In-Law Screamed & Called Me Leech Not Knowing Am The One Paying Bills For The House,,So I Moved Out

[@hvymax]

OP should have had them forcibly removed when they told her no surgery and cut them off immediately and publicly humiliate them

[@robingibson6561]

she did, just not in that timeline...

[@nerdygeekgamer5528]

I feel so sorry for OP she lost her Husband her IN-LAWS ARE QUITE A PIECE OF WOOORK

[@jesscadrod4218]

The only thing I disagree with is her leaving the new owners responsible for dealing with the in laws!! She should have shut that down way before!!! ✌️ PEACE!!!!

[@absolutearcher3137]

Same, but I'd add the false accusation, satisfying as it may have been, it was, *if* not a crime, unnecessarily over the top.

[@Mama_Bear_of_3]

Hell no! I would not have played the game OP played. As soon as they threw that money at me, I would have immediately put the inlaws in their place and kicked the out on their asses. Plus, it wasn't fair what OP put the new owners through, as she dragged them through her drama.

[@judithmyers3039]

After OPs surgery she should have confronted the in-laws that there was no will, she was paying all the bills and the money their son was sending them was from her....then told them to leave and call the police if they refused to leave. The way she got her revenge was a bad example for her children... In my opinion!

[@ruthgray1930]

They didn’t care about their son! As soon as he died they were after op for his inheritance! All they wanted and cared about was the money! Op did a great job of getting her revenge!

[@C.C_Creations]

I wouldn't have time for revenge just tell them to leave.

[@thehigherevolutionary]

I'm saying! This was way too much scheming. I would've said: GTFO and slammed the door!!!!!!!

[@delorescannon455]

Don't ever let people out stay their welcome, especially relatives

[@robertgreen6433]

OP should of just broke out all the documents that showed theILs that the deed to the house was in her name and that she made the bulk of the money in the house. Then told them to either take the money their son had saved up for them and go or just leave empty handed. Either way they would of left with their bubble deflated.

[@joanns7007]

The only issue I have with the story is OP leaving the new buyers with squatters! If I bought a new house and found out that the in-laws were living there, I would sue OP don’t bring innocent people into your mess

[@Shakeybaby58]

She went to far. She could have just kicked them out. And left them to figure it out. I'm never ok with making false police report. Weaponizing the police is never ok.

[@GenaGilder]

She was definitely wrong for that.

[@tiaa668]

I love these stories cocky in-laws that eat their words after you're gone 😂 Mr. Reddito Revenge channel is excellent I never miss it

[@millicentspears]

Same

[@antoinettebates244]

OP..You should never have let him pose as the breadwinner. They would get their asses out of my house!!

[@helenjackson8413]

Just show them the deed to your house. Nuff Said!!

[@sandhermit3665]

Exactly! We tell our grandson... "Use Your Words," before getting mad. She kept silent so she could take revenge on them. Yes, they were horrible to her. But had she used "her words" and showed the deed, she could have gotten rid of them ages before, without throwing them in jail. The point should have been to get them out of the house but it wasn't. She's petty. She has, also, set herself up to be sued for a false police report. I'm not sure how the in-laws thought there would be any money after the accident. Hospital bills suck people dry of any cash. That could be easily proved, too.

[@lauraaustin5378]

I am a member of the petty squad,and love a good revenge story.😊

[@lindalanteigne8909]

Me too . I love it when people get what they deserve.

[@sbmedeiros11]

While the parents were vile- OP could've told them the truth so many times. Filing false reports, setting up the new homeowners, and having the in-laws reported was going too far

[@lisawatson2368]

Been in somewhat of this story. DO NOT for any reason let them in, with that amount of luggage. Huge red flag! If they won't leave, make sure you have your phone with you at least if you can't record their faces you will be able to record the obnoxious things they are saying to you. Just remember, protection orders are our friends!! You are one of my besties you stood up to them and protected your little treasures. I believe in you, just keep believing in yourself!

[@hvymax]

It would have been so much easier and less expensive to just pitch them onto the street with nothing the first time they acted up. OP allowed her children to be further traumatized by these worthless leeches. Was OP supporting them the whole time? Why would OP subject the new owners to such drama??? They should sue her and back out of the contract. OP should have told the Police they were trying to squat in the house after she left.

[@pollyandrahewson9630]

Op is epic!!! We are not worthy, you managed your in laws perfectly. I hope your in laws suffer greatly and you have a wonderful life with your beautiful boys. Xx

[@juliarainey2792]

The one thing I disagree with about OP was the filing of a false police report at the end. That definitely could've landed her in hot water.

