Communication Professor's Reaction to Ashton Kutcher's Speech for Teen Choice Award

[@alexanderlyon]

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[@hindugoat2302]

theres no way this guy is straight... he has communicated that fact very clearly

[@marywinterstein4630]

Why?

[@sarahdee374]

wow, I'm 68 and have tears. Total respect for this man.

[@leighatkins22]

He truly believed in what he was saying which is why it felt so authentic and powerful.

[@geemcgraff8281]

@Seven Inches of Throbbing Pink Jesus exactly the deceivers

[@studiobencivengamarcusbenc5272]

An actor authentic 😂? A pro hypocrite ? So funny

[@j3ffn4v4rr0]

The framework of this speech is a perfect example of something I was taught long ago about speaking: "Tell them what you're going to tell them, tell them, then tell them what you just told them." It really keeps people's anticipation and engagement, and he did it wonderfully here...including (or especially!) that left hook of "sexy=smart". This was a really great speech, and I remember enjoying it years ago...thanks for the great breakdown!!

[@missyb.623]

Excellent

[@TheMothernerd]

Let's all take a moment and be thankful that Ashton Kutcher became an actor and not a cult leader.

[@yvonnewright9444]

His speech was very good, he stayed on the young people level so they could understand what he said. I am 65 years old and he capture my attention, I agree with you that he rehearse a lot so that he would not forget and make mistakes,and he kept their focus on what he was saying to them.

[@rxplsb3]

Please see comment from my wife, Stephanie, above. We all keep learning!

[@kelly851]

His speech was smart, kind and generous. This was profound and genuine. We need more honesty like this in our world. Thank you Chris for giving the kids a dose of reality! Hopefully they go and build a beautiful world! 💕🙏😃

[@vickifreeman2650]

No wonder this went viral❤️ All famous people could use their fame for the mentoring young people. You’re amazing Chris Keep it up!

[@deborahnelson7907]

The speech was targeted to his audience and a recognition of their needs. It was encouragement and direction without sounding "preachy." Powerful stuff for a young group. He's someone who has used his celebrity for good.

[@tamgsmith8077]

A little preachy

[@chrishastings8888]

@@tamgsmith8077 only part I found to be a little preachy is when he said he always found another job before leaving the current one. If a job becomes toxic, just resign, you’ll be okay. Lotta pple don’t quit out of fear n stay stuck. Other than that, A+ for honesty, vulnerability, truth and knowing his audience.

[@chrishastings8888]

You know, he funded a private program that tracks down human traffickers, and has the government use it. It helped catch more than our own FBI, Border control, CIA, etc.. , bc our govt doesn’t really give AF. He’s a good human, bc his name is Chris.

[@HumbertoGomez-Guillen]

@@chrishastings8888 Sometimes the weaker point has to yield to the greater point.

[@ramu99ful]

I think what made Ashton’s speech powerful was his message came from the heart. His commitment to send this strong message was so heartfelt. I think he wanted to make sure to inspire the young people in the audience to be the best they can be.

[@ShiverHinge]

You were just as passionate and organized as Chris was. Nice work Prof.

[@debrabedoya]

This was genuine & powerful. My fav by Ashton is when he was speaking to Congress about the software he has developed and still improving to protect all of our children. Go Ashton! Parenthood can bring growth & immense responsibility.

[@holdontojesus7097]

Amen!! Agreed.

[@pamhyland5904]

Major props to Ashton Kutcher, "Chris" for this speech...Very relevant for the audience and also his motto for life..Don't quit a job until you have another one...Truth and Wisdom

[@dkinney1000]

The strongest we can be is to show others how to give. Love it.

[@canyoncolor]

Your channel is a wonderful new find this morning!

[@julielens2509]

Words are powerful, more than we think. He wanted to make this speech because he knows young people are being tricked, about Hollywood, about appearance (fashion, makeup, etc), about jobs, about creating and shaping the world around us. He didn’t want to be too explicit so he spoke in general. He obviously practiced a lot with the speech, and I think he used the most powerful tool in communication..being emotionally attached to the words you say. Feeling them inside, feeling each word, building up an energy so powerful. That energy he created is attached to the words he’s saying, the words goes into the mind of people but the energy goes into their bodies. This tool makes people feel whatever you want, they can even cry if you want them to. English is an explicit language so you have to build it up quickly, Romance languages like mine allow you to build it up more slowly and shape it perfectly. This is the magic of writing, leaving your emotions there so the reader can get those emotions and carry them inside..

[@aesir0784]

I'm sorry, what? What did you say?

[@cristineconnell7803]

He is correct, real sexy is smart, kind & generous!

