Common Crochet Mistakes and Beginner Frustrations

[@CoolCraftyCreations]

6 years ago after being laid off a 16 year stable (or so I thought) job, I went to Michael’s purchased some yarn and hooks and attempted to learn. Fast forward to 2018, I’m starting my own crochet business! I’ve made tons of blankets, throws, hats and scarves, shawls, slippers, crocodile stitches on summer sandals, my next big venture is a cardigan for my eldest sister. How did I learn? Looking at hundreds of KZbin videos of tons of beautiful crochet items, writing down tons of patterns and asking tons of questions. Now, this is my number one pass time when I’m off work.

[@SSMN2492]

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[@theblushingbookworm]

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[@crochet_rumah]

Inspiring

[@leela715]

Awesome story!!!

[@tammi67able]

Wow congratulations! A better opportunity came along sounds like

[@leadfoot1221]

Nice video! I've been crocheting for 30 years, when I first started I had a lot of trouble making the starting chain too tight. I found by going up to the next size hook for the chain solved my problem. Hope this helps someone.

[@avalonspawn]

Huh... as someone who has done a couple of projects and I am just trying to figure out tension, this sounds like a great idea! I will definitely give it a try!

[@magsher8898]

great idea !! i will try this next time.

[@ale-3146]

Thanks what a great tip!

[@noahlani1969]

I do the same thing. I go up to 2 sizes sometimes. I am a loose crocheter but the chains are always tighter than the rest of my work.

[@ninaann1596]

Thanks Patty, your tip helped my mess of a tight starting chain. Thanks again!

[@jojobren4915]

Has anyone ever told you that you should be a motivational speaker? I am a perfectionist and have OCD and you just gave me the kick in the butt I needed.

[@MelanieHam]

jojobren4915 haha thank you!

[@AlaaChan]

😂 when she said "if you keep tearing things out and starting all over again you're gonna just feel defeated" I just saw my future So I'll try to take her advice and chill out

[@cailinlong3461]

CAn I juST saY...thiS iS Me ExaCtalY!!!!!!

[@marigeobrien]

Two things about tension. 1. The reason crocheters hold the yarn looped around their fingers in the hand not holding the hook is to CONTROL TENSION. HOWEVER, getting used to that is difficult and many think they can skip it. DON'T! You'll never be able to control the tension until you master holding the yarn. Even many tutorials do not mention the REASON holding the yarn like this important. But it's to control the tension. If you've ever had to thread a sewing machine, you know that the thread goes through a whole series of different loops and circles. That's to control the tension. The same principle is used with crochet. I have seen yarn held several ways. I was taught to hold it by looping it under and around my left pinky (I'm right-handed), then across my palm and behind my left index finger and toward the work. It's not hard to do once you're used to it and gives you control over the tension. THERE ARE TUTORIALS THAT DEMONSTRATE THIS AND OTHER METHODS HERE, ON KZbin. 2. A quick way to MASTER TENSION is to set this task for yourself: For 2 weeks (14 days), make 5, 100-count chains. That's all. Every day, make 5 chains of 100. It sounds boring and tedious and it is. And the first few days will feel like torture. Your hands will cramp and it will feel so awkward and your stitches will seem hopeless. The POINT of this exercise is to develop muscle memory. Slowly, over those two weeks, you will adapt. You will get used to setting up the yarn on your hand, making your knot, then making your chain. By the end of the two weeks, it will feel almost natural. BTW, the chains don't have to be exactly 100, but a long chain. And you can take them out and do them over, if you like. It's an exercise. The point is that, in just 2 weeks you'll have all tension issues solved and you can move on to actually crocheting. This, BTW, is what my mother made me do when I first learned to crochet, 40 years ago. I hated it but I did it because I wanted to learn. And I was so glad at the end of the two weeks. When I started my hands cramped, the chains were all over the place and I hated it. But I worked at it and by the end of just 2 short weeks I could make those chains without a second thought and the tension was completely consistent. So, it was worth it. I never had tension issues again.

[@LakelandluvsBlythe]

Marige OBrien I have tried this but the yarn doesn’t slide through easy so I end up with uneven stitches. I grab the yarn with my pinky like a j, or if you know sign language, it’s how you sign the letter J. Than I do just like you, over my palm, under my index and over toward work. It slides fairly easy this way but when I tried completely wrapping yarn around my pinky it wouldn’t slide. I hope this makes sense.

[@pjki4391]

Just starting crochet. Can knit hats and pillows and blankets, but want to crochet. So, do you mean 5 separate chains of 100 ea? A chain of 100, tie it off; another chain of 100, tie it off, until you've done 5 chains? You don't mean a chain of 100 and then go back into the chain and crochet the opposite way making like another row? Just want to clarify.

[@naomiwilliams3343]

Marige OBrien awesome tip!!!!!

