Patrice O'Neal - Women Are Not Loveable, They're Leavable

[@nickdipaolofan5948]

One universal law that Patrice was passionate about exposing was this: Women do NOT care about what makes men happy in relationships!

[@HUNTENT247]

Exactly. Patrice was a genius.

[@orafranc237]

And vice-versa 😑

[@nickdipaolofan5948]

@@orafranc237 not really. Most men have no choice but to find what makes a woman happy just to GET her. Women just need to be attractive to get dates. So once you both are dating, a man has already done several things that make a woman happy and a woman as only been a physical object. But, after a while, when the allure of her sexuality dies down and they are in a relationship, he has been taking her out, buying her things, taking her places, etc and she has been doing very little to reciprocate other than lay on her back occasionally. This is usually when the relationship starts to decline because the woman is not interested in being a partner, only in the BENEFITS of being a partner and none of the obligations of being a partner.

[@R.O.T.C._SEEM]

@Benjamin McMullan So true

[@KarateWrestler205]

Nick DipaoloFan big facts they are completely oblivious to us

[@robertonocturno4043]

"Your logic will always be superior to her emotions" #RIPPatriceONeal

[@goffdroid]

exactly

[@snubdawg1386]

your logic will always be superior to your emotions also

[@willlloyd7762]

@@snubdawg1386 well said. You remember both of these statements and you will flourish

[@truestdude]

@@willlloyd7762 facts

[@thagodwecreate5179]

Until her emotions stab you in tha jugular with an 8" blade..no way to logically reason w/ that.

[@brianramirez8255]

Saving men even after death.

[@professorhawk777]

All heroes don't wear capes...

[@airlebron7467]

Amazing.

[@hootyjenkins1084]

hes only making many aware. we have always been this way. so we dont need saving. Patrice made it clear. to people who couldnt understand, or accept the wisdom people of color have...

[@hootyjenkins1084]

that is the true lesson. (some people are only in class, to be there...)

[@hootyjenkins1084]

if we are each saviours, why would we need one? My Bro Pat was one of Many,

[@EoinFC]

I'm on a Patrice marathon. Pity I didn't know this shit 20 years ago.

[@Charlie_Alpha_Lima]

Ey man, we're all just playing catch up

[@jayman1931]

I hear ya brother. I've kinda always known but took me many of my early years waisting time, money ect.. not being able to tap into that power then in my mid and later 20s only had the discipline to actually do it 50% of the time and even that kept me living a dream life!. Getting girls to chase me that were LEVELS above what my physical appearance would deserve LMAO.. now I'm so seasoned, basically been living by the GURU Patrice's handbook but unknowingly because this is before I was up to date on Patrice... and now in my mid 30s.. it's second nature. I probably get 8 out of 10 girls that I've gone after and even when things fizzle out (this is what I usually want after I've smashed all that I've ever wanted to) I can hit them up months later and still get sex. It's like they respect me more because they know that's all I want and I'm not gonna jump through hoops for it so it's like "might as well give up the p**sy" lol.. ironically if you tell them lovey dovey bs and you really feel it and they know they " got u " they will treat you like shit.. maybe not shit but just a toy even if they are nice about it.. but when they know you are full of shit, which they see by your real not giving a fuck about them actions.. you can say all that sweet shit, as mushy as you want and they will just laugh and say "oh please".. "I know you are full of shit, I know you too well, I'm not one of your dumb girls that this shit works on".. BUT!!! They'll sleep with you every time hahah it makes no sense but this is 100% the reality and I'm living proof. They really do respond like dogs.. if you come into it like they are on a higher level than you and would be so lucky to f**k them.. they treat you like that but if you approach it like "all girls are dumb and beneath me (you don't even have to be a asshole to do this) they respond like "girls are nothing to this guy, I don't have that super power I thought I had with other guys. He sees right through me and doesn't give a shit" they will act like it and it takes all the value away from their p**sy and they just give it to you lol.. think of their snatch like some old baseball card of a player you don't even know.. if you run into someone that sees it and says "this is my favorite player, I'd do anything for that card.. I'd be Sooooo lucky to have it".. your natural reaction would be.. ohhhh what could I get out of this person, this card is really valuable to them.. how much could I milk from them with this card!?!?.. but if they were like " I've had a million cards in my life bro, this one ain't even good.. baseball cards are worthless.. then you'd probably just throw it away . Or be like "you can have it free if you want" and that's exactly what they do (women).. if you can convince them that their pussy is a dime a dozen and you wouldn't do anything for it short of just taking it for free or close to nothing.. they'll treat it the same and give it to you for short of nothing. Like just picking them up and hanging out with em for a minute

[@adamkerr5695]

EoinFC .. you missed out on him when he was alive. He was a genius!! He'll always be missed!

[@tallgesse]

Same here

[@cjcurry2446]

Jar balla 420 realest shit I've heard in my life about women

[@tommyfu9271]

i love this woman disagreeing with everything he says and then when she finally agrees with something he says his reply "who gives a shit if you agree?" haha so great

[@jaycannabis4673]

Shes pretending to agree.

[@ale58301]

Love her shrill high pitch voice tho. Imagine living with that

[@raymondhernandez8535]

😂😂😂

[@PlatinumHustle]

🤣🤦🏾‍♂️

[@daquansbussy4288]

It's called double talking, which women are naturally good at. They challenge you by disagreeing with you till you prove their BS wrong, and the craziest part is that they don't do it maliciously, they are just natural with it

[@GameplayzOfficial]

They call men that understand women as misogynist, because you can love women or understand women, but can`t do both.