[@kerryanne]

Great speech, I am a big fan of Ashton Kutcher. He is a great business person and a good human. Inspiring!!

[@LanaLoveOfficial]

This was an AWESOME speech!!! Thanks for sharing it. It's the first I've seen of it, and I learned so much watching it and your commentary. Thank you!

[@mamapajama3453]

He is a role model, hopefully these kids Heard what he was saying to them .

[@holdontojesus7097]

He’s done great things with his celebrity. As another mentioned, speaking to Congress about what he’s done to help those trapped in sex trafficking. So important.

[@paralumanbarcelona1432]

Superb Speech in 3 minutes to relate, to get the attention from the audience, to share his experience, to give values that is needed for this generations and to have a big change to all listeners for the better. It’s a big help if you really know the real meaning of every word he said and put it in your heart, mind and put it into action and works for it. He’s a good public speaker like Denzel Washington.

[@jennief7114]

As a parent of 26 year old twins I cried when I watched this speech. I had raised my boys having to work starting young. And taught them no job was beneath them. So many parents put me down and said I was expecting too much. Thankfully I did not listen and both are very successful now personally and career.

[@janiesanchez1630]

Very wise, great message to the young kids. I hope they are listening to him..❤ God bless him and the kids🙏

[@judymartin5327]

This young man was dynamic, so much wisdom beyond his years. So glad there are young men with there head out of the clouds.

[@cindymcdaniels1736]

He reached the hearts and minds of those people. I think maybe at least half if not 3/4 of them try building their own world. Thanks Chris for the awesome speech.

[@xiaogeju2011]

I´ve just sent the link to my teenager niece in Serbia. She speaks English very well, and I think we all can learn a lot of you.

[@deedeedixon712]

Great job Chris 😄😄😄

[@gordonduff22]

I am enjoying your channel, coach Alex. I have watched several of your videos now. It's amazing to see how you can zero in on everything good speakers do and say, and present all these strategies to your own audience so concisely, so clearly, and so engagingly! It's impressive. I had a hard time believing that Ashton Kutcher, being the person I think he is, would have practised this speech so many times, but you convinced me with your reaction that he may well have. It's obvious that he would have had those three points: opportunity, staying sexy, and living your life, planned out beforehand. I am learning a lot. Thanks for sharing your communication knowledge and all your insights. GD

[@alexanderlyon]

Thanks Gordon. I appreciate your detailed post. I’m glad to see now that he does have some skills! I was surprised but very impressed by him.

[@heathercole6750]

Well said

[@ham8100]

Stumbled upon this site, and I absolutely love your analysis. Good teaching points, I deal with people and am really inspired by this channel. Thank you!

[@beep_boop_bop3646]

This is a speech my kids will hear regularly. Just so wonderfully said and so powerful❤️

[@ConTheDon187]

All the rich parents in the audience just laughing in their heads, "my kids will never work a day in their life bahahaha"

[@larsvongraff5794]

i really enjoy listening to your content. Always something to learn. Putting much of these lessons into practice.

[@marjorietheobald7497]

This the 2nd video of Mr. Kutcher that I have happened across on you tube that impressed me & again told me that he has greatly matured. Good speech.

[@lovemusic1963ify]

That was a very thoughful speech. Kudos to Ashton (Chris) for taking this opportunity that was for him and giving back to his young fans.

[@JonathonConnorOfficial]

I normally don't care for Kutcher but I might say that this is actually a pretty good speech. Thanks for your review on it

[@BecomeConsciousNow]

That was really good! A very profound, well thought out and passionately delivered speech.

[@alexanderlyon]

Agreed. It was surprisingly good!

[@amnahusain3020]

I consistently use this speech as an example in my public speaking class. Love it and your analysis always. I also show your clips when prepping my students for speeches. Thank you!

[@alexanderlyon]

Thanks for sharing, Amna. I'm glad the videos are helpful.

[@OBSZIDIAN548]

Excellent...he instantly redefines sexy at an extremely influential period in his audiences life. He relates and humbles himself to have the audience see him as an everyday human. His emphasis on opportunity being hardwork on your part and not something randomly extended or offered to you is pivotal to early success in anything you desire. Even what he chose to wear made him approachable and subdued...he wanted to speak out as Chris and step out of the lime light for this. Awesome

[@ramsurat-maurya]

i admire the way you deal with the whole problem. you bring the point home.

[@heathercole6750]

Thank you for sharing this speech. Very powerful! I shared it with my daughters. Great channel - looking forward to more insights, love your work 👍

[@alexanderlyon]

Thanks for sharing it with your daughters, Heather. His speech is a great one for younger people. I appreciate your encouragement, too.

