Cptsd 3 Self- Defeating LIES That Keep You STUCK

[@prayerbears6743]

In one word, these lies keep us in EMOTIONAL LOCKDOWN...TIME TO COME OUT

[@davidhinkson8856]

Like that expression! Explains what I am in now.

[@itsall_coming_down]

This brought tears to my eyes....thank you so much. Healing is very painful after 5 1/2 years of severe verbal abuse and psychological abuse. You are amazing.

[@johnmcvicar1947]

'Subconscious learns by two ways, by repeated message and by emotion.' Repeated negative message coupled with negative emotional trauma rewires brain to adopt 'negative message' [false belief]. 'Only you will know when you are ready'.

[@Layla-fr7mf]

You are so beautiful and your entire aura and being is so healing just listening to you is soothing and does a lot to heal a person.

[@barryosullivan3428]

"Everyone has a plan until they get punched-"Boxer Mike Tyson

[@Missy_561]

Truth 💯

[@swanzilla1982]

I didn't even know I had C-PTSD Till I cut my family out of my life

[@FromSurvivingToThriving]

That's understandable. When they are in your life, so much time is spent on trying to make them happy or trying to understand what in the world is going on since nothing makes sense that often, it's not until you are away from all toxic relationships that you begin to see the damage that has taken place!!! It's like people at war - while in battle they feel fine because they are so focused on survival - it's not until they get home that they become aware of the symptoms and side effects of ptsd.

[@swanzilla1982]

@@FromSurvivingToThriving I got join your group .....

[@FromSurvivingToThriving]

@@swanzilla1982 You joined the membership? Awesome - I look forward to getting to know you better in the group!!

[@TheLordsbattleaxe]

C-PTSD became my default normal state without knowing I had it either.

[@markc8187]

Yep

[@bradmcewen]

At the risk of repeating myself, calm affirmations, positivity, vast knowledge and experience to topic, are key to connecting to a audience looking for progression. First class all the way.

[@Jayee9999]

I just turned 55 years old, have been working on Healing for over 5 years, and I’m still fearful of the things I want; getting married and having a family of my own including adoption. I want children who will look after me when I’m very old despite what some people say about children not caring about parents when they’re old. I don’t have the life I want yet either. I have had trauma and stress in the last 4 years due to my family turning their backs on me when I desperately needed help to keep from ending up losing my home and ending up on the street. Also, I lost my car, in an accident that wasn’t my fault. My family could have helped me, but they LITERALLY told me that I didn’t deserve any help. I have always worked and supported myself. I have always paid my own bills since I graduated from college. I was also shamed by a few people at church when I asked for help financially to keep from losing my house. To top it off, over 10 years ago, I got involved with the wrong man-someone who didn’t care about me-I was stalked and harassed by the girlfriend he kept hidden and lied and said he didn’t have. It was so traumatic and stressful to almost loose my home! For my family to turn their backs on me at such a critical time traumatized me in a way I can’t even explain. Through God’s grace, I was able to keep my house, get a car and have been gainfully employed for 3 1/2 years now, but I am still under tremendous financial pressure so I feel stuck in fight or flight and being hyper vigilant. . Having a good husband and reliable friends would really help, but I just cannot afford to be around people that aren’t safe OR reliable. Being vulnerable with people, depending on them just isn’t safe and is too shameful for me.

[@libs5382]

This is so sad you've been for so much. Sending my love ❤️

[@HappyHolyHealthyLife]

It's amazing how different life events create the exact same lies in different people. I can relate to everything you said! Thanks for making this video 🥰🤗

[@garycordle5295]

This is why we have a rear view mirror, don't look back at the past, look forward and stay positive.

[@TheLordsbattleaxe]

Loneliness is pretty heavy.

[@vhayashi7369]

You know what I have trust and abandonment issues now but I have never been as strong as I am now. I have rock solid boundaries and I don't tolerate Disrespect from anyone anymore. Happy being single and not being abused.

[@markc8187]

I´m still told by my parents that everything I do is not good enough. Low contact works fine, but I wan´t to cut them completely out of my life, they put doubt in me all the time.

[@mc7108]

Thank you so much

[@MM-qg5xh]

You are beautiful! from the inside and the outside!

[@Riversayram]

1. You are broken, you are damaged, therefore you are deeply unlovable. 2. You will have PTSD for the rest of your life and you will never heal. 3. Isolation - Isolating yourself from romantic relationships is going to keep you safe.

[@javeriaharoon7957]

This pink is looking really pretty on you!

[@joinmeindeppth]

I agree about time. Healing takes time. And I really notice changes after 5 years of individual therapy. Even if I still emotionally can react like "it's so hard, it will be with me forever", I am sure - something is changing. Slowly, but.. forever) It is not easy. Well, it was never easy. So it only can be better. Groop therapy also helps. When I train to deal with different people's reactions on me, and I see that now I can bear it - negative, positive. And stay with myself during communication with people.