[@sandrawilkerson840]

Your tip of just doing chains for a couple weeks was exactly what I needed!. I couldn't get it, tried for years and just kept giving up. At 53 I have decided I am going to learn to crochet. Thank you for your tip, I still have a ways to go but just getting used to the needle and yarn with all that practice has eased so much of my frustrations. Thank you again!!!

[@user-jk8eo2zt3o]

Truly interesting.thank you for the explanation :)

[@knittykatstudio]

Melanie, your right! Never give up! I'm self-taught in everything I've ever wanted to learn. Knitting, drawing, painting, writing, jewelry-making, embroidery, sewing, quilting and now crochet. I've got way to many interests...lol! But, there are lot's of awesome videos just like yours that help people learn. Thanks : )

[@dianekastrow344]

I love your videos, keep up the great work. Love your rose. Thank you.

[@thelivesofmany7013]

Handmade with C. We have the exact same interests :O. Gooddluck

[@jasminflower3814]

@@thelivesofmany7013 Me too 🤣

[@ripulikone]

I've knitted since I was 10 years old (so for 9 years), but I started crocheting today. Your positive attitude and spirit is SO inspiring and helpful, thank you for bringing more joy into this world and into mine :)

[@caroldegan1807]

I am 72.. l made an Afghan 40 yrs ago & never crochet again... now iam a beginner again.. and scared to try.. your video has inspired me to try with arthritic fingers.. bless you.

[@victoriarojas1778]

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[@marielittle690]

It’s been a year and I hope you had super success😀

[@flazlame3562]

Go, Carol Degan! (I am a year late)

[@batintheattic7293]

Me too (year late). I hope it went well, Carol. After a substantial hiatus, I'm just starting knitting and crochet again. I round loom knit some leg warmers and it was a very stressful experience. I'm not sure I learned very much from the process. I think my mistake was that my first endeavor was for a present for somebody else. If I'd just been playing around trying to make myself something I wouldn't have had so many do-overs and I'd have learned more from my experimentation. So, Carol, if the project of last year scared the crochet right out of you - why not try again but don't have any strict intentions about who it's for or what it's going to be or look like. And I wonder if, for your arthritic fingers, you could try what I find eases my joints a bit. I bought some spray on magnesium oil (mainly for my knees). Spraying it on your fingers, before you start to crochet, might really work the oil in to where it can get to work. A bit of oil, on the yarn, shouldn't be a problem.

[@pjki4391]

That's me -- arthritic fingers. I can knit hats and pillows and blankets, but wanted to try my hand at crocheting. Can't hold the yarn in my left hand. Trying to figure out all the different ways I COULD hold it tightly in order to crochet. Not having a lot of luck with the tension.

[@stacidelfin1243]

I don't frequently comment on videos but just had to today. I've loved following these videos and was devastated to hear the news of Melanie passing. Her videos have been some of my favorites. For the last several weeks I've been working a popcorn stitch granny square baby blanket. I still consider myself a beginner so this was a big project. I have been so overwhelmed by it and frustrated to the point that I have been dragging my feet to finish. I finally felt like it was done and gave it a gentle wash and dry (from another Melanie video suggestion). It washed beautifully until I realized I didn't properly sew in one of my ends and a HUGE hole and more unraveled ends popped up. My heart sank and I was about to scrap the whole thing but turned to KZbin for help. This video played after one I was watching and it made me pause and really listen... I cannot thank Melanie enough for what she said in this video it was EXACTLY what I needed to hear. I am currently patching my blanket with some of it's loving imperfections (cause that's ok!) so I can mail it off to it's new home with a beautiful happy baby boy ❤️

[@jimbello1191]

Hi, I'm deaf and i very much depend on closed captioning. Lots of videos have cc but not this one. Could cc be used all of the time please? I rely on it. Thank you! :) Michelle Bello

[@vrudamdesai9025]

Hey do u still want it? I can write all the things she said for you if u want. Please let me know

[@cailinlong3461]

@@vrudamdesai9025 a year ago?!

[@vrudamdesai9025]

@@cailinlong3461 well I just asked incase the person still needs it.

[@bigtree802]

@@vrudamdesai9025 you're very kind

[@tammi67able]

@@vrudamdesai9025 awwww thats so sweet, God bless you

[@esorruzam]

Just discovered Melanie’s tutorials. So sad that she is no longer there for her loved ones and her youtube watchers. An amazing woman, beautiful, talented, and such a wonderful & encouraging teacher. 💙

[@jasminflower3814]

Same here x

[@denisee.washington]

I just found her channel this evening and had no idea that she had passed away. I was ready to throw my crocheting supplies away but based on this video I am going to try again. This is so sad that she is no longer here.

[@THEPinkRuby]

I *completely* agree that you should not keep ripping stuff out. I fell into that trap and its really self defeating. Excellent video!!!

