How to start a conversation : Step 1: Approach the target. Step 2: Press A.
@racheldoss49854 жыл бұрын
😂🤣😂 or X depending on the system you’re playing on.
@guccimane89414 жыл бұрын
Lmao 😂😭😂
@fakeaccount76303 жыл бұрын
I went to her and pressed...it didn't work bro...
@bobbyashrimp3 жыл бұрын
Funny.
@emilyx31313 жыл бұрын
only good advice tbh
@avnir68707 жыл бұрын
Me:"I don't think I've met you yet.." She:"let's keep it that way.."
@user-nr6pz8ye2p6 жыл бұрын
A True Fan her***
@kenziebabyy29426 жыл бұрын
Mimix stfu
@lilmelon54006 жыл бұрын
Well you actually did meet her pretty much. She is talkin sum bs.
@matheusrocha11556 жыл бұрын
Ouch my heart hahahaha
@DieForMetalcore5 жыл бұрын
Just do the opposite:)
@jasperburow68027 жыл бұрын
I do human Snapchat, I say hi then run away
@User-es3em6 жыл бұрын
jasper burow LOL
@TheCaptainjuicy6 жыл бұрын
I say streaks to people once a day but never communicate with them
@obviouslymatt64526 жыл бұрын
jasper burow yeah I do that but I say hi then forget what I said
@sejlamarie98615 жыл бұрын
Same
@dnangel42775 жыл бұрын
LOL
@indago50324 жыл бұрын
His smile is absolutely gigantic. I am in awe at the size of the lad's smile.
@RealNaisuCinema4 жыл бұрын
Yea watching him talk I realized his mouth is HUGE
@lukedhoffman124 жыл бұрын
He looks like the canadians from south park lol
@bullpupart3 жыл бұрын
I love it lol
@Bee-h7c9l3 жыл бұрын
"My master has a token I was bidden to show thee" >:]
@Pelipear3 жыл бұрын
He has a good smile ngl
@shantcheetah5 жыл бұрын
im an introvert but im not gonna lie, these were some pretty helpful tips! The hardest part is starting a conversation: most people with social anxiety have to deal with this problem called "overanalysis paralysis" and they can just never get themselves to come up with an opening line, although they have so many things on their mind.
@KulDeePKauRcheema4 жыл бұрын
This is so TRUE!
@shantcheetah4 жыл бұрын
Kuldeep Kaur thank you, im glad you understand me
@supermassiveblackhole63154 жыл бұрын
Yep
@brooklynp14333 жыл бұрын
bye this is me
@geensjc3 жыл бұрын
ME 100%
@lordbelcheriv61156 жыл бұрын
'Hey, I've been stalking you for weeks! My name is...'
@nikolicaprikolica63885 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@fbiopenup53455 жыл бұрын
Jeff
@OdysseyWafflez5 жыл бұрын
*Slim Shady*
@RenaldoJNR5 жыл бұрын
Had success with this.
@youshouldntcareaboutmyname11324 жыл бұрын
Lord Belcher IV 😂😂😂
@Raf_Avila7 жыл бұрын
Just get people to talk about themselves. That's everyone's favorite subject lol
@McBubbleslvl9007 жыл бұрын
Rafa Avila Not me 😔
@TovenDo.O.Video-6 жыл бұрын
Not mine, I hate when someone asks about my life. Theres no recipe that works on everyone.
@Philmccracken7906 жыл бұрын
@@TovenDo.O.Video- he got you to talk about yourself lol
@TovenDo.O.Video-6 жыл бұрын
@@Philmccracken790 lmao
@devo13125 жыл бұрын
"hey so whats your hobby" me: uhhh, yeah uhh i- i play videogames... *oh my fucking god im such a loser*
@mitchparker77637 жыл бұрын
I honestly believe if you have the power to be social you can literally get anything. Jobs, Girls, connections of any kind, special privileges, free stuff. It's a shame that they don't teach it in school, good to see another content creator talk about this kind of thing. Keep up the great work mate.
@johnbolt67337 жыл бұрын
You got some good videos mate
@mitchparker77637 жыл бұрын
Curious Omelette maybe you should get curious about Australia as people there do in fact talk like that lol
@mitchparker77637 жыл бұрын
I live in Melbourne, Australia lol
@cup_check_official7 жыл бұрын
Successful Minds Don't listen to him lol. His behavior says a lot about him. It's better to ignore these things
@mitchparker77637 жыл бұрын
True :)
@c.w.95015 жыл бұрын
Me: "I don't think I've met you yet." Him: "Shut up, Dad."
@ironald85293 жыл бұрын
*Hol' up*
@ironald85293 жыл бұрын
@Tay r/woooooooosh
@ironald85293 жыл бұрын
@Tay That's what r/wooooosh is for
@ironald85293 жыл бұрын
@Tay It means the joke went over your head... which it did
@ironald85293 жыл бұрын
@Tay Um... Don't see how I insulted you. And what you said doesn't make sense, "Never got made at it" what does that mean? and I never went off, if anything you did for making that comment. It's just a r/woooosh. That is the point of an r/wooooosh, a person who didn't understand it.
@MarcoLorenzoFlute4 жыл бұрын
It's so refreshing to watch a video on KZbin that doesn't have hundreds of cuts. This guy filmed a video that lasted 7 minutes and 25 seconds in one take, without any stumbles and was perfectly coherent and eloquent the whole time. Amazing work man.
