Dr Scott I've been on this Earth for 75 years and I swear the world would be a better place if more doctors talk to us the way you do 💯I must hope that everyone that's watching this KZbin and all your KZbins realizes this that if more of us thought and acted like you this world would be a much better place for everyone I can't thank you enough for caring for everyone and trying to help everyone like you do❤❤❤
@heatherbruce16684 ай бұрын
Been around for 70 years and I agree with you 💯...❤
@brucelee49964 ай бұрын
Check-out: HealthyGamerGG (Dr K). As a Harvard-trained psychiatrist, his video's are extremely helpful for me, and others.
@amariev2264 ай бұрын
Wise words Dr. Scott. Also reminds me somewhat, of the "Serenity Prayer": "God, grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, and Wisdom to know the difference."
@alicepirola70774 ай бұрын
That is my grounding prayer. 🙏
@Christie_OUR_TURN_20244 ай бұрын
I agree. Thank you for the connection bc that's how I am able to remember things.🙏🫶
@dmc18064 ай бұрын
AMEN 🕊✝️.
@tracyrreed4 ай бұрын
That's a tough sell for those who are not superstitious
@hemapatel26944 ай бұрын
Amen 🙌👑
@bchristian854 ай бұрын
I completely destroyed my life by relocating away from my hometown in 2019. I hated living in my hometown but at least I had a life there. I had friends and I had support. I gave it all up for nothing. Now my 30s are gone and somehow they were worse than my 20s. Currently approaching 40 at rock bottom with nothing to show for my life. My entire adult life has been one bad decision after another, followed by digging myself into a deeper hole trying to clean up the previous bad decision. I wish I could get the life back that I had in 2019, and practice radical acceptance on that. At 40, I don't know how I can rebuild from scratch or ever find love.
@kelseymathias38814 ай бұрын
I can relate, so sorry for your suffering
@jenna24314 ай бұрын
It sounds cold to say this, but 40 is young yet. I hope you can sit with the "nothing to show for it." Show...who? Do they deserve a judgement call on your life? Life is living, sweetie. It's a classroom, not a courtroom. Find love for you IN you. Then if love comes from someone else, it's all a bonus. ❤️
@Stubbornclarity4 ай бұрын
You are young yet! I'm so sorry for your suffering,but there's literally just so much that can change yet.Make a point to reach out to others, and keep doing it. Volunteer with the less fortunate. Branch out. It ain't over yet. You are worthy and valuable. Please see that
@Stubbornclarity4 ай бұрын
You can do it, I am rooting for you! I know that it all seems overwhelming but take it one step at a time.Build your body up with nutrition and vitamins. Volunteer with the less fortunate. Go to church to meet people. You're young yet. You're not even 50 yet. Just hang on, things will get better. You will get through this. One step at a time friend. 💛
@Mannsy834 ай бұрын
I'm the exact same, 40..wasted my life smoking weed..now I'm in hell with depression
@deotexh4 ай бұрын
I feel so lonely deep inside, so deep sometimes I even don't remember its existence. Whatever how much people are watching my back I feel like I'm all alone
@stevec4044 ай бұрын
I considered myself so very lost for so very long, that when I did identify my trauma moment...fixing everything suddenly seemed imperative. I dealt with massively increased anxiety and depression while making slow progress in healing. Had I known that my new perspectives would take me to my goals...structure, patience and an organized effort would have been great. Instead, overwhelm took over and nearly broke me...again. Recent;y, I have been practicing a more focused way of thinking and acting; and seeing good results. Making decisions has gotten easier and quicker. My anticipation anxiety flares less often; when it does I send it packing within 30 seconds. My emotional distress dissipates as soon as I get busy with a physical task...instead of flaring with attempts to calm down and use reason. There are so many good skills to adopt that sometimes it's too much to deal with. Now I concentrate on just a few main skills to make them habitual. Per your book: :...you have made it this far...you are still here..." Yes I am.
@ChuckBassHere4 ай бұрын
Which techniques do you use Steve?
@pennythpmas57874 ай бұрын
I saw a comic bit one time, that had an Australian, no nonsense type who didn't really believe in therapy, but was told to go, so he was there skeptically. As soon as soon as the therapist said have a seat, relax, He jumps to his feet and he acted like, Oh yeah! That's it Doc! I'm all better. Relax, that's the solution! But when I saw your title ALONE, I got it! I have been budgeting other things as well, like returning calls or emails, I budget how much I can take, the rest can wait, because I am maxed out on calls and email. Thank you. I AM going thru unexpected hard times, my husband had a bunch if heart attacks and died a few times. We are both turning 60 this year and it's hard to accept sudden new life, and constant fear of his death.