[@daniellamontemayor5697]

I just found you. Thank you. I had always dabbled in crochet because my mom taught me kind of and I was always doing it then stopping for long periods of times. This pandemic has caused major anxiety for this working mom and I have gone in hard core. I’m doing baby blankets, hats and amigurumi. I’m reading patterns, stitching and it may not look perfect but it’s a goal I have set myself to go do. With a crazy year, your videos have been wonderful to watch . Thank you!

[@christiemcqueen791]

Great video. My mother was so awesome at all things crafty but had very little patience. I have always wanted to crochet, quilt, and sew. Recently my Aunt Deborah taught me how to single crochet . Every day I worked on the stitch until I finally felt ready for a project. I made my huband a blanket. A lot of mistakes but he said that the mistakes gave it character and would inspire me to do better. He was right I have learned a lot from videos like yours. Thank you so much. There is something so special about seeing your grandchild playing on top of a blanket that you have made. I plan to try and make the basket as a shower gift for my daughter. Your video's are amazing.

[@maryschuerger2999]

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[@smithakaren26]

I’m literally a beginner and I came across your video. This video truly help me move forward. I was so about to give up. Thank you. You have no idea how helpful this video gave me encouragement!!

[@alwaysamber4960]

I am just beginning to make my way through your videos. I know you have passed away now but I'm still so grateful that you chose to share your passion even though it was scary at first. Love and compassion never pass away. It just keeps on giving and growing. You were a true blessing to many and now I'm sure you are the one reaping the blessings in your fathers house

[@mindybragg576]

I worked full time my entire life. And full time mom. My kids are grown and my company is shut down due to COVID. I started Crocheting because I due not know what to with myself. Anyway I have been very discouraged. I have completed one blanket in full. I started over several times but would not give up. I’m on my second one which has had some challenges but have listened to all of your tricks. Most of all I love the fact that you said not to get discouraged and know that this happens to a lot of people. I was very close to quoting and thinking that I just could not do it. But you gave me the new confidence and encouragement that I needed so I appreciate that. So thank you very much!

[@smallfootprint2961]

Just wanted to go back and see some of the old videos. We're going to miss you, Miss Melanie. You contributed so much to our creative lives. So good to see the little ones at the end of this video. All the best to your family.

[@MRSVLS40]

I love you so much for all your help !!! I feel like I know you ,sisters in the crochet world! Keep being you 🧶 😊

[@rosemaryvalenzuela5032]

Hey I’m 13 and I’ve been crocheting an knitting for 3 years and I love it I’ve made tons of sweaters and blankets and I love to crochet and I used to have all of these problems

[@nazila2689]

Me too

[@perkngirly]

TIP: When I first started I used a hook size up for my foundation chain. Now I don’t need to but it really helped me not have a tight foundation chain.

[@marthaneudorf1899]

Good tip.

[@vincentscotto6935]

Thank you Melanie for the video on common crochet mistakes. I was getting so frustrated trying to make my granddaughter a slouchy beanie. I experienced everything you mentioned in the video and was going to give up. After hearing your pep talk I decided to give it another try. You would make an awesome motivational speaker. Thank you very much for making me believe in myself.

[@MelanieHam]

Vincent Scotto glad it resonated with you and encouraged you to keep going! You CAN do it!

[@COOLANDWEIRDEDITZ]

Melanie Ham has a very kind heart.

[@midnight0beast0lover]

I've been crocheting since I was 12. I'm 24 now and I'm just now learning to branch out from making blankets. This video helped me realize mistakes I've been making that I wasnt even aware of. Thank you. (I know it's an older video and you probably wont see this but still)

[@ICanandIWheel]

THANK YOU! I watched my Grandmother and Great Grandmother Crochet when I was little but they both passed when I was still a youngster and I never got to sit and learn from them. So, YOU are my Fill in Crochetma! I appreciate all of your tutorials and that you take your time to INSPIRE and MOTIVATE all of us to keep going and not give up! THANK YOU For your amazing personality and sharing your GIFT with US! :D

[@MelanieHam]

Jamie C WOW! Aren't you the sweetest, thank you for those kind words!!

[@tay1683]

Jamie C y

[@marierenzi8903]

Jamie C l I how do you put a Pom Pom on the hat ?

[@autgar19]

I just started crocheting and I needed to hear this!! I’m not going to give up!!!

[@SheCriesRed]

Hi Melanie, I'm also self taught in crochet. Everything I've learned was from KZbin. And your video is one of the ones I saw the first year I was learning to crochet. It was very frustrating at first trying to get the tension right and understanding patterns, and following videos was frustrating. Now 4 years later I've learned so much and videos and patterns are much easier to follow. Thank you for the tips that have helped me persevere and be at the level I'm at today. 10/21/19

[@marymanzoni6117]

Thank you so much for this video, I feel so much better now. I always seem to frog and now I will chill and go slowly until I get better. This really has helped me.

[@MelanieHam]

Common Crochet Mistakes! This video has really resonated with people and I hope you find it helpful!

