Citizen Soldier - Comparison (Official Lyric Video)

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[@ga_teg]

Please do one for us financially struggling dad's doing everything we can to provide but feel like a failure

[@phoenix-hb5hl]

Y’all have always been amazing to me and have always made songs that genuinely make me feel heard, but lately I’ve been thinking about things y’all could do and I think I’ve got one that would be massive. What about a song about PTSD? Not your typical PTSD in soldiers or veterans, but what about one for the children. Those who’ve developed complex PTSD due to abuse or other painful experiences in their youth, ones that are so often told are fake, that they don’t have PTSD and it’s all in their head. It would be such a powerful thing to write a song for, to explain the silent horror in some children who can’t be heard.

[@briannataylor2571]

​@@phoenix-hb5hlhe has one on PTSD, still frame

[@scottskittles6369]

​@@phoenix-hb5hl even soldiers suffer from CPTSD. It's a pain in the end, because it gets misdiagnosed for normal PTSD. But if they do one on CPTSD, they can hit on BPD (borderline personality disorder) too.😊

[@aiddenchurch7116]

When is "you are enough" coming out

[@bxfgicy5075]

lesson of the song: don't follow trends to make people like you, be yourself and stop comparing yourself to others, find the real you 💜💜

[@gundamhero6527]

Say it louder for the ones in the back! That's the message EVERYBODY needs to hear!

[@somethingrandom08]

Just said something like that, looks like I don’t need to say that anymore. Don’t ever try to be someone else, be you, ik it’s hard. But if I can at least recover from doing that (even if I’m still seriously hard on myself, I’m aware and am trying to improve on that), then anybody doing the same can too. You can do it, and love y’all

[@karazakiakuno4645]

Whats the meaning if nobody values the real you?

[@braydentheriault5217]

No shit bud

[@ATypiclaNPC]

Can Anprove, if u aren't liked u won't be liked even if u try to follow Trends. If aren't liked and nobody can realy tell why, then u are fucked and thats it.

[@thenuggy5417]

"the perfect body will not be enough" that entire section of the song was so truthful and I loved it. Amazing song

[@The_KBE]

"Every one of us will look the same, when they lower us into our grave" damn that line hit hard! ❤

[@AngelKitten-pi1tm]

As someone who struggles with eating disorders THANK YOU SO SO MUCH!!! 🥺😭 THE WAY WE COMPARE OURSELVES BECAUSE OF SIZE CAN BE REALLY DANGEROUS!

[@dandromeda6676]

Don't give up, Angel! U can do it!

[@AngelKitten-pi1tm]

@@dandromeda6676 thank you so much 😭 that means alot

[@TsukkiDino]

Youre are beautiful and loved. I hope you get through this and be stronger then ever. Sending virtual hugs to you^^

[@AngelKitten-pi1tm]

@@TsukkiDino thank you so so much! 🥹

[@TamMoo1977]

God bless you!

[@rew970]

The first time that chorus hit, I immediately started choking up a bit. But on the last verse when he says "I've always been the ugly friend" I started legitimately crying, I haven't done that in years. Thank you for this music.

[@bethclark8088]

Everyone is ugly to someone and there is always someone who will think you are the most attractive person out here. Don't give up and love yourself❤

[@p.sychosis6019]

I don’t have an eating disorder per se, but I have huge self-image issues and this song is just scratching an itch I didn’t know I had. Love it❤

[@BlackWulfe]

I am currently been going thru a depression bout for several months now. I don't really eat and the fact that I have lost over 30 lbs is driving me to not eat so that I can attempt to look good at my age. I am 43 so this shit never ends unfortunately. I listen to a lot of Citizen Soldier's songs cuz they help me thru the darkest parts.

[@deniseosadolor]

​@@BlackWulfeI know saying everyone will look the same won't change your mind, but maby hearing that you are beautiful and you probably think that too😊, will help. It doesn't matter what other people think, do You find yourself pretty? I do😍☺️

[@anthonyjackson1977]

How do I feel safe in my own skin When I've always been the ugly friend? this line hit me so hard when you told ur ugly by people most of ur life

[@Strangerequestrian5938]

Two seconds in and I am already blown away!! This band means the world to me and I wouldn’t be here without them they saved my life!! I can’t wait to see you in person on October 19th 🥺 love you citizen Soldier

[@TheZephyrsWind]

I'm so glad to hear that! They've helped me a lot as well.

