What Guys Do Instead Of Getting Therapy

[@Cherdleys]

Type “no” down below cuz no to therapy….

[@25Jake]

No

[@Callmekit_485]

No

[@gasolinedrinker4772]

no

[@mjodreaper8481]

Therapy is useless

[@ApolloG6]

no

[@TrevorWallace]

Bro she wants me

[@KGBos]

There you go making jokes again hahaha

[@amphibeingmcshpongletron5026]

Are you kidding? She clearly wants me because I totally gave her "the eyes" the hardest from the other end of my screen. You're just jealous!!!

[@molstad182]

ur obviously not a gemini buddy smh🙄

[@The1Ab0veAll]

Definitely, dude.

[@krillansavillan]

Someone please gif Blake with 4 controllers

[@BlakeRosier]

This cast is more stacked than oceans 13

[@OreganoParsley]

True

[@uberpies]

😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢5447 ball and chain bb

[@seandersg]

Yours and Spencer's parts were the best 😂

[@OreganoParsley]

@@seandersg I liked Charlie’s parts.

[@toddskie]

100 percent spencer is the new Brad Pitt

[@domthedonkey69420]

remember guys, depression is cringe. just dont have it.

[@taroushi]

@I_Love_My_Little_Willy i just might do that after seeing your pfp 💀

[@anonisnoone6125]

💀

[@anonisnoone6125]

@I_Love_My_Little_Willy Wtf is ur pfp?

[@xoStoner420]

​@I_Love_My_Little_Willy 💀💀💀

[@limazulu6192]

@@TheGameMakeGuy thats not how it works

[@w.2741]

“Thousands of people have problems, why should mine get solved” felt that one

[@entropybear5847]

Ey bro I need help solving my problems Therapist: Okay, tell me what your problems are? Yo the economy Therapist: I can't help you. That'll be $100.

[@avertingapathy3052]

@@entropybear5847 Pretty much. "I see you're struggling, also I've now switched to remote work only and doubled my fee, but I really really want to help you." This consultation is free but this paid friendship will cost you $200/hr.

[@rdzdoodles8592]

nobody cares until you start flippin' this sentence speaks volumes. In a sense we can battle our own demons and defeat them, but it takes patience and a lot of self-reflection

[@__-tp4tm]

I love how chaotic existence is. I love all the contradictions, all the people arguing, speaking faster than they think. Damn, I'd be depressed if it wasn't for the fact that it is what it is.

[@PistonAvatarGuy]

Imagine believing that therapy solves problems.

[@mattgalek4475]

Why pay $100 an hour for therapy when I can just say "it is what it is" and drink all my problems away?

[@RabidDisposition]

If only alcohol wasn't so detrimental to the health

[@Inexpressable]

and then the alcoholism becomes $100 an hour

[@mattgalek4475]

@@Inexpressable yea that's more fun

[@Humanoid_burrito_24]

it was just a canon event

[@bbygl9ckk]

Them health complications from alcohol is gonna cost you a lot more in the long run … Because then you’ll be fighting your mental issues and health issues.

[@Redacted_Ruler]

“It is what it is.” “Ima just thug it out.” Every man relies on these two

[@danbul5853]

Therapy is a joke people want community not paid 1 on 1's haha

[@devinwatkins8953]

​@@danbul5853Eh speak for yourself therapy stoped me from offing myself a 2nd time. Lol also iv never said it is what it is.

[@citrosthoughts7]

@@devinwatkins8953you forgot to say attempted, kind of sounded like you reincarnated and almost offed yourself again. (i am the scourge of the universe you don't have to tell me)

[@johnwalker1058]

I've also been using "eff it, we ball" as a new addition to my personal arsenal.

[@Redacted_Ruler]

@@johnwalker1058 fuck it we ball is less for like in general and for specific activities. But same I use it very often.

[@EricChamplin]

Shout-out to Cherdleys for getting SO many A-Lister creators in one video 10/10

[@sting6ph]

When you're the OG of OG funnies, it's hard to say no

[@TheStefanPro]

From which list? Boomer list? haha

[@elliot_08]

@@TheStefanPro unfunny

[@bluescreen5678]

@@elliot_08 it was funny, you're just a humorless bitch 😂

[@bluescreen5678]

Literally nobody has heard of any of these clowns tf you smokin

[@thatrandomcrit5823]

This is quite the cinematic experience. I can't even understand if this is satire or not, that's a good sign

[@JokingAbraham]

you might need therapy

[@thatrandomcrit5823]

@@JokingAbraham I'm already in therapy

[@gen-zboomer]

@@thatrandomcrit5823 you should stop getting therapy

[@nmhjjp]

@@thatrandomcrit5823 you need black tar heroine and to get some pussy my dude.

[@fromulus]

​@@thatrandomcrit5823 then you may need even more therapy

[@Seyediov]

"The money I would spend on therapy I could just spend on my problems and fix them" I mean, as someone whose only problems are financial that is 100% accurate

[@user-gz4ve8mw9l]

Yeah.