@EB-gt1pqАй бұрын
I’m 42. I can’t wait to be in my 60s and stop working and just rest. Life is exhausting.
@CP-yc7gv4 ай бұрын
Listening to the explanation, I think I understand why acceptance can be the beginning of change. And also, what true acceptance really means.. Thanks for the video!
@Deana-op3bl4 ай бұрын
This video dovetails perfectly with Eckhart Tolle's most recent video relased practically within the same hour today! I subscribe to both of these great minds because I've had a lifelong struggle with depression (yes, and suicidal) anxiety, and a hefty dose of ADHD. Happy to say although I still have my "moments", thanks to practicing the principles I learn from books and videos such as these and the grace of God I am more stable and grounded these days. Thank you so much 🙏 Stay safe, people! Never give up hope!
@alphadog33844 ай бұрын
Radical acceptance is hard, especially when the emotions mind kicks in, triggers feel overwhelming. Remembering that emotional pain is not all the facts.
@andrewjaramillo4 ай бұрын
Great video. I've struggled with acceptance all my life. I've spent more than 20 years moving (running away?) from place to place and city to city. I needed to exercise radical acceptance. It never occurred to.me that some things in life are more practical when I accept the reality. I've always thought that there is better than here. This approach has really complicated my life even more.
@ripple_on_the_ocean4 ай бұрын
This should be required viewing for all humans. Great video thanks!
@itsmichellejenkins4 ай бұрын
Thank you for the live. The perfect amount of information in a way that is useful and understandable. Here’s one for you - in Jan ‘23 I drove from San Antonio to San Diego to pick up a travel trailer. I’ve needed to register the trailer in Texas since I got home. On one hand, I’ll quickly decide to drive to San Diego, camp by myself, etc. but on the other hand, anxiety about Texas registration has had me in “do nothing” mode. Now, almost 1.5 years later I’m going to take care of it today. It’ll cost me ~ $600 in fines for not doing so timely. 🤦♀️ 🤷♀️
@martadzedyshko2614 ай бұрын
I'm 32 and struggling with PMDD and "quiet" BPD and hypothyroidism.. and these are kind of a rollercoaster.. I live for 2 weeks like a mature grown-up trying to accept, being grateful and joyful about my life that I've built up with my own hunger for knowledge and understanding who i am.. but then.. gosh, every month I want to die because I'm so drained!!! I know how crazy it sounds, but I can't control these days when I feel like a piece of trash and can't fully express how I feel to others.. I feel so much pain mentally. since the age of 13 I've been struggling with an emotional abuse and then unknown conditions I'm dealing with now... it's hard work that I'm not paid for and it feels so unfair to feel all this pain and not being able to get all the possible support I really crave.. I'm my own supportive system, but I feel so much guilt for being so broken.. this pain talks with me like that. but my rational mind tries to assure me that I'm strong and I can overcome all this devil talks..
@kimlec3592Ай бұрын
Interpersonal (relational) distress /injuries are the main reason people end up seeking out or getting put into hospital with mental issues. It is up to us to try to create calm & soothe ourselves & maybe even learn to be gentle on ourselves, in order to keep on living. I am teaching myself about emotional & interpersonal safety. But since i have not had good experiences, it is hard. I know people who are heavily medicated against their will, and who barely leave their apartment. If you can work out how to feel enotionally safe, that is half the battle.
@integralstanley3 ай бұрын
Humility is a virtue that can help us achieve a level of acceptance.
@attheranch8734 ай бұрын
It can be a simple as something that causes you pain, and then you dwell on it. When you keep going over and over and over it, you cause yourself suffering.
@rhianndarroch42284 ай бұрын
I used radical acceptance a lot. It is what it is. There's nothing I can do to change whatever, so I have to accept it. DBT has helped me in so many ways. Not that my life is perfect, far from it. I just have learnt the things I can't change or have no control over just letting the thought go like on a stream passing by. I do get stuck sometimes, but that is life. ❤ Thanks Dr Scott you wonderful man, lol 😂
@stevegrodis24264 ай бұрын
No shout-out to Tara Brach Ph.D, psychologist and Buddhist teacher, whose book Radical Acceptance was published 20 years ago?
@ahsokaventriss32684 ай бұрын
That book helped me get through the hardest period of life I have gone through thus far.