[@natblabla1]

Thank you! :)

[@danieljordan2442]

This really helped me, thanks! :D

[@susanhazenfowler7698]

+Melanie Ham / I REALLY needed to watch this, right now! loosen up, chill out, and stop ripping out my stitches. I can do this. You just reinforced me. Thank-you

[@mudassirmikku7189]

Melanie Ham this video help me a lot thank you

[@vickymeldrum392]

I have an extremely hard time with tension. 😬 Im actually an experienced crocheter, I have peripheral nerve damage, and ADD. When I'm stressed out, I crochet at times to chill out. So you will see ,at times ,that my stitches will start out super tight and loosen as I go. But usually I see ,that as time goes on the loosening isn't as serious as it seems. You are absolutely right, don't take it apart ! I have done that so many times. Plus, a lot of times just going back n stretching parts to even things out at the end works. Just understanding ,that like handwriting , people have their own style. Not all projects look exactly the same , and turn out exactly the same size. The best thing you said ,was patience, patience, patience. You have explained this so well and you seem like such a caring n helpful person . Thank you for taking your time to help people to learn. I learned to crochet a chain first , and then a double crochet at age 8/9 years old watching an older lady , and she kept making me do it over n over before she d teach me more. Then we moved and I didn't see her for a long time. I am now 44 , and I picked it back up about 4 years ago and I'm telling you ,watching youtube has made my work so much better and taught me new and amazing stitches and I have more confidence . The more I work ,the more it helps my stress. Each time I make an item for the second time ,it looks better than the first. You will surprise yourself. I wanna say , thank you again, because people like you , helped me , to get back into it . Which not only helped my medical issues, but helped me be able to make nice items. Sorry this is long ,but I like to let people know that I am thankful . Be Blessed👏🏼

[@averysavannah1]

You're on point! Pause, rewind, fast forward, and re-watch if necessary! I've watched the video tutorial for my current project 4 times all the way through - the first three times before I even started. "It's crochet, not rocket science." - too perfect!

[@WheelieToasted]

You’re the Dr. Phil of crochet and I love it. I’m starting my first project tonight and I know it’ll be hard, but my dad bet me a new fountain pen that I couldn’t finish this baby blanket (big chunky yarn) within the next week and you better believe it’s gonna get done and be GOOD.

[@anasuasarkar7777]

I gave up once. Seriously and my U pin bend came through this video of yours. The receding lines on the sides gave me a serious frustration but as you told to go through the tutorials on and on and on, that pulled me out from the darkness of ignorance. The pause and stop mode cleared all confusion and today I am in a very secured zone in Crochet. Thanks a ton honey, you changed my perspective.

[@MelanieHam]

+anasua sarkar Happy Stitching!

[@sharrolposhusta6988]

Love your reminders to chill out a bit on the perfectionism end and your encouragement to stick with it!

[@sharonhiggins4858]

Melanie, I just think you are terrific. I am not a beginner crocheter. I've been knitting since I was 9 years old. I taught myself to crochet from an Annie's Attic written tutorial 30 years ago. i would have loved to learn from your videos. you are so kind and supportive and so very friendly. I feel like you are a true friend of mine. I made two of those baby blankets that you have a video tutorial on with the Baby Blanket yarn. They came out just beautiful. Also I'm working on the chevron blanket with the Blanket yarn (shown in black & white). My grandkids are calling it the zebra blanket. Thanks again for your wonderful videos and generous spirit.

[@nprice969]

You are amazing!!! I've learned how to crochet watching your videos. I love how you say if it's not perfect it's not supposed to be. They're made by hand and most of the time with love! Thank you for all you do. God bless you!!

[@MelanieHam]

Nancy Price Glad to help! Blessings!

[@kerribasnett4033]

Being a RN in critical care and emergency nursing I had the mindset that when I started crocheting 6 months ago, EVERYTHING I crocheted had to be perfect. So wish I had found these wise words! I took the enjoyment out of it but now will take your excellent advice to heart and finish my projects with my handmade quirks, beginner mistakes and hard work! Thank you for the reality check! Love your tutorials!

[@ninaann1596]

Oh my gosh, my tension is a mess, it's sooo tight, that's EXACTLY what I did

[@hannahmay9465]

I Learned to chrochet in highschool from a teacher as a free period "class" We made and donated baby blankets to a local hospital. I stopped for several years and now that I'm back to it youtube has been a god sent. Your video has really helped point out a few things to me. So glad I stumbled onto your channel!!

[@wandabigelow9692]

Sometimes I use a size larger for the foundation chain. It helps a lot.

[@jeanleyva8761]

I remember when i first watched this video. I was a beginner struggling with a pattern, looking for answers because my projects were a finished mess. Now I've got that muscle memory and tension down from lots of mistakes and lots of practice. I just shared this motivational video with my friend who wants to learn to crochet because it helped me push through the doubt and frustration.

[@MelanieHam]

+Elizabeth Adams glad it helped you!! YOU are the one who pushed pass the frustrations... lots of people have trouble with that, so well done!!

