Coffee chat. I need to look after my health.

Grab yourself a coffee and let's chat. Health, and photographs, and waffle. Featuring Mayze cat.

[@dinahsoar6982]

I question everything too. Those who want to put us in bondage want us to question nothing. I'm up late on the internet too, I use the 'night light' feature on my laptop, which removes a lot of the blue light, which is stimulating, and replaces it with warm light. I can adjust it to my liking. It truly does make a difference. I have nights like that, where there is too much going on inside me and I don't rest well if at all. Thankfully it doesn't happen often. We are the same age; I have the same concerns. I let myself think about it a bit, examine what I've done and what I can do, and then I tell myself 'enough'. There is only so much we can do, humanly speaking. Beyond that we are dependent on Providence.

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

Hi. I try and finish off the night with a bit of light hearted comedy to wind down. George and Mildred is good. It only happens once in a while when my sleep is disrupted by what is buzzing in my head. Last night I slept perfectly and this morning I feel refreshed. I can walk away from it. This transcript from a radio programme is easy reading, if you have the time. Don't want to overload you, ha ha. prn.fm/honest-perspective-covid-19-pandemic/ Best wishes.

[@dianegribbin3582]

I feel exactly like you, like to know what’s going on, spend a lot of time on the internet. I am the same age as you and live alone. I agree the NHS doctors have I feel deserted us. I have lost any enthusiasm to do crafts, I don’t know why maybe is knowing like you said what will happen to the things I make when I die. Thank you.xxx

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

I think I will probably give all mine away before I die.

[@janeelizabeth2207]

Take care of yourself. Lovely to see Mayze, so sweet. xx

[@joyofthings]

Thanks for your company.

[@lindacleveland1289]

I conclude that Mayze has the best life , food , shelter, company, love what more is needed ?

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

I am a slave to my cats.

[@pattyperkins5007]

@@meanqueensuperscrimper8908 haha...my husband used to tell ppl our house was ran solely and maintained for the cats lol

[@AmandaJYoungs]

@@meanqueensuperscrimper8908 Dogs have owners, cats have staff. Never a truer word spoken... :-D

[@galastandiford2020]

Thanks for your video. I enjoy our chats. 🙂

[@lisafenn4238]

i couldn't agree more regarding diet. I have taken steps to lose weight over the past few years and reversed my type 2 diabetes. I have not taken any diabetic meds for over 2 years. I do not eat meat, Dairy of Gluten. i do eat Salmon and eggs but other than that i eat lots of veg and some fruit. I feel amazing and rarely become unwell... not had a cold in 2 years now. Sending love to you from Devon xxx p.s. I am classed as a conspiracy theorist too. My response to that is that I would prefer to wear a tin foil hat than a blindfold!

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

Hi. Doctor Rangan Chattergee says you can reverse type 2 diabetes with the correct diet. Well done.

[@lisafenn4238]

@@meanqueensuperscrimper8908 Thanks Ilona. I have to say... I'm am quite proud of myself xx

[@lynns.1855]

Mazie is so pretty. I research too. I have to know what’s going on. Sometimes I wish I could be like the mindless sheep. But it’s not my nature to follow blindly. Love your coffee chats. Stay safe.

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

Hi Lynn. I think if you have questions it is satisfying to search for answers. We were given a brain it's up to us how we use it. Unlike wandering through the countryside with just a map to guide me, I prefer to have some inkling about how I can make it the best that I can, with the resources I have. Being one step ahead is better than lagging behind. If you give your life away, you haven't got a life.

[@lynns.1855]

@@meanqueensuperscrimper8908 You are right. Once you start looking, connections are obvious.

[@flumpaustin1994]

I've only just found your channel. I am glad I have. I'm finding more people are waking up. You're right to question everything. I hate to say it but what's going on now is certainly not about health, but I think you already know that. Ben

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

Hello Ben. Thanks for dropping in. Yes I have a pretty good handle on the situation. I have spent the last year and a bit studying it. It's not about health, we are on a journey mapped out for us. The only way to get off this roller coaster is to be honest and true to yourself. Don't ignore gut instincts, do the research.

