34 Women Reveal Their Biggest Turn-Ons (These Are Shocking)

[@daeocdomren9471]

0:30 Hands - grooming, nails, life shows on your hands 1:12 Opening package with teeth - may require attraction 1:46 Chop veggies fast (capable cook) 2:40 Clear pronunciation or attractive voice 4:06 Charity (considerate and capable) 4:57 swearing under breath (self-awareness?) 5:11 Theater (hobbies or interests) 5:49 Hugs from behind (neck nuzzle in relationship) 6:29 morning voice 6:52 Got home safe text 7:15 Eye contact and interest 7:42 passion about interests (knowledge) 8:38 Humor 8:54 Strong morals/values (firm belief) 9:28 jogging pants (comfort style) 10:03 run hands through hair 10:11 banter 10:41 readjust glasses (clothing) 11:06 good smile 11:59 sends songs, memes etc. That shows thinking of them 12:16 consistency (security) 12:40 singing (skills) 13:18 laughs, snorts, and is embarrassed (imperfect quirks) 13:53 eating (hand?) 14:23 patience with kids 14:33 drive stick shift 15:08 wrists and forearms (touch) 16:00 assertive nature (not aggression) 16:13 plays instrument Forehead kisses Nose wrinkles during laughing/smiling Intelligence (casual) Good oral hygiene (breath, gums, nose hairs, grooming habits in general) Drive in reverse with arm behind passenger seat headrest. In short, be confident and capable.

[@jdanon203]

Wow that's quite the list. Wonder how long the men's list for women is?

[@RahulGupta-ii9mz]

Thanku , u saved my time..😂

[@nitrotech4301]

​@@jdanon203prolly like 2 things Alive(optional) Girl(optional)

[@martabateman4241]

I think a man's list would be endless. But interesting.@@jdanon203

[@adrianscotter]

@@jdanon203 Turn up naked. Bring food. Job done. Men's list? 2 items.

[@Martin.093]

I'll start opening my Amazon packages with my teeth now, even if they're boxes

[@brianthesnail3815]

Probably not the bit where I start spitting bits of plastic and paper or trying to hawk them out of my mouth with my finger.

[@saintejeannedarc9460]

And there's the sense of humour we all love.

[@Shageta456]

I can already tell Courtney's having too much fun with this

[@CourtneyRyan]

I did have fun filming this one 😂

[@steveunderhill5935]

She dropped the ball on the insurance voice bum licking.

[@saintejeannedarc9460]

@hayleyandkilo Absolutely it does. It involves hands and the way men move that is masculine and so different from us. We love it.

[@Allan_aka_RocKITEman]

​@@CourtneyRyan>>> I think #34 was pushing your 'endurance' just a bit...😉

[@chriszvokel457]

Courtney, you never "ramble." That's a disrespectful term for what you do. You always expatiate thoughtfully on the topic at hand, with focused remarks, observations, and insights that are always germane and always appreciated.

[@CourtneyRyan]

This is so kind, thank you! 🥹

[@azrielsmith3167]

Not to be disrespectful, but she definitely does ramble. Such as going off on minute long tangents about why she decided to explain something this way instead of that way or include this and not include that in the video. Just say what you have to say and don't worry about trying to head off every criticism of your video as you're creating it. It didn't used to be that bad but over the last several months, it makes me skip the video a minute or two in every time. Let's see how I do with this one!

[@david2-v7t]

lol and she thanks you like she actually believes you......the ego lol

[@david2-v7t]

@@chriszvokel457 enough already lol

[@saintejeannedarc9460]

@@azrielsmith3167 Different strokes bud. We don't mind a bit. She sometimes belabours the point a bit, but that's usually a point that truly needs to be hammered on. We find it all endearing. Have some darn patience. You'll live longer and do better while you're living.

[@Jmaurice82]

Hi Courtney, I am a recently divorce male and I been following and watching certain channels to get back in the dating world. Your channel is very inspiring and helpful for both Men and Women. I mostly watch Male KZbinrs for advice, but I came across yours and you seem the most influential of the other Female channels to me. Thank you for helping both genders love your channel!

[@al1976-v7m]

About the smiling, it's also a cultural thing - in former Eastern Bloc countries women prefer a stern look.

[@Jack-su4sz]

Smiling in the US is normal in Eastern Europeans see it at as superficial. Biggest cultural difference .

