You rock Ernie!

[@Profweetnietkunde]

Here to spread the the good vibes

[@zaidsuhaib2201]

keep going andrew we love u

[@27834-c]

We love you Ernie!

[@Chrisssssssssssssssssss]

This comment section is painful to read 😆 Can't believe so many bigots are watching LAHWF videos. Expected better of this audience.

[@ribbrascal]

We search this insanity 😊

[@sharinawatkins6739]

equally as painful to watch many encourage and enable a harmful mental illness.

[@Marco18111]

​@@ribbrascal find a hobby or go to therapy🙏🏻

[@princellacuthbertson7490]

I love you erine you’re the best🫶🏽

[@sidharthachauhan4830]

Ernie is School.

[@matthewadam5926]

Love you Ernie ❤

[@HRM.H]

Cant wait for the comments 😂

[@MrBaye]

Grow up

[@Camarilla0]

@@MrBaye no you

[@mshoney9301]

🤓

[@bsnf-5]

I'll tell you what, become the change you wanna see in the world. Ignore the bigots, they will always be here

[@ESTalesTyrone]

@@bsnf-5 bigots! Oh no what ever shall we do? 🫣

[@TenthSgtSnipes]

Don’t worry about the hate Ernie, you got supporters! The hate is always louder but the love never leaves

[@naoussaeijsink7602]

Action man for the win

[@noodlery7034]

The father is always not in the picture with lgbt people. No hate just pointing that out

[@iuel42]

Interesting, do you have actual statistics proving this? Or is your source "trust me bro"? "no hate" my ass lmao

[@carsonhunt4642]

@@iuel42 The stats show that lgb parents’ kids also end up lgb majority of the time along with other issues. Let’s not pretend it’s normal when much data shows otherwise.

[@iuel42]

@@carsonhunt4642 show us the data buddy

[@Ruebzzz]

@@noodlery7034 not true me and my dad are close

[@MoriMortem]

My father and I are incredibly close and I am a genderqueer lesbian so that certainly isn’t true 💀

[@dzim8822]

7:23 If he is only injecting test once a month, he's going to have a giant, supra physiological dose of test, the equivalent of a steroid cycle, on the day of injection, then a super low level of test in the fourth week after injection. He should consider injecting smaller amounts on a more frequent basis. For example, a minimum of once a week. The male body naturally produces only a small amount of test each day.

[@netalivo]

That is incorrect. The injection is a depot into the muscle and the testosterone enters the blood stream gradually over the month. Don't you think doctors thought about this?

[@FaunoDufaux]

The conflict he experiences upon hearing that he "doesn't look trans" stems from the conflict of the ideology- being that gender should not have "specific looks", yet simultaneously holding the view that he wants to look as males typically look.

[@veronicawazhere]

What a wholesome chatting with ❤❤

[@paparadeliko]

Delusional

[@JKSmith-qs2ii]

Hearing the talk about the different medication possible for ‘transitioning’ makes me wonder if the medical field has pushed the idea of ‘transitioning’ in order to finance the medical sector.

[@hchchc948]

Not everything is a conspiracy. Jesus christ.

[@carsonhunt4642]

@@hchchc948correct, it’s always about the money ;)

[@Yacapo2]

Except medicine isn't for profit in most other countries and their data agrees that affirmation is the way to go medically. You can transition socially and be accepted by society without any medical interventions and we know this too be medically true.

[@ESTalesTyrone]

@@JKSmith-qs2ii obviously they have done this they even pay for soldiers to go trans 💀

[@phanaticz]

​@@ESTalesTyroneWhat BS conspiracy theory is this? Jfc.

[@rhiannon1122]

I absolutely love Ernie, he is amazing and seems to be a great person!!

[@lemonjuicer2171]

fuck yeah ernie we love u

I wonder what would happen if there were no way to medically change things?