[@nagylevi3827]

Amen!

[@Stephen-uz8dm]

damn

[@caffeinatedlizard3593]

Kali Linux

[@MisterE1976]

Beyond true.

[@globalautobahn1132]

Jesus... Just hands down you have encompassed a lot of my own thoughts. I got five sisters and I definitely understand women. But I am must be a misogynist, because I don’t trust women, and I see the immaturity in their way of thinking and the way that they fight and argue is underhanded. Even my own sisters and mother, They’ve taken care of me, I am the youngest. But they’ve always told me not to trust other women and explain why and it makes perfect sense

[@marcose1137]

Don't ever listen to feminine women's advice on women. That's like asking a gazelle how to hunt. The gazelle will either have no clue or it will deliberately mislead you.

[@theredninja2817]

Marcos Escobar that is perfect perfect advice

[@TrustasCurrency]

Like patrice says: :You dont ask a fish how to catch another fish you would ask a fishermen"

[@LIVdaBrand]

visadklline lol

[@12Djpedro]

Or you could say "that's like a lion asking a gazelle how to catch gazelles". You are right tho.

[@thagodwecreate5179]

Now I'm hungry for gazelle 😞

[@Bonniemish]

"Your logic will always be superior to her emotions". . There could not have been more clearer words ever spoken!

[@Stoic-ds4so]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@goffdroid]

never treat a king like a pawn. we will sacrifice the queen and still win....

[@GeneralG1810]

LMFAO I am so using that one

[@pc8679]

Checkmate

[@orafranc237]

Patrice is not a king, he a bitch. any man who can only score a hoe not a real queen is not deserving to even call himself a king, only real men can rule having a true queen at his side can be a real king. He can stick with hoes thats okay but its not okay to call yorself a king if all u can handle are hoes, then u seize to carry that title and just be a pimp not a king, dont get it twisted.

[@stevetheiii477]

@@orafranc237 you're definitely a woman

[@TheShowOff2I]

Ora Franc That comment isn’t going to stop guys from waking up, you tried tho 🤪

[@htxflow]

"Talking makes me unhappy" 4:45 🐐🐐🐐

[@evanabbott2737]

Yep! That’s what’s UP. Most people talk, few people listen.

[@tannyglover3929]

Bro I hate talking to women too. And I fucking LOATHE when a woman asks me... “So... how are you feeling right now?” 🤬

[@WeabooScourgeKiller]

@@tannyglover3929 Genuinely curious why? I’m someone who likes to talk a lot and I feel like communication is important to me. How do you manage a relationship without talking about your feelings? Good faith question hope you have a good day

[@tannyglover3929]

@@WeabooScourgeKiller it’s just uncomfortable. And what ends up happening is when you open up to women and get vulnerable, they weaponize it. So it’s better to just internalize it.

[@etf42]

Pure genius. He was red pill way before it was official

[@t100base]

genius indeed

[@epicchanges1072]

EXACTLY

[@calvinpeake8672]

Facts

[@BIGNOSEPOPPA]

All facts. Love the Patrice

[@godson2609]

Shawn Rutz lol

[@scottdavis4388]

What Patrice says on 100%. Had a friend who’s a girl, she kept asking me for favors like helping her move and all. One day I told her no, I would like to be compensated for my time. At first she said no, then a week later she was in my bed giving me my back pay. Do not sacrifice your happiness to be a nice guy.

[@brianmorris2533]

Back pay 😂😂😂😂😂

[@panama2468]

​@@brianmorris2533 bars 😂

[@StayWavyK]

My man

[@SoulFistGaming]

That female in the back needs to check herself Women do not fall in love with their friends

[@evanabbott2737]

Yeah! That girl is from another planet....🙄

[@elsolo00]

dead ass, for them it makes more sense to fuck a stranger thats cute.

[@jimih8262]

She’s annoying as hell, but I understand why Patrice had her on. When you hear her backpedaling and weaseling around topics, you know beyond a shadow of a doubt what Patrice is saying about women is true, and that women know it’s true.

[@mekudu-man3804]

@@evanabbott2737 typical Karen...

[@papimarv4422]

el solo facts

[@555reaper]

I like how Patrice videos are staying relevant. His ideas need to be heard especially at a time like this where women run everything and everybody is unhappy.

[@kingsofcobra]

In Layman’s terms This shit should have over a million subscriber

[@stoneyowl6164]

Amen!

[@RadioHouston]

I always tell a bii "You don't know what U want" fr

[@jcnot9712]

Mr.Grim Your relationship with Mandy in the cartoon is the number one example of how far pussy whipping can get.

[@marcusjackson3053]

Everybody is unhappy lol

[@aaronbrutus2654]

The best thing you can do is BE DIRECT. If she shuts you down, GOOD. Now you can stop wasting time and move the fuck on.

[@wizkid8205]

Aaron Brutus word up

[@aaronbrutus2654]

Marten Dekker no sure what you mean.

[@AttorneyK]

@Aaron Brutus He is just projecting his insecurity onto you.

[@privatepo5876]

Respect

[@frehspeach]

1000%

[@Adam-lz7sr]

“Can you help me move my bookcase from my basement to my roof?” Lol 😂

[@themeatspot5020]

Haha

[@red---paulvanravenswaay2247]

And back down again....... I'm sure it won't take long👩‍🦰👩‍🦰👩‍🦰☠☠☠

[@houseofmatrix6174]

Lmfaoooo

[@amandalively1]

The man happiness is important because it's a giving type of happiness... Women "tend" to lack this type of happiness.