[@SirDaddyWicked]

Very relatable lyrics in every song

[@Strangerequestrian5938]

@@SirDaddyWicked amen 🙌🏻❤️‍🩹

[@lydiaadamson9375]

I'm in tears. I've struggled with an ED for years, and have only been in recovery for a little while now, but this song and these lyrics are something that will stay with me for the rest of my life, and I know this song will save the lives of so many others struggling with an ED. Thank you Jake and the rest of Citizen Soldier for creating and sharing such an impactful song💜

[@elizabethblott4735]

Are you sure you don’t have cameras and audio in my room? That hit hard. Another masterpiece but it hit hard

[@sergioalta9958]

You guys never make a bad song. Thank you for making me realize I’m never alone.

[@Darkendviper]

This song hits in the feels... Every song does and knowing other people feel this is so sad. No one deserves to feel the negative way they feel right now. They deserve better, and whoever you are out there, no matter how bad it gets, it'll get better, i promise!

[@opulenceharbingerofchaos3939]

I always love songs that I don’t relate to directly because they help give me an understanding for other peoples’ struggles.

[@TheLoneWolf014]

This song couldn’t have came at a better time! I’m starting to lose weight and have better self esteem. After hearing this song, it will definitely be in my playlist now! Love you guys!❤

[@Ruthrec96]

I've struggled with an eating disorder for a decade, this song is everything that goes through my head on a daily basis. Thank you for an incredible song

[@umineko_beatrice]

„I eat to cope, feel the guilt, stuck in a cycle“ This hits pretty hard for me struggling with eating disorder for many years. Still great song, so truthful, I love it

[@danielacaballero5141]

"The perfect body wont be enough on the day its pushing daisies up the only thing theyll be thinking of is what you did and how you loved" 2:17 that is so so powerful, I just love how you say so much in every single song, keep on being awesome and spreading beautiful music ❤

[@robyngriffin8113]

First time I have EVER felt truly seen as a person who has struggled with eating disorders for over two decades. After a very abusive childhood, somehow in my head, I thought food finally, something I control and not allow it to hurt me. WRONG!! It was just another thing controlling me😢 praise God I finally woke up and realized that or I would not be alive today✝️🙏

[@icycals4384]

I've been struggling with my eating disorder for a while now and have been waiting for this release since I watched the short. You have no idea how much I needed to hear this today. Thank you for all your songs. Definitely putting this on repeat❤

[@AndyLegends14]

another incredible sound from you to brighten my afternoon. Thank you Citizen Soldier, I love you!! ❤😍

[@DestinyGodden]

I just found this band and boy, every song is so deep... sad how spot on they get the lyrics and emotions for today's world.

[@leonmislo]

I knew that this song would slap when I heard the first teaser of it months ago. And you topped this! Wow was this awesome and so well-written that's hitting deep into the heart.❤ You make us not feeling alone in this world and push us to be more encouraged, like with this song. We should be proud of our bodies and ourselves - noone should judge us for being us.🙏

[@Christylove2000]

I’ve been struggling a lot and this song helps me feel better and that I am enough. Thank you citizen soldier 🖤💜🎶

[@Neitha98]

Oh my god as someone who struggles with bpd, bipolar 2, and have also an eating disorder, this is exactly what I am living this time and I start crying at the first lines.... You are incredible, for pulling painful but strong and deep emotions

[@lonelinessiscoming6162]

Goose bumps throughout the whole song!! Had to hold in tears sitting next to my parents. Such a good song, it really conveys the way I feel. Thank you for everything. You have helped and are still helping me through rough times. Keep rocking!!

[@Ph0en1x69]

This song made me almost cry for the first time in years from just how relatable I found it

[@Mattx12384]

Thank you for such encouraging and empowering music.