[@saintejeannedarc9460]

Huge cultural difference. An American moved out there and he had to force himself not to smile at strangers like we do in N. America. It made him look like a goof and people don't trust it. Apparently smiles arent' given cheaply away. You reserve them for those you like and care about out there. That's apparently the way it's seen out there anyway. I'm Canadian, so smiling is a friendly social cue. It can make someone's day. I take it, or serve it up as a kind gesture of goodwill.

[@gunnaryoung]

Happiness is not communist enough I guess.

[@Harikejn]

Important things: 0:29 First Thing ÷ Hands; 1:08 Second Thing ÷ Opening Things With Teeth; 1:45 Third Thing ÷ Chopping Vegetables; 2:39 Fourth Thing ÷ Charismatic Voice; 4:04 Fifth Thing ÷ Being Charitable (but don't overdo it, cause some might abuse that); 4:56 Sixth Thing ÷ Cursing (don't overdo it, cause some of them don't like that, and it can be a sign of immaturity); 5:10 Seventh Thing ÷ Theater Lovers; 5:47 Eight Thing ÷ Hugs From Behind And Gentleness; 6:26 Ninth Thing ÷ Morning Voice; 6:51 Tenth Thing ÷ Showing Someone That You Care; 7:14 Eleventh Thing÷ Maintaining The Eye Contact; 7:41 Twelfth Thing ÷ Talking About Passionate Things That Are Admiring Us; 8:36 Thirteenth Thing ÷ Humor; 8:53 Fourteenth Thing ÷ Taking The Initiative (in positive way I mean); 9:26 Fifteenth Thing ÷ Very Attractive Clothes; 10:01 Sixteenth Thing ÷ Running Hands Trough A Hair; 10:10 Seventeenth Thing ÷ Witty Banter; 10:40 Eighteenth Thing ÷ Wearing Glasses; 11:04 Nineteenth Thing ÷ Beautiful Smile (some like that); 11:59 Twentieth Thing ÷ The Appropriate Way Of Showing Them To Think Of Us; 12:14 Twenty-First Thing ÷ Consistency; 12:39 Twenty-Second Thing ÷ Good Singer (or precise do the things that you do very excellent); 13:17 Twenty-Third Thing ÷ Some Some Imperfections Can Be A Turn On (let's call them that way); 13:52 Twenty-Fourth Thing ÷ The Way How Can People Eat Food (let's call it that way); 14:21 Twenty-Fifth Thing ÷ Showing Nurturing Side; 14:32 Twenty-Sixth Thing ÷ Showing The Way How Can We Be A Good Drivers (multitasking while driving safely, let's say it way); 15:07 Twenty-Seventh Thing ÷ Showing Wrists, And Forearms; 15:58 Twenty-Eight Thing ÷ Showing The Charisma, And Self-Confidence (let's call it that way); 16:10 Twenty-Ninth Thing ÷ Playing Music Instruments (or to be precise that we have skills in doing the things); 17:08 Thirtieth Thing ÷ Forehead Kisses; 17:22 Thirty-First Thing ÷ Showing That You Like Them (let's say it that way); 17:37 Thirty-Second Thing ÷ Showing How Intelligence Are We; 18:00 Thirty-Third Thing ÷ Showing The Grooming Habits; 18:32 Thirty-Fourth Thing ÷ The Way How To Drive Car In Reverse; and 19:22 to summarize all the told here. Additional thing I might add is Thirty-Fifth Thing ÷ To Know To Massage The Shoulders, Back, And Arms; Thirty-Sixth Thing ÷ Kisses In The Neck (and I agree, that you have told Courtney: "Do not kiss stranger". You can kiss the loved one's if there is a progress in relationship), and Thirty-Seventh Thing ÷ Giving A Compliment Through A Joke (some women do like that, believe it or not). That video is so funny, and I can agree with you Courtney (meaning I did find some funny things as well there) 😂😂😂😂😁😁😁😁👏👏👏👏👏👏👏. Thank you Cortney so much ❤💙🤍.

[@catholic3dod790]

She is lazy to write it.

[@Erick-di9gm]

Love the cliffs notes, thank you!!

[@Harikejn]

@@Erick-di9gm You're welcome. And thank you for your support as well.

[@Bloodcurling]

This guy does this to other videos

[@aakashnandi8202]

Thanks. You just saved me 20 mins.

[@ajaykotecha]

I have done what you have mentioned and I am still ignored by women in my city.