@mimicocto4 ай бұрын
Simple explanation would be: choose your fights wisely....or you don't have to fight every fight set up upon you.
@drivers992 ай бұрын
glad I listened to this again. What I got out of it the first time wasn't what it really said.
@marysisak23594 ай бұрын
This reminds me of the Serenity Prayer from AA : God grant the serenity to accept the things I can not change, the courage to change the things that I can and the wisdom to know the difference.
@a9ocalypse2 ай бұрын
Thanks, Dr. Scott. Your videos are surprisingly relatable. I have started to apply your principles in my life and it has started to improve a lot. Please keep up the good work. Best Wishes!
@ZOEZ034 ай бұрын
you know how every once in a while someone comes into your llife and it feels like god sent them to you to share wisdom, love, and hope? this is the first time I've felt like that in years. thank you. been trying for so, so long. I want to get better.
@colincolinopolis32113 ай бұрын
I've found this video is very helpful. I'd heard the term, radical acceptance, but not really understood it. Thanks Dr Scott 🙏
@Blairzy554 ай бұрын
Love the idea of budgeting your pain
@FortitudeAndResiliencee4 ай бұрын
Hey Dr. Scott, your take on acceptance and suffering really struck a chord with me. Thanks for the insightful analogy of setting a "budget for pain." Your wisdom is appreciated!
@BubblGrl4 ай бұрын
Radical acceptance sounds a lot like “risk acceptance”. I weight up the likelihood of the risk occurring vs the impact to decide whether or not it should/can be controlled. I didn’t really understand the concept as it applied to mental health before this video but now I get it. Makes perfect sense!
@skeptik-ci5xo16 күн бұрын
I am a huge fan of acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT). In many ways I find it more helpful than CBT, although they are in the same family, both are evidence-based, and used together they can be super effective. It's ideal to practice them with a skilled therapist who's been trained well in these modalities; but unfortunately they are too few and far between. So I try to apply the principles as best I can in a self-help format, which is better than nothing. There's a ton of great resources out there, you just have to do your research.
@jeffreycohen22344 ай бұрын
I turned my nose up at radical acceptance because of a tendency in psychology to push sane people into conformity with most every demand or condition that greater society might throw in their way. See “Psychology and the status quo” by Isaac Prilleltensky (Published by APA). But this video is one of the better clarifications of the concept-in time, I’ll definitely need to re-watch it to remind me why it’s a positive strategy. 😂 Thank you, Dr.!
@LisaHenley-zw5lr4 ай бұрын
These videos seem to help me on certain subjects right when I need them the most. I will continue growing from them as long as they are available. Thanks Doc❤❤❤
@kelseymathias38814 ай бұрын
anyone feeling really lonely now?
@ShevaHalpern4 ай бұрын
Yes, I do
@kelseymathias38814 ай бұрын
@@ShevaHalpern so sorry, it is hard to take, isn't it?
@kelseymathias38814 ай бұрын
@@ShevaHalpern so sorry, it is hard to be alone!
@Yoshoggutha4 ай бұрын
Pretty much always, yeah. Five months ago my 11 year relationship ended and I haven't been the same since.
@kelseymathias38814 ай бұрын
@@Yoshoggutha so sorry to hear that. It must hard after so many years.
@strigoviro57854 ай бұрын
I've been watching many of your videos for the past several months and I think you are just AWESOME. Truly KNOWING and having lived, overcome or worked through the difficulties your patients experience because you yourself know what it's like is so unique and "affirming". Thank you so much for all the hard work, preparation, your eloquence and empathy and for being such a valuable resource and "friend". All the best to you and your family. SV
@connieschwarz60234 ай бұрын
I’m BPD and 5 years ago I moved which started it , and then my only adult child estranged me. And from there all mental hell broke loose.
@CB-ke9rs4 ай бұрын
I think our own minds create suffering. If we can cut the cord between our thoughts and emotions we avoid feeding the narrative of why we are victims or life is unfair etc.
@From-Hurt-to-Healing4 ай бұрын
I love my emotions and will never disconnect from them no matter how much I suffer. My emotions are part of me. Wisdom flows from emotions.