[@CT-6922]

Thank you so much for this amazing song, I've been waiting for this one since the teaser dropped. Your music is helping so many people. Keep up the good work, Citizen Soldier 💙

[@shanethenoble4761]

This song sends such a message. Don’t care about what people think of your appearance. Be you and treat people the way you want them to treat you. In the end people will only judge you for what you did and how you treated people. Keep on rocking guys! Can’t wait for the rest of the album

[@flsnowy1061]

Dam this hits hard def the part where you say THIS HOODIEI'S TOO BIG BUT MAKES ME FEEL SAFE. // Not even a minute in I started to cry. I love the songs They have helped me through so much Pain and sleepless night's.

[@ilanitavi9648]

How do you read my soul so accurately?🤯 Thank you for being there for us🙏❤ Love from Israel💙🤍💙

[@ambrissakaminari6926]

This one hit home. I still feel guilty from eating more then I feel like I should have. Yet it's ironic because I'm constantly letting others know that they perfect as they are. Pretty stupid of me huh? Adding on the line about having not looked into the mirror is so heartbreaking. I thought about it and I can't remember the last time I looked in the mirror. Thank you for another amazing song that touches the heart and helps the lost 💙

[@galina_love_english]

I fell in love with this band for their music, and when I listened to the lyrics I realized how right my choice was

[@pikachu23xyz53]

Comparison can make you feel like you always need to change to fit in with others so that you aren't the odd one out. Don't do that, be yourself, be different, never compare yourself to anyone because the more your do the more you will feel like you need to change. The message to take away from this is that just be yourself don't let anyone else tell you what you can and can't do. (If only I let this happen)

[@jibrilamvs]

Social media has brought us together but in many ways driven us farther apart than ever before. Don’t compare yourself to people online. Be yourself. You are enough. There is only one you. Only you can write your story. No one else can do that.

[@Cake342]

I was about to eat lunch when I first heard this song, I started crying. I’ve been struggling with my weight for years now and this hit me like a brick. I’m a binge eater and I feel like it’s one of the very few things in life I can control.

[@ProjectImpossibleOfficial]

As someone who has struggled with his weight since fourth grade... oh my god. wow. I went into this song with no expectations and I finished it with tears rolling down my face. Citizen Soldier, your songs never cease to amaze me.

[@lilithkyokotsu16]

"how do I feel safe in my own skin when I've always been the ugly friend" I felt that....

[@mysteriouswolfgirl1351]

This is the most relatable song on the album so I keep on looking forward to the new songs because I hope they'll make me cry and thats always what I need but I couldn't cry even if I wanted to. Thank you so much CS you always shout all the words we're too afraid to whisper 😖🤘🔥🧡

[@ximenaallessandrij.5972]

"What you call a meal, I call an existential crisis" My whole rejecting food deal just put in a line... hope more people can found understanding people who knows how horrible this is and can be kind and go slow with all of you, wish y'all the best 🥺

[@kaua08]

I love this song. Not once in my life have I ever been, either comparing myself or having others compare me to others. Sports, School, and Appearance. I get annoyed now when others compare me to someone else but I still can't get over comparing myself to others, it's just kinda engrained in my head now.

[@chiaragraziosi7569]

I literally cried my eyes out yesterday because of this... Feeling left out and not enough, always comparing myself to the others, whether it's in my daily life or during my Karate classes which is the only thing keeping me sane but yesterday it weighed heavily on me. And you guys dropped this right on time, as always. If it's God's sign or not I can't thank you enough for being a safeline even if we're strangers. Hope the best for you all ❤.

[@applesauceisgood32]

A Citizen Soldier song is there for any mood of feeling I may be in. Great stuff!

[@sebastianlauritsen629]

i struggle with self doubt almost every single day, the message in this song touches me in a way that is tough to describe but wholly appreciated nonetheless. Thank you guys

[@katiebennett7602]

This just became one of my favorite songs by Citizen Soldier!! I remember that people who wish they looked like their role models online sometimes develop eating disorders and body dysmorphia or just feel sad because they wanted the same body type as other people. Not to mention that TV shows targeted at children and teenagers also tend to promote body-shaming and extremely thin people. But at the end of the day, it's okay to not look like someone in the media, whatever that media may be. You should just love yourself the way you are made. And you shouldn't have to change it.

