Cheated on My Husband With His Boss, So He Emptied My Bank Account and Left Me Broke.

Cheated on My Husband With His Boss, So He Emptied My Bank Account and Left Me Broke.
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[@sheepphees3350]

She wasn't sorry for cheating on her ex, she was sorry for the financial loss

[@toxiczombiewolf5692]

And being caught

[@AlienoidGamer]

And having her money stolen and being assaulted

[@jorghino6073]

People can make mistakes cmon bro stop hating

[@heisenberg8764]

@@jorghino6073now we know who is a doormat😭😂😂

[@therealneutrxl]

​@@jorghino6073 a choice, not a mistake. who u foolin 💀

[@VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer]

It's ridiculous that he still needs to pay alimony when his wife cheated

[@ZDRPRIME]

Y should he pay anything when he was hurt

[@PunkEnergy88]

Well considering he took all of her money as revenge I think it was pretty fair. He was playing a judge and basically made her homeless with that decision

[@user-mp8qg5tb5e]

@@PunkEnergy88maybe she shouldn’t have cheated

[@eveliinahannele]

​@@user-mp8qg5tb5ejust because you got cheated doesn't mean you can become a thief.

[@eveliinahannele]

​@@user-mp8qg5tb5echeating doesn't give you right to steal

[@TC_HTRS]

Crazy how her name was Faith, yet she was unfaithful. Also, W best friend.

[@TC_HTRS]

Insane how many likes this got

[@cheesegrater6596]

I was coming to comment that after I heard her name 😭 Faith was unfaithful 😊

[@TC_HTRS]

@@cheesegrater6596 Literally

[@JonahNewport]

Lmao

[@Junker-sq6pu]

The biggest joke here is calling herself an entrepreneur

[@collodion1884]

The moment I heard that, I knew what type of character she was.

[@Godlikemind]

And her in the end saying "I am not a narcissist"

[@_juju_jojo_]

The biggest joke was that her name is Faith

[@DarkEinherjar]

No, OP, you didn't make a mistake. It was a CHOICE. EDIT: and the more I listened to this, the more evident it became. You chose not to tell your husband anything as things escalated, and you chose to go to the boss's bed. This story can be summarized as "SOMEONE PLEASE FEEL SYMPATHY FOR MEEEEEE!!!" Which I don't.

[@gamingtimeboy1961]

IT WAS A VERY BAD CHOICE

[@joelavery1998]

Exactly, and given we are dealing with a cheater looking for sympathy, would it be far fetched to think that maybe the slap and having all her money stolen weren't a couple more white lies to try to help garner sympathy for herself?

[@gamingtimeboy1961]

Lol she tried to guilt trip the comments

[@toxiczombiewolf5692]

Fats people need to learn what a bad mistake is and a bad choice.

[@zombinosh]

It's only ever a mistake when they're caught.

[@TelManothHexperax]

she work, have only 2 y marriage but she still get alimony ? marriage law need to change, it's ridicule at this point ...

[@KageKobushi]

Yeah. I would say just know your state's laws because if it's an at fault state you're much better off. Still not perfect but better off. That being said, I will say that no fault divorces are a thing I agree with in certain cases, but even for those I think we need to reconsider what the heck we're doing.

[@AlienoidGamer]

Bro stole her money and assaulted her, he should have paid her unbelievable amounts of alimony just to not press charges. Cheating isn't illegal, theft is a crime.

[@mh518]

@@AlienoidGamer found the simp

[@jackz7577]

@@AlienoidGamer tbh i can take anything you say before "Cheating isn't illegal, theft is a crime." as your own opinion and agree to disagree but that specific last quote kinda makes you look r-tded, if cheating isnt illegal why on earth every country in the world have laws on it like no fault states law and so on, if cheating isnt punishable by law there would be no need for court hearing and cases, can you imagine rewarding someone for being unfaithful and broke their vows? I couldnt

[@SelflessHero]

@@AlienoidGamer Found the simp.

[@Montyandrew45]

"He completely shattered me emotionally." Well turnabout is fair play afterall

[@Shouroboros]

It's crazy how many words she's saying, while truly telling nothing. She's still saying things like "this party damaged my marriage, had I known I wouldn't have participated". The party didn't do a thing. It were *her decisions* that did. She's still doing her best to try to escape responsibility. No-fault divorce laws like these need to end as well. Cheaters, be they man or a woman, deserve nothing from their former spouses.