@stewartphillips7 жыл бұрын
this helped me muster up the courage to ask my mom out thank you
@michelesaint16626 жыл бұрын
i love you
@yungmemez9906 жыл бұрын
sweet home alabama
@ethanmeeks93216 жыл бұрын
Stewart Phillips WTF
@mustafadzafic9986 жыл бұрын
This almost made me spill out my drink.
@deadplayer75 жыл бұрын
@@mustafadzafic998 I meni brate da povratim.
@rainyday44684 жыл бұрын
So basically how to talk to people: -Ask a question -Say a thing.
@dn85984 жыл бұрын
hrmmm ..say what ???
@kalebbryce3 жыл бұрын
Hahahah this is how I felt after watching too
@yourlocalflatiron61243 жыл бұрын
THEN WHAT
@Speed0012 жыл бұрын
So... do you know the 7 steps towards genocide as outlined by the UN? Response: -What... walks away/doesn't enguage/uninterested/tired A: Ah I'm sorry. Long day? B: vents or doesn't. A: uses empathy, B is imposter -No... why? Suspicious, guard up Else they could fein interest to learn about the topic. A: compliments B, says A was nervous and didn't know what to say. Or. A: You look like an interesting person, I'd like to learn a bit about what you know. Also I think genocide is an important topic that relates to many aspects of society. Everything from race relations, to domestic and foreign trade and economic policies, to simple stuff like video games. *at this point guage B's interest by their body language or give them a chance to speak.* B: How does the UN's policy on genocide tie into video games, seems like a stretch. Or. B: Yeah, stuff like *name a piece of media or history with genocide* *Either way, B has now enguaged and the conversion to conversation can continue.* (The above was added after me info-dumping about Undertail because that's the _magic_ of writing a fictional conversation.) A: If you're into game lore such as in the Undertail community, you'll see how fan writers integrate monsters into the surface world and human society given that humans effectively committed genocide out of a misplaced fear of monster-kind and then locked the remaining monsters underground for hundreds of years. -Yes, I do. Confident, guard down A: Ah, well then, um, do you by chance remember how to mitigate the chance of genocide happening? I'm a little fuzzy on the details. *it's at this point B decides to enguage or not* B:Yeah, basically try to get different groups to mingle and don't dehumanize a group of people this way it's harder to kill them, much like with a robber or kidnapper. Though I'm not sure if that works in any case where they don't plan on killing you, because typically you just don't want to give them a reason to harm you. A: Wow, I see, thank you. Where did you learn that bit about kidnappings? B: I don't remember, some online video. *Then A or B can mention watching cop shows if either wants to stay enguaged.* Then conversation continues for however long you can. I rate this question 1/3 for success, upgraded to 2/5, then 3/5 after creating all the above scenarios. This took me 34 minutes to cover 3 major scenarios for a 5-15 minute conversation.
@BATMADZ_2 жыл бұрын
@@yourlocalflatiron6124 RIGHT? Bc after a bit I’ll probably just start being like “heh heh…yeh..🧍”
@aquamarinemystique5 жыл бұрын
How to Start a Conversation: Step 1: Approach target. Step 2: Talk.
@railspony5 жыл бұрын
"If you meet her in a bar and she likes you she doesn't actually care what you say." -- [source redacted]
@Pb4Au5 жыл бұрын
Me: "talk" Her: "no u"
@daviddegenhardt54205 жыл бұрын
Step 2: there’s a cowboy
@FrogEnjoyer174 жыл бұрын
Instructions unclear, target eliminated
@TheBanjoShowOfficial4 жыл бұрын
@@FrogEnjoyer17 LOL
@snowcoalRC6 жыл бұрын
me, an intellectual: “H E L L O T H E R E”
@DoubleUProds5 жыл бұрын
GeNeRaL KeNoBi!
@hennyzhi22615 жыл бұрын
"G E N E R A L K E N O B I, Y O U A R E A B O L D O N E"
@espectrodormin5 жыл бұрын
Me, an antisocial: *multiple lighstaber noises*
@espectrodormin5 жыл бұрын
@aravind karthik idk... I mean, last time they shot my chest with a blaster...
@joelsam12825 жыл бұрын
CCole GENERAL KENOBI P.S. This is where the fun begins
@GymSticks7 жыл бұрын
''Hey I don't think I've met you yet'' ... after you passed many times just shy to talk to the person.
@JD2jr.7 жыл бұрын
"Hey I keep seeing you here but we haven't actually met. I'm ____ "
@freakymundo7 жыл бұрын
Good workaround xd
@dexy2M7 жыл бұрын
Aaand she says " yea, i dont think we have to" ......
@freakymundo7 жыл бұрын
Pasif Geek it's good to have the worst case scenarios present when making decisions, as you suggest, but you also have to predict the odds of that bad scenario happening. In this case i'll say that is.more likely that they respond nicely than rudely
@GymSticks7 жыл бұрын
James Dreger ! Good answer ! Thanks !
@incognito21666 жыл бұрын
Human Google? Me: hey Girl: hey Me: GOOGLE WANTS TO KNOW YOUR LOCATION
@КостаСтојановић-о8х5 жыл бұрын
Lol best comment!
@luckyluke42765 жыл бұрын
connection problem. Try again later
@fairey895 жыл бұрын
💀💀
@monkeygamingify5 жыл бұрын
Her:😂
@Jonathanwebb1005 жыл бұрын
"I googled your symptoms and it says you have internet connectivity issues."