[@gordonm7038]

Amanda tompkins Music is better than sex. Sex is a chore.

[@geezusuck]

Sex is great, but usually the chase is better. My dick gets me in all kinds of bad situations.

[@bicflair9604]

Facts my friend, same here!

[@retrorenaissance9497]

i miss highschool sex. my gf wanted it everyday every way

[@retrorenaissance9497]

Mr X mmhmm my highschool gf had big titties and loved to give head everyday and i didnt havr to do shit

[@tlz124]

I've heard him talk before about how his happiness is paramount, but i haven't heard him describe what that means until this podcast. It's not like an ego thing. It's that happiness for a man is simple and clear, but for a woman, happiness is confusing and undefinable. So if you rely on a woman to be happy, it's going to never happen. Hopefully this makes sense to anyone reading it

[@kirtically5497]

It does make perfect sense.

[@mr.walkdown7019]

That’s why men are the heads of house most of us can make decisions woman would make with their emotions

[@j2y2k3]

I don't have much to add. Except this, that Patrice brought about the concept known as the Pussy Pie. Basically, when a man first approaches a woman, the most valuable thing that drives him to chase her or take care of her is her pussy, and after he has that, other things become more and more important, while pussy becomes less important. But what happens over time, is you as a man realize is that the woman doesn't have much else to offer outside of her pussy and then that's what makes you want to leave.

[@tlz124]

@@j2y2k3 Has that been true in your experience?

[@ronthemogul]

Also happy wife happy life is total bullshit

[@tallsmile28]

My happiness is paramount!!!

[@m1gu3l_r]

Alexander he said it just as I read this lol

[@richardjamesclemo6235]

SerpentKingHazama That happens quite often. It’s funny how reading through comments and listening, are so much in line with each other

[@RadioHouston]

Ayyye

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

Yet so many of us are groomed to sacrifice our happiness for others especially when children are involved.

[@itsyah]

Everything Patrice talks about should be in a book called "How to raise your son".

[@julianamulauulu7449]

Sure! Then watch him be alone for the rest of his life. In all seriousness though, most children are already raised this way enlarging the gap between genders.

[@Martin-ki8jv]

@@julianamulauulu7449 far from the truth.

[@julianamulauulu7449]

Martin Okay!

[@lacuna5239]

@@julianamulauulu7449 Bullshit. My dad raised me teaching near enough everything that Patrice is trying to say and I've never even remotely struggled to attract or get women. It's my naive peers who i see struggling

[@fightingmedialounge519]

Depends on what type of women your trying to get.

[@anim3z4u]

"If she's on her period, I don't want her in my house." Patrice O neal 😂

[@nicholaswilliams1675]

So true

[@CeluiEtSeul]

Why you think Jews don't want to see their women for a whole week when they on their shit.

[@javiernesta5876]

Omg lol in my early 20's ive done it to an Ex girlfriend wouldnt even text her lol Forgive me

[@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106]

Agreed

[@hockeymasktime1918]

I remember when he made that joke on the HBO special...when my girl is on her period I lock her away and throw a piece of raw meat on the floor for her. Truth is, they use it to justify their "cunt-ish" behaviour.

[@nickdipaolofan5948]

AMEN!!!! most women are not good conversationalists, can't help with physical tasks, and are usually super cheap with their money. So aside from sex, what exactly do they contribute to a relationship?? And then they get mad that you treat them as a sex object. Well, what else do you have to offer??

[@davidbrant390]

I don't think it's always the case (there are many exceptions, there are billions of women in the world, many will have great personalities but many also won't) but it is a very important thing as a culture to realize. Generally, women grow up without the need to develop their personality and intellect as much as men, it's not socially required from them as much. It's sad but it's true.

[@maxdawg]

so, you actually agree with him. they aren't required to develop their personality, so what else is there to develop... their sexual attributes/skills?

[@nickdipaolofan5948]

@@davidbrant390 I am not saying women CANT offer something else, I am saying that they DONT. Women could work hard and make tons of money and buy her man dinners, trips, and jewelry like men usually do. Women can learn electrical or plumbing and help around the house, but they don't in general. So again, women CAN offer something other than sex to men, but they chose not to.

[@nickdipaolofan5948]

@@michaelscarlata8314 yup, I was simply addressing the women who constantly complain that men only view them as sexual objects and explaining that this is their own doing. At any time, those women could do something to offer more than sex, but they choose not to. So They forfeit the right to complain about men viewing them as sexual objects. Just like if a man complains that his kids only use him for his money, yet he never attends their baseball games, never helps them with homework, never takes them to concerts, etc. And the kids says, "what else do you offer?" same concept.

[@Mahlercougar]

@@nickdipaolofan5948 wow Nick.. undebatable logic. There really isn't much more for me to say. The way that you said it was perfect and that is all. The only thing that I could say is that I wish that women could see past this. It's like they have blinders on to the fact that they could be so much more then they realize but they choose not to because some men and some women allow themselves not to progress further than they should or could aspire to.

[@SuperDuperCool23]

If I given this advice in my early 20s my life would be totally different lol. Patrice has definitely made some sort of impact in my life, no doubt.

[@mindhunter8772]

if you gained this type of knowledge about relationships and women? What will you be doing in your early twenties?

[@africaindabuilding9541]

Me too I would be happier and less stressed with women.