[@Nathanizbeast]

There was a Roman Emperor that was trans so it’s something has has been going on way before surgery was even a thought

[@snakesonn]

@@Nathanizbeastlol that’s hilarious 😂😂

[@ESTalesTyrone]

@@Nathanizbeast that’s crazy you were there bro?

[@Nathanizbeast]

@@ESTalesTyrone by your logic Jesus wasn’t real and any historical text that you didn’t witness is fake

[@RedYoshi-f2i]

No way its the man! No way the guys ernie from tiktok!!!!!!1!1!1!1!111

[@giovannilobeira9688]

5:15 Andrew said what are some manly things you do... Bruhh 💀🤣😂😂

[@SuperSaiyanScandinavian]

in Andrew's defense, that's a woman in a costume, so...

[@joehuiras4955]

@@SuperSaiyanScandinavian you're in a human costume

[@SuperSaiyanScandinavian]

@@joehuiras4955 easily the dumbest thing i've ever heard

[@boojoogoo]

@@SuperSaiyanScandinavian Yet if he walked into the male bathroom you would not look twice

[@SuperSaiyanScandinavian]

@@boojoogoo that doesn't make you a man. it's still a woman in a costume. but yeah, i don't typically tell people in the men's washroom to drop their pants and prove that they have male genitalia

[@SweetenedCondensedMilk]

The debate around this topic starts from the philosophical doctrines of nominalism vs realism. ‘Transphobia’ is a contrived term used as a cudgel but there is nothing ‘irrational’ in what is being labeled with such a term, I think most people would simply feel bad but it is in some ways a social contagion and when discussion isn’t allowed about something that has to do with how we as people conceive of reality (along with coercion and medical consequences) frustration comes through and turns into strife.

[@John-w4e]

Bro took philosophy 101

[@SweetenedCondensedMilk]

@@John-w4e no

[@Tyler-hk4wo]

The medical and scientific community are in unison with helping transgender people. It's the laymen and political groups that have an issue from a social standpoint. Defining being gay or trans as a social contagion is like claiming left handedness is a social contagion. Left handed individuals would lie back in the day when it was seen as demonic and culturally unacceptable. The moment those silly beliefs fell to the wayside, the percentage of left handed people exploded. It wasn't that magically more left handedness came about from social contagion, they were just more honest in being out and open about it. The same arguments about social contagion used against trans people were used against every other group that started out marginalized including gays. It isn't like 70% of the population is gay or trans now. I don't know how old you are but I'm in my 50s and everyone used to claim that "if everyone was gay we the human race would die out" and that statement was just as fearmongering when I was a kid as it is now. It will always be a minority of a minority. Life is going to be okay.

[@harryobrien488]

love you ernie!

[@ابراهيم_محمد_الازهر]

Keep them away from children

[@andrewlobsinger]

keep your bigoted views away from children first

[@princellacuthbertson7490]

We need to keep you away from our children😰😰

[@LSD77777]

Now do the reverse

[@FIatts]

Andrew becomes transgender and gets interviewed by a youtuber?

[@ILoveMagic15]

Andrew, can you define what the word "man" means?

[@9fran9rosatti9]

Leaving this comment here to come laugh at religious/old/stupid people later in the comment section

[@leonkennedy3398]

@@9fran9rosatti9 ya because thinking a woman can suddenly become a man isn't stupid at all...🙄

[@tunisian_stats]

@@leonkennedy3398this one should be respected though, he felt like that since he is born unlike Mrbeast’s freind (Chris) typa shit.

[@doodis4861]

@@tunisian_stats it's called parents who failed to make her feel comfortable in her own skin and teach her that it's okay to step out of line with gender norms

[@doodis4861]

Yes because only religious old or stupid people understand that this is a mass delusion and these people are being sold a miserable lie

[@9fran9rosatti9]

@@leonkennedy3398 groooming? wdym? lol

[@jabuticaba2000]

lets "cut" to the chase: how long ya dingalong?