[@Evilbiscuit66]

Stop listening to her this is only her opinion. All women have different opinions. Be urself.

[@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121]

I recently started seeing someone who finds my enthusiasm for fragrances attractive. So the passion/hobby thing checks out

[@CourtneyRyan]

👏🏼 I can totally understand why! I like this about my husband too (partially because I’m also into fragrances 😂)

[@OriginalTodzilla]

Yes! I love that Courtney called out on #2 what I always say: "if she's attracted to you, it's a turn on to do _________". Yes, if the six foot, six oack abs, six figured mannwith the strong jaw and great hair tears open a package with his teeth hes HOT! But when the socially awkward, IT guy with ton of acne and bad breath does it, the woman won't be turned on. Just like im a near 50s, bald, bearded, slightly overweight guy who wears cargo shorts but can chop the hell out of vegetables, won't be turning on a woman anytime soon. I still tell guys, be a man even if no one is watching. Sure you may be totally invisible to most women, but it's still important to be a man.

[@briar35981]

Hell yea !! Thanks

[@saintejeannedarc9460]

Don't kid yourself. There's a 50's woman who is also not as slim as when 20, and she's going to think your veggie chopping is prime entertainment.

[@King_of_pics7]

Love this type of content. It brings a lot of reassurance to us men of some the small natural things that we do which often overlooked.

[@saintejeannedarc9460]

Definitely be reassured. For all those negaitve, or maybe even legitimate gripe videos you see from women, there's a much longer list than this that women are thinking or actively discussing that we love about men. Me and the girls, my mom, my aunts, friends, we've had these kinds of talks many times. And it goes on and on and on. It's not all gripes.

[@OpLanters08]

I think the most important thing is space. Woman/people in general love space. Some might and some do. When you give space emotionally and physically, it brings a form of security to people. Especially when they look uncomfortable. It will open them up a lot. I just wanted to share this because its helped me when I was dating when I was younger. I gave space to woman first then waited for them to approach me. My grandpa did this to my grandmother all the time. I think its what helped their marriage for so many years.

[@clarenceboddiker9559]

*womEn

[@FrankM]

Courtney reveals the truth about this list at 1:15. You have to be attracted to the person in the first place. As always, rules 1 and 2 always apply when it comes to women. Rule 1: Be attractive. Rule 2: Don't be unattractive.

[@TheDSasterX]

We get it. Attractive people are attractive. Can we maybe be just a teensy bit more constructive now? See this kind of comment in like every video and it's not helping anybody.

[@davidjackson6475]

@@TheDSasterX because that's all these videos ever tell us. It's always if you're hot do whatever; if you're not then you're fucked. In order for constructive criticism to happen you need to have something positive to base it on. Which these videos never give us no matter how insightful the title claims to be.

[@Danny328DT]

​@davidjackson6475 Internet loves negativity. I just learn to live with that and just do what makes sense logically.

[@TheDSasterX]

@@davidjackson6475 If you don't find anything of value in these videos 1) I'd say you're not looking hard enough and 2) why are you still watching them?

[@DEATHxTHExKIDx1]

Kinda feels like that. If you're attractive you pretty much have your foot in the door and can act like an average dude. Get away with a fair bit. But if you're not attractive you basically MUST have other qualities that boost desirability. I'm probably lookin at it the wrong way just my take.

[@christopherdixon2310]

Number 35 When a guy pulls out a Black American Express Card

[@briar35981]

Yep, with no limit

[@keithad6485]

Good singing voice, I have a buddy whose singing voice has prompted women to ask if he is married! He is a tenor with a voice like Pavarotti and about to start his career as a stage performer at a mature age. When he sings O Sole Mio, I get goose bumps every time, his voice is so powerful, yet soft, and he sings with emotion and passion!

[@kenroy916]

#23 is just objectively a turn on regardless of gender. ☺It's like you get a brief glimpse into someone's more authentic self rather than the one they present to others.

[@tiedngag]

One I am surprised was not on this list was a clean car / house since it shows they respect their stuff and know how to take care of something on a regular basis. I know it is something I look at when dating.