[@nickdipaolofan5948]

"you have to teach them how to be loveable" this is very true. it took a few years of marriage before I finally laid it down to my wife and explained that if she thinks i'm witty and she likes my stories and she loves how thoughtful my gifts to her are, and she likes how I listen to her stories, then she needs to do shit like that for me if she wants me to feel about her the same way she feels about me. It doesn't even occur to women that they need to reciprocate in a relationship. I would LOVE my woman to be a good story teller. I'd love her to know about politics. I'd love her to make money and buy me expensive gifts. I'd love her to learn how to cook so she could hook me up with an amazing meal.

[@Whodjathink]

I've ended up coming to a pretty interesting conclusion: Women lack self-awareness. That small thing is the cause for SOOOOOO many problems that men *AND* women face! Like you said, it doesn't even occur to women that they need to equally put in effort into a relationship! Take away the sex and what else do they give us? I read a comment somewhere that said "We wouldn't want a women if she didn't give sex" Whose fault is that?! That's typically all they'll give you! Why is it so hard for them to realize their own hypocrisy?

[@coreypurvis3084]

I think they just don’t give a fuck as long as they get what they want. They think pussy is enough

[@nickdipaolofan5948]

@@coreypurvis3084 this is true and you have to constantly remind them that it is not enough.

[@vegeta8169]

Yeah I have two daughters and they don't understand causality and reciprocity. I'm workin hard to teach them how to be liveable😀.

[@baroniparson]

Facts.

[@Brancovtn65]

I was going down the path of despising all women until by some chance, I found an O&A podcast featuring Patrice. I thought all women were psychopaths and manipulated out of pure evil lol. Patrice changed my life man, I will never forget what he has done for mankind.

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

There all the same, once you understand them their easy to read

[@rdcruick]

Don't hate them for what they are, just try to understand them and use it to your advantage.

[@ZinfinityX]

@@rdcruick It's not really about understanding them but yourself about them. You can't hope to understand a creature that opportunistically backpedals the moment they are aware of your competence.

[@ladistar]

“Why should I love you because I’m charming?” Lmao genius hahaha

[@itsarendezvous]

You should not just blatantly say "I like you." You should flirt and introduce sex to the situation. If she doesn't respond positively you distance yourself and get other women in front of her

[@mr.walkdown7019]

Depends on what u want from her, if all you want to do is fuc then you come at her that way, but if you want more than that you wouldn’t come at her that way, you wouldn’t be looking just for sex, also u can’t let her run over u

[@jesusofnazareth6254]

"get women in front of her" wrong mindset dude. You shouldn't give a fuck if she sees you or not. She didn't like you? face it and accept it. Don't try to get revenge on her, that's feminine. Edit: i mean wrong for me, but if getting women in front of her is your goal then great

[@lisothegreat1401]

You read it completely wrong. He means if she isn’t with it get another woman who will

[@shakinbottles]

​@@lisothegreat1401 nah I got a skinny little teenage girlfriend and she blew my old raggidy babymomma out the water and idk how but the babymomma ran her off and I'm back here now but she do what I say now

[@SCheco3]

There should be a men's group who can attest to Patrices lessons, cause most of the time even if she seems like a good woman or IS a good woman, his examples are true in many ways about the nature of females. He's not lying fellas

[@arturbondarenco2155]

SCheco3 red pill?

[@SCheco3]

Artur Bondarenco ehh, I suppose if that's what you want to call it. They (women)elicit certain patterns, which Patrice is very well aware of.

[@jeffreytorres2539]

SCheco3 they do it's called mgtow or red pill or mra.

[@GoHomeKamala]

SCheco3...the nature of the beast. Always tells the truth gents.

[@zeroireland]

SCheco3 Let’s start a Patrice cult. You and me buddy.

[@interloperblues]

I wish I had this advice 20 years ago.

[@hateisasignofenvy651]

Capt Spaulding probably wouldnt have listened anyway.

[@CE-vd2px]

Hes got a point. Im glad im 22 and listening. Its so saddening in a way, mindblowing also, that women are this way. In a way it is a relief too because i have nothing holding me back from become a good Pick Up Artist (PUA). I think this is a way to really enjoy women, you get the best out of them when you arent in a relationship but when you are on infrequent dates that end in sex/just meeting first time and picking up. It also prepares you for being better at presenting yourself and generating respect in general

[@anthonyperkins5856]

me to listen to the TOM LEYKIS show, its just as good..

[@socially_ambidextrous8004]

Capt Spaulding Amen 🙏🏾 Brother

[@silenthashassin8912]

You have it now. So live it and pass it on.

[@zarreff]

I noticed how girls would bring up their boyfriend when I talked to them as a passive way to say "I'm not single/not interested". Once I was talking to a girl I liked and she brought up her boyfriend, I IMMEDIATELY left. Didn't Entertain another second of conversation if it was getting me nowhere.. So "I took my ball and went home". Is a way to define that

[@thomas-ud1fs]

That same sentiment is how you gotta address any bad advice coming from your own head. Push it away like that immediately. That's just trauma talking. Every time.

[@smhunney8266]

i tell em i dont care about their boyfriend and that they can still get it. before i leave.

[@aaronmaughn616]

Im going to do exactly this from now on

[@aaronmaughn616]

Im going to do exactly this from now on

[@nickdipaolofan5948]

When I was single, if I was chatting up a woman and she was clearly chatting me up as well, if she mentioned she had a boyfriend or husband I would reply with something like, "so what would your man think about you chatting up random dudes just to get some side attention from random men?" You could see the lightbulb turn on and her realizing what a disloyal cunt she was. I'm cool if a woman has a man, but don't be out there stringing other men along and wasting their time when they approach you. You better lead with that shit, otherwise you are entertaining other men just to get your rocks off. And the unspoken truth is that you are also checking your options and seeing if there is someone better out there that you can monkey branch to and drop your man. Like I said, disloyal.