[@differencemaker242]

Idk if his message was wasted on this audience. I hope he got through to at least a few. It was a good and thoughtful speech.

[@thedogrunner]

Ambiguous wisdom feels a lot like veiled deception. The power of likability.

[@heidivernathorbjornsen475]

It’s actually wise to practice a speech -to try & be as concise & articulate as you can be while speaking to a specific audience. It doesn’t mean the speech was not authentic or sincere.

[@samuelbonaccorso9969]

To everyone that doesn't know this. Ashton (chris) is one of the best types of people that this world has to offer. Don't believe me? KZbin the video of him pleading to the courts to fund a program that saves hundreds and hundreds of children being trafficked for sex. This man alone along with his team have saved the lived of so many children and the things he had to witness first hand in the name of helping children is horrific and I know it haunts him so badly, yet he still... keeps... Going.. He's a great man.

[@MasTArrrRR]

Do you have the link to the speech you are referring to? You're post is solid. I agree. He's amazing and a truly self-made character perfecting individuals I have seen in a long time. In today's society this us rare! 🥰

[@jimreilly917]

The news media portrays CBP officers as the enemy of innocent people seeking a better life. COMPLETELY IGNORING drugs, mules, traffickers, rape gangs actual rape trees and all kinds of other pure evil that drugs syndicates work upon children for profit, power and perversion.

[@trixielane6885]

I wish there was someone like him that effectively did this against abortion murders!

[@paulaharrisbaca4851]

Why was it that in some college game they chanted "take a shower" about him? I'm pretty sure it was him they were chanting that about?

[@pointless5ive]

I'm sure he was child hunting for Epstein and Weinstien. All these celebs are pedophiles.

[@pattijesinoski1958]

Ashton speech here was based on speech Steve Jobs gave while alive. This speech was given after his studying and active roll in playing Steve Jobs in the movie. NOT ASTON'S words. Yes, Gates always evades the true questions.

[@Catch-qn3xh]

Uh huh. All that was shared with us in this video.

[@matthewhorizon6050]

This dude has a history of acting like a goofball,but he supposedly has a 150-160IQ, which is far beyond genius level, if there is valudity to this claim. And nowhere have i ever seen this debunked with a reliable source. The guy has a lot of things working for him which all garner success. In short, I've never seen this guy do anything poorly.

[@susanrhodes5681]

Thank you Patti, not a big Jobs fan but it is important to give credit where due, always. I now remember that part in the movie. To bad the channel presenter didn't catch that.

[@susanrhodes5681]

@@matthewhorizon6050 Stealing someone's speech doesn't mean he isn't smart. Go watch the movie - I remember it as well. Lots of smart people can be fun and funny. Being one, does not automatically mean that you can't be funny as well.

[@susanrhodes5681]

I spent two minutes found the actual speech on the Silicon Valley Historical Society channel made by Jobs in an interview in 1994 connected by Santa Clara Valley Historical Association.

[@marianaandrews6274]

I've never heard this speech before but how awesome is he!!? Wow! Clever guy. I love your commentary.

[@sabinarojas9280]

Thank you so much for this videos and analysis! you add so much value to this world!. Cheers from Chile!

[@reichmuth100]

Preach it, Chris. Kutcher has always been down to earth and never let Hollywood change him. and that of course is a good thing. 😉

[@petems3283]

It's useful. Ashton is speaking to a young audience. My students are also young with short attention spans. He ticks all the boxes of an Informative speech. Thanks.

[@alexanderlyon]

It really is a classic informative speech design.

[@juliemuller4089]

I’ve taught many students how to give an informative speech.

[@janelleetsitty36]

This is what I try to convey to my 20 something son's, not as eloquently as this, but to all young people, my niece, nephew, my both my sons girlfriends... I want them to thrive in their young lives, to educate themselves. I wish I had this type of content when I was in my 20's. It is easy to get blindsided.... Great speech.

[@djw8591]

First time viewer. Subscribed. I liked this content because it was positive and uplifting. More please. 🙏

[@georgeboston8599]

really surprised me quite a man proud of him as he is humble

[@caroleann_2142]

Hes truly a Humanitarian, that's what he conveys to me. I realize hes older now about 43 44, but he certainly means what he says. I'm 20 yrs older..with a young soul. Hes 20 yrs younger, but with an Old soul.

[@lisafazzolari8554]

WOW! That was incredibly powerful! Yes, lol it was well prepared. Awesome 👌

[@vastbetrayal6607]

Dude, I think you are a genius, your analysis of the Gates demon was amazing as was your analysis of this speach

[@l.a.archer2695]

This is awesome! Ashton really does something that we love but rarely see! He gave us true keys to the kingdom! Real examples not just general blanket statements of advice!😉

[@djaniaofficial]

He probably put in hours rehearsing like you said and the result was him going viral/crushing it. Putting in time pays off!