[@ianmoritzplatapino3684]

Its so annoying when cheaters call their cheating a mistake. It's not a mistake it's a series of hundreds of decisions before doing it. She regrets it because the grass wasn't greener. And her " nice guy" wasn't so nice nor a doormat, the moment she cheated he went full nuclear . Good for him

[@mannydcbianco]

Yup. There's always someone who will argue that technically it can be called a mistake as far as the definition of the word goes, but it's not about linguistics. It's about the disgusting minimizing and downplaying cheaters do when they call their cheating a mistake. They deliberately or even subconsciously use that word to minimize the severity of the situation, to downplay their accountability and responsibility. It's insulting and offensive to the victim to call it a mere mistake. It clearly shows that even though they try to make it seem that they are taking full responsibility, they're not. Deep down they're doing damage control to lessen their culpability.

[@ragingsaviorkami9862]

​​@@mannydcbianco A mistake would be If they somehow didn't know the consequences of their actions. Only then could they call it a mistake. "I'm sorry, I didn't know that would hurt you, I made a mistake." BUT WHO THINKS LIKE THAT WHEN IT COMES TO CHEATING? No one. They know bery well that the person they're cheating on would be heartbroken, shattered, destroyed If they knew, in most cases. And they still do it anyway. And it's always like "Oh no, how could I do this, I felt intoxicated, it wasn't me." Excuses. It's fine, we're all humans, it's okay to sometimes wander off, look at other people, we can't expect to occasionally not find others attractive. But there's no excuses for cheating, and taking accountability would actually be "Yo, I'm a piece of shit, I made a bad choice, which I knew was bad at the time, because honestly I was selfish and didn't care about my partner whatsoever. I deserve everything that comes my way."

[@demonic_myst4503]

He a fonestic abuser and his future partners should be warned

[@illhaveanother8173]

You are confusing accident and mistake. This can certainly be a mistake. Drug addicts make mistakes all the time that are a string of decisions. You do not need to forgive and forget if you are on the wrong end of a mistake. That's a lot easier to do if it were accidental, but even then you can just move on if you want.

[@keishaizawesome2836]

Rafael does this all the time and OP was another notch on his belt. She deserves zero sympathy, she made a choice. Im glad her ex went scorched earth on her😂

[@AlienoidGamer]

He also stole all her money and assaulted her, why should we have any respect for him? He's also a loser so fuck him

[@grif5332]

She's blaming everyone else instead of herself. What's funny is that the alimony...isn't gonna be paid by the hubby. It'll be her money paying it. 😅

[@skankhunt6504]

Translation: she’s not sorry that she cheated and betrayed her husband she’s sorry she’s been caught and that her affair partner only used her for his hatred towards her husband if her affair partner stayed with her she would be ok but now she regrets what she did because of the consequences her losing a rich banker husband her affair partner pumped and dumped her

[@devonplaaitjies2198]

I hope NOTHING but the ABSOLUTE worst for you cheating on your husband for his boss is crazy and thinking it was just a MISTAKE girl you didn't make a mistake you made a choice

[@iwanttocomment8966]

Now that's a revenge! Love it, kudos to OP's ex

[@HeoBaby24]

Ah yes assaulting her N stealing money iz great revenge

[@MrVampireFang]

“I can’t believe I was ensnared in his trap” ah yes, a victim of her own choices. There was no trap. There was just you, unfaithful and deserving of far more head trauma.

[@nerd26373]

Well, I guess it’s considered valid he went ballistic after you cheated. Goodbye bank savings for now.

[@NerdInTheLibrary]

The only reason this is long winded is in hopes of receiving empathy 😑

[@FlamesAndShadows]

'Several weeks into his visits he started inviting me into his house'. If she felt trapped, I would play innocent and dense and take the husband with. Continue to be polite, nice and seem innocent. Casually stick to husband. After that its not a bad way to come clean, that the boss was making her incomfortable

[@somerandomdudeontheinterne6907]

OP was like. Oh, I accidentally cheated on you and didn't tell you. But it was an accident.

[@TailzP]

"I stopped sleeping with my husband like I used to, no idea how he found out about my cheating."

[@arcadius3257]

I would have understood if she got blackmailed into it and the boss held her husbands job over her head but she was warned, didnt tell her husband and then *chose* to cheat. She deserves ALL of the consequences. In my opinion she didn't even deserve to get alimony.