[@susankirkpatrick7117]

Wow! Now that's a pep talk.

[@darlene50vaughn]

Melanie thank you for the TALK. Don't give up, stop kicking myself in the butt, mistakes are normal, homemade should not look machine made, keep at it, YOU--I--can do it, watch my tension, relax and chill out, pause- ask for help, picking the correct project will not cause unnecessary frustration. You rock Melanie. thank you, I can do it. subscribing and join your blog.

[@jamesverhoff1899]

The "curl up at the corners" thing happened to me just last night--I was practicing a stitch, making a square with some scrap yarn, and it started curling on me. Thank you for explaining why! I'm used to working with chain maille, and sometimes patterns DO curl up in weird ways; it's good to know that that's not what's happening here!

[@milagrospayne7298]

September 2022, I still use her tutorials and help. I miss her and I am greatful for the lovely teacher and person she was! RIP, till I see you in heaven

[@debrtx]

I first learned to crochet from my grandmother when I was about 7 yrs. old. She would just have me make chains and I would want to hurry and make something. She always said "Be patient and keep practicing." Making chains with different yarns & hooks will help because it is all about tension. Practice makes perfect. Thank you so much for your encouraging words.

[@ittybittysoccs3189]

5:13 This message felt so personal lol! I keep redoing my foundation chain because the loops were all different sizes, and when she said that I felt SO much better. *Make mistakes. It helps. It does not have to be perfect, you just started. You’re doing fine. Keep going.*

[@Spookygal8209]

I'm so glad I came across this video. This has cleared up soooo many questions I've had while crocheting

[@kennedybetancourt4799]

I'm a knitter of 10+ years, and have finally gotten into crocheting. The transition between the two has been a little rough but your beanie tutorials have been the best and easiest for me to follow and learn better :) THANK YOU! I'm so happy to learn how to crochet along with being able to knit. It's such a fun skill!

[@petrahattingh8013]

Melanie!!! thank you so much!! I'm a Beginner with Crochet! thanks....I have hope for myself to do Crochet!! Good practice for my Patience! thank so much ...it helps a lot!!!

[@victoriaoneil1338]

This video was THE BEST!!! I just started getting back into crocheting and your channel has been such a crucial part of my success!!! Your videos are great and this was such a great pep talk- thank you thank you THANK YOU!!!

[@melissapryor7808]

Definitely needed this pep talk right now! Thanks for the encouragement!

[@ramonahambrick8952]

Oh my gosh I stumbled upon this video tonight just after I threw my project across the room and just decided I’m too stupid and clumsy to do this. You said EVERTHING I needed to hear. I’m afraid I’m that one that tears my work out when I don’t like how it looks. I’ve made just a few things but now I’m ready to begin again! Thank you!

[@lafemmelulu0424]

Great video for a beginner crocheter like myself so thank you for this! I am quite comfortable knitting but I am definitely having many of the same issues listed here, such as tension 😾 I didn't see it mentioned in the comments at all so I would love some advice from you or anyone who reads this - how do you stop your yarn from curling/twisting?! It's irritating as you're working along your project and it's just become super curly and wound up. I try not to hold the yarn too tightly but it just happens anyway. Does this happen to anyone else?

[@Kimwrich2830]

I needed your little pep talk about attitude. I want to learn so bad, but I think I just kept up with the self-doubt too much. I am taking your words to heart... thank you!

[@lindielee6322]

Anyone can use the icon of the sprocket to speed up or slow any any youtube video. I use it all the time on tutorials.

[@MelanieHam]

+Lindie Lee great tip!

[@Katyusha8]

+Lindie Lee Whoa, thank you, I've been watching tutorials for 10 years, and I never knew about this! wOO HOO!

[@pyotrleflegin7255]

I never knew about that until just now! You are the tops, Melanie; I'll get this right one day ;) !

[@lesleyoliver5582]

Lindie Lee I am using iPad. I'm not sure what you mean cause what I'm trying to do isn't working. Help! Please?

[@LottieSue]

I presume you have the same option with an ipad. (perhaps someone with one can chime in?) Look lower right hand corner of the videos on the bottom from Right to Left you will a square (to make video full screen), a rectangle (clicking will make it half screen, and a sprocket that will give you the options of speeding up or slowing down the video. Often there is CC too for closed caption where the words or a translation is printed on the screen.

[@tattd_snw_wht]

I am a new crocheter and I do it to help me relax. I crocheted my first project: a scarf. It isn’t perfect. Tension is definitely something that takes time to get used to. I redid it twice but eventually came to the realization that I will just finish it and keep going. Don’t quit!

