How to Talk to Anyone, Anytime, Anywhere

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Talking to others is a skill that takes practice, and this guide will help you become a better speaker and listener. Watch the video to learn practical tips to improve your conversation skills. Let us know your thoughts in the comments!
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[@shloakranja1203]

What a coincidence Yesterday I asked this question in Men’s Image Lab that how should I improve my communication skills and Alex today you posted a whole video about it..Great Job 💪🏻

[@alexcosta]

Thank you for being a valued member!

[@FogoMyYogo]

I needed this! I am on my way to a family reunion 😂

[@TheDarkCornerX]

😂 I've been there, they are usually so awkward, how'd it go for you?

[@alexcosta]

Good luck!

[@TheDarkCornerX]

@@alexcosta thanks Alex 😄

[@FogoMyYogo]

@@dr.santanic_marco1800 😂

[@FogoMyYogo]

@@TheDarkCornerX Definitely a lot better with Alex’s tips haha!

[@jithesha2988]

iam literally ryan gosling

[@demonsalvatore3465]

Ian Somerhalder :)

[@yash_raj9]

I am David goggins 💀

[@GreggKocenko]

Great choice!!

[@rajdwipdutta4585]

I am literally myself

[@abhay.tx__]

I'm DEADPOOL

[@Believer.63]

Its been 7 years alex i am loving ur videos always ❤ Keep posting love from India❤

[@satirthautsab]

a person who has gone from ordinary to extraordinary! love from bangladesh🇧🇩❤️

[@MrAhmed-dx5hw]

🇵🇰❤️🇧🇩

[@rampageferonick5269]

@@MrAhmed-dx5hw abdul bond love from Spain

[@thierryfleck546]

really needed this..merci Alex

[@wuasta2278]

A really good video, watched you after a long time, same energy. Love Costa

[@TheVillageBeast]

Love the videos Bruv 🔥 keep helping the bros ❤

[@rakeshsuggana]

Need more videos like these bro, You're my life time role model, I have watched every single video of yours including your past gaming videos to till today's video. I've learnt many things from you and still happy to learn. Thank you so much and huge love bro. ❤

[@obaidulbari988]

Alex, make more videos on this topic or more specifically '' communication '' because this is my weak point and I really want to up my game. Thanks for this one.

[@musicjustinjames]

Alex, this is exactly what I needed. Please keep posting videos like these.

[@pradosalvador5]

You should recommend a book about this topic on how to speak to people.

[@callumhigham8404]

I really needed this and I haven’t even watched the video yet

[@aidahimawan]

Great education to all of us, alex, thanks! Sending u love from Singapore😘

[@Sachu0369]

I need this this, dude always post the right thing so cool alex!!

[@user-zs3gd8fr3p]

that video came just in time man

[@isaiah3127]

Leaving a conversation with a hot topic is a lot like a writing technique for writing novels. I forgot which author said it. But basically, to never have writers block stop right before you feel you're reaching the end of something. Leave room for wonder. Also, don't think about writing when you're not writing. Which i think can also apply to conversations. I often find myself being overly critical when analyzing past conversations.

[@Shreadington]

I FORM new people I meet. Family, Organization, Recreation, Motivations. People like talking about themselves. Let them. Where are you from? What do you do for work? What do you do for fun? What motivated you to start that? I can talk to anyone and form a genuine connection. Works every time.

[@Majesty12-12]

There's no genuine connection these days anymore. All you have is disagreement and disappointment amongst people these days, and judgement. It simply doesn't work out like that for everyone, to have genuine connections or else I would had friends, and or a family in this world that would've accepted me. Theres no genuine love exists today either, except for the self love I have for myself.

[@richabharti8016]

I am following you from last 2-3 yeare now on Tuesday I am will go and talk to the girl whom I like. Let's see is this trick are worth it. Thanks Alex🧬🧬❤❤❤.

[@tiniciayoung]

Awesome points! How did you learn all of this, Alex?

[@FastAndAngry1]

Hi alex a long time subscriber here , just wanted to let u know u stop coming in my recommendations these few years and i stop watching you a long time ago mainly after covid 19 pandemic, i search for ur channel and it feels go to see you after a long time , ur advices and tricks work well mainly not touching ur face with ur hands to reduce pimples , and style tips for all body sizes , i hope u have a great day and hope u r healthy both mentally and physically, love from INDIA

[@KhanEnterprisesInc.]