[@JoelXl-zc4rp]

Sounds like he was a stalker, yet you even let this stalker interfere with your marriage, no loyalty at all, what a shame. You deserve what you got.

[@nicknitro86]

"He's considerably older" What like 40? "At 27" Oh... just 27?

[@WilhelmWirbels-oh9lw]

It’s funny how you can tell she’s trying to defend or downplay it

[@SoloWEll]

1:21 Wow, this guy is bad at parkour

[@dream6897]

😂😂

[@TC_HTRS]

Bro I couldn’t focus on the voice lol

[@mannydcbianco]

@@TC_HTRS Same. I had to skip back about a minute and look away during that parkour segment, it was making me so frustrated that I couldn't follow the story.

[@thedumbcloudslayer604]

Lol I thought the same thing and it angered me a bit when he missed the jump like 3 times

[@abbottschorsch2056]

Your the main character,you took 2 days off work now we have the weekend.

[@notting2640]

Ngl the whole story sounds AI asf…

[@travv88]

yes

[@csarzeli]

It is, the husband would've been facing criminal charges for stealing that money out of the bank

[@asnalem4391]

​@@csarzeliwhat she means by "managing my finances" is that it was to his name, so legally there wasn't anything she could do about a verbal agreement for him to have her money in his account.

[@HeliosX28]

​@@asnalem4391Yeah that's what I was thinking as well, he had control over her finances so there's nothing she can really do in that matter.

[@R.DeMora]

lmao Everything sounds AI when you send too much time on the internet

[@FlipTheBard]

Frankly, if someone is constantly coming up on you, when you're already in a relationship, you have the obligation to tell your partner. She didn't because deep down she liked the attention she was getting.

[@FlipTheBard]

"When I _officially cheated_ on my husband" There is no "officially cheating", there is "cheating" and "not cheating" and considering how OP was so intent to "oh safeguard her husband's job by not telling him that his boss was hitting on her" then we can safely say that she was cheating already.

[@FlipTheBard]

What bothers me the most is OP alwyas going "I regrettably succumbed", no. She didn't SUCCUMB, she CHOSE. And if it was as regretful as she keeps saying then she wouldn't have done it in first place.

[@mp20277]

If cheating was made a crime… I would bet it would happen a lot less

[@csarzeli]

Definitely fake, you can't just steal your spouses money from the bank you work at.

[@punklast447]

If you have ownership over the bank account you can... Only difference is she can follow up with legal actions but its a suite on its own... She could have spoken to her lawyer about it during the divorce proceeding that is if she had a lawyer in the first place which sounds like she didnt as she is receiving a very small amount of alimony so i assume they both just agreed to settle to not drag out the divorce and it took basically an afternoon so i assume this was probably done in some family court.... The only way she can get that money back is to sue him or reopen the divorce proceeding with a new court procedure and lawyer stating the divorce was unfavourable or again she would have to open a suite about the money... Its the same as a scammer or thief stealing from ur bank it usually doesnt lead anywhere unless you have proof however because they where married its a typical he said she said situation... However even her friend could sue but again with the funds they are earning running a salon it doesn't seem very promising

[@AlienoidGamer]

It's a fake story at the end of the day to feed red pill losers, so what can you do

[@mannydcbianco]

I kinda lean towards this being a fake story too, but with that said: whether or not it is considered "stealing" depends on your location; in many places (certainly in many US states) while married each spouse has full access to do whatever they want with their joint savings unless it's specifically set up to require both spouses' verification. And I'm sure that even though she refers to the account as "her" savings account, chances are that he set it up as a joint account. He's time and time again referred to as very intelligent so he was probably covering his bases when he helped her set the account up. Her money is 100% his and his money is 100% hers. My wife and I have a savings account together and she can if she wants to empty it out and blow the money on anything she wants, all by herself, legally. I can't do a thing about it if that happens. Of course, if we divorce (which we obviously would if she did that) I will get half of all our assets, including the money she took from the joint savings account, but only if that money still exists. If she blew the money on something transitory or perishable like a vacation or extremely expensive wine that she drank or if she invested the money in something stupid like a MLM scam then.. it's gone and I will have no success going after her in court, if I can even afford lawyers who would gladly take thousands or tens of thousands of my dollars to fight a case they know has no chance of bearing any fruit.