[@dulcilass]

Definitely

[@stellareynolds6859]

When my older brother passed away, 14 hours later our sister was demanding to see his will. That broke my heart along with other family members. Hard to comprehend that she was that cold.

[@autumnpalmer4468]

Totally foolish to pay for these ungrateful fools. Even before the accident

[@amberleeannalee1999]

Why would u let a man pretend he was the main earner ? Screw misogyny and patriarchal behavior. Kick In-laws OUT. Send them packing

[@dulcilass]

I think that OP should have immediately let the in-laws know what was what and that there was NO MONEY coming to them from their late son's estate. That he died with no estate, no will, no property, nada. After telling them that flat out, I'd have told them to get lost. The lying to the police was treading on thin ice.

[@robingibson6561]

​​@@dulcilassI so agree. As soon as they started with their nastiness I would have educated them to the fact that their son left no 'estate', no money and no will. That everything was mine and that I was financially established before we met. And to please pack their sh*t and get out of MY house before I called police to have them removed. I never would have allowed them to think that their son was the provider and that I had to depend on him to keep a roof over my house. The stereotype that a single mother can't support herself and her child(ren) and most find a man to so is overexaggerated and outdated. OP's revenge plan was a bit too elaborate and lying to the police was way too much.

[@gaara8217]

Op is pathetic.. no matter how they saw her, telling them the truth would already been the "in yo face" but she had to go all out... Sorry to but a rich man would almost never marry a single mother unless he's a single father... U got lucky.. u must be gorgeous ..

[@tuzzday]

ESH - OP should have told them up front and kicked them out. Why put the new owners in that position.

[@brobles8888]

The fact op made up lies to get her revenge made it so she was no better than them and tbh, her husband would have been disgusted with her for lying about things.

[@randykincy7954]

I think her husband would’ve been perfectly fine with what she did, but, she shouldn’t have handled it that way. She let her kids watch their mom be harassed and watch their parents lie about their living situation. If the in-laws were harassing OP the I guarantee that they were harassing her children. She allowed this behavior to go on for the ENTIRETY of her marriage and beyond. That’s what makes her the AH. Watching them have to swallow their pride every time she clapped back following a “my son’s house….” would’ve been a far better punishment

[@brobles8888]

@@randykincy7954 Wait, to go in and lie about them harassing her the way she did was not cool and broke the 10 commandments and the law. If her husband was in heaven there was no way he would have been proud of her for that. Besides she had them dead to rights on abuse from their actions all while living with her and could have led with that. It wouldn’t have been a lie or sin against God. It would have been the truth because she did have the grounds for a tro based on how they verbally abused her about the inheritance, the medical bills and the living arrangements. So I disagree that her husband would have been ok with her setting up her parents based on a lie that also, turned out to be criminal.

[@randykincy7954]

@@brobles8888 I SAID what she did was wrong. But, considering that her husband was ok with lying to his parents for years to make himself look better AND tolerated the harassment that the lie about his financial situation created, I think he would’ve been totally fine with the way she treated his family. What about his previous behavior suggests that he’d expect his wife to stop lying to them just because he died?? He wasn’t some Boy Scout. He was willing to pay them off (correction: make his wife pay them off) to get rid of them.

[@brobles8888]

@@randykincy7954 still you can’t be in heaven and condone sin.

[@randykincy7954]

@@brobles8888 then it’s quite possible he’s not in heaven

[@tiffanysandmeier4753]

I feel bad for the couple that bought OPs house.

[@robingibson6561]

they'll have an interesting story to tell at parties...

[@vickimendoza6488]

I felt OP handled the situation badly. She should have been straightforward about being the breadwinner and the house being hers. The in laws were not nice people but they never knew the truth. All the stuff she did seemed wrong and unnecessary. After her husband died, she could have shown financial information proving she was the breadwinner and showing the title of the house showing she is the owner. Then knowing they weren’t getting any inheritance, she could give them the planned money as decided and sent them on their way. At the very least they risked getting in trouble for lying to the police. She did too much unnecessary stuff to get a very spiteful revenge.

[@YourLocalCryptid164]

The story does show she tried to give them the intended money and explain she owned the house and everything in it and they refused to believe her until their son's will was read. They so firmly believed that their son owned the house and assets they saw that they refused to believe they were actually her's and in her name.

[@vickimendoza6488]

@@YourLocalCryptid164 but she didn’t show them any documentation-yet she showed it to the police later. There were things she could have said and done earlier that might have resolved the issues earlier.