[@brettorrmusic]

Imagine being roasted by Bill Burr... you'd get shut down in 2 seconds. Bill Burr has been interviewed saying he could never beat Patrice. The guy was a cold-blooded gangster. RIP.

[@bogdanalindaragiu1314]

he was afraid of Patrice making fun of him hahaha he always knew that roasting back would only make it worse hahaha

[@sinmatter8510]

Burr mentioned that he managed to beat Patrice once in a roast out of like 1000 lmao.

[@smhunney8266]

Bill said he only beat him once cause he was using Patrice's tactics on Patrice... and that pissed him (Patrice) off so much he got Patrice off his game.

[@DieselTymeGO]

Never tell her how you feel because if she's not already in love with you then she doesn't want to hear it.

[@christiankalonda7990]

David Silber-Baker real shit

[@diehipster1]

Big facts

[@gamalsankara1388]

Thats real, i just made that mistake last week on tuesday. I told my crush i like her, and she told me that she likes me and we have spent some time together and gone on dates.

[@northshoretransportation3791]

“Talking makes me unhappy” lol. Patrice was the best

[@roronoa_zoro3124]

For anyone starting out with this philosophy and being single, this is one of the most important lessons you can learn. That’s why he’s put this in the intro and commercial snippets of the show. “Women’s power is in your fear of whatever it is they are going to do.” As soon as you are ready to lose any woman you are with, and to walk away, they not only lose any power they have over you, but they paradoxically get more attached and attracted to you. The moment you are ready to lose everything and start all over again with another chick, you are liberated from all the bullshit men have to deal with 90% of the time with women. Stand your ground, speak your mind, be a righteous asshole, and women will respect you for it. It will drive them crazy, it will make them mad, and you might lose them forever. But in my experience so far 2/3 times she won’t leave, and when she comes back 3-7 days later, she will have so much more respect for you that things usually get better. Whereas if you act like a bitch and give in, she will lose respect for you and will either abuse you and eventually leave/cheat on you anyway, or just leave and never fuck/speak to you again. I come back to this video every once in a while just because it’s the fundamental philosophy of Patrice and Dante’s teachings. The moment you show you are willing to compromise your value as a man for a woman is the day you lose the game. So if shit gets too crazy, or even just on a daily basis when dealing with a woman you’re dating, always always always be ready to just throw the chess board in the air, take your ball, and go home. Remember, women don’t like men they can walk all over. They like strong men who know their value and who don’t act like a doormat. A woman will only have sex with a man she can respect, and if she loses respect for you, she won’t fuck you. It’s better to have boundaries and risk the woman you’re dealing with getting angry while maintaining respect, than to give in to the tests women use on men constantly and have her lose respect for you. You’ll feel better, she’ll like you more, and you will continue to be able to date that woman. It’s as simple as that.

[@TheBnaiElohim]

This man was too next level, jeez. That woman with him was super annoying. She was soo emotional

[@adulfdabo898]

Emotional, that's how they are. And that's why the western world is so fucked up, - because we listen to them way too much!

[@elebake]

if you think about it though, it really helped prove his point lol

[@kerrzUSR]

Austin Baker definitely, she's great counterplay

[@scottallen6970]

shes got a terrible voice for radio.

[@mann953]

Scott Allen but she has a perfect face for radio. Karith forester

[@adulfdabo898]

That was a good one!

[@handsomeX]

Scott Allen Nails on a chalkboard

[@stevetheiii477]

@@EventualWarlord she sounds white tho

[@chancebrown106]

And an awful name- Karith... shit sounds like Mike Tyson stuttering. Even her parents hated her.

[@yoericktv9610]

I discovered Patrice 6 months after he passed. When I heard this over on Sirius radio, I cried. I cried like I lost a brother. I missed him by that close. I could have been a part of his life. He became such a big part in mine. Much love.

[@silenthashassin8912]

For those who may feel saddened or disappointed they didn’t know of Patrice O’Neal or gained this knowledge 10, 20 or even 30 years later don’t worry. YOU KNOW IT NOW!!!! So be what you are.

[@user-gv6ei2jg8g]

Silent Hashassin I’m glad I’m hearing it know man. I’m 25 and loving the pussy im getting 🤙🏾

[@Hustlerclub203]

I’ve been binge watching all his videos I’m so upset I’m just discovering him may he Rest In Peace

[@theredninja2817]

my father long before he died gave me some valuable information it went like this men give women a lot for What Little they give us enough said

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

Robert Liberty that’s the dam truth, they definitely get worse with age

[@Brian_tim]

Your dad was truly a wise man. They offer us nothing.

[@asantesaddler8604]

Yea your dad spoke nothing but truth...

[@gamalsankara1388]

Deep

[@manscv7037]

Hope you don't forget about it fam, May he rest in peace ISA..

[@cjcurry2446]

If you don't plan on having kids with a woman, I don't see what other value they can add to your life besides sex honestly. Also I believe in platonic relationships, but you need to be the one to establish it not the other way around. If I can't talk to you like I speak to my guy friends then we aren't truly friends are we?

[@fightingmedialounge519]

Relationships are a two way street.

[@jeviosoorishas181]

Patrice has a great comment about how women don't do things righteously, and the "Lets be friends" thing is never righteous. They still want you to edit yourself and charm them like you would if you were trying to smash, but they don't want to have the obligation to reciprocate.