@500leveledits6 жыл бұрын
What i learned: Me: You've got to see this a cowboy just walked into the room Her: Wow Me: How do you feel about cowboys?
@daved35905 жыл бұрын
im gunna tek mi whorse to the ol town road
@goatshenanigans60905 жыл бұрын
Question of the year 😂
@victorsaconato51035 жыл бұрын
"How do you feel about moving to Texas?"
@yummyEnchilada5 жыл бұрын
Me: You've got to see this a cowboy just walked into the room Her: Cool Me: IT'S HIGH NOON
@crazycougar93443 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@zoeh.44215 жыл бұрын
Me: **grabs person next to me** omg there's a cowboy in the bar. Dude: there's no cowboy... And we're not in a bar.
@cosmicplays54835 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sophieester94455 жыл бұрын
hhahahahhaha
@denisecalvert60624 жыл бұрын
This is a funeral
@obilim21554 жыл бұрын
Imagine if they also watch this channel and got the reference, that’d be instant convo
@mariaestelabatistaserrano49223 жыл бұрын
😆😆😆😆
@chick_picnic88294 жыл бұрын
At lunch at school: Me: sits there Girl:sits there Me: so what are you doing this weekend? Her: nothing Me: ok *sits there for 10 minutes awkwardly
@synergyrevolution23324 жыл бұрын
This comment alone justifies the existence of this channel.
@rinreborn73643 жыл бұрын
“Wanna come over?”
@rinreborn73643 жыл бұрын
@Perfectlymixed this 100% thats why i dont bother interacting now, im gonna do all the talking anyway
@Raccon_Detective.3 жыл бұрын
@@synergyrevolution2332 Agreed
@synergyrevolution23323 жыл бұрын
@〖ᒪᑌNᗩ_81〗 What makes you think she has as much to talk about with you as she does with her friends? She knows what her friends can relate with her on, she knows what they did together recently, and she knows what her friends won't judge her and respect her for, does she know those things about you?
@therealr0bert7 жыл бұрын
Getting over the "what do I say" barrier is so important. I'm starting a decently high paying job tomorrow basically because I was willing to go talk to a guy. He was on the fence about trying to hire someone, and I basically just asked for a job. We got to talking about the job and after twenty minutes or so he decided to hire me. I'd still be in "gig economy" mode if I didn't take the initiative to simply have a conversation.
@throughtheflowers17 жыл бұрын
Congrats on the job! You'll be great
@Gretix5007 жыл бұрын
enginesnblades Thanks for sharing this. And congrats for the job!
@dasjugsboi7 жыл бұрын
^CoC fans are the best :) Good luck, man.
@ToyInsanity5 жыл бұрын
One year update?
@brandody97505 жыл бұрын
Update
@polyliker80654 жыл бұрын
me: "hey I don't think I've met you yet' friend: 'bruh we've known eachother for six years'
@youngteenlife.99234 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@jovem37673 жыл бұрын
"bruh, we've known each other for so long, your heart's been aching but you're too shy to say it"
@GokuBlackIsReal2 жыл бұрын
XD
@tpsam7 жыл бұрын
Human Google: i think that it was like what people used to do before Google.
@JapiePapi7 жыл бұрын
Google: technology asking
@happyfreeky7 жыл бұрын
I can tell you from personal experience that you are correct -- at least people who knew to do this sort of thing were doing it
@speakevermore9 ай бұрын
In addition to giving genuine compliments, another great tool is showing genuine appreciation. Not just "thanks have a good day", but real appreciation. Around the holidays I always tell people in retail that I appreciate them being there. Get out of the mindset of not thanking people for just doing their job. I bought some glassware and when the girl was wrapping them up to put them in my shopping bag i told her "oh thank you for wrapping those!" And she was bewildered because no one had ever thanked her for just doing part of her job
@lonestarr14909 ай бұрын
Oh boy, life would be so easy for me in the US it seems... You guys are really so genuinely unfriendly and unmannered that you can actually bewilder someone by thanking them?! Where I come from, people are so used to everyone saying "please" and "thank you" and "you're welcome", that these words long lost all their meaning. The only way to utilize them in order to make an impression, is by _not_ saying them. And that won't make for a good impression, I guarantee you that.
@ontago232 жыл бұрын
The "I don't believe we've met yet" works total wonders. I was at my cousin's wedding and walked up to an older idle couple and used the line. We talked for about 10-20 minutes and it stayed interesting. Ranged from college to military service and was one of my strongest conversations yet.
@BATMADZ_2 жыл бұрын
But old people are cooler and have more to say tho 😔
@Wisdomseeker1028 Жыл бұрын
what do you say next? XD im Jason. Im Sam. Nice to meet you.... *crickets*
@KaiGaming845 жыл бұрын
What works for me is "how's your week been?" Works for people I know and people I don't. People like talking about themselves and opens many roads to keep conversation flowing. Works like a charm!
@daze2028 Жыл бұрын
“Good”
@fatrat9676 Жыл бұрын
@@daze2028 When they answer like that it’s probably means they haven’t did anything interesting that week. That’s why that question can be a hit or miss but then you can say something about how’s your own week been going and share something interesting or maybe they’re just not interested in talking with you or at the moment.