[@ZornyPooh]

You guys, always find a way to make me spill tears. But not in a bad way, it is just so heartwarming to hear songs like that, I feel understood.

[@heartthatuser]

Beautiful as always, the bridge, "How do I feel safe in my own skin when I've always been the ugly friend" hits hard

[@livyellis8355]

Your music inspired me to write about my experience with Body dysmorphia. I won a state competition. Thank you

[@kayleeking1971]

Once again you release another song right when i needed it most. I compare myself to others on a daily basis always telling myself I'm too ugly i need to change, so thank you for this song. Citizen Soldier you seem to have the amazing talent of releasing songs when people needed them the most and needed to hear them so keep it up your absolutely amazing ❤

[@hated_lover32]

Out of all of your songs, this.. this one hits the absolute hardest. Thank you for creating the perfect masterpiece out of any decade! ❤

[@Itz..just_jem]

Oh my god.. every song gets more and more relatable, can’t wait to hear more soon Jake and the rest of CS.. this song specifically the first few lines are relatable for most teenagers, and adults these days.. like personally, I caused “tattoos” because of comparison and not being enough.. I feel like you could transition to metal full screaming, or rap if you guys wanted to. Thanks so much Jake❤❤❤

[@MajorasSkullKid]

Social media has become just a attention grab, it’s not even about socializing anymore. It’s about who gets the most likes and reactions.

[@luunara7065]

"How do I feel safe in my own skin when I've always been the ugly friend" pushed the tears to the surface! My comparison was always inside my own family, I'm the "curvy" sister, and I always felt ugly around them. I am not ugly, but I'm not thin. Even now, after I lost so much I now fit into a 38 ( before 42), I feel fat around them. Everyone compliments me or worries because of the fast loss, but I can't /see/ it. I still compare myself against the long legs of my little sis or the delicate ankles of my older one, the flat tummy of my mom, the overall thin look of them. I love them so much, but I always feel bad after meeting them and I don't like that! This song made me realize this and I need to think about it... read: listen to this song the whole day.

[@bledarxeka7993]

That's why I love this band, each song has a strong message inside.

[@adard.5419]

I needed to hear this. This described how I have felt the past several years. So self conscious about the way I look and looking at everyone with the perfect body and flat stomach. I needed this. I can't express how much I appreciate and feel this song. "Every one of us will look the same when they lower us into the graves" "The perfect body won't be enough, on the day it's pushing daisies up, the only thing they'll be thinking is what you did and how you loved" This song just hits so hard and good.

[@kaythepancake2309]

This Hoodies to Big But It makes me feel safer... Thats a thought i always have in my head One of the few Bands that bring out Songs that always Hit my heart because the Songs say what I never dare to say, Thank you for being here Citizen Soldier ❤️

[@ThePianistPlayer]

Thank you for putting my thoughts into music. I've battled eating disorders for years. I'm eating now, but only because I become so sick when I don't. Thank you for this song.

[@danielbolema2437]

Every one of us will look the same, when they lower us into our grave. That line is so deep and something I wished I had learned earlier.

[@samanthamills3928]

Your songs help me so much. I listen to them daily

[@MrWatchFace]

Lowkey one of my favorite from ICU album, amazing job as always. This song is just what I've been needing🔥

[@Jaden__Unknown]

hits me in the feelings everytime I hear a Citizen Soldier song, helps me remember the struggles I go threw aren’t my own, and I still have hope to move on stronger than ever❤

[@khadijaaitahmed818]

This is incredible you make my evening Great with this Song Tanks Jake 😁✌🏻 For this Masterpiece.... Keep up with the great Work ❤

[@Queen_Bread]

Why you put Jake in quotation marks

[@khadijaaitahmed818]

​@@Queen_BreadI Really Don't Know .....😑

[@ann-marieyoung6800]

Having an eating disorder aswell as other mental health issues this song helps a lot I can totally relate xx

[@davidschmitt2190]

I wish u only the most amazing future, we dont know eachother but i know for sure that you are trying your best every day. You are uniqe and a complete amazing miracle.