[@AnonymousProPublicaHakr]

Courtney, How are you not a therapist!? Your voice and your mannerisms are so calming for men. We trust your judgement and advice. You are the very definition of what men seek and want in life. The real men with good intentions. Thank you for your posts and I urge more women to follow your positive path and attitude. I think we all know eventually they will but it can’t come soon enough -❤

[@467076]

Because being a therapist requires about 6 years of school lol she has good advice on things regarding women, if she was an ugly woman you wouldn’t say that, y’all simp way to quick. The things she tells people not to do, you guys still do lol

[@AnonymousProPublicaHakr]

@@467076 please go back to 2X chromosome subs. You’re jealous. That is the response from somebody that is threatened by Courtney. But yet you’ll say something otherwise which is not the case.

[@familyengineering5591]

Courtneys not very smart. Not sure if you can tell

[@Danny328DT]

Therapy is not as straightforward as you think. Even mentally troubled men and women would probably drive Courtney off the rails. You really got to just take anything thrown at you. Props to anyone who can handle people with mental health problems.

[@AnonymousProPublicaHakr]

@@Danny328DT the poster or whatever it’s called that stated “ because she’s good looking “ doesn’t have much of a thought process we can tell. In therapy they called that trauma dumping. A person clearly has inner issues that we do not know about. But what we do know The assumption that I’m a man is just guess work. Also, just because one likes content doesn’t mean they actually find the person attractive or unattractive. Conclusion : that was just rage bait. Rage bait nine times out of 10 doesn’t make sense -

[@Joey21071]

There's always something off-putting to me about people who do charitable things for the attention.

[@keithad6485]

virtue signallers! look at me and what I am doing, I am so virtuous.

[@xyzzs520]

,,Driving a stick shift". My european brothers, lets move to America.

[@T-elegram-RealCourtneyRyan]

I wanna have a discussion with you ❤️

[@BradyAnderson-t3j]

You really do a nice job with the channel Courtney :) Keep up the great work

[@onetinsoldiergs]

Speaking of voices- I find your voice pleasant to my ears, feminine and musical.

[@bobafittness1346]

Keep pumping out this kind of content, Courtney. I’m listening to every single video.

[@samadams6487]

There has lately been an increase in content providers who are doing the same type of thing that you do concentrating on sexual attraction and sex generally and I must say that sexual matters is for people who are married. I totally totally find this objectionable but there is any discussion have sex involved with respect to dating as they are not married, furthermore comment number four was disgusting as well as unhealthy. Personally I thought Courtney was above reading a comment like that involving a different wording of the concept of tossing a salad. That kind of behavior is extremely unhealthy. Does anybody fucking know what E coli is. I'm extremely disappointed as well as shocked that Courtney would actually read that statement from item number four on that list. I'm extremely disappointed in you Courtney and you along with several other content providers have been turning more towards sexual matters rather than matters involving dating where you are evaluating people's character which is where everything needs to be concentrated on. Personally I think the concept of dating needs to be outlawed completely and marriages need to be pre-arranged by families until relatively recently meaning less than 150 years wherefore large swathes of the population in Western Society marriages were more or less arranged. We need to go back to that. You would have a much more stable Society.

[@sebikelifeusvetparatrooper]

SUPER SIMP SMH!!!

[@hopefulgeneration152]

"Singing is sexy." "Okay!" *proceeds to perform death metal vocals* "H-hey, where are you going? What did I do??"

[@-Tele-gram_RealCourtneyRyan]

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[@JennaMorrissette]

A lot of these are so true especially the oral hygiene and the hands when I first met my boyfriend now husband. Those were some of the things I was looking at. Also Fyi I saw you on Bumble Bff and swiped right!

[@Metatarsus0]

Do not underestimate the advantages of good grooming and hygiene! Besides improving your mood and self-esteem, other people (not just women) notice it. I've been complimented before on smelling good all the time despite working in a hot kitchen.

[@ajtaylor8750]

I think women just love when men do any skill at a master level. I had a woman I dated tell me she loved seeing me put together bookshelves because I made it look easy, and yes guys: one of women's favorite pastimes is watching a man build or fix things with his hands. They get turned on by it for sure.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Yes! So true! 🥰

[@Florida_gyrl]

I am a woman and I agree 💯

[@OriginalTodzilla]

@@CourtneyRyan But you still have to be attractive at some level. An old, bald, overweight man rebuilding a Harley in his garage by hand is super impressive, but isn't going to gain the interest of any women.