@RitCore5 жыл бұрын
Me: Whats your favorite color Them: Blue Me: Cool Them: Wbu Me: Yellow Them: Cool Me: ... Them: ... *HOW DO YOU KEEP A CONVERSATION GOING?!* Edit: so basically, never reply with “cool” 😂
@eduardoeustatia92725 жыл бұрын
When you freeze or if conversation goes quiet just direct your attention to something else and talk about it.
@RitCore5 жыл бұрын
@@eduardoeustatia9272 thanks lol
@banana-dw3ez5 жыл бұрын
“I love blue, reminds of the ocean and my last holiday in .... where we did X blah blah” for example and then you have something to keep the conversation going
@xmute7115 жыл бұрын
You dont
@eduardoeustatia92725 жыл бұрын
t Chilford ;)
@nicoletaylor8936 жыл бұрын
These are great specific things you can do in situations, but I think the biggest thing you can remember that will liberate you from your anxieties is that you do not have to be in your head so much... people are going to want to start conversations with you because YOU are amazinggg. you have stories to share. you have value to add to the world. you have wisdom... you are worth engaging with and talking to. I love talking to everyone for this reason... young, old, black, white... there's something that I know I can learn from everyone. We all have gifts to share.
@mvdspice4 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy because I’m a pretty good conversationalist but I want to get even better at communicating and bonding with people just to see how good can get! Thank you I’ve been watching you for about two years now maybe three and now I notice so many social cues
@saulmoses86986 жыл бұрын
I'm in highschool so its pretty awkward when you say "Hi, I haven't met you yet". Idk what it is about highschool students but they make everything awkard
@laurenj4324 жыл бұрын
If they’re a nice person, they’ll respond nicely. I just graduated high school, and this girl said that exact phrase to me in a class, and we became friends! I admired how she took interest in wanting to be friends and she was nice.
@synergyrevolution23324 жыл бұрын
So do the other 2 things.
@amelialalllalala39143 жыл бұрын
and same with the handshake- noone does that anymore
@werrkowalski29853 жыл бұрын
@@laurenj432 I hope you already realised at this point that it worked just because she was a woman.
@laurenj4323 жыл бұрын
@@werrkowalski2985 Maybe, but I’ve had guys say similar phrases to me as well, and being that I’m a quiet person, I admired their friendliness
@nobody-uw6bi4 жыл бұрын
After 4 years of watching "How to make a small talk""How to control your anxiety""7 conversation starters""FORD rule"....I still don't know how to interact! And they still describe me as a loner! ಠ◡ಠ
@angeloreid85014 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone mate ;~;
@angie_74294 жыл бұрын
Well then, Hello! how are you feeling? Do you like it here?
@davsdocproject20393 жыл бұрын
I can only start conversations texting. I always get afraid to ask certain things irl
@iliveinsideyourhouse39433 жыл бұрын
Being knowledgeable is useless without action.
@danlightened3 жыл бұрын
Although this guy is good and so are many like him, I don't usually watch such videos. You end up thinking too much and overanalyzing scenarios. Mostly people are embarrassed about what others in their locality/college/work might think of them if they fail at a conversation. So, try talking to strangers at bus stops, convenience stores or when you're on vacation. It doesn't matter if you fail. You're probably never gonna see them again.
@icannotchoose7 жыл бұрын
I like to make nerdy or obscure references because if people get it then I found my kind of person and if they don't I can explain the reference. Either way, I get to talk about an interest of mine and ask about theirs. Once I was at the rock climbing wall at my camp and someone had gotten really high on the hardest one. I asked how and he responded "Determination". Then I started humming the determination tune from Undertale (which he got) and we spent the afternoon discussing video games.
@SistersTape7 жыл бұрын
Drama_Llama_5000 Nice one!
@BumpyBurrito7 жыл бұрын
Drama_Llama_5000 This is known as polarization. It's the concept of sticking to your beliefs and values and "filtering" through people who tolerate/enjoy/share the same values and beliefs and those who don't want to be involved with you or anything you enjoy. This is good because you get an immediate read on a person and vice versa. Time being wasted is at a bare minimum.
@bigbrainanime94857 жыл бұрын
Wish I had that kind of luck, I've tried doing things like that and it hasn't worked... I just get a "wah?" and not as in they want to know more "what", but in a 'stop talk you weirdo' "what". Even if they do actually want to know what I'm talking about they don't really continue talking afterwards. I hate having to talk about something like The Minion movie or dogs or football, something along those lines. Those things are boring but it's what get the conversation going. It's really irritating.
@cross55743 жыл бұрын
Me visiting Australia and trying to start a conversation: "I like your accent, are you a tourist?"
@perplexity82604 жыл бұрын
Gonna use the last one on my prom date. Her:*gets in car Me: Hi! I don't think I've met you yet!
@jackcoyle84154 жыл бұрын
What prom
@jakaalatas89384 жыл бұрын
Girl: *scream*
@lilyanderson15844 жыл бұрын
Ok since we all are socially awkward let’s me friends
@quill78894 жыл бұрын
Alright. Hows life been since you said this lol?
@flor88164 жыл бұрын
@@quill7889 Hi! Only 22 hours ago. That just shows that people still need this video lmao.
@quill78894 жыл бұрын
@@flor8816 hey hows agoin? And yeah I need to talk to more people lol.
@quill78894 жыл бұрын
@@flor8816 Good good. Just constantly reflecting on every mistake I've ever made lmao.
