chit chat bake with me + my worst first date storytime lol

[@msseeah]

Girlll, that guy being so persistent to show you his apartment while you're uncomfortable was already such a huge red flag 🚩 first dates are always scary but it didn't have to be THAT traumatic. That guy needed a therapist, not a date.

[@KeeganActon]

Hahahaha he needed a therapist, not a date😂😂😂 I’m dying because that’s so true!! He was a walking red flag

[@erinalanna7732]

also like… doesn’t take her saying no… super big red flag

[@keira-krupa]

The guy was such a red flag 🚩 and they fact that he talked all about him. I loved this video and getting the notification that you post makes my day.

[@rheemk1980]

we are patiently waiting for the sorority stories!!

[@KeeganActon]

It’s coming I swear

[@youthdew1983]

Girl, I’m 39….let me tell you, you never ever eveeeeer leave your purse behind. Ever. Even if you’re with friends. Take that with you everywhere. Also him taking you to his apartment first was him trying to skip the date and head right into trying to get laid, if you’re ever in that situation again just walk away and call an Uber, don’t ever feel bad for making a dude like that feel bad. You owe nothing.

[@KeeganActon]

That’s such great advice that I’ll definitely take with me!! I honestly didn’t even think about him taking me to his apartment in the beginning was him trying to get laid, but that makes so much sense

[@erin07697]

The concept of this video was so fun and I love that shade of pink on you! Stay safe out there, dating is scary. Always drive yourself and never leave your purse behind 💗

[@jalyngallen]

What a horrific first date story! So glad you made it through safe to share!

[@charlottesinclair9354]

Keegan: sweeps sugar off the bench onto the floor Also Keegan: "there's sugar all over the floor, how did I do this?!? 😂

[@Darklink7884]

YAY! I love baking/cooking with Keegan videos.

[@KeeganActon]

They’re so fun for me to film!!

[@Darklink7884]

Especially the chit chatty portions. I could watch those all day long.

[@courtneygarrett9511]

Creeeeppppyyyyy dude! I need a weekly bake with me story time video please!! Also, to use your words-you’re slaying in this video 😮😍😍

[@Saadysalma]

Love your stories, keep em coming!

[@rebekahmartin2354]

That top looks so good on you, Keegan! And I’m going to need a lot more of these baking videos! 😂 I’m so so sorry for that date. That guy was a walking red flag…. Hopefully it just goes up from here!

[@_simangele_]

Yes, please. The storytimes would be wonderful

[@di.anabanana]

Keegan!! this pink is soooo your color!!😍😍 but girl i’m glad you got out that date safely cause wtf

[@DayraDGE]

Yaaaas! I love it here 🩷 now plus baking GURL even more 🩷🩷🩷 baking for me is so soothing 🥰🥰 🤣🤣🤣 lndeed a crazy story

[@KeeganActon]

I love baking because then I get to eat a yummy treat afterwards hagag

[@joellegraham3403]

Dear keegan thank you so much for sharing this video on your worse first date and making yummy cookies. We learn the hard way when it comes to dating etc but I am glad that you are safe. I can't wait to watch your next video!!

[@KeeganActon]

This makes me so happy thank you🥹🥹

[@claireduckworth7659]

This baking vlog was so fun and what a horrific first date story and I am so sorry you went through that! Always take your purse with you! We need the sorority tea!

[@aprilxu8418]

Clicked on the video as soon as I got the notification. Keegan you look so good in pink. You are so gorgoeus🤩

[@KeeganActon]

Thank you so much🥹🥹

[@katekoger1794]

I love hearing your dating story. But omg lol 🫣 that guy, no! His pushing suggestions are not ok. Been there. I'm so sorry and I'm glad you're safe. Never let a guy push anything ever, ever.

[@patricia_seraphine]

Hi Keegan. Hope you enjoy your Friday as well as what you're baking ☺️.

[@KeeganActon]

Thank you! You too!

[@harrietkanin1064]

I need more of this content!! It was so fun and you quickly got me engaded in the story, I sat and straight up gasped the whole video!🤍

[@miyobamuleya1323]

Hey Keegan I love your videos ❤️

[@Zonaishpirwani]

Dear Keegan , thank you so much for creating these entertaining videos for us, you don't know how much I love watching ur videos and how much of an inspiration you are to

[@bradypreston8472]

I love baking/cooking videos with Keegan!!