[@limey3272]

My mom died from a heart attack in the shower yesterday at age 58. At my age (16) its a really difficult time so I'm glad to have this band's music to console me

[@kennethdobson4548]

Sending love your way. Hold on threw this hard time ❤

[@17snowflakes]

I'm so sorry for your loss, it must be so difficult losing a parent at that age. Sending prayers your way and wishing ease in your recovery 🙏❤️‍🩹

[@virgilevans9967]

My Condolences go out to you 😢 it's difficult but we got this keep on going were all here for you.

[@ARC-0606]

I'm so sorry for your loss. That's gotta be absolutely heartbreaking and difficult. We are here for you. Sending out love your way.

[@strangely_amelien]

Your mother is in good hands in heaven. I'm sending my love to you and your family♥

[@Aleciscute2008]

This song hits SO hard and makes you feel all sorts of emotions. Everyone is different but that is what makes you unique.

[@brennathelunalastar7013]

As someone who has been hated for her whole life and pretends to be someone I’m not just to be loved, I really appreciate for you making this. I really do. So, please, keep making amazing music. Your amazing.❤❤

[@edgelord3774]

I cannot express how much your music helps me. I love you all and your music. To anyone reading this, It gets better, I promise. Hang in there ❤

[@runashadow4033]

Another masterpiece, you guys understand your audience so well and the real struggles of the everyday person. Truly amazing job

[@nicholaskeohane762]

My god. I can't even begin to comprehend how well this guy can put everyday weaknesses and mental health issues into music. I've been purging for almost 2 years now and this song is just another will to wanna make me stop. Your amazing citizen soldier. You are making differences in this world weather you can see it or not .

[@dedespedida4515]

This lyrics can only come from s good heart, Jake is a very nice guy, i have shared stage with them in salt Lake where our bands and we're from, watching them grow is awesome!.

[@FrankensteinLover]

Everytime we get a New Song by Citizen its a blessing to the Soul.

[@smithdylan478]

Hey Guys was waiting for this one . Just wanted to thank you for all the bangers and each song’s meaning means so much to everyone. Stay safe and keep on making one of the best music in a long 💪💪💪💪 All the best guys and thanks 🔥🔥🔥

[@rynl2076]

Wish we could all find and believe unconditional love... Thank you for the music🖤

[@caslynn9531]

I struggle so much w my appearance. Both my body and identity is a daily struggle The beginning of this song really hit the mark. The wonder to skip or purge. How hoodies feel safe. And how pictures can cause mental spirals This band is srsly a saving grace of mine. I listen all the time. I even got a tattoo of the band logo coz I have never come across a band that truly captures the struggle of mental illness like citizen soldier songs

[@KitsuneJayy]

This is the one I was waiting for the most, did not disappoint and was worth the wait! Thanks for making music about all these topics, they reach and help so many people!

[@lisal1662]

Could you please make a song about emotional abandonment or fear of abandonment? Love your work, always makes me feel safer to know I’m not alone

[@IamW4RL0RD]

To think I only discovered you guys a few weeks ago when Spotify put Thank You For Hating Me in my playlist and you’ve already become one of my favorite bands. This song is dope af

[@sara_s1737]

It's so good to finally hear this one whole after months of being teased by it. You did a great job guys📱💜

[@karasugatonom2020]

Though this song is about eating disorders, this hits me in regard to generally everything, for me in writing. Comparison leads to feeling inadequate, or worse. It's hard to feel good about yourself whenever comparison to others comes up. In whatever you do, or whatever you are, these lines are very true: "The only thing that they'll be thinking of Is what you did and how you loved"

[@shadowhawk4164]

This is far too relatable, thank you, and I hope your doing okay Citizen Soldier, never hesitate to talk to me when the thoughts become too much

[@TheOGtokublaze]

Thank you so much. Yet again you created a song that I can relate to. On top of having cancer my weight always fluctuated. I have stretch marks and scars. From chemotherapy and the constant weight gain the weight loss during cancer treatment. When people look at my scars they think I'm an addict. On the very same website that are mentioned on this song. Thank you Jake and thank you Citizen Soldier for the beautiful music you guys create. You guys have made it possible for me not to only strengthen my belief structure. But to be myself. To the point I rep the band in a video game with custom emblems.