[@lalvarez5151]

Since he stole from her (who is a customer) he can get fired because he works there.

[@HeliosX28]

​@@lalvarez5151 He was given full permission to access her account, which means it isn't illegal as he has full autonomy over her account

[@Legionaer666]

A very rare story where the betrayed gets revenge. Too bad he had to pay alimony but that's on him for marrying without a prenup.

[@chessieray1465]

This is why, in no particular matter, YOU CANNOT SPARE ANYONE'S FEELINGS.

[@MMCV963]

Think this is fake, theres no way he coukd just drain her savings and slap her without that backfiring on him.

[@FroxenLaza]

that and OP is taking "Accountability" lol

[@lalvarez5151]

And he can't just kick her out of the house...she is a tenant

[@christophernoble76]

if his name is on the account, he could legally do that, the slap is a different story but the bank would legally not be able to do anything if he withdrew that money.

[@HeliosX28]

For the bank, it's legal because the account was also in his name so legally he could do whatever he wants with the money (seen this happened a lot in divorces where one party drains their account).

[@dejobos]

She expected that boss will be with her but after he bashed her and started ghosting her, she went back to her husband... Deserved worst and i hope she'll suffer through her whole life....

[@cheesuschrist5017]

Does anyone else feel like this is partially AI-written? The vocabulary seems a little too complex at certain points…

[@TripnotizeVM]

succinct is a nice word though

[@Godlikemind]

Maybe she let AI make the text better

[@kidflaxh5130]

even if these story's are likely fake is fun to watch like what do cheaters expect will happen lol

[@LocksAndChains]

I generally assume 90 percent of them are false. All I care for is a satisfying story.

[@kidflaxh5130]

same is still fun to watch but ya there so many cheating story's on this channel

[@miguelarias5193]

OP is lying she knew exactly what Raph was doing and she knew what she was doing by not telling her husband. Raph borderline stalked her and kept it a secret. She wanted it but doesn't want to admit it.

[@FlamesAndShadows]

Wooow. NOW she's not going to salon (aka the place stalker has public access to) and for a flipping month as well?! If she could afford it, might have been not a horrible way to try to dissuade the boss, instead of continuously rewarding his patience.

[@devhxh1558]

22 and married, nu wonder she get swept away so easy with in month by someone she never met before... And showing clear red flag. Its not a mistake she chose this

[@peturf1788]

Don’t worry, the lower OP goes on the boss, the lower the personal loan interest rate will be.

[@IrishCaesar]

So she... accurately called out exactly what the boss was doing... was fully aware of how devastating it would be for her husband... and knew the bos had no feelings for her other than a prize to be won... and she still cheated? I mean thats something pathological at that point

[@SeniorCharry]

Most of the cheaters in stories act like they had no choice but to cheat. It’s always a “mistake” or they have no clue why they cheated. They don’t take accountability even though they mention how sorry they are.

[@ALASTOR101.]

Its only a mistake for these women when they get caught

[@NightCourt1984]

The amount of excuses and justifications to absolve herself of guilt for making one bad choice after another and not heeding her friends words to tell her husband give me a headache. She lacked the bravery to withstand a man's mind games and lacked the bravery to hold to her morals. In all honesty she lost her self respect when she let him say his stupid confession which was nothing more than a plot. She was only a good time to the boss. She fell for the game and got burned. How does this person deserve alimony. Yeah the husband took her money. I would call it part of her penance for making him emotionally and mentally unstable with her cheating.

[@tsisaloves8397]

I hate when cheaters says it was a mistake. A mistake is doing something with good intentions but it doesn't fare well. Cheating is NOT a mistake its betrayal

[@krulak292]

Just go to HR? Not like he's the damn owner of the entire bank. Report him and tell on him that he's pursuing a coworkers wife on purpose. Easy.

[@dream6897]

This parkour skills wont let me focus

[@Azeraph]

They always say in these stories they can't pinpoint the reason but they let it slip that they had a suspicion that they secretly liked the attention and in the end the ramp up to the s*x made them weak. They wanted it yet the character never truly admits to it. The difference between men and women is that we men know exactly why we do it.

[@lolmanv]

him slapping her took me off guard but otherwise, deserved

[@SilveryBlue1010]

These cheaters doesn't know how to find a hobby aren't they?