[@OscarUnrated]

My penis is too big

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

Every mans problems are financial. If we were all rich, we'd have little to no problem at all 😂

[@TheKingWhoWins]

@@thelegacyofgaming2928 You're still gonna die

[@JansenGlasc]

@@thelegacyofgaming2928 Cap

[@ascarletllama]

This is the absolute last place I imagined I'd be evaluating my mental health, but this is more effective than 99% of PSA's out there right now.

[@lindada1111]

🍿😃

[@sunshinelolipops1]

I don't really like the message personally, I mean I get it's a comedy skit and I appreciate it for that. But beyond the comedic value, I feel like it perpetuates that stigma that men with mental health issues are unproductive losers and lonely nerds, thus being exactly what makes it difficult for men to seek help in the first place because they are led to feel stigmatized/ashamed for having issues.

[@awakenow7147]

@@sunshinelolipops1 I concur. It feels like one of those "tough love" things that doesn't work for a lot of people.

[@SkullScar]

This isn't tough love, its date baiting Alone, not lonely Ego not love

[@tiberthescarecrow8649]

It's not just men but women as well, telling somebody to just get therapy is such a disconnected and generalizing statement. Therapy especially consistent specialized therapist are expensive. It is a luxury many people can't afford. So when somebody from a lofty position talks down to those with problems saying it's easy. That shows a clear disconnect or lack of understanding on their part.

[@MDonuT-of7px]

All jokes aside, as a guy who has been around the block in regards to therapy, actually financially affordable therapy is more often than not populated by therapists who weren't good enough to work for private psychiatric clinics. Due to my healthcare provider noticing how they would probably lose my further business if I flung myself onto some train tracks, I was able to spend three months at a private psychiatric clinic, and out of the four therapists I have been with, only my therapist at the clinic was worth a damn. Here are some of the quotes from the non-clinic therapists: - So, if you feel better than last week, then why are you here? - Ah, yeah being autistic is trendy these days. - Who cares if you were sexually abused, that's not an excuse to yell. - Eh, you don't seem very suicidal. Maybe men don't go to therapy because many men just cannot afford an actually good therapist. Not everybody has a penthouse suite in Hollywood. While I know nobody will actually interact with this comment outside of making fun of me for being poor or whatever, I just wanted to share this.

[@TheEbe1989]

I think what you said is very true all across the world not just the US. The profession is also stacked with women who can't necesseraly relate to what men go through. I wouldnt wana go to therapy and talk about very personal things to a random stranger. Solid friends, family and communities is what would keep people grounded and happy. Unfortunately modern society separated us quite seriously so people are not having these connections, hence all the mental health issues. The whole idea of this go to therapy culture is just slapping a bandate on a cancer basically. Anyways, appreciate writing a serious comment and I hope you are doing okay :)

[@MDonuT-of7px]

For reference, I am from Germany, and while our healthcare system is a thing of pride, sadly our taxpayer-funded mental healthcare is very spotty. And while I would agree that specifically male suffering traditionally takes a backseat to womens issues (by which I mean things like male SA victims or societal disgust towards male vulnerability, not "all women are gold diggers" fresh and fit type crud), I also have to mention that the one good therapist I had was also a woman. I was the victim of CSA at the hands of a female family member, and was completely disregarded until I blackmailed her at the age of 24 to pay for my therapy in exchange for not going to the cops (I have until 30 to press charges). I grew up with a deep seated mixture of envy and disgust towards specifically cis women (shoutout to trans women being there for me, y'all doing heavens work) due to my powerlessness to get justice a total lack of empathy from my family. My therapist being a woman, and basically telling me that "misogyny is not cool, but considering your biography, I get why you needed that to keep yourself from ending it", and being a practical example of being a cis woman who actually cared about my problems saved both my life and helped me see that this whole gender war BS is exactly just BS. Sometimes women therapists can really help male patients, especially if the problem is related to, as was in my case, being either scared or hating women.

[@iString5]

This confirms they all exist in the same cinematic universe

[@pb6270]

Ok makes sense now

[@huricanethreeonesix]

Or as it's otherwise known, Los Angeles.

[@RR-et6zp]

girls process it by talking about it, guys just solve the problem

[@poppukonfilm]

​@@RR-et6zphot take

[@Glace1221]

Penguin: _"... I'm putting together a team"_

[@mattgr4370]

Can’t believe comedy avengers assembled for such an important message! Thanks for making me understand that I truly don’t need therapy!

[@netmediocre]

Yeah I identified with 2 of these which means they cancel out so I'm good

[@perseus_0884]

@@netmediocre That's right boys, therapy is for weebs anyway (in case anyone gets offended, that's a joke, therapy is for furries too)

[@lindada1111]

Helpless jokesters? 😀

[@RR-et6zp]

girls process it by talking about it, guys just solve the problem

[@lindada1111]

@@RR-et6zp you wish

[@MetalCharlo]

Seeing Charlie smiling from this up close finally made me go to therapy.