[@1995yuda]

Patrice is handing you years of pimpin on a plate. Every sentence is years of trial and error condensed beautifuly into laser shots of divine pimpin. Genius.

[@UToobUsername01]

He is like a hunter that slowly built up the knowledge over decades and it's a shame he never wrote a book on this stuff. Illuminati gave him his diabetes imo.

[@1995yuda]

@@UToobUsername01 Some dude put most of his philosophy in some book, and his wife also wrote a book about his philosophy. Look those up, man! There's also some new movie about him on youtube, you might want to check that.

[@michaeltaylor8519]

Its crazy i never had to deal with the friendzone shit. But then again in easy on the eyes. I met my chick and she asked me out and wanted to be with me. She's helped me through some rough yimes financially and has shown me acceptance when I was at my lowest. If you meet a good woman you'll know it

[@jhonnycultura4455]

You're blessed brother, I hope some day I'll find a pretty girl with that same mentality

[@thomas-ud1fs]

I thin you found one that wasn't damaged yet. Hope it's going well.

[@thechrisman1345]

@@thomas-ud1fs my girlfriend is as damaged as can be and she has changed for the better... Generalizations don't really work in the real world.

[@privatepo5876]

Patrice advice is for basic in bed or ugly guys. They’re the ones being friend zoned. There’s a swagger from a guy that fucks well that transcends. Fine guy is just plain fine - he can drop the corniest damn line and your nipples will perk up.

[@closethatdoor5555]

!

[@NPCdeathMachine]

I’ve been listening to this guy for 7 years. I learn something new every single time I listen to his recordings again.

[@jamie49868]

Women...you just can't do enough for them. Men are nice and decent. We don't mind helping most of the time. It makes us feel needed and purpose directed. The problem is that once you do something like move the bookcase from the basement to the roof, women think that you should do every thing they ask, and then get pissed when we don't. The first time they ask you to do something like that, say no. They may think you're an asshole, and walk....you win, and just saved your self a life time of servitude. Or they say okay, and respect you...you win, and now have some pussy on your terms.

[@kingjamesmayo8232]

jamie t true shit

[@fightingmedialounge519]

So helping people is sexually repulsive.

[@gandomlee]

I used to look at my dad like he was an asshole and always stuck up for my mom. Now I'm living with a women that reminds me of my mom and now I see why my dad was the way he was. I dont think he was a asshole anymore.

[@shinichisan6789]

@@gandomlee damn voi

[@matthennen94]

@@yourmainful hahaha what????? something tells you are a single women.

[@dolphadomian4762]

“Your happiness trickles down to a complex needy creature that don’t even know what SHE needs” 😂

[@AOKP]

Patrice really was the GOAT smh RIP

[@chevalierjd]

"Men happiness is basic... we can be happy wasting time. Women have no idea what makes them happy.". More truthful words HAVE NEVER SPOKEN!

[@KhemistryIBMOR]

Patrice at his best.

[@masonic777]

Khemistry IBMOR I really hate he's gone, moved on!!!

[@tonebangerz6069]

@@masonic777 how did he die

[@truindividual]

@@tonebangerz6069 stroke

[@tonebangerz6069]

@@truindividual damn smh.

[@dennisgordon7767]

"men can waste time and be happy' - fucking gold. perfectly put

[@raymondjames57]

"Communicating with her makes me unhappy"😂 perfect Why did I have to be 32 before I found you, my life could have been so different, Fathers you don't have to give this speech just point them in the right direction (Patrice) Last relationship ended with losing everything and being homeless in winter with what I could fit in my car. Would have never come close to that if I had a hint of Patrice honesty shared with me. I'm still content being alone and happy, aka no where near miserable ,but now I got the Patrice reality check to do it right if I want to dip my feet in the pool again. Bless you Patrice, Fathers fucking do your sons right!

[@naadde]

Have you entered now a relationship or are you still happy alone? How's it going man? Sorry to hear you were homeless

[@LiliumCruorem]

I was essentially only raised by women. I grew up thinking I knew everything about women cause I was surrounded by them. But as a man I’ve had nothing but horrible fuckups with women and I discovered that being raised by women does not in ANY way give you insight about women. All it did to me in fact is make me bad at talking to women.

[@shakinbottles]

Nah same but I was actually pretty good with girls up in till I was 15 and met my babymomma she pulled all the woman tricks because she was an adult and knew the game better than I did at that time but I'm back up now just stay up g

[@orangewarm1]

Maybe you should ask the women you grew up with. Otherwise, I think you've been approaching/ dealing with the wrong women.

[@BluisRaw02]

This man has changed my whole way of thinking! I'm fucking loving it!

[@mecheclabadie7104]

am 19 so am happy to know this early

[@roddbanks103]

Mechec Labadie I'm 24 and I've dealt wit women as old as their 50s and I can tell you FROM EXPERIENCE that Patrice knows what he's talking about. Listen to that man you won't regret it

[@TENNSUMITSUMA]

lucky fuck! i didn't get this until 25-27, im 32 now!

[@ukahchiagoziem570]

Lucky you I'm 24, been burnt by 3 already. I just found this kinda shit this year.

[@pale_saint]

Lucky bastard 😆

[@Christoff070]

Don't forget it's just one person's perspective, and he is generalizing all women as though they are this way. I'm a dude, I've had relationships with some women who are better than this. Women think with both sides of their brain , they have something to offer besides pussy. So, take his words with a grain of salt but use them to increase your confidence with women :)

[@rotflolextreme]

If it comes to the point when you have to put your feeings on the table then you already lost. That tactice really only works as catharsis, to help you feel better. Dont expect it to actually work in winning her over tho. What kind of a relationship would that lead to if she accepts your feelings? Then she has control over the whole situation...