[@Auren23]

Quite ironic how her name is Faith, succumbed to temptation, ate from the proverbial forbidden fruit and cheated, some things really never change and remain as old as time itself...anyways, this story is yet another cheater fishing for sympathy, which is annoying asf.

[@morgenleask5976]

Long story short, his boss walked into her shop non stop every week kept everything from her husband, went to his home got raw dogged and and got what was coming. There saved you some time.

[@DipreG]

As a fellow Rafael, I am apalled at my brother-in-name's behavior.

[@Bingotaco]

Literally stopping 1 minute in to say she shouldn't have had the audacity to go with the name Faith

[@liamsapong8078]

All I hear is : Me me me me me me Me me me me me me Me me me me feel sorry for me me Me me me me me me Me me me me me me Me me me me me me Me me me me me me Me me I'm so sad me me me me Me me me me me me Me me me me me me Me me me me me me Me me me me me me I'm the victim Me me me me me me Me me me me me me

[@mohammudyousuf622]

Its almost like she fantasizing about her cheating. Lol

[@Dumstuffwiththeboys]

Are we going to ignore the fact that he stole from her, not that I’m on her side but he did technically steal from her

[@samw6930]

If she didn't go to the party she would've cheated anyway 😢

[@HughJassMarioFan2009]

This is a rare instance where the OP is the TA.

[@milco02]

This person talks like they constantly have a thesaurus open next to them

[@Mr0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0]

No op was not colatheral damage, she was the knife and weapon of the act, if she had any self respect she should get Rafael fired

[@tedmillion7171]

Cheating is bad enough. But when you can have your choice, to pick someone whose life intersects with your husband. such as his brother, best friend, boss.

[@oscarcintra-sadiki1703]

Is no one going to talk about how they kept missing that 1 block jump about 2 minutes in completely broke my emersion 😔

[@Veltosei]

The only you can say about this story is that she does take responsibility unlike most

[@DarkSharkDomilian]

"Ultimately succumbed." It's so fucking annoying. Under normal circumstances, I would question him slapping her and basically stealing her money, but I can only wonder what she's lying about with her victim mentality.

[@ShelleHolley]

Everyone is asking why she got alimony when she cheated. He Stole her money, not just her money but her friends as well. I suspect the amount her has to pay will equal half of what he took. Cheating is not illegal, but stealing is. If she wasn't so down on herself (justified), she would realize she could press charges for embezzlement or have the bank do so. She isn't not just because of money but she feels like she deserves it.

[@joshuarees2354]

Ex is 100000IQ new he'd have to pay alimony so took her money to use too pay it Top G rite ther3 😂

[@firehot427]

Bro she was not disgusted with herself. She’s lying.

[@yododraes4348]

H has the ability to fuck over his boss for the rest of his life

[@devhxh1558]

Its not a mistake, she chose this

[@0karmaticfrost010]

jesus only 2 years??? god op doesnt deserve marriage also gotta love it when cheater say "god if only i never went there i wouldnt have cheated" like no, its not the time or place that caused it, you having such weak will power and morals that just seeing the future ap caused this.

[@AbdRubbuh]

With women like this who needs enemies.

[@kimmogensen5390]

so i decided to withold the fact that my husbands boss was lurking around........ cha ting rewarded with alimony

[@MrLukejstephens]

This whole thing is fishy, her money goes into his bank account? He’s known for a while yet said nothing until after she actually did something? He’s remaining “professional” with the man who was actively trying to get his girl?

[@briann3970]

She acts like she was pressured. BS. Didn't know they gave happy endings at hair salons

[@user-pf9yt7oy4d]

Cheating isn’t a mistake? It’s a decision she actively made when she repeatedly did it. I understand why she got alimony, especially b/c he took all her money, but I don’t feel bad for people like this. There’s nothing to feel sorry for them for. Him slapping her & taking all of her money isn’t okay, but it’s understandable.

[@lilsstrunks]

OP writes this as if she tried to stop anything from happening, when in reality its what she always wanted.

[@brakis18]

Only took her a month of gifts to cheat. Wow.

[@branflakes523]

The thing I'm left wondering is why wouldn't the ex husband get in trouble for literally robbing her bank funds? It's not stated how much she had in there or how much her ex gave her for good saving decisions but some of it was hers and her friend? That's like literally robbery on the exhubby he stole her money and her friend's Not feeling sorry for her for cheating but still he literally committed a crime for stealing

[@curtiswesley3261]

Long-winded cheating is still cheating.