[@operationb.e.n6480]

Glad she also mentioned her astrology sign in the beginning lol

[@supcomrade]

Space racists always like to do that💀

[@isac4043]

@@supcomrade xd

[@DirtyD218]

​@@supcomrade huh?

[@creepyjesus1471]

i think it provides important context

[@MoonWalkerTexsRanger]

Space Racists 😂😂😂😂 I’m stealing that one!

[@btdtpro]

If you lived in a culture that taught you the only masculine emotion guys could feel is anger, how would that make you feel as a guy? For me, it makes me feel angry.

[@btdtpro]

Not sad, lonely, or unseen, like a little bitch would feel.

[@charliemcpherson6299]

It's sad how we're trained into a state of false rage since toddlerhood. And how much pain and damage it does rippling outward.

[@RR-et6zp]

girls process it by talking about it, guys just solve the problem

[@btdtpro]

@@RR-et6zp what is the problem is a misunderstanding, or a negotiation, or your partner or friend not knowing your thoughts or feelings about something? Some things are only solved by talking.

[@RR-et6zp]

@@btdtpro becase women's brains are feelings basec, men's arent. If you look at the brain scans of the connectdome, we are opposite. Women solve it by talking, men dont, genetically

[@jtrigoura1]

Imagine being able to afford therapy

[@20thcentury_toy]

Women moment

[@alicetookherpills]

fr

[@Guy2Fawkes]

It's free. At least in my country, maybe in yours too.

[@ZeRo-yc7zf]

imagine being able to live off of posting naked pictures online and having a sugar daddy and you use that money to pay for therapy cuz you're bored

[@user-gz4ve8mw9l]

@@Guy2Fawkes Nothing is free in the USA, least of all any form of wealthcare.

[@TheEncouragementKid]

Bro, how under appreciated is the community aspect of Cherdleys you guys bring so many youtubers together just seeing LAWHF trevor, joel, ryan, all these legends in one video. shout out you guys man so epic honestly thank you for this

[@pb6270]

Who cares

[@silixtuhibiski95]

@@pb6270 At least thousands of people lol

[@mudaaa1015]

And Riley ❤

[@RR-et6zp]

girls process it by talking about it, guys just solve the problem

[@CristianCastro-oz1hy]

Fine I’ll admit it….cherdleys IS MY THERAPY!

[@justwannabehappy6735]

Have you tried hookers ?

[@pb6270]

That....wasn't the point

[@Bonovasitch]

Guys who watch Cherdleys need therapy

[@SkullScar]

Nah, not really

[@pleaseenteranamelol711]

My therapy is meth.

[@doublet3n672]

400 bucks for a good therapist vs thugging that shit out, its pretty obvious to me what im choosing.

[@NorroTaku]

Teach a man how to fish for 400 dollars And he comes back to kick your ass for telling him obvious stuff he never tried thinking of Let him tough it out And he tries eating grass and dies😂😂

[@Skaxarrat]

Remember guys: You only need therapy IF you want to be better.

[@jansojele289]

What does it mean

[@bluescreen5678]

Retard take

[@toin8819]

but having a therapy won't make you better, it's to you to make the changes IF you want like you said

[@dunamisd]

I went to therapy cause my parents told me I needed it, and the therapist basically said this exactly. I was like "Shit you right I'm ok with being depressed I guess" and walked out

[@kevindelgado7083]

Paying someone to manipulate me and deciding himself if I’m getting better or not? Ye right

[@yugiohcards_in_my_rari]

The crossover we didn't know we needed !

[@RR-et6zp]

girls process it by talking about it, guys just solve the problem

[@nm-je7sm]

"Thousands of people have problems. Why should mine get solved?" I'm stealing that, holy shit.

[@gasolinedrinker4772]

I feel targeted

[@bigpasta8487]

Just go to the gym and stop jerking off

[@therealanime]

"A lot of people have problems, why should mine get solved?" DAMN :'(

[@SETHthegodofchaos]

I mean, sure. But then again, why not solve your problems to then be in a position to solve harder problems, problems that might help others too?

[@maximedaunis8292]

​@@SETHthegodofchaosIt's not for them and it shouldn't be It doesn't concern them, it doesn't belong to them

[@firstlast8258]

The numbers don't lie but liars use numbers 🤓 🖕

[@Phoros]

I thought I was safe until the coffee shop guy came up. I was laughing then I wasn't...then I started laughing again. Also "thousands of people have problems, why should mine be solved?" yes, that's actually unbelievably accurate to how I feel and idk if that's bad or not

[@domc9801]

Dude don’t worry about it. Get a drink.

[@chronica6457]

It should be a wake up call

[@RR-et6zp]

girls process it by talking about it, guys just solve the problem

[@caidynboyd3024]

Somehow I think you missed the point smh

[@billbill6094]

It's bad.

[@TwentyInchBurial]

Psychiatrists mind controlling people to get more clients 😂

[@20thcentury_toy]

They want that untouched market

[@XXROGUE]

Guys who go to therapy need therapy.