[@AKASHROY-i9f]

​@@CourtneyRyan❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@lightcraftnexus]

Huge variables to consider in the study on smiling & how many matches a male received. I say this because it has been my experience that women are attracted to (like men) people who will "ruin their life" - bad boy type stuff. The flip side to bad boy behavior is that it has an "edge" to it which typically is associated with the person getting what they desire. A "go-getter". When it comes to smiling there are many factors to consider such as: 1. The smile itself: Smiles in and of themselves are a form of communication and can transmit many different kinds of information about the person. Have you ever seen a broken smile from an insecure person? It can be almost painful to look at because you can sense all of their inner turmoil in that single smile (which they are trying to hide). A big genuine smile on the other hand transmits confidence and an ability to maintain a genuinely happy state. While this is all nuanced, I would make the argument that we are able to pick up on this slight ques very quickly and tell the difference. (Even if our conscious minds don't know why we feel the way we do! - attraction or not attracted) 2. It would also be interesting to put together a study with more genuine smiles and more insecure rigid "stern" facial expressions. The stern look applies similarly, in that a stern look can communicate determination and a lack of regard for any individual person (which is essentially a form of "abundance mentality"), or it can be a display of insecurity, fear, and emotional rigidity. It would be interesting to see what the results are and distinguish the genuine looks from the inauthentic looks (I.e. "trying" to look tough, as opposed to actually being so.)

[@-Tele-gram_RealCourtneyRyan]

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[@johnwren3965]

na, ugly smiles are ugly smiles lol... I feel like people tend to overthink things and in most cases the simple answer is the most likely one.

[@BALHAM69]

Happy Friday Courtney. i know you have a video like this already and winter isn’t a great time for meeting new women as it’s dark by four in afternoon 😅 What are great ways to meet women without online dating in 2024 would be good :) You know, meet girls the traditional way and not online 😊

[@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121]

Skating rink 👍

[@CourtneyRyan]

Hi my friend! I can do this!

[@nerifterafrnam4682]

oh hey ! it IS friday,, I forgot

[@good_to_be_gold8]

She’s so soft spoken. You give out this m aroma on here. I like it

[@thisdyingsoul76]

I like to think I have a strong moral compass. My father was like that and tried to instill it in us. He even went up against the city's team of lawyers to argue why their attempt to seize land from a block near downtown to make a parking lot was illegal... as an employee of the city on their town planning commission. He made the lawyers look foolish. In the end, I think what saved his job was that by doing this in the city counsel meetings saved the city hundreds of thousands in legal fees in court. In the end, they even named the street these residents lived on after my father. 😊

[@trentreffner5699]

"When they run their hands through their hair..." Bald men: "Is it as sexy to slide your hand across your scalp and make that window-squeegy noise?" :D

[@CourtneyRyan]

Heck yeah 😂

[@paulcunningham246]

I always associate "forehead kisses" as a loss of intimacy or feeling plotonic vs feeling sexual towards the other person. But well others obviously feel differently.

[@maj0rdave]

The forehead kiss thing made me laugh, I have a tendency to do that often as a sign of affection and the girl I had been seeing for a couple of months told me she didn't like them because it felt "parental"... I just shook my head in disbelief and laughed, cool, I just won't do it then.

[@nobodysperfect06]

One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him. He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Since women are always guaranteed attention or dating options because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention. A lot of guys hate and resent how nature and reality dictates that men have to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and do the pursuing but unfortunately there's no other way. Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women. He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long. Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past. Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel. Probably because women are just a guaranteed options and attentions for just existing and breathing or having a pulse but it's not true if you're a guy or a human male. Men have to learn all of these skills or behaviors or know how to talk and behave a certain way or act a certain way, women however since they play a passive role that doesn't require any learning or I just don't see how it requires any learning. But yeah I get very angry whenever people think men have it better than women do in dating

[@-Tele-gram_RealCourtneyRyan]

🤦‍♂️LETS DISCUSS ABOVE🤦‍♂️🛐

[@28yearsoldd]

Sounds like me. Im 28yo never had girlfriend. Its because of my introversion and unatractivness. If i was female i wouldnt be in same situation.

[@SanVic]

Courtney is right when she says women like guys who look stern (a-holes), instead of smiling guys (nice guys) on dating apps.

[@jaysoncotterill4534]

I totally respect cortney we should be thankful we got this lass to help us along the way

[@610kclaf]

The way you say “insurance” lmao

[@enderlionheart4497]

4:57 I'm about 95% sure they're talking about a scene from The Witcher where Geralt whispers "f*ck" under his breath when a situation goes from bad to worse. It's a meme format too.