Ye man same with me

[@alexcosta]

Don't forget to follow me on instagram.com/alexcosta Thank you for watching and have a great week! -AC

[@PrinceKotla]

Continue Fashion Inspiration Lookbook

[@iiFreekill96]

bro is turning every video into a business/advertisement

[@rockshot100]

Above all it is always good to depreciate yourself a little bit, but not much. They let their natural guard down, and makes them feel more comfortable with you. Like, "wow, you play guitar? as hard as I tried to at least learn a little, I was a huge failure.". Never try to diminish whatever their accomplishments, even if you doubt it. Everybody likes to talk about themselves the most, so let them. Be humble and honest always.

[@eshw23]

More of these types of videos! Alex you inspire me to self develop as a man and improve all areas and see big progress over time!

[@fahimbinreza3194]

UNIQUE MASTER-CLASS :) thanks AC

[@naveennitharwal7240]

love' you brother I'm was also struggling from this problem but after the video I feel confident thanx ❤

[@alexcosta]

Glad to hear that, thank you! Stay strong

[@AdrielPR22]

He’s so handsome ❤

[@gemologistak]

love from Bangladesh ❤

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Brother make video on mewing, best age to start mewing for boys, guide, results, etc. Please 🙏🏻

[@aakashsankhla9511]

Fascinating STEPS ✅ ALEX ❤️ LOVE FROM INDIA 🇮🇳

[@stefmyt5062]

Great video, this honestly seems like it'll help.

[@ruben5027]

Good video, comes at the perfect time !👌🏻💯

[@royt9195]

Alex def make a vid on how to do this but in a college setting

[@-cobainism-]

i like this guy.

[@davidhamming6206]

To be honest, I think frameworks like these make conversations more complicated bc. you’re trying to stick to some conceptual system, making it harder to be in the moment and follow the natural flow of the conversation. Just be ACTUALLY interested in what someone has to say and what you can learn from them, you’ll be fine :)

[@PrinceKotla]

Man Why Don't You Make Fashion Inspiration Lookbook ?? Why Did You Stop It ?? It Helped Me Alot

[@The-Batman_88]

Alex ❤

[@jonshawunited]

This video is great, more please Alex. :) Jon

[@InfiniteWealthWisdom-k1c]

It was impressive

[@lukavidic3303]

Yeah maybe it’s easy in america but I live in Europe and this is a whole new world here!

[@ShivamKumar-ch7tk]

I leave in India....quite tough

[@Tacocat315]

I think to some extent a boring opening can work but you wanna smile and have good energy (and maybe poke fun at how boring the said opening you just made is😂)

[@viscaelfutbol44]

I have social anxiety, at the age of 28, it has affected my life

[@Chahel-qr3sv]

Love from india❤

[@dominikfarago1250]

Hi Where did you get that polo shirt?

[@adiathasan8721]

Could you make a video where, You talk to your 17/18 year old self And tell him, 3 things to do and 3 things not to do…❤🇧🇩

[@saidianasabg908]

i don't care about conversations and about people in this point of my life, and i think i feel better now..

[@mbank3832]

I get you but sometimes, you just need people for something. Not because you want to but because you have to

[@CaroLI-lh2re]

True!!!​@@mbank3832

[@The_KarKnight]

W video ❤

[@V_2077]

I like how every video you suggest a therapist and then plug your sponsor. We are not stupid

[@tempestandacomputer6951]

God forbid the youtube content creator tries to make money on youtube

[@V_2077]

@@tempestandacomputer6951 it's snake oil.. putting therapy as an answer to everything he does to sell his shit

[@RTFKT-CLONE-X]

wheres ur polo shirt from? looks amazing

[@neo7759]

Polo shirts went out of style about 10 years ago just FYI

[@anandabliss9997]

@@neo7759no they didn’t they’re classic. Especially if you know how to style it. Trends are so short lived. Classic is best.