[@18JR78]

🤭🫣

[@SETHthegodofchaos]

based. so they do everything right? :D

[@easternplatypus]

amen brother

[@partyanimal9382]

The guys who say they don't need it, need it. They just don't know yet. -By one of the guys that needs therapy

[@NorroTaku]

People who eat are hungry too

[@GhANeC]

I hope the upcoming “What Girls Do Despite Getting Therapy” vid is as spot-on as this one. 😁

[@educostanzo]

The answer is i the beginning of this video: they turn to astrology.

[@awakenow7147]

@@educostanzo Or they designate their boyfriend or friends as their "therapists".

[@dopaminecloud]

They talk about problems without internalizing the conclusions and instead begin to project the psychology knowledge on those around them for psychoanalyzing which leads to more efficient gossip and shit talk.

[@RR-et6zp]

girls process it by talking about it, guys just solve the problem

[@GhANeC]

@@RR-et6zp lol yeah well, as a guy, who’s dealt with a lot of girls but also GUYS, i can’t say this is the most thoughtful or realistic reply so far that i could remotely agree with 😂

[@entropybear5847]

If paying someone to make me cry counts as therapy than my landlord mad qualified fr fr.

[@whoareyouyouareclearlylost323]

Say no to therapy! Stay strong and do whatever Patrick Bateman did lol

[@izzamani2527]

underrated comment

[@rakso1597]

Murder?

[@RR-et6zp]

girls process it by talking about it, guys just solve the problem

[@MetalCharlo]

It's not murder, it's a suprise game over screen@@rakso1597

[@whyharambedie]

In the morning if his face is a little puffy, he'll put on an icepack while doing his stomach crunches. He can do a thousand now. There is an idea of a Patrick Bateman, some kind of abstraction, but there is no "real him." And though he can hide his cold gaze, and you can shake his hand and feel flesh gripping yours, and maybe you can even sense your lifestyles are probably comparable- he simply is not there

[@CarbonStinger]

As a guy, I am the guy that can't get over his ex. I went to therapy because I was dating a quiet narcissist and she cheated on me. Was emotionally manipulative a lot of shit and left me with a shit ton of anxiety and depression. It's been 3 years and I've been trying to move on and she pops up in my head. I talked to a therapist and she made it worse my anxiety spiked to the max I've ever had it. She just wanted to get me on Xanax for big pharma.

[@theragnarok13]

Been there, went through that. The only thing that helped me realize the problem: she just keeps living in your head rent-free, while you mean nothing to her since the day she dropped you. You’re better than worshiping a cheater that’s not capable to love anyone. I 100% guarantee you she hates herself when alone, and it’s HER own problem, not yours. And it never was. You’re an individual that’s not supposed to be relying on anyone on this fucking planet. You were alone when you came to this world, and you’ll be dying alone. You won’t be able to take your friends/mom/wife/gf/kids with you when you die. Let that sink in and don’t let Hollywood and Disney lure you into thinking that everything is possible. It’s an illusion, a trap, that you created for your own mind. You gotta get out of it. Btw, psychoactive stuff won’t help you heal. You can heal only by sobering up, staying away from alcohol/thc and other crap for at least 6-12 months. Learn to live by yourself, hope for the best, but get ready for the worst. Because the worst usually comes unexpectedly. It’s totally in your hands, you can do it - just make a thorough plan for every outcome that will possibly happen to you. Those things are parents’ death, loosing your housing, loosing your job, severe illness, sudden disability. If you don’t have an exact plan for every disastrous event - you’re pretty much not living in a reality. Because reality comes unexpectedly, and in case you’re unprepared - it will devastate you. Read some ancient Roman/Greek books about stoicism - Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius, Seneca. They will explain what the real life actually is and how to get prepared. I can keep on going, but it’s all really in your hands. Just know, I’ve been in this situation, I know it sucks. But now I’m completely healed and strong both physically and mentally. I’ll never let people treat me the wrong way, because I treat myself with rigidity - I always keep the word given to myself. If I keep my word given to myself - I think twice before giving a promise to someone else. And if I did - I’ll strictly make it into reality, whatever it takes. Otherwise, if you lie to yourself, by breaking your promise given to yourself, how can you be honest with others? And if you don’t trust yourself, how can others trust your word? Modern society is really f*ked up, all these deceitful things people tell each other on the internet and in real life. The only way is to make yourself as powerful, as you possibly can. The truth is the power. Be sincere to yourself first. You’ll learn many things about yourself, that you’re actually a great person with many advantages, compared to others. When you clearly see your advantages - you know your power, you will never let people take use of you.

[@educostanzo]

I hear you bro, covert narcissist women are the devil on earth. Still recovering from the anxiety and low self worth I got from my experience, while she enjoys the new guy who appeared out of "nowhere" 2 weeks after I was discarded and given the silent treatment. Take care!