[@TigerSpirit67KItty42]

Very well said

[@lavernalashawn1098]

No there was no need for OP to proof anything to them. The parents believed what they wanted to believe. They had a relationship with their son and knew what he had and didn't have. Suddenly when he has a woman in his life he now has a house and everything else??? Its obvious who owns these things. I had the same situation with my inlaws. They're son found me with my own house and in the process of buying my car. And their son told them that these things belongs to me and would always refer to it as mine( we weren't married for 6 years) yet his father would borrow my car and he and his daughter had the nerve to tell ppl that it was their son/brothers and that I just put my name on it because I'm forward. (personalized plates). And they would pitch up at my home whenever they wanted and disrespect me. So after they tried to tell them numerous times that it's all mine and them not listening I had enough one day and told them off and chased them off my property and took my car from them. That's when they learned not to mess with me.

[@dennisgarrett5071]

Totally agree with your comment.

[@JReese-o1t]

Op did too much. She could have just said no, and kicked them to the curb. But to have them arrested..... that was too much!

[@socorropeers8217]

Should OP & her husband made it clear from the beginning their financial situation, it wouldn't have gotten this far.

[@gailw415]

In laws got what they deserved

[@julietesatchell103]

OP held her anger well. These parents were leeches for they even refuse to help while she was totally bed ridden. They didn't even know that their son got paid minimum wages therefore could not be owner of the house. They were just greedy.

[@roland4037]

OP should have pressed charges on them so the could get 4 squares and a cot !! The the way they treated Ms OP

[@emelyu]

All she had to do was TELL THE TRUTH from the beginning. But, no, she had to encourage all this drama. E.T.A.H.

[@ericlindgren212]

I'm with OP until the revenge part. I just wish she had the guts to be straight with them.

[@cathyheckman7415]

Crazy is as crazy does!

[@thed165]

😆😆😆😆 I love petty revenge stories! Well played, OP. Well played.

[@ito2876]

WOW!!!!!! Boy the kids father dodged one hell of a bullet!!!!! Gee I wonder why the “baby daddy” left and didn’t care to not see his kids anymore!

[@colleanwilson4394]

OP's husband's parents were wrong on so many levels. 1st wrong step was showing up knowing they had no intentions in ever leaving. How their son turned out to be such a good person amazes me.

[@DrPatANelson]

She really should have been up front with the greedy inlaws from the get-go. Also I was always confused about whether the two houses were actually houses or apartments, as the words seemed to be used interchangeably.

[@bseelman67]

To be honest, I felt OP should have told in-laws up front that she owned the house, was the bread winner, and was originally going to support them. I know she was recovering but still, OP could have told them as soon as she was feeling better. I feel she went a bit too far with the restraining order, they are his parents after all and yes they are AH. Had she told them early they would have packed their bags and left with their tail between their legs.

[@quietstorm5866]

Doubt that from their actions they would have destroyed her sanity . It’s easy when we are observers giving our opinion but it’s her who has to tolerate their disrespect and greediness

[@hvymax]

Why would OP continue to allow them to use her children etc. They should have pushed her wheelchair into traffic while she was playing stupid games.

[@drediggler]

Nope she’s the G.O.A.T !!!I strive for that level of petty

[@LordGertz]

ETA except the kids. The In-Laws are simply greedy and despicable. The husband should have been clear with his parents " I'm a bigger gold-digger than her, the house is hers and she earns more than me." OP seriously broke the law, the truth would have gotten them out alot quicker, "I own the house it's a premarital asset, I earned more than him and he left no will, so legally all his assets are mine as his wife." If I had to rank them from biggest to smallest AH: In-laws, OP, Husband. But honestly if the Husband had a better spin non of this would have had happened. He could have cleared up the gold digger accusations before the wedding even happened, nor should he have forced OP to lie about her knowledge.

[@gailboyd3585]

OP DID WELL!! THOSE FORMER IN-LAWS WOULD NEVER STOP!! POLICE/ARREST/NO $$ ENDS FURTHER CONFLICT/NONSENXE!

[@angelawilliams4483]

OP KNOWS HOW TO GET REVENGE!😂

[@squarestar326]

What a mess she left for the new owners, and telling bs to cops?? Wtf? Too far.

[@scotthultin7769]

So as soon as you tell your in-laws that it's not the way they think you are bragging😅🎉😊

[@hatterthemadwhiterabbit1854]

i would say that it is a no but a bit of a yes - *it is a 90% no* for the reason of the husbands family braiding her about the will, the house, and the money from man passing away *but it is about 10% yes* for telling them that he was the one taking care of the bills (but i think she did it out of respect for the family at that time) and getting the people who moved into the old house involved

[@faraht1250]

o.O i think this is a creative writing where the wife wished she could do this to parent in law.