[@bicflair9604]

So true

[@rotflolextreme]

Real AtomiK if you know youre gonna lose then why do it? If the situation is ambiguous, and you have no idea if you are gonna win or lose, then absolutely, be willing. My point is that this situation is already a loss, and that loss is unnecessary, unless you need the catharsis. If you can find a way to make it work for you then do it.

[@uchennasunday7037]

That's the point stop trying to win her over. I'm 22. It's working for me right now like magic. Women want challenge that is why they like rude boys, douchebags and gangsters.

[@elebake]

I definitely don't think patrice is telling anyone to be a "douchebag," or even an asshole . . . His whole thing is more about being honest with yourself and confident enough to take control, has nothing to do with being rude

[@elebake]

haha I agree

[@at2031]

Notice how Karith's advice puts the control in woman's hand. Now the man has to wait for the woman to make up her mind instead of telling the truth right there.

[@ibziibz1886]

5:04 when Patrice says they don't know their own happiness followed by the girl responding in a low unconfidendent "yes we do" is all we need to know that they don't know their own happiness. Brothers we must protect our own!

[@froboy12342]

1:32 "from the basement to the roof and downstairs again" LMAO too true

[@rollin100s9]

BLEEDING TO DEATH,IN MY HOUSE.. LOL

[@humzauddin6692]

xD

[@jonathankelley4041]

This girl knows exactly how he feels. She knows he likes her, but has all the benefits she wants. She has a friend that will do things for her. Women know when they have a dude wrapped around their finger. Sure let her know how you feel and if she starts the friend stuff immediately leave.

[@SerenityNow331]

"You can't be afraid of the loss you're gonna take" Wow, just wow. If only I had heard this a week earlier. Not gonna lie, I still struggle (with the loss) though. I wish Patrice was still here with us

[@rofl315]

Who gives a fuck, man? Take that as a learning experience and treat the next girl like the hoe she is. She's not gonna go anywhere.

[@SerenityNow331]

@@rofl315 Okay

[@smhunney8266]

The slogan of my ole school group of friends is "Wisdom is Immortal, Time is Everlasting". Patrice had absolute Wisdom, and these pieces of knowledge that will hopefully last forever in time or at least in the hearts and minds of his listeners, have Immortalized Patrice. Patrice said, "out you fucking go..."..

[@robertscott1983]

Patrice is the truth

[@georgedennis9319]

*My fccking happiness is PARAMOUNT!*

[@Battlered713]

7:03 “we don’t know how you guys really technically feel!” Patrice: and you don’t want to know! 😎🚬🚬🚬

[@americanbrandon]

It’s crazy how I would listen to Patrice for the past few years here and there and now that I’m finally in a relationship it’s like Patrice was warning me on what I would experience and I swear to God Patrice has helped me through all of this more than anybody I have talked to personally. It’s true if you have a passion and it makes you happy your girl want you to stop doing that passion so that you can give her all of her time and when you do that for a little while she’ll end up leaving you for somebody else who actually stuck with their passion

[@supersoaker3177]

Goddam he speaks some truth

[@muckmuckthageneral2691]

Genius, point blank period.

[@asdfadfafsdfa]

“We fall in love with our friends” false y’all keep friends around as back up for when chad is done with you.

[@KB-vv8gr]

holy crap I'm so happy I found this channel, this is hilarious and thoughtful at the same time.

[@eLdotC]

The legend

[@paulbrosco281]

"Why the fuck should I love you because I'm charming?" -Patrice O'Neal, RIP, Brother

[@sansee6840]

I've never kicked a field goal... But if the football made that high pitched noise I'd be on the cover of Madden

[@stephenjackson2912]

Lol, that's a visual. I'd be the fucking highest paid kicker EVER!!!

[@acewilliams7917]

Very true I had to teach my ex to be loveable. After I left her.

[@AuContraireMonFraire]

Ace Williams I’m about to do the same thing to. She wanted to move in a year ago and was on the verge of being “homeless” and losing her job. I had to choose between my happiness, and her being comfortable for a moment. I told her she couldn’t live with me and now she realizes “what kind of person I am” and now wants to leave. I’m not going to stop her, but when I talk to her I will let her know how conditional her love was. She loved me as long as I did things for her, and she loved me because she thought I love her. I asked her once while we were together “Would you still love me if I didn’t love you?” .She hesitated and said “Yes.” But I knew it was dishonest.

[@mgtow-balance3409]

+Ace Williams none of my girlfriends have ever told me i was right about females. but, all of my ex-girlfriends have told me i was right about females ain't that some shit, eh?

[@KPITGangsta]

MGTOWInBetweener ...nope, those are the facts that they'll(your girl friends) continue to obfuscate to keep you off balance. It only becomes some shit if you try to out think it, just side step and keep it pushin'.

[@mgtow-balance3409]

what i mean is, that DURING the time we were together, none of them listened to what i was saying. but then AFTER we broke up, "miraculously" they did listen it's because the level of solipsism increases when they're in "romantic" relationshits

[@thinkboutit]

I did the same with my ex wife. But she’s psycho so kinda different. She still always comes back to me but I push her away and ignore. I only like the pussy. Should have realized all girls have a pussy lmao

[@heruapocalypse2021]

I am purposely Hard on Women.And even other Women tells Me that I'm right for being that way.But I don't need Their Validation.Because I know I'm right.Also My Happiness comes first.Especially If I am to spend My Time with Them.Otherwise I can be doing some Man Shit.