[@SkullScar]

​@@educostanzo She belongs in the streets! 😂

[@erismason3441]

I'm a woman who had the misfortune of accidentally befriending a covert narcissist. She was absolutely awful near the end, I cannot imagine the pain of being in a relationship with someone like that. I'm sorry.

[@RR-et6zp]

girls process it by talking about it, guys just solve the problem

[@arv584]

the sequel to the red flags video!

[@osamaal-humaimidi1481]

I know it's done comically but THANK YOU, THANK YOU MAN for bringing attention to issues related Men's mental health

[@RR-et6zp]

girls process it by talking about it, guys just solve the problem

[@osamaal-humaimidi1481]

@@RR-et6zp ehhh. Not really, most of us unfortunately bottle them up and when we reach that "I'm done" point we blow up in the most toxic way. That's not "just solve the problem", that's just being a toxic and emotionally stupid human. We need to normalize talking about men's mental health issues, it's nothing to be ashamed of

[@CrucialFlowResearch]

What issues are you talking about? People who dont go to therapy dont need it, they just solve their problems without a paid emotional consultant

[@thierry_prud]

​​@@RR-et6zpif men just solve their problems why are su*ic*de rates three times higher among men than they are among women? just saying 🤷🏽🎉

[@lucasng4712]

loser@@RR-et6zp

[@garrettp8225]

>Woman: "I'm not your therapist." >me: Goes to therapy >Therapist: "Don't you have any friends that you can talk to about your feelings?"

[@wesley6442]

I do, yes but I don't want to bother them nor feel vulnerable and awkward.. no way

[@treyaranza1839]

I will never get tired of charlie x cherdleys crossovers

[@RR-et6zp]

girls process it by talking about it, guys just solve the problem

[@Alleywaycreamcup]

No, now if you excuse me I have to go replay Skyrim for the 15,000th time

[@wesley6442]

I look at hours played in a literal mentally abusive online multiplayer fighting game called, "for honor" clocking in at 1500 hours and say to myself, "how did it come to this?"

[@Alleywaycreamcup]

@@wesley6442 That’s why I like to play games like Skyrim. It’s so relaxing to play I’ll spend all my free time playing it and not regret it at all.

[@SakanaOtoko]

1:22 there is an emotion in her voice and the way her mouth curls that stabs deep into my soul, these attacks were personal

[@mercurialmagictrees]

My favorite Cherdley's video this year. No I won't go to therapy.

[@Turok1134]

I don't need therapy. I just need a Pepsi.

[@imadoggo3916]

What do you mean MY best Interest!?

[@theancientone1616]

HOLY SH*T, I can’t believe someone still remembers this reference nowadays!! This band is my life hahaha!

[@duckyjeez2394]

Well it's not really about needing therapy it's about getting to a place where your able to be honest with yourself and open about our problems. That's why we have people in our life to rely on each other because not everyone is able to be 100% independent. We are fallible human beings. There's a level of coping that people should be able to tough out but not an extreme level to where you're becoming a problem to someone else although that's rarely. I think the real problem is that families and households are getting increasing toxic and don't truly have people that love them and bring them up in a loving family who don't force you to feel like you're only a burden to them and that you can talk about your feelings with them. The least we can do as humans is lend an ear to someone in need especially within your family. You should never force someone to do what they don't want to but you can only encourage them with love to so something that is better for themselves and I guess sometimes that can be therapy but God damn a lot of times it's used as an excuse to not have to deal with someone else's problems because you have enough as it is. Relationships are for confiding in each other to carry the weight together. Many hands make light work

[@DwynTwo]

Yes, but often times, it's a problem when your friends and family become your substitute therapist. Lending an ear is one thing. Constantly having to listen to your problems and being expected to fix them for you is another. And often times guys will take their self loathing and trauma out on you and excuse it with "Well I was hurt when I was a kid and I am unhappy 🥺"; guess what, I was too, and I told my friends and family about it, but I know that they ultimately cannot help me with it.

[@MichaelIZKOOL]

I love it when you get everybody in one of these

[@pb6270]

Yayyy!

[@Guccibear100]

I like how through the years they still keep in touch and make time to be in videos.

[@nathanielgladstone3204]

I thought similar things about therapy before I went. At some point i realized that the therapist isnt there to fix my problems, they just get me to fix them myself. Therapists dont try to change who you are , but they get you to realize it and thats one of the most powerful things that nothing else really can compare to

[@morbidquill]

"lots of people have problems, why should mine get solved" lowkey hits hard tho

[@Supermateo97]

*Marvel:* " We're making the best crossover of all time" *Cherdleys:* "Hold my stepmom"

[@EHAmos]

5:24 I haven't laughed that hard in a while 😂

[@brittneyraeallday]

This video took 10 years to make that’s why it’s so freaking awesome

[@RR-et6zp]

girls process it by talking about it, guys just solve the problem

[@PhreakinJ0nny]

"Thousands of people have problems, why should mine get solved?" Hit a little too deep

[@RR-et6zp]

girls process it by talking about it, guys just solve the problem

[@firstlast8258]

The numbers don't lie but liars use numbers 🤓 🖕

[@OdensJournal2d]

Joel always gets the same character in these and it’s legendary

[@wendib9608]

the long awaited video we've been waiting for lol Charlie, Anwar, Jeff, and more wow.