[@alisoncotterill4048]

I have had an ( ladies stuff) issue. I was first ill in August since then I've seen my GP had appointments had scans been in the MRI scanner had blood tests ( I lost count) had a consultant ( and the secretary's telephone number!!) And had an operation 4 weeks ago.. so please be reassured that you can get treatment.. the nhs has been great 👍 👌

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

It's good to hear a positive story. Thank you.

[@beaulieuonnp593]

I regualrly wake up at 3 or 4 which is annoying so I try to get to sleep by listening to snow and wind howling on KZbin, then I wake up at 10. I am going to get myself a fitness smart watch which monitors my sleep, I think you can get a Panic Alarm and maybe attach it to your waist. I knew someone who did not use his panic alarm and he fell down the stairs and died from his injuries. He was on his own. We don't want you eaten by Maisie lol

[@debbiekoortzen1154]

Oh my goodness, I need my coffee to wake up. 😆 I love seeing your cat, you are so sweet and kind. I am so happy I found your channel.

[@InaWorldfullOfHearts]

I think you are a very intelligent woman. I admire and relate to you. Thank you for sharing your life with us here. I love Coffee time. Smiles. These days with all this knowledge at our fingertips, it makes it easy for one to stay and keep researching for hours,,, I so love to learn, I never tire of learning new things,, so much to learn. Enquiring Minds want to know. :-) I find it hard to quiet my mind as I work night shifts so on my days off I generally love staying up late and it is hard to settle down and stop thinking as I spend a lot of time on the computer reading, learning and watching. I tend to use the computer till I go to bed, but it sounds good to stop a few hours before you turn in for the night,, I can try. Happy New Year Ilona! God Bless You!

[@christinewood8331]

I'm well with you on acquiescence and theories keep at it gal I've been researching for the past 5yrs where were going so many pieces for the.puzzle I'm glad to see you well x

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

Hi Christine. I find it difficult to understand why people don't question. It's as if they are living in a dream. The theory is becoming reality.

[@pamelamckenzie2685]

love your top its beautiful i love the colours i drink water warm water love the video eating healthy walks like you do fresh air and i say all will be well. love your cat and video

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

I bought the blouse years ago from a charity shop. It's soft, silky, and floaty. I love it. Yes, all will be well.

[@thriftytowers7160]

Mayze is the star of the vid!!! Gorgeous cat!! Am really enjoying your coffee-chats now that i've found them on yoootoooob.

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

Thank you Thrifty. Best wishes.

[@elizabethconroy7665]

You are her Mummy Lol

[@missmaryhdream6560]

If its possible just have a small fruit juice, then your coffe x stop worrying you are a lovely caring sharing person. Love your cat 🙀. Well done for being healthy but it's no fun if it makes you worried x take care

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

Thank you for your concerns, but I am not worried about anything.

[@raven_ous2585]

Masie is such a lovely lady 💞💋🐾🐾

[@rebeccajones6609]

"Life after money" isn't that reality especially now. Luv it! From California

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

Yep. Life doesn't stop just because you haven't got much money. You can still have a good life on very little money.

[@janicepaisley6799]

Lol. I love your cat . As i am watching your video, my cat Eddie , is sitting on my lap . They always need to be involved no matter what we are doing . London , Ontario , Canada. PS I LOVE LOVE LOVE your art work . Such talent !!!!

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

Thank you. Cats are brilliant company.

[@pattyperkins5007]

Maisie wants you to pet her..so sweet..oh yes the doctors are doing that here in USA...I've had 3 face to face time w the nurse..

[@tinalemna7998]

I live on Cape Cod and our Dr office hasn’t been answering the phone for months now. I just keep telling myself the pandemic won’t last forever and hopefully things will get somewhat back to normal. Take care Ilona ❤️

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

That's quite worrying for you. Try your best to look after your own health.

[@mssdn8976]

I’ve had breast cancer during the pandemic. My treatment from the hospital has been brilliant. Trying to see a GP though is a different matter, two week wait for a phone appointment

[@sarahkennedy1481]

I get what you are saying without saying re world events x

[@user-ko2tu3ss3o]

Ilona you bring joy to my day every time I see your videos. Thank you so much my cyber friend.