@aminahharis4784 жыл бұрын
@@quill7889 hi
@cup_check_official7 жыл бұрын
on a serious note, i always ask who did you vote in the election? and people never shut up after that
@jonathantybirk7 жыл бұрын
Tell Me This He said in a he didn't vote for Trump. So unless he's independent, 3rd party or voted blank, Clinton would be an educated guess I think. :)
@cup_check_official7 жыл бұрын
Jonathan the answer isn't the point. The point is, people like to talk about these topics like politicians, politics, business, corruption. Just ask a question and they will start talking
@JamesBond-mq7pd7 жыл бұрын
Tell Me This in Russia you can be killed for this question
@cup_check_official7 жыл бұрын
Curious Omelette Nope
@zachgillen58727 жыл бұрын
Jonathan Tybirk TRUMP 2020
@iamvivek127 жыл бұрын
I swear Charlie has like 2 t-shirts
@FPSBuzz7 жыл бұрын
Vivek Dubey the presentation looks nice. The shirt in the background go well together, it's not distracting
@Skisce7 жыл бұрын
bet thats the shirt he sleeps in, and does these vids as soon as he wakes up
@Kunumbah17 жыл бұрын
He probably has like 50 black shirts.
@Shoxic6667 жыл бұрын
Apex Devil yeah just rows and rows of em lol
@stupidiswhatstupiddoes7 жыл бұрын
Apex Devil it's his color mane
@Aynshtaynn5 жыл бұрын
Human KZbin Ads Hi, I don't think I've met y- *Skip Ad*
@JustmeSEVEN3 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha
@KastaRules5 жыл бұрын
So... the *Brits* have been right all along with their conversations about the weather !!!
@alexavasquez19925 жыл бұрын
Yeah but they have really bad weather haha
@cheryl710003 жыл бұрын
Always safe with the weather, as it changes every couple of hours in Britain, the sun can be in the 20s travel ten miles and it could be stotting with rain. It's a safe conversation and you will always get a reply
@JukeboxTheGhoul7 жыл бұрын
This came in just in time. I'm about to have my first day in college. I also watched your "never run out of things to say" on a meet up with a friend I've been meaning to get more in touch with, and we had a wonderful time. Thanks!
@SistersTape7 жыл бұрын
Neptune Productions Good luck, I'm sure you'll be alright!
@Yassine-kw2eo3 жыл бұрын
Last year of college?
@11more402 жыл бұрын
Hi how are you 🤠😁
@vividchilling2492 Жыл бұрын
@@11more40 fr lol, how are you?, its been a year? what wer ya doing last year?
@merubindono7 жыл бұрын
One way to end any conversation: I have a boyfriend.
@okaywhynot47287 жыл бұрын
One way to start it again: "I know, I'm sleeping with him"
@andozoid49236 жыл бұрын
You could say "Oh nice, you must be a pretty social person" or something like that to keep it going
@ek073055 жыл бұрын
@@okaywhynot4728 lol😂😂🤣🤣🤣
@fasmal275 жыл бұрын
Officer: "Do you know how fast you w..." Her : "I have a boyfriend" Officer: ....
@TerraDoctor5 жыл бұрын
@@okaywhynot4728 Hahahaha
@ThaerGhawi7 жыл бұрын
I'm a long winded person, I need conversation stoppers!!
@WAMProducties7 жыл бұрын
Make an awkward silence happen by not following up on the subject by just saying 'yeah... cool' or something like that, don't ask the other person another question and then say 'So... I gotta go, nice talking to you. Bye!'
@devvv46167 жыл бұрын
You are my opposite lol
@tahasidd30127 жыл бұрын
Thaer Ghawi wish i had that problem.. im so awkward when it comes to conversations idk what to say or what to talk about
@johnathantoledo92457 жыл бұрын
Thaer Ghawi "I have aids"
@kokolatte8257 жыл бұрын
Thaer Ghawi it typically means you do more talking than listening. Try listening more, asking questions and engaging with the other person rather than talking about yourself.
@babs12775 жыл бұрын
Every boy: "I don't have a girlfriend" Every girl: "Sorry, I already have a boyfriend…"
@danknation77035 жыл бұрын
Dio Brando you bastard...DIO!
@zippy24705 жыл бұрын
It works if you act uninterested but act like you know them as their friend as just shrug off the fact that you are single by talking about someone you may not like or people's actions you hate "I hate people like that they just act so idiotic and that why I'm single lol, do you know anyone who was like that?"
@emdieless34075 жыл бұрын
muda
@timefliesaway9993 жыл бұрын
True, except for me, it’s more like “every boy: has a girlfriend” and I’ll stay single.
@robbiehugg24096 жыл бұрын
I love his smile, it's very warm. His voice alone is nice, but watching his whole presentation, the facial expressions and body language is very warm and inviting.
@Musicsinger2997 жыл бұрын
I really respect that you don't need jump cuts! You're an awesome speaker
@lizepretorius66747 жыл бұрын
Hey Charlie, This is just a bit of a thank you comment, because your videos, your work has helped me so much in the past couple of months (- since I discovered your channel). Honestly, your advice has brought me so much further with things at school and just in general with myself than I could ever have hoped to achieve on my own and I just wanted to reach out and give you a sincere thank you. Keep up the amazing work!
@Charismaoncommand7 жыл бұрын
~ Glad to hear our work has made such an impact!
@mathiaskinder52007 жыл бұрын
Starting a conversation: Hey, Have you heard about Charisma on Command?