@Houdini_Bob4 ай бұрын
about body image, try having neurofibromatosis, a genetic condition. I am 67, I have thousands of bumps over my body, mostly on torso and face. I get judged by it, I get stares, I have people move out of my way to avoid walking by me in stores and gym and even sidewalk. there is no cure, no treatment and it is only getting worse. I have moved beyond coping and hope. I live day to day and just am waiting to cross over the bridge. I am in good physical health but mental health is another matter. I try to keep interactions down to only grocery store, gym and few times I go out to eat. I have no family, I am alone. I like having physical pain, it takes my mind off mental pain
@no.58104 ай бұрын
I'm sorry that you're having to experience this. I hope you find a way through it that's the best it can be. Thanks for sharing as I'm sure you're shared experience will help those reading about in how we interact with others: it has me.
@EleanorWeldon4 ай бұрын
Don’t give up. I’ll keep you in my prayers if you pray for me. Blessings, El
@Mannsy834 ай бұрын
Mental pain sucks so bad.. everyday is hell..I'm sorry we have pain for no reason 😢
@Houdini_Bob4 ай бұрын
@@EleanorWeldon thank you.
@Houdini_Bob4 ай бұрын
@@no.5810 thank you, I appreciate you kind words
@kimlec3592Ай бұрын
Writing is helpful when you are enotionally distreemssed...it is not magic, but it helps you to think. And function. Which is important
@kelseymathias38814 ай бұрын
it is scary when you realize you are all alone
@shylohmonster4 ай бұрын
Here's a just for fun cyber hi5. Hi5! I hope this comment finds you less alone.
@kelseymathias38814 ай бұрын
@@shylohmonster thank you so much, shylohmonster!
@ashleya27994 ай бұрын
If you know Jesus, you will never be alone
@Stubbornclarity4 ай бұрын
I know it's scary but if you learn to enjoy your own company things get easier. Be kind to yourself. Give yourself lots of love and branch out. Volunteer with the less fortunate,go to a church, reach out to someone online. There's a lot you can do to help the world. Sending you caring thoughts. You're never truly alone when you have the internet.💛. Peace 🕊️
@Mannsy834 ай бұрын
Find some friends through church or interests... there's plenty of us struggling and willing to support each other..I hope you find some good friends
@masentaja83444 ай бұрын
Life is inherently suffering. We live life through sorrow, not joy.
@kelseymathias38814 ай бұрын
sadly, yes
@Mannsy834 ай бұрын
My whole family are always happy and optimistic...I don't know how the hell they do it
@From-Hurt-to-Healing4 ай бұрын
Life is suffering, there's no doubt about that.
@grahamlangley48564 ай бұрын
I find when I think of my parents and childhood as a picture of a dumpster truck 🚚 in my mind its very healing ✨️🤭
@ruth_southernstar4 ай бұрын
Could you please talk about borderline personality disorder. I know I'm a pest, keep asking, but I could really do with some help here. Thank you from Ruth in England xx
@ruth_southernstar4 ай бұрын
@mercx007 Thank you, what a kind message x
@connieschwarz60234 ай бұрын
Actually, he had a guest psychologist on one of his videos a couple of months ago. She suffers from BPD. It covered a lot of ground. It was very informative.
@SarahCole-jt8gj4 ай бұрын
He just expressed on a Q&A that he was never going to cover topics on his channel in which he does not personally have extensive experience with (borderline personality disorder included). As stated above, he has had a guest speaker on that has BPD. I know there are other KZbin channels that focus on discussing BPD (i.e. BorderLiner notes). I hope this helps and I wish you health and wellness ❤.
@ruth_southernstar4 ай бұрын
@@SarahCole-jt8gj Thank you Sarah, that's really helpful. He did indeed have someone on with BPD, but they didn't really talk about the condition!. I will look elsewhere, and will certainly dig into your suggestion. All the best, Ruth x
@ruth_southernstar4 ай бұрын
@@connieschwarz6023 Oh my goodness... I did see that, and I actually did not find it helpful at all. It was more like a catch up between them. I have since been advised that Dr Scott will not be addressing BPD, so I will look elsewhere. Thank you very much for your message, from Ruth x
@integralstanley4 ай бұрын
Abraham Maslow had determined that a self actualized person is an insightful and accepting neurotic.
@firststepshardest16564 ай бұрын
Thank you 🇨🇦
@kelseymathias38814 ай бұрын
Just say hi, thanks, helps with the loneliness and isolation
@sarinav10004 ай бұрын
Hi!
@kelseymathias38814 ай бұрын
@@sarinav1000 Thanks...hi back at you!
@ruth_southernstar4 ай бұрын
High there! 😎
@kelseymathias38814 ай бұрын
@@ruth_southernstar Hi Ruth!
@PiyushaShukla-nv6se4 ай бұрын
hii!