[@vatsalvora29]

It’s ironic, the wife’s name is “Faith”

[@PRIME-0636]

I knew it lmao OP thinks we'll feel sorry for her? Lmao nope not possible you didn't make a mistake you made a choice now live with it

[@lucasbroiloderocco]

It's interesting to hear the other side of the history sometimes, even though I hate cheaters and can't agree with anything "logic" they pamper about, gotta give kudos for admitting the wrong choices and put a target on your back for it

[@ChechoNoFake]

You have to love a happy ending, but in the inmortal words of someone in south america, por maraca 😂😂😂

[@TOMMY716]

You wanna know what's so funny about this?She's like when she describes this man and even the name.He gave her like she gave him like a very suave name and describes him quite nice.Her husband oh he has a boring name and he's quite normal

[@i-am-goose8428]

“I cheated and I am devastated that I ruined my own life”

[@toxiczombiewolf5692]

There is a difference between a bad choice and a bad mistake. She chose to do this. Also a month of him coming in, I would have reported him for harassment shes just weak minded and sad now because she lost all her money.

[@AlienoidGamer]

Lost her money, he stole her money and assaulted her. He chose to do that, I'll side with the cheater over a thief and abuser

[@blackfire6009]

1:03 already I'm hearing "I'm faith a 24 yo entrepreneur" and can't help but think it's the guy's fault for dating an onlyfans girl

[@laquick61]

I dont understand why she owes her best friend money. Did her husband steal that as well?

[@Lucky_Soleil]

I'm not even going to ewtch this. The title is enough as well as the comments. My girl was fishing for sympathy.

[@Falney]

I suspect this is fake. Assault and theft would leave him in jail. She wouldn't need money to take legal action, she would simply need to make a complaint to the FCA about a bank operator stealing money and he would loose his job.

[@AlienoidGamer]

Yeah, all these stories are fake, as soon as they willingly say a name, it's just red pill loser bait

[@robertbrand5410]

In their defense, almost all of these are fake.

[@Falney]

@@robertbrand5410 I try not to judge a lot of them. A 1 in 100 event still happens 1 out of 100 times. It's just some are painfully obvious.

[@angerydestroyer]

I genuinely am thinking yes the wife is scum but slapping and stealing her money is illegal shit she has cheated but I don’t agree with him hitting her

[@HeliosX28]

1) It's not theft since he had full autonomy over her finances (which she agreed to it... 2) For the slap, he could have pleaded it down easily to paying a fine and doing community service

[@josefbeck4803]

Im still trying to understand why would she do it and why she didnt cut it from start by police as stalking. Well i dont think i will ever understand.

[@thecchef]

He still didnt have the right to take her money.

[@stertrack520]

Bro should have played the clown theme

[@emily.letsendbslintheuk554]

She felt so awkward that she slept with him knowing who he was, she didnt care at all and liked gettibg the attention, no matter how much attention i got from another man ive never cheated on anyone (been cheated on a few times 🙄). Hate women like this they try to make it sound like they are victims when they are far from it, they are nothing but cheap lays and are worthless (yes men who cheat are also worthless). Its wrong the husband has to give her money if she was sorry at all for being a cheat then she would of refused it but she didnt 🤬🤬🤬

[@davidcampos6038]

At that point I officially cheated.....like no no no you been cheating once you didn't tell your husband

[@arthries]

This is fake as hell.

[@eyeclapback7182]

The story I SO FAKE. I can’t even finish it. 😂

[@andrewdavis7620]

Imagine cheating on your husband then making up a 20 minute sob story with fabricated details to paint yourself as the victim, no way he actually hit you and that money was definitely rightfully his she just wants to look like she got fucked over

[@bunberiii]

oh wow, it's almost like her actions have consequences! who would've thought that 🤯 (this is sarcasm)

[@3adgamd3r]

Yeah, as a man I sympathise with the husband, however taking all of her savings will seriously work against the husband in the divorce, it would be seen as financial abuse which is why I’m not surprised she got alimony If she gets a lawyer she could sue him for the money he took, and the judge would probably give her all her savings plus lawyers fees, emotional damage fees and punitive damages in the form of having to pay for the rent/bills of OP between the time she left the house and the time her savings were returned to her So whilst I understand why he did what he did, and I don’t think he was morally wrong to do it, sadly we don’t live in a moral justice system, we live in a legal justice system