@Breyerlover4ever235 жыл бұрын
Them: "Yeah." Me: "Ah, so you're socially awkward to the point where you need to consult help as well!"
@peisong11145 жыл бұрын
@@Breyerlover4ever23 lmfao
@marilynlucero93636 жыл бұрын
Me: Hey! I'm a Human Google! Person: Whut? Me: Dang it...
@micaela54614 жыл бұрын
The moments where I feel the most awkward is walking past a colleague at work and there’s no time for actual small talk because you’re both busy but you don’t wanna ignore their existence so you just pull one of these faces 😐🙂 and keep moving Like howwww do you make that comfortable
@Alasadg3 жыл бұрын
I know im like a year late but guys have had a system to aboid this for decades, and its the "nod". when you nod up it basically means whats up, and when you nod down its acknowledgment, and respect.
@josephlondon81887 жыл бұрын
Do "three ways to start a conversation w/ people you already know, and know a lot about their lives already, (so you can't ask them about that) but don't know so well that you can just sit in silence and it not be weird."
@empresslithia6 жыл бұрын
Hi Joseph! I'm late getting to this, but you can still ask a question and make a comment. It's just the third one that changes.
@sunmethods6 жыл бұрын
Ask them what's new and go on to ask questions about how they feel about it
@RellyrellREACTS5 жыл бұрын
Good question....I'm following
@timdoring85715 жыл бұрын
Watch their video about escaping the friendzone. And in case you are not talking about someone you'd like to date, just talk about interests you have in common :)
@TheBrownConnor7 жыл бұрын
Charlie, I think it'd be interesting to see your charisma in action. Not in a creepy way, I just take in all this useful information yet I only know it to be true based on your stories. Does that make any sense?
@laalaajonsen7 жыл бұрын
YASS.
@Charismaoncommand7 жыл бұрын
Totally. We have been thinking about how to do this. It means we need to go out with a camera man and lapel mic which isn't always possible (gym for instance) but we could take a few hours one afternoon and get some footage. I'm not sure if we would need the people in it to sign release but I will look into it
@DoomSprite2367 жыл бұрын
I really want to see this
@devvv46167 жыл бұрын
Charisma on Command just do what the pranksters do( i mean the simple ones like lahwf, angrypicnic, thatwasepic)
@haris0000007 жыл бұрын
Nyachi what would be the point of infield videos? If you are asking these question it points to the fact that you probabaly arent using his tips ... are you?
@eliasleq4 жыл бұрын
Neighbor today: lovely weather, isn't it? Me: nah, I prefer the cloudy days. (End of the conversation)
@Dorilana3 жыл бұрын
So me. I really do prefer cloudy days 💕
@JDSigma3 жыл бұрын
Ask them why they like the current weather
@eliasleq3 жыл бұрын
@@JDSigma, nice tip. Thanks. 👍
@DoctorXander3 жыл бұрын
Could also elaborate about why you like the cloudy days and hope that leads to more talk
@eliasleq3 жыл бұрын
@@DoctorXander, yep. That's great. Thanks.
@jaysonemile66336 жыл бұрын
So this guy goes into bars I lot I hear.
@alyxer_4 жыл бұрын
"Stick your hand out for a handshake" Haha not anytime soon bud
@synergyrevolution23324 жыл бұрын
This video was made long before it was risky to shake someone's hand.
@alyxer_4 жыл бұрын
@@synergyrevolution2332 I know lol
@amelialalllalala39143 жыл бұрын
haha
@autumns9086 жыл бұрын
I been watching all of your videos for about 5 months and they’ve really helped me!! I used to be shy but now I’m outgoing and I have a lot of friends at school. Thank you for all the videos and keep the good work up
@amy-oi8mj5 жыл бұрын
me: hey, i don't think ive met you yet :)) her: haha okay
@aidanbunde41535 жыл бұрын
amy ᄋ ᅳ ᄋ yeah then your considered a weirdo. Lmao
I've just found your channels recently and love them a lot but gotta say, it's much easier to just listen cause when I watch, all I can think about is how great your smile is!
@harper60325 жыл бұрын
_I have no idea where I'm gonna watch the fight tonight..._ *Sees person* "OMG the fight is tonight! Are you gonna see it?" "Hell yeah, man!" "Where are you gonna watch it?" *SNEAK 100*
@cup_check_official7 жыл бұрын
Curse them. That'll do it lol
@jonaaas47306 жыл бұрын
What does that mean?
@Ayveh6 жыл бұрын
lol
@elumardesa6 жыл бұрын
Love it. lol
@elumardesa6 жыл бұрын
BTW - F U lol
@danielwolfe41696 жыл бұрын
Jonas Jonassen curse and dam them to the hells
@almaboldi8122 Жыл бұрын
Its so fun seeing how many people have watched this. It shows how we think the same😂😂😂
@filipnovak90666 жыл бұрын
The most succinct and usable advice on this topic I've come across so far. Thank you!
@familybroakajonny Жыл бұрын
0:25 That’s LITERALLY me right there. I needed this video. Thanks.
@mikaelamaverik21672 жыл бұрын
The most important thing you can do is learn to be indifferent about any outcome and simply talk to people with a sense of adventure and excitement of learning about a new person. Don't worry about tricks. I don't know about you, but I don't want to trick people into liking me and talking to me. Being yourself still is the best advice. Today so many people are fake. You're prolly not compatible with 9 out of 10 people anyway so see rejection as a blessing.