[@alexanderlyon]

Agreed. He worked on this really hard behind the scenes.

[@RemnantSole]

I would have to say it was super fast, 15 minutes. He was honest, and you don’t have to rehearse to show your true self.

[@susanrhodes5681]

I'm sure he rehearsed this well for the scene in the movie on Steve Jobs where this actually originated.

[@kathconstance4684]

I'm sharing this and the Will Smith reaction with my son - Both videos have a resonate moment when you break them down, a spine tingling moment where you emphasis what has happened. Thank you.

[@geemcgraff8281]

A great con artiest know how to read people better than anyone because that is how they make their money.

[@ClaireOSullivanAuthor]

I thought he did quite well. He looked around the room, made eye contact with his audience, the message was not disjointed, just with his body language - this engages the audience. His pitch varied, his intonation was great. I think there were a few distractions with the uh's etc but when you have a group of people yelling intermittently I can see how dodging that would be difficult. You're 100% right: he crushed it. I watched him in a congressional hearing on child trafficking. He has 2 daughters I believe, and he was not acting - he began crying - imaging if his kids were kidnapped and trafficked. Powerful speech by him.

[@shirtjuggler]

I normally don't sub until I watch at least 3 videos but I'm two in and this guy gets it!

[@therainbownugget4007]

I love Ashton. He has done so much work to help end human trafficking

[@robertduncan4077]

he is an actor thats what this was

[@redeemed3856]

I appreciate your work! I seen this clip years ago. Loved this speech. Made me like him even more. 🖤🔥

[@eleanorshayeva3747]

He is AMAZING! Love him dearly!!!!

[@ceegators924]

You're awesome dude thanks for your breakdowns!

[@Hannah-jk3dk]

I love the analyst because he is showing the body language and showing he loves the discussion.

[@kristineanderson6167]

And he did it WITHOUT bringing politics or wokeism into it. Incredible. I’d hope he’d deliver the exact same message TODAY.

[@Mo-xx9gg]

You brought the politics and wokeism by mentioning it!

[@caroleann_2142]

This was before it

[@geemcgraff8281]

@@Mo-xx9gg exactly

[@Mo-xx9gg]

@@caroleann_2142 The syntax makes NO sense!

[@jamesbernards8409]

Bringing Woke-craft into a speech is a cop out. It unnaturally elicits emotions with the overconfident assumption that it doesn't have to justify it's doing so and moves on to the conclusion faster than Logan Paul can sell bad examples and merch to minors. Tl;dr - speech craft and story craft = the necessary nutrition for communication Wokecraft = the unhealthy junk food of conversation.

[@DavidAngway]

Thank you so much for breaking it down. I appreciate you.

[@alexanderlyon]

You are so welcome, David.

[@hew195050]

Unfortunately I doubt anyone in the crowd processed the speech or remembered it. I bet they were either flipping out that they were viewing him live or recording it thru their $1000 Iphones. They people who already know this are the ones who heard it. I recall seeing the Beatles in Boston. We all spent so much energy screaming no one knew what they were singing. Ah youth, tis wasted on the young.

[@leighatkins22]

No... youth is needed by the young to SURVIVE their youth!!! Especially today...

[@tootstoyou1]

Both these comments are true 💁‍♀️

[@lindabuck2777]

Exactly why I never went to ANY Jackson’s concert, BEATLES, and a few others. I’ve NEVER understood coz I’m not a FANATIC, I enjoy, I watch listen and love, they’re not gods just musicians and entertainers who decided ‘Think I’ll share my talent with the world’ just like ANYBODY else in ‘nowheresville’ who wants ‘out’ of where they are, or knows what they want. Gee sorry look at me go on when you agree lmao 😜 there is NOTHING like LIVE anything and the experience on all levels, not if I can’t hear it🤔

[@andresdubon2608]

Thats exactly how I view my studies. I study physics and sometimes it gets complicated, but to break it down to "something someone did some years ago should definitely not be impossible for me." Really helps.

[@nylyessuh3056]

Great speech, there are still some people in the audience who inappropriately scream as if at a concert, that valuable information he was kind enough to share was wasted on them, I hope the rest of the audience gained some valuable insights.

[@ruththomas6361]

I know the audience was young, but one would have hoped they were all over six years old. Screaming is something preschoolers do when playing. I cannot fathom that behavior in young adults. Can you imagine trying to hear what he said and standing next to even one of those screamers? Horrible. As you said, we can only hope those who were able to hear him were able to be enriched by his words.