[@lavasharkandboygirl9716]

You couldn’t remember everyone’s names could you

[@davis4555]

​@@lavasharkandboygirl9716 your name cracks me up. It describes 2023😂

[@RR-et6zp]

girls process it by talking about it, guys just solve the problem

[@neelanshukumar4308]

So f**king wholesome... The type of content that existed in KZbin years ago but vanished. Thank you so much Cherdleys! 😇😭

[@fuzzy-02]

The biggest downside of therapy is that the people who need it most are also the ones that can't afford it. Lets be real here, one session ain't gonna solve it and that sh1t costs money.

[@devinwatkins8953]

Where are people getting these expensive therapist from? Mine is only 30$ 😅 do people not have health insurance and stuff. Like i domt understand

[@godlymegatron5698]

Even if you can, it doesn't guarantee anything. I got a session finally 1 year in advance and it got canceled. Cue the I am on vacation sign. Want to reschedule when I'm free 2 years from now on Monday? Hell naw! I can't even get my disability benefits on time 8 months late or at all on other occasions. I would be homeless or dead if it weren't for my family. It doesn't help the agents keep switching, and at least half of them are lazy cold passive aggressive sods. All they gotta do is flip a few buttons and make a call.

[@roberthsieh8639]

join the army for free therapy. true story.

[@codyquakenbush4964]

I was waiting for the better help ad. I was surprised when it never came. Lol

[@jordendeboer2853]

I love the way you bring up mental health in a humorous way. Absolutely brilliant. Btw I watch alot of Mark Manson stuff and he's pretty good at teaching mental health/therapy stuff that are complicated and uncomfortable. He brings it out with an in your face-attitude with some humour that even a 3 year old would understand (okay, maybe more like a 12 year old), but you get the point

[@Jericho4lyfe]

Bro got some of the most legendary KZbinrs together to make this hilarious video, gotta appreciate the effort 😂

[@chickensandw1tch]

0:35 proffesionals know! facts! 0:50 testosterone vibe 1:20 self diagnosis xD labels 2:00 friendzone 3:00 comedian brilliance ^^ for me deep talking, and connecting with people opening up is therapy, also mdma is therapy.

[@whyharambedie]

5:05 "The money I would be spending on therapy, I can just spend on my problems and (it) just fixes them." Yeah. Not everything is that complicated, and you just need to work. Don't go to therapy because you're stressed out that you can't afford a nice date or that your car is making a weird sound, just fix it. Quit whining. Tired of the pity parties.

[@stephen011298]

In all seriousness, I've been to 3 therapists and had not terrible, but not great experiences. I've found the biggest problem with therapy, and the main reason I think men don't tend to go, is that the vast majority of therapist specialize in specific issues, and are mostly woman, and there just aren't enough that specialize in general male issues. Therefore, men don't take it as seriously.

[@DarkVeghetta]

Therapy for men isn't the same as therapy for women. Women mainly need to talk about their problems. Men mainly need to do something about their problems.

[@johndc2998]

Bro this has to be one of the most legendary compilations of funny youtubers ever.

[@jreverie7018]

This was gold! Now time to ask reddit what I should have for dinner tonight!!!

[@struggler8532]

Then hang out with my favorite twitch streamer friends

[@XGD5layer]

1:10 unexpected that she talks back to them

[@maegnificant]

Therapy is not the answer. Stay strong kings.

[@05_dapro78]

hell yea

[@ctr1936]

cant tell if this is a joke or not and i probably dont wanna know

[@devinwatkins8953]

I know a gun is.

[@miscmisc3128]

we just arent hardwired the same @@ctr1936

[@deathsaidhello]

"It is what it is" and life goes on until it doesnt.

[@SnailMan63]

This was actually real af and presented in a super digestible way

[@y04a]

"Thousands of people have problems. Why should mine get solved" 😂

[@christopherpape4823]

In their defense, I've been going to therapy for the past 5 years and I'm still depressed

[@mrscruffles801]

Depression is a mental condition, can't be cured by just talking to someone any more than autism can. Therapy isn't the answer to depression sadly.

[@wesley6442]

*walks out of therapist session* "damn, I still feel shitty" lol

[@christopherpape4823]

@@wesley6442 relatable

[@InnerEagle]

She hit my nuts when she said comedians hides their pain with jokes, cause, it's true, I'm suffering

[@alicetookherpills]

bro thinks he's a comedian 💀💀😭😭😭😭

[@bravo1oh1]

imagine getting "therapy" instead of not being crazy

[@RR-et6zp]

girls process it by talking about it, guys just solve the problem

[@dmwanderer9454]

Imagine paying someone to tell you what you're thinking? Couldn't be me.