[@Kimberley81]

I'm trying to figure out the right way to hold the yarn in my hand and how to use both in crocheting.. can you do a mini video on hand techniques? :)

[@naomiwilliams3343]

Kimberley I’m not sure if it is a right way to hold the yarn. I think the main thing is for you to find the way that is more comfortable for you and your crocheting. I tried so many different ways from watching videos and at the end i found the one best for me and my hand, all i always make sure to do is be careful with my tension so i won’t have stitches too tight or too lose. :-D

[@shwetaprabhu6754]

Have just started crocheting by watching videos and you are my angel. God bless you! This video is resonating with me. Thanks for your encouragement

[@corymalinoski909]

A Realist. Thank you for this video!

[@juliemc8460]

What a gorgeous lady! I was so sorry to discover her during this sad, sad time. She will continue to make a huge impact with her sweetness and just overall genuine beauty 'til the end of time. I hope her family finds comfort in this. And now my mother in law is so happy her granddaughters will finally be learning to crochet! 💗🙏

[@ColtenEllis]

I would like to see how you'd do a drawstring bag!! I've learned from some other people and they're great, but I implemented the beginning of your beanie mixed with half double crotchets and some double crotchets. It looks nice but I want to see your take on the bags if possible.

[@FRANCINE090451]

Thank you very much for your cheerful explanations concerning the tension, the edges and the mystery of crochet. Love your channel. Francine from Belgium.

[@dianecrumbley90]

Thank you! I was ripping everything out as a beginner. Finally, I’m starting a simple scarf. Crocheting is supposed to be fun. You pointed that out. Glad I found your channel!

[@siennamoore9902]

Diane Crumbley Broncos!

[@MirasaurusRex]

I'm reeeeeally struggling with trying to do the first actual stitch after finishing the chain. I've tried like 7 times off and on all day and i just cannot comprehend what anyone is doing in the videos. I definitely needed this right now.

[@giodrakes]

Damm that tension!!!! :D I like you :) Don't let us give up :) This scarf I'm crocheting is not going to be perfect, but who cares, it's pretty, and it's hand made :D And it is a new stitch that I learned, and that is something! I can totally do it! Thank you :D

[@CupcakeCottage]

Your makeup is the most perfect on KZbin. Perfect colors for your skin tone, perfect softening and blending. I should know, I was a makeup artist for 30 years. You look gorgeous! Thanks for the great video, btw.

[@houriajawad6469]

Thank you so much you’ve encouraged me more I wasn’t gonna give up and I wasnt planning to too but you just encouraged me way more❤️😘

[@salama444]

thanks bestie. i found this very useful i wish i found it earlier. i keepet treying to make squares it keept curling and so tight but the was 4 months ago.

[@b21.9]

9:17 Yeah but I've been repeating the foundation chain for like a zillion times 🤣 Anyway, thank you so so much for this video! It really gave me the motivation I needed. I'm really struggling now, but you've helped me believe in my capabilities ❤️

[@letlettingbe]

Oh my God! I felt amazing after watching your video, I'm dealing with depression for about 4 years and it's been really difficult for me to finish my projects on college, I normally get very anxious. At the beginning of this month I started crochet by my self and it's helping me to control anxiety, but sometimes those little mistakes get me frustrated, your video made me so confident about crocheting and about finishing college. You are amazing, thank you for taking your time to help people.

[@gingeramiro6470]

Thank you for being so encouraging. This was the very video I needed to keep going.

[@madisond.1719]

This was really inspirational. I started back up after not doing it for a couple years and was really frustrated with myself. But I do need to chill out with the perfectionist side. It won't be perfect and that's ok. Really glad I watched this. Thank you!

[@MrsMichellef]

Hi, I love your video this has helped me alot I have been only crocheting for 5 days. I was told I should pull out the yarn and practice again over and over. so Now I am confused.

[@MelanieHam]

Michelle Fitchett Here is what I say... You do You... Don't do me or anyone else. If you want to pull it out and start over then do that. I think that is can be very defeating doing that because you never get to see anything complete, even if it's imperfect. So I personally feel that you should purchase inexpensive yarn and make something fun with it so that is what I will recommend, but if that feels strange to you then pull it out and start over!

[@MrsMichellef]

Oh ok thankyou. I am working on a scraf for myself. That way if is imperfect it will not matter.

[@karlareyes4688]

My grandmother was a crochet machine! She was so good and I'm sad that I never took the time to really learn from her 😢 living in separate countries made it even harder. Now that she's not longer with me, I'm thinking of learning to honor her in my own humble way 😢 She made all her dresses and shirts when crochet wasn't hip with young people. Your video inspired me to give it a try once again to honor her memory. I'm 42 but I know it's never too late. Thank you from a complete beginner 🙏🏻💜

[@littlepetkingdome7492]

I learned how to crochet in 25 min.(slipknot,chain,single,double,half double) from my mother 😂 I surprised myself

[@jojosewist8921]

Yeah, now real problems begin using these to make/follow a pattern. If it is not a square or rectangle, I just dont get it, and since my mil passed noone to explain or demonstrate. I feel so stupid, and have cancelled magazine subscriptions they seem wasted on me.