@rknoxmusic4 ай бұрын
It's so much easier said than done
@mrmistoffelees94 ай бұрын
Sorry if I missed this, but a question at around ~12:15, what about a case that is in fact beyond this budget for pain (that we also can't currently change)? If there's a budget then that implies you can exceed it
@marijacaric93854 ай бұрын
You know what you are talking about 🎯
@ملتقىدجلةوالفرات4 ай бұрын
I never have negative body image. I absolutely love my body and by no means am I fitting any beauty standards. I don't even shave. But I just adore my body by how amazing it is all that it does and accomplishes plus the euphory it gives me... I struggle with bunch of other things though
@yolandabraithwaite77304 ай бұрын
Toxic positivity blames the victim for their problems.
@DriftlessWarrior4 ай бұрын
Yes, and I am so sick of all the "just try harder" garbage! I'm autistic and lost the sight in one eye last Sept. I'm also an outdoorsy type. So now that the warmer weather is here, I'm exploring what my new limitations are, and at what point fun turns to frustration. Some people do not understand that there is a BIG difference between sitting on your butt whining about how nothing is fun anymore, and getting out there and trying to have fun and realizing that the fun you had didn't offset the effort and stress required to get to that point. I am a huge fan of the idea of "reframing,' but it just doesn't work if you logically realize that you are simply not getting a good enough ROI on the activities you used to love. While I am profoundly grateful that I'm in excellent physical condition (for my age), that fact kind of makes it worse because it's that much harder for people to understand what it's like to have my brain and one eye not working right. Like I can run a 5k just fine, but tying and untying my running shoes can send me into a screaming-and-throwing-things meltdown. I had enough on my plate with the autism, but the sensory issues added because of my eye are literally driving me insane.
@From-Hurt-to-Healing4 ай бұрын
@@DriftlessWarriorI'm so sorry. I understand the struggle and the pain.
@DriftlessWarrior4 ай бұрын
@@From-Hurt-to-Healing Your kind words mean a lot. Thank you so much, and I wish you strength and peace in your own life.
@CyndieAmala4 ай бұрын
Dr. Scott 🗣️ I'd love it if you could do a video on PTSD and the fact that it isn't something that only veterans deal with. I have it and mentioned it on another channel and a veteran tried to tear me apart over it as if they're the only people on the planet who've experienced trauma 😢 I forgot to even mention to him the fact that childhood PTSD exists. I've dealt with a lot in my lifetime and it really hurt me to be invalidated to such an extreme. Obviously some people need to be educated on this.
@From-Hurt-to-Healing4 ай бұрын
You are likely suffering from cptsd caused due abuse. Please know that I understand your pain. Hugs 😊
@CyndieAmala4 ай бұрын
@@From-Hurt-to-Healing thank you for the hugs 🤗 and you may be right. My childhood and teens were unstable to say the least.
@From-Hurt-to-Healing4 ай бұрын
@@CyndieAmala abuse is very very very destructive. It destroys the person at the receiving end.
@youareloved82744 ай бұрын
I have complex PTSD, so I understand
@kandymich48614 ай бұрын
I think about the letters in the word. Also being ok with how things are and being ok with how I’m feeling at that moment and being ok with it along with being ok with my actions. That’s what I think it means or at least how I see the word meaning.
@debbysimon1204 ай бұрын
I’m going to apply this to my EMOTIONS!
@cassieoz17024 ай бұрын
Acceptance has such connotations of passivity (and semi-religious for some folks) which is ego dystonic for many of us, or encourages victim-hood in others. I find language so importance so we reframe it as Adaptation, an active process. Adapt to the presence of that you cant change. We spalso use 'influence' instead of 'control'. Control is very absolute and modern society has been sold the lie that they are meant to life. There's very little you can control, but far more you can influence
@myboatforacar4 ай бұрын
Reminds me of the Buddha's parable of the second arrow
@GordonPavilion4 ай бұрын
Yes
@elin_4 ай бұрын
I'm struggling with regular acceptance.. Acceptance of myself and the world.
@Stubbornclarity4 ай бұрын
Same. But I try to change the world by adding kindness,bit by bit, because there doesn't seem to be enough. I'm sorry you're not feeling happy. Sending you lots of love.💛
@moatzmaloo4 ай бұрын
ThNk you
@mr.wiggles10124 ай бұрын
So This is basically the way i was thinking about it sometimes the cure is worse than the disease the process to try to be less miserable might make it more so not a great realisation to come to when you have a long life in front of you 🙁
@catboxcleaner35326 күн бұрын
Radical Acceptance
@moisttowelette46684 ай бұрын
Hiiii can you make your video on parentification? It’s a very common problem. Thank you Dr
@DrScottEilers4 ай бұрын
That’s on the list!