[@thatHARVguy]

Hmmm...

[@aziouss2863]

I get a feeling you asked your husband to try 90% of these XD This video was awesome that kind of wholeness is so refreshing to see. I am so happy for both of you.

[@cycsportapparel3350]

I agree with all. I do not drink alcohol either. My friens all know this and there is never pressure. When it comes to not drinking, just make your Dec and stand on it.

[@wololo4761]

I bet Teddy loves knowing he looks "so cute" in his "little running shoes" 🤣

[@steveunderhill5935]

He sounds dreamy

[@davidbowman2035]

10:41 i commented on another video of yours about my lack of confidence concerning glasses, stemming from my time at school. It is something i am still working on in my late 40s.

[@Xutto80]

Wear a suit with the glasses. Women are drawn to that. I’m 44, 25 yr olds show me attention when wearing a suit and glasses. It’s not intentional on my part, just my church clothes. Add a huge belt buckle to top it off. Shoes and belt need to match in color BTW.

[@123SuperBeast]

I'm only 2 minutes into this video, and I'm going to guess most of these are secondary manifestations of competence, skill, or experience (which are all a short walk from confidence)

[@JasonHowes-y2t]

You can’t drive a stick car or truck. That is funny. I think there are a lot of people today that cannot do that. And your voice is great I think. I watch a lot of your videos just because you talk slow and smooth. It’s actually soothing. Everyone in these days is always in a hurry. It’s nice to see you talking slow and clear. Please keep up the great videos. We all appreciate your hard work.

[@RayRayReddington]

Your voice is great. Don’t change it at all.

[@mowgowal]

8:46 A long-standing female friend and I, after about a decade of friendship, developed a sexual relationship with each other for a short time. She was initially swept away by our romance, so she said, but was very non-committal. She once asked me why I thought that we were good together, so, I mentioned, along with other things, how much I made her laugh. She replied and I quote, "Yeah, I know they say all women want a man who can make them laugh, but I don't want that in my romantic relationships. I've never wanted that". In the end, she turned out to be a very toxic individual; a side of her she'd kept very well hidden from me for the entirety of our friendship and, eventually, I had to cut all ties. So, the moral of this story is, if any woman says they don't want a relationship with a guy who can make them laugh, find another woman! 😂

[@oliviao2238]

Us Women can be deceiving. However, there are nine questions you can ask that will hide your intentions, but those questions have to be peppered here and there over time, like six weeks or so

[@GalvatronTypeR]

She lied to you. It was likely that you were not very good sexually, did not satisfy her, and she reached and grasped for an excuse to make you go away. Also you wasted ten years of your life in her friend zone? You gave her attention and validation for free without getting sexual access in return? Please research the word simp and why women lack any respect for men who are simps.

[@geekiepooh]

​@GalvatronTypeR Sounds like he was just the fill-in guy, and just welcomed the things he did for her. But, she had no interest romantically from the get go. The offering sex after ten years, it was just her offering it because it's like the least she could do in return.

[@oliviao2238]

@@geekiepooh I think you are spot on in that thinking sometimes men will cater to our whim and demands, and I wouldn't say I like that it's off-putting and not masculine, but misleading a guy that long is insane and will have irrecoverable effects on him. You have to know the signs

[@rollingwithmoore]

I can’t sing well, but my friends will hype me up and that’s what makes them my friends. Even though I cannot sing, I can write scripts.

[@robertcounts5300]

13. If you can make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything. Marilyn Monroe 🤣

[@Nekromi34]

"The range here is pretty vast" after the 3 categories she lists are deep and raspy, deep, and raspy. Lmfaoooo fml

[@sameenfatima143]

Having a pure heart, a sense of innocence

[@cahlendavidson2921]

Fathers do not nurture. They prepare children for the world. They protect and provide. Mama can nurture

[@GregO0oo]

"Opening package with teeth..." O.K. 😆 😅 😂

[@weirdversions]

It's weird to me that she randomly says here and there "for this one she has to be attracted to the guy", but for some silly things she doesn't. Every single one of these is a turn on only if she is already attracted. 99% of the time, just as a girl sees you for the first time, she instantly decides if she would do you or not. And it's very very hard to change that. Your hands or the way yoy chopp vegetables won't make a girl want you if she finds you ugly 😂

[@-Tele-gram_RealCourtneyRyan]

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[@TheBubbeloo]

As someone who reverses car while looking 90% of the time to the sideview mirrors to see where the edges of my car are at, looking through the middle feels so odd :)

[@William-Gregory]

Appreciate your content. Thanks!