[@caroleann_2142]

They're kids..Remember The Beatles??

[@nylyessuh3056]

@@caroleann_2142 This is a speech not a rock concert.

[@caroleann_2142]

@@nylyessuh3056 They are kids MORAN! I know very well it was a speech, he was making kid awards, Its obvious you dont understand what kids do. The message is what he conveyed to them, they listened, understood & applauded him!

[@Mo-xx9gg]

Where was the value? I heard a few aphorisms and epigrams! He is playing to an admiring audience with an out of tune instrument!

[@lindajayneclark767]

Great speech. Loved the wrapup to build your own life

[@anns5569]

You do know this was Aston giving a scene from his role when he played Steve Jobs.

[@susanrhodes5681]

Apparently no one does but yourself, Pam (another poster) and myself, meanwhile, others are saying the most interesting comments about how spontaneous it is, etc. LMAO

[@alinasquires3208]

Favorite quote “I believe that opportunity looks a lot like hard work!!!” Nailed it... great speech and he did a great job connecting with the audience... good break down...

[@blebull]

Edison said that. Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.

[@hildea.e3319]

Just great, and again, Powerful!!

[@sheilanewsome2683]

He's really smart and genuine person

[@UniqueContentSAl]

Impressive how he made the crowd think the speech is about them, rather than just him and how he used examples from his life and apply it to them. Secondly he made an attempt to be inclusive rather than exclusive, making every person there feel valued and able to succeed.

[@kimberleykooijman5848]

Awesome ❤ both the speech and your commentary on it 🙏

[@katherinekemick3666]

This is a great speech, leaves the audience of young people with at least one point to relate to and act upon for their own lives. His style is directly from the first lesson in Toastmasters Speaker training: tell them what you are going to tell them, tell them, and remind them what you told them. His anecdotes are warm and personable and effective again to the genre. He also defined his three points with three more words, which enhances the key notes of his speech. Thanks.

[@JustNath2024]

Brilliant💝🙏🏼💝I love this 💎💫👌 the way he delivers as well as the content of his message ☀️💪

[@garydavid2197]

He is an actor and acting...

[@7mikepd]

Showing the teenagers that they have “agency”. I rarely hear this word used like this. It was almost refreshing.

[@Mo-xx9gg]

Why "almost"? Is this for emphasis? Or are you angry with your father?

[@cherylrobbins715]

Thanks for sharing this one!

[@applegal3058]

Every job you do in this life, make sure you do your best. It doesn't matter what it is. Every person has a job to do, and it all helps a business run and helps others do their jobs. So, someone who collects garbage makes our world cleaner and safer, someone who cleans offices makes it safe and usable for office staff, someone who works in a grocery store helps people find food and get food, etc. Also, doing your job well and being kind to others makes you look good to others and improves you chances of finding other work. Ashton had it right in this speech.

[@winterlite3243]

Thank you Sir Alex!! I have just subscribed to your channel! Love the content so far. Especially appreciate your expertise and your positivity- Keep up the good work 😎✨🙏🏼💯👍🏽

[@johnpayne7873]

Great breakdown The message I heard was of gratitude … And how gratitude is that firm foundation for ambition. Gratitude for who you are because that is the starting point of who you can become.

[@djaniaofficial]

Can you do a video on how to have difficult conversations with people?

[@lukefarmer5391]

Who knew? I’m impressed. Thanks,

[@javierarevalo6812]

That was a superb motivational speech, well tailored to the audience.

[@vincentperiolat4610]

I really like (meaning I find it valuable) what you're doing here. Well done (meaning I enjoy the way you're doing it)! Respect (meaning respect). 🙉🙈🙊

[@lees9410]

This is a good and wise guy, Chris Ashton Kutcher

[@ChristinaDeMusee]

incredible analysis of verbal and body language ! very helpful in the age of obfuscation and hidden messages.

[@CookieMangler]

I really like your videos. Thanks for the content.

[@tez1978]

This video was brought up on the Chris Evens breakfast radio show in the UK this week. That’s what brought me here.

[@ladytess23]

Brilliant speech and excellent reaction.

[@susanmurray7654]

I agree you're never better than your job. So the best you can at everything you do.

[@Evi.e.v.i.]

Most valuable quote for his audience here is, that being 'sexy' really means being smart, being thoughtful and being generous. Following to that, he puts his audience on the same level as the most powerful people in the world. Every parent should take this magnificent speech into account whilst raising their children. I know I will, without any doubt.

[@isabelgaby4741]

Great speech!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@ketinq8]

Ashton Kutcher is a very wise man.