[@alycewich4472]

@@jojosewist8921 I can't understand most magazines or crochet books because I'm left-handed and their very easy (to them) instructions to hold the diagrams up to a mirror to see it left-handed is just plain awkward and doesn't help much. But once I figured out that if I FACE someone and mirror what they do, I can do it. Because of this discovery I can also teach right handed people. KZbin is helpful also in explaining lots of details about stitches and tricks in getting your project looking good. So keep looking for other crochet teachers like Melanie who can give you ideas and encouragement. Don't give up. You can do this!

[@Rella0325]

I think if you have the patience into crochet projects, no matter how hard will it be, even just give up a second or moment that will take a rest, deep breath, eventually will continue to figure out by rewinding the video to find out details and move forwards. Thanks for your tips! Now I able to make more crochet projects which is challenging and all my friends praise my work and patience. Make this into a hobby, awesome!

[@tywentzell5515]

I have a huge problem with #2 it always happens when I crochet because I don't know what stitch to end on?

[@carmastreisand3277]

thank you Melanie. For a beginner who has less than a dozen pieces under my belt, none of which are "good", I appreciate you stressing how to accept the imperfections. I actually like my pieces more because of the imperfections. Thank you for sharing with your tutorials. I have seen several of these tutorials on crocheting, but YOURS are my favorite because YOU have a great way of teaching.

[@perfectlyhappykat]

Omg thank you! I was wondering why my scarves were so curly. Lol.

[@MelanieHam]

Katrina Fox haha, glad to help!

[@carlyncoleman3806]

One year ago this month i started learning to crochet. The lady that taught me different simple patterns and techniques told me first thing that the most difficult part of ANY project is starting the foundation. I practiced and practiced on so many stitches just to get used to my tension and see what i become comfortable with. And with being in lockdown twice then in quarantine after contracting Covid crocheting has helped keep me sane. One year now and i have already made 8 blankets, MANY potholders lol (my practice pieces) a table runner and now I'm making a wall hanging to place around a frame to hang in my bedroom just because I'm hoping that itll be a fun challenge. I think the best thing is knowing that each piece is unique and WE may see the flaws in something we create but most times they aren't that noticable to anyone else lol. I always try going into a project with the mindset of I'm just having fun and enjoying the challenge and even my goofups are learning experiences and i can take that knowledge into the NEXT project. :-)

[@sethlemesurier8547]

Why is this sooo moving??? So helpful!!!!!!!

[@annew1623]

i went to this video right after i found out my second sweater sleeve is a bit wider even though it has the same amount of stitches and i felt so frustrated with myself, but you really gave me a kick in the butt when you said its fine to make small mistakes, beacause its made by a human, not a machine. i feel so relieved and decided to just keep going and not rip it out again after already doing so 3 times. thank you so much! :)

[@kirstenmarr1119]

My OCD doesn't approve of your blanket😂

[@ramongmac]

I just give it away if the mistakes are bothering me lol , most people don't see what artists see

[@epicwriter96]

I'm not a beginner, I'm probably more an intermediate-ish crocheter, but when I saw this, it kind of told me to kick myself in the butt for giving up on projects too quickly. Thank you for posting this video! I am now subscribed and I can't wait to see what else you've got. Have a beautiful day!

[@johnnacook6406]

You are so inspiring. I am currently an assistant manager for Joann Fabric's in IL. The company has closed all of the IL stores for the pandemic going on right now. I bought some yarn and hooks to self teach myself how to crochet while I am off work, but I seem to be in a funk due to not being around all my awesome customers. I love watching your videos - you taught me how to sew and I will always be grateful. I hope that I will be able to continue to learn more crocheting and sewing but I don't know if $$ will allow it. I will be starting my washcloth today. THANK YOU MELANIE!!! YOU ARE THE BEST!!!!!

[@deeporter6187]

Thank you so much for this video! I tend to be a perfectionist with my projects and get a little irritated when I find minor mistakes, and it was very inspirational to hear you say that those small errors are a part of what makes the project unique and special, handmade with love :) Love your tutorials!

[@maximax8516]

I have been crocheting for years, of and on. This is a good reminder for all of us. I like your demonstration of the magic ring. Many others seem so complicated. I am learning to knit after years of trying and giving up but I will take your advice on that as well.Thanks for all of the tips

[@Shadowstar79]

i stumbled on this video a bit late, but I HAD to comment.. the wash cloth example, about ending up with less stiches then you began with brings back memories! 😋 I started crocheting years ago, but i still have my first real project. after making a chain for the first time, i picked up 2 skeins of very bulky yarn and a 8 mm hook. i started with a chain of 25 and just crocheted away with single crochet stiches. I really tried to remember to ALWAYS chain one at the end of each row, but two weeks and hours every evening later, i ended up with a 2 yard scarf that had: 25 stiches at the beginning, about a quarter through it had 23 stitches , after 3 quarters it had 21, and finished it had 20! I still have that scarf. I wear it with pride and nostalgia. and even though i make a scarf now in 10% of time that first one took me, with nice patterns and stuff, and the right stitch count,😂, this first scarf will be my favourite for ever!