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thanks for being here! 🥰

[@TheCaster26]

Previously the advice was to " never trust a man in uniform".....specially Policemen and rank soldiers , thats not to say officers should not be carefully vetted....eg General Michael Thomas Flynn.

[@WalterKayesse]

Happy good Friday! Your voice is why I subscribed! Never change.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you! 🥹

[@WRPUS471]

I'm glad you realize that you need to come to the point

[@unbelievable-4u]

This is great! Knowledge is power. Thanks!

[@nighthawk20011]

Lol your comment about being attracted to first goes with every single one of these. If a woman isn't attracted to you, this list is as valuable as a non winning lottery ticket.

[@28yearsoldd]

True. 1. Looks and then rest of

[@harlandsylling9587]

And people tend to give Tarentino grief about liking feet. And according to most of these turn ons,women apparently have a thing with hands, and it's creeping me out

[@remc0s]

I am not ashamed of my foot fetish. We live in a world were people are being glorified and even have their own flag for being gay, so why should i be ashamed of being good at giving women foot massages?

[@Private-GtngxNMBKvYzXyPq]

Tearing things with your teeth in your 20s and 30s -> cleaning your dentures in your 50s+. Choose wisely. Respectfully suggested.

[@rlp4028]

Hey Courtney. Hope you and Teddy had a wonderful Thanksgiving. Thanks for the content as always.

[@CourtneyRyan]

You too! 🥰

[@AKASHROY-i9f]

​@@CourtneyRyan❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@DGolfer60]

This was a fun video and I also got a kick out of some of your expressions. Love your presentation and style too.

[@chronometa]

BuzzFeed? I thought they were bankrupt lol.

[@RPShredow]

I've been watching vocal coaches react to bass singer Geoff Castellucci sing "16 Tons" and I swear all the female coaches are turned on by it.

[@martabateman4241]

Really enjoyed that, I am a 70 year old woman who just enjoys all sorts of psychological subjects. But some of those were just funny, LIke reversing and throwing your arm over the headrest, lol.

[@Mr_Fairdale]

Guy eats apple in front of girl: "OMG the way he ate that apple 😍 " Guy tells girl about any hobby or interests: "OMG eww 🤮 "

[@Aerodos12]

9:13 is so important. The horrors that shed tears are the ones we don't prevent or stop when we possibly could.

[@mrcrhartman]

Teddy: "Why am I chopping carrots at 2am?"

[@CourtneyRyan]

Hahahaa 😂

[@LightsCameraJake]

Animals and humans are similar in that, there is a lot of basic instinct at play when it comes to attraction. People forget that. I most certainly hate when woman or men shame one another for following their basic instinct gender roles.

[@shanelouwerens7352]

You missed fixing stuff. My window wipers don’t work, the vacuum is stopped up again, the kids bike chain broke, my car service light came on, OMG can you help build jr ‘s school science project too? And my answer was always of course I can. Don’t tell my wife or son that these favors are the best memories ever. I still to this day look forward to my last child coming home from college and saying that his car is making some noise. Quality time and feeling needed is by far the best thing ever. Even if it just holding the flashlight while I work and listening to the adventures of youth. Thanks for the video

[@jasonfanclub4267]

glad to hear you like glasses, I get many compliments about sunglasses. But almost all women around me prefer without glasses

[@neboyshanicolich761]

My Girl says She loves when I talk to other Women while She's watching. Don't ask Me why...She's Toxic.

[@davidduff9871]

Thanks for your insights. You have some good ones here. I like your choices. Happy Thanksgiving. Hope you guys had a good day.

[@mysticstarhf9265]

It's not that easy to reach the passenger side headrest anymore with the barrier known as the aircraft carrier-sized center consoles they put in vehicles nowadays. 20 years ago, our old Lincoln and old Mercury Grand Marquis had a front bench which made snuggling while watching a drive-in movie lots of fun. You can't do that anymore with these center consoles; everything about them says 'keep on your side.'