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

Thank you for visiting. Nice to have your company.

[@nzmentoring2769]

Happy New Year from New Zealand to you both ; you and the wonderful Maisie ; thank you for all your shares

[@quailqueen6530]

Hiya fellow Kiwi. I am up in the Far North, where r u?

[@nzmentoring2769]

@@quailqueen6530 hello from wellington; hope you are well Gaye

[@bestbargainfashion5575]

I love that you are starting someone else on their walking challenge! What a gift. :) :) :)

[@cristinaevans139]

Love your channel 🎉wish the best for you❤

[@ian1184]

I've got my coffee with me. Now is a difficult time with the backlog that CV-19 has caused for people with genuine ailments, deferred operations, lack of scans.

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

Yes, and the reason that happened is not because of being overrun by covid patients, they didn't have enough staff. The Nightingale hospitals were built to accommodate the extra patients, very few people were admitted there. They have now been dismantled. Shocking mismanagement of resources.

[@bettysmith2082]

Take care bad weather coming keep warm thank you for replying to my comments xxx

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

We woke up to snow this morning. Sun out now so it will soon be melted.

[@leigh-anneflood3648]

Hi! I’ve still had lots of help from NHS, appointments, referrals, telephone calls. No need to worry at all. Just ring your surgery as normal if you need help X❤️

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

Thank you. I have no health problems at the moment.

[@SimoneWhipp]

Before you said that was a photo of your duodenum Ilona, I thought it was a birds eye view of a rose!!! I don't think I want to give it a second look! I question many things. My Mum used to say I wanted to know the inside out of a cats ear 'ole! I think it is good to keep the mind active - it shows we are alive. Good luck with the photo sorting. Give Mayze a stroke for me. :)

[@yellowsatin2105]

I always enjoy your videos. You are so genuine and down to earth. Has Mayze been in a scrap? I noticed what I thought was a scratch on her nose. I used to have three cats and they often came home with the odd scratch from the local feline bully,

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

She did have a few tussles with Heidi when she arrived. Mayze was here first so she was showing her superiority. It settled down eventually. She is standing her ground once again with Oscar, but that has amounted to nothing more than a few warning hisses.

[@sueb6650]

Morning MQ & Maisie Enjoyed your recent coffee ☕️ chat. Important issues you mention? You’re not alone in these thoughts 💭? Good you’re aware but no need to worry. As you say fortunately your health is still 😌 good. Everything is in in turmoil currently- transition. All being well it will stabilise as this time goes on. Hope Maisie and yourself have a good new year. Good Luck with your walking. Bye for now

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

I am not worried.

[@fionagregory9147]

I love cats too😽😼😾😺😸🐱

[@Etheldreda-]

We're all being abandoned by the NHS, I wonder why we're still paying for it.

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

Those that are working are paying for it. I wonder how long it can continue when there are so many losing their jobs and relying on state handouts. Over the years the NHS has been slimmed down when the population is growing. Hence the push for looking after yourself. Enter the big pharmaceuticals to pick up the pieces.

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

@@Barbara-yj5tl Apologies. I forgot that retired people could be paying tax if their income was over the tax threshold.

[@lindacleveland1289]

Ilona like you I often lay awake mithering over this that and the other , but what good does it do apart from losing a nights sleep 💤 💤 at least that’s what I tell myself 😜😜😜 just keep on keeping on , don’t let the Bu-ers grind you down 😛👍

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

I slept well last night. Restless sleeps only happen occasionally.

[@user-rg9fu9fx6k]

GP services must vary in different parts of the country. My mother at 94 has had several visits from her GP and the nurse also visits regularly for blood tests. Others I know have had appointments as normal and I had a routine well woman exam recently. The only problem I’ve heard was from someone who attends diabetes clinic and his surgery was closed as too many staff had covid. It opened again within a couple of weeks and in the meantime he was invited to another practice with volunteer driver if needed. All in different parts of the UK. Flu jabs all went ahead without a hitch too. Maybe move house Ilona!!😹. Jan x

[@ckck7916]

it good to see you keep going this is good thanks you

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

Oh I will. I will not give in to this madness. Each day is a bonus, it's up to me to make the most of the life I gave been given. xxx

[@ckck7916]

@@meanqueensuperscrimper8908 thank you

[@jimmiepatrum]

I love your colorful blouse. It makes me think of the lamp base behind your chair (out of sight in the video). I think you covered the lamp base yourself, right? I pray that your health will remain good for a lot longer. People who live alone can't help but think of how things would be if they need medical care. I never lived alone until my husband died 2 1/2 years ago...his death brought to mind how I could cope if I needed medical care. It can be stressful to think about and keep one awake sometimes. Diane in NC

[@mariannehenke3103]

Just like me, I lost my beloved husband of 48 years, just 2years ago. Without my faith, I don’t know how I would cope.God is my strength! God bless you and give u strength for 2021. 🙏

[@jimmiepatrum]

@@mariannehenke3103 Thank you Marianne. My husband and I had been married nearly 54 years. You are exactly right that without our faith, we don't know how we would cope. I can't tell you the number of times I have repeated, God is my strength, God is my strength... time and time again. It's so wonderful to hear another woman talk about her faith. I also pray that God will bless you and give you strength in 2021. Diane

[@mariannehenke3103]

@@jimmiepatrum thank you, would be lovely to stay in touch to encourage one another. Are u on FB?

[@jimmiepatrum]

@@mariannehenke3103 My grands set up a FB account for me, but I have never used it! I should learn.

[@veemcg3682]

Oh how I enjoy listening to you! Like yourself I have a tendency to disappear down rabbit holes in my quest to find out what's happening and why. That natural curiosity is good to have and I don't accept anything without finding out about it. We owe it to ourselves to keep well informed. Love your videos, thank you. Vera from Ireland

[@nzmentoring2769]

Ilona I hear what you say about phone consults with the GP; it is good to hear your views; what I would say is people do care about you, very much so ; I have had help from volunteers with Age UK for my relatives; they are helpful

[@deborahhw8030]

I have actually found the gp system fairly good since coronavirus. They have gotten back to us really quickly and sent the prescription to the pharmacist. Much quicker service than before. The last time I got sick was after visiting the GPs and a lot of hacking and sniffling going on and I have social anxiety so it suits me. Truck photo collection is amazing! Also your Christmas eve photo on your blog made me cry (in a good way because I think you are better off without him). Take care x

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

I'm glad you got sorted quickly. Thank you for your comment.

[@elizabethconroy7665]

Hi dear friend I don’t drink coffee It upsets my stomach Love Maizie I had a Premature Menopause at age 39 and have been on HRT for 15 years It has served me well Stress is playing a game with us Virtual Hugs

[@Vegannan]

When I was just 10 my dad when to open evening at my school. He was told that I ask too many questions 😂. Nothing has changed !

[@sarahkennedy1481]

I need to do my will as like you I have no close family and also arrange for my cat's care if sick

[@debbieframpton3857]

I'm sitting here with a cat on my lap watching your video her name is Sophie Marie

[@ktktktktktkt]

I am seriously Ill.. I haven't been left without medical care throughout the COVID period. In fact I've been straight in for most appointments with barely any waiting list. I know not everyone has had the same experience, but please be reassured by this !

[@veronicapawson5686]

Aw Maisie is beautiful x

[@teijaalanko5165]

Hi Meanqueen and i am very sorry i forgot the' Good Ghristmas greetings you. You were also traveling in between. Now wee have a year to sance. So Happy New Year 2021..to you and health.💖👋☄☄⭐⭐From here in Finland..🌎🔔🔔🔔🦊🐺🦊 yee.

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

Happy New Year to you, and Finland. Your English is good.

[@teijaalanko5165]

@@meanqueensuperscrimper8908 .Thank you very much. Byee You and friend, and you cat..kisuu. miauu!;🐺🦊❤👋☄☄☄🌏. Me friend Finland.👋👌😄💕

[@DerekScottAbdn]

The problem with the NHS is that people don’t value it properly. There are a lot of people who just waste NHS resources and who don’t try to minimise their risk of disease/injury. Plus there is far too much NHS money and time spent on pointless bureaucracy instead of letting them focus on care. Just have to look at what people pay in other countries to see the value of what we have, even if it is imperfect. The time will have to come when politicians with guts are going to have to be honest and say we either pay more for the the NHS and all its new drugs, technologies, surgeries, increasing cost of care etc OR we accept that we can’t have every new health remedy that costs a fortune and accept that. We also need to raise the pay, status and respect for carers so we can help people get out of hospitals faster and back to their own homes. But in return for better pay/conditions of healthcare professionals, we also need to make sure that this is linked to such people working at a high quality and professional level. At the moment, lots of healthcare professionals moving from country to country, all chasing higher salaries but not so keen on working in remote/rural areas. This issue of a lack of healthcare staff is replicated in the UK, New Zealand, Canada and Australia. All of them desperately trying to recruit people to underserved remote and rural areas. We are training more doctors and other carers than ever before but record numbers of them are applying to leave and emigrate straight after training because they don’t feel valued in the UK any more. Politicians need to wake up and deal with this ASAP.

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

Thank you for your input. My lack of knowledge with medical matters is due to me having very little to do with the NHS. I think all we can hope for is that people take more responsibility for their own lives, because there may not be much help available if and when it is needed.

[@ruthie2222]

I get it Ilona, 💯👍

[@emilywilson7308]

Why are you called Meanqueen? You seem very nice!

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

I try to be nice. I had to think of a name quickly when I joined a forum several years ago. At the time I was very mean about spending money, and Meanqueen had a certain ring about it. Now I'm stuck with it.

[@fionagregory9147]

I had my tonsils out aged 6.

[@nzmentoring2769]

Ilona have you tried magnesium to help you sleep; they really help ; we use valerian and/or magnesium; hope you sleep well now

[@coastaljan6193]

Would like to know what you eat to alleviate the symptoms.

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

I was eating a lot of junk at the time, I cut right back on that, and started eating more good wholesome meals prepared in my kitchen. I read up on which foods were good and which were bad. I stopped eating meat, and ate more vegetables and salad. I cut down on sugar, gave myself an allowance, and whole aisles in supermarkets became no go areas for me. Over the years my alcohol consumption has reduced and is now almost nil. I re educated myself, split food into categories, there are some things that you need to eat and some that have no nutritional value whatsoever. I looked at the reasons why I eat food. I need it to keep my body alive. It's all well and good to eat something you fancy and like the taste of, but if it is crap then it will have the opposite effect of keeping you alive. It will slowly kill you. I allow myself a treat every now and again, but a treat is not for every day. Remember the advert, a Mars a day helps you work rest and play. We have learnt a lot since then, a Mars a day is another nail in the coffin. Briefly I eat a lot of vegetables, some fruit, some dairy, cheese, eggs, some salad, some bread. I want to maintain my present weight, I could perhaps lose a few pounds, but in proportion to my body size I am ok as I am. 5ft 7ins, 9 stone. I don't know what your situation is so your dietary needs might be different to mine. Portion size also has a part to play in healthy eating. I am going to Aldi in the next day or two so I'll make a video about that.

[@coastaljan6193]

@@meanqueensuperscrimper8908 Thank you so much for taking the time to reply and share your wisdom. I look forward to the video. I am on my way to eating more healthfully, but I've slipped this winter and must get more intentional again.

[@sarahkennedy1481]

I worry more re my cat if I am sick. She is 16 and when she goes I may not get another as getting older

[@raven_ous2585]

Take good care of yourself sweetie. You won't go far wrong with your vegetarian diet 💕💕

[@tracyseal5848]

These doctors should remember the oath they took

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

Yes, they should. Instead they have caved in to the Money God. Difficult to know who to trust these days.

[@deborahbain9915]

Have you ever considered a Medical Alarm to press to call paramedics,

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

No.

[@motherclanger]

What do you do with Maisie when you go away? My cat hates the cattery

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

I have a friend who is cat crazy, she lives close by. She comes in several times a day to check on them. She sends me texts to let me know that all is well.

[@motherclanger]

@@meanqueensuperscrimper8908 aw thAts nice

[@sarahkennedy1481]

Do you have a faith? Ever married? You are so sweet

[@meanqueensuperscrimper8908]

By faith do mean do I follow a religion? No I don't. Never been married.