[@sophiehsiah5508]

Thank you for being so inspiring. Yes, patience, not being a perfectionist and always counting stitches are traits to cultivate in doing projects. I've learnt through mistakes and learnt by watching and listening to people like you. Thank you.

[@lorigraf3544]

I love how you teach. I cannot even tell you how many times I have stopped and had to rewind to get what you are doing but I do figure it out. I'm working on the beginning scarf right now and I have finally figured it out. Lots of ripping it out and starting over. So much so that I stopped ripping it out and just cut it off and started over. Thank you for your videos! They are super helpful!

[@dianeryan3147]

I love your sincerity, love for your fellow person, and how real you are. I am a retired RN and never had time to crochet so thank you for all your tips, keep it up as I am learning so much

[@KayleeEgerWOA]

Hi Melanie! I have just completed PA school and I have decided that I want to crochet on my time off from my job! Five or so years ago I crocheted a blanket with the first stitch to learn, It turned out ok for my first project. Anyway, I forget everything! I found your videos and you have made me so excited to start my journey with crocheting again. You are a super sweet gal and and genuinely pretty! Im planning on crocheting a baby blanket for my soon to be niece. Ill be sure to keep you posted on my progress. I just really wanted to say thanks in advance and that I am so grateful for have finding your videos! Kaylee

[@darlenedurling3217]

Thank you, Melanie! Your discussion addressed right where I am at in my beginning stage. You have answered soooo many of my questions and eased my fears. Thanks, you rock!!!

[@FeelingVeryLucky]

This is some solid advice! I just picked crocheting back up again as something fun to do, and this video is wonderful advice for someone that's literally picking up yarn and hook for the first time. I too learned to just leave mistakes alone and try to have fun; you'll fall into a flow and learn things as you go. I also saw some comments advising against making your very first project for someone else; yes, it's definitely better to learn on something that you're only making for yourself. It's a lot less pressure, and you'll be a lot more forgiving towards your mistakes. I want to make a scarf for my friend, but I want to gain more experience, too.

[@infinitejusticeone]

I so enjoyed this video! As I was watching it, I was working on the ninth row of a shell afghan which is lovely but when I got to about the seventh row I realized the sides are not straight but go in and out. I decided to not rip it all out but to go on because it is lovely and I have not crocheted in 35 years. So I will hope that whoever gets this lovely afghan will excuse those slight imperfections. I was SO happy when I heard you say in this video to go on even when the project is imperfect. You are so encouraging, it is refreshing!

[@soniczforever5470]

I remember being envious of the older ladies but they were great to help me keep trying new stitches and introduced me to the corner to corner. Thanks for the tension suggestion I have very small foundation chains

[@sarinirangedera7476]

these are great tips! thankyou 😊 i really needed this video thankyou for giving the support and encouragement, especially the perfectionism points bless you ❤❤❤

[@cindycrewsbeach72]

I’m so glad her family left her channel up after her passing. I still can’t believe she is gone. I still go to all her videos when I need advice or to improve my tension and mistakes in projects. Nothing I make ever comes out perfect, but she was as close to perfectly wonderful as anyone could be. I tear up every time I watch an old video. She was an angel in life, for sure.

[@drgnlrd1213]

This is the BEST video I have ever seen for crochet! So much truth! I self taught myself how to crochet a scarf. The first one was sooooo bad but I stuck with it. Now I can change colors, and I am finishing a chevron blanket. Was looking to do some beanies and found your video which led me to your site and found this video and I LOVE it. So for everyone out there you can do it just stick with it. I'm a middle age man that decided I wanted something to do while sitting around in the evening. You can teach old dogs new tricks. Thanks for making this and look forward to learning some new things from your videos.

[@MelanieHam]

drgnlrd1213 Thank you for those kind words! It's so true.. you've got to just stick with it!

[@deemcintyre3518]

Wow, your first two examples are what I experienced yesterday. It was so bad I unraveled 2 days of work. I used to crochet with my grandmother and just picked up the hook again after 33+ years. I got excited but I see I have a lot to learn. I love your videos and tutorials. Thank you much for all your hard work!!

[@wmisenhi]

What an uplifting message and yes tension is a beast to master

[@judyadelizzi9307]

You are so sweet You said it all I did all the things you’ve said. I learned to crochet at 22nyears old. Now 65 and I’m always crocheting something. My family has gotten hats scarves afghans etc from me. I’m running out of ideas now I’m working on pillows. Lol. Thank you so much for your incentive and support to all! God bless

[@cazmaccm]

I did these exact things and gave up so this video helps as I know its a common problem and it's not just me! I'm starting again with fresh eyes! Thanks Melanie. x

[@MelanieHam]

Caroline Macdonald Awe I'm so glad! Happy Stitching!