Conservative Dad Who Kicked Me Out 5Yrs Ago For Marrying Young, Is Now Marrying A Stripp3r

[@jacobgomos2418]

I can relate to OP. My old man decided to break the family apart by cheating with a babysitter because he felt that since my mom was no longer interested in satisfying his desires that his own desires were more important than his marriage. And considering that he was a manipulative narcissist who felt that he wasn’t responsible for his decision to cheat but instead blamed his own wife and children for it even though he was barely a father and was very abusive. So I can understand OP’s decision to remove his father from his life because someone who is so willing to throw away a perfectly good family in favor of their own desires quite frankly don’t deserve them.

[@Lily_of_the_Forest]

I’m sorry. Both of our fathers were the same. We never accepted his affair family. That really bothered his narcissistic ego and he’d make us miserable but we never gave in.

[@bobbywamsley4828]

Feels like me and my mother, still no contact after five years roughly. Good on em to cut the bad bits of family out

[@lynnechapman6204]

It's disgusting how the father let his gf get between him and his children.

[@AL-bv7jt]

Umm no, the gf didn’t get between him and his kids. He decided to cheat. He decided to divorce his wife. He was a bad father. The only reason he wants his kids around is because he’s probably told her what a great dad he is and she wants to have a relationship with them. If it wasn’t for the gf, he wouldn’t have ever reached out to OP. The father did all this himself.

[@Lily_of_the_Forest]

Sadly that is very common. Many men love orgasms more than their own children. Heartbreaking!

[@lharchmage6908]

If mom owns half the business hire sn accountant to do a complete audit then nail him for embezzlement.

[@irismariaadams7630]

If OP is of age and already married, why is he concerned about custody of himself? Hes considered to ne emancipated. When my kids's father and I got divorced, our daughter's custody was not even considered bc she was 19 and a mother of one. We only needed to establish custody and child sipport for our son bc he was 15.

[@TehAnshiTunes]

This also confused me. Like... where does OPs wife stand on all this? Its like she disappeared mid story.

[@lestatsgames7426]

When I ran away at 15 so Id live long enough to graduate high school, I didn’t see my father for 8 years. I wish my dad had something like giving his best years to me. If he had used that kind of excuse on the adult me back then, I would have jumped on it and press him for exact details. I would have wanted to know the exact years, name each one and tell me exactly what he’d done for me in ANY of those years. I was filled with anger for him and it was tough to overcome. With help, I rid myself of that toxicity and the anger was gone. But it was done through my wife and professional help.

[@karinasamaniego8765]

Dad sounds like the classic narcissist. Everything is about him, nobody else's feelings matter and he gaslights and proclaims himself to be the victim. He only cares about himself and his needs.

[@hvymax]

Sounds like Dad is trying to enjoy what life he has left after loosing the misery

[@jackiehenry3372]

Congratulations on surviving and accomplishments during your struggles. There are no amends, you can't trust him. You might want to try and buils a relationship with your mom. Try counseling for yourself.

[@kentjensen4939]

It would be hilarious to drive the stripper away and then slam and lock the door on that failure of a father.

[@dianapickett1690]

Love seeing LoeWhaley supporting Mr Reddit. It’s cool to be kind Tee

[@thomasbarca9297]

This feels like me and my father, but it’s gotten better in the last few years

[@darcress8641]

Get the judge to order him to use her maiden name. By not using it, he is harassing her.

[@DarkWolf22K]

What a great thing to wake up to~ You ❤ I rolled over my phone and clicked the notification and the video started playing and I woke up 🤣

[@Rolletti21]

OP/Mom👍 -- Dad: live with your stupid choices you suck 🤡🤣

[@tartlynerdy]

Who cares what happens to op's father. Those two idiots were made for each other. I'm happy for op's mom taking the first step to taking back her life by going back to her maiden name.

[@TehAnshiTunes]

I dated a guy like OPs father. Worst 8 yrs of my life.

[@COPPERHEAD-nl8oi]

What is that high pitched ticking sound throughout most of the whole video?? I paused so many times, trying to see if it was from the video or not, and it definitely is. It gave me anxiety and I couldn't really concentrate on the story...which is sad because I watch this channel multiple times a day 😭

[@SCP01986]

I can't hear what you describe. Are you a younger person by any chance? You may be able to hear something higher pitched than I can 🤔

[@karinasamaniego8765]

What sound are you talking about???

[@COPPERHEAD-nl8oi]

I'm guessing it's part of the music? It's faint, but that just makes it sound more like a machine/car or something malfunctioning. I'm 31, but high pitched sounds always get to me. I'm still waiting for the superpower to not hear them😂

[@lavernalashawn1098]

Oh the Joy's of being older. We don't hear these high pitched sounds😂

[@COPPERHEAD-nl8oi]

@@lavernalashawn1098 I'm 31 and still hear it 😭....but I'm thankful he changed the background music since this video!

[@dianacandelaria1925]

A lot of people would say that what happens to the parents has nothing to do with the kids but kids rely on the TRUST they learn from their parents. Sir ruined his family to get his dick wet and expected to be let back in. He literally fucked around and found out.

[@tartlynerdy]

Ah. The "get over it. It was between your parents and had nothing to do with you" bullsh*t. I'm betting those people were those kids that picked on other kids being raised by single parents, picked on orphans and harass people for not having an obvious physical disability. (🙄) You pretty much nailed it though. If kids can't look up to their parents as the frame of reference to a healthy relationship they're to be f*cked up going into the world.