[@Sillylittlestug]

Cool dude

[@Obamnaz]

Hey Earnie, I know you probably read these comments. I just want to say that you are loved. Who knows why you have had these urges since you were a kid. But deep down you know that you are a girl. There is another way you can feel better, without denying who you really are. You don't need artificial testosterone, you can be simple, just yourself naturally. It's not too late to turn back. I know you think "how could I turn back after all that I've done?" but it's never too late to be who you really are. Jesus can give you the strength to endure, rely on him.

[@rorys433]

what are you talking about?

[@Lentillsoup]

Ernie is the man himself, magnificent mustache, stunning voice, great dude We love you Ernie!

[@superspirit2851]

This is a high level of delusion. Theres not even a moustache in sight.

[@uchihaobito9156]

Chatting with a woman*

[@princellacuthbertson7490]

Chatting with a man

[@3mm3tGamez_192]

@@princellacuthbertson7490yes

[@leonkennedy3398]

Sad. Hopefully she gets the mental health she needs

[@alechats5184]

stop being hateful please

[@leonkennedy3398]

@@alechats5184 believing in biology is not hateful

[@Camarilla0]

@@alechats5184 It's not hate, it's called reality, selling these poor people lies is not making you a good person, it's making you a virtue signaling sheep, people should be taught to like what they like regardless of gender and that they can't switch sides, these people put so much stock in gender stereotypes that they think they need to literally change their bodies with surgery and chemicals, it's not the answer, but what do I know, I'm just a normal person with a functioning brain who can think in more than 1 dimension

[@ijust96]

Would you be commenting this if you were unaware they were transgender? And what makes you qualified to say someone has mental health issues? Are you licensed? Also, from looking at your posted videos, it seems you find joy in ridiculing others while hiding behind your anonymity. Very cowardly.

[@ijust96]

Would you be commenting this if you were unaware they were transgender? And what makes you qualified to say someone has mental health issues? Judging from your posted videos, you find joy in ridiculing others while hiding behind your anonymity. Cowardly.

[@Dm-tu4wf]

My thing is how can u feel something that u literally aren’t or haven’t experienced. Like come on. genuinely what’s the difference between a Schizo believing they’re being watched or having delusions that they’re a higher power compared 2 this situation? They both believe it but both groups r handled way differently. Instead of calling it mental illness, it may be mentally divergent 2 put it in a more gentle way. Just call it what it is @ the end of the day.

[@xboneyt485]

@@Dm-tu4wf truthfully because we're in an age of virtue signaling in the pursuit of destroying future generations of families. No one wants to talk about the rising number of detransitioning people predominantly FtMtF who can no longer have kids because of their transition

[@dilliondantin]

I largely agree with your sentiment. But maybe for the sake of getting a more productive conversation going, try to use less aggressive language. Because hard-progressives are ready to point the finger and call everyone a hateful bigot. Respectful disagreement is the way to go

[@mshoney9301]

@@dilliondantin Wouldn't it be wild if the blatant disrespect and aggression that comes along with the ignorance was a clear sign of hatred and bigotry?

[@dilliondantin]

Can you do us all a solid and stop labeling "differences of beliefs" as "hateful bigotry"? Thanks so much There is no hate here. Stop mislabeling things to further your own ideologies

[@mshoney9301]

@@dilliondantin I can tell by your 20+ comments on this video you're not bothered at all lol

[@n0n9001]

Disgusting

[@wlkrmjca]

Boohoo 😂

[@n0n9001]

@@wlkrmjca Okay gay.

[@onnebthe6356]

Broo pls just let him be happy 😭

[@3mm3tGamez_192]

Woah, bro described himself

[@InfamousTub]

Gross

[@arvelcrynyd6311]

Your comment is gross.

[@princellacuthbertson7490]

Youre gross

[@dilliondantin]

Chatting with a woman who enjoys acting and dressing like a guy (which is perfectly fine) But let's stop lying to ourselves and trying to rewrite history.