[@Lowellabloodmoon]

Wow when people got to understand being you is okay you don’t have to be someone else citizen soldier you always make amazing music please keep making wonderful songs.

[@lewisisaac3169]

This is just a new level of truth and intensity Huge well done, needed to hear this today ❤❤

[@sherby4538]

This song will really hit home for a lot of people. Hopefully, hearing this will people realise they aren't the only ones feeling that way. Thank you for your honest, hit home songs ❤

[@Jestefurtziju]

So truly, cant believe that someone finally wrote song about this. Thank u for all❤

[@Cylisfloofer]

What i love about you guys is that you manage to talk/sing about almost everything, always speaking to a specific audience with each song. You don't just stick to one topic "because it works" but rather make sure, everyone feels welcome here. Well done ^^

[@patchez1995]

This entire song gave me chills with its lyrics. Jake your words are like a poem that hits hard with it truths made stronger with its music. Thanks for another great song. ❤

[@justletmesleep7236]

I've been waiting so long for this song I feel this very much and still go through it so thank you for this song🖤

[@Anew_Returner]

"Every one of us will look the same, when they lower us into our graves, so I need somebody to explain, why we worship someone else's face. The perfect body won't be enough, on the day it's pushing daisies up, the only thing that they'll be thinking of, is what you did, and how you loved." I am in absolute love with these lines, this one really hit the thoughts I have at night right in the bullseye🫂

[@sendetta294]

What makes that Song so beautiful is that it’s so real, like All the self hate and the comparison is such a big problem nowadays but nobody does something about it.

[@TomBeeInnit]

Another great song and one that hits close to home on my end for the fact I compare myself to so many things

[@rosiewatson5422]

I learned that there will always be someone smarter, prettier, luckier, richer than me, so to have a peaceful life I need to just be happy with myself and my life and do not compare it to others because everyone is different, and everyone is beautiful in their own way. You have a great song once again. Thanks, a mill.

[@jojoy7737]

Just discovered y'alls band on Sunday and I literally listened to all your songs that same day. I love how raw and relatable these songs are

[@jaylah0193]

I needed this song when I was younger. The amount of misery I had inside myself when I would compare myself to others is indescribable. When I realized that I was the only one hurting by these comparisons, I began working on letting it go. Accepting myself as enough. As more than enough. It took years but I don't care how I look anymore. Or what others think of me. I'm a beautiful young woman. If this is something you struggle with and you are reading this, I beg you to believe me. You don't need to be like anyone else. You are beautiful just as you are. With messy hair and no makeup wearing your most comfortable pajamas.

[@RAPIDSTUDIOSMUSIC]

Awesome, another song!! I cant tell you guys how much you saved my depression from taking over my whole life! You guys are my freaking saviors! You guys make music that speaks to my soul!

[@leighferrell7354]

"This hoodie is too big but it makes me feel safer" hits different. This song hits hard and it's beautiful. Thank you CS 💙

[@Girlyinfluencer980]

“Haven’t had the guts to look at mirrors in a while” Real…

[@andy255]

Maaaan You guys are so good at this!! Hope your songs never stop reaching people in need of some love and understanding

[@amyrose6994]

I’ve been looking forward for awhile for this song. For the people who have ever been told your not beautiful, you are the prettiest and handsome person out there 🥰 regardless of what you think you see in the mirror. What makes you you is what’s inside of you just waiting for you to show and express yourself.

[@EmilyHauger-vx8gg]

OMG ANOTHER SONG!!!!!!! that relates to me sooo much! I love you guys so much and am so thankful for all that you do! Keep posting amazing songs!