@EB-gt1pqАй бұрын
No, I’m currently falling apart.
@Swedensureiscold4 ай бұрын
I love you! Thank you! 🙏
@CB-ke9rs4 ай бұрын
Awesome video!!!
@boris90474 ай бұрын
Yeas, but to use radical acceptance you first need to be sure that it's better not to try to change something or that the cost is too high. That's the tricky part, how to be sure that it's not better to just NOT accept and to try to change something as hard as you can?
@carolinebielby59244 ай бұрын
So I guess my mum without realising is causing herself suffering my dad who has dementia she is on breakdown crying constantly because of the worry of him getting worse , it's a difficult one though it's just hard not to think ahead xx
@Snow_Whyte4 ай бұрын
What about deep emotional pain that comes from no identifiable reason at all?
@EveHenry904 ай бұрын
Please make a video about your thoughts on Ketamine as treatment for cptsd.
@juliemarkham43324 ай бұрын
The actions taken to correct the suffering were too severe. If there had been attention to better nutrition instead of extreme weight loss and just a moderate exercise increase, there would have been a lot less suffering with the ability to maintain the changes more long-term. Accepting and tolerating the pain instead of taking wiser actions doesn't make sense to me.
@principleshipcoleoid80954 ай бұрын
I wish I could be not in pain for an hour a day. Like physical pain
@Mannsy834 ай бұрын
Is it possible to get better from major depression? Im so worried my life is going to be all pain.. struggling to deal with the thoughts saying to just end it
@abstract204 ай бұрын
How can I get a better body image in a huge 400 pound wheelchair? I never ever look an hot mirror anymore unless it just at a small one to fix my hair….which I can barely reach with my gimpy arms to even fix. I want out of this body.
@kelseymathias38814 ай бұрын
You are more than your body, but I know you are suffering and acknowledge you, sending best wishes.
@abstract204 ай бұрын
@@kelseymathias3881 I’m sorry but I wholeheartedly disagree with that statement. I have muscular dystrophy and my limited failing frustrating body 1,000% affects my mind, and thus my entire being. I hate it and I don’t want to be in it anymore. But I’m stuck here.
@kelseymathias38814 ай бұрын
@@abstract20 I can understand how you feel, but I still send best wishes. Please accept them.
@Stubbornclarity4 ай бұрын
I'm here to say hello. I wish I could fix everything for you. But I acknowledge that you're frustrated and your feelings are valid. Wishing you a peaceful day/ evening ✨. You are more than your body. You are spirit,soul too.
@immers24104 ай бұрын
In short, it is what it is
@From-Hurt-to-Healing4 ай бұрын
We should never forget that life is suffering. Accepting this is the beginning of all wisdom.
@colinandrews11184 ай бұрын
All life exists on our world 🌎 because universal elements allow us to the sun energized world 🌍 so I believe the universe being is promoting our lives. !!!!!!!! Looking at the bigger universal picture helps me along in life We all should try and treat each other with love and kindness on lifes journey to progress well Thanks Scott love Colin
@MELLMAO4 ай бұрын
This is probably the least helpful video from you I've ever watched. Maybe the reason radical acceptance approach is so "misunderstood" is bcs it's just a very lackluster and overgeneralizing concept or maybe it can be explained better.
@nancybinuya56974 ай бұрын
🥹💙
@probablypoetic87594 ай бұрын
Thanks, Scott! It makes so much sense! It's sort of like "choose your battles' thinking. There are areas of my life where I have a hard time with that, such as in familial relationships, but I've come to realize I can't let myself suffer anymore. Through listening to spiritual leaders and with the tools you have given us, I'm doing much better. Much appreciated. 😊🤍
@justgivemeanumber82154 ай бұрын
what about 'trauma release'? do you not believe that it can be released?
@somethingshiny3434 ай бұрын
think Financial Audits toxic and abusive. Caleb just posts thumbnails to mock and degrade his guests. He screams and yells at them like a manchild, knows he has vulernable mentally ill guests, and continues to abuse them and make them worse, as well as fostering a community to come attack them and crap all over them. It has RL consequences. Its harmful, he needs to stop. He thinks he is doing good but is causing evil and I'm oncerned people will snap and hurt him and others will you please do something about him or atleast talk to him? This isBS