[@2Beasty]

How is it rewriting history exactly?

[@babs_babs]

that’s not a woman tho.

[@leonkennedy3398]

​@@babs_babsbiology Saya otherwise

[@SogMosee]

​@@2BeastyIn the movie inception, did Joseph gorden levitt kiss ellen page the women or Elliot page the man?

[@boojoogoo]

Please. If you saw this person walking into the male bathroom you would not second guess it. Let him live.

[@iemandjwzz4614]

*biological woman

[@noson-fb7zk]

can you link the moment where he claimed not beeing born as a biological women? Yes, trans men are usually assigned female at birth, duh. Nobody is denying the factual biological sex binary (even tough there are some exception).

[@Nova-fh2et]

Shouldn't it be Chatting With a Confused Woman?

[@Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa369]

You think that’s a woman? 😂

[@dilliondantin]

I don't agree with all of the stuff coming from that sphere either, fella. But maybe don't try to be so aggressive in how you call it out. We think they're wrong, but being mean isn't going to help anyone see things the way we believe to be true

[@boojoogoo]

If you think that is a woman you need your eyes checked

[@mshoney9301]

@@dilliondantin So many mean aggressive (but not hateful) comments you're having to damage control lol

[@dilliondantin]

Because I believe what I believe. But something that I KNOW is that nobody likes being talked at in a condescending manner. No matter how wrong I think something is, the way to reach a middle ground is not through dismissiveness

[@RabY0]

🏳‍⚧❤🧡💛💚💙

[@generalmikalie2739]

Jesus loves you.

[@MoriMortem]

@@generalmikalie2739Satan loves you.

[@andrewlobsinger]

🏳️‍⚧️❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[@dozogoviovvrenvah1439]

The sad thing is no one tells these kids that feeling out of place like you want to be the other gender is a very common symptom of depression . And people can grow out of it.

[@hanspeterpitsch]

That's probably because that's not true, and we shouldn't tell lies to kids

[@bystanderprod]

@@dozogoviovvrenvah1439 denying someone their own thoughts and feelings is what's actually sad

[@superego8405]

Nobody wants to see this

[@mshoney9301]

yes you should delete your comment

[@Jsoccer1999]

I do

[@catharinazaschke]

Then don't watch it

[@crunkalicious_247]

I do

[@shrewdobject3220]

then why the hell are you watching it?

[@miamigetmoney233]

👎

[@eye_straindigital]

We are living in a simulation

[@zzzurreal5370]

it's happening 😢😢

[@RePzBoYz101]

“I knew that I liked women, but I also knew that I wasn’t a lesbian at all”. That was gold and only 0:50 seconds in. What’s the point of words even having definitions anymore lol. This guys life sounds like a joke, so sad 🤣

[@remba1869]

Your life sounds like a joke to be a hateful POS to someone not impacting you at all. Sure, feel free to disagree, but grow tf up.

[@Eddy_Stylez]

It's easy to laugh at the logical inconsistencies but if we really want to reverse this unhealthy ideology we have to be more tactful. Making fun of them is only going to cause them to further entrench themselves into this new belief system.

[@Turgid_Spleenis]

It’s simple, they are trans and identify as male. As a straight man myself, I don’t think I’m a lesbian because I like women. Language works pretty well to describe this and you are the one being purposely obtuse to make a bad point.

[@xboneyt485]

@@Turgid_Spleenis yet were you born as male? Why make this social contagion seem simple and totally "normal". If that was the case how do you explain the rising numbers of detransitioning people who've done irreparable damage to themselves like no longer having the ability to have children etc?

[@Turgid_Spleenis]

@@xboneyt485 Most people don’t detransition. Since more trans people feel comfortable transitioning that means there are more available people to detransition. The vast majority of people who transition are positively impacted by it. I’m sure you don’t actually care about trans people based off of how you called it a social contagion, so this comment is more for the people who aren’t already rotten to the core.