[@TheSryn1]

So much unnecessary drama just for revenge? I would've been honest from the start, and tell them off.

[@rossconnelly6660]

In-laws are like outlaws

[@dustysimpson7864]

This whole thing is on you. Never should have lied to them! It's your falt.

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

Your kids has to get that inheritance

[@dancummings3697]

Wow! The only people in this story who are not complete a$$holes are the two kids, and I don't think that will last long with this psycho mother teaching them to manipulate people and bear false witness to cops in order to get what you want. I feel really bad for these kids. They don't even have a chance at a normal life with this mother being their only parenting role-model.

[@amberleeannalee1999]

In-laws are leaches not OP.

[@mpmansell]

NTA. Those toxic people had it coming. Elderly doesn't count as aholes are aholes and age should condemn them further for not learning to not be aholes in their lives. They abused OP from the beginning and would throw OP, who had just lost her husband and had serious injuries, out on the street. Toxic as eff as are any ahole commenters who say they should not be treated the same way in return. That they lost their son is irrelevant since OP lost her husband, almost her life and mobility and suffered considerably from her accident and their cruelty. Again, the abusive commenters saying OP went too far, are despicable PoS aholes. Period. OP did nothing to them that they didn't do, or try to do to her, and after all the abuse a restraining order was justified and all her actions did was totally disarm them and prevent them from abusing her and her children further. They deserved all of their consequences and, frankly, I hope karma teaches the abusive ahole commenters the error of their ways, or at least removes them from the company of potential victims

[@adamaponte1792]

What did you expect from those people? The son was obviously deceitful to his parents . Shitapple dosnt fall far from the shittree.

[@rosecarrejo3940]

I can't blame OP due to the inlaws harassment prior to marriage

[@deedeebattle2522]

So OP is really a KAREN 😳

[@nimisilverbird1239]

Nta. Throw them out. It is your house and they have no right to be there

[@tigerqueen_k21nnn93]

Lying to the police was WAY WAY TO FAR!!!. She should have just told the truth after her husband died

[@centurycountess4949]

NTA, elderly or not I was verbally abused and scratches by a hag of a witch of a woman who was just as nasty as these in laws . All I did was exist. Her defense for her reasons were religious verses. I was persuaded not to call the police that staff who saw one of the incidence would handle it. Long story short. They did it because the police called would give them a bad reputation. And they let this woman stay because she was 76 abd it's below 50 outside. Karma did come back at them. The transitional housing got in trouble for another matter but the woman in question got her just deserts when she tried to play her games after I got my housing. She was wacked with a restraining order. In conclusion elderly or not it doesn't matter and it doesn't for these nasty in laws either.

[@geraldinejavier8932]

She was ok until she lied to the police. She should have just got a ticket for them and sent them back to where they came from

[@tracygardner6318]

It annoys me when people have the thinking you can’t marry or be in a relationship someone because they have kids from another man, what a closed minded thought.

[@rosevan7845]

I wonder how many of then are the "Just give it up for adoption" type when it comes to unintended pregnancy. This prejudiice against other people's children is so deep I don't understand how anyone could consider that a viable option.

[@jayshutman3101]

This made me think of "The Count of Monte Cristo". 😈

[@kims.5357]

This OP is awful. Selling the house and blindsiding her in laws was great revenge, but there was no need to lie to them about giving them money or getting them arrested. They all suck.

[@Tammy-mi4pi]

This one would have made a fabulous revenge

[@arealone7863]

Not going to lie this is exactly how i want alot of these stories to end

[@daniellajohnson-little8939]

Lol.........OP didn't go far enough!!!! The inlaws were EXTREMELY TOXIC!!!!

[@MrDeeman17]

Op should have gotten a random couple involved

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

You did great job 🥰😃😄🤭👍😍😀

[@laquietagray9323]

I would have done worse i would have made sure they stayed in jail.

[@jessehouse3187]

i think OP is a badass and is totally in the right protect ur kids

[@normoloid]

Same end result could have been achieved without lying.

[@tyffanypoudrier6610]

Yes op did right with her revenge how Low can you get asking for inheritance what he just passed away and your daughter lol. Just got out of the hospital and have to go back for an operation that low.

[@katienobles4623]

She should have gone even furthest. My in-laws were just as bad as hers.

[@mahashalgam9480]

When they asked to read the will, she should have taught them that her husband owns nothing and that she is the real owner of everything. She is manipulative and benign. She just wanted to mock them and insult them in the worst way.