[@mikekeathley1120]

"I don't know if I agree with that...but when I think about the way they use their hands...." This video in a nutshell. 🤣

[@genesultry6447]

OMG! Courtney, Big fan here...but, none of this matters if she's NOT into you. Everything on this silly list is predicated on physical attraction...Frankly, I'm surprised your bought into this superficial notion. It sounds like something your see in Vogue or Psychology Today lol

[@javi_314]

Lol the main thing I got is that Courtney loves hands

[@kimballestad4536]

AHHHHH I broke my little finger knuckle because I punched a wall and missed, and now it looks scuffed. Im screwed😂

[@angelacosta466]

I have a salaried job as a classical musician, I play an instrument for a living. I hope a woman will find it attractive.

[@chrisnewbury3793]

They will but they'll be the wrong women if they want you for your classical guitar skills. Trust me I played live music for decades and had my own band. It was too easy at times. And in the end, I didn't want groupies anyway.

[@SharifSourour]

One of the biggest things I do to stay young is constantly drinking clean water all day. I do this by boiling tap water and only pouring the top 2/3rds because fluoride concentrâtes to the bottom. This softens the water and makes it cleaner to drink all day. This reverses skin sagging and wrinkles.

[@familyengineering5591]

Just get an RO

[@SharifSourour]

@@familyengineering5591 this way is much easier and more practical than that!

[@ay_ay_ron2112]

I will guess the top 3 before watching 1. Very wealthy. 2. Very wealthy and 6ft+. 3. Very wealthy but Obese.

[@richardlewis1243]

There are two times I speak slowly, when I’m exhausted and when I’m furious. Not really throwing out vibes

[@dibari22]

There are weird things in the world that don't matchup with my lived experiences. I don't know a single guy who isn't a good cook, and damn near every single guy I know is a better cook than their wife/girlfriend. I also don't know a couple where the guy isn't a bigger clean-freak than the woman. This narrative that men can't/don't cook and women keep things clean is 100% inaccurate in my 44+ years of life.

[@dioxviad]

I swear I thought Teddy rambles

[@twilightgarrison3671]

Sadly a lot of the qualities of what makes a Man attractive is usually what alot of bad Men have…Women are so cursed because of this. Their own attractions get them in so much trouble.

[@carybaney2548]

Regarding the part about 'quirky' behaviors...I have experienced this and it is quite odd. I will give a concrete though made up example, which I believe will be more understandable.. Imagine a person you love, who has the quirk that they are terrified by a room number beginning in '8'. When going to a dentist you see he is on the floor of eight and say ' It's OK baby, there are basement levels so it is not the same.' And when taking someone you don't like to the same dentist, and she freaks out, and you think 'How could you possibly be this stupid, you pain in the butt?' Then say, 'Hurry up, we don't have all day.'

[@rollingwithmoore]

Holding a conversation is very hard, especially when you have ADHD because you are trying to focus on what she is saying but your mind is thinking of other things

[@anthonymartin9672]

Some of these really crack me up. It's funny the reaction we get for seemingly insignificant actions. Some movements or poses that women do without even trying can be very attractive as well.

[@EyeSurpri]

It's a turn-on when being kissed while you sleep.... unless you're home alone.

[@thatHARVguy]

👀

[@EnochPetrucelly]

I bet a lot of men send Courtney pictures of their hands 😂

[@TremelJackson]

Lucky for me I got that Barry White voice

[@great456789]

If you text a girl right after a date saying you enjoyed it and to text you when gets home - you will probably never see her again. Even if she did seem to like you. It’s better to tell her before leaving to text you when she gets home. Or better yet - say nothing.

[@poeticeclipse]

As a woman, you’re way overthinking this

[@jimgarland2653]

Thanks for sharing Courtney

[@myperfectworld27]

I agree with a lot of these! Being a safe driver is SO important and sexy! I once went on a date with a guy who drove like a maniac. It was a HUGE turnoff! Hugs from behind and forehead kisses are great! Glasses can be very sexy, depending on the guy. Hands and forearms are hot!

[@poeticeclipse]

This!

[@BourbonDrinker]

Men's list of turn-ons is significantly shorter.

[@cycsportapparel3350]

I've always been told the hand thing. I have pretty big hands and hairy forearms. I never got it, but I love female hands to, so i guess i can see it from that perspective.

[@MichaelPickles]

Charity used to be a charitable thing to do. But unfortunately it has been corrupted a lot of this money just goes into the hands of the middle man. Very little gets to the people intended. Which is why doing active things rather than just paying money as much better