[@daquack._]

"It's in my blood, I'll get over it eventually"

[@slackerofhell]

God dammit Cherdleys let me wallow in my sorrow in peace

[@kalleskit]

And now I want this woman to be my wife, damnit. I'd like to add, that apart from therapy, it can also be a step forward to open up more to anyone who cares. We need to learn to ask for help, not just from therapists.

[@Ugg_Son_Of_Thogg]

The problem is that no one cares. :( The fear of getting ghosted by others simply for talking about something you're going through (or have gone through for 9 god damn years) is worse when combined with toxic masculinity conditioning throughout childhood while going through some tough shits one after the other. Now I'm unable to trust to confide in anyone, love anyone, or feel loved by anyone. I'm not just gonna die alone, I'm DYING alone. I subconsciously keep any kind of relationships I'd ever make at an arms length just because I'm afraid to show my vulnerabilities. Don't choose the male option in the character menu, this strat sucks ass. You'll probably rage quit by the age of 18.

[@MartBartKart]

@@Ugg_Son_Of_Thogg Stop crying. You need more testosterone. It makes you feel great. Start a good diet and lifting weights!

[@whataboutthis10]

She hot yeah

[@AD45]

​@@Ugg_Son_Of_Thogg be strong man, go gym, do calisthenics, read stuff, learn to be comfortable with urself

[@perseus_0884]

@@MartBartKart I get the idea behind that, but that's also the reason people don't say shit. Maybe phrase it better mate

[@jotadirect6372]

Usually, playing minecraft until i feel better works

[@natalielebaron]

This is a masterpiece!😂 so many great one liners 👍🏼

[@ZackMcfarlin]

I was not expecting to see Ryley Ladd in this video 💀

[@PixelatedFaerie]

Dude your new videos should all have millions of views. They're so good.

[@zardaboi2652]

Gotta love charlie being here

[@ProjectAlphaPrimetime]

No to therapy because talking about your problems without actually self reflecting on past experiences, your behavior, your actions, and your trauma does nothing but drain your bank account, solutions to your problems, learning to accept things that happened, actually letting go of the past, not allowing the past to impact your future and your future relationships, and having to re-experience past things that will be extremely hard to go through, things that you have to come to terms with. I have yet to hear about someone who got over traumatic experiences, worked themselves out of depression, or crippling anxiety, extreme self doubt and a certain amount of lower view that almost exclusively points to why people have social anxiety, with various other reasons that led up to them starting to build and develop those views. Next is people that use it as a crutch to not improve and do more with their lives due to x,y and z, I get it, but letting depression and anxiety win is never the answer, you change the mindset, you start changing how you respond and react to those feelings and internal negative or out loud negative self talk, you start questioning the BS because depression is BS. This is the tip of the iceberg at what seemingly all therapist fail tremendously at... Im still trying to best figure out the always calm and chill and relaxing not judgmental tone and voice, which allows for the building of trust, openness, and vulnerability, dont point things as something they did or didn't do, instead talking about and even showing them how better to do it, combined with teaching better mindsets, I think its necessary to point out what is wrong, but even more importantly what is right, because its more positive and better to associate to, established what and how to achieve positivity over establishing negativity. Judgement and ostracization is what people are trying their best for the most part to avoid

[@avertingapathy3052]

Isn't talking about them part of reflecting on them. I mean yeah, some can just complain. But stfu and reflect on it yourself mindset is also toxic for people, especially men who on average are more isolated than women. Decent therapy can help people establish safety to process last issues clouding their progress in the present or work on challenges in the future.

[@Hemlocker]

Do you have a bunch of male friends who have all tried therapy and ended up worse off for it? If yes, do you think you might have just surrounded yourself with a bunch of men who also share the same pessimistic outlook as you, and as such your perspective on therapy at large is skewed? If no, how do you come to this conclusion at all? Also, have you tried it yourself, and if so what was your experience like?

[@johnny4062]

Everything in your first paragraph can be worked on in therapy.

[@devinwatkins8953]

Everything you started out saying can be worked on in therapy also i never paid more then 30$ for a session. Also my girl is a therapist and iv gone to her company meetings. so i have countless success storys.

[@ethantran3765]

so real and i liked all of the collabs. favorite youtuber collab of all time.

[@nik4520]

Love seeing Joel

[@bluecat5655]

Love seeing Trent

[@T4xEvader]

Fellas, I was 19 when I decided that I needed to go to therapy. That started my mental health journey. I now only go a couple times a year to vent because I've largely become self reliant and fixed most of my glaring issues. Unironically going to therapy is the most based thing you can do. Just dont become reliant on SSRIs or benzos.

[@vincemcv3113]

Well for you yes but I’m sure those meds help ppl seriously goofd in the head

[@gVert404]

why would I go to therapy when I can just think about my problems on my own, I don’t need to pay some random fuck to tell me what I already know

[@T4xEvader]

@@vincemcv3113 antipsychotics in bipolar, BPD, or schizophrenia? Sure. Depression is just your mind and body being out of sync. If you work hard and live a life thats worth living you can demolish 90% of your symptoms. We ALL have good and bad days. To be dependent on meds and not work on yourself will lead you nowhere.