[@alexislexi1211]

Just want to say that I met my fiancé off Tinder and we’re getting married next month after being together for well over 5 years. But MAN I’ve totally have had similar dates you’ve had off of Tinder 🤣 even some of the stories my fiancé told me had me shook. You wouldn’t believe some women. The guy I went on a date with before my (now) fiancé was a total red flag. We were talking for about 2-3 weeks and he said he loved me. Not too mention after our second date, he texted me to make me feel bad for not doing anything with him besides kissing. He shamed me for leaving him with “blue balls”. So I guess since I kissed him, it’s my fault that I didn’t do something to help his hornyness?! I blocked him and ghosted him. I don’t even feel bad for it. I’m a huge believer everything happens for a reason. So glad you are okay and safe from this experience. We live and we learn. Here’s to focusing on yourself and living your best life!! Love you Keegan 💕

[@victoriarose9415]

This was one of my favorite videos of yours, love you Keegan ❤️

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

Hi Keegan happy Friday afternoon and I hope you having amazing day today and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you

[@ajdodson9550]

You look so STUNNING in the pink and denim!!🤩love your bake/cooking segments! Happy Friday Keegan!!

[@KeeganActon]

Thank you so much🥹🥹

[@davidparnell4675]

42 degrees in Phoenix this morning! Highs today 66

[@KeeganActon]

So nice out!!

[@VideoGameRoom32]

Measuring spoons and cups are so helpful. I've seen some cooking videos they don't use them. I commented on why they don't use them and they reply back they say they're good cooks and don't need them. I prefer to have them.

[@KeeganActon]

I use them especially for baking. I feel like with cooking you can get away with eyeballing it, but with baking it’s a little more specific.

[@brendachaves6375]

I love your baking videos!

[@katied7736]

girl you are so brave and i'm glad you're okay!! i feel even more lucky to have my excuse to not let dates pick me up (power wheelchair that doesn't fit in most cars) lol but I've still had guys ask 😅😂 I always love your storytimes!!

[@taylorrogers7185]

Absolutely loved this video! You made my Friday even better!

[@KeeganActon]

This makes me so happy🥹🥹

[@JoseSanchez-fp3mp]

Hello, nice bake video I enjoyed it so much and dont worry if this happens to you dont let yourself down we always have experiences like that all human beings, thanks so much for this one, have a nice day.

[@nikkolejones]

I can’t believe we both live In Scottsdale!

[@sarahbaker8259]

GIRL!!!! I am so sorry you went through this, what a jerk. NEVER leave your purse anywhere omg take it EVERYWHERE you go. Keep some pepper spray on you too, you never know lol

[@sarathomas6938]

Use silicon baking mats on the pan! Makes your life so much easier

[@KeeganActon]

Omg I have those idk why I didn’t think about that

[@allisongallardo992]

i loved this 😭😂

[@oisheeroy5071]

Woooo hoooo ..... Fabulous as always ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@KeeganActon]

Thank you🥹🥹

[@waleskadavis895]

Omg a reminder of why I dreaded my dating days. It was cool of u to give him a chance even if not attracted. I agree it's not all about looks, and a guy wouldn't have stayed.. lol, don't get why people expect a woman to just settle and not try to find their person. If I like him he doesn't have to be cute to everyone... but there has to be a mutual attraction.

[@NoellaNiz]

You should definitely do more storytimes💯💯😅I'm enjoying the story despite it being weird and low key creepy😂

[@mikaelah5674]

Every time I though the date couldn’t have gotten worse it did lol.

[@amberspade15]

i LOVE these videos from you!!👏🏽💗

[@KeeganActon]

I'm so glad!

[@Courtney-Alice-Gargani]

Second. YAY. Love your hair and pink tank top.

[@KeeganActon]

Thank you so much!!

[@ervinsmoviecorner8748]

First! Happy weekend, Keegan!

[@KeeganActon]

You too!!

[@asiamcgill3673]

I love you bestie

[@KeeganActon]

I live you too!!!

[@myramoore9805]

OK we should talk. You are a beautiful woman and so smart, you should have told flat out that you were not going in his apartment. If he wanted to go to his apartment,you could for another way home..Sounds to me like he might have have issues because he is so impressed with his self. Always take your purse. You could always call 911 from the bathroom and told them how uneasy you were feeling. Please be safe.Don't settle for anyone unless your heart tells you to. Love you

[@faith.92048]

Also its a huge red flag if he is not respecting that you don't want a ride to the restaurant

[@dajshasanders3368]

Oh no keagan the beginning of this story was scary don’t do that again even I am scared for you hearing this date story

[@likeyoursilence]

Omg that top! Where's it from? I'm in love 😍 if it makes you feel better, I once got puked on(on my head!) by a random drunk woman on an already horrible first date after she sat at our table and interrogated us for 10min about whether we were on a first date and if we were having a good time 😂

[@SAHENAAZLOVESTOCOOK]

Nice 👍👍

[@KeeganActon]

Thanks!!

[@alangiles776]

No, Keegan, no. This first date guy was red flag 🚩central. Taking you to his own apartment on a first date sounds as if he wanted some "action" with you. Please take care of yourself on dates. We guys don't think like we really should when it comes to the first few dates with a lady. Your cookies 🍪 look really good. Are there any left 😂?