[@baconsammich1]

I cannot say thankyou to you enough times....15 years of therapy......no therapist ever said this may be my problem.....GOD BLESS YOU MICHELLE

[@nealwailing3870]

Not everyone can be fully healed....

[@ghekdsu]

Allow n believe that u can. N YES you CAN. Keep healthy.

[@ai172]

This was absolutely helpful ,Michelle! I cannot thank you enough. And you are looking especially beautiful today:) Much love and light to you, sister🌸💞🙂

[@LisaSmith-yb2uz]

Thank you 🙏 so much for all of the critically important reminders!!! ❤️☺️👌

[@DoRiochta]

Great advice, Michelle 🌟 Thanks so much for sharing🙏🌺

[@johnpaul2285]

Wow! !Angel ! Thank you Are you flying out today? You are lighting up the room literally and the world needs to see you out there

[@izawaniek2568]

Dear Michelle I am so grateful for your immense help you are giving to me. Thank you. God bless you and your loved ones.

[@breakthroughmoment1647]

Beautiful lighting in this video. You look really pretty. Your videos are always inspiring and imbued with wisdom. We take in all of this knowledge, but we can only apply it in the field of relationships. Practice makes perfect.

[@TheLordsbattleaxe]

I don't even remember who I was before trauma.

[@silviagutierrez8219]

You always look so calm n sweet. I love watching u.

[@phoenixrising8007]

TY 4 shining your light 🙏

[@mjork1273]

This is upsetting! Gets so upset when these statements come in, where it is clear that there is no psychological background or competence to say what is being said. If a young child gets Cpsd, then they do not have the background you are talking about, and were not developed.

[@rebeccamiller2121]

Thank u so much for all the Knowledge!I have healed a lot but I’m still isolating so I’m getting there.

[@pikapunchgamer9532]

Thank you so much. I needed this video and didn't even know it!

[@getrudemwaura946]

Thank You 🌹🌹🌹 Awesome to know This 🙏🙏🙏💞💞💞

[@jonellis6235]

I appreciate your videos and information.

[@giovannagiustino5139]

Amazing, spot-on video...super informative & eye-opening...thank you Michele 🙏

[@kleomenis456]

It's a sickness of thoughts

[@ryangrundy4290]

Love the like to dislike ratio

[@nealwailing3870]

I was beaten up as a baby so I didn't change:It is me...

[@vhayashi7369]

I am so sorry, sending you hugs and prayers 💔💜 I also was beaten by my dad once when I was a defenseless baby. I don't remember thankfully but my Mom told me. I wish she didn't. One person who helps me more than anyone who was beaten up many times by his dad was David Goggins. Watch his videos on youtube, he helps people get their mindset right. He is a Powerful Amazing human being... He has achieved incredible things Against all odds against him. So Inspirational I can't get enough of his videos. They're helping me so much!

[@TheLordsbattleaxe]

Yes #2 is a big one for me.

[@TheLordsbattleaxe]

I do think I am messed up forever but I am not sure.

[@haitham5084]

Awesome earring michele

[@noracharles9366]

✡ Savage fan 💄🛍Miss Michele is so lovely 🌞

[@stevepd1]

Michelle, you're so dann cute, period! Oh, and smart too. Thanks for posting.

[@devilisbackk]

Michele ❤️❤️❤️ 🥰

[@KikiKiki-do1fr]

What if scars remain forever on your body as a permenant reminder?

[@hxjade5868]

Is isolating yourself caused by narcissistic relationships?

[@vhayashi7369]

Yep

[@TheLordsbattleaxe]

Talking positive about self might be pretty hard.

[@TheLordsbattleaxe]

Is C-PTSD even curable?

[@lizzmarie5386]

What is the difference between PTSD and CPTSD? I was diagnosed with PTSD a few years ago...I’ve never heard of CPTSD till now. What are the odds that I have that instead of PTSD?

[@katybee3891]

I think the difference is that ptsd is caused by one specific traumatic event and cptsd is caused by a lot of different instances which caused you to generally feel unsafe in a multitude of situations. You can also have both.

[@FromSurvivingToThriving]

Ptsd is often caused by a single traumatic event (car crash, assault, losing a child, etc.) whereas complex ptsd has many of the same side effects, only more since it is caused by long term chronic trauma that is repeated and ongoing. Toxic parents, emotional neglect/abuse, narcissistic significant others, bullying, etc. - cause complex ptsd. While cptsd is not currently in the DSM - The psychological and developmental impacts of complex trauma early in life are often more severe than a single traumatic experience-, in fact, many experts believe that the PTSD diagnostic criteria don't truly describe the wide-ranging, long-lasting consequences of C-PTSD.

[@nealwailing3870]

There are too many variations to be so specific....

[@getrudemwaura946]

Thank You 🌹🌹🌹 Awesome to know This 🙏🙏🙏💞💞💞