@vividchilling2492 Жыл бұрын
Woah this is a great way to look at it, do you have any advice on how to talk to random stangers lol? I have a little challenge that hamza is making me do.
@noahbrandini95607 жыл бұрын
Always give value first, and see if they want to escalate the relationship by reciprocating your gestures and efforts. Try to stay acutely attuned to the situation. Respond as needed; do not force things upon a perpetually distant person. It’s not your job to fix them. Your energy isn’t infinite! No matter how much you want it to be. Remember that there are plenty of other men, people, and wonderful things you can do with your life to add value to others. There’s no need to get lost in the labyrinth of drama and ignorance or beat a dead horse.
@martianassassin10354 жыл бұрын
"What's your name" "Not one you will ever need to know"
@fansigo52452 жыл бұрын
Man taking phrase "smile from ear to ear" to reality
@myviews4693 жыл бұрын
Dude I can teach you so much about this because it’s really about understanding human behavior.
@relaxable7014 Жыл бұрын
I am now in my late 30’s. I have spent my whole life playing video games and being ashamed of being a gamer. This led to me running away from most social interactions may whole life. Recently I started to focus on a business and stopped playing games. The first thing that I noticed is I became more interested in other people. 35 years of introverted behavior is now coming to an end. Turns out I wasn’t socially awkward I just had no interest in talking to non gamers. Now I have to learn how to talk to people in my fourties’ and I’m looking forward to becoming a stronger communicator. We just have to care, and we’re no longer wired lol
@tand68454 жыл бұрын
Me: Hi Them: Hey Me: How are you? Them: Good. How are you? Me: Good. This is how far I have been till now.
@shyprince64304 жыл бұрын
Well, this is relatable
@cecaniacc91654 жыл бұрын
Same
@countoof43104 жыл бұрын
Ikr samee
@haydenhidey86984 жыл бұрын
This is literally me except they don’t ask how I’m doing. Rude people
@haydenhidey86984 жыл бұрын
@@synergyrevolution2332 wtf that supposed to mean
@SvenVee7 жыл бұрын
Great tips Charlie! Especially the part about the feeling questions was super interesting and useful! Will keep that in mind :)
@SvenVee7 жыл бұрын
yeah for sure!
@cycanex_00173 жыл бұрын
Me: So, how's your name?
@bigmanting98787 жыл бұрын
How do you keep your confidence up when there is always people trying to put you down
@NicholasNRG7 жыл бұрын
watch how to stay motivated during hard times, then search charisma on command haters, and check out all the results
@eogh7 жыл бұрын
Stay away from them people.
@Skisce7 жыл бұрын
if everyone you meet is trying to put you down maybe you need to look at yourself. but most of the time that's not the case, people like that are just really negative and you shouldnt keep them in your life if you can afford to. in short if you open up to someone and they just try to hurt you mark that person off as an asshat and move on
@fuhduh25447 жыл бұрын
yeah you really need to look at yourself. In fact, if you're ugly everybody's gonna hate you :) (i'm ugly i cri)
@470interista7 жыл бұрын
punch them really hard
@bmwforlife69515 жыл бұрын
Dude, when you grinn your smile is literally from ear to ear!
@joydasko51714 жыл бұрын
There's this guy I really want to be friends with, and I didn't know how to even be the one to start a conversation, so this video really helped me, even if it was from 3 years ago, lol
@Mher-3505 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! I had a great conversation with my dog
@railspony5 жыл бұрын
I tried it on a squirrel but no matter what I say she just thinks I'm trying to steal her acorns.
@JackeeBoy3 жыл бұрын
Whenever I talk to my dog, the conversation goes so dark
@mizzalovespizza4 жыл бұрын
dude you literally over here teaching me how to be a human lol!!
@mikanlan7 жыл бұрын
Dude, great video I love the way you are able to simplify social situations to make them seem easier. I'd also love to see a video on how to handle disrespect from arrogant people, at times I confront a person who is disrespecting me or my friends but I don't want to sound arrogant and bring myself to their level. Any advice?
@МишаНекрасов-э9ш7 жыл бұрын
Vladimir Vladimirovich Putin same here man
@bennymountain16 жыл бұрын
just don't confront them, it's a waste of time and risk of trouble for no gain.
@bertiehart5173 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, these videos are so well put together.
@lord_egg Жыл бұрын
I've recently started doing better with self-confidence (hence the pfp) and one thig I've discovered works really really well is literally just asking someone how their week has been. I've already started to make friends by doing this and I'm shocked how easy it is.
@AJeanC30 Жыл бұрын
Goodness, this video was an eye-opener, i wasn't aware of just how much technology had affected the generations...this is stuff folks used to inherently know and understand at an early age from watching their parents and others do things like ask for directions, chatting w/someone and trying to figure out the name of a particular celebrity, or asking how to make a certain food dish. Suppose we stopped all that once search engines came about, haha! i was initially dumbstruck (as i'm sure most 40yr+ folks were, haha) that this video was even made, but upon further thought i realised it's actually an incredibly fantastic thing, to have this extremely-needed information available to people. So thank you, young man, for taking time to make this video ( :
@leliza847711 ай бұрын
Oh gosh. That’s such a good point! We have no reason to talk to each other anymore as we have all the info we could possibly need online. I’m 22 and socialising is pretty miserable these days. You kinda feel desperate for going up to someone and making conversation now because people know the only reason you are talking to them is to try and make a friend. Which is “sad” to do, apparently
@btmeant5785 жыл бұрын
Give me the exact lines,its much easier for me to memorize it then actually come up with something
@sub7se7en5 жыл бұрын
I like "Yo, hey! You come here often?" People find it funny that someone actually asks that.