[@Janellabelle]

It's not a weakness to be reliant on medication. Many people take all kinds of medications for their medical issues and it's not a bad thing to have access to them, it's a good thing.

[@myenglishisbadpleasecorrec5446]

@@T4xEvader no, you don't know what are you talking about

[@angrysealion2259]

This cast is more stacked than Oppenheimer

[@swissky8147]

0:42 pretty solid advice from charlie ngl

[@garrettdoyle888]

You know who needs therapy the most out all these different guys? You girl, you.

[@lepriconfromhell]

How dare you hold a woman accountable

[@garrettdoyle888]

@@lepriconfromhell lmao

[@garrettdoyle888]

Apparently all guys to exist ever need therapy and all girls are just pitch perfect.🙃

[@BusinessWolf1]

​@@garrettdoyle888 that's the general consensus of society, mostly because the entire field of therapy is full of women and their values are the only acceptable ones, you won't get a single actionable plan from therapy just discussions to solve mental stuff. And that's nice, but guys usually need help with doing shit. We evolved to kill shit and resist in the face of immense struggle, now we're judged on our ability to be friendly and super positive and people act like we're broken when we're the same animalistic respect-driven creatures, just toned down due to society.

[@GrizzzlyPanda]

@@BusinessWolf1 You view therapy like an assignment at work or something to be done to just check off a list, as if to say don't worry society I did your little song and dance. In reality those 'discussions' with someone well trained would probably lead you pretty quickly from your current narrow viewed and victimized portrait of men and yourself in today's world and be able to break that down to a fundamental part of you that you didn't realize existed like fear of abandonment, etc. I mean seriously, take a second and re-read your message. Using the perspective of Man's evolution as a baseline not only shields you from being personally vulnerable in these scenarios, it clouds and diminishes your own individual needs, anxieties, and accomplishments that if discovered with say, oh idk a mental health professional, could actually be used to set an entirely new outlook in life. Good luck tho lol

[@josephbelisle5792]

Not just therapy, but the right therapy.

[@zanderaw]

therapy is a scam 90% of the time. Most therapists have bigger mental problems than I do!

[@the.peachy]

Such fucking gold, I love when a video has a bunch of different creators in it. amazing shit

[@jackhandma1011]

This is a masterpiece

[@wintermoon4265]

happy men's mental health my bros

[@Hlecktro]

Man, I might be in the minority, Cherdleys 2019 was so much funnier. These days it feels less funny and more just like "Content". There's still a few good ones every now and then. I miss a lot of those old skits. Especially ones with Casey. Some of my favorites "I need to tell you something", "Take Out The Trash", Meet The Band (1), The Kyle(s) Skit

[@Harab_Serapel]

Back when I was going through a rough patch in my life, I wound up being forced to see a therapist. It was good for me. It's nice having somebody that you can open up to without fear of judgment. Eventually, my therapist moved, and my life circumstances changed, and my social and professional life both picked up. I'm in a better place, but sometimes I miss therapy. I just don't feel as though I have the time or need to try hunting down and meet with a therapist I would gel with. I don't think you need to be in a bad place to benefit from it, but I do recognize that the logistical, financial, and social challenges make it hard for a lot of people to go to therapy unless they are really struggling with something. I hope most people get some at some point in their life even if they feel they are doing alright because some of my most meaningful conversations were in therapy.

[@Falcons8455]

every therapist ive seen has been so bad tho

[@justwannabehappy6735]

Yeah. Try hookers instead. Way cheaper and more efficient.

[@cerspence]

What the hell is wrong with Andrew hahahah

[@milee105]

Ayo what kinda problems u got with daddy. He's perfect

[@MichaelIZKOOL]

He just wants to see the baddies

[@cerspence]

@@milee105 I love him

[@milee105]

@@cerspence yayy 😊

[@Dimitrije_Sukovic]

Women will literally go to therapy instead of enjoying healthy hobbies and pursuing spiritual meaningfulness.

[@JC-sc9rx]

Ive been in therapy since I was 12. Im 32. Had like..8 different therapists or something. They can be good sounding boards though. But that one guy almost had a good point " why spend money on therapy when I can spend it to fix the problem" there may he times where this actually would make sense to me.

[@SkullScar]

Same tbh sometimes just listening to people and your actions are going to clue into your own episodes/crisises

[@RR-et6zp]

girls process it by talking about it, guys just solve the problem

[@devinwatkins8953]

​@@RR-et6zpyou have to much time on your hands

[@mikewolf7288]

My therapy is working hard at my job and helping those around me. God knows I can't help myself but it feels right to do something good for those around me. If you got an able body and a good heart then you're able to give back when you can

[@andresakra1283]

Honestly the main thing I got from therapy was structure and frameworks for dealing with my feelings and doing annoying stuff I knew would better myself.

[@Revelrevan]

I’m glad to see Andrew again