[@nickvas95]

Jesus is the only way to heaven!

[@ESTalesTyrone]

@@nickvas95 amen

[@John-w4e]

Funny seeing religious bigots calling him delusional while spouting BS like this all day

[@FIatts]

@@John-w4e ikr, religion is even more delusional than transgenderism

[@arvelcrynyd6311]

Jesus loved everyone. The path to Hell is paved with good intentions. Your version of Jesus is warped into a thing of hate and ignorance. Have you ever considered that you're wrong?

[@nolives]

Jesus would've hung out with trans people before condoning Christians throwing stones at them. He hung out with the lonely, left behind and judged while he condemned self righteous religious people. "Woe to you self righteous pharisee, you brood of vipers"

[@BlissfulMelodics]

I identify as a lamp

[@John-w4e]

One joke

[@Jukelikesgames]

Sad what happened to this lesbian woman

[@ronaldmcdonald3528]

Ernie seems like a good person. It’s a shame she’s mentally ill. Hope she gets help.

[@mikyonmars]

14:48

[@ronaldmcdonald3528]

@@mikyonmarscocaine makes me feel better when I’m sad. Should I do cocaine everyday?

[@mikyonmars]

@@ronaldmcdonald3528 If it doesn't hurt anyone else around you and your life is better with it then sure

[@catharinazaschke]

*he

[@ronaldmcdonald3528]

@@catharinazaschke lol, you’re proving my point. She was born with a v*gina, so she is a woman. Regardless what you think to be true, that doesn’t mean it’s fact. Every cell of DNA and chromosome in her body is that of a woman. Thats scientific, blatant fact. I will not be forced to have my (correct) speech altered because of your wrongful mindset. She is a woman, no matter what she does. But if she wants to think she’s a man - cool. She can do that. But nobody can expect others to give in to the delusion, too.

[@cleverhype]

Wow comments are brutal

[@ESTalesTyrone]

@@cleverhype good

[@wrichardchen]

Quality vid

[@h1mangshu]

oTay oTay

[@rob1996ization]

Here we go

[@tutuzicoco]

Where

[@section31]

Andrew stop sniffing, it's a nervous tick. Nonetheless it was interesting video. Although I would've loved for you to ask if he had any traumatic incidents that may have caused his gender dysphoria. I always wonder that. If they could have perfect childhoods without any trauma and still get it.

[@zayn145]

Gender dysphoria isn't caused by trauma it's simply caused by your gender identity not matching the biological one you were born with and causing distress because your physical appearance, how you are seen and treated socially doesn't fit with how you perceive yourself.

[@section31]

@@zayn145 prove it. The science is not clear on this so stop speaking from authority

[@zayn145]

@@section31 i gave you the definition of gender dysphoria and if you're curious about it go look it up on google or talk to a trans person standing from a neutral perspective, I just stated facts.

[@Obamnaz]

@@zayn145 in the video, she also mentioned how her father was absent from her life. There is no doubt that played a role

[@Tyler-hk4wo]

You can literally do research on the subject. I'd recommend going out and making trans friends. I met one in college and we've had great talks. He's one of my closest friends now.

[@yellow_airman]

🤮

[@dilliondantin]

I get where you're coming from... But come on..? Delete this and try again

[@yellow_airman]

@@dilliondantin 🤮

[@Ruebzzz]

@@dilliondantinwhy even say you get where they’re coming from? Grow a backbone

[@crunkalicious_247]

Me when I click to ur profile

[@princellacuthbertson7490]

If you’re against trans people then why are you watching this

[@generalmikalie2739]

Yeah, I can relate to him. Even as a young child I always knew I was a huugamuugaskibidideez

[@wesexpress3343]

First

[@ESTalesTyrone]

Feel bad for her fr 😬

[@crunkalicious_247]

I feel bad for u. I think u need glasses because thats not a she

[@princellacuthbertson7490]

I feel bad for you fr😬