@WeMissOldTibia7 жыл бұрын
Hey! Please make a video on how to talk to someone who is sad to make them feel better, would be very interesting. Help me thumbs this up so he sees it :D
@neuzdost19393 жыл бұрын
Meanwhile conversation starters in my city: " da fuk ya lokin at? "
@omg_wtf5 жыл бұрын
one of my favourite channels on youtube.
@PYRO_CREATIONS Жыл бұрын
I feel like a robot trying to understand how to talk to humans 😂
@iamkAIden5 жыл бұрын
My 3 lines on picking up a girl: 1: Hello my name is Scott 2: Okay bye 3:
@sfiv45275 жыл бұрын
"Hey, I don't think I've met you yet. I'm Charlie." Exactly how the Manson Family started ;)
@hameley123 жыл бұрын
Oh wow! That's how you do it? Once in High School my science teacher was setting up groups of two for the class project and I was hoping to be assigned with the fun guy or girl. No. She set me up in a duo group with the awkward kid in class. At first I was nervous and didn't know what to say. I shakily walked over hoping he wouldn't bite. "Hey there! Did you understand the lesson or do you wan to relearn it after school at the library?" It turns out (during our one-to-one interaction at the public library) he was very smart, fun, fast-thinker, and he enjoyed the same music as me. I was the one who needed to learn more about the chapter before starting up the project. It was fun and we got an A+ for our dissertation and presentation! He became a really good friend, I am pretty sure he is having fun at Université de Paris. Yeah, he got an invite through a study abroad program. He is studying to become a mathematician. We try to keep in touch. Which comes to show, you never know who you will meet if you never introduce yourself and just say 'Hello, my name is _____. Is that _______ I have been to their concerts before, which is your favorite song?' If the person is stating they like a music band or if you see someone wearing a t-shirt of their fav rock band. Many conversations can be started.
@southoceann Жыл бұрын
This is great and all but people should realize the most important point of starting a conversation is to get to know someone. Don't go around trying to start convos with random people for no reasons just so you come across social and more interesting than if you werent talking. Talk to people YOU find interesting. What makes them interesting? Use that to start the conversation. It's all about genuinely being interested in somebody else, because of their accent or their hat or just their way of being. Most people want to stand out in the crowd so you will get extra point for acknowledging something that someone has put in extra thoughts, for instance, appearance-wise. Curiousity gets you really far. Keep your eyes open and ears up. Being present is the key to finding interesting people to converse with. In case you are really desparate to talk and want a safe bet, scan the room to find the most or second most social person in the party, then go talk to them. They have a reputation to live up to at that point and will most likely welcome you with open arms. If you manage to make that person laugh or give a big reaction, congratulations you just bump up your social ranking at the party and all of the sudden people find YOU interesting. Second best scenario is them introducing you to the cool gang, which is still awesome! The best strategy imo is to focus on a few individuals to begin with. Have fun with them and start including people as they come. Next thing you know, you are in the cool gang and people see you as interesting. And when you see someone having a hard time integrating, invite them in. You have been there and you know how it feels. Do your good deeds and the universe will send someone else to help you out next time you find it awkward at a party!
@drunkenlee.weeb.28594 жыл бұрын
You know you’ve failed in life when you search up “ how to start a conversation “
@shadowsenpai71514 жыл бұрын
that's me
@wealthforthecommoners31464 жыл бұрын
Learning is okay
@justachildofGod2 жыл бұрын
LOL, I just realized I’m kind of a loner. I don’t want to be.
@PauloNideck7 жыл бұрын
Awesome video
@Charismaoncommand7 жыл бұрын
~ Thanks man!
@tornadospin94 жыл бұрын
Whenever there’s a drop in conversation, my default line is “ya like jazz?”
@IntroducingStartups Жыл бұрын
No editing is needed, he is the master of story telling.
@KwColby6 жыл бұрын
I love all your videos! I am watching for the first time tonight. Thank you!!
@Charismaoncommand6 жыл бұрын
~ Glad you're loving them, man! Welcome to the channel. :-)
@alexanderparada82903 жыл бұрын
I had a difficult time asking questions sometimes whenever I get into conversations with people and I didn't know what to except for myself. It just happens to be more distant and I get the weird feeling that whatever I asked a question it just seems to be something with that could be inappropriate. I get tired of having to stay quiet whenever I get into conversations to talk to people and this should be a good time for me to get notice for things to ask.
@karolinalind57247 жыл бұрын
Brilliant 🙂 I'm taking notes!
@bananbat17026 жыл бұрын
Karolina Lind härligt
@chriswhut93165 жыл бұрын
I wonder if I can hire a random cowboy to walk into bars while I'm there to start up a convo 😂😂😂
@telsamorgan53692 жыл бұрын
Thank you a lot for this video. This is very interesting and informative. Keep posting like those amazing videos, this is awesome.
@Senkkoo2 жыл бұрын
next monday imma start a conversation w/ my new classmate that i liked in a school i just moved to, hope i do good cuz ive never benn that good with small talk that much lol