[@DesnieGlover]

Even if it was the son's house what made the parents think that they had a right to it? She was his wife. They ha no claim to anything. I agree with OP, she showed them better than she could tell thhem.

[@bnaisirap44]

OP had a nasty streak of cruelty. First she allowed the fantasy that husband was source of bounty and real estate-dumb. Then the revenge plan-all that stress and drama. Life’s too short for that. As soon as she able after husband’s death, all the truth should have come out. Actually the fantasy should have never happened. Men’s ego aren’t that delicate.

[@c16621]

Rule #1: a woman should NEVER prop up a man's ego for his benefit. That is for him to do alone. Men also get resentful when women do this. None of this misunderstanding would have happened if you both had been strong and forthright to your in-Laws. However, OP wanted to "prop up" her husband and take the coward's way out, as if it were shameful to raise kids and manage the household. Let us not forget that, a couple hundred year's ago in Europe, butlers (men) did exactly that - run a household for the master of the house. The woman propping up a man's ego by being dishonest is the type of crap that messes men's ego up, makes them entitled, resentful of women and whatnot. To prop up the husband's image in this way meant that you (OP and husband) were BOTH ashamed of his role in the household, enough to send the wrong signals and info to the In-Laws. When people in general stop denigrating homemaking and child rearing, maybe we (in America primarily, where people are devolved and uneducated), as a culture, will have a more educated, balanced and mentally healthy country and society. As it stands today 1 in about 5 or 6 people in America are psychopaths - and psychopathy can be traced back to how children were raised in the home.

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

They're not worth it

[@robingibson6561]

I'm curious to know what the in-laws thought their son did for a living? OP works in finance so I assume her home would be beyond what his salary could provide. And if the accident hadn't occurred how were they planning on telling their son what their situation had become? This all started with the in-laws withholding their truth and being leeches.

[@mankovitch1130]

she beyond petty

[@abx42]

NTA. I understand they just lost their son, but that doesn't justify this type of behavior.

[@n.g.l.]

I get it, her in-laws were not the best, but I'm not a fan of the vengeance arc. She called them wicked then did something wicked to them. Never pay evil with evil

[@c16621]

(smh) So many women know NOTHING about the NATURE OF MEN.......

[@castironmarshmello7430]

OP was just as ruthless as her inlaws, but she did it with style and panache 😂😂❤❤Hahahaha

[@nilianstroy]

two things make op an ah too, leaving the new owners to deal with squatters and weaponizing the police with lies.

[@noliafreeman4297]

I love when Karma bites people in their butts😅😅.

[@philneilsen]

I’m only sad that she admitted a false allegations charges

[@semperinfidel2115]

The OP is a Viking goddess. 💘

[@aprilmorgan9899]

I was with OP until she lied to the police. Yes, the in-laws were jerks and deserved to be put in their place; but, OP should not have gone down to their level. What did that teach her kids? I'm glad she got tough and stood her ground but, am disappointed in her final actions.

[@sabinacristina4125]

Maybe the two clowns deserve what they suffered. But all those involved deserve an explanation, those children who lost their father and then BECAME victims, the buyers of the house who did not deserve to solve the mess left by the OP, the poor man who was doing his job. All for her satisfaction.

[@comenowletusreasontogether1337]

If OP and her husband hadn't lied to his parents about who the house belonged to and who the main breadwinner was none of that would have happened. And then OP continued to lie and lie to the very end.

[@vickichavez9956]

OP did the right thing because she was treated very badly by her in-laws

[@darthbane70749]

Op did what she had to do. They treated her like crap even before they got married so no she was in the right. For doing what she did. They left her no choice

[@carolconnell9521]

OP did what she needed to do. Having had vile in laws I can understand this revenge.

[@Ahalaia]

They didn't care about their son, they were just worried about the money. I do think the OP went to far especially for filing a false police report which could of got her in trouble and her kids could of been taken away. Personally I'd of never given them my address. If they insisted I'd of given them a false one and if they followed, go there, or drive around and go to various stores etc for hours. Maybe make so many 'stops' that she lost them or they got bored and stopped following.

[@JackieStults-wg1ko]

They had no say

[@nerdygeekgamer5528]

Man OP'S MIL and FIL are I dont know what they are but it ain't GOOOOD

[@TigerSpirit67KItty42]

Oh what a web we weave when first we practice to deceive. OP should have been upfront from the beginning, BEFORE her partner died, so as to save her from the stress later, and perhaps, OP's partner's parents could have left on amicable terms had they known, and they wouldn't have been left stranded as, perhaps, they wouldn't have tried to bludge in the first place.