[@neo7759]

@@anandabliss9997 Not even close , they are about as classic as cargo shorts. I don't do trends

[@mansurali8741]

Im literally Tyler Durden

[@marufibrahim4722]

Iam literally ryan gosling

[@ajaym6795]

Lets dissect some of the things he says in this video. He gave some helpful tips but some ridiculous ones also. 1. 0:00 - What's up with him? Why would we have a conversation with everyone we meet in the next 24 hours? Who is he to dictate who we must talk to? Anyone would naturally and should feel nervous speaking to people they have no business speaking to. 2. 0:30 - He keeps acting like talking to strangers is the best thing in the world. He says we may be missing out on creating new friendships, business partners etc. Why hasn't he considered that we may have saved us tons of agony by not connecting with a potential sociopath or narcissist? 3. 0:40 - He is providing us a "framework" just to talk to people. As if this is coding. He also has the audacity to say he's keeping it simple. 4. 1:58 - He tells us to not pretend like we know everything about them. But later at 3:53 he gives an alternative for asking "What type of music donyiu listen to". He wants us to say "You seem like you'll be into Morgan Wallen". That's just lame. Be consistent dude. There are more things I can point out but it's getting boring typing so much

[@KanwarAnand]

I am cheteshwar Pujara

[@SonalDhiman-o2u]

I want to know fully about the girl that is in room😂😂 so i keep looking at her

[@bogse]

I dont blame social media of this one since I had anxiety in this well before social mdeia exists, and I bet many others did too. These days I go usually, since as he said, to talk about something we have in commond:"Im wearing red underpants today, what color thong you got today if any?".

[@TheGrayWolf-q7t]

Hi bro

[@user-ii7qg5eo3f]

Alex you still take finasteride and minoxidil? Hair lookin better

[@alexcosta]

Yes I do, thank you

[@user-ii7qg5eo3f]

@@alexcostacan I ask what dose finasteride you take 🙂

[@Jetha-Lol]

I am literally Johnny Sins

[@EmileLN]

My Mom said I shouldn't talk to strangers 😂

[@aidahimawan]

🤣 thats so funny

[@monchichipower6334]

Is ok to have a fixed mindset I don’t enjoy Learning as I got learning disability

[@mbank3832]

Ugh. I hate people. But too bad I need to connect with them since they are useful to me

[@deananthony9518]

Where’s Robbi?

[@aidahimawan]

They split about a year ago, bro🙂

[@jasonkrick1614]

I already talk to so many people a day. Please tell me how not to talk to so many people.

[@HKOVENOM]

What to do if you have a Stutter?

[@thomass07.]

Cooked

[@HKOVENOM]

@@thomass07. fuck.

[@_ScottBlankenship]

I literally talk toooo much

[@techsyndrome3291]

first !

[@monhishkaware5635]

i am batman

[@marley551]

One in five? Gotta be like three in five

[@FatNorthernBigot]

It's a great shame we need this video.

[@kanaadinamdar7355]

Yes, it truly is a shame

[@heroic_yt-1]

I am ironman

[@AdityaSingh-ot8vu]

I am only afraid to start conversation with girl otherwise i can do with anyone

[@deva77399]

I am Doom

[@TheGrayWolf-q7t]

I just wanted to know about your actual job.

[@TheGrayWolf-q7t]

How about your job?

[@shaikhkaif6998]

When are you getting married my man?

[@TheDigli]

He already was

[@eshw23]

Hes to busy pimping.

[@ivaibhavkr]

No, he hasn't been married

[@mbank3832]

How was he married. Robbi dumped him not that long ago

[@slowfingers6389]

Iam patrick Bateman

[@yuvrajrai143]

14th comment

[@akshsinecure]

Seriously Alex🤨, how could you take Better help as a sponsor for this video. They've been found notorious for selling their customer data to Drugs & Pharmaceutical companies. So, that these medical companies can show anti-depressants products ads to make these people buy their products.

[@Yusufkhan-nb6fw]

first comment pin please

[@KT-mm2uk]

This guy is a scam!

[@adamkenton2585]

Stop changing your thumbnail every 2 minutes

[@emergencyfood7660]

Let him do what he wants, it's his page

[@V_2077]

KZbinrs do it to get more views as their original thumbnail might not work