Cross Dresser interview-Amy

Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Amy, a cross dresser in Los Angeles.
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[@WES_5150]

By far the most female looking male cross dresser I have ever seen.

[@kthatrapqueen]

🤔😬

[@butterfly2604]

Absolutely however once he talks it's all over.😊

[@jojobee42]

Yes! I actually thought it's a woman who sometimes likes to dress up as a man ~ it's the voice that revealed he's a man!

[@anamericanprayer1967]

@@butterfly2604you took the words out of my mouth ❤ totally agree

[@jamescrowther1234]

The shoulders don't lie though, unfortunately.

[@Lulus-Regrets]

"I dress for my own male gaze" That is one of the most fascinating things I've heard: thank you for sharing your perspective and experience!

[@spiralvoid45]

its called Autogynephilia, there's alot of research on this topic. It's basically a sexual orientation, its like being gay

[@laureldaisysage]

​@@spiralvoid45no, gays are androphilic, meaning they like men. Autogynephiles are attracted to themselves, but as women

[@carlalaudicinaLFC]

This is my favorite interview. As an image designer starting out many years ago, I had one particular client who was a cross dresser. I helped him put together packages of beauty supplies from the salon I worked at. He was a local real estate agent. Anyway, there is a definite difference between a cross dresser, a person who does drag, a trans individual...guys who are straight who cross dress, I just think they are very artistic and that arouses them. My partner of 12 years is androgynous in style, but very masculine, sexually. Never doubt the masculinity of a gentle man. :) Lastly, in the 80s rock n roll scene, men felt the freedom to beautiful, even if they weren't gay. Artists

[@viewdemonde]

💯 Jagger… Bowie. Etc etc etc

[@prozierozie5692]

Bowie was bi though lol

[@aninanikin]

Thank you so much for this interview, Mark. Amy speaks for all of us crossdressers (I am one). 💖 Amy's statement "I dress for my own male gaze," hits the spot and resonates with me and I am sure for many other fellow crossdressers out there. 🤗 The simplest way to put it is that we are such big fans of feminity & women that we want to look like one & embrace our feminine side. I am not gay nor attracted to males & I am married too (but unlike Amy, I have to keep this secret). Stay gorgeous, Amy, you have a beautiful soul ❤️ Xoxo

[@laurarebb6923]

I love you, as a human being. It’s ok. Truly. ❤

[@eljj7968]

When I was a teenager I used to work in a high end department store and we had a regular who would come and buy women's shoes. He was a straight older guy, happily married to a woman and totally open that he was a cross dresser. This was 15 years ago and I feel like a little less talked about, but honestly no one blinked an eye, he was a nice guy and a good customer.

[@kanstrand]

There’s a really cool guy who’s page on IG I stumbled upon who is a cisgender male, married to a woman, and dresses in skirts and high heels from the waist down but as a man from the waist up and he models and he legit looks amazing, it’s not my thing but if it makes him happy I think more power to him :-)

[@trgiun]

What is the reasoning usually? I can’t understand it unless there is a clear sexual reason. Like, that’s it. There’s no other reason to do this

[@eljj7968]

@@trgiun Can't say I ever asked him why lol, but it really doesn't matter.

[@parkerposey8155]

A man who just explained why I still have clothes from highschool 35 years later. I'm really glad he has a supportive family/friend base. And his wife is a good person. I'm really happy for them!

[@hannahmitchell87]

Seems like a sincere, gentle, thoughtful person. Very attractive inside & out & rocks the feminine vibe way better than me! A Part 2 with masculine presentation would be fab cause I'm struggling to picture him as a skater dude (which I hope is a compliment). Huge respect to you for living your life YOUR way X

[@gamingbros-tk3tm]

I would love to see an interview with his masculine self but I understand that if he did do that interview it would put his true identity out there. He has stated that not everyone that knows his male side knows he does that but I hope once he's more open to everyone that he would agree to do an interview.

[@brooklyn5793]

He is really pretty…interview with his wife would be fabulous!

[@KQDYMagallaz]

Amy looks 100% passable, until he opens his mouth BUT LOOKS 100% SO GOOD, and hes so happy, so thats fantastic

[@beakamon]

Right just one of those pretty men! Lol

[@ninaki80]

Particularly loved watching the switch between the nervousness and the excitement of it being ok to do what you enjoy. The change in body language during the interview was such a pleasure to watch. Great interview

[@user-cu7mt3iy1e]

I'm Ana, 71 years old, and I've been Crossdressing for over 5 decades .In my experience, Amy is a typical CD, a little closeted, which is common in CDing. A conservative count is 1 in 10 males crossdress.Most CD's are Heterosexual not Gay. There is a difference between drag queen and crossdressers .It is too different self-expression. Amy was very open and honest in the way she expressed her Thank you, Mark, for this interview Respectfully Ana ⚧️☯️☮️

[@Aquabob1]

I bet you look like a 71 year old dude in a dress…….

[@hairyape3935]

If most are alledge heterosexuals, how do they approach women? In dresses? Or are they like most men who live outside the nor.: I will tell her later after she gets to know me?

[@magicdamage8900]

​@@hairyape3935What a loaded question. Thanks for your contribution. 🙄

[@user-cu7mt3iy1e]

Just depends on the person it could be all 3 ways of the questions you ask . Thank you for asking Hope this answers your questions Ana ⚧️☮️☯️

[@MariaCascalheira-sh9eq]

❤😊

[@Itchitesticleez]

People like this exist. I loathe the fact we make people feel shame for being authenticly themselves.

[@jarellgaddy8587]

There is nothing authentic about a man dressing up as a woman.

[@AbeeraImran-sj8gz]

the sudden "is your mom very attractive?" made me burst out laughing.

[@crazycatladyjo2688]

Kinda reaching there. lol

[@kell-yh4ec]

Well usually men look like their moms so

[@Daveortiz693]

@@kell-yh4ec😅

[@shannonsmith2642]

@@AbeeraImran-sj8gz mark trying to to get a date.

[@kell-yh4ec]

@@Daveortiz693 its true a good amount of men have prettier features than women naturally thats why women do lashes, makeup and sometimes nose jobs, shave down their chin/jaw because they look like their dads. Women tend to look like their dads.

[@dawnatilla2469]

this man is hot and despite looking amazing as a female...his hotness as a male (internal/external) is also shining through. Well done A!

[@viewdemonde]

Yes, it does! I bet he’s just as cute as a man.

[@jean55547]

he is hot 🔥❤ and without the makeup and dresses he soo cuuuute n hottie 🥰

[@cosmic2591]

absolutely 😁

[@zeo3947]

@@jean55547does he have any social media we could follow?

[@ashby4211]

I wish he had done this interview with his wife. I wonder how different it would have been.

[@millasboo]

Ehh she I believe as certain cd’s transition into the gender they wear

[@ow3wells]

You would be surprised., some women don’t care, I watched a documentary where a physician cross dressed to relax after work, his wife of 35 years didn’t care.

[@LeileeBaker805]

Why do polygamous couples get married?🤔

[@leneo1731]

If you love a person, you love them no matter what. To have a partner who cross dresses would be my least concern! I see these partnerships as so incredibly beautiful because these people obviously see beyond the exterior and care about what's really important, meaning what's inside a persons heart. To be allowed to be totally open but still being loved unconditionally is what very few of us experience.

[@AI3Dorinte]

@@LeileeBaker805 for the economical / medical benefits?

[@ijustagirl74]

I like the fact he says he is a man and feels like a man,he just likes dressing up...He has a gentle feminine side and he suits it .I bet he looks like a good looking man,and pulls off dressing feminine.I wish Rebecca could live like this.This man is comfortable,gentle and his has supportive loving wife and mother,siblings..He has manarisim when talking similar to Elon musk,

[@dawnatilla2469]

good points.. esp. re: Rebecca..wow...I wish the same!

[@e8ghtmileshigh1]

Gay men and straight men dress up like women for completely different reasons.

[@kellivincenzo5410]

Agree Pretty when CD... Very good looking man

[@fruitloopbabe91]

I guess it shows the difference a stable, well off and privledged upbringing can make in a person...I would love to see Rebecca having the support needed to maintain mental health. I dont think mark constantly saying youre not transgender helps...

[@carlalaudicinaLFC]

He's just reiterating to make sure with the subject at hand. It's not antagonistic.

[@HotPenny82]

Such a lovely soul. I love Amy’s energy and manner of speaking. Was a wonderful watch. Thank you for sharing of yourself Amy, and thank you ☺️to you as well Mark!

[@jadedmonk7001]

Amy's mannerisms and overall body language are extremely graceful and feminine. Not to mention their natural beauty. I'd never guess that they were, in fact, a biological male.

[@Anonymous-cg7od]

Bs

[@WHAT_THE_F0XX]

​@@Anonymous-cg7odyour comment is BS

[@Anonymous-cg7od]

@WHAT_THE_F0XX how? You can see the blokes breastless chest, 'never would have guessed' btw

[@Silversmoke1000]

Until he opens his mouth. :)

[@maverickbull1909]

Well he’s been cross dressing since he was 7 so I would expect that

[@reneebrown55]

I love how he is embracing all of himself rather than allowing society to dictate what parts are acceptable to express

[@TheScotian82]

F that. Shaming is what kept things mostly sane and decent. What you do effects others, remember?

[@FlockOfYahweh]

He’s expressing outwardly his p0rn addiction which gradually overtime manifested into this

[@sugarsore]

​@@TheScotian82There are no positives about shame. It only keeps people unhappy. This man is causing no harm by doing this.

[@ktrain-hj6jm]

@@sugarsoretrue. Shame is not just “shame on you” when someone does something wrong, or feeling shame when we’ve done something bad. I think certain shame is appropriate and necessary but not when someone is being who they genuinely are and not harming others.

[@sugarsore]

@@ktrain-hj6jm Shame is never appropriate. Guilt may be appropriate in some cases. Shame is the belief that "I am bad." Guilt is the belief that "my behavior is bad."

[@D.H.-mg2cz]

Mind you, centuries ago or in in other cultures men dressed and dress far more colourful, with frills and lace and precious jewelery, wore wigs, heels, make up, often more colourful than women at the same time. Times & cultures change.

[@millasboo]

Yep . Like they like what they like

[@yourfavoritenetcitizen6525]

Right. 17th century French aristocracy.

[@kristenharden3157]

I don't care what people wear but you are exaggerating.

[@autumnnoelle5221]

@@yourfavoritenetcitizen6525 yeah look now the Olympics are a joke!

[@shondra6]

Yes they did in fact. 👍🏻

[@fernandocalifornia]

Deeply interesting, thanks for sharing your story and shine some light into a world many don’t know (and therefore judge).

[@JackieW-hb7zt]

I want to know more about the dominatrix, the wife, and the polyamorous lifestyle! Bring him back with his wife, Mark!!!!!! Or the dom! Lol

[@parisa5014]

Why did this person do the interview if they were going to be such a liar!? I found his socials, first of all he is NOT "straight" by any means! His dominatrix "girlfriend" is another crossdressing MAN with a HUGE **** and they make onlyfan videos together. Also, this person definitely seems transgender judging by the photos on his socials, I guarantee in less than a year he will start transitioning. Also, he HAS to be rich because there's no freaking way after seeing his socials a wife would ever go for this at all, looks like he spends an EXTREME amount of time on all of this and that his dominatrix BOYFRIEND also takes up most of his time. His socials are also just so gross, he clearly developed some sort of mental issues from watching all of that disgusting sissy hypnosis stuff online.

[@kaliblue]

Dominatrix isn't anything special just another pr-stitute

[@olivialerat2027]

The IG of the Dom is house of iris. She makes good content

[@kaliblue]

@@olivialerat2027 for a service top

[@Ohhhwehere]

@@olivialerat2027thanks! yea it looks great

[@GCzene]

I knew a deeply closeted, deeply conflicted CD'er. I wish so much that they had the self-acceptance that Amy has.

[@andrewburchett5028]

I looked at the thumbnail and thought, "she dresses like a dude?" I clicked on the video and heard the voice and thought, "OOOOOOOHHHHHH" Hahahahaha. Anyway, He's got bigger balls than 99% of dudes out there. Cheers!

[@SlavesWereGood]

No

[@GIZREED]

Playing dress up doesnt make you brave. Wtf are you talking about

[@andromedaspark2241]

​@@GIZREED​ They're only clothes. You only look down on men wearing women's clothes if you look down on women, because we wear traditionally men's clothes daily. There's a reason why a lot of women are not bothered at all by his clothes but some rather brittle men are. Interesting that this bothers you.

[@quietatse]

😅 Yeah, I thought I'll be seeing the reverse uno card

[@bentheredonethat-lx6nh]

@@andromedaspark2241 This goes for the Female as well. I discriminate against no one. A woman is to be a woman, just as a man is to be a man.

[@fernkitty]

The thumbnail and b&w segment almost don't look like the same person. Interesting how different angles can do that.

[@johnnyutah6056]

I feel like that al the time, it might be the b& w images

[@xdranzer0004]

And lighting

[@LadyBooger]

Mark's thumbnails usually look more harsh I guess it's more compelling.

[@baileyslife3469]

I’m glad the comments are as accepting as I am , he’s not tryna become a woman , he’s not mentally unstable and wanting to masochise his body , he just like to feel pretty and it’s a kink obviously .. he’s not hurting anyone , he’s open honest kind respectful, .. I love when ppl can be there authentic selves

[@prozierozie5692]

Changing your body IS your authentic self

[@janetpersons7647]

Thank you Amy. So mellow. Super chill. And thank you for keeping it cute and classy in your interpretation of us women. Much appreciated.

[@misacruzader]

He seems to be on the verge of tears for the entire interview, voice shuddering. He must be terrified to be revealing this part of himself, but he should have no shame. He's absolutely gorgeous. I have an ex who was such a pretty man and I remember he told me he was ordering a maid outfit and I got so excited, but he never wore it for me. I think there's a separation, secretive, private element to being a CD.

[@revolutionary_evolution]

Wow... He's beautiful. Simply stunning! Love love love your makeup. You did such an excellent job. Can't say it enough... GORGEOUS. 💖💖💖

[@TheScotian82]

🤡💩🫡

[@badcassandra2915]

I feel like he has a lot of anxiety. He sounds so hesitant about everything

[@catherinepraus8635]

Do you blame him

[@nellyfarmer3053]

He’s also a little breathless because his corset is so tight.

[@badcassandra2915]

@@nellyfarmer3053 yes, that could be part of it

[@dawnatilla2469]

nah..you are def misreading...an anxious man does not come out on the internet as a crossdresser and discuss personal life details in front of the snake pit that is KZbin comment threads..it takes balls and reserve..inner strength. What you are hearing is a slight vocal fry. he appears quite relaxed.

[@JackLalane-yt4iu]

Excellent psychological diagnostic assessment 🩺.

[@mariechosgaire6984]

He looks 100 times more of a woman than I do. People think I am trans and it's awful. Fair play to him.

[@crazycatladyjo2688]

I'm sorry.

[@margaretwebb389]

I am sorry to hear that! Give them the finger! We are so judged!

[@julieharden8671]

I am so sorry.. Some people suck

[@kanstrand]

When i had really short hair, i was called sir and him all the time, it really embarrassed me - like my boobs are huge, how would anyone think I’m a dude? LOL

[@pottymouth9891]

This is what people mean when they say transphobia hurts EVERYONE. Including cis-gender people.

[@sn1000k]

Can't believe people can't believe he's straight. I'm a CD and it's kind of all about appreciation for women. I'm not gay in the least. It's just, like he said, liking looking different ways. It's fun.

[@annikajohansson9171]

As a woman, I'm attracted to him lol

[@JenniferKowack-m5e]

Such a beautiful person! His soft spoken voice had me in a trance. Very beautiful as a woman. Would loved to have seen him dressed as a man. Hope to see Amy again. Great interview! 🫶🏻

[@margaretchiotti]

How great that he can be himself. And how fantastic he has a wife that can support his freedom. That it is true love. ❤

[@chaos-fk6fs]

Perfect example of a „normal freak“. Love the channel for humanizing different life styles.

[@user-rw8rc3yp9d]

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

[@leneo1731]

What defines normal these days, really? And is it really a goal to be normal? The way I interpret normal, it's boring because normal means people are all the same. I don't want to be normal or regular. I want to be original and stand out!

[@sonie4208]

Just a thought but If you loved humanizing people and the work this channel does, I don’t think you should be calling anyone a freak. At the end of the day, people are just that, people. Normality is a societal construct and not everyone fits into a box. That doesn’t make them a freak, it just means they’ve lived a difference experience you don’t understand.

[@chaos-fk6fs]

@@sonie4208 you clearly don’t understand the meaning of „“. I already registered that some try to twist my words but I’m not for games like that. We are all normal in the same way like we are all freaks no matter where we come from or how we look that’s exactly the point I was making.

[@southphillylilly]

@@chaos-fk6fs you can say what you want, but calling somebody a freak has never had positive connotations. I'm sure if you were to call Amy a freak to her face, it wouldn't be appreciated.

[@FLBeautyQueen]

As long as she doesn’t speak, Amy definitely passed as a beautiful young lady⭐️❤️💕

[@liivikasaarman995]

Except hands - gestures are gentle but hands hint the guy who goes gym

[@BILLBRAZIL100]

Body language is my thing and he can tells me a lot . He kept his legs crossed in the same position the entire interview. His hands always in contact (only) over his right thigh. The eye contact (only ) happens when Mark asks him questions. He is the only interviewee that keeps the same body position the longest. I watch every video here and Annalise body language. I have never seeing a crossdresser looking like a female naturally . For everyone out there be happy no matter what your decision may be in like . Be yourself don’t get hurt and don’t hurt others . Peace and love

[@Amazingme17]

Interesting. From what I'm seeing is him being in touch with his femininity.

[@livesofluxuries]

What does it tell you.. not sure what you’re saying. To me he’s just nervous. Like he said he only does this in private sexual settings. Never out to public. This is a 5 million viewer subscriber channel on KZbin.

[@blakasmurf]

@@livesofluxuries Yeah I don't get what they were exactly saying either. But I think @Amazingme17 is right they've definitely practiced feminine body language add on top of that nervous it's like he's fell into his femininity even more. Most guys would probably be arms folded, legs down but not too far apart. He's sitting in with a feminine crossed leg and hands together in lap for over 30 minutes so there's that

[@hannahmitchell87]

What are you interpreting from the body language you described? Also, do you watch the Behavioral Arts? Highly recommend!

[@dotsylvain1094]

Maybe he was nervous, dummy

[@mrgoosyloosy]

Getting Ariana Grande on is impressive!

[@toosmartforu]

reallllll

[@BrittneeAlexus]

lololol

[@ItsMePat-s9s]

FR 😆

[@HiGlowie]

@@mrgoosyloosy this dude is easier to listen to than Ariana Grande

[@sublime7480]

Lmao

[@SoldierOfLoveForNow]

Why is he is so GORGEOUS ??

[@Србомбоница86]

He isn't ??maybe it's a western culture thing but omg no ,he isn't pretty

[@zeo3947]

@@Србомбоница86look at yourself in the mirror before talking on someone else’s looks please

[@Србомбоница86]

@@zeo3947 well I am pretty to myself

[@user-fr2hv3ip6f]

I almost find the comment board more interesting than the subject. The fact that other people can have such an emotional reaction to a man wearing women's clothes just shows that the "weirdness" is not confined to Amy. If the topic was someone who liked to wear tuxedos to casual events or dress up in Halloween costumes every two weeks, it's hard to imagine the same level of vitriol that some commenters have here. Also interesting how many people need to insist he is gay, like it eases their cognitive dissonance to put him in this box they've set up. I would think it would be a lot easier to admit you're gay in this day and age - indeed, "A Gay Man" wouldn't begin to make the cut for this channel...

[@miroz5824]

*Thank you* for this comment!

[@user-fr2hv3ip6f]

@@lvr8429 See, that is really interesting to me...of course one can distinguish the difference, but the point is that one invokes a strong emotional response in some people. When you say "can't distinguish," I suspect you mean "don't have a strong emotional reaction" between the two...in which case yes, I hope it does speak volumes about me.

[@crazycatladyjo2688]

I know. Right? I have always heard that most cross dressers are straight but who that isn't related or married to them cares?

[@Ichthys42]

​@@user-fr2hv3ip6f it speaks to a corroded sense of decency.

[@robliguori6988]

I appreciate this guy s openness and honesty. I respect it.

[@jumanaalomary7895]

I don’t know if it’s just me but the way he talks is very peaceful and feels safe. I can listen to him all day

[@Dinah92]

It’s interesting he said he had a lot of anger issues and one would never pick up on that. He said doing this helped him with that. I think there is more he is not saying and it would be nice to see what his wife or girlfriend of 1 year has to say if he is open to that. He is a fascinating person. Also what he does for work. Thanks Mark again for finding someone unique to interview.

[@ericspeltier]

It's important that people hear that you CAN be a CD, and, simultaneously hetero. Thank you for opening up.

[@kimpacker1632]

I love how his tattoos peak thru the sheer shirt. He looks great!

[@wesleyalan9179]

Very cool. I'd like to see him back in his male form for an interview. Thanks, Amy/ Mark🤘

[@LisaJohnson-dx1dp]

So like, do you like, really like, the way he like, talks? haaaahaaa

[@wesleyalan9179]

@@LisaJohnson-dx1dp Like... totally 😅

[@TheScotian82]

wellll maybe not "very" cool....

[@wesleyalan9179]

@@TheScotian82 Well, I say very cool to just about anything, lol

[@WorldInformerGuy]

this dude seems super chill

[@Gingerblaze]

Almost hypnotised.

[@Onemillionbucks]

Honestly he's gorgeous and doesn't look awkward or unattractive in this interview at all!

[@maryandrews2265]

Amy - Thank you. That was such an honest and interesting interview. And you’re beautiful. Enjoy your life sweetheart!

[@Ezada]

This is a wonderful interview. Thank you, Iris, for mentioning it on your page.

[@anacc3257]

3:14 That direct question😂😂

[@sableallison7685]

omg this is so relatable to my experience! Honestly this gives me so much validation. My particular motives for crossdressing and the way I've integrated it into my life are very much like what this person is describing. I'm not trans or gay, I'm simply a crossdresser, and yes there is a sexual component to it, and it's absolutely ok. I'm also around the same age. So cool to find some accurate representation, makes me feel a little less like a freak.

[@fionarobins4958]

In the 4yrs ive been watching Mark's channel ive never felt confused when seeing the thumbnail for an interview until today,as i saw amys picture in the thumbnail ithought "how can a woman be a crossdresser???🥴&then as the interveiw started&amy opened her mouth to speak it hit me,"crikey how can a man look so much like a girl". Id love to see what Amy looks like as a dude,i have so much respect &admiration for anyone who is living the way they want to,Thank u Mark for introducing us to another unique individual.....😊💜🫶🇬🇧

[@user-pr8ib1sh8v]

Thought it was a beautiful girl until he opened his mouth and a man’s voice appeared.

[@nme.00104]

did too,

[@shibby1998]

does not negate the fact they is beautiful

[@DARKINBLADE.]

@@shibby1998Actually it does.

[@anacc3257]

@@DARKINBLADE. A little.

[@SW107love]

He is a man what do you expect!!😂

[@janetpersons7647]

In the early 80's I had a nail salon and two of my clients crossdressed. They were not gay and were married with kids. Both had wives that were fine with it. They crossdressed periodically and I did the long nails for them. One told me he enjoyed it as a stress release. He was a successful businessman. Your guest reminds me of them. Just kinda chill low key doing it. Androgyny used to be like that too. People just did it. It was artsy and interesting. And of course the glam rock hair bands. They pushed the boundaries.

[@glenda4utoo]

80's bands were all cross dressers

[@skryp2415]

This really isnt abnormal...and its not new..outfits are fun and makeup is art ..its creative and fun and you can feel free...we all live one time..do what ya want

[@Groundedsquirrel]

Women are “allowed” so much more freedom in how we adorn ourselves with fabrics, metals, paints and locks. I often feel I’d be jealous of all that freedom were I male.

[@mommapancakess]

I respect that he admits that it's a sexual thing! I don't respect that other people try to get him to go out in public doing/wearing what he himself considers to be a sexual thing. It's not okay for society to push people to do what those people consider to be sexual in public. This opens the door wide for autogynephilic behavior in women's spaces. Be careful what you wish for ladies. No everyone is as respectful and lovely and honest as Amy.

[@njlauren]

Oh, please,stop it. Autogynophelia as an explanation for trans women is bunk, pure and simple, it is terf nonsense to try and demean them. Amy is a fetishistic CD, which is fine, but don't use that to try and justify trans phobia, it is bs.

[@gbrooks_1187]

Amy was nervous, but they did amazing . It's a process to live happily. Its worth it though.

[@roode8413]

Really enjoyed this video. It would be great to see a video with his transformation from start to finish

[@TheScotian82]

yea wouldnt that be nice to experiment with a guys life for your entertainment

[@SoftWhiteUnderbelly]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/qXrXfYKBZbyLhqcsi=y1HmJ5kkLMH9hefe

[@NLin-fx8ib]

He does not hurt anyone with this. He is super lovely. Live and let live.

[@gaelmacpherson7392]

Melbourne Australia had the Seahorse Club mid 1980's for cross dressers. I had friends with boutique clothing business. They developed a good relationship with group. Fashion parade with wives and girlfriends.

[@ziggy8757]

I dont sense a strong conviction when he says hes not gay.... hmmm

[@avalondreaming1433]

He seems extremely frightened.

[@OKBoomer2k]

I'm sure having a camera on him adds to the uncomfortable feeling.

[@millasboo]

⁠@@avalondreaming1433no i doubt that more likely she’s trying to find herself fully. They’re a CD so she might be trying figure out if she wants to continue being a cd

[@jimmyjump8335]

he aint dudein too hard with those eyebrows

[@Emzzz78]

@@millasboohe*

[@izzydeadyet7336]

I had my kids with a man who dressed in women’s underwear under his clothes.. otherwise no one would suspect it of him.. I used to think it was funny I could find women’s underwear in his drawer and not worry he was cheating but that they were his! And he always does a 360 when a well dressed woman walks by, because he’s checking out the outfit! But he’s almost gotten his ass kicked by men because of it

[@ColinPatrickWeiss]

would be funny if he was playing 4D chess, and cheated all the time and loved to steal every one of his affairs undies and sniff them after the fact and you bought this story of his. lmao.

[@Idiot-lf4cj]

maybe I am prejudiced: hard to believe, that it is only the underwear??? underwear is more like a symptom, hint that there is more? just curious to ask!

[@Goddid7733]

bro....

[@candieland4276]

um...you know he's gay, right!?

[@user-rw8rc3yp9d]

seek mental help

[@spiralvoid45]

it's nice to see interviews like this, Amy seems like a really chill and down to earth person, we need more gender-bendy people like this doing interviews to help remove the shame and stigma of feminine males. There's nothing wrong with it. Keep being YOU!!

[@tinerea7464]

I feel there is something a bit off here. Hes not being completely honest about something. 🤔🇨🇦

[@millasboo]

Why the Canadian flag?

[@kristenharden3157]

I agree

[@fireflyflyhigh]

​@@millasboo 🇩🇪

[@k-lashnikova0078]

@@millasboo😂😂 for real

[@ahley333]

you sound prejudiced,, he just sounds uncomfortable. i dont imagine its easy talking about this with some normal guy i also doubt they have much in common

[@suestoll9571]

He looks really pretty and I like his style. This seems normal and fun to me. He's not trying to body modify and not even gay. Love him! ❤️

[@pswer1600]

Bring on the girlfriend and wife with him in an interview.

[@terrytownsend5583]

All naked

[@PRODCARMINE]

@@terrytownsend5583Yerp. On foenem

[@SoldierOfLoveForNow]

Right i wanna see them

[@mikeolly67]

This is confusing. So he says it is sexual but he’s not gay, he also says it’s visual. So I wonder if it’s like he’s creating in himself what he finds attractive in a woman? If I just saw a picture, I’d never guess this was a man. He’s not hurting anyone and seems very level headed, so it’s not anyone’s business .

[@nessal4078]

I don’t think he’s gay. Sexuality is really different in everyone and it’s not a new thing I’m 37 and growing up we had a family friend in his 40s who was a cross dresser but completely attracted to women. It’s self expression and sexuality

[@millasboo]

@@nessal4078exactly it might just be a self gratification type of sexual thing more so gynophilla as they’re grossly attracted towards the feminine aspect of their bodies and others. Amy is gorgeous and they do their makeup very well.

[@akhiltrc9708]

I think the label is Autogynophilia.

[@kthatrapqueen]

He's an autogynephilic

[@0remor]

He mentions it being for his own male gaze of the ideal woman.

[@salepass1575]

If we are okay with women wearing pants, so why men cant wear dresses?

[@kellianderson9890]

Yes, many women dress in men's clothes. I love to be feminine and wear dresses, etc. - but, I also, enjoy a good simple masculine outfit. Still waiting for an event to wear a tux!

[@SoldierOfLoveForNow]

Double standards ,Hypocrisy, mixed with delusion

[@mariaportas5401]

When women wear pants I don't think they get sexually aroused

[@Noobkaibot]

How did this joke go over both these peoples heads? Good lord.

[@dime4026]

Hi Amy. I hope you find happiness and joy in your life.

[@Gram820]

Says his wife is very 'lovely', his mother is 'lovely' and his dominatrix girlfriend is 'lovely'?

[@JustDatBoi]

Wife’s bf? Lovely

[@simplymoonchild3908]

@@JustDatBoi......😳

[@SoldierOfLoveForNow]

😂 😂 Threw me off 2 😂😂

[@user-gv5jq7uz3m]

He is really in love with himself, spends way too much time as his perfect woman. No one else has room, beyond 'lovely''; - accommodating to him as the pretty 'her,' and all his narccissm.

[@gabbygirl7765]

im willing to bet we are missing the whole other half of this story.

[@parisa5014]

YEP... I am dying to hear from his wife! Look up his socials, he lied about the extent of all of this to such an extreme. It is not what he painted it out to be.

[@mascottie]

@@parisa5014what did he lie about? What’s his social media accounts? I don’t know his name

[@thatswhatsup0493]

​@@parisa5014 how'd you find his socials? How do you know he lied ? 😮

[@Ginger_Popp]

@@parisa5014whaaaat? Where are the socials? Spill the tea!

[@parisa5014]

@@Ginger_Popp also he has a "sissification" fetish, this is not simply a crossdressing thing. He calls himself a "sissy". If he is straight I also don't understand why he seeks compliments from other men (not women) all over the internet and speaks sexually with them

[@life_withl]

Acceptance is key, especially the way you broke it down with self awareness… I personally am plain as vanilla 😂 - however I appreciate you sharing.

[@Hercules372]

He’s a very gentle mature spirit

[@Hercules372]

Would have appreciated photos of him in his male appearance

[@SebastianKrabs]

Folks might not like it, but this is what peak masculinity looks like. No cap. 🚫🧢

[@mysticmisfit777]

I hope you're kidding...

[@LimoneneDaddy]

*Trump supporters currently losing their shit, scrambling trying to come up with the most 13 yr old tough kid response to this tomfoolery posted on this Liberal channel* 😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂 *mentions guns and something about an ammendment, but then just breaks down into how much they hate women and scared of black/hispanic people they are*

[@markwilliams2006]

Yeah he definitely likes BBC sissy videos

[@SaintLoser314]

True. Doing what feels right and not letting peoples judgments and hang ups get in the way

[@TheScotian82]

lmfao K bud.

[@lauralee9694]

This human is fascinating, great interview Mark.

[@KBarraza]

He is beautiful! GIRRRL those lashes, smile, clear skin AND healthy hair 💅🏼✨💖

[@LivingLifeAwake]

I work at a hospital and we have a person who dresses in and out of both genders wigs and dresses to baggy pants and hoodies and it’s beautiful to see their freedom

[@917hazel]

The comments always say more about the person commenting than the one they are commenting on. If someone makes me feel uncomfortable, I look at myself first. Learn a lot about myself that way. Thanks for this interview💫

[@jacobwheeler6136]

He explains it so well... I stopped purging because it's very expensive

[@TheUnitedStatesofAmericaUSA]

I got to admit, he looks very attractive. He actually looks like a girl, not most other cross dressers and transgender people where a man just looks really awkward with their facial/body features. He’s very elegant. I’m a gay guy, but I’m not attracted to guys who dress like women. It doesn’t do anything for me. Amy could act in movies or on television in my opinion. Am I strange? This channel really breaks down barriers.

[@Edna-zd9dc]

Gay

[@rexxx173]

Who cares if you're gay?

[@based8223]

Ghey

[@Ohhhwehere]

Cant you just give a compliment without dragging every one down ?!

[@based8223]

@@Ohhhwehere You will never be a woman

[@Lila-BeamMeUpAlready]

If Amy had YT TikTok , Amy would be quite popular. I’d like to see Amy’s male fashion also.

[@merlinlundi1059]

Most crossdressers are kind, take care of themselves, know how to respect women and know so much about the female world. I can't understand how this can be seen as something so negative. They are not hurting anyone by being themselves. I don't understand why looking like a woman can be offensive or a laughing matter. The patriarchy really does damage and promotes hate where there should be love and respect.

[@Ginger_Popp]

Cross dressing is something I have struggled to understand so this was interesting for me. Trans gender women makes sense to me but this for me has always been so much more mysterious. The concept that he’s not gay and not trans but enjoys dressing like this is so interesting.

[@jeanjustice5924]

Would love a interview from his wife .

[@prokesuk]

"hundreds of years ago" Within Mark's lifetime a person could be arrested for dressing as the opposite sex. Not to mention the violence that one could encounter.

[@frenchfry5675]

How about when women started wearing pants, that was a cultural shift and a bit of cross dressing.

[@elizabethpeterson858]

@@frenchfry5675 the other day I was thinking about how often you see women with tattoos all over their bodies. I remember a time where it was a rare to see men with tattoos, but never a woman.

[@starryvacancy]

You're so open and soft and honest...it's so refreshing and beautiful. So in awe of you Amy!

[@ValC-vn5vl]

Not cool to hide something, especially like this from your spouse. They are people too, with their own personal beliefs and opinions.

[@SoldierOfLoveForNow]

True

[@merextas]

So happy to see that people are so supportive and positive on here. Absolutely loved this interview ❤🙌

[@shibby1998]

I want to hug her...or him or whatever they identify as !!!!! I can hear the raw emotion from the very beginning . Hope he or she feels so free after this and goes home to wifey and just remains happy and unashamed

[@marieevelyndunlap]

I graduated from high school in the early 1970's. At the after grad party, one of my male friends and I switched outfits part way through the evening. He wore my Scarlett O'Hara, Gone With the Wind, style dress and I wore his tuxedo. We were so matter of fact about it that no one knew what to do with us. We both had a curiosity about cross dressing and I still don't see anything wrong with that. It hurts no one. I would love to see another interview with Amy ... perhaps with his wife or the dominatrix. That would be very cool.

[@msachristy1]

His statements are contradictory

[@SoldierOfLoveForNow]

In what way?

[@jenayacouture59]

I can relate to so much she said. Thank you for sharing. 💓

[@connieb4372]

I hope this is not inappropriate, I don't mean it to be, but he is so pretty! He is a nice-looking woman and most likely a very nice looking gentleman. This is so interesting. Thank you, Mark, for enlightening us.

[@Julie-cd5pz]

Very beautiful person. Her talking style and cadence kept reminding me of the way Elon Musk talks. She seems very smart and yet laid back at the same time. Love it.

[@ggggglllll7129]

I was pretty ok with his interview and could see his point of view UNTIL he revealed he has a polymorphous relationship with his wife. While I understand that agreements are made between husband and wife, somehow that just went too far for me on top of the cross dressing. I believe that eventually that erodes relationships and he already has an abnormality not found in most marriages.

[@tangie06_33]

I would like to know if it was always that way or if this just happened when he came out to his wife as a cross dresser. I'd also like to know if his wife has a boyfriend(s)? Wish Mark had asked those questions.

[@SoldierOfLoveForNow]

I mean it's not your relationship tho 😂 some folks have different values and perspectives on life and relationships 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@leoptit7992]

he doesnt look in love with his wife that'for sure. He said he was married late in the video and even later talks about open relationship. Like it doesnt really matter. Or maybe he has just emotion issues.

[@ggggglllll7129]

@@SoldierOfLoveForNow No, it’s not my relationship and I am not telling him what to do. I was giving my opinion of the interview and when he lost me and why. And, yes, when you put yourself on social media, you put yourself out there for comment from anyone.

[@ktrain-hj6jm]

He’s beautiful dressed as a girl and looks like he’s a gorgeous man. Definitely sounds gorgeous!

[@vavavoom6816]

He is not telling half of the story. People with normal childhoods dont have desires for extreme expressions and dominatrix services. Something very extreme has happened to him as a child. Either he was too young to remember or blocked it out. THIS ISN'T NORMAL BEHAVIOUR, PLEASE DON'T TRY TO NORMALISE IT.

[@Gingerblaze]

He began to explain that his mother and father both were workaholics which suggests he did not get much quality time with them. Being raised by outsourced care givers and the internet has had quite the effect on children since it has become more common over the past 60yrs.

[@karenshadle365]

@vavavoom6816 I can tell that you've never had a close friend or lover who was a crossdresser. Not one that you actually knew about. Else you wouldn't be so judgemental.

[@e8ghtmileshigh1]

AND THE WORLD IS FLAT

[@e8ghtmileshigh1]

​@@Gingerblazenah the world didn't just get weird with the internet

[@NAMEREDACTED-lg4bw]

It is normal. It's just males wearing feminine clothing. You're the abnormal person here. Not everything is black and white. Everything has variety. Not everyone is the same.