[@Lily_of_the_Forest]

Exactly! Yes! the parents’ relationships have everything to do with the kids, grandchildren, etc. because they will suffer due to those relationships!

[@Lily_of_the_Forest]

I wish people would stop accepting and enabling adultery. Hold people accountable!

[@dorothylloyd1804]

Hello again!!

[@vesla266]

Dad has reached what we in Norway is called panic age( don't know the english name for it). All the sudden he realises he is starting to get a well grown (old) man, and gets a wife who is at the same age as his children. Still don't understand why his children find it awkward. I wish OP and his sister with their family a happy and energetic life ❤️☺️🤗👏👏

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

Your Mom doing great job. Her children.😋😍👍😏🤭

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

You did the right thing and great job 🙃🤭😏👏🥰😍😋😀👍

[@gerrimilner9448]

player got played hilarious

[@Odd_Interaction]

S1: Imho, cheaters are among the absolute worse scum on or off the planet. All cheaters do is use perfectly good air that someone else can breath.

[@Lily_of_the_Forest]

Right! Cheaters are evil!

[@Danarchy3]

My dad didn’t kick me out, because he left my mom before I was a year old. However he did tell me I was ruining my life because I got married in my 20s. He wanted me to be my own man, go out and live life on my own for a while etc. he got married to my mom in his 20s and since he is selfish and narcissistic he figured that was the way I should be. Told me I was making a biiigg mistake by marrying and I’d regret it. Meanwhile he and my step mom were more like roommates than husband and wife. Fast forward 15 years my wife and I are happy with our own kids, my father sadly passed away years ago and my step mom skipped town, wanting nothing more to do with us or even her bio kids & grandkids… The trick isn’t to not marry young, it’s to find the right person to marry

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

They just got what they deserve

[@hvymax]

At least Dad wasn't legally attached to the Exercise Mat. Maybe he can find an even younger lower mileage model.

[@sandhermit3665]

Mom should have felt like dad wasn't good enough

[@deborahpaxton2574]

This one story had so many twists and turns I could hardly keep up but I know how divorce goes and it does affect the kids a lot, so you have to keep your feelings in check as far as your reason, your voice, and saying bad words, or saying bad things, especially if they’re young and then when you feel more comfortable talking about it, think I don’t know that it has nothing to do with what they did is that it’s just that we cannot live together anymore and be happy but we love them. Both are all just the same

[@sdrocky123]

This story was all over the place. Did OP live at home or did he get married and move to another state? When did the smoking incident happen? Was Dad with mistress at the end or did she leave him?

[@NakaidaBeauzec]

So the mother was a doormat and wnabled the abuse

[@roguetalowen]

Living with a gaslighting narcissist isn't a picnic and doesn't make anyone a 'doormat'. They make their victims feel powerless and useless as though they can't do anything for themselves. Narcissistic people live in a fantasy world that everything and everyone revolves around them even if they barely know a person. They don't make 'doormats', they make slaves to their whims through psychological and sometimes physical torture.

[@aidenthompson3265]

The mom deserved all of she got from her now ex-husband for staying with him

[@roguetalowen]

You have clearly never lived with a gaslighting narcissistic pig.

[@sharihazlett3774]

Not all parents are like they show on Leave it to Beaver

[@Lily_of_the_Forest]

Wish they were. Cheating is evil.

[@robertgreen6433]

THis story was too incoherant. First OP has a wife then you hear nothing about her . Then you here thing like the dad and Lisa broke up but then Dad and Lisa are coming around OPs nieces . I know these are stories but this is some bad writing whoever made the original story. Another thing is if the ages lined up during the time of the divorce OP wouldn't have been involved as far as custody went because he was already an adult as was the sister . The onlyone possibly affected would be the brother and since the term state was used ,I would assume the US and the brother at 17 would most likely be given a choice to decide where he wanted to stay .

[@jackiehenry3372]

Are you buying your dad's lies. Get counseling for your mom also.

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

Don't have to say to them

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

Yes he did

[@lestatsgames7426]

I have a huge problem with this looking down on a woman just because she works as a stripper. I guess that’s another job people can look down on with disgust and disrespect. There are a lot of women who work as strippers to pay for college or put food on the table for their family. But ya’ll look down at Walmart workers, especially cashiers, and waiters and waitresses even at high class restaurants, some earning more than their critics. As for this home wrecking stripper, everything negative is well deserved EXCEPT that job. It’s a perfectly good job if it’s legal.

[@sierrastanley3109]

Beint a stripper is a social life killer. It only attracts the wrong types of people (a.k.a people who would want to use or abuse them.) Also being a stripper objectifies you, makes people see you in only one way, permanently. Also being in that kind of dangerous environment can get you killed or falling into worse habits. (Prostitutes and strippers are prime targets for human trafficking and easily go "missing") also it's recorded that over 80% of sex workers/prostitutes/strippers have some form of mental illnesses, making them easily manipulated and taken advantage of. A lot of strippers come from broken homes and are very young, younger than you can ever imagine. I dont know anyone who'd look down on a waiter or plumber but I'm aware of the dangers that come from being a stripper is much higher.

[@Lily_of_the_Forest]

Sorry not sorry sex work is trashy including if men do it too.

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

Your dad he's not much of a person or.a man

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

👍🤭😋😍🥰👏🙃🫢

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

👍😋😍🥰👏🤪💪🙃🤭❤️

[@JaisonJ97]

First?

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

👍🤭😋😍🥰👏🙃

[@toastywaffle9129]

The pole riding garden tool deserves him.