[@bennettb]

I don’t even have words lol

[@patricestew4553]

Stuff sticking to pans? Girl, parchment paper changed my life 😊

[@dominikbenz8349]

💖💖

[@KeeganActon]

Ily!!

[@liz_neal]

Babe I am at a LOSS😭 this is funny but very much not funny? My jaw indeed dropped

[@cjenkins8785]

"You have to kiss a lot of 🐸s before you meet the handsome Prince" . . . Cinderella

[@deniselegere5927]

I would have never went into his apartment. I grew up with 3 brothers, I won’t take any crap from guys. Also, try putting aluminum foil on your baking sheets. It keeps them clean and you just throw out the foil

[@Darklink7884]

Holy sh!t. WTF, girl. That man LITERALLY gives off creeper vibes and is also a malignant narcissist. I saw so many red flags: -Talks about himself the entire time and never once asks you a question to get to know you better. -Exposes you to a naked man in his own apartment. Girl, I am so sorry you had go through that. 🤮 THAT was traumatizing in and of itself. -Does not listen to you; orders sushi tuna rolls even though you tell him you do not like tuna. -Possibly DUI because he had three cocktails before driving (two beers is fine, but three cocktails is asking for trouble). -Use TV only for video games, but not for watching TV news, shows, or films. Who does that?!?! -Non-consensual hug when he drops you off at your place.

[@Darklink7884]

P.S. I myself play video games and upload them to KZbin. However, I only do it in moderation, and I also don't use my TV only for video games the same way this man does.

[@KeeganActon]

RIGHT!!! Isn’t that insane??? it blows my mind, how unaware he was, and what he was doing. Also, Arizona is a no tolerance date so even if you have one set of alcohol, that is still a DUI. so he was welllll above the 0 limit

[@Darklink7884]

​​​@@KeeganActon Girl, I am sorry you had to go through all of that. I wish I could hold your hand in person and tell you I'm glad you made it home safely. First dates are full of unknowns but this was just inappropriate (and traumatizing) on so many levels. Also, as other people are saying, if someone you meet online tries to bring you to his apartment first to get laid before going to an actual restaurant, get a bus pass and run back to your apartment ASAP.

[@dawnmuttillo7974]

My gawd what a horrible date. This video made me laugh at the fact that dude thought you had a good time 🤣🤣. In my day we would have called him a total douche 🙄

[@Courtney-Alice-Gargani]

Trauma dumping? Most women don't like that and expect the man to solve his problems to be strong emotionally. Was he a narcissist? I had a date and he thought he was God's give to women. It was like EWWW!

[@KeeganActon]

I HATE MEN LIKE THAT!!! They need to humble themselves hahah

[@LacyAnne2010]

Goodness that was a horrible date lol did he ever try contacting you again after the date to get together again?

[@KeeganActon]

A bunch!! I thanked him for dinner after I got home and then he kept snapchatting me and I ghosted him which I felt bad about. but I didn’t want to hurt his feelings and I didn’t want to keep talking to him. He kept randomly Snapchat of me for about a month after our date and I never responded.

[@mariabrooks9193]

Jerry Springer or Steve Harvey

[@gwendolynrobinson3900]

Wtf how was it just red flag after red flag, man set off SIRENS 😭 I'm glad you can laugh about it now, it's a wild story

[@patricia_seraphine]

Yes, he is a walking red flag. I wouldn't be able to stand this guy, let alone being on a first date.

[@KeeganActon]

Fr he was a walking red flag😂 it blew my mind how unaware he was of what he was doing

[@gwendolynrobinson3900]

@@KeeganActon it's almost impressive how he basically ticked all the boxes. It's incredible how they seem perfectly fine enough to plan a date with beforehand and then come out of the woodwork the day of 😩

[@dajshasanders3368]

You should not have gone in to the guys house at all

[@_simangele_]

That was a lot. I'm traumatised for you.

[@elizabethmartin537]

Big bet he went on a dating show 🚩🚩🚩

[@Courtney-Alice-Gargani]

So you rather date a guy who's not attractive as Zac Efron who will treat you well versus a Zac who would treated you like dirt.

[@KeeganActon]

No I didn’t mean it like that. I don’t think your partner has to be as attractive as Zac efron but I do think you should be attracted to them. I’m fine with an average guy who treats me well. They don’t have to be a 10/10 appearance wise. I think women settle a lot (not even 100% talking appearances. I feel like we settle for men who don’t treat us well too) I didn’t say my point well but I don’t think you should settle for a man who you aren’t attracted and doesn’t treat you well. Men don’t settle the way women do

[@maddydouglas5663]

Ohhh I love this type of video from you!! 🎉🎉🎉 i don’t want to laugh at your experience because, absolutely not ok for him to act like that but also…..😂 I SAW HIS NKD ROOMMATE 🫣🫣🫣🫣😂 im so sorry

[@KeeganActon]

It’s funny when I think about it now, but in the moment, it was definitely not funny😂😂😂