[@willjones1826]

HERU Apocalypse YUP 👍🏻

[@taiezenwa7155]

How the fuck did I just find out about Patrice this year?? This man was golden lol

[@rally_chronicles]

You have a lot of catching up to do friend.

[@gordonm7038]

It's cold out here!

[@luke56]

I'm not not gonna be fuckin 😂😂😂😂

[@hateisasignofenvy651]

She probably gave him a half ass response and kept dragging him along in the friend zone

[@Phoenix5365]

Woman: I'm hungry. Man: What do you want? Woman: Food. Man: Well, yeah, but what? Chicken? Woman: No. Man: Burger? Woman: No. Man: Italian? Woman: No. Man: Chinese? Woman: No. Man: So what do you want? Woman: Food. What do you want? Man: I'm not the one who's hungry. What do you want? Woman: I don't know. Food. But, sure, go ahead and insist she knows how to be happy.

[@shirlworldwatson4692]

Guilty as charged.... :) lol

[@mattmurray517]

"I gave her the it's okay circle back rub" amazing

[@590DM]

Mr. Analogy Himself I constantly think of new analogies, otherwise they’ll never understand

[@perfecttiming9197]

I have to teach you to be loveable. Dont let her hold you hostage. Women are women no matter what position they're in! A wise man once told a woman "stfu"!

[@spontaneousbootay]

😂💀

[@mdsmith8233]

"Can't be afraid of the Loss"---I cannot COUNT the amount of times I shot myself in the foot before approaching a woman for fear of rejection, "The L"---dammit I needed to listen to this dude F'n 25 years ago--Rest Easy, Big Man, U gotdamn scholar U

[@josephmabaso3348]

Patrice o Neal was ahead of his time, this knowledge is pure gold.

[@TheBnaiElohim]

Patrice at times might talk shit, but inside the shit were pure golden eggs

[@sosawillduma1073]

Hes a comedian man.. That "shit talking" is really what hes good at

[@mufasa2783]

This woman is reinforcing what Patrice is saying

[@Emannzo]

8:34 While Patrice is explaining how she will go "whaat" and talk a bunch of horsecrap emotional stuff, Karith is in the back talking a bunch of horsecrap emotional stuff to herself. Brilliant.

[@joshrodriguez7797]

Patrice was so ahead of his time absolute genius

[@MelodicMizeryPs3Vids]

i remember listening to this and it was around the same age i realized everything patrice was saying i had already just figured out. and now unfortunately social media has destroyed the majority of patrices logic about women. i wonder what he would say today. with the ratio of women getting likes on social media for nothing, and how they get thousands of messages, none of them want to take the time at all to talk because they always have a never ending amount of people messaging them.

[@timc9789]

MelodicMizeryPs3Vids You’re right. But Patrice taught us about being honest with yourself. What he says is still so true today. Because even though they have literally a million guy followers, who cares. They’re goofy. You’re logic and control of your emotions are paramount. 👊🏼

[@taniwha3706]

That female presenter is not representing all women. Some women are in agreement 💯% with Patrice. State your case then jet... Don't drag it out. Don't give her more time. If she's not into you? Drop her and move onto the next 😎

[@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106]

Is that so?

[@fightingmedialounge519]

Do you represent all women.

[@stza16]

Are you a lesbian?

[@corrinaamato8805]

I thought I was Patrice only female fan... I love him

[@mrdanyo1223]

Keep them patrice lessons coming

[@RandyFricke]

My happiness is so important to me that I would rather be on my own than risk my happiness trying to to figure out how to make a woman happy when they don't even know what that is themselves.

[@harleyjameson1939]

As a woman I can report that being on a pedestal sucks. Having everything you wanted and knowing you didn't earn it sucks. Being told you're entitled to shit just because you exist sucks. It doesn't do anyone any favors and I'm personally glad to see there's lots of people stepping up to challenge this nonsense.

[@harleyjameson1939]

*Excuse my language was just realing feeling that in response to what you said. Have a good day

[@sbeast64]

"Why the fuck should I love you cos I'm charming." "I'm not saying that you should be fucking, I'm saying I'm not not gonna be fucking"

[@TraderHelp101]

It's VERY SIMPLE, Women what a man to give them everything but the true Question is what are you giving in return Ask a woman this, if I give you everything what are you going to give me

[@nickdipaolofan5948]

They will usually either be offended at the question OR they will imply sex. They won't even promise sex, they will try to keep it vague so later they can go back and say, "I never said i'd give you sex in exchange for XY or Z" this way they can act indignant that you would even suggest that she would agree to whore her body in exchange for something, which you know she did.

[@jamesmcmccray8255]

Some used pussy

[@harleyjameson1939]

Don't ask this question it shows weakness. Rule 1 of any negotiation is never be the one to put your offer out there first. You already said "everything" so, now she's thinking "I'm going to get that with minimal effort."

[@paulcorda]

@3:51, is absolutely brilliant!!!!, just brilliant explanation on why Men need to lead the relationship.

[@Bromio6269]

“Then she wasn’t the girl for you!” “SHUT THE FUCK!!” 😂😂😂

[@Pveal79]

That uncle you can't wait to listen to during thanksgiving

[@theraven9849]

"YOU CANT be afraid of the loss you're going to take"

[@mmegdaniel]

“She in my house bleeding to death every month